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To inspire and promote positive and candid conversations around the social, financial and relationship issues affecting women. Our goal is to create an enabling and supportive culture for ALL women (especially brown women) to learn, be empowered, thrive and prosper.

Kay Elle W & B. Chanell


    • Aug 31, 2021 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 23m AVG DURATION
    • 38 EPISODES


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    Relationship and Divorce Q&A

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 31, 2021 102:38


    I was asked some questions without seeing them first. The only rule was that no question would be considered off limits. If you want to here more podcasts in this format or would like to ask some questions of your own, feel free to drop me a line or two.

    Mr. JAXN

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2021 9:21


    It's time we spoke now that the dust has settled. Accountability is the key word of the day! 

    DRAMA VACCINE: ALWAYS TRYING TO GET OVER

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2021 14:20


    I'm convinced that my ex has no concept of accountability. I have committed myself to keeping my children's well-being a priority no matter the situation. Gentlemen, this is hard to do but must be done for the sake of our seeds!

    Stop "Hustling Backwards"

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2021 32:02


    On this weeks episode of COI, we are still honoring women. Today we are speaking with Temperance Griffith, the serial entrepreneur and owner of several successful businesses. Tune in as she shares information how she has started and maintains her successfull brand. She is the owner of Tempting Faces Permanent Makeup Studio Hustling Backwards, LLC Virtue Tax & Bookkeeping Tempted BrowZ She also mentors and does a lot of inspiring to women in the beauty industry and the community. *Audio experienced some technical difficulties, but its packed with very good information!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ohkaybchanell/message

    DRAMA VACCINE: Coke, Confusion, and Conflict

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2021 19:53


    Thanks for tuning in for another episode. Here's another one from the DRAMA VACCINE series , hope you enjoy. music by FALAK

    Rich People Scream; Wealthy People Whisper.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2021 28:18


    On this weeks episode of COI, we are joined by financial guru Apryl Fort-Kelly. She is a commercial banker and the author of “52 Weeks to fall in love with your money” and “Recovering from Financial Heartbreak”. She devotes countless hours to teaching financial literacy. Make sure you check her out!! @iambankerbae You can cry about your Financial situation or you can boss up, cut cost, start saving... and most of all Smile.... those bills ain't going no where, sis, until you pay them!Tune in as we discuss poverty mindset and shift in our community. For more information follow on financial literacy follow her on IG @iambankerbae --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ohkaybchanell/message

    SOME FEMALE DATING COACHES PT2

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2021 20:22


    The advice that is offered is sometimes dumpster juice! I mean no disrespect to anyone's platform but, we got to do better. 

    Some Female Dating Coaches

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2021 8:58


    Ladies please understand that charisma doesn't always equate to wisdom. 

    I Support You, Girl!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2021 22:41


    On this episode of COI we will be kicking off Women's History Month discussing "Women Supporting Women". On this episode we are joined by a special guest...our sister Ginger (@geminiflyii). Ginger is a Jewelry Maker and a huge supporter of COI. So listen in as we discuss how we can better support one another. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ohkaybchanell/message

    Help ME!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2021 24:20


    On this weeks episode of COI, we will be discussing why it is so difficult to ask people for help. We dive in to the personal, cultural and societal reasons that is is so difficult. We explain ways to be more open and ASK FOR HELP!! Its ok. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ohkaybchanell/message

    Inspirations

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2021 9:10


    On this weeks 2 part episode of COI, we will be discussing some of the most influential women in our lives.  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ohkaybchanell/message

    Intimate Conversations

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2021 32:39


    Happy Valentines Day!! On this weeks episode of COI, we will be discussing different forms of intimacy.  Intellectual Emotional Sexual --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ohkaybchanell/message

    WHAT ABOUT YOUR FRIENDS...

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2021 9:31


    We often take for granted the importance of surrounding ourselves with genuine people. Don't fall into the trap of surrounding yourself with people who won't call you on your BS...

