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The Future of Everything presented by Stanford Engineering
Best of: The future of depression care

The Future of Everything presented by Stanford Engineering

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2026 30:17


As 2026 gets underway we know that many take time around this new beginning to improve not only their physical, but also their mental health. With that in mind, we're rerunning an episode with Leanne Williams on the future of depression care. Leanne is an expert on clinical depression and is working on new ways to more precisely diagnose depression in order to develop more effective treatment. For anyone who has suffered from depression or knows someone who has, it's an episode that provides hope for what's on the horizon. We hope you'll take another listen and also share this episode with anyone who you think may benefit from the conversation. Episode Reference Links:Stanford Profile: Leanne WilliamsConnect With Us:Episode Transcripts >>> The Future of Everything WebsiteConnect with Russ >>> Threads / Bluesky / MastodonConnect with School of Engineering >>> Twitter/X / Instagram / LinkedIn / FacebookChapters:(00:00:00) IntroductionRuss Altman introduces guest Leanne Williams, a professor of Psychiatry and Behavioral Science at Stanford University.(00:01:43) What Is Depression?Distinguishing clinical depression from everyday sadness.(00:03:31) Current Depression Treatment ChallengesThe trial-and-error of traditional depression treatments and their timelines.(00:06:16) Brain Mapping and Circuit DysfunctionsAdvanced imaging techniques and their role in understanding depression.(00:09:03) Diagnosing with Brain ImagingHow brain imaging can complement traditional diagnostic methods in psychiatry.(00:10:22) Depression BiotypesIdentifying six distinct biotypes of depression through brain imaging.(00:12:31) Cognitive Features of DepressionHow cognitive impairment plays a major role in certain depression biotypes.(00:14:11) Matching Treatments to BiotypesFinding appropriate treatments sooner using brain-based diagnostics.(00:15:38) Expanding Treatment OptionsPersonalizing therapies and improving treatment outcomes based on biotypes.(00:19:03) AI in Depression TreatmentUsing AI to refine biotypes and predict treatment outcomes with greater accuracy.(00:22:15) Psychedelics in Depression TreatmentThe potential for psychedelic drugs to target specific biotypes of depression.(00:23:46) Expanding the Biotypes FrameworkIntegrating multimodal approaches into the biotype framework.(00:27:29) Reducing Stigma in DepressionHow showing patients their brain imaging results reduces self-blame and stigma.(00:29:38) Conclusion Connect With Us:Episode Transcripts >>> The Future of Everything WebsiteConnect with Russ >>> Threads / Bluesky / MastodonConnect with School of Engineering >>>Twitter/X / Instagram / LinkedIn / Facebook Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

American Journal of Psychiatry Audio
Special Episode: 2025 Articles of Import and Impact

American Journal of Psychiatry Audio

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2026


This special episode of AJP Audio brings together the editors of the American Journal Psychiatry and the AJP Residents' Journal to discuss important and impactful articles published in 2025. 00:39   Ned H. Kalin, M.D., discusses "Transcriptomic Analysis of the Human Habenula in Schizophrenia" by Ege A. Yalcinbas, Ph.D., et al. 06:23   Elisabeth Binder, M.D., Ph.D., discusses "Copy Number Variant Architecture of Child Psychopathology and Cognitive Development in the ABCD Study" by Zhiqiang Sha, Ph.D., et al. 11:17   Kathleen T. Brady, M.D., Ph.D., discusses "High-Potency Cannabis Use and Health: A Systematic Review of Observational and Experimental Studies" by Stephanie Lake, Ph.D., et al. 15:35   David A. Lewis, M.D., discusses "20 Years of Aberrant Salience in Psychosis: What Have We Learned?" by Philip R. Corlett, Ph.D., and Kurt M. Fraser, Ph.D. 17:27   William M. McDonald, M.D., discusses "Psychedelics for the Treatment of Psychiatric Disorders: Interpreting and Translating Available Evidence and Guidance for Future Research" by Roger S. McIntyre, M.D., F.R.C.P.C., et al. 24:04   Daniel S. Pine, M.D., discusses "Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Lisdexamfetamine, Alone and Combined, for Binge-Eating Disorder With Obesity: A Randomized Controlled Trial" by Carlos M. Grilo, Ph.D., et al. 26:06   Carolyn Rodriguez, M.D., Ph.D., discusses "Randomized Controlled Trial of the Effects of High-Dose Ondansetron on Clinical Symptoms and Brain Connectivity in Obsessive-Compulsive and Tic Disorders" by Emily R. Stern, Ph.D., et al. 30:26   Sean T. Lynch, M.D., discusses "From Medical Practice to Mass Incarceration: A Historical Analysis of Racial and Ethnic Targeting in U.S. Drug Policy" by Rathisha Pathmathasan, D.O., et al. Transcript Be sure to let your colleagues know about the podcast, and please rate and review it on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen to it. Subscribe to the podcast here. Listen to other podcasts produced by the American Psychiatric Association. Browse articles online. How authors may submit their work. Follow the journals of APA Publishing on Twitter. E-mail us at ajp@psych.org  

Radically Genuine Podcast
216. I Was A Prisoner Of My Own Mind w/ Dr. Riz Ahmad

Radically Genuine Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2026 123:03


Dr. Riz Ahmad could have been diagnosed with social anxiety, autism spectrum, and depression as a teenager. Instead, he became one of the most talented psychologists I've ever worked with.In this episode, Riz shares his journey from fear-driven perfectionist—completely fused with his mind and disconnected from his body—to an eight-week stay at a Zen Buddhist monastery that changed everything. What happened when his mind finally went quiet? And what does his story reveal about the dangers of how we label and treat human suffering today?A radically genuine conversation about ego, consciousness, and what mainstream psychology is missing. Visit Center for Integrated Behavioral HealthDr. Roger McFillin / Radically Genuine WebsiteYouTube @RadicallyGenuineDr. Roger McFillin (@DrMcFillin) / XSubstack | Radically Genuine | Dr. Roger McFillinInstagram @radicallygenuineContact Radically GenuineConscious Clinician CollectivePLEASE SUPPORT OUR PARTNERS15% Off Pure Spectrum CBD (Code: RadicallyGenuine)10% off Lovetuner click here

Front Porch Book Club
Bryan Denny

Front Porch Book Club

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2026 26:22


Dr. Bryan Denny joins us to further our understanding of emotional regulation research, particularly research that combines traditional diagnostic approaches with neurobiology. Bryan is a tenured Associate Professor in the Department of Psychological Sciences at Rice University and Director of the Translational Social Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience Lab. Bryan 's research is a fascinating complement to our book this month: Ethan Kross's SHIFT: MANAGING YOUR EMOTIONS SO THEY DON'T MANAGE YOU.Bryan's research seeks to understand the psychological and neurobiological mechanisms that underlie successful and unsuccessful emotion regulation across a spectrum of healthy and clinical populations. He is interested in utilizing the results of basic investigations into these processes in order to design and examine novel interventions focused on improving real-world emotion regulation outcomes in a variety of contexts. Bryan tells us what emotion regulation is and then explains some of the evidence-based techniques used to do so, citing Ethan Kross' book and also the work of James Gross and Lisa Feldman Barrett. He compares the cognitive basis of emotional regulation to the behaviorist tradition that once dominated psychology.Bryan tells us about his work combining cognitive research and neurobiology. Neurobiology uses technologies, such as fMRIs, to show how the brain is operating. Bryan believes there will always be a place for cognitive counseling and its techniques, such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, but that the addition of neuroscience opens up new ways of understanding emotions and creating interventions.Bryan conducts longitudinal emotion regulation research at his lab, and has recently been focusing on populations such as caregivers and bereaved persons.We loved this episode and all the information Dr. Denny shared with us. We are hopeful listeners won't be too distracted by the sometimes poor audio.

The Matt Walker Podcast
#121 - A Practical Guide To Insomnia

The Matt Walker Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2026 23:52


Matt delves into insomnia, defining it as a persistent struggle to sleep despite having the opportunity. He presents "Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia" (CBTI) as the scientifically validated gold standard, and details the five pillars: stimulus control to rebuild the bed-sleep association, time-in-bed restriction to boost efficiency, sleep hygiene, cognitive restructuring, and relaxation. These strategies retrain the brain to treat the bed as a sanctuary, deactivating the psychological triggers of wakefulness.The episode also addresses the physiological impacts of caffeine, alcohol, and nighttime rumination. Walker contrasts traditional "Z-drugs," which may hinder glymphatic housekeeping, with newer "DORAs" that target the orexin system like a dimmer switch. While discussing tools like Trazodone, he emphasizes that CBTI's aim is to restore the body's innate sleep signals. These evidence-based interventions offer a lasting payoff by aligning behavior with our deep biological needs.Please note that Matt is not a medical doctor, and none of the content in this podcast should be considered medical advice in any way, shape, or form, nor prescriptive in any way.Clean biological living requires precision. Podcast partner Caraway's non-toxic ceramic cookware eliminates deleterious "forever chemicals" for a seamless, slide-off-the-pan cooking experience. Save $190 on sets plus 10% off at Carawayhome.com/mattwalker. Caraway. Non-Toxic kitchenware made modern.In a supplement industry where trust is critical, Matt uses podcast supporter Puori. Their protein powders are free from hormones, GMOs, and pesticides, with every single batch third-party tested for over 200 contaminants. For protein you can trust, save 20% at puori.com/mattwalker.As always, if you have thoughts or feedback you'd like to share, please reach out to Matt:Matt: Instagram @drmattwalker, X @sleepdiplomat, YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCA3FB1fOtY4Vd8yqLaUvolg

Healthy Work
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Workbook for Leaders

Healthy Work

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2026 27:29


In Episode 111, we kick off 2026 with a powerful conversation featuring Drs. Julian Barling and Simon Rego, co-authors of The Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Workbook for Leaders. Together, they explore how evidence-based psychological strategies can help leaders manage stress, burnout, anxiety, and other mental health challenges that undermine leadership effectiveness.Key insights include:* Why mental health isn't just personal—it's professional, and how leaders' emotional states shape organizational culture.* Practical, science-backed tools from therapy to improve resilience and decision-making.* How leaders can use this workbook to build skills privately, cost-effectively, and sustainably.* Why focusing on leaders' well-being is critical for team performance and psychological safety.* The surprising gap in research on leaders' mental health—and what needs to change.You can find Dr. Barling at https://julianbarling.com/You can find Dr. Rego at https://www.simonrego.com/You can purchase their book from the publisher here:https://www.newharbinger.com/9781648484773/the-cognitive-behavioral-therapy-workbook-for-leaders/?srsltid=AfmBOorV2FnZrax04gQ-Q-3ToPAaNfiQycuNWq890eHfcb5CrdTq5bNe This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit healthywork.substack.com

