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The Stars Will Never Line Up For You and That's A Good Thing

Ever notice that the trip home often seems shorter than the trip there—even when the distance and travel time are exactly the same? It happens so often that researchers have given it a name: the “return trip effect.” And the explanation reveals something fascinating about how your brain experiences time. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3179583 You're told to “take charge of your healthcare.” But how exactly are you supposed to do that when the doctor is the expert, appointments are short, and navigating the healthcare system can be frustrating and confusing? It turns out there is a lot you can do to get better care. Dr. Lucy McBride explains how to make better use of your doctor, ask the right questions, know when to push for answers, and become a more effective partner in your own healthcare. She is a primary care physician and author of Beyond the Prescription: A Doctor's Guide to Taking Charge of Your Health (https://amzn.to/4hAEoc3). Weather is doing things to you that you probably never realize. Sunshine, rain, heat, cold, wind and even changes in atmospheric pressure can affect how you think, feel, sleep and behave. Why are some people far more sensitive to weather than others? Can certain weather actually make us more aggressive or anxious? And why can a particular kind of day trigger such powerful memories and emotions? Dr. Trevor Harley has spent years studying the surprisingly intimate relationship between weather and the human mind. He is Emeritus Professor of Psychology at the University of Dundee and author of Head in the Clouds: How the Weather Affects Our Minds and Mental Health (https://amzn.to/4xN5L7v). Could you tell whether water is hot or cold just by listening to someone pour it? You probably can—even if you've never realized it. Hot and cold water actually sound different, and there is a fascinating reason why. https://www.thenakedscientists.com/articles/questions/why-does-hot-water-sound-different-cold-water-when-poured PLEASE SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS MONARCH: Write your own money story with Monarch! Use promo code SYSK at https://Monarch.com to get your 1st year of Monarch Core half off at just $50 AQUATRU: Head to https://AquaTru.com now and get 20% off your purifier using promo code SYSK AquaTru even comes with a 30-day best-tasting water guarantee or your money back! WAYFAIR: Ready to upgrade your home for way less? Head to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://Wayfair.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ right now to shop all things home and get your space ready for less.  QUINCE: Find your next Fall favorites at Quince! Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://Quince.com/sysk⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Now available in Canada, too! DELL: Built for those who want better. The Dell XPS, built for you! SHOPIFY: It's time to turn those "what ifs" into CHA CHING with Shopify Today! Sign up for your $1 per month trail and start selling today at ⁠⁠⁠https://Shopify.com/realm⁠⁠⁠ INDEED: Get a $75 Sponsored Job credit to help get your job the premium status it deserves at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://Indeed.com/PODCAST⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This FINALLY Cured My Fear Of Criticism and Judgement

