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Parenting a child who won't even try can break your heart. You ask, you remind, you offer rewards—and still, they resist or melt down. You're not imagining it, and you're not failing as a parent. It's not bad parenting—it's a dysregulated brain.Many parents worry their child is lazy, unmotivated, or just doesn't care about school or responsibilities. But what if what's really happening isn't laziness at all—what if your child's brain is shutting down under stress? In this episode, I explain why motivation struggles often stem from nervous system dysregulation, not defiance, and share practical ways to help your child feel motivated again.Why does my child resist simple tasks like homework?When kids push back against schoolwork, chores, or routines, parents often assume it's about attitude or lack of effort. But beneath that resistance is often stress overload.Stress shuts down the brain's control center—the frontal lobe—making focus, planning, and problem solving nearly impossible.Even bright kids freeze when their nervous system perceives a task as too hard or threatening.“Just try harder” doesn't work because motivation requires regulation—a calm brain can think and follow through.Punishments or charts can't fix dysregulation; co-regulation and structure can.When a child melts down before math or avoids starting, think: Their brain can't, not won't.Is my child lazy or is something else happening?Labels like “lazy” or “unmotivated” only feed shame—and shame blocks learning and confidence.A child with low self-esteem or repeated failures may fear trying again.Shame walls off effort; it turns “I can't” into “I won't.”Kids who hyperfocus on screens but avoid schoolwork aren't choosing fun over success—they're avoiding discomfort.When the brain feels unsafe, motivation drops and avoidance rises.So before assuming your kid doesn't care, ask: Is their nervous system overwhelmed? Behavior is communication—their resistance is a signal, not defiance.How can I help my unmotivated child feel successful again?Regulation first. Always. When your child is calm, they can connect, think, and act.Start small: Break big tasks into micro steps—one sentence, one problem, one drawer.Co-regulate: Sit with your child to launch a task, then fade your support gradually.Praise early effort: Catch micro-wins (“I love that you opened your book!”).Build predictable routines: Consistency lowers stress and helps kids feel in control.Use micro resets: Stretch, hydrate, or breathe between steps to prevent shutdowns.These small adjustments help your child rebuild motivation, self-belief, and problem-solving skills—without constant power struggles.Ready to help your child find calm and motivation?Try my Quick CALM™—a science-backed reset that gives you the essential tools to calm your child's brain and restore peace in your home.What can parents do when motivation swings with mood or...
Want daily habits for dads that actually stick? In this episode, Greg Denning and Nate Feathers reveal the simple routines that turn ordinary men into formidable family leaders. Discover the small, consistent actions that build momentum — from the 30-minute morning win to family workouts, dinner rituals, and learning habits that shape your children's character by example.These two dads share how to protect your family time, stay strong through busy seasons, and replace “leveling off” with daily leveling up. Learn how saying no to busyness opens space for presence, peace, and legacy at home.
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Section 133 received Nov 3, 1831 in Hiram Ohio Historical background - By November, 1831, Joseph had compiled many of the Lord's revelations which would eventually become a Book of Commandments, later known as the Doctrine and Covenants. On November 1, 1831, the Lord revealed a “Proclamation” to the world which became the preface to the Book of Commandments, or section 1. Two days later, on November 3, 1831, the Lord revealed an appendix to the Book of Commandments, or section 133 which is a prophetic declaration of what must occur prior to the second coming of Christ. Recap: Christ will appear suddenly in his temple. The saints must flee from Babylon and gather in Zion. Christ will stand on Mount Zion with his 144,000. The continents will become one land and the lost ten tribes will return. The gospel will be preached worldwide. Christ will appear in red apparel. The righteous shall be resurrected and the New Jerusalem will be established while the wicked will be destroyed by fire. Section 134 declared and adopted Aug 17, 1835 in Kirtland Ohio Historical Background – On August 17, 1835, the church held a conference in Kirtland, Ohio to accept the Book of Commandments as scriptural revelations from God. Also, due to the political turmoil and abuses of power, especially the disregarding of constitutional rights and privileges that should have been afforded the saints, it was felt necessary that a statement of beliefs in Governmental laws should be included in the Book of Commandments. Joseph Smith was in Canada at this time and was not present at the conference. Therefore, Oliver Cowdery wrote section 134 outlining the role and purposes of earthly government. This was presented to the saints and it was accepted to be included in the Book of Commandments but as a declaration and not a revelation. When Joseph returned and reviewed the document, he allowed it to stand as is because the saints had already voted their approval during the conference. Recap: Governments are instituted by God for the benefits of mankind and should preserve freedom, protect rights, life and property. Laws should be administered fairly and equally. The people are bound to obedience to the laws of the land. Punishments should be made according to the nature of the crime.
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Go to https://FactorMeals.com/super50off and use code super50off to get 50% off your first box, plus Free Breakfast for 1 Year. Tickets for Through The Griffin Tour South West are ON SALE NOW!Get Tix at https://supercarlinbrothers.com/events/ The Wheel of Punishment is back with more Tricks and Treats - will the boys enjoy some Nerds clusters? Or Suffer the dreaded cinnamon challenge? Maybe even sample a Lil Nitro?! Play along with us :: https://supercarlinbrothers.com/j-vs-ben-wheel-of-punishment-returns/ #HarryPotter #SuperCarlinBrothers #JvsBen Written by :: The Quiz Masters Edited by :: Ethan EdghillHosted by :: Ethan Edghill, Isybelle Christley & Kat Stine THROUGH THE GRIFFIN TOUR SOUTHWEST Tickets ON SALE NOW! https://supercarlinbrothers.com/events/ Southwest Tour Dates: 3/07: Denver, CO - Chapter 33 - Fight and Flight 3/09: Salt Lake City, UT - Chapter 34 - The Dept of Mysteries 3/11: Las Vegas, NV - Chapter 35 - Beyond the Veil 3/12: Phoenix, AZ- Chapter 36 - The Only One He Ever Feared 3/14: Houston, TX - Chapter 37 - The Lost Prophecy 3/15: Dallas, TX - Chapter 38 - The Second War Begins
From faking knee pain to avoid running to coaching over 1,000 runners - Amanda Brooks knows exactly what it's like to be in the middle of the pack, because that's where most of us actually are.Amanda Brooks has been a running coach for over 13 years, working with thousands of runners to find more enjoyment in the process. She's also known for the thousands of reviews on her site and her highly rated book, "Run to the Finish," geared towards the middle of the pack.Jon chats with Amanda about:when do you become a “real” runner?finding motivation to run when you've lost it (not race goals)time management strategies when running with a full time jobstereotypes that runners NEED to breakwhat Amanda considers when trying a new shoeindustry and shoe predictions for 2026Stay connected:Follow Amanda:instagram.com/runtothefinishwww.runtothefinish.comHer Book, “Run to the Finish:”https://a.co/d/i9rM7OFThis episode is supported by:PUMA: Get your pair at your local Fleet Feet or your favorite local running shop!Tifosi Optics: Fantastic sunglasses for every type of run. Anti-bounce fit, shatterproof, and scratch resistant. Get 20% off when you use this link!Janji: Use code “FTLR” at checkout when shopping at janji.com for 10% off your order and see why Janji is the go-to for runners who want performance gear made to explore. All apparel is backed by a 5 year guarantee, so you know it's meant to last!AmazFit Check out the T-Rex 3 and a selection of GPS watches at http://bit.ly/4ojbflT and use code “FTLR” for 10% off.
