Ever the Outsider

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In my travels, I've found that a lot of people suck. This is a podcast with people who don't.

Ever the Outsider


    • Dec 18, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 19m AVG DURATION
    • 46 EPISODES


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    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 46 - Women want babies in their 30s. (Duh.)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2024 23:40


    After escaping the Tampa Temptress, Duval finds himself in a relationship in New York--perhaps his first--and explores what it means to be a boyfriend and learns what a healthy relationship looks like.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 45 - Leaving, Tampa, Florida.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2024 18:04


    Duval is seduced again by a raven hair temptress (she's a delight I'm just being dramatic) and re-inserts himself in the womb of New York City comedy for the winter.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 44 - Tampa, Florida

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2023 9:15


    Duval walks and talks through Tampa, Florida.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 43 - SPECIAL GUEST BRIAN MURNANE

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2023 31:14


    Duval and his confidant Brian Murnane discuss everything from how they almost man-broke-up during COVID to whether or not Ace Ventura was based on a true story. You don't want to miss this hilarious episode.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 42 - Sexy New Beginnings

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2023 17:52


    Duval reflects on the beauty of conclusions, dating awful Boston women and the neccesity of passing along knowledge from generation to generation.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 41 - Friends, how many of us have them?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2023 20:50


    Duval discusses stopping seeking friendship when their season has ended and what defines a good one. He also reads from the January 1988 issue of GQ featuring a smart suit worn by Tom Hanks.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 40 - Meet your pain. Don't fight it.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2023 20:10


    Duval's back in the woods but building momentum as he learns how to better face his demons.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 39 - Your Angry Barista

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2023 22:12


    Duval reflects on the general state of people's temperament and bitterness, as well as the root of gun violence in America. No biggie.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 38 - Escape from LA (Again)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2023 30:51


    Duval escapes the city of angels, finds a bit of solace in Wisconsin and ponders maternal comfort.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 37 - To Live and Die in L.A. (again)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2023 20:41


    Duval reflects on the COVID PTSD the city of Los Angeles seems to be buried under, dating in L.A., as well as discussing being an elder millennial comedian, being attacked by the homeless and The Last of Us queer narratives.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 36 - Merry Christmas

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2022 17:39


    Duval discusses powerful dreams, somatic trauma and LA weirdness.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 35 - Post-COVID Relationships Getting Weird

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2022 16:06


    Duval talks about getting laid off and relationships getting weird in the wake of COVID.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 34 - The Off-ramp to Mediocrity.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2022 19:31


    Duval escapes Nashville, heads home for some procedures and reflects on comfort.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 33 - A Lonely 36th Birthday

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2022 15:48


    Duval reflects on ambition, blowjobs and the path forward.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 32 - The Lonely Man

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2022 20:40


    Hulk need companionship and also gets shot down by a girl in a wheelchair. *VIDEO NOW AVAILABLE ON SPOTIFY*

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 31 - The F*ck Boi Meets the Booty Doctor

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2022 23:47


    The death of casual dating and a deep dive into Duval's depths.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 30 - Empathy Men

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2022 25:00


    Duval softens and ponders what it is to feel for other...hu-mons.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 29 - Hudson Valley AIDS

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2021 26:54


    The tick kiss of death and a psuedo breakup send The Commodore down a dark path.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 28 - The Emergency Appendectomy

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2021 22:55


    Duval's anger and stress finally takes a physical toll.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 27 - "Yo bro, did u kill yourself?"

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2021 22:12


    A wellness check goes awry.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 26 - Serial Killers, Depersonalization and the Black Dennis Miller.

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2021 26:29


    Duval's life is chaos and he tries to find "Normal" by laying in bed all day.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 25 - Black to the Future

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2021 11:39


    Duval analyzes mommy issues through Back to the Future 2.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 24 - Escape from New York (Again)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2021 24:07


    Duval musters the stremph to Escape Kingston and finds his problems waiting for him in the City of Angels.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 23 - White Champagne in Harlem

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2020 17:51


    It's a bit early for champagne, Becky.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 22 - The Fair-Weather Liberal

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2020 22:54


    Duval gets asked to not speak his truth in front of a business.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 21 - Activist Therapist and Voting Ain't For Everybody

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2020 19:01


    Duval gets a therapist who checks her privilege a little too hard and talks about the first 2020 (un)Presidential debates.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 20 - Happy 9/11

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2020 21:54


    Duval reminiscences about 9/11, scapegoating and the PTSD we're still fighting.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 19 - Mumford & Sons Open a Co-Working Space

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2020 20:25


    In the midst of a global pandemic and economic uncertainty, Kingston gets exactly it needs: A high-end, members only (subject to approval), co-working space.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 18 - Happy Birthday To Me and Racial Bias Commercials

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2020 24:42


    Duval reflects on his birthday and rants about white liberals who think black people are as weak as they are.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 17 - Health Vacations and Lesbian Bachelorette Parties

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2020 21:46


    Duval ponders where to go for a healthy birthday and tangles with lesbians once more.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 16 - Prisons Have Long Ass Lines

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2020 19:07


    Duval recalls visiting his father's medieval fortress and discusses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy...and white women.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 15 - Comfort & Familiarity vs Sangria Dreams

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 23, 2020 24:06


    Duval had some sangria and reflects on comfort and familiarity in his 30s vs chasing your dreams when it's a little harder to do so.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 14 - White Silence is Bliss

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2020 19:18


    To quote David Chappelle, "White women, I support you. But ya'll don't SHUT THE FUCK UP..."

    Ouch My 30s: Ep 13 - Central Park Karens, Minneapolis Murder and a Fate Worse Than Nigger.

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2020 18:45


    Duval draws the correlation between rich white women, the liberal savior complex and how much black people can take.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 12 - Home from the Ronatrip and Hypocritical Bio-Gentrifier Rants

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2020 19:09


    Duval finds unexpected support from his stepdad and when he gets home, the rich white liberal gentrifiers have a new gig.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 11 - Coronatrip (Akron, Ohio)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2020 18:18


    Duval wanders out into America amidst a pandemic.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep 10 - Sins of the Father

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2020 17:35


    Duval's dad breaks quarantine for some crab legs.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep 9 - Paternity is a Legal Fiction

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2020 18:55


    Fatherhood, in the sense of conscious begetting, is unknown to man. It is a mystical estate, an apostolic succession, from only begetter to only begotten. On that mystery and not on the madonna which the cunning Italian intellect flung to the mob of Europe the church is founded and founded irremovably because founded, like the world, macro and microcosm, upon the void. Upon incertitude, upon unlikelihood. Amor matris, subjective and objective genitive, may be the only true thing in life. Paternity may be a legal fiction. Who is the father of any son that any son should love him or he any son? - From “Ulysses” by James Joyce

    Ouch My 30s: Ep 8 - Surprise, You Have a Dad!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2020 16:36


    From out of no where, after 33 years, Duval gets a Dad!

    Ouch My 30s: Ep 7 - The Last Time You Were Happy

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2020 18:50


    Duval discusses his incarcerated father's screenplay, the last time we were happy and wondering if we can ever start over.

    Ouch My 30s: Ep. 6 - Isolation

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2020 13:57


    Make your isolation a kingdom!

    Ouch My 30s: Episode 5 - Working from Home

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2020 13:58


    Rambling about working from home and whats next

    Ouch My 30s: Episode 3 - Depression

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2020 19:37


    Before, in your youth, depression was this ephemeral thing. In your 30s, it takes a different toll.

    Ouch My 30s: Episode 2 - Friendships

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2020 13:06


    Once I friend was simply a person you drank Smirnoff Ice with. In your 30s, it's probably something different.

    Ouch My 30s: Episode 1 - An Introduction

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2020 12:58


    The beginning of riffing on the decade no one prepared us for.

    Ouch My 30s: Episode 4 - Coronavirus and White Claw

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2020 6:30


    Or how to podcast from your mothers garage.

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