What happens to human intelligence in a world increasingly dominated by artificial intelligence? In this special conversation, Dr. JC Doornick sits down with world-renowned brain coach and bestselling author Jim Kwik to explore his new book, Limitless Daily, and why developing our own minds may be more important now than ever. As AI becomes faster, smarter, and more integrated into everyday life, Jim makes the case that Artificial Intelligence still depends on Human Intelligence—our ability to think critically, ask better questions, remain curious, learn faster, remember what matters, and consciously direct our attention. But becoming limitless isn't something you do once. It's something you practice daily. Jim shares the philosophy behind Limitless Daily, a book designed to give you a powerful lesson, insight, or mental reset every day of the year. Think of it as daily training for your brain—a way to intentionally win the morning before the world gets a chance to program your mind for you. JC also shares how reading Limitless Daily each morning became an unexpected companion during his cancer recovery, often delivering exactly the lesson, perspective, or question he needed that particular day. This conversation explores brain health, focus, memory, mindset, morning routines, lifelong learning, the relationship between AI and HI, and what it really means to become limitless—not by doing more, but by learning how to better use the most powerful technology you'll ever possess: Your own mind. If you've been wondering how to stay focused, capable, creative, and distinctly human in the age of AI, this conversation with Jim Kwik is one you won't want to miss. Grab Jim's Book Now: Web: www.limitlessdaily.com IG: @jimkwik Follow Dr. JC Doornick and the Makes Sense Academy:► Makes Sense Substack - https://drjcdoornick.substack.com ► Instagram: / drjcdoornick ► Substack: / drjcdoornick ►Facebook:  / makessensepodcast ►YouTube:  / drjcdoornick MAKES SENSE PODCAST Welcome to the Makes Sense with Dr. JC Doornick Podcast. This podcast explores topics that expand human consciousness and enhance performance. On the Makes Sense Podcast, we acknowledge that it's who you are that determines how well what you do works, and that perception is subjective and an acquired taste. When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at begin to change. Welcome to the uprising of the sleepwalking masses. Welcome to the Makes Sense with Dr. JC Doornick Podcast. SUBSCRIBE/RATE/REVIEW & SHARE our new podcast. FOLLOW Podcast: You will find a "Follow" button in the top right. This will enable the podcast software to alert you when a new episode launches each week. Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/makes-sense-with-dr-jc-doornick/id1730954168 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1WHfKWDDReMtrGFz4kkZs9?si=003780ca147c4aec Podcast Affiliates: Kwik Learning: Many people ask me where I get all these topics, which I've been covering for almost 15 years. I have learned to read nearly four times faster and retain information 10 times better with Kwik Learning. Learn how to learn and earn with Jim Kwik. Get his program at a special discount here: https://jimkwik.com/dragon OUR SPONSORS: Operly - Take Back Control of Your Work Day and Get Rid of All Your AI Apps - Welcome to the new world of Time Freedom and Unlimited Scaling and Success with Operly -  https://go.getoperly.ai/video?ref=jean-claude-claude-d-2a95 Blue Blinds Bakery - Handcrafted with all-natural ingredients - www.blueblindsbakery.com 00:00 - 02:04: Cold Open and Introducing Jim Kwik 02:04 - 06:00: "Shelf Help" vs Self-Help: Why He Wrote a Daily Book 06:00 - 10:52: The Reading Crisis and Reading as a "Superpower" 10:52 - 13:57: The Science of Your Morning Window 13:57 - 16:00: JC's Cancer Diagnosis and Protecting His Mindset 16:00 - 20:14: Jim's Story: The "Broken Brain" and Building Better Habits 20:14 - 23:16: The Story Behind the Color Purple 23:16 - 27:12: Writing the Book: Letters to His Newborn Daughter and Son 27:12 - 31:22: The Danger of Cognitive Offloading to AI 31:22 - 35:00: The BUILD Framework for Using AI Wisely 35:00 - 38:02: Choosing to Get Better, Not Bitter 38:02 - 42:17: The HUMAN Framework: 5 Traits AI Can't Replace 42:17 - 43:53: "It's Happening For Me, Not To Me": Reframing the Diagnosis 43:53 - 47:13: What Happens After 366 Days of Practice 47:13 - 49:49: Visualize Your Perfect Day, One Year From Now 49:49 - 53:22: Closing Thoughts and the Limitless Live Event 53:22 - ending: Outro: Learn It, Then Give It Away Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

The fear of missing out or not seizing every moment are some of the biggest worries we experience in our 20s. However, spending time alone isn’t the same as being lonely or doing nothing - in fact, it’s quite the opposite. In this episode, we explore why we resist being alone - but why learning to do so is psychologically positive, and can even be a superpower. Watch on Netflix: HERE • Why we culturally and socially villainise solitude• How constantly being online interrupts our ability to be truly alone • The creative and emotional benefits of spending time alone• Why our capacity to be alone is a reflection of our overall maturity • How we can embrace the power of solitude Follow Jemma on Instagram: @jemmasbeg Follow the podcast on Instagram: @thatpsychologypodcast Subscribe on Substack: @thepsychologyofyour20s For business: psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com Our favourite sources: https://spsp.org/news-center/character-context-blog/social-costs-seeking-solitude https://www.ted.com/talks/susan_cain_the_power_of_introverts?language=en https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/feb/02/quiet-please-the-remarkable-power-of-silence-for-our-bodies-and-our-minds The Psychology of your 20s is not a substitute for professional mental health help. If you are struggling, distressed or require personalised advice, please reach out to your doctor or a licensed psychologist. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Comfort Slowly Presents Itself Before It Quickly Destroys Everything

You Faith and Conviction WILL Be Tested

How To Eliminate Negative Thinking FOR GOOD and Think More Clearly

The EASIEST And SIMPLEST Way To Become Better At Communicating and Socializing

Are You REALLY Expecting To Win

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 4132: Jay and Heather Harrington explain why decades of behavioral research keep pointing the same direction: experiences improve in memory while possessions lose their shine. They recount a rained-out hike through Michigan's Upper Peninsula that was miserable in the moment and a favorite story by the time they reached the car. They close with four traits the most memorable experiences share, from first moments to time outdoors in every season. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.lifeandwhim.com/first-moments-blog/2018/why-experiences-over-things-get-better-with-time Quotes to ponder: "In short, while we quickly adapt to new material possessions and they lose their 'shine,' experiences get better with time." "The most lasting and positive memories don't come from acquiring something new, they come from doing something new." "Happiness. Contentment. Balance. These are all qualities that we aspire to. Often we overcomplicate how to achieve them." Optimal Living Daily is a daily personal development and self-improvement podcast where we narrate the best self-help articles on minimalism, productivity, and intentional living, read to you by a professional narrator so you can live your best life a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Only Way Out Is Through

Men The World Is Counting On YOU

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What if becoming a better spearo had less to do with diving deeper or buying better gear—and more to do with learning how to actually see what's happening around you? In this episode, Shrek sits down with commercial fisherman, spearo, hunter and lifelong observer of the natural world Johnny Mitchell, with Johnny's longtime mate Tim McDonald joining the conversation. Johnny has spent decades living, fishing, hunting and observing in the bush and on the water. From commercially chasing Spanish mackerel and mud crabs to living out of a swag, caretaking Cape Capricorn lighthouse and spending countless hours simply watching animals behave, he has developed an extraordinary ability to recognise patterns in the natural world. The conversation explores awareness, natural intelligence, tides, weather, animal behaviour, sensory awareness and pattern recognition—and why asking simplistic questions like "Is the full moon better?" or "Does falling barometric pressure make fish bite?" can actually hold back your learning. Johnny explains why every productive fishing or spearfishing location has its own combination of features and conditions, and why the better question is often: Why were the fish here today—and why weren't they here yesterday? Tim also shares how Johnny's influence has completely changed the way he approaches spearfishing: shooting fewer fish, observing more, recognising short feeding windows and learning to know where to be, when to be there and why. This one goes well beyond spearfishing. It's a conversation about reconnecting with the natural world, waking up dulled senses and becoming less dependent on apps, assumptions and handed-down rules. Important Times 00:00 – Introduction to Johnny Mitchell 03:00 – Johnny joins Shrek and Tim McDonald 04:00 – Johnny's background: fishing, hunting and living wild 06:00 – Your subconscious is collecting more information than you realise 07:00 – Awareness: the foundation of everything 09:00 – Living at Cape Capricorn lighthouse 11:00 – Why good experiences lead to better questions 12:00 – Hunting versus simply observing animals 15:00 – Watching fish footage 100 times 17:00 – How Johnny changed Tim McDonald's approach to hunting 18:00 – Pattern recognition and exponential learning 19:00 – The most important question: Why? 20:00 – Observational intelligence versus handed-down knowledge 23:00 – Nature is multidimensional: beware single-variable thinking 29:00 – New moon vs full moon: are we asking the wrong questions? 31:00 – Understanding the specific tide window for a spot 34:00 – Johnny's "Zoom Out" technique 36:00 – Using landscape, wind and Google Earth to understand a fishing location 38:00 – How modern life dulls our senses 40:00 – "Unbroken connection" with the natural world 44:00 – How disconnected have we become? 46:00 – From awareness to recognising patterns and predicting opportunities 48:00 – Knowledge removes scarcity and makes you a more generous diver 52:00 – Making more space in your life for the outdoors 54:00 – You can start reconnecting with nature in ten minutes 58:00 – Why understanding fisheries can become extremely complicated 1:00:00 – Observing more and killing less 1:04:00 – Spearfishing has to become about more than killing fish 1:06:00 – Old-school dogtooth tuna and spearfishing stories 1:09:00 – You don't need a $100,000 boat 1:10:00 – Why most fishermen don't actually understand weather 1:12:00 – From reading conditions to predicting a 130 cm barramundi 1:14:00 – Johnny's Break Free three-day program 1:16:00 – Becoming a better spearo by becoming a better person 1:18:00 – Psychology, learning and actually applying knowledge 1:22:00 – Everything Johnny teaches can begin at a duck pond 1:24:00 – Throw the barometer question in the bin 1:28:00 – Testing theories instead of turning observations into rules 1:31:00 – What does Break Free actually mean? 1:32:00 – Johnny's links and wrap-up Links Mentioned Johnny Mitchell / Wild Adventures JM wildadventuresjm.com.au Fishes One Hook fishesonehook.com Check out their free Speargun Band Size Calculator. Spearo.app Free spearfishing-specific forecasting tool. Noob Spearo Patreon patreon.com/noobspearo

Have you ever experienced a season of absolute despair? A time when you wondered, “Will life ever get better?”Many of the writers of the Psalms of lament wondered the very same thing. They wrote from places of deep pain and despair—and maybe some of you can relate.This Sunday, we'll take a look at two Psalms: Psalm 88 and Psalm 89, read by Kelly Manker. At first glance, these Psalms can seem almost bipolar, but together, they represent the tension of the Christian life.We all go through chapters of life that feel like Psalm 88—chapters marked by absolute despair. Yet those moments don't invalidate the unfailing love and faithfulness of God that we see in Psalm 89.Join us as the Psalmist shows us that we can be honest with God about the struggles of life while also reminding us that His unfailing love meets us right there in the middle of them.After the message, we'll celebrate the unfailing love of God together through communion.--WebsiteFacebookInstagramSunday SetlistSunnybrook App (ios)Sunnybrook App (Google)Connect with us!How can we pray for you? Let us know.Giving

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You Don't Have To Be Smart To Make Good Money

Authenticity, Honesty and Integrity Are The Highest and Best Attributes To Show The World

The Brainwashing and Propaganda has Won

You MUST Stay One Step Ahead and Expect The Unexpected

Taking time off to heal was supposed to be the thing that finally worked. So why do you feel exactly the same, or worse?Here's what nobody tells women with chronic illness who step back from work to recover. Stopping your job is not the same as resting your body. And if you've quietly turned getting better into your new full-time job, complete with targets, a timeline and a daily verdict on whether you're passing or failing, your body is still under pressure. It never actually stopped. This episode is about the emotional patterns underneath that pressure, why it keeps your body locked out of the state it needs to repair, and what real rest actually looks like.In this episode, you'll discover:Why taking time off to heal can make your chronic illness worse instead of betterThe hidden pressure you've been putting on your body since the day you stopped work, or the day you took leaveWhy rest hasn't been working, and what has to shift before your body can actually repairFREE CHATGPT PROMPTClick here to download my FREE ChatGPT prompt that helps connect your real physical symptoms to the emotional patterns that may be underneath them in 30 seconds!For women navigating Chronic Illness, Autoimmune Disease, IBS, Digestive Disorders, Migraines, Chronic Fatigue, Fibromyalgia, Pain, PCOS, and Endometriosis.

I Welcome Any And All Threats

BGS Shorts: Christina Cook shares her personal journey through gambling harm, emphasizing that recovery is a day-by-day process and offering hope to those struggling.Connect with Christina Cook and The Broke Girl SocietyChristina Cook is the founder of The Broke Girl Society, a recovery-focused community and platform supporting women impacted by gambling harm.Website: https://thebrokegirlsociety.com/Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thebrokegirlsocietyEmail: christina@thebrokegirlsociety.comThe Better Institute (PA residents)Where people go to get better.https://betterinstitute.com/problem-gambling-help/Evive: An app designed to help you better understand your relationship with gambling and support your recovery journey.https://GetEvive.comIf you are struggling with your mental health or having thoughts of self-harm, please seek the help of trained professionals. We speak only from our own experiences. This podcast is meant to encourage and support your recovery journey, not replace professional care.BGS Resource Book: https://bgs-media.com/resources/GamFin: Financial counseling with professionals who understand the impact gambling can have on your financial health and goals. (U.S. residents only)https://www.gamfin.org/Birches Health: Find a certified gambling therapist through telehealth and attend sessions from the comfort of your home.https://bircheshealth.com/brokegirlsocietyIPGGC DirectoryFind a gambling-certified therapist.https://ipggc.org/directory/Nicasa Behavioral Health Services (Illinois residents)Since 2002, Nicasa has been helping individuals in Illinois address gambling behaviors through awareness, outreach, and treatment services.https://nicasa.org/Adult Gambling Treatmenthttps://nicasa.org/program/adult-gambling-treatment/Youth Gambling Treatmenthttps://nicasa.org/program/youth-gambling-treatment/Gamblers Anonymoushttps://www.gamblersanonymous.org/ga/24/7 Meetings Worldwidehttps://gamblersinrecovery.com/Recovery Road Online Meetingshttps://recoveryroadonline.com/UKBetknowmore UK – New Beginningshttps://www.betknowmoreuk.org/support-information/new-beginningsGambleAware / Breakeven – WINGShttps://www.gambleaware.org/tools-and-support/support-in-your-area/service-finder-results/wings-women-in-need-of-gambling-support/GamCare – Women's Pathwayhttps://www.gamcare.org.uk/get-support/womens-pathway/Thrivin' Togetherhttps://www.thrivintogether.org.uk/IrelandExtern – Women's Gambling Support Networkhttps://www.extern.org/our-services/problem-gambling/women-s-gambling-support-networkAustraliaThe Untangle Projecthttps://www.theuntangleprojectaus.net/Gambling Help Online – Peer Support Communityhttps://www.gamblinghelponline.org.au/tools-resources/join-communityCanadaResponsible Gambling Council – Help for Canadianshttps://responsiblegambling.org/for-the-public/problem-gambling-help/help-for-canadians/CAMH – Problem Gambling Supporthttps://www.camh.ca/en/health-info/mental-illness-and-addiction-index/problem-gamblingPodcast SponsorsImportant NoteResourcesWomen's Gambling Recovery Support Outside the U.S.

How To NEVER Take Things Personal Ever Again

Why I Started To Talk About Controversial Topics

Being Stubborn Is The Ultimate Weakness

How To Learn To Say The RIGHT Thing At The Right Time

Below the Belt: Dak praises Jerry Jones' urgency to get better players on the team full 791 Thu, 13 Aug 2026 14:31:48 +0000 lATLOosmGT18UMcZ9gAaPDKU2rlvz0IC nfl,dallas cowboys,sports Shan and RJ nfl,dallas cowboys,sports Below the Belt: Dak praises Jerry Jones' urgency to get better players on the team DFW sports fans, this one's for you. The Shan & RJ show brings the heat with honest takes, sharp insight, and plenty of laughs covering the Cowboys, Mavericks, Rangers, Stars, and everything Texas sports. Hosted by longtime local favorites Shan Shariff and RJ Choppy, along with insider Bobby Belt, the show blends deep knowledge with real fan vibes — plus regular guests like Cowboys owner Jerry Jones, Head Coach Brian Schottenheimer and former players who keep the conversation fresh and real. New episodes drop Monday-Friday, or you can listen to Shan & RJ live on 105.3 The Fan, weekdays from 6–10 a.m. CT. © 2025 Audacy, Inc. Sports https://play

How To SERIOUSLY Improve Your Communication Skills

The Key To Being Successful With Cold Calling And Door Knocking

Rob and Jacob were on the ground at Bet Bash 2026 (August 4-7), and they're bringing back the biggest storylines from the event, including the fallout from Steve Fezzik's touting ethics seminar. Geoff missed the trip, and shares his perspective from watching it all unfold from home. The crew also dives into the latest out of the WNBA, from a player's claims of white privilege in the league to Enes Freedom and Royce White declaring for the WNBA. Plus, sportsbooks are taking an increasingly clear stance against prediction markets, and the guys break down whether it's coming from a place of genuine concern or fear of the competition. Join host Jacob Gramegna alongside Rob Pizzola and Geoff Fienberg on this episode of Circle Back, presented by ProphetX.

Stop Giving Free Labor and Work To Non Clients

Learn To Make Things Seem Like No Big Deal

You Need Other People For Everything You Want In Life

Socializing and Meeting New People Is Difficult by Design

This weeks intro we talk about every surfers hardest first world challenge ;  no surf!  Liam then shares how he's been staying stoked on his social life and enjoying his swims and Will talks about using Bristol Wave park and little wind swells here and there to keep some stoke alive.  We then go onto talk about how surfing provides so much but because it does, it has another side - not doing it! Be it through flat spells, injury , work, family, finances - not surfing is hard for surfers but there is a cure: being mindful of your habits (how you think, what you eat, how your relationships are - the more you focus on what you can control, the easier it is to accept because you “rely” less on surf.  Then there are also wave parks and surf skating but we know they'll never beat the mega sessions at the local beach. And here in lies the key message - that going without is good for us because it builds patience which builds a deeper stoke appreciation for when it does come around.  Stay stoked guys!  Will & Liam   

Can You Admit When You're Wrong

The Power Of Having Daily Missions

Laurence & Spiegs debate the effectiveness of the White Sox trade deadline moves.

Distraction Has Become The Silent Killer Of People's Lives

What if feeling worse is actually a sign you're improving? After a golf lesson, I walked onto the course expecting to play better. Instead, I played worse. That experience reminded me of one of the biggest lessons in business: every meaningful improvement feels awkward before it becomes natural. Whether you're learning sales, leadership, marketing, hiring, or any new skill, there's a period where your performance may actually decline. The entrepreneurs who succeed aren't the ones who avoid that target, they're the ones who push through it. In this episode, I share why embracing the uncomfortable learning phase is essential for long-term success and how it applies to every area of business and life. If you are feeling the love, make sure to subscribe, rate, and review on iTunes, Spotify, YouTube, or wherever you are!! If you'd like to be featured on an episode go to theidahobusinesspodcast.com to APPLY! Apple Podcasts Spotify  

Learn To Fight Or You'll Always Hesitate and Be Scared Of Anything That's Tough

Don't let Pop Culture Fool You

How Many Times Do You Need To Hear and Learn The SAME Things Over and Over

ALWAYS Assume That There Is Competition

We talk all the time about the fear of failing in recovery. But today I want to name the fear almost no one says out loud — the fear of actually succeeding. What if I do recover? Then what? Who am I without this? What would my life even become? Sis, that quiet terror is one of the biggest reasons high-achieving women stall out in recovery and never quite go all in. So today, on the heels of a reflective walk, we're talking about perfection, success, surrender — and a completely different way to measure whether you're "winning" at this. My biggest struggle in recovery Wanting it to be perfect. Flawless. Honestly? That perfectionism is what entrenched me in the eating disorder in the first place. Before I ever started recovering, I stayed in denial even longer because it felt safer — I couldn't fail if I stayed stuck. Then once I started the work, the story just shifted from "I'll be like this forever" to "I should be further along by now." And underneath both was fear. Not just the fear that I'd never get better — but the fear of the opposite. What would it mean for my life if I actually succeeded at this whole recovery thing? That's the question I want to ask you: what would it mean for your life if you quit playing small? If you fully surrendered to the process — knowing it doesn't have to be perfect, because you are perfectly flawed? The two sides of the same coin Fear of failure: What if I don't recover? What if this is just who I am? → leads to doubt and discouragement. Fear of success: What if I do recover? Then what? → the fear nobody names, and often the one keeping you stuck. Both are cultivated in control and in fear. And that very thing controlling you is exactly what you have to release to gain real freedom. Redefining success Society hands us a definition of success built on achievements, status, appearance, financial worth, influence — scroll Instagram and you'll feel it instantly. But I want you to shift the whole frame: From what you accomplish → to who you become in the process. Success does not equal full recovery. Success does not mean you checked every box today or "were good." Success equals becoming your best self. That simple. Constant growth leads to contentment — and that's the success you're actually after. So ask yourself: if I'm putting one foot in front of the other, growing my character, softening old behaviors… isn't that success? There's no gold medal for healing Here's the humbling, freeing truth: there's no PhD for recovery. No gold medal. Nobody's clapping (well — maybe your people, and your coach who sees how far you've come). You don't heal "better" than anyone else. It's the daily choices you make when no one is watching that lead to your success. It's not shiny. It's not applauded. It's yours. So if you say you want freedom — what are you actually doing to reach for it? Are you feeding the lie that it's just not available to you? Or are you making the quiet, unglamorous, pro-recovery choice again today? The most valuable thing you can make is a mistake You can't learn a thing from being perfect. It's your failures, your hard days, your challenges that hand you the momentum to bounce back. A client came to me this week and said, "Yesterday was awful. I didn't show up for myself. I let the disorder take over." And I asked her: "Do you want me to sit in that pity party and tell you how bad you were? Or do you want me to ask — where do we go from here? What's next?" She said, "You're right. I just need to put this down and start over. Tomorrow's a new day." The more you surrender and let be, the higher you rise. You weren't called to be perfect. You were called to be better. Let God be perfect — you're allowed to be perfectly flawed. The power of surrender The thing that's controlling you is the very thing you have to release to gain real freedom. Research on surrender in recovery has suggested that people who let go — who anchor their trust in something bigger than their own control — experience greater personal empowerment, more happiness, and stronger recovery outcomes. Courage, acceptance, and trust are required in recovery. So check where your trust is anchored. Is it in you being perfect? In checking every box? In getting it all exactly right today? That's the grip we have to loosen. A few lines from the episode "I couldn't fail if I stayed stuck." "Shift from defining success by what you accomplish to who you become in the process." "Success doesn't equal full recovery. Success equals becoming your best self." "There's no PhD for healing. It's the choices you make when no one is watching." "The most valuable thing you can make is a mistake — you can't learn anything from being perfect." "You weren't called to be perfect. You were called to be better. Let God be perfect." "The more you surrender and let be, the higher you rise." Your reflection this week What does success actually look like for you in recovery? Not materially — in character, in growth, in who you're becoming. Where do you spend your time and energy — inner-focused on becoming better, or outer-focused on looking better? What would it mean for your life if you succeeded? Sit with that one. It's often where the real fear hides. Where is your trust anchored — in your own perfection, or in something bigger than you? Measure the small wins this week, sis. That's the whole game. Ready for support? Connect with Lindsey:

Thanks to Grow Therapy for sponsoring this video! Head to https://growtherapy.yt.link/fdPWV2y to find your dream therapist today!Why does depression seem impossible to escape? In this video, I take a different approach by using humor and reverse psychology to explore five habits that quietly keep depression alive. From abandoning the things that once brought joy to comparing your real life with impossible standards, these patterns can trap you in a cycle that's difficult to recognize—but possible to change.We'll talk about why self-care actually creates self-worth, why trying to recover completely alone often backfires, how chasing only short-term pleasure keeps you emotionally stuck, and why comparison robs you of hope. I'll also share how these same traps have shown up in my own life.Recovery doesn't require perfection. It starts by noticing the patterns that keep you stuck—and choosing a different direction.If my podcast has helped, my new book, The Light Between the Leaves, goes even deeperNext Steps:

Stop Trying To convince people