Live Like the World is Dying
Smokey on Mental Health First Aid (re-air)

Live Like the World is Dying

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2026 71:28 Transcription Available


Episode Notes This week on Live Like the World is Dying, we have another re-run episode. Margaret and Smokey talk about ways to go about mental first aid, how to alter responses to trauma for you self and as a community, different paths to resiliency, and why friendship and community are truly the best medicine. Host Info Margaret can be found on twitter @magpiekilljoy or instagram at @margaretkilljoy. Publisher Info This show is published by Strangers in A Tangled Wilderness. We can be found at www.tangledwilderness.org, or on Twitter @TangledWild and Instagram @Tangled_Wilderness. You can support the show on Patreon at www.patreon.com/strangersinatangledwilderness. Transcript LLWD:Smokey on Mental First Aid Margaret 00:15 Hello and welcome to Live Like the World is Dying, your podcast are what feels like the end times. I'm your host, Margaret killjoy. And, this week or month...or let's just go with 'episode'. This episode is going to be all about mental health and mental health first aid and ways to take care of your mental health and ways to help your community and your friends take care of their mental health, and I think you'll like it. But first, this podcast is a proud member of the Channel Zero network of anarchists podcasts. And here's a jingle from another show on the network. Margaret 01:52 Okay, with me today is Smokey. Smokey, could you introduce yourself with your your name, your pronouns, and I guess a little bit about your background about mental health stuff? Smokey 02:04 Sure, I'm Smokey. I live and work in New York City. My pronouns are 'he' and 'him.' For 23 years, I've been working with people managing serious mental illness in an intentional community, I have a degree in psychology, I have taught psychology at the University level, I have been doing social work for a long time, but I've been an anarchist longer. Margaret 02:43 So so the reason I want to have you on is I want to talk about mental health first aid, or I don't know if that's the way it normally gets expressed, but that's the way I see it in my head. Like how are...I guess it's a big question, but I'm interested in exploring ways that we can, as bad things happen that we experience, like some of the best practices we can do in order to not have that cause lasting mental harm to us. Which is a big question. But maybe that's my first question anyway. Smokey 03:12 I mean, the, the truth is bad things will happen to us. It's part of living in the world, and if you are a person that is heavily engaged in the world, meaning, you know, you're involved in politics, or activism, or even just curious about the world, you will probably be exposed on a more regular basis to things that are bad, that can traumatize us. But even if you're not involved in any of those things, you're going to go through life and have really difficult things happen to you. Now, the good news is, that's always been the case for people. We've always done this. And the good news is, we actually know a lot about what goes into resilience. So, how do you bounce back quickly and hopefully thrive after these experiences? I think that is an area that's only now being really examined in depth. But, we have lots of stories and some research to show that actually when bad things happen to us, there is an approach that actually can help catalyst really impressive strength and move...change our life in a really positive direction. We also know that for most people, they have enough reserve of resiliency that....and they can draw upon other resiliency that they're not chronically affected by it, however, and I would argue how our society is kind of structured, we're seeing more and more people that are suffering from very serious chronic effects of, what you said, bad things happening, or what is often traumatic things but it's not just traumatic things that cause chronic problems for us. But, that is the most kind of common understanding so, so while most people with most events will not have a chronic problem, and you can actually really use those problems, those I'm sorry, those events, let's call them traumatic events, those traumatic events they'll really actually improve your thriving, improve your life and your relationship to others in the world. The fact is, currently, it's an ever growing number of people that are having chronic problems. And that's because of the system. Margaret 06:19 Yeah, there's this like, there was an essay a while ago about it, I don't remember it very well, but it's called "We Are Also Very Anxious," and it it was claiming that anxiety is one of the general affects of society today, because of kind of what you're talking about, about systems that set us up to be anxious all the time and handle things in... Smokey 06:42 I think what most people don't understand is, it is consciously, in the sense that it's not that necessarily it's the desire to have the end goal of people being anxious, and people being traumatized, but it is conscious in that we know this will be the collateral outcome of how we set up the systems. That I think is fairly unique and and really kind of pernicious. Margaret 07:17 What are some of the systems that are setting us up to be anxious or traumatized? Smokey 07:23 Well, I'm gonna reverse it a little bit, Margaret. I'm going to talk about what are the things we need to bounce back or have what has been called 'resilience,' and then you and I can explore how our different systems actually make us being able to access that much more difficult. Margaret 07:47 Okay. Oh, that makes sense. Smokey 07:49 The hallmark of resiliency, ironically, is that it's not individual. Margaret 07:57 Okay. Smokey 07:57 In fact, if you look at the research, there are very few, there's going to be a couple, there's gonna be three of them, but very few qualities of an individual psychology or makeup that is a high predictor of resiliency. Margaret 08:20 Okay. Smokey 08:21 And these three are kind of, kind of vague in the sense they're not, they're not terribly dramatic, in a sense. One is, people that tend to score higher on appreciation of humor, tends to be a moderate predictor of resiliency. Margaret 08:46 I like that one. Smokey 08:47 You don't have to be funny yourself. But you can appreciate humor. Seems to be a....and this is tends to be a cross cultural thing. It's pretty low. There are plenty of people that that score very low on that, that also have resiliency. That's the other thing, I'll say that these three personality traits are actually low predictors of resiliency. Margaret 09:13 Compared to the immunity ones that you're gonna talk about? Smokey 09:16 So one is appreciation of humor seems to be one. So, these are intrinsic things that, you know, maybe we got from our family, but but we hold them in ourselves, right? The second one is usually kind of put down as 'education.' And there tends to be a reverse bell curve. If you've had very, very low education, you tend to be more resilient. If you've had extreme professionalization, you know, being a doctor, being a lawyer, well, not even being a lawyer, because that's the only...but many, many years of schooling, PhD things like that, it's not what you study. There's something about... Smokey 10:10 Yeah, or that you didn't. They're almost equal predictors of who gets traumatized. And then the the last one is kind of a 'sense of self' in that it's not an ego strength as we kind of understand it, but it is an understanding of yourself. The people that take the surveys, that they score fairly high....So I give you a survey and say, "What do you think about Smokey on these different attributes?" You give me a survey and say, "Smokey, how would you rate yourself on these different attributes?" Margaret 10:11 It's that you studied. Margaret 10:32 Okay. Smokey 10:59 So, it's suggesting that I have some self-reflexivity about what my strengths and weaknesses are. I can only know that because they're married by these also. Margaret 11:11 Okay. So it's, it's not about you rating yourself high that makes you resilient, it's you rating yourself accurately tohow other people see you. Smokey 11:18 And again, I want to stress that these are fairly low predictors. Now, you'll read a million books, kind of pop like, or the, these other ones. But when you actually look at the research, it's not, you know, it's not that great. So those..however, the ones that are big are things like 'robustness of the social network.' So how many relations and then even more, if you go into depth, 'what are those relationships' and quantity does actually create a certain level of quality, interestingly, especially around things called 'micro-social interactions,' which are these interactions that we don't even think of as relationships, maybe with storepersons, how many of these we have, and then certain in depth, having that combined with a ring of kind of meaningful relationships. And meaningful meaning not necessarily who is most important to me, but how I share and, and share my emotions and my thoughts and things like that. So, there's a lot on that. That is probably the strongest predictor of resilience. Another big predictor of resilience is access to diversity in our social networks. So, having diverse individuals tend to give us more resiliency, and having 'time,' processing time, also gives us more...are high predictors of resiliency, the largest is a 'sense of belonging.' Margaret 13:14 Okay. Smokey 13:15 So that trauma...events that affect our sense of belonging, and this is why children who have very limited opportunities to feel a sense of belonging, which are almost always completely limited, especially for very young children to the family, if that is cut off due to the trauma, or it's already dysfunctional and has nothing to do with the trauma, that sense of belonging, that lack of sense of belonging makes it very difficult to maintain resilience. So. So those are the things that, in a nutshell, we're going to be talking about later about 'How do we improve these?' and 'How do we maximize?' And 'How do we leverage these for Mental Health First Aid?' We can see how things like the internet, social media, capitalism, you know, kind of nation state building, especially as we understand it today, all these kinds of things errode a lot of those things that we would want to see in building resilient people. Margaret 14:28 Right. Smokey 14:28 And, you know, making it more difficult to access those things that we would need. Margaret 14:34 No, that's...this...Okay, yeah, that makes it obvious that the answer to my question of "What are the systems that deny us resiliency?" are just all of this. Yeah, because we're like....most people don't have...there's that really depressing statistic or the series of statistics about the number of friends that adults have in our society, and how it keeps going down every couple of decades. Like, adults just have fewer and fewer friends. And that... Smokey 15:00 The number, the number is the same for children, though too. Margaret 15:05 Is also going down, is what you're saying? Smokey 15:07 Yes. They have more than adults. But compared to earlier times, they have less. So, the trend is not as steep as a trendline. But, but it is still going down. And more importantly, there was a big change with children at one point, and I'm not sure when it historically happened. But, the number of people they interacted with, was much more diverse around age. Margaret 15:39 Oh, interesting. Smokey 15:40 So they had access to more diversity. Margaret 15:43 Yeah, yeah. When you talk about access to diversity, I assume that's diversity in like a lot of different axis, right? I assume that's diversity around like people's like cultural backgrounds, ethnic backgrounds, age. Like, but even like... Smokey 15:56 Modes of thought. Margaret 15:58 Yeah, well, that's is my guess, is that if you're around more people, you have more of an understanding that like, reality is complicated, and like different people see things in different ways. And so therefore, you have a maybe a less rigid idea of what should happen. So, then if something happens outside of that, you're more able to cope, or is this...does... like, because I look at each of these things and I can say why I assume they affect resiliency, but obviously, that's not what you're presenting, you're not presenting how they affect resiliency, merely that they seem to? Smokey 16:34 Yeah, and I don't know, if we know exactly how they affect, and we don't know how they...the effect of them together, you know, social sciences, still pretty primitive. So they, they need to look at single variables, often. But you know, we know with chemistry and biology and ecology, which I think are a little more sophisticated...and physics, which is more sophisticated. The real interesting stuff is in the combinations. Margaret 17:09 Yeah. Okay. Smokey 17:10 So what happens when you have, you know, diversity, but also this diverse and robust social network? Is that really an addition? Or is that a multiplication moment? For resiliency. Margaret 17:23 Right. And then how does that affect like, if that comes at the expense of...well, it probably wouldn't, but if it came at the expense of processing time or something. Smokey 17:33 Exactly. Margaret 17:35 Or, like, you know, okay, I could see how it would balance with education in that, like, I think for a lot of people the access to diversity that they encounter first is like going off to college, right, like meeting people from like, different parts of the world, or whatever. Smokey 17:49 I forgot to mention one other one, but it is, 'meaning.' Meaning is very important. People that score high, or report, meaning deep, kind of core meaning also tend to have higher resiliency. That being said, they...and don't, don't ever confuse resiliency with like, happiness or contentment. It just means that the dysfunction or how far you're knocked off track due to trauma, and we're, we're using trauma in the larger sense of the word, you know, how long it takes you to get back on track, or whether you can even get back on track to where you were prior to the event is what we're talking about. So it's not, this is not a guide to happiness or living a fulfilled life. It's just a guide to avoid the damage. Margaret 19:01 But if we made one that was a specifically a 'How to have a happy life,' I feel like we could sell it and then have a lot of money.Have you considered that? [lauging] Smokey 19:11 Well one could argue whether that's even desirable to have a happy life. That's a whole philosophical thing. That's well beyond my paygrade Margaret 19:22 Yeah, every now and then I have this moment, where I realized I'm in this very melancholy mood, and I'm getting kind of kind of happy about it. And I'm like, "Oh, I'm pretty comfortable with this. This is a nice spot for me." I mean, I also like happiness, too, but you know. Okay, so, this certainly implies that the, the way forward for anyone who's attempting to build resiliency, the sort of holistic solution is building community. Like in terms of as bad stuff happens. Is that... Smokey 19:58 Community that's...and community not being just groups. Okay, so you can, I think, you know, the Internet has become an expert at creating groups. There lots of groups. But community, or communitas or the sense of belonging is more than just a shared interest and a shared knowledge that there's other like-minded people. You'll hear the internet was great for like minded people to get together. But, the early internet was really about people that were sharing and creating meaning together. And I think that was very powerful. That, you know, that seems harder to access on today's Internet, and certainly the large social media platforms are consciously designed to achieve certain modes of experience, which do not lend themselves to that. Margaret 21:06 Right, because it's like the...I don't know the word for this. Smokey 21:10 It's Capitalism. Like, yeah, we're hiding the ball. The ball is Capitalism. Margaret 21:14 Yeah. Smokey 21:14 And how they decided to go with an advertising model as opposed to any other model, and that requires attention. Margaret 21:21 Yeah. Because it seems like when you talk about a robust social network, I mean, you know, theoretically, social network, like social networks, you know, Twitter calls itself a social network, right? And is there anything in the micro social interactions that one has online? Is there value in that? Or do you think that the overall...I mean, okay, because even like looking at... Smokey 21:46 I think there has to be value, I think, yeah, they did. I was reading just today, actually, about research, it was in England, with...this one hospital decided to send postcards to people who had been hospitalized for suicidal attempts. Margaret 22:09 Okay. Smokey 22:10 Most of them ended up in the mental health thing, some of them didn't, because they they left beyond, you know, against medical advice, or whatever. But, anyone that came in presenting with that a month, and then three months later, they sent another postcard just saying, "You know, we're all thinking about you, we're hoping you're all you're doing, alright. We have faith in you," that kind of thing like that, right. Nice postcard, purposely chosen to have a nice scene, sent it out. And they followed up, and they found a significant reduction in further attempts, rehospitalizations of these people, so that's a very, you know, there's no, it's a one way communication, it's not person-to-person, and it had some impact on I would guess one could argue the resiliency of those people from giving into suicidal ideation. Right. Margaret 23:13 Yeah. Smokey 23:14 So I think this is to say that, you know, we'd be...unplugging the internet, you know, that kind of Luddite approach doesn't make sense. There is a value to answer your question to the the internet's micro social interactions. It's just we...it's complicated, because you can't just have micro-social interactions unfortunately, but you need them. Margaret 23:44 Yeah. No, that that's really interesting to me, because yeah, so there's, there is a lot of value that is coming from these things, but then the overall effect is this like, like, for example, even like access to diversity, right? In a lot of ways, theoretically, the Internet gives you access to like everything. But then, instead, it's really designed to create echo chambers in the way that the algorithms and stuff feed people information. And echo chambers of thought is the opposite of diversity, even if the echo chamber of thought is like about diversity. Smokey 24:16 Yeah, I mean, it's set up again, almost as if it were to kind of naturally organically grow, we would probably have just as chaotic and and people would still just be as angry at the Internet, but it probably would develop more resilience in people. Because it wouldn't be stunted by this need to attract attention. The easiest way to do that is through outrage. Easiest way to do that is quickly and fast, so it takes care of your processing time. And relative anonymity is the coin of these kinds of things, you know, that's why bots and things like that, you know, they're not even humans, right? You know, they're just...so all these kinds of things stunt and deform, what could potentially be useful, not a silver bullet, and certainly not necessary to develop resiliency, strong resiliency. You don't need the internet to do that. And there are certain...using the internet, you know, there's going to be certain serious limitations because of the design, how it's designed. Margaret 25:42 Okay, well, so hear me out. If the internet really started coming in latter half of the 20th century, that kind of lines up to when cloaks went out of style.... Smokey 25:54 Absolutely, that's our big problem. And they haven't done any research on cloak and resiliency. Margaret 26:00 I feel that everyone who wears a cloak either has a sense of belonging, or a distinct lack of a sense of belonging. Probably start off with a lack of sense of belonging, but you end up with a sense of belonging So, okay, okay. Smokey 26:15 So I want to say that there's two things that people confuse and a very important. One, is how to prevent chronic effects from traumatic experiences. And then one is how to take care of, if you already have or you you develop a chronic effect of traumatic experiences. Nothing in the psychology literature, sociology literature, anthropology literature, obviously, keeps you from having traumatic experiences. Margaret 26:52 Right. Smokey 26:54 So one is how to prevent it from becoming chronic, and one is how to deal with chronic and they're not the same, they're quite, quite different. So you know, if you already have a chronic traumatic response of some sort, post traumatic stress syndrome, or any of the other related phenomena, you will approach that quite differently than building resilience, which doesn't protect you from having trauma, a traumatic experience. It just allows you to frame it, understand it, maybe if you're lucky, thrive and grow from it. But at worst, get you back on track in not having any chronic problems. Margaret 27:48 Okay, so it seems like there's three things, there's the holistic, building a stronger base of having a community, being more resilient in general. And then there's the like direct first aid to crisis and trauma, and then there's the long term care for the impacts of trauma. Okay, so if so, we've talked a bit about the holistic part of it, you want to talk about the the crisis, the thing to do in the immediate sense as it's happening or whatever? Smokey 28:15 For yourself or for somebody else? Margaret 28:18 Let's start with self. Smokey 28:20 So, self is go out and connect to your social network as much as you can, which is the opposite of what your mind and body is telling you. And that's why I think so much of the quote unquote, "self-care" movement is so wrong. You kind of retreat from your social network, things are too intense, I'm going to retreat from your social network. The research suggests that's the opposite of what you should be doing, you should connect. Now, if you find yourself in an unenviable situation where you don't have a social network, then you need to connect to professionals, because they, they can kind of fill in for that social Network. Therapists, social workers, peer groups, support groups, things like that they can kind of fill in for that. The problem is you don't have that sense of belonging. Well, with support groups, you might. You see this often in AA groups or other support groups. You don't really get that in therapy or or group therapy so much. But that is the first thing and so connect to your group. Obviously on the other side, if you're trying to help your community, your group, you need to actively engage that person who has been traumatized. Margaret 29:33 Yeah, okay. Smokey 29:35 And it's going to be hard. And you need to keep engaging them and engaging them in what? Not distractions: Let's go to a movie, get some ice cream, let's have a good time. And not going into the details of the traumatic experience so much as reconnecting them to the belonging, our friendship, if that. Our political movement, if that. Our religious movement, if that. Whatever that...whatever brought you two together. And that could be you being the community in this person, or could be you as Margaret in this person connecting on that, doubling down on that, and often I see people do things like, "Okay, let's do some self care, or let's, let's do the opposite of whatever the traumatic experience was," if it came from, say oppression, either vicarious or direct through political involvement let's, let's really connect on a non-political kind of way. Margaret 31:19 Ah I see! Smokey 31:21 And I'm saying, "No, you should double down on the politics," reminding them of right what you're doing. Not the trauma necessarily not like, "Oh, remember when you got beaten up, or your, your significant other got arrested or got killed by the police," but it's connecting to meaning, and bringing the community together. Showing the resiliency of the community will vicariously and contagiously affect the individual. And again, doesn't have to be political could be anything. Margaret 32:01 Yeah. Is that? How does that that feels a little bit like the sort of 'get right back on the horse kind of thing.' But then like, in terms of like, socially, rather than, because we 'get back on the horse,' might mean might imply, "Oh, you got beat up at a riot. So go out to the next riot." And that's what you're saying instead is so "Involve you in the fundraising drive for the people who are dealing with this including you," or like... Smokey 32:28 And allowing an expectation that the individual who's been traumatized, might be having a crisis of meaning. And allowing that conversation, to flow and helping that person reconnect to what they found meaningful to start with. So getting right back on the horse again, it's reminding them why they love horses. Margaret 33:02 Yeah. Okay, that makes sense. Okay, I have another question about the the crisis first aid thing, because there's something that, you know, something that you talked to me about a long time ago, when I was working on a lot of like reframing. I was working on coping with trauma. And so maybe this actually relates instead to long term care for trauma. And I, I thought of this as a crisis first aid kind of thing, is I'll use a like, low key example. When I was building my cabin, I'm slightly afraid of heights, not terribly, but slightly. And so I'm on a ladder in the middle of nowhere with no one around and I'm like climbing up the ladder, and I'm nailing in boards. And I found myself saying, "Oh, well, I only have three more boards. And then I'm done. I can get off the ladder. "And then I was like, "No, what I need to do is say, it's actually fine, I am fine. And I can do this," rather than like counting down until I can get off the ladder. And so this is like a way that I've been working on trying to build resiliency, you can apply this to lots of things like if I'm on an airplane, and I'm afraid of flying or something I can, instead of being like, "Five more hours and then we're there. Four more hours and then we're there," instead of being like, "It's actually totally chill that I'm on an airplane. This is fine." And basically like telling myself that to reframe that. Is this....Am I off base with this? Is this tie into this, there's just a different framework? Smokey 34:27 That is what the individual should be trying to do is connect the three different things, keeping it simple. One, is to the community which gives them nourishment. On a plane or on your roof, that's not going to happen. Margaret 34:44 Yeah. Smokey 34:45 Though, actually, to be honest. If you're nervous and you have...go back to your roof example, which I think is a pretty good one. Let's say that you had more than three boards. Let's say it was gonna take you a couple hours to do that. But it's something you're nervous about, connecting to somebody in your social network, whether you, you have your earphones on, and you're just talking to them before or during...after doesn't help. That does one way. Or the other is connecting to what you were doing, which is connecting to kind of reframing or your own internal resilience. I've done something similar like this before. This is not something that is going to need to throw me, it is what's called pocketing the anxiety. Margaret 35:45 Okay. Smokey 35:45 Where you're other-izing it, being like, it's coming from you too, right? being like, "Hey, you could fall. This plane could go down," right? That that's still you, you're generating that. You're not hearing that over to, and you're saying, "Okay, but I'm going to try, you know, give primacy to this other voice in my head. That is saying, "You've got this, it's all right, you've done things like this before."" So that's the second thing. And that's what you were doing. So you could connect to your community, you could connect to kind of a reserve of resiliency. And to do that is allow that one to be pocketed. But be like, "Hey, I want to hear from what this core thing has to say. I want to hear from what the positive person on the front row has to say." You're not arguing with that one. You're just listening. You're changing your, your, what you're attuned to. And then the third one is, if you can, you connect to the meaning. What is the meaning of building the house for you? Where are you going on your flight? And why is it important? Margaret 37:03 Yeah. Okay, Smokey 37:05 And that anxiety and the fact that you're doing it, you want to give again, the primacy to the importance, that "Yeah, I'm really nervous, I'm really freaked out about this, but this thing is so important, or so good for me, or so healthy for me to do this. This must mean it's going to be really important. And I'm connecting to why it's important and focusing on that. So those are the three things that the individual can do. The helping person or community is engagement. The second one is the same, reconnecting to the meaning. Why did you love horses in the first place? Okay, don't have to get back on the horse. But let's not forget horses are awesome. Margaret 37:58 Yeah. Smokey 37:58 And Horseback riding is awesome. Margaret 38:01 Yeah. Smokey 38:01 And you were really good at it before you got thrown. But you know, you don't have to do it now, but let's, let's just let's just share our love of horses for a moment and see how that makes you feel. And then the third one is that kind of drawing upon, instead of drawing upon the individual resilience, which you were doing, like, "Hey, I got this," or the plane, you know, you were, you're hearing from other people, you're drawing upon their individual resilience. "Smokey, tell me about the time you did this thing that was hard." And I tell ya, you're like, "Well, Smokey can fucking do that I can do it. You don't even think...it doesn't even work necessarily consciously. Margaret 38:50 Right. Smokey 38:51 So you could see that what you're doing individually, the helper or the community is doing complementary. Margaret 38:59 Yeah. Smokey 39:00 And now you can see why a lot of self care narrative, a lot of taking a break a lot of burnout narrative, all these things, at best aren't going to help you and at worst, in my opinion, are kind of counterproductive. Margaret 39:17 Well, and that's the, to go to the, you know, working on my roof thing I think about...because I've had some success with this. I've had some success where I....there's certain fears that I have, like, suppressed or something like I've stopped being as afraid of...the fear is no longer a deciding factor in my decision making, because of this kind of reframing this kind of like, yeah, pocketing like...And it's probably always useful to have the like, I don't want to reframe so completely that I just walk around on a roof all the time, without paying attention to what I'm doing, right?Because people do that and then they fall and the reason that there's a reason that roofing is one of the most dangerous jobs in America. So a, I don't know I yeah, I, I appreciate that, that you can do that. And then if it's a thing you're going to keep doing anyway, it becomes easier if you start handling it like, carefully, you know? Smokey 40:17 Well, you don't want to give it too much. So why do we? Why is it natural for us to take anxiety or fear and focus on it? It's somewhat evolutionary, right? It's a threat, right? It's supposed to draw your attention, right? It's supposed to draw your attention. And if you're not careful, it will draw your attention away from other things that are quieter that like that resiliency in the front row you need to call on, because they're not as flashy, right? So I don't think you have to worry about threat....You're right. You don't want to get to the point where you and that's why I say 'pocket it,' as opposed to 'deny it, suppress it, argue with it. demolish it.' I think it's good to have that little, "Beep, beep, beep there's a threat," and then being like, "Okay, but I want to continue to do this. Let's hear from resiliency in the front row. What? What do you have to tell me too?" You have to not...what happens is we go into the weeds of the threat. Oh, so what? "Oh, I fall off and I compound fracture, and I'm way out here in the woods, and no one's going to get me. My phone isn't charged." That's not what the original beep was. Original beep like, "You're high up on a ladder, seems unstable. This seems sketchy," right? Okay. Got that. And then resilience is, "Yeah, you've done lots of sketchy stuff. You've written in the back of a pickup truck. That's sketchy, so seatbelt there, nothing, you know, let me remind you that that you can overcome." And, but by going into the anxiety, going into the fear, you're forcing yourself to justify the thing. And then it becomes more and more elaborate, and it gets crazier and crazier very quickly. You know, all of sudden, you're bleeding out and you're cutting your leg off with a pen knife. It's like, "Wow, how did all this happen?" Margaret 42:38 Yeah, well, and that's actually something that comes up a lot in terms of people interacting with the show and about like preparedness in general. Because in my mind, the point of paying attention to how to deal with forest fire while I live in the woods, is not to then spend all of my time fantasizing and worrying about forest fire. But instead, to compare it to this ladder, if I get this "Beep, beep, the ladder is unstable." I climb down, I stabilize the ladder as best as I can. And then I climb back up and I do the thing. And then when I think about like, with fire, I'm like, "Okay, I have done the work to minimize the risk of fire. And so now I can stop thinking about it." Like, I can listen to the little beep, beep noise and do the thing. And now I can ignore the beep beep because just like literally, when you're backing up a truck and it goes beep, beep, you're like, yeah, no, I know, I'm backing up. Thanks. You know, like, Smokey 43:35 Yeah, it's good to know, it's good to know, you're not going forward. Margaret 43:39 Yeah, no. No, okay. That's interesting. And then the other thing that's really interesting about this, the thing that you're presenting, is it means that in some ways, work that we present as very individual in our society, even in radical society, is actually community based on this idea, like so conquering phobias is something that we help one another do, it seems like, Smokey 44:02 Absolutely. I mean, the best stuff on all this stuff is that people reverse engineering it to make people do dangerous, bad things. The military. Margaret 44:18 Yeah, they're probably pretty good at getting people to conquer phobias. Yep. Smokey 44:21 They have a great sense of belonging. They have a great sense of pulling in internal resilient, group resilient, connecting to meaning even when it's absolutely meaningless what you're doing. It's all the dark side of what we're talking about, but it's quite effective and it literally wins wars. Margaret 44:47 Yeah, that makes sense. Because you have this whole... Smokey 44:50 Literally it changes history. And so, the good news is, we can kind of reclaim that for what I think it was originally purposed to do, which is to protect us from the traumas that we had to go through in our evolutionary existence. So we couldn't afford to have a whole bunch of us chronically disabled. Meaning unable to function, you know, they've just taken it and, and bent it a little bit, and learned very deeply about it, how to how to use it for the things that really cause, you know, physical death and injury. And, and, you know, obviously, they're not perfect, you have a lot of trauma, but not, not as much as you would expect for what they do. And every year they get better and better. Margaret 45:51 Hooray. Smokey 45:53 We have to get on top of our game. Margaret 45:56 Yeah. Smokey 45:57 And get people not to do what they do. I'm not suggesting reading...well maybe reading military, but not...you can't use those tools to make people truly free and resilient. Margaret 46:17 Yeah. Smokey 46:18 In the healthy kind of way. Yeah. Margaret 46:22 Okay, so in our three things, there's the holistic, prepared resiliency thing, then there's the immediate, the bad thing is happening first aid. Should we talk about what to do when the thing has, when you have the like, the injury, the mental injury of the trauma? Smokey 46:42 Like with most injuries, it's rehab, right? Margaret 46:45 Yeah. No, no, you just keep doing the thing, and then hope it fixes itself. [laughs] Smokey 46:53 My approach to most medical oddities that happen as I get older, it's like, "It'll fix itself, this tooth will grow back, right? The pain will go away, right?" Yeah, just like physical rehab, it does require two important aspects for all physical, what we think of when someone says I have to go to rehab, physical rehab, not not alcohol rehab, or psych rehab, is that there's two things that are happening. One, is a understanding, a deep understanding of the injury, often not by the person, but by the physical therapist. Right? That if they know, okay, this is torn meniscus, or this is this and I, okay, so I understand the anatomy, I understand the surgery that happened. Okay. And then the second is, short term, not lifelong therapy, not lifelong this or that. Short term techniques to usually strengthen muscles and other joints and things around the injury. Okay. And that's what, what I would call good recovery after you already have the injury. It's not after you've had the traumatic experience, because traumatic experience doesn't necessarily cause a chronic injury, and we're trying to reduce the number of chronic injuries, but chronic injuries are going to happen. chronic injuries already exist today. A lot of the people we know are walking around with chronic injuries that are impacting their ability to do what they want to do and what in my opinion, we need them to do, because there's so much change that needs to happen. We need everybody as much as possible to be working at their ability. So wherever we can fix injury, we should. So so one is where do I get an understanding of how this injury impacts my life? And I think different cognitive psychology, I think CBT, DBT, these things are very, very good in general. Margaret 49:22 I know what those are, but can you explain. Smokey 49:22 Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy. These all come out of cognitive psychology from the 50s. Our techniques, but most therapists use versions of this anyway. So just going to therapy, what it is doing initially, is trying to, like the physical therapist, tell you, "This is the injury you have. This is why it's causing you to limp, or why you have weakness in your arm and wrist. And what we're going to do is we're going to give you some techniques to build up, usually the muscles, or whatever else needs to be built up around it so that you will be able to get more use out of your hand." And that is what we need to do with people that have this chronic injury. So, one, is you need to find out how the injury is impacting. So, I'm drinking more, I'm getting angry more, or I'm having trouble making relationships, or I'm having, and there's a series of, you know, 50 year old techniques to really kind of get down and see, okay, this injury is causing these things, that's how it's impacting me, and I don't want to drink more, or I want to be able to sleep better, or I want to be able to focus, or I want to be able to have meaningful relationship with my partner or my children or whatever, whatever that is, right? And then there are techniques, and they're developing new techniques, all the time, there's like EMDR, which is an eye thing that I don't fully understand. There DBT, dialectical behavioral therapy, has a lot of techniques that you kind of practice in groups. As you know, we have mutual aid cell therapy, MAST, which is also a group where you're sharing techniques to build up these different things and resilience. So, community, and meaning, and all those...reframing all those kinds of things. So, but they shouldn't, despite the length of the injury, how long you've been injured, how long you've been limping, and how much it's affected other parts of your psychic body in a way. These are things that still should be able to be remediated relatively quickly. Smokey 49:31 That's exciting. Yeah. Smokey 50:10 But this is not a lifelong thing. Now, that doesn't mean, if you're traumatized as a child for example, it's sort of like if you've completely shattered your wrist bone, and they've put in pins and things like that, that wrist, may never have the flexibility, it did, the actual wrist bone, you know, the bones in the wrist. But by building muscles, and other things around it, you could then theoretically have full flexibility that you had before, right? But it's not the actual wrist bone, but that that injury is still there. You've built up...Sometimes it's called strength-based approach or model where you're building up other strengths, you have to relieve the impact that that injury, so like, a common thing with with trauma is trust. My trust is very damaged. My ability to trust others, or trust certain environments, or maybe trust myself, right, is completely damaged. So if, if my...and that may never fully heal, that's like my shattered wrist bone. So then, by building up, let's say, I don't trust myself, I did something, really fucked up myself, you know, psychologically, traumatically, but by building up trust in others, and then in the environment, or other things, that can mediate that damage or vice versa. Margaret 53:53 You mean vice versa, like if you? Smokey 53:59 Like, if my problem is a trust of others, or trust with strangers, or trust with friends, you know, I've been betrayed in a really traumatic way by my mother, or my father or uncle or something like that then, you know, building up my friendships to a really strong degree will reduce and eventually eliminate, hopefully erase the impact of that injury on the rest of my life. I'm not doomed to have dysfunctional relationships, lack of sleep, alcoholism or whatever are the symptoms of that traumatic event, that chronic traumatic event. Margaret 54:54 Okay, so my next question is, and it's sort of a leading question, you mentioned MAST earlier and I kind of want to ask, like, do we need specialists for all of this? Do we have people who both generalize and specialize in this kind of thing? Are there ways that, you know, we as a community can, like, get better at most of this stuff while then some of it like, you know, obviously people specialize in and this remains useful? Like... Smokey 55:22 You need. I wouldn't say...You need, you do need specialists, not for their knowledge, per se so much as they're there for people that the injury has gone on so long that the resiliency, all those other things, they don't have a social network, they haven't had time, because the damage happened so early to build up those reserves, that that person in the front row, the front row, the seats are empty. That is, it's really great we live...Now, in other cultures, the specialists were probably shamans, religious people, mentors, things like that, that said, "Okay, my role is to," all therapy is self therapy. That was Carl Rogers, he was quite correct about that. The specialist you're talking about are the kind of stand in for people who don't have people to do that. I would argue all real therapy is probably community therapy. It's relational. So if you have friends, if you have community, if you have a place, or places you find belonging, then theoretically, no, I don't think you need....I think those groups, and I think most specialists would agree to actually, those groups, if they're doing this can actually do a much better job for that individual. They know that individual and there's a natural affinity. And there there are other non specifically therapeutic benefits for engaging in re engaging in these things that have nothing to do with the injury that are just healthy, and good to you. So sort of like taking Ensure, Ensure will keep you alive when you're you've had some surgery, you've had some really bad injury, or if you need saline solution, right? But we're not suggesting people walk around with saline bags. There are better ways to get that, more natural ways to get that. I'm not talking alternative, psychiatric or, you know, take herbs instead of psychiatric medication. But there are better ways to do that. And I think, but I'm glad we have saline. Margaret 58:08 Yeah, Smokey 58:08 I think it saves a lot of people's lives. But, we would never give up the other ways to get nutrients because of other benefits to it. You know, sharing a meal with people is also a really good thing. Margaret 58:21 And then even like from a, you know, the advantages of community, etc. I'm guessing it's not something that's like magically imbued in community. It's like can be something that communities need to actually learn these skills and develop like, I mean, there's a reason that well, you know, I guess I'm reasonably open about this. I used to have like fairly paralyzing panic attacks, and then it started generalizing. And then, you know, a very good cognitive behavioral therapist gave me the tools with which to start addressing that. And that wasn't something I was getting from....I didn't get it from my community in the end, but I got it from a specific person in the community, rather than like, everyone already knows this or something. Smokey 59:03 Well, I think what we're doing right here is, is....I mean, people don't know. So they read....People were trying to help you from your community. Undoubtedly, with the right. intentions, and the right motives, but without the information on what actually works. Margaret 59:27 Yep. Smokey 59:28 And that's all that was happening there. Margaret 59:30 Yeah, totally. Smokey 59:31 So, it's really, you know, as cliche as it sound. It's really about just giving people some basic tools that we already had at one time. Margaret 59:44 Yeah. Smokey 59:45 Forgot, became specialized. So you know, I'm throwing around CBT, DBT, EMDR. None of that people can keep in their head. They will....The audience listening today are not going to remember all those things. And nor do they have to. But they have to know that, you know, reconnecting to the horse, but not telling people to get back on the horse, that kind of tough love kind of thing isn't going to work, but neither is the self care, take a bubble bath... Margaret 1:00:19 Never see a horse again, run from a horse. Smokey 1:00:21 Never see a horse, again, we're not even going to talk about horses, let's go do something else, isn't going to work either. And I think once we...you know, it's not brain science...Though it is. [laughs] It is pretty, you know, these are, and you look at how religions do this, you know, you look at how the military does this, you look at how like, fascists do this, you know, all sorts of groups, communities can do this fairly effectively. And it doesn't cost money. It's not expensive. You don't have to be highly educated or read all the science to be able to do that. And people naturally try, but I think a lot of the self help kind of gets in the way. And some people think they know. "Okay, well, this is what needs to happen, because I saw on Oprah." That kind of thing. " Margaret 1:01:26 Yeah, Well, I mean, actually, that's one of the main takeaways that's coming from me is I've been, I've been thinking a lot about my own mental health first aid on a fairly individual basis, right? You know, even though it was community, that helped me find the means by which to pull myself out of a very bad mental space in that I was in for a lot of years. But I still, in the end was kind of viewing it as, like, "Ah, someone else gave me the tools. And now it's on me." It's like this individual responsibility to take care of myself. And, and so that's like, one of the things that I'm taking as a takeaway from this is learning to be inter-reliant. Smokey 1:02:06 There isn't enough research on it, again, because of our individualistic nature, and probably because of variables. But there's certainly tons of anecdotal evidence, and having done this for a long time talking to people and how the place I work is particularly set up, helping others is a really great way to help yourself. Margaret 1:02:30 Yeah. Smokey 1:02:31 it really works. It's very, I mean, obviously, in the Greeks, you know, you have the 'wounded healer,' kind of concept. Many indigenous traditions have said this much better than the Western. And I believe they have...and they needed to, but they had a much better kind of understanding of these things that we're we're talking about. You know, it. So, where people can...and I've heard this podcast, your podcast too, talking about this ability to be, you know, have self efficacy. But it's more than self efficacy. It's really helping others. Margaret 1:03:22 Yeah. Smokey 1:03:23 And that, that is really powerful. And there's not enough research on that. And I think that's why support groups, I think that's why, you know, AA, despite all its problems, has spread all over the world and has been around for, you know, 75 years, and is not going to go away anytime soon. Despite some obvious problems, is there's that there's that... they hit upon that they they re discovered something that we always kind of knew. Margaret 1:03:59 Yeah. Okay, well, we're coming out of time. We're running out of time. Are there any last thoughts, things that I should have asked you? I mean, there's a ton we can talk about this, and I'll probably try and have you on to talk about more specifics in the near future. But, is there anything anything I'm missing? Smokey 1:04:15 No, I think I think just re emphasizing the end piece that you know, for people that have resources, communities, meaning, social network, you know, that is worth investing your time and your energy into because that's going to build your...if you want to get psychologically strong, that is the easiest and the best investment, Put down the self help book. Call your friend. You know, don't search Google for the symptoms of this, that, or the other thing. Connect to what's important to you. And then lastly, try to help others or help the world in some way. And those are going to be profound and effective ways to build long lasting resilience as an individual. As a community, we should design our communities around that. Margaret 1:05:35 Yeah. All right. Well, that seems like a good thing to end on. Do you have anything that you want to plug like, I don't know books about mutual aid self therapy or anything like that? Smokey 1:05:46 I want to plug community. 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In this episode of Your Health University, Jamie sits down with Dr. Jimmie Williamson, Chief Behavioral Health Officer at Your Health, to break down why behavioral health belongs inside primary care—not outside it. Jimmie explains how telehealth lowered stigma, how mental health diagnoses (“F codes”) often correlate with frequent ER use, and why Your Health moved from intuition to data-driven referral models using tools like Power BI. They also map the full behavioral health ecosystem—from psych nurse practitioners to therapists to the psych pharmacist—and clarify when and how teams should refer patients for the right level of support. The takeaway is simple: earlier behavioral health intervention can improve lives, reduce hospital visits, and strengthen value-based care outcomes system-wide. www.YourHealth.Org

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Dr. Joseph Mercola - Take Control of Your Health

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2026 9:11


Chronic insomnia affects millions worldwide and raises risks for cardiovascular disease, mental illness, and cognitive decline. Effective nondrug treatments are essential for restoring sleep and protecting long-term health Cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I) is the leading behavioral treatment for chronic insomnia. It uses structured therapy to change sleep-disrupting thoughts and habits A study directly compared tai chi with CBT-I for chronic insomnia, using the same treatment length, standardized instruction, and identical measures to evaluate sleep outcomes CBT-I led to faster improvements early on, while tai chi reached similar results by 12 months and showed higher rates of continued practice after the formal intervention ended Both approaches improved sleep duration, reduced nighttime awakenings, and eased anxiety and depression, offering different but sustainable options for managing chronic insomnia without medication

Sleep Takeout
S6 E113 - Top Sleep Breakthroughs & Sleep Takeout's Year in Review!

Sleep Takeout

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2026 16:04


Send us a textS6 E113 - Top Sleep Breakthroughs & Sleep Takeout's Year in Review!Join Dr. Michelle Zetoony and Dr. Daniel Baughn as they count down the top 3 sleep breakthroughs of the year on this exciting episode of Sleep Takeout! From behavioral treatments inspired by Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia to the surprising winner in sleep confidence, this year-in-review episode is packed with valuable insights and practical advice. Discover the game-changing sleep insights, the most viewed episodes, and the impactful changes they brought into the sleep community. Thank you, Sleep Nation, for five incredible years! Here's to a restful and enlightening 2026 with Sleep Takeout! 00:00 Introduction and Year in Review01:03 Podcast Milestones and Listener Engagement03:21 Deep Dives and Special Series04:01 Community Events and Feedback07:37 Future Plans and Goals12:37 Top Three Breakthroughs of the Year14:13 Conclusion and Looking Forward✨ Real rest isn't just about falling asleep, it's about feeling at ease again. I'm Dr. Daniel Baughn, sleep psychologist and co-host of Sleep Takeout. I help professionals and high-achievers who seem to have everything together on the outside but can't quite turn off their minds at night.

The Carnivore Yogi Podcast
Mastering Sleep: Expert Tips to Overcome Insomnia beyond light exposure Feat. Mollie Eastman

The Carnivore Yogi Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2026 59:49


In this episode of the Evolving Wellness Podcast, host Sarah Kleiner discusses the complexities of sleep and insomnia with sleep expert Molly Eastman. They explore the difficulties of maintaining sleep amidst life's stressors such as toddler care, shift work, and major life changes. Molly sheds light on the paradoxical relationship with sleep, particularly focusing on insomnia, and shares insights into cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBTI) and acceptance commitment therapy (ACT) for insomnia. They discuss the impact of stress and thoughts on sleep quality, the importance of circadian rhythm and environmental factors, and ways to build a robust sleep skillset. The episode also covers the risks and considerations of sleep medications, the new findings in sleep science, and practical tips to reduce sleep anxiety. Sarah and Molly emphasize a balanced approach and provide resources for further support.About Sleep is a Skill: Sleep Is a Skill is dedicated to helping people optimize sleep by treating it as a learnable, trainable skill—not a mystery or something left to chance. Founded by Mollie Eastman, the company combines science-backed sleep optimization, wearable data, lifestyle design, and personalized coaching to help individuals improve sleep quality, recovery, and overall performance. Their mission is to empower people to take control of their sleep so they can think clearer, feel better, and perform at their highest level—using practical tools, education, and measurable results rather than guessworkConnect with Mollie:www.sleepisaskill.comwww.instagram.com/mollie.eastman_________Sponsored By:→ Bon Charge | Go to https://boncharge.com/products/demi-red-light-device?rfsn=8108115.26608d & use code SARAHKLEINER for 15% off storewide.→ VivaRays | This episode is sponsored by VivaRays - VivaRays Blue - code YOGI https://vivarays.com/yogi_________Timestamp:00:00 Navigating Life's Sleep Disruptions01:37 Introduction to the Evolving Wellness Podcast05:17 Meet Molly Eastman: Sleep Expert06:39 Personal Sleep Struggles and Solutions09:50 Understanding Insomnia and Sleep Anxiety10:35 Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBTI)15:39 Acceptance Commitment Therapy for Insomnia (ACTI)18:56 The Role of Red and Infrared Light in Sleep22:31 The Impact of Sleep Aids and Medications30:56 The Evolution of Sleep Studies31:42 Glymphatic System and Brain Cleansing32:43 Modern Lifestyle's Impact on Sleep33:06 Circadian Rhythm Entrainment34:24 Chronopharmacology and Sleep Medications37:17 Blue Blockers and Circadian Rhythm38:44 Challenges in Medical and Functional Medicine41:37 The Importance of Nuance in Sleep Health42:40 Building the Skillset of Sleep50:18 High Performers and Sleep Optimization56:47 Conclusion and Resources——— This video is not medical advice & as a supporter to you and your health journey - I encourage you to monitor your labs and work with a professional!________________________________________Get all my free guides and product recommendations to get started on your journey!https://www.sarahkleinerwellness.com/all-free-resourcesCheck out all my courses to understand how to improve your mitochondrial health & experience long lasting health! (Use code PODCAST to save 10%) -  https://www.sarahkleinerwellness.com/coursesMy free product guide with all product recommendations and discount codes:https://www.canva.com/design/DAF7mlgZpJI/xVyE4tiQFEWJmh_Xwx8Kbw/view?utm_content=DAF7mlgZpJIFree Webinar on Light & Health (includes free light bulb guide) - https://www.sarahkleinerwellness.com/mycircadianapp-free-webinarGet Early Access to Podcast Episodes & my Seasonal Food Course + UVB+Red Light Therapy course for free -  https://open.substack.com/pub/sarahkleinerwellness/p/uvbred-light-protocol?r=5eztl9&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=true

We Collide Podcast
Renewing Your Mind: How to Reframe Negative Thought Patterns with Therapist Emily Weidlich

We Collide Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2026 46:13 Transcription Available


What would it look like to renew your mind by allowing God to meet you in the thoughts you've been struggling to change on your own?In this thought-provoking episode of the Collide Podcast, we sit down with therapist Emily Weidlich, MA, LPC to talk about reframing negative thought patterns as we step into a new year. Emily shares how our internal narratives are often shaped by past experiences—and how, with compassion and curiosity, we can begin to understand and gently challenge those thoughts. Drawing from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Emotion-Focused Therapy, and self-compassion, she offers practical insight into noticing what we think, naming what we feel, and responding to ourselves with grace. Whether you're feeling stuck in cycles of self-criticism, longing for emotional clarity, or hoping to start the year with intention, this episode will remind you that change begins with awareness and kindness toward yourself.Meet Emily WeidlichEmily is a licensed professional counselor with a master's degree in counseling from Western Seminary and a psychology degree from Multnomah University. Born and raised in Portland, Oregon, she brings a grounded, relational approach to therapy that helps clients better understand their stories and inner world. Emily is passionate about creating a safe, supportive space where people can process the past, identify their needs, and develop healthier, more adaptive ways of thinking and responding to life.In This Episode, You'll LearnHow to recognize and reframe negative thought patterns without shameWhy understanding your past can bring freedom in your presentThe connection between thoughts, emotions, and unmet needsHow self-compassion can transform the way you relate to yourselfPractical ways to approach the new year with intention rather than pressureHow This Episode Will Encourage YouIf you've ever felt trapped by your own thoughts or frustrated by patterns you can't seem to break, this episode will help you feel seen and supported. You'll be reminded that healing doesn't require perfection—just honesty, curiosity, and compassion—and that you're allowed to move forward with grace, one thought at a time.Connect with Emily - WebsiteConnect with Willow - Website | Instagram | FacebookOrder Willow's New Book! Collide: Running into Healing When Life Hands You HurtFollow and Support Collide

Young Dad Podcast
261: Faith, Family & Freedom- Austin D. LPC-S

Young Dad Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2026 45:28


Welcome to the Young Dad Podcast—whether you're mowing the lawn, grilling dinner, juggling dirty diapers, or just stealing five minutes for yourself—we're glad you're here. Grab your juice box, grab a snack, and let's jump into today's real and honest conversation.Our guest today is Austin Davis, a visionary leader in teen behavioral health and addiction recovery. He's the founder and CEO of Clearfork Academy, the go-to residential treatment center in Texas for teens battling mental health challenges and substance use. With over 15 years of hands-on experience, Austin combines counseling, ministry, and faith to guide teens and families toward healing and hope.If you're a parent, educator, or someone who cares about the next generation—this episode is for you.Visit ClearforkAcademy.com to learn more about their mission, programs, and how they're transforming lives through faith, structure, and care. If you're a parent or educator seeking support—this is the place to start.Visit the website for interactive activity guides and everything YDP- ⁠⁠www.youngdadpod.com Click the link for YDP deals (Triad Math, Forefathers, and more) - https://linktr.ee/youngdadpod Interested in being a guest on the Young Dad Podcast? Reach out to Jey Young through PodMatch at this link: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/youngdadLastly,consider making a monetary donation to support the Pod, https://buymeacoffee.com/youngdadpod.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Teen Behavioral Health01:03 Austin's Journey into Counseling03:42 Integrating Faith and Counseling08:43 Clear Fork Academy's Unique Approach11:29 Understanding Family Dynamics15:53 The Identity Crisis in Teens19:58 Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Self-Perception24:53 Understanding Personal Accountability26:28 Recognizing Signs of Distress in Teens29:16 The Importance of Parental Involvement31:52 Success Stories from Clear Fork Academy36:30 The Journey of Healing and Identity39:19 A Call to Action for Families40:24 Lighthearted Moments in the Dad Zone

LTC University Podcast
You Can't Treat the Body Without the Mind Part 2

LTC University Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2025 22:34


Key TakeawaysEveryone can be an investigator: Observing subtle changes in behavior, sleep, decision-making, or life management can reveal early signs of behavioral health needs.Integration matters: Combining behavioral and physical health care improves outcomes, prevents avoidable hospital visits, and reduces overall healthcare costs.Impact beyond the patient: Supporting behavioral health has ripple effects on families, caregivers, and communities, improving overall system well-being.Life transitions are critical points: Changes in living situations, cognitive decline, or significant life events are opportunities for early intervention.Collaboration is key: Cognitive behavioral specialists, nurses, primary care providers, and facility staff must work together to ensure timely and effective care.Innovation brings hope: Emerging research, new care models, and broader conversations about mental health as part of overall wellness are reshaping healthcare for the better. www.YourHealth.Org

The Brian Keane Podcast
#568: Psychologist Thais Gibson Ph.D. on Unlocking Your Subconscious Mind, Removing Blocks and How Finding Your Deep Why is the REAL Motivation for Change!

The Brian Keane Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2025 63:50


Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, host of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Ph.D. recipient, and a recognized leader in the personal development field.  After earning her Ph.D. and completing over 13 certifications in disciplines such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Hypnosis, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais spent nearly a decade running a high-demand client-based practice. Her ever-growing waitlist revealed a clear need: people from all walks of life needed more accessible and affordable tools to heal emotional wounds and overcome long- standing challenges.  This realization led to the creation of The Personal Development School ("PDS"). Since launching PDS, and with the backing of years of clinical experience and research, Thais has become a leading voice in the space of attachment trauma healing. The school has grown into a thriving global community with over 55,000 members in 145+ countries.   Timestamps (may vary by 2-4 minutes based on your podcast platform)   02:59 Introduction to Subconscious Mind and Goal Setting 05:00 Understanding the Subconscious Mind 07:15 Awareness as the First Step to Change 09:09 Identifying and Removing Blocks 11:13 Rewiring Beliefs for Success 15:23 The Importance of a Deep Why 17:58 Navigating Over-Analysis in Healing 26:54 The Cost of Not Doing the Work 34:53 Finding Healthier Comforts 39:07 Proactive vs Reactive Regulation 43:43 Understanding Core Wounds and Needs 46:10 Assessing Personal Needs 59:41 Connecting Goals to Subconscious Needs   Sponsored by the circle:  https://briankeanefitness.com/online-mastermind   (Previous Episode) #489:Psychologist Thais Gibson Ph.D. on Reprogramming Unsupportive Coping Mechanisms, Learning To Set Healthy Boundaries and Healing Your Old Core Wounds!   https://open.spotify.com/episode/6EOTimDICsjslRngxun2Yd?si=OAmyGeJgRkmQoOLeh032Mw   (Website) Personal Development School   (Instagram) www.instagram.com/thaisgibson/ www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/   (Youtube) www.youtube.com/channel/UCHQ4lSaKRap5HyrpitrTOhQ/videos   (Facebook) www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/   (Apple Podcasts) The Thais Gibson Podcast - Podcast - Apple Podcasts   (Tiktok) Personal Development School (@thaisgibson) | TikTok

Treble Health Tinnitus & Hearing Podcast
Tinnitus Treatment That WORKS (Even If You've Been Told Otherwise)

Treble Health Tinnitus & Hearing Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2025 31:06


Dr. Ben hosts Dr. Tricia to break down what works best for tinnitus relief. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, sound therapy, and expert guidance come together. Learn the top strategies backed by science and clinical success.Get started with Treble Health:Schedule a complimentary telehealth consultation: treble.health/free-telehealth-consultation Take the tinnitus quiz: https://treble.health/tinnitus-quiz-1Download the Ultimate Tinnitus Guide: 2024 Edition: https://treble.health/tinnitus-guide-2025

Scientific Healing with Dr. Anastasia Chopelas
How Your Thoughts Create Your Burnout — and How to Change Them

Scientific Healing with Dr. Anastasia Chopelas

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2025 37:34 Transcription Available


What if the burnout you're feeling isn't just about your workload, but about the stories running on repeat in your mind?Psychotherapist Judith Belmont joins me to talk about cognitive behavioral therapy for healers, empaths, and sensitive practitioners who find themselves trapped in patterns of perfectionism, self-doubt, and exhaustion. With over 40 years of experience, Judith explains how automatic negative thoughts drain our energy, why self-compassion matters more than achievement, and how to use simple thought logs to rewrite the inner dialogue that's been holding you back.We discuss the "$20 bill" metaphor that reminds us we're worthy no matter how crumpled we feel, why comparing yourself to others steals your joy, and how healers can protect their energy by learning to catch and change destructive thinking patterns before burnout takes hold.If you've been working twice as hard for half the results, this conversation offers practical tools to help you stop giving your power away to thoughts that aren't even true.Find her book here: https://amzn.to/4s88JkZ. and her website here https://belmontwellness.com/Show notes at https://www.breakfreefromtheburnout.comGet your breakthrough quantum call: https://www.scientifichealer.com/quantum Liked this episode? Pay it forward and share it with a friend.Love the show? Write a 5-star review — even one sentence helps us keep bringing you the content you want to hear. More from Dr. Anastasia: Websites: https://www.healersu.com and https://www.scientifichealer.com LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/drachopelas Facebook: https://facebook.com/dranastasiachopelas YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/dranastasiachopelas Some product links on this site are affiliate links, which means we'll earn a small commission for any affiliate purchases you make (at no additional cost to you). We only recommend products that we use and/or personally trust, so you can browse with confidence.

The Most Days Show
Dr. Seth Gillihan on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

The Most Days Show

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2025 49:31


This week, clinical psychologist and CBT expert Dr. Seth Gillihan returns to the show for a third time to have a conversation about how our thoughts, behaviors, and physical health are deeply intertwined. Drawing on examples from everyday life, Dr. Gillihan explains how cognitive behavioral therapy helps people build a healthier relationship with their thoughts and make real, sustainable behavior change. The episode explores when therapy is most useful, when fundamental habits like sleep and exercise may matter more, and how CBT tools can bridge the gap between knowing what's good for us and actually doing it. You can find his book, Your Daily Reset, here and his podcast, Think Act Be, here. Hope you enjoy.

The PedsDocTalk Podcast
The Follow-Up: Motherhood Insomnia

The PedsDocTalk Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2025 12:19


If you've ever spent the whole day dreaming about going to bed, only to climb under the covers and lie wide awake, this episode will feel like a deep exhale. I'm joined by sleep psychologist Dr. Shelby Harris to talk about the tired-but-wired cycle so many mothers fall into and why it's more common than you think. We unpack the real reasons your brain won't shut off at night, from revenge bedtime procrastination to the mental load that follows moms everywhere. Dr. Harris explains how habits, overstimulation, and our constant push to “catch up” all get in the way of rest, even when we're desperate for it. And most importantly, she shares the science-backed strategies that actually work for an overwhelmed parent who needs sleep but can't find the off switch. Whether you're dealing with the occasional rough night or months of broken sleep, this conversation brings clarity, relief, and doable steps that don't add more pressure to your already full plate. In This Episode, We Cover: ✔️ Why moms feel exhausted all day yet can't fall asleep at night ✔️ The psychology behind “tired but wired” ✔️ Revenge bedtime procrastination and why it hits mothers so hard ✔️ How over-stimulation and unfinished to-dos keep your brain awake ✔️ Simple sleep hygiene habits that truly help ✔️ What to do when your phone is sabotaging your nights ✔️ Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBT-I): who it helps and why ✔️ When to consider medication and what that process looks like ✔️ How our own sleep habits shape our kids' sleep long term Want more? Listen to the full, original episode. Our podcasts are also now on YouTube. If you prefer a video podcast with closed captioning, check us out there and ⁠subscribe to PedsDocTalk⁠. Get trusted pediatric advice, relatable parenting insights, and evidence-based tips delivered straight to your inbox—join thousands of parents who rely on the PDT newsletter to stay informed, supported, and confident. ⁠⁠⁠⁠Join the newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠! And don't forget to follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠@pedsdoctalkpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠ on Instagram—our new space just for parents looking for real talk and real support. We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on the ⁠PedsDocTalk Podcast Sponsorships⁠ page of the website.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Frankly Speaking About Family Medicine
Rethinking Chronic Back Pain: Practical Behavioral Interventions for Primary Care - Frankly Speaking Ep 463

Frankly Speaking About Family Medicine

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2025 17:04


Credits: 0.25 AMA PRA Category 1 Credit™   CME/CE Information and Claim Credit: https://www.pri-med.com/online-education/podcast/frankly-speaking-cme-463 Overview: Listen in as we discuss how integrating behavioral therapies into the management of chronic back pain can improve function, reduce opioid use, and empower patients. Boost your clinical toolkit with evidence-based strategies that enhance outcomes while aligning with evolving guidelines for safer, multimodal approaches to chronic pain care. Episode resource links: Zgierska AE, Edwards RR, Barrett B, et al. Mindfulness vs Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Chronic Low Back Pain Treated With Opioids: A Randomized Clinical Trial. JAMA Netw Open. 2025;8(4):e253204. doi:10.1001/jamanetworkopen.2025.3204 Dowell D, Ragan KR, Jones CM, Baldwin GT, Chou R. CDC Clinical Practice Guideline for Prescribing Opioids for Pain - United States, 2022. MMWR Recomm Rep. 2022 Nov 4;71(3):1-95. doi: 10.15585/mmwr.rr7103a1. PMID: 36327391; PMCID: PMC9639433. Guest: Jillian Joseph, MPAS, PA-C Music Credit: Matthew Bugos Thoughts? Suggestions? Email us at FranklySpeaking@pri-med.com  

Chai on Life
Manifest the Life You Want: Expert Guidance from Ayelet Polonsky of The Manifestation Method

Chai on Life

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2025 63:47


Today, I'm speaking with Ayelet Polonsky, a Kabbalistic Manifestation Expert. She is the Creator of The Manifestation Method and a skilled, passionate and trauma-informed facilitator in the world of manifestation and healing. She's had quite a journey to get to this point in her life — after college she was led to the Amazon jungles of Peru, then India for six years and then finally to Israel where she spent eight years studying and teaching Jewish mysticism, known as Kabbalah. Ayelet now lives on the East Coast with her husband and two children.With the development of The Manifestation Method, Ayelet synthesizes Kabbalistic wisdom and modern psychology to help individuals heal their past traumas, and transform their dreams into reality. She is a trained expert in hypnosis, trauma healing, somatic experiencing and meditation. Ayelet's approach is a harmonious blend of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Narrative Therapy, EFT, and Somatic Experiencing, all combined with her signature hypno-visualization techniques. Manifestation is something I've been interested in for awhile and have been wanting to explore through a Jewish lens. I've learned a little bit about it in secular spaces and in this conversation with Ayelet, we really get to the root of what Jewish manifestation actually looks like. We speak about:-Ayelet's journey to getting to where she is today doing this work-How Jewish manifestation differs from the secular interpretation and some myths about it she's correcting-Why manifestation is a lifestyle — not just a singular practice and what that looks like-Her methodology and the specific goals she helps clients achieve-The power of our words and the way our conscious and subconscious brain works to create a new reality-What true faith and bitachon really feels like-How our trauma (whether it's with a big t or small t) informs the inner work we do today and what that trauma can be used for-Creating the vessel for the things we want in our lives to actually happen-The power of rituals-Seeing miracles in our everyday lives and how to manifest more of them-The unbelievable power we can all take from the Chanukah lights and bring into our everyday lives-How she manifested her husband…and SO MUCH MORE.Ayelet just takes my questions and brings them to a whole new level with her responses. She both elevates them and takes them deeper in a way that will change how you see the world, your relationship with Hashem and how you deal with the struggles in your life.To get in touch with Ayelet, visit ayeletpolonsky.com. Follow her on Instagram at @ayeletpolonsky.

Pri-Med Podcasts
Rethinking Chronic Back Pain: Practical Behavioral Interventions for Primary Care - Frankly Speaking Ep 463

Pri-Med Podcasts

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2025 17:04


Credits: 0.25 AMA PRA Category 1 Credit™   CME/CE Information and Claim Credit: https://www.pri-med.com/online-education/podcast/frankly-speaking-cme-463 Overview: Listen in as we discuss how integrating behavioral therapies into the management of chronic back pain can improve function, reduce opioid use, and empower patients. Boost your clinical toolkit with evidence-based strategies that enhance outcomes while aligning with evolving guidelines for safer, multimodal approaches to chronic pain care. Episode resource links: Zgierska AE, Edwards RR, Barrett B, et al. Mindfulness vs Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Chronic Low Back Pain Treated With Opioids: A Randomized Clinical Trial. JAMA Netw Open. 2025;8(4):e253204. doi:10.1001/jamanetworkopen.2025.3204 Dowell D, Ragan KR, Jones CM, Baldwin GT, Chou R. CDC Clinical Practice Guideline for Prescribing Opioids for Pain - United States, 2022. MMWR Recomm Rep. 2022 Nov 4;71(3):1-95. doi: 10.15585/mmwr.rr7103a1. PMID: 36327391; PMCID: PMC9639433. Guest: Jillian Joseph, MPAS, PA-C Music Credit: Matthew Bugos Thoughts? Suggestions? Email us at FranklySpeaking@pri-med.com  

The PedsDocTalk Podcast
The Follow-Up: Motherhood Insomnia

The PedsDocTalk Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2025 12:19


If you've ever spent the whole day dreaming about going to bed, only to climb under the covers and lie wide awake, this episode will feel like a deep exhale. I'm joined by sleep psychologist Dr. Shelby Harris to talk about the tired-but-wired cycle so many mothers fall into and why it's more common than you think. We unpack the real reasons your brain won't shut off at night, from revenge bedtime procrastination to the mental load that follows moms everywhere. Dr. Harris explains how habits, overstimulation, and our constant push to “catch up” all get in the way of rest, even when we're desperate for it. And most importantly, she shares the science-backed strategies that actually work for an overwhelmed parent who needs sleep but can't find the off switch. Whether you're dealing with the occasional rough night or months of broken sleep, this conversation brings clarity, relief, and doable steps that don't add more pressure to your already full plate. In This Episode, We Cover: ✔️ Why moms feel exhausted all day yet can't fall asleep at night ✔️ The psychology behind “tired but wired” ✔️ Revenge bedtime procrastination and why it hits mothers so hard ✔️ How over-stimulation and unfinished to-dos keep your brain awake ✔️ Simple sleep hygiene habits that truly help ✔️ What to do when your phone is sabotaging your nights ✔️ Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBT-I): who it helps and why ✔️ When to consider medication and what that process looks like ✔️ How our own sleep habits shape our kids' sleep long term Want more? Listen to the full, original episode. Our podcasts are also now on YouTube. If you prefer a video podcast with closed captioning, check us out there and ⁠subscribe to PedsDocTalk⁠. Get trusted pediatric advice, relatable parenting insights, and evidence-based tips delivered straight to your inbox—join thousands of parents who rely on the PDT newsletter to stay informed, supported, and confident. ⁠⁠⁠⁠Join the newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠! And don't forget to follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠@pedsdoctalkpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠ on Instagram—our new space just for parents looking for real talk and real support. We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on the ⁠PedsDocTalk Podcast Sponsorships⁠ page of the website.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The Healthiest You
Coping With Depression: Part One

The Healthiest You

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2025 16:47


On average, you have over 6,000 thoughts a day. That's a lot – and about 80 percent of them are negative. Unsettling thoughts, lingering feelings of sadness or losing interest in activities you once enjoyed are all reasons to check in on your mental health with a trusted friend or your clinician.  If you're looking for options because something feels off or you know a loved one who is facing depression, you'll want to listen to the latest episode of The Healthiest You podcast. In Part One of our podcast series on major depression, you'll hear from psychiatrist Samantha Cerimele, MD, with Lehigh Valley Health Network, part of Jefferson Health. How can you break the cycle of negative thoughts? What causes depression? Which symptoms should not be ignored? Should you try transcranial magnetic stimulation (TMS) therapy? Can St. John's wort supplements help fight depression? We answer these questions and more on The Healthiest You podcast this month.Chapters:0:01 - Intro1:06 - Why women have a higher risk2:16 - What causes depression2:31 - Most common types of depression3:04 - Symptoms you should not ignore 4:33 - Take these first steps if you have symptoms5:35 - How depression is diagnosed6:16 - Treatment options7:15 - Nonmedication treatment options7:33 - Transcranial magnetic stimulation (TMS)8:49 - Side effects of TMS9:14 - Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) or talk therapy10:19 - Mental health toolkit11:39 - What to do when your thoughts are spiraling12:16 - Breathing exercise14:29 - St. John's wort supplement

Mentally Flexible
Marisa Mazza, PsyD | Treating OCD and Anxiety with Psychological Flexibility

Mentally Flexible

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2025 55:54


Dr. Marisa T. Mazza is a clinical psychologist and founder of choicetherapy psychological services, inc.  Dr. Mazza is passionate about providing evidence-based therapies, such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Exposure and Response Prevention, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Mindful Self-Compassion, to teens and adults struggling with OCD or Anxiety. She enjoys supporting individuals in learning new ways of interacting with thoughts and feelings. Her approach allows individuals to face their fears in a gradual and gentle way so they can get unstuck from thoughts and feelings and live meaningful lives. Dr. Mazza was formerly a board member of OCD SF Bay Area, the International OCD Foundation's local affiliate, and was the Vice President of the San Francisco Bay Area Association for Contextual Behavioral Science. She is also the author of The ACT Workbook for OCD which we discuss at points throughout this episode.Some of the topics we explore in this episode include:-Marisa's history of anxiety challenges -How it has helped her grow and be connected to values as a clinician-The role that shame plays in anxiety and OCD challenges-Common OCD related challenges faced postpartum-What lead to Marisa writing The ACT Workbook for OCD-How to use ACT skills and exposure exercises flexibly in specific contexts—————————————————————————Marisa's website: https://www.choicetherapy.net/The ACT Workbook for OCD: https://a.co/d/4QBveqc—————————————————————————Thank you all for checking out the episode! Here are some ways to help support Mentally Flexible:Sign up for PsychFlex through the Mentally Flexible link! PsychFlex.com/MentallyFlexibleYou can help cover some of the costs of running the podcast by donating a cup of coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/mentallyflexiblePlease subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It only takes 30 seconds and plays an important role in being able to get new guests.https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentally-flexible/id1539933988Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mentallyflexible/Check out my song “Glimpse at Truth” that you hear in the intro/outro of every episode: https://tomparkes.bandcamp.com/track/glimpse-at-truthCheck out my new album, Holding Space! https://open.spotify.com/album/0iOcjZQhmAhYtjjq3CTpwQ?si=nemiLnELTsGGExjfy8B6iw

The OCD Stories
Dr Steven Phillipson and Sarah: Metaphysical OCD and Sarah's story (#512)

The OCD Stories

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2025 66:34


In episode 512 I chat with Dr Steven Phillipson and Sarah. Steven is a licensed clinical psychologist who specialises in Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy for OCD. Steven is the Clinical Director at the Center for Cognitive Behavioral Psychotherapy in New York. He is joined by one of his patients, Sarah, who has kindly agreed to share her story. We discuss what is metaphysical themed OCD, what is metaphysical contamination OCD, trauma, Sarah's OCD story, her sticking points in recovery, getting the wrong diagnosis, how her husband supported her, and her therapy with Steve. Hope it helps. Show notes: https://theocdstories.com/episode/steve-sarah-512 The podcast is made possible by NOCD. NOCD offers effective, convenient therapy available in the US and outside the US. To find out more about NOCD, their therapy plans and if they currently take your insurance head over to https://go.treatmyocd.com/theocdstories Join many other listeners getting our weekly emails. Never miss a podcast episode or update: https://theocdstories.com/newsletter 

Rihamiat - رهاميات
183 Applying CBT in Minimalism - بصمتك (ج٣) تطبيق العلاج المعرفي السلوكي في المنيماليزم

Rihamiat - رهاميات

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2025 23:32


How to apply Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in Minimalism, using cognitive distortions and learning about Dichotomous Thinking & Selective Abstractionحلقة اليوم هي الجزء الثالث من سلسلة "بصمتك" دورة تدريبية في الخياطة والتفصيل لتقومي بتفصيل المنيماليزم الخاص بك وتطبيق مبادئ العلاج المعرفي السلوكي.ستتعرفون على التشوهات المعرفية والأفكار السلبية التلقائية مع أمثلة من المنيماليزم نقع فيها بأخطاء التجريد الانتقائي والتفكير الثنائي.تحذير هام من الانتكاسات الموسمية الكبرى في المنيماليزم مع قرب موعد تخفيضات الجمعