Podcasts about karis kimmel murray

Karis Kimmel Murray offers parents advice for effectively handling their kids' misbehavior in a discussion based on her book, Grace Based Discipline: How to Be at Your Best When Your Kids Are at Their Worst. Then based on his new RVL Discipleship - The Study video series, Ray Vander Laan helps listeners understand how to study the Bible with attention to the original context and audience.   Receive a copy of Grace Based Discipline for your donation of any amount!   Four freedoms parents should extend to their children   Learn more about RVL Discipleship: The Study and watch episode 1 for FREE!   That The World May Know   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Karis Kimmel Murray reminds parents that we need to stay calm in the midst of misbehavior, look for the reason behind the behavior and gives a “sushi menu” of discipline tactics, including tagging bad behavior, putting things in a “basket,” and teaching the behavior you want to see. She ends with insights into children's “currency” and age-appropriate consequences.   Receive Grace Based Parenting and an audio download of "Disciplining Your Kids With Grace" for your donation of any amount!   Get More Episode Resources   We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

In this episode, Karis Kimmel Murray and Michelle Broek discuss sibling rivalry, what drives it, and how grace helps to heal it.

Karis and Michelle are back discussing how grace can make the difference in your most important relationships. In this episode, author Karis Kimmel Murray and Michelle Broek talk about the missing piece of a harmonious marriage.

Parenting can sometimes feel like being nibbled to death by a duck! Karis Kimmel Murray joins Kevin on the podcast today to talk about her book Grace Based Discipline and how grace changes the way we parent.  Our kids are more than just their behavior, therefore we can parent in a way that reaches deeper than just behavior modification. Punishment is designed to serve the victim. Discipline is for the benefit of the person who has done the wrong. It addresses the attitude and heart that accompanied the action. Listen in to today's episode to hear more from Karis. If you want to learn more about Grace Based Discipline, check out gracebasedfamilies.com for more resources. You can also connect with Grace Based Families on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter.

Thanks for listening to this episode of A World Free! Karis Kimmel Murray is the author of Grace Based Discipline and Creative Director of Family Matters, a ministry founded by her parents, best-selling authors Dr. Tim and Mrs. Darcy Kimmel. Karis writes and speaks for Family Matters as a voice to the next generation of parents, and is the co-host of The Family Matters Minute, a nationally syndicated radio segment heard by millions of listeners every weekday. Karis resides in Arizona with her husband, Mike, and their two teenage daughters. gracebasedfamilies.com The two pureHOPE resources mentioned in this episode are: The Pocket Guide to Talking About Sex for Parents Quest: Parenting in a Sexualized, Digital Age on RightNow Media JOIN THE CONVERSATION Find us wherever you are: @findpurehope or /findpurehope and use #aworldfree, or visit: purehope.net/aworldfreepodcast   SUPPORT If this message and mission is meaningful to you, consider supporting the ministry of pureHOPE: purehope.net/give   CONTENT We will explore mature themes from a biblically-rooted perspective. Please listen with discretion and determine what is age-appropriate for the young listeners in your life.   For more information, visit purehope.net. Download our FREE pureHOPE App today! 

In this episode, Kymberli Cook talks with Karis Kimmel Murray and Joy Cheng about parenting, focusing on how discipline and grace work hand in hand.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, Kymberli Cook talks with Karis Kimmel Murray and Joy Cheng about parenting, focusing…

In this episode, Kymberli Cook talks with Karis Kimmel Murray and Joy Cheng about parenting, focusing…

When we bring our newborns home, it seems like we have all the time in the world to help them grow, but we soon discover that time is not on our side and we need a game plan that reflects the heart of God for his children.Karis Kimmel Murray’s father found a way to do just that.  She will answer your questions about how to implement the Grace-Based Parenting model in your family.   EQUIPPERS - Our next ZOOM MEETING is tomorrow, May 6!  REGISTRATION DETAILS ARE IN YOUR E-MAIL INBOX.  Not an Equipper and want to attend?   Become an Equipper Today!    

Can you raise "perfect kids" by being a "perfect parent"? Not only is it impossible, but you'll bring more harm to your kids the harder you try to achieve perfection. Hear Meg Meeker, Karis Kimmel Murray, Elisa Morgan, and Reb Bradley share their parenting stories. Show Notes and Resources Download FamilyLife's new app! https://www.familylife.com/app/ Find resources from this podcast at https://shop.familylife.com/Products.aspx?categoryid=130. Check out all that's available on the FamilyLife Podcast Network.  https://www.familylife.com/familylife-podcast-network/

You may have heard of "Grace Based Parenting," but grace is something we could all use a lot more of in all of our relationships. Karis Kimmel Murray (author and daughter of "Grace Based Parenting" author, Dr. Tim Kimmel) shares what extending grace really looks like, whether it's in marriage, dating, friendship, or parenting. She also discusses the connection between grace and boundaries in strained relationships, and gives practical tips for disciplining with grace.  Visit Grace Based Families online Register for next week's FREE LIVE WEBINAR and unlock your "loneliness type" See the Books Recommended in this Episode Check out our Sponsor Faithful Counseling 10% off first month offer Take the "What's Your Loneliness Type" Quiz and learn about the "From Lonely to Alive: A Single Mom's Guide to Life and Love" Video Course Follow Agape Moms on Facebook or Instagram and join the Beloved Collective private Facebook group

Karis Kimmel Murray of Family Matters Ministries shares insight with us on all things family. Discover what makes your kids tick as Matt talks with Karis about the amazing game that is a tool to help your kids find what' "right with them." Learn how you can implement a grace-based approach in your parenting. Change your perspective on your family no matter what stage of life you're in. Find Show Notes Here.

What does it mean to be courageous? Whether it's taking a stand for Christ, or simply refusing to buckle under peer pressure, courage can be cultivated in our everyday decisions. Barbara Rainey, Karis Kimmel Murray, Tim and Darcy Kimmel, and Stephen Williams give their definitions of courage, and stories of their own courageous decisions. Show Notes and Resources Karis Kimmel Murray explains that grace is giving something not necessarily deserved. Just like God, who often gives us what we need over what we like, parents are tasked with extending grace to their children. (3 part series, 25 min. each) https://www.familylife.com/podcast/series/grace-based-discipline/ Former educator Stephen Williams talks about his journey to faith. Now 16 years after embracing Christianity, Williams challenges parents to be proactive and exercise their faith in the public school system in order to be salt and light to the next generation. (2 part series, 25 min. each)  https://www.familylife.com/podcast/series/navigating-public-schools/

Before we've even grown comfortable in the role of motherhood, it starts...the fall-to-the-floor tantrums, the food throwing, the back-talking, the hitting, and even the selective hearing. Suddenly, we're faced with the the reality that our children are sinners, and moreso, that God has given us the authority to do something about it! With a sea of opinions and resources, it's easy to just feel paralyzed. In this episode, Emily and Laura give an overview of discipline in the early years, especially focusing on using it as a tool to communicate the gospel.  Discipline will play out differently in each family, but the goal is the same: pointing our sinful children to their desperate need for the perfect Savior. Resources: Although neither of us follow, subscribe to, or endorse one particular book or method of discipline, we still wanted to share some resources we've learned from (in different ways). Please see this not as the "perfect" list for discipline resources, but as a place to begin your own prayerful research and learning! Shepherding a Child's Heart - Tedd Tripp Give Them Grace - Elyse Fitzpatrick, Jessica Thompson  Grace Based Discipline - Karis Kimmel Murray  How Does Scripture Teach Us to Discipline Our Kids? - Roundtable TGC discussion Parenting A Difficult Child - Julie Lowe  We've both learned a lot of practical insight from Jess Connell's blog - she's so candid and gives straightforward techniques to try, so search her archives. Here are some good ones to start with: How to Handle Tantrums How to Set Your Kids Up for Obedience  Why Require Unregenerate Children to Act Like They're Good? - John Piper Parents, Require Obedience of Your Children - John Piper Why We Don't Punish Our Kids - Sara Wallace  Give Them Grace (book review) - Bob Kellemen  Helping Children Discover Heart Idols - Tedd Tripp  My Child's Greatest Need - Paul Tripp  When You Don't Know How to Discipline - Emily Jensen 10 Promises for Parents - Kevin DeYoung  Why Kids Ask Why (and How to Respond Lovingly) - Jen Wilkin  Mentioned in the Show: Defining Discipline: Hebrews 12:3-11 (ESV) Practical Takeaways for Each Section of the Gospel Mentioned: Establish clear expectations according to God's word, and train the child to respond to those expectations. Practice immediate obedience when they are young with early commands like, "Come" or "Stop" in a low-stakes environment. When children fail obey at an age-appropriate level (and they will!), provide consistent, loving discipline (not in anger or with a desire to punish/shame). This might be things like: time-out, natural consequences, loss of privilege, verbal rebuke, spanking, etc. As the Holy Spirit leads, use discipline as a teachable moment to point the child to their need for a Savior. Pray together, hug, and always remember to reconcile after discipline -- forgiving them and keeping short accounts.  Train your children in righteousness by encouraging them, practicing "doing what is right" in a low-stakes environment, and equipping them in everyday situations. See discipline in the context of disciple-making, and give your children the bigger picture: they are an image-bearer of God, created for relationship with Him for His glory. For More: To subscribe: on iOS, go to our iTunes page and subscribe. On Android, click this podcast RSS feed link and select your podcast app. You may need to copy the link into your favorite podcast app (like Overcast or Stitcher). Leave an iTunes review. These are huge for us! The more reviews, the greater chance another mother will find us. Like Risen Motherhood on Facebook, Instagram and follow on Twitter for the latest updates and related information. Let us know your thoughts! We'd love to hear more about the conversations you're having. Shoot us an email, or find us on on social media. Tell others. We truly hope this podcast fosters conversations and deeper discussions between mothers to seek the gospel in their daily activities - we'd be honored if you shared and encouraged others to listen in. *Affiliate links used where appropriate to support this ministry. 

When it comes to raising children, one of the most controversial issues parents can discuss is whether or not they should spank their children or not. Fortunately, God has a lot to say about this: Proverbs 23:13 - Don’t fail to discipline your children. The rod of punishment won’t kill them. Proverbs 13:24 - Those who spare the rod of discipline hate their children. Those who love their children care enough to discipline them. Wow! That seems well, ummm….pretty straight forward. But let's make sure we don't take these pieces of scripture out of context. What else does God's Word have to say about this form of discipline? These passages certainly answer the question as to “why” you should discipline your children, but what about the “when” question. Well, my guest today has tremendous insight - Godly insight full of grace and truth that every parent should hear. We continue our conversation with Karis Kimmel Murray discussing her new book “Grace Based Discipline: How To Be At Your Best When Your Kids Are At Their Worst.” In today’s podcast, We’ll discuss three things: 1) The Church’s view on spanking vs. the world’s view. 2) Is anti-spanking being anti-discipline? 3) Can you spank your children and still remain inside the realm of grace?

Do you know the difference between disciplining your children and punishing your children? Maybe a better question is, do your children know the difference? 
 Today, we continue our conversation with Karis Kimmel Murray on our series of Grace Based Discipline. She has a new book titled, “Grace Based Discipline: How To Be At Your Best When Your Kids Are At Their Worst.” In today’s podcast, We’ll discuss four things: 1) The specific differences between discipline and punishment. 2) Some of the natural consequences of discipline. 3) How to set up different categories of rules and violations for your children’s behavior. 4) How to implement a Family Rules Summit.

So there you are, in the checkout aisle of your favorite grocery store and your mission has been successful - groceries without one of the kids having a creating a scene of any kind….well, that is until your six year old sees his favorite candy bar. He asks if he can have it. You politely tell him “no” because you’re getting ready to go home and fix lunch with all the new groceries that are in the cart. He asks again, this time with a little more whine in his voice. You give him the parental “mom look”. All of a sudden his bottom lip begins to quiver… and “BAM!” Meltdown on aisle three. So close, but yet so far away. How do you handle those situations? Well, my guest today, Karis Kimmel Murray has some sage advice for those of us that find ourselves in that predicament. She has a new book titled, “Grace Based Discipline: How To Be At Your Best When Your Kids Are At Their Worst.” In today’s podcast, We’ll discuss five things: 1) How parents are the “first responders” to your child’s crisis. 2) Introducing the “mental basket” method. 3) The difference between labeling your child and prophesying over your child. 4) How to “tag” your child’s behavior. 5) How to see your child the way God see’s them.

I had so much fun interviewing Dr. Tim Kimmel last week with Family Matters, I had to go back and interview his daughter Karis Kimmel Murray. Remember that "wind dummy" illustration that Tim used? Well now you get to here from her personally! Karis just released her first book title Grace Based Discipline: How To Be At Your Best When Your Kids Are At Their Worst. Karis writes and speaks as a voice to the next generation of parents. She also co-hosts The Family Matters Minute, a nationally syndicated one-minute radio segment heard by millions of listeners every day. To learn more about Karis and her new book, visit Family Matters.net. In today’s podcast, We’ll discuss three things: 1) A blueprint of grace. 2) Why grace is a radical concept especially when it comes to discipline. 3) The difference between grace and mercy.

I know I should parent with grace (a.k.a. “unmerited favor”). But I struggle with how to combine grace & discipline. When a little guy smacks his brother upside the head, I don't want to ignore it or explode over it. But I could use some help with alternative responses to be “my best when my kids are at their worst”. This week's guest, Karis Kimmel Murray, grew up in the original grace-based home. Her father, Dr. Tim Kimmel, literally wrote the book on grace-based parenting.** As a mom to two girls, Karis knows the challenges of showing both unmerited favor and appropriate boundaries. Particularly since one of her daughters has been diagnosed with ADHD. (I adore reading parenting books by moms who get it!). In this episode Karis and I talk through some practical ways to approach misbehavior, like her “Basket Method” and “The 10 Year Rule”. “Those behaviors come from your child but they don't define your child. It's not who they are it's what they are doing right now.” We also talk about discovering how each family member is wired, using their Kid's Flag system. And being clear about the rules and expectations in your home. Not making household preferences on par with Biblical/moral law. Her analogy of being a calm “first responder” will stick with me. Fortunately, Karis has written all these tips and concepts down in a very relatable and hilarious guide called, “Grace-Based Discipline”. What we chat about: The 10-year rule The theology of parenting Legalism vs. License vs. Grace Karis' fun “mathematician” analogy Handling discipline crises like first responders The Basket Strategy What does atonement have to do with discipline? What country flag does each family member fly? Clarifying family rules Differentiating household rules from moral/Biblical rules Karis' daughter's diagnosis of ADHD and how it impacted discipline The level of offense and the “sushi menu” of consequences Links Mentioned: Family Matters Ministry Grace-Based Discipline (Kindle version)** Grace-Based Discipline (hardback) Grace-Based Parenting** by Dr. Tim Kimmel Kids Flag Page Karis' Facebook page and Instagram **Amazon Affiliate Link