Headlines II here - Weapons manufacturers and distributers part of the corporate sponsors for the National Press Club - NSW government chief sponsor of the Sydney International Weapons Expo - Home Renovations linked to 51% of Mesothelioma death - "Punishment before trial" Senator Thorpe rejects police buries buried in social security bill - Fair Work amendment (Baby Priya's) bill - Israel's Knesset push bill to execute people labelled "terrorists" - Zohran Mamdani wins the NYC mayoral raceVoices 4 Palestine II Yusef Alreemawi speaks at the Socialist Alliance/Green Left's Ecosocialism Conference this year about the role and importance of poetry as part of a discussion on "Israel having the right to exist". Listen here.Then we hear from Naarm based Palestinian poet Michaela Sahhar doing two readings from her most recent book "Find me at Jaffa Gate". Listen here.Song - Mustafa - Name of GodRodrigo Acuna Interview II hereVeteran journalist come director Rodrigo Acuna drops in to talk to us about all things Venezuela as he prepares for the Melbourne premiere screening of his new documentary "Venezuela: The Cost of Challenging an Empire". The documentary is screening Saturday 6th December, 6pm at the Wildflower picture house, 318 George St, Fitzroy. Song - Jesse Welles - Venezuela This is the Week II hereComrade Kevin keeps us up to date on the weekly beat in his classical satirical style. Daryl Croke AEU Interview II hereAnnie leads an interview with Daryl Croke rank and file member of the AEU talking about the chronic underfunding in public schools in Victoria and the rally that is on Wednesday at 4:30 outside of Anthony Carbines offices, 149 Burgundy St, Heidelberg.Events:Sudan Rally, 12pm State Library, Sunday 9th NovGramsci Symposium. 630pm, Trades Hall, Tuesday 11th NovPalestinian Film Festival Special Screening, 630pm Cinema Nova, Thursday 13th NovBig Ride For Palestine, 10am Highlands Lake Reserve, Saturday 15th NovSong - EZLN - Se Acabó
Catherine Newman's latest, Wreck, is a beautiful meditation on the act of motherhood. Revisiting the family from Sandwich as they enter a new phase of familial life. We all know that successful parents raise kids just to lose them to the world, and that this launch into independence is something we all desperately hope for and deeply dread. Funny, touching and compulsively readable this is a novel about the beauty and pain of family, who have so much to lose when they have so much to love. Find books mentioned on The Book Case: https://www.goodmorningamerica.com/shop/story/book-case-podcast-reading-list-118433302 Books mentioned in this week's episode: Wreck by Catherine Newman Sandwich by Catherine Newman We all Want Impossible Things by Catherine Newman Waiting for Birdy by Catherine Newman The Ten Year Affair by Erin Somers Heart the Lover by Lily King Moby Dick by Herman Melville Crime and Punishment by Fyodor Dostoevsky Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Ellen comes clean about the bluestreak cleaner wrasse. We discuss trust, cheating, fish patriarchy, manipulation, deception, game theory, the prisoner's dilemma, marketing, the mirror test, the horrors of self-awareness, and so much more. Christian drinks a Capri-Sun. Works Cited:“Testing the Low-density Hypothesis for Reversed Sex Change in Polygynous Fish: Experiments in Labroides dimidiatus” - Tetsuo Kuwamura et al., Scientific Reports, March 2014“Punishment and partner switching cause cooperative behavior in a cleaning mutualism” - Redouan Bshary & Alexandra Grutter, Biology Letters, July 2005“Power and temptation cause shifts between exploitation and cooperation in a cleaner wrasse mutualism” - Simon Gingins et al., Proc. Biol. Sci., June 2013“Male cleaner wrasses adjust punishment of female partners according to the stakes” by Nichola J Raihani et al., Proc. Biol. Sci., June 2011“Cleaner fish are sensitive to what their partners can and cannot see” - Katherine McAuliffe et al., Communications Biology, Sep 2021“Biting cleaner fish use altruism to deceive image-scoring client reef fish” by Redouan Bshary et al., Proc. Biol. Sci., Feb 2002“If a fish can pass the mark test, what are the implications for consciousness and selfawareness testing in animals?” - Masanori Kohda et al., PLOS Biol, Feb 2019“Further evidence for the capacity of mirror self-recognition in cleaner fish and the significance of ecologically relevant marks” - Masanori Kohda et al., PLOS Biol., Feb 2022“Cleaner fish recognize self in a mirror via self-face recognition like humans” - Masanori Kohda et al., Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, Feb 2023“Cleaner fish with mirror self-recognition capacity precisely realize their body size based on their mental image” - Taiga Kobayashi et al., Scientific Reports, Sep 2024“The false cleanerfish relies on aggressive mimicry to bite fish fins when benthic foods are scarce in their local habitat” - Misaki Fujisawa et al., Scientific Reports, May 2020Links:For more information about us & our podcast, head over to our website!Follow Just the Zoo of Us on BlueSky, Facebook, Instagram & Discord!Follow Ellen on BlueSky!
