Dear Viv: No-nonsense advice

Follow Dear Viv: No-nonsense advice
Share on
Copy link to clipboard

Each Tuesday, The Pool’s resident agony aunt Viv Groskop tackles personal problems, emotional issues and all the nightmares of life both large and small. Viv Groskop gained her agony aunt qualifications at the School of Life, having made a load of mistakes, said a lot of idiotic things, smoked way…

The Pool


    • Jan 14, 2019 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 12m AVG DURATION
    • 129 EPISODES


    Search for episodes from Dear Viv: No-nonsense advice with a specific topic:

    Latest episodes from Dear Viv: No-nonsense advice

    Dear Viv: How can I accept being single forever?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2019 9:09


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when it feels like you'll never find a life partner See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: I judge myself for wanting a c-section

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2019 9:11


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses how to deal with a birth plan dilemma See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: How can I feel confident in my new single life?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2018 8:27


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses how to start afresh in the new year when you're feeling lost and confused after a break-up See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    *BUMPER EPISODE* Dear Viv: How can I cope with my nightmare family?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 28, 2018 18:53


    In this monthly special, Viv looks into the archives for some wisdom on spending time with difficult family members See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: My friend let me down after I had a miscarriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2018 10:44


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when a friend doesn't feel like a friend any more See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: How can I support my depressed sister?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2018 9:42


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses how to help a sister who's going through a difficult time. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: I find my husband irritating

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2018 9:34


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do if you've had enough of your husband See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: How can I get better at public speaking? with Zoe Beaty

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2018 30:46


    In this special episode, The Pool's Zoe Beaty asks Viv how she can stop holding herself back when it comes to owning the room See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    **BUMPER EPISODE** Dear Viv: How will I cope with Christmas this year?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2018 19:36


    In this monthly special, Viv looks into the archives for some wisdom on Christmas See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: I hate my new job

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2018 10:53


    On this week’s podcast, Viv discusses what to do when a new job has eroded your confidence See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: I've never had a group of friends

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2018 8:50


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when it seems impossible to meet people and make friends See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: Can I let my boyfriend pay for our holiday?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2018 6:49


    On this week’s podcast, Viv discusses what to when your new partner offers to pay for an expensive trip See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: My husband's business is ruining our marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2018 7:21


    On this week’s podcast, Viv discusses what to do when work is getting in the way of your relationship See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    **Bumper Episode** Dear Viv: What's the best way to deal with a break-up?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2018 19:09


    In this monthly special, Viv looks into the archives for some wisdom on break-ups See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: How can I be a successful freelancer?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2018 9:08


    On this week’s podcast, Viv gives advice on how to cope brilliantly as a freelancer See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: I feel crap about myself all the time

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2018 10:12


    On this week’s podcast, Viv discusses what to do when everything seems hopeless and you’re worried your moaning is driving your partner away See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: What can I do about my sexist brother?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2018 7:48


    On this week’s podcast, Viv discusses what to do when a sibling thinks that feminism is "unnecessary" See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: I never have any physical urges but my boyfriend wants "porn-like" sex

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2018 8:22


    On this week’s podcast, Viv discusses what to do when there's a mismatch in your sex life See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: Our colleague uses her kids as an excuse to slack off

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2018 9:00


    On this week’s podcast, Viv discusses what to do when a colleague who’s a parent seems to be taking advantage of flexible arrangements See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: Can I keep my husband and the man I had an affair with?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2018 10:33


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when you don't want to end an affair See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: How can I stop feeling lonely?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2018 9:39


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when you feel lonely and empty all the time See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: I’m in a relationship but had a raunchy dream about a colleague

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2018 9:27


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do if you're in a happy relationship but find yourself fantasising about someone else See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: My boyfriend won't show me affection in public

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2018 8:08


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when your boyfriend's aversion to PDAs is putting you off him See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: My pregnant best friend has become too demanding

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2018 9:43


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when a friendship is changed by pregnancy See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: Should my unreliable ex have contact with our kids?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2018 10:48


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses whether your children should have contact with their unpredictable father See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: My girlfriend has no interest in sex

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2018 9:25


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when your partner isn't interested in physical affection or intimacy See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: I've lost my friends to parenthood

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2018 8:30


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when your friends are only interested in their babies See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: Am I a toxic friend?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2018 7:29


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when a friend has let your friendship die out. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: My godson's parents are taking me for granted

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2018 9:55


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when you want to be there for your godson but his parents don't appreciate you. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: My friend's pregnancy is making me question my termination

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2018 8:03


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when your friend's pregnancy gives you conflicting feelings See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: How can I find my place in a grieving family? With Cariad Lloyd

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2018 26:52


    To celebrate her 100th episode, Viv invited comedian, actress, writer and podcaster Cariad Lloyd to answer a listener's question with her, about a new boyfriend and his difficult daughter See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: How can I avoid the "butler in the buff" at a hen do?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2018 9:14


    On this week’s podcast, Viv discusses what to do when you’re not completely on board with your friend’s hen party See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: My partner's mum wants me to be an overbearing landlord

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2018 9:34


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when you disagree with your partner's mother See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: My brother is breaking our mum's heart

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2018 10:44


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when your brother is upsetting your mother See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: My daughter is obsessed with her own appearance

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2018 9:10


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when your six year old is completely obsessed with hair and make-up See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: do I leave my partner because he doesn't want a family?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2018 10:31


    On this week's podcast: what happens when you want marriage and babies but the love of your life doesn’t? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: I'm exhausted with the world

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2018 10:07


    On this week’s podcast: Viv discusses what to do when life gets too much and you just feel completely overwhelmed See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: I've fallen out with a friend, but want to keep our mutual friends

    Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2018 10:18


    On this week’s podcast, Viv discusses what to do when a friend lets you down and you don’t know where to turn. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: My ex's friends don't want to hang out with me any more

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2018 9:42


    On this week’s podcast, Viv discusses what to do when your friends pick sides after a break-up — and it’s not your side See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: My boyfriend can't break away from his ex

    Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2018 9:06


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses a new boyfriend who's still struggling to break up with an ex See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: How should I behave around a friend who is ill?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2018 13:37


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses younger siblings with questions about sex, how to talk to an old friend with cancer, downgrading a friend with benefits to 'just friends', and taking the leap to live abroad. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: Three Years On

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2018 29:23


    To celebrate three years of The Pool and Dear Viv, our resident agony aunt Viv Groskop takes a look back at some of the classic questions she's received over the years See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: I'm gay, should I continue to tolerate my family's homophobia?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2018 12:31


    On this week's episode, Viv discusses being gay in a very catholic family. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: How can I tell my family I want to be alone on Mother's Day?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2018 12:23


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses a teenager who won't do his homework, how to leave behind a childhood home, and a mother who just wants to be left alone on Mother's Day See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: Should I contact the woman my dad's been flirting with?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2018 9:07


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses whether a daughter should get involved in her father's office flirtation – and whether she should even know about it in the first place See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: How should I introduce my conservative parents to my "alternative" boyfriend?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2018 12:13


    On this week's podcast Viv discusses a rejection invitation to move in, how to introduce a tattooed boyfriend to conservative parents, how to support a sister with mental health issues, and whether or not to get involved in a family fallout See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: Can we ban kids from our wedding?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2018 18:04


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses a teacher in a dilemma, getting over an ex boyfriend, and what to say when you don't want children at your wedding See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: Should I forgive my destructive Dad?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2018 10:23


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses whether to reconnect with an estranged family member See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: Should I invite my difficult brother to a family dinner?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2017 19:54


    In this holiday special, Viv discusses whether or not to invite a difficult brother to a family meal, coping with in-laws without using alcohol, dealing with a sibling fallout and how to eliminate New Year resolution guilt See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: How can I cope with my first Christmas alone?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2017 19:45


    In this week's Christmas special, Viv discusses dealing with the pressure of hosting, a first Christmas after losing parents, telling a child that Santa won't bring an expensive gift, and a Christmas pregnancy See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Dear Viv: Should I get back in touch with my teen crush?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2017 8:22


    On this week's podcast, Viv discusses whether or not to get back in touch with a young love. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Claim Dear Viv: No-nonsense advice

    In order to claim this podcast we'll send an email to with a verification link. Simply click the link and you will be able to edit tags, request a refresh, and other features to take control of your podcast page!

    Claim Cancel