    DRAMA VACCINE: AFTER FILING FOR DIVORCE

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2021 27:46


    Welcome back! I'm picking up where I left off. This picks up after I got home after my ex had been served divorce papers. I hope you enjoy this episode and thanks for all the support. Feel free to send any questions to COIQUESTIONS@GMAIL.COM if you want any questions answered or wanna here something in particular!

    NO! PERIODT!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2021 34:11


    On this weeks episode of COI, we will be discussing the importance of saying no. While, it may be difficult we have to set boundaries and say no. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ohkaybchanell/message

    Loving the skin, you're in!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2021 36:10


    On this weeks episode of COI, we discuss that “Beauty is only skin deep.” Join us as we examine the pressures that women face to attain physical perfection. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ohkaybchanell/message

    DRAMA VACCINE: FILING FOR DIVORCE

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2021 19:31


    This episode covers the period between right before I filed and after she was served. Thanks for all the support! You can submit questions and request topics of discussion by emailing them to COIQUESTIONS@GMAIL.COM

    Grow Through It

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2021 37:56


    On this weeks episode of COI, we will be discussing the uncomfortableness of Growth. We discuss how it affects your relationships with family and friends and how difficult it may be. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ohkaybchanell/message

    DRAMA VACCINE: Online Dating

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2021 12:33


    If you're gonna look for something serious online, you got to take steps to maximize your success. In this episode I give you some tips to do just that.

    New Year, New Me!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2021 30:24


    HAPPY NEW YEAR!! On this weeks episode of COI, we will be discussing the importance of goal setting for your new year. We discuss shifting your mindset in prepartation for the plans that you make for the year.  1. Pray over your goals 2. Set realistic and attainable goals. 3. Never give up. 4. Notice when you are doing well. 5. Congratulate yourself 6. Celebrate the small wins. 7. Self Care 8. Give yourself grace BE INTENTIONAL follow us on IG at  @kayellewinc lover_of_october etsy.com/shop/1purposeplanner --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ohkaybchanell/message

    DRAMA VACCINE EP2

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2021 7:37


    Just another lesson learned from my divorce experience...please enjoy! Word to the wise...the grass isn't always greener.

    Drama Vaccine EP1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2021 7:27


    Just wanted to share some of the past drama from my life to help you navigate your own drama. Please enjoy!

    Christmas Brunch

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2020 29:00


    On this week's episode of COI, we are joined by two very important members of our Circle for a virtual Christmas brunch. We continue our conversation about Christmas traditions. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ohkaybchanell/message

    All I want for Christmas

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 14, 2020 43:20


    On this weeks episode of COI, we will be headed down memory lane. We will talk about our favorite Christmas memories and past and future traditions. We will also discuss how COVID19 has impacted this holiday.  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ohkaybchanell/message

    SIT on it, BEFORE you SPEAK on it!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2020 32:11


    On this weeks episode of COI, we discuss the power of what you say. Whether it's what you say to others or what you speak over yourself; WORDS have POWER. What seeds are you planting? We discuss ways to become more intentional in what you say. Affimation and Motivational Apps on Apple: I AM MOTIVATION SelfishBabe Sprinkle of Jesus --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ohkaybchanell/message

    Circle of Influence (Trailer)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2020 0:41


    --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ohkaybchanell/message

    Im Not Your Superwoman

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2020 22:42


    On this weeks Episode of COI, I will be discussing ways to shed this superwoman status. "The strong black woman." Stereotypes that we have faced in our community. Mammy--Jezebels--Angry Black Woman--Superwoman Signs you may be a superwoman 1.  Strong, Powerful 2. Obligation to suppress  3. Inability to be dependent on others 4. Motivation to succeed against all odd. 5. Idea that it is my responsibility to put others before myself. Things you need to understand: 1. You are not alone 2. Impossible to live up to sometimes. 3. Trying to do so will kill you. Tips on how to take the cape off. 1. THERAPY 2. Eating better, Proper rest, exercise. 3. Learn how to set Limits and boundaries. (NO is a complete sentence) Recharge, refuel, rejuvenate. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ohkaybchanell/message