Do your kids “catch” your stress—and you hate how quickly the mood at home drops?What if the fastest way to raise happy kids is to model authentic joy (not fake calm)—even while cleaning a messy kitchen?In this video, we unpack how parents set the emotional tone at home—and why your child has been watching you from birth to learn how to do life. You'll learn how to raise your emotional baseline on purpose (water, breath, sunlight, movement), process triggers so you're not pretending, and lead with real peace your kids can imitate. You can't fake it—kids feel the truth—so let's build the real thing.What you'll learn:Modeling vs. masking: why kids imitate your state (and can't be fooled)Story → state: how the meaning you give messes determines your moodMorning biochemistry reset: water, breath, sunlight, movement = instant upliftFrom nagging to leading: make chores joyful by choice, not drudgeryTriggers, then tools: journaling, breathwork, micro-meditations, and the “jukebox” swap (remove the old CD for good)Key Takeaways✅ Parents create the climate—kids grow the weather✅ Authentic calm beats performative patience (they can tell)✅ Biochemistry is leverage: hydrate, breathe, move, sunlight✅ Choose joy while you work—easier to recruit help✅ Process & replace triggers so old songs stop playingMemorable Quotes
What payoffs are possible if students, who were assigned to serve detention, had the option to take a two -hour hike in the woods with a guidance counselor instead? High school counselor, Leslie Trundy, shares her experiences with the” hike as detention” plan. Trundy, guides the hikes including a stop with a view, a snack, and a short poem focused on starting anew. Consider what you want students to learn from your management and discipline programs. Read the NPR article, "At this school, kids given detention can choose a hike instead" here. Email Leslie: ltrundy@rsu1.org Subscribe to the Steve Barkley Ponders Out Loud podcast on iTunes or visit BarkleyPD.com to find new episodes!
Fairway Fit Golf Podcast: Big Announcements & Season RecapIn this exciting episode of the Fairway Fit Golf Podcast, we share two huge announcements! Join us as we discuss the launch of our new online store opening on November 24th, featuring a variety of golf apparel and accessories. We also recap our recent golf experiences, Greg's triumph in this year's majors, and Paul's upcoming Tiger Woods-themed attire for the Turkey Shootout. Plus, we dive into our fitness routines, the impact of challenging weather on our game, and plans for season three. Don't miss out on all the details and a glimpse into the fun yet competitive dynamics of our golfing journey!00:00 Welcome to the Fairway Fit Golf Podcast00:26 Big Announcement Show Begins00:36 Greg's Golf Game Struggles01:04 Golfing in Tough Conditions02:33 Weekend Golf Marathon03:37 Reflecting on Recent Rounds10:16 Upcoming Turkey Shootout15:35 Exciting Store Launch Announcement18:28 Call for Listener Engagement18:43 Discussing Gross and Net Scores19:05 Recap of Last Year's Competitions19:52 Greg's Major Wins and LeBron vs. Jordan Debate21:45 Punishment and Outfit Challenges27:58 Upcoming Plans and Announcements29:43 Heads Up Putting and Final ThoughtsFollow FairwayFit Golf:www.FairwayFitGolf.comYoutube:@FairwayFitGolfPodcastTwitter: @FairwayFitGolfIG: @FairwayFitGolfTik Tok: @FairwayFitGolf
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Ellen comes clean about the bluestreak cleaner wrasse. We discuss trust, cheating, fish patriarchy, manipulation, deception, game theory, the prisoner's dilemma, marketing, the mirror test, the horrors of self-awareness, and so much more. Christian drinks a Capri-Sun. Works Cited:“Testing the Low-density Hypothesis for Reversed Sex Change in Polygynous Fish: Experiments in Labroides dimidiatus” - Tetsuo Kuwamura et al., Scientific Reports, March 2014“Punishment and partner switching cause cooperative behavior in a cleaning mutualism” - Redouan Bshary & Alexandra Grutter, Biology Letters, July 2005“Power and temptation cause shifts between exploitation and cooperation in a cleaner wrasse mutualism” - Simon Gingins et al., Proc. Biol. Sci., June 2013“Male cleaner wrasses adjust punishment of female partners according to the stakes” by Nichola J Raihani et al., Proc. Biol. Sci., June 2011“Cleaner fish are sensitive to what their partners can and cannot see” - Katherine McAuliffe et al., Communications Biology, Sep 2021“Biting cleaner fish use altruism to deceive image-scoring client reef fish” by Redouan Bshary et al., Proc. Biol. Sci., Feb 2002“If a fish can pass the mark test, what are the implications for consciousness and selfawareness testing in animals?” - Masanori Kohda et al., PLOS Biol, Feb 2019“Further evidence for the capacity of mirror self-recognition in cleaner fish and the significance of ecologically relevant marks” - Masanori Kohda et al., PLOS Biol., Feb 2022“Cleaner fish recognize self in a mirror via self-face recognition like humans” - Masanori Kohda et al., Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, Feb 2023“Cleaner fish with mirror self-recognition capacity precisely realize their body size based on their mental image” - Taiga Kobayashi et al., Scientific Reports, Sep 2024“The false cleanerfish relies on aggressive mimicry to bite fish fins when benthic foods are scarce in their local habitat” - Misaki Fujisawa et al., Scientific Reports, May 2020Links:For more information about us & our podcast, head over to our website!Follow Just the Zoo of Us on BlueSky, Facebook, Instagram & Discord!Follow Ellen on BlueSky!
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Wednesday Bible Lesson: 21:20-21 Punishment for killing or injuring a slave. Taught by Dr. Chinyere Onwubiko at Berean Bible Church, Bay Springs, MS.
Topics discussed on today's show: National Love Your Red Hair Day, Dick Dick Jokes, Election Results, College Football, Sir David Beckham, Pizza Hut For Sale, Hybrid Recall, Moon Water, Birthdays, Prince Poster, Sex with Socks and Sweaters, History Quiz, Sweet James, Emo's Punishment, Aldik Home, Listener Thomas, Bringing to the Potluck, Food News, Cloning Dogs, Get The Fake Out, Embarrassing Kids, and Apologies.
In this episode, John Ortberg explores the story of Raskolnikov from Crime and Punishment. A man whose pride and guilt nearly destroy him and how his journey mirrors our own. Through the lens of Scripture and soul-searching questions, we discover the dangerous trap of self-justification and the radical gift of grace. If you've ever felt crushed by your mistakes or isolated by your ego, this one's for you.Become New is here to help you grow spiritually one day at a time.TEXT US at 855-888-0444EMAIL US at connect@becomenew.comGET OUR WEEKDAY EMAILS WITH EXTRA GOODIES at becomenew.com/subscribeGET A TEXT REMINDER FOR NEW VIDEOS: text BECOME to 855-888-0444SEND US PRAYER REQUESTS: via text or email; we'll send you a written prayer from our team
Are your toddler's meltdowns leaving you “touched out” and wondering how to stay calm? What if the fastest way to end tantrums is more connection—not more limits?In this video, we break down attachment parenting for toddlers—the practical, science-aligned way to reduce tantrums, boost cooperation, and rebuild calm (in you and your child). You'll learn why kids imitate your emotions but can't yet regulate them, how to be the adult in the room, and the exact strategies we used to go 16+ years without tantrums in our home.We'll show you how to increase your capacity (food, sleep, recovery) so you're not running on empty, plus simple co-regulation tools like cuddle-pauses, couch resets, and family calm breaks. Attachment isn't coddling—it's how kids become secure and independent. When their emotional bucket is full, clinginess drops and behavior improves. Parenting isn't convenient—but it can be effective.Key Takeaways✅ Attachment first makes every other parenting strategy work better✅ Capacity over boundaries: build yourself up so you can show up✅ Food & sleep are fuel for patience, presence, and self-control✅ Fill the bucket daily: secure kids act better and rebel less✅ Pause > push through: a 2-minute cuddle beats a 20-minute battleMemorable Quotes
What was life really like for the poor and powerless in the wake of the Napoleonic Wars? In this episode of the Explaining History podcast, we're joined by Katharine Quarmby, author of the powerful new historical novel, The Low Road.Set in 1813, The Low Road is a story of hardship, struggle, and love found in the most brutal corners of English life. Based on a true story unearthed from her hometown in Norfolk, Catherine's novel follows an orphaned girl, Hannah, as she navigates the cruel institutions of the time—from the philanthropic but oppressive Refuge for the Destitute in London to the harsh reality of transportation to Australia.We delve deep into the history, discussing:The "age of austerity" and economic slump that crushed the rural poor after the Napoleonic Wars.The brutal system of transportation—the largest forced migration of British people in history—and its dual injustice to those exiled and Indigenous populations.The hidden lives of women in service, the systemic predation they faced, and the stark choices they had to make.The surprising and tender queer relationships that flourished in the all-female spaces of workhouses and convict ships, and how these bonds of love and loyalty became a form of resistance.Join us for a fascinating conversation that uncovers the resilience of the human spirit against a backdrop of state violence and social injustice. The Low Road is a masterful work that brings a forgotten history vividly to life.Purchase Katharine Quarmby's The Low Road from your favourite independent bookseller, in the show notes below.Find the Explaining History Podcast wherever you get your podcasts.Explaining History helps you understand the 20th Century through critical conversations and expert interviews. We connect the past to the present. If you enjoy the show, please subscribe and share.▸ Support the Show & Get Exclusive ContentBecome a Patron: patreon.com/explaininghistory▸ Join the Community & Continue the ConversationFacebook Group: facebook.com/groups/ExplainingHistoryPodcastSubstack: theexplaininghistorypodcast.substack.com▸ Read Articles & Go DeeperWebsite: explaininghistory.org Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
History remembers Guy Fawkes as the man who tried—and failed—to blow up Parliament. But the real story is bigger, bloodier, and far more explosive. In this Bonfire Night episode, Ben Thompson is joined by Samuel Datta to tell the tale of a soldier turned saboteur, a plot fueled by faith and fury, and how one man's failure became one of the most famous nights in British history. Remember, remember the 5th of November...
When Personal Development Becomes Self-Punishment | Breaking the Growth LoopIn the pursuit of growth, success, and self-improvement, many people end up stuck in a different kind of loop — one fueled by guilt, shame, and “never enough.”In this episode of The Restored Minds Show, licensed therapist Matt Codde, LCSW explores how the modern obsession with optimization can quietly turn into self-punishment. You'll learn why constant striving can activate stress, worsen anxiety, and disconnect you from peace — and how true growth actually begins with self-acceptance, not self-criticism.If you've been chasing goals, routines, or “fix-yourself” habits that leave you feeling exhausted or unworthy, this conversation will help you pause, re-center, and reconnect with a healthier path forward.
Today's sermon is Punishment Now, Restoration Later by John Pillavant Find more teaching from Pastor John at www.calvarychapelbartlett.com
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Topics: The Unforgivable Sin Explained, What Is Blasphemy of the Holy Spirit?, Matthew 12:31 Every Sin Forgiven Except One, Mark 3:29 Blasphemy Is an Eternal Sin, Lies About the Unforgivable Sin, Christians and Blasphemy After Salvation, Exodus 20:7 Taking the Lord's Name in Vain, Leviticus 24:16 Punishment for Blasphemy, The Law as a Ministry of Death, 2 Corinthians 3 and The Ministry of the Spirit, John 14:26 The Spirit as Our Teacher, Speaking Against the Spirit as an Unbeliever, The Seal of the Holy Spirit Ephesians 1, Born Again Means Final Birth, John 3, Romans 6 Slaves to Righteousness, 2 Corinthians 5:21 Jesus Trades Sin for Righteousness, Romans 5:5 The Spirit Poured Into Our Hearts, 2 Timothy 2:13 Even If We Are Faithless, Matthew 12:32 Speaking Against the Spirit Not Forgiven, John 1:12 Born of God Not of Human Will, 1 John 3:1 Children of God Loved by the Father, Apostasy and the Believer's Security, The Sin That Leads to Death 1 John 5:16, Hebrews 6:4-6 Impossible to Repent Again, Context of Hebrews Written to Jews, Dead Works Versus Faith in Jesus, John 10:10 Life Through Christ, Colossians 3:4 Christ Our Life, Pharaoh's Hardened Heart Explained, Exodus 9:12 God Strengthened Pharaoh's Heart, Free Will and God's Strengthening, Romans 1 Reprobate Mind in Context, Romans 12 Renewing of the Mind, 1 Corinthians 2:16 We Have the Mind of Christ, Why Christians Cannot Commit Blasphemy, You Are Forever Sealed by the Spirit, Jesus Accused of Blasphemy Three Times Support the showSign up for Matt's free daily devotional! https://mattmcmillen.com/newsletter
The Sunday service audio from November 2nd, 2025
I'm not interested in a "religion," I want the whole Christian Civilization with Christ as our Monarch. Christian Englishmen must overthrow the Luciferian theocracy they live under. King Charles III, and Keir Starmer, are traitors to the very people they are supposed to protect. They must be overthrown and a new Christian dynasty must rule. The conditions for Civil War of Judges 19 and 20 are more than present in England today. Group Identity, Punishment, and typecasting are Biblical. Libertarianism is Luciferian Utter apostasy of the current Church Time for general Rebellion against this luciferian system. Fritz Berggren, PhD www.bloodandfaith.com
The Enemy Within — Review of Lesson #6 of the 4th Quarter of 2025 -The Sabbath School Lesson study guide can be found here:— https://ssnet.org/lessons/25d/less06.html— https://www.adultbiblestudyguide.org/archives— https://sabbath-school.adventech.io/enThe title of this quarter's theme is: Second Chances: The Book of JoshuaFor the next 13 weeks (October to December 2025), we will look at the transition from Moses to Joshua as the visible leader of Israel, who leads the Children of Israel into the Promised Land of Canaan.Related Podcasts:— Some Thoughts on the Doctrine of Free Will— What Exactly is the Great Controversy, Anyway?— Choose Ye This Day— The Foreknowledge Conundrum— God's Ways are Not Our Ways— Fear Not — For I am With TheeRelated Podcasts at TrueWisdom:— Beware Who You Follow— The Battle is the Lord's— Opening Their Eyes— The Covetousness of AchanText UsSupport the showSend questions or comments to: BibleQuestions@ASBzone.comThe Key Principles of Effective Bible Study is a resource which outlines core concepts shown in the Scriptures that will help you to better understand many Biblical themes and doctrines. We have an extended, 24-part podcast series on these principles, and a condensed, 9-part series called God's Precious Word, that is based on the same resource. We also recommend that you check out the True Wisdom podcast which I co-host with Robert Baker -- a different format for Bible Study. Finally, check out these awesome Bible Maps! We pray that all of these resources will be very helpful to you in your Bible Studies.
This week, we (finally!) got face time with John's spiritual mommy, Victoria Beckham! It was all we hoped for - and more - although she did express concern over the lack of age gap with her spiritual son. Plus, we dealt with John's needing-a-TV saga and my diamond ring is lost…again. And forever.Then, we talked kids misbehaving, debated the appropriate punishments, and dug into Listener Mail.For more interviews and behind-the-scenes tea, tune in to Andy Cohen Live weekdays on Radio Andy by subscribing to SiriusXM. Use my link https://sxm.app.link/AndyCohen for a free trial! Subscribe to SiriusXM Podcasts+ to listen to new episodes of Daddy Diaries ad-free and a whole week early. Start a free trial now on Apple Podcasts or by visiting siriusxm.com/podcastsplus. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Are you using “attachment parenting” — or accidentally doing permissive parenting?In this eye-opening conversation, Greg & Rachel Denning break down what true attachment parenting is (and isn't). They share the skills, mindsets, and tools that helped them eliminate tantrums for 16 years and prevent teen rebellion—without yelling, shaming, or rigid control.You'll learn why parenting is a specific, learnable skill, how to build secure attachment from baby to teen, and where popular advice (cry-it-out, forced “holding time,” over-scheduling, letting kids lead everything) quietly damages trust. You'll also get a clear blueprint for connection with boundaries so kids feel safe, seen, and guided—and you feel calm, confident, and effective.Bottom line: Attachment is earned, not forced. Respect your child's free will, meet real needs (sleep, food, attention), co-regulate big emotions, and set firm, sensible boundaries. That's the evergreen approach that works in every generation.Key Takeaways✅ Parenting is a skill—unrelated to how good you are at business, sports, or leadership.✅ Attachment ≠ permissive. It's connection + boundaries and kind + firm.✅ Attachment is earned, not forced. No cry-it-out or “holding until defeat.”✅ Respect free will while providing age-appropriate structure and safety.✅ Co-regulation first (your calm is contagious), then teach self-regulation.✅ Meet basics (sleep, nutrition, attention) before behavior battles.✅ Measure success by long-term trust and adult outcomes—not short-term compliance.Chapters:00:00 Introduction to Attachment Parenting00:43 Clarifying Misunderstandings in Parenting02:04 The Importance of Parenting Skills03:09 Defining Success in Parenting04:39 Understanding Attachment Parenting05:23 The Dangers of Misapplied Parenting Techniques06:56 The Impact of Adoption on Attachment08:25 The Consequences of Control in Parenting11:28 The Role of Freedom in Child Development13:48 The Misconception of Holding Time16:10 The Impact of Sleep Training on Children17:59 Respecting Free Will in Parenting20:39 The Concept of Holding Time24:22 Understanding Boundaries and Safety28:24 Preparing Children for Adulthood31:24 The Lifelong Mentor-Mentee Relationship33:01 Building a Legacy of Good ParentingMemorable Quotes
Do you ever feel like you're doing “all the right things” but not seeing real results?In this episode, Greg & Rachel Denning challenge the sacred cows of school, pharma, and religion—not to burn it all down, but to help you keep what serves your family and release what doesn't. You'll learn how to shift from transactional box-checking to transformational growth, so your kids develop inner authority, critical thinking, and personal responsibility.Big idea: You can honor helpful traditions and raise kids who can question wisely, choose higher standards, and own their outcomes—in education, health, spirituality, and life.What we cover:• Why outsourcing your child's education, spirituality, or health stalls growth• How to “keep the good” in institutions while ditching deadweight rules• The path from conformity to character—raising autodidacts who learn for life• Practical habits that create palpable progress in mind, body, spirit, and family cultureKey Takeaways✅ Transactional → Transformational: Results > routines.✅ Inner Authority: Teach kids to think, not just comply.✅ Keep & Elevate: Honor useful rules; raise the standard at home.✅ Autodidact Mindset: Light the fire, don't fill the bucket.✅ Measure Progress: If outcomes don't improve, change the method.Chapters00:00 Challenging Sacred Cows02:32 The Importance of Questioning Traditions04:58 Individual Authority and Personal Growth07:22 Outsourcing Education and Spirituality10:29 Transformational vs. Transactional Experiences13:05 The Role of Institutions in Personal Development15:25 The Quest for Holistic Progress18:27 Facing Fears and Embracing Truth21:28 The Labyrinth of Personal Growth28:40 Facing Fears and Doubts29:32 The Nature of True Education30:51 The Challenge of Conformity32:22 Resisting Authority Thoughtfully33:41 The Importance of Imagination35:03 Faith at the Edge of the Abyss36:18 Questioning Conventional Wisdom38:01 Learning from Others' Experiences40:41 Walking the Labyrinth of Faith41:48 Understanding Meta Truths44:10 The Concept of the Fringe46:44 Navigating the Lower and Upper Fringe49:03 Living Beyond Conformity50:31 Transformational Living Beyond the BasicsMemorable Quotes
Israel was a covenant nation under God. As a people, they were to be Holy, set apart, and these are the rules He has established, including the consequences for breaking those rules.02:32 - clarification on a point made in last week's study (Leviticus 19.12-37) dealing with immigration in the United States and not “mistreating the foreigner residing among us” - Lev 19.33-34.03:22 - what is the two-fold sense of scripture?06:50 - Do we have to follow all of the laws that are outlined in Leviticus?06:50 - What are the different kinds of laws in Leviticus and which should we follow today? Moral Laws - These laws are timeless and should be followed today. These laws reflect God's character. Each of the laws that qualify as a “moral law” is reaffirmed and restated in the New Testament. A few examples of these types of laws include: Idolatry - 1 Cor 6.9-10; 10.14; Adultery - Matt 5.27-28; and Sexual immorality - 1 Cor 6.18, 1 Thes 4.3, Eph 5.3 and Gal 5.Ceremonial Laws - These laws symbolize separation from paganism and are not binding for today but are useful for understanding holiness (being set apart). Examples of these laws include eating clean and unclean animals and how an Israelite was to cut their hair (Lev 19.28). We are not called to follow these laws today. Here are a few New Testament perspectives on these laws: Mat 15.10-11 and Rom 14.14-18.Civil/Judicial Laws - These are laws related to the governance of the Theocracy of Israel in its day. These laws include punishments such as stoning and burning, as well as being isolated from the community. An example of this is the punishment for adultery (as stated in Lev 20.10) of stoning. John 8.1-11 shows Jesus' perspective on this punishment. See also 1 Peter 2.11-17 and Galatians 520:42 - Leviticus 20.1-5 - Child Sacrifices to Molek. Included in this discussion are Bible verses: Lev 18.21 as well as Deu 12.31, 18.10; Jer 7.31, 32.35 and 2 Kings 16.3, 21.6. Watch the full video on Leviticus 18: https://youtu.be/UZ_fjQI65o823:14 - Leviticus 20.6 & 27 - Spiritists and mediums. Included in this discussion are Bible verses: Lev 19.26 & .31, as well as Eph 6.12.24:30 - Leviticus 20.7-8 & 22-24 - Consecrate yourselves and be holy. God calls the Israelites to be set apart, as he does for us today as well. Bible verses discussed: Exo 3.8 and Gen 15.16.28:28 - Leviticus 20.9 - Cursing father or Mother. We covered this when we spoke on Lev 19.3. Also mentioned are Bible verses: Ex 20.12, Eph 6.2-3 and Pro 1.8; 6.20; 23.22. Watch the Lev 19 video: https://youtu.be/ATXH9Y7fp4829:15 - Leviticus 20.10-21 - Punishments for Sexual Immorality. Watch the video on Leviticus 18, as we cover these topics in-depth: https://youtu.be/UZ_fjQI65o834:18 - Leviticus 20.25-26 - Clean and unclean animals. Included Bible verses in this discussion Lev 11, Acts 11.4-18 and Mark 7.14-19. Watch the full Leviticus 11 video: https://youtu.be/fjzhjBUuLpo37:32 - Closing questions:Are you able to love your neighbor despite their political perspectives?How can you show Christ's love to someone you don't agree with or who is an enemy? Support Iron Sheep Ministries: https://Ironsheep.org/donateListen to the podcast: https://anchor.fm/ironsheepContact Dave & the ISM team: info@ironsheep.orgJoin the email list: http://eepurl.com/g-2zAD
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Nicholas Bradford is the founder and Executive Director of the National Center for Restorative Justice, where he and his team help schools across the country transform discipline systems into spaces for healing, accountability, and connection.A former teacher in Vermont and Washington and a 24-year Coast Guard veteran, Nicholas brings a grounded, compassionate, and deeply practical approach to what it means to build emotionally safe schools. His work challenges educators to replace punishment with purpose and to see conflict as an opportunity for growth rather than control.In this episode, Ashanti and Nicholas unpack what it truly means to create restorative systems that work for kids, for teachers, and for entire school communities.Together, they dive into:The difference between punishment and consequences and why most schools confuse the twoHow restorative justice actually builds accountability and belongingWhy “slowing down” conflict helps kids (and adults) process and growWhat it takes to shift school culture from compliance to connectionThe masks educators wear: confidence, productivity, and quiet doubtHow identity, harm, and vulnerability show up for both students and teachersWhy apology and repair are essential leadership skillsHow Nicholas's own journey from teaching to restorative work reshaped his view of justice, empathy, and educationNicholas challenges us to rethink a core question:Are we trying to get even, or are we trying to get better?And what might happen if every classroom became a space where accountability was human, not punitive?Timestamps:(0:00) Welcome & introduction(0:22) Nicholas on his path from teaching to restorative justice work(3:44) Why suspensions don't change behavior, “Kids just get better at not getting caught”(6:40) Punishment vs. consequences: Nicholas breaks down the difference(14:06) The masks Nicholas wears: capable, caring, productive, and the doubts underneath(19:17) How restorative circles help students take off their masks(25:23) What restorative justice really looks like in schools(29:56) Building connection as prevention: belonging, relationships, and safety(34:12) Personal work before systems work: why adult regulation matters(38:55) “An unregulated mind can't regulate another unregulated mind”(43:19) Accountability as an off-ramp from punishment(46:18) Restorative justice in action: student stories of harm and repair(48:07) Resources, books, and mindset shifts for educators(50:31) Closing reflections: conflict as opportunity for learningConnect with Nicholas BradfordWebsite: National Center for Restorative JusticeLinkedIn: Nicholas BradfordBook: A Real World Guide to Restorative Justice in SchoolsEmail us questions and comments at totmpod100@gmail.comCreate your own mask anonymously at https://millionmask.org/Connect with Ashanti Branch:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/branchspeaks/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BranchSpeaksTwitter: https://twitter.com/BranchSpeaksLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ashantibranch/Website: https://www.branchspeaks.com/Support the podcast and the work of the Ever Forward Club: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/branch-speaks/supportConnect with Ever Forward Club:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/everforwardclubFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/everforwardclubTwitter: https://twitter.com/everforwardclubLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-ever-forward-club/#unmaskingwithmaleeducators #millionmaskmovement #takingoffthemask #restorativejustice #educationjustice #socialemotionallearning #everforwardclub #schoolculture #healingineducation #emotionalintelligence #teacherwellbeing
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Forrest is joined by one of the world's top executive coaches, Joe Hudson, for a conversation focused on how we can reduce self-punishment and live more fulfilling lives by welcoming our emotions and loosening identification with the critical mind. They discuss Joe's “The Golden Algorithm” - our tendency to recreate the emotions we try to avoid - and explore the three pillars of emotional fluidity, cognitive clarity, and nervous system awareness. Joe emphasizes how good change usually comes from reconnecting with who we already are, and welcoming fear, pleasure, and imperfection along the way. Really enjoyed this one, I hope you do too! About our Guest: Joe Hudson is the founder of the Art of Accomplishment, and is one of the most sought-after teachers among the world's top leaders at OpenAI, Alphabet, Apple, and more. He coaches a small group of executives by invitation only, and has collaborated with teachers like Esther Perel, Bessel van der Kolk, Patty Wipfler, and Tiago Forte. Key Topics: 1:14: The Three Pillars: Emotion, Cognition, Nervous System 8:29: Self-improvement as an act of authenticity 15:44: Deconstructing our thoughts 23:19: The golden algorithm, repression, and why we recreate our pain 31:31: Working with the nervous system 34:11: Shame 43:14: Emotions as windows into wants and needs 49:45: Perfectionism 55:27: Enjoying life 1:08:07: Recap Learn more about Joe's work: Complimentary transformation guide: https://www.artofaccomplishment.com/ Art of Accomplishment YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@ArtofAccomplishment Support the Podcast: We're on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link. Sponsors If you have ADHD, or you love someone who does, I'd recommend checking out the podcast ADHD aha! Level up your bedding with Quince. Go to Quince.com/BEINGWELL for free shipping on your order and three hundred and sixty-five -day returns. Feel good...and mean it when you say it! Get Headspace FREE for 60 days. Go to Headspace.com/BEINGWELL60 Listen now to the Life Kit podcast from NPR. Go to Zocdoc.com/BEING to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/beingwell. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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This week, Johnny and the Thang Gang hear keep you up-to-date with all your penguin news, Sunta makes a spooky purchase, and - join in - MOZZY MOZZY MOZZY!Hear Johnny on Radio X every weekday at 4pm across the UK on digital radio, 104.9 FM in London, 97.7 FM in Manchester, on Global Player or via www.radiox.co.uk
Sal Vulcano is a stand-up comedian and television host. See him on his Everything's Fine Tour — October 24 at the Arlene Schnitzer Concert Hall in Portland, October 25 at the Eccles Theatre in Salt Lake City, and October 26 at the Balboa Theatre in San Diego. Watch his comedy special, Terrified, now streaming on HBO Max, and check out his podcast, Hey Babe! with Chris DiStefano. For more dates and info, visit salvulcanocomedy.com. Follow him on Instagram and X @SalVulcano.IN THE NEWS: Shocking new details emerge about Luigi Mangione — reports claim he was beaten up by seven “ladyboys” in Thailand months before the UnitedHealthcare CEO shooting. Former ESPN host Sam Ponder speaks out after revealing her middle school daughter was forced to play against a biological male in a girls' basketball tournament in New York City. And Chicago Mayor Brandon Johnson proposes a controversial social media tax in his 2026 budget to fund new mental health clinics amid the city's billion-dollar deficit.Get it on.FOR MORE WITH SAL VULCANO:TOUR: Everything's Fine TourPortland, Oregon: Arlene Schnitzer Concert Hall - Oct 24Salt Lake City, UT: Eccles Theatre - Oct 25San Diego, CA: Balboa Theatre - Oct 26SPECIAL: TerrifiedNow streaming on HBO MaxPODCAST: Hey Babe! with Chris DiStefanoINSTAGRAM & TWITTER: @SalVulcanoWEBSITE: www.salvulcanocomedy.comFOR MORE WITH RUDY PAVICH: INSTAGRAM: @rudy_pavichWEBSITE: www.rudypavichcomedy.comSubscribe to The Adam Carolla Show on Substack: https://adamcarolla.substack.com/LIVE SHOWS: October 29 - Burbank, CANovember 6 - Boston, MANovember 7 - Buffalo, NYThank you for supporting our sponsors:Hims.com/ADAMGo to https://hometitlelock.com/adamcarolla and use promo code ADAM to get a FREE title history report and a FREE TRIAL of their Triple Lock Protection! For details visit https://hometitlelock.com/warrantyToday, get Huel for FIFTEEN PERCENT OFF with this exclusive offer for New Customers only with code adam15 at https://huel.com/adam15 (Minimum $75 purchase).ForThePeople.com/Adamoreillyauto.com/ADAMpluto.tvSHOPIFY.COM/carollaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
An early encounter with one of the most famous people in the world initiated Jack Zipes into the world of fairy tales - and he never looked back. In this episode, Jacke talks to the fairy tale expert about his book Buried Treasures: The Power of Political Fairy Tales, which profiles modern writers and artists who tapped the political potential of fairy tales. PLUS Jacke delivers some Chaucer news before looking at Dostoevsky's Crime and Punishment, which lands at #11 on the list of the Greatest Books of All Time. NOTE: The discussion with Jack Zipes was originally released on July 17, 2023. It has not been available in the archives for many months. Join Jacke on a trip through literary England (signup closing soon)! The History of Literature Podcast Tour is happening in May 2026! Act now to join Jacke and fellow literature fans on an eight-day journey through literary England in partnership with John Shors Travel. Scheduled stops include The Charles Dickens Museum, Dr. Johnson's house, Jane Austen's Bath, Tolkien's Oxford, Shakespeare's Globe Theater, and more. Find out more by emailing jackewilsonauthor@gmail.com or masahiko@johnshorstravel.com, or by contacting us through our website historyofliterature.com. Or visit the History of Literature Podcast Tour itinerary at John Shors Travel. The music in this episode is by Gabriel Ruiz-Bernal. Learn more at gabrielruizbernal.com. Help support the show at patreon.com/literature or historyofliterature.com/donate . The History of Literature Podcast is a member of Lit Hub Radio and the Podglomerate Network. Learn more at thepodglomerate.com/historyofliterature. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Are you a driven mom who wants to be present—but you're drowning in overwhelm and “control mode”?This conversation shows you how to get crystal-clear on your family vision, build secure attachment/connection, and set firm, kind boundaries so kids become self-directed—without you turning into the “mean, controlling parent.”In this candid episode, Greg and Rachel break down the yin–yang of parenting—high standards + healthy surrender—so you can lead your family without micromanaging. You'll learn time-chunking, strategic disengagement, and simple charts & systems (starting with the morning routine) that create calm, predictable days. We also unpack why quality and quantity time (especially in key developmental years) is the foundation of trust, attachment, and influence.If you've ever thought, “I've tried everything,” this is your roadmap to clarity, consistency, and connection—without burnout.Key Takeaways✅ Vision first: You can't hit a target you don't have—define your family vision and align daily “micro-visions.”✅ Attachment over control: Connection creates cooperation; control breeds rebellion or resentment.✅ Quality and quantity time: Presence (especially ages 0–6, and up to 25) builds trust and influence.✅ Boundaries you honor: Time-chunking + strategic disengagement protect work and family time.✅ Systems over stress: Start with a morning routine chart; train, then let kids choose how within clear boundaries.✅ Lead without micromanaging: Be playful + firm on non-negotiables; give freedom on details.✅ The obstacle is the way: Overwhelm signals where to build skills and systems next.Memorable Quotes
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Parenting a child who doesn't respond to sticker charts, time-outs, or threats can feel defeating. You've tried rewards, consequences, and everything in between—and still the meltdowns, backtalk, and battles keep happening. You're not alone.In this episode, I explain why rewards and consequences don't land for dysregulated kids and what you can do instead. You'll learn the brain science behind why your child can't connect actions to outcomes in meltdown mode, plus practical strategies to shift from frustration to regulation.Why don't rewards and consequences work for my child?Many parents wonder why their child's behavior doesn't change despite sticker charts, time out, or taking away toys. The truth is:A dysregulated brain can't learn. When kids are in survival mode, their emotional brain takes over and logic shuts down.Rewards only stick when the brain is calm. Extrinsic rewards like tangible rewards or material rewards can't replace intrinsic motivation.Consequences may backfire. Punishment often increases frustration, lowers a child's self-esteem, and damages connection.It's not bad parenting—it's a dysregulated brain. Let's calm the brain first so your child can actually absorb lessons and develop lasting skills.How do I respond when my child's behavior feels out of control?When your child's actions push every button you have, it's tempting to react with harsher discipline. But behavior is communication, and what looks like “bad behavior” is often a stress response.Here's what helps instead:Pause before reacting. Ask yourself: “Is my child regulated enough for this to land?”Co-regulate first. A calm presence, gentle tone, and predictable routines teach safe and appropriate behavior more than threats ever will.Connection before correction. When your child feels seen and safe, they're far more likely to return to positive behaviors.This shift helps your child learn that they're not a “bad kid,” but a person developing the ability to manage emotions and actions.Want to stay calm when your child pushes every button?Become a Dysregulation Insider VIP and get the FREE Regulation Rescue Kit—your step-by-step guide to stop oppositional behaviors without yelling or giving in.Go to www.drroseann.com/newsletter and grab your kit today.What can I do to actually teach my child positive behaviors?Kids don't learn self-control through punishment—they learn through practice in everyday life when they're calm.Model regulation. Show how adults handle frustration with empathy and consistency.Teach in calm moments. Coping skills, flexibility, and problem-solving only stick when your child is regulated.Use natural consequences. These are more effective than arbitrary punishments because they're tied to specific behaviors.For example, if your child forgets homework, the natural consequence is explaining to their teacher—not losing screen time.Encourage effort, not just results. Praise hard work, practice, and small successes to build a child's self-esteem and intrinsic motivation.Remember, positive reinforcement doesn't mean bribery—it means helping your child connect actions to outcomes in a way that builds confidence and responsibility.Want real tools that actually work in the heat of a meltdown? Inside
Are you tired of hearing about “gentle parenting” — but still want to raise kind, confident, and emotionally intelligent kids?In this powerful episode, Greg and Rachel Denning unpack The Truth About Gentle Parenting — what works, what backfires, and what extraordinary parents are using instead.They reveal how gentle parenting often gets misapplied as permissive parenting, leaving parents exhausted, burned out, and unsure how to hold boundaries without becoming authoritarian. The Dennings share a better, more effective approach — one that blends empathy and structure, kindness and firmness, compassion and clarity.They explain how to develop your parenting intuition, create emotional safety without losing authority, and respond to misbehavior without yelling, punishing, or shaming. You'll learn how to raise respectful, resilient kids while staying calm, confident, and connected — even in the toughest parenting moments.Key Takeaways✅ True “gentle” parenting means connection with boundaries, not permissiveness.✅ Kids feel safest when parents are both kind and firm.✅ Respect doesn't mean letting your child lead — it means guiding with love and clarity.✅ Emotional awareness + structure = long-term cooperation and trust.✅ You can't pour from an empty cup — process your own triggers to parent authentically.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Extraordinary Parenting12:20 The Nuances of Gentle Parenting30:41 Pros and Cons of Gentle Parenting41:02 Navigating Disappointment in Parenting47:01 The Importance of Setting Expectations50:10 Balancing Empathy and Boundaries56:13 Authenticity in Parenting01:04:20 The Shift Towards Hybrid Parenting01:17:55 The Path to Effective ParentingMemorable Quotes
Fr. Mike focuses on the theme of disciplining children, reflected in our readings from Sirach and Proverbs today. He clarifies that there is a crucial difference between discipline and destruction, and emphasizes that disciplining children should always be grounded in love and oriented towards their success in the future. Today's readings 1 Maccabees 12, Sirach 30-31, and Proverbs 23:13-16. For the complete reading plan, visit ascensionpress.com/bibleinayear. Please note: The Bible contains adult themes that may not be suitable for children - parental discretion is advised.
Ever notice how sometimes choosing not to drink feels less like a positive choice and more like self-punishment? Maybe the commitment was clear in your mind - tonight, no drinks. But then you watch someone order that dirty martini while you sit with your water, and suddenly saying no feels like you're punishing yourself. That familiar tension rises up: the part of you that wants to stick to your word battling against the part that feels resentful. If not drinking feels like punishment, you're not alone. Listen in this week to discover why you might be relying on virtue as a way to decline a drink, the reason self-punishment doesn't work, and what to do instead to create lasting change. Find a personalized approach that helps you change your habit in my new book, The Ultimate Guide to Drinking Less, here: https://rachelhart.com/guide/ Discover alternative approaches to drinking less inside our membership program, Take a Break: https://rachelhart.com/tab/ Get the full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://rachelhart.com/442