    Thankful for you!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2020 11:10


    This week on COI we took the time to express some of the many things that we are thankful for. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ohkaybchanell/message

    Oops, I did it AGAIN!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2020 32:45


    This week on COI, we will be discussing avoiding holiday weight gain.  Everyone experiences those holiday eating frenzies. This week we share some of our challenges we have experienced with weight, especially during the holidays. We  will also be sharing a few tips on how to stay summertime fine; while enjoying all of the holiday festivities. This episode is sponsored by  The Purpose Planner --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ohkaybchanell/message

    Minding my BUSINESS

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2020 28:41


    On this episode of COI, we will be discussing entrepreneurship. Our special guest, Ginger Windham, the owner of Gemini FlyII speaks on curating your business and brand as well as growth. We also discuss some of the challenges, that we face in our community as it relates to entrepreneurship. Your business is an extension of yourself. To connect with Ginger, visit geminiflyii.com and follower her on all social media platforms. Also, like and subscribe to the voice of the makers podcast. This episode is sponsored by: The MLAB-INC The Purpose Planner- Have you been searching for the perfect planner with a place to be encouraged and inspired, and keep your life and family organized? Well look no further. The Purpose Planner, provides a place to set goals, to be reminded to take care of yourself, and to keep up with those little things that you sometimes forget to do. The Purpose Planner is designed specifically to also remind you to live with purpose. For ordering information please visit Etsy.com and search 1purposeplanner --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ohkaybchanell/message

    I HATE IT HERE

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 2, 2020 36:10


    On today's episode of COI, we will be discussing "Relationships" and what it is like being single or dating in 2020. We will explore some past relationships and elaborate on the impact those situations have made upon our current dating situations. "Girl why are you single?" Jeremiah 17:9 The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it? This episode is sponsored by: MLAB-INC --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ohkaybchanell/message

    Infant Loss and Awareness Month

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2020 28:20


    On today's episode we have a special guest Nadia Doula of Crown of Glory Birth Services, Birmingham AL. We will be discussing the history of Black Women and childbirth, Miscarriage, Black Society Norms and views on child birth and infant loss, Trying to beat the biological clock. For more information follow Naudia at instagram.com/crownofglorybirthbhm instagram.com/nadiathedoula crownofglorybirthbhm nadiathedoula crownofglorybirth.com Todays episode is sponsored by Mobile Luxuary Auto Brokers-INC (MLAB) Specializing in selling top quality vehicles to our customers at whole sale prices. We stock foreign and domestic cars, trucks, motorcycles, RV's and SUV's. The MLAB-INC, strives to offer the best discounts, convenient ordering and a smooth transaction process. Contact us today at 888-603-6522 or www.mlab-inc.com for our latest inventory. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ohkaybchanell/message

    No Squares in my Circle

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2020 35:47


    On today's episode of Circle of Influence, we will be discussing the purpose of the COI podcast, community and culture. Whether its one circle of influence or multiple, make sure that you are surrounded by people who make you a better person and push you to become the best you.  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ohkaybchanell/message

    You should set some boundaries...

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2020 3:46


    Boundaries is what's gonna protect you from predators. Please make the time to establish some.

    Walking away

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2020 5:28


    Sometimes all of your power lies in your ability to walk away...

    Being vulnerable and communicating on a deeper level

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2020 4:21


    You'll run into problems for sure if you can't communicate with your partner about the deeper things in life.

    What I don't like about life coaching....

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2020 5:12


    I myself, like to take a tailored and pragmatic approach when dealing with clients. Please hear me out...

    Not feeling like you're where you're supposed to be in life

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2020 8:28


    Here's a common problem I here about and deal with myself. I hope this helps someone who's dealing with the same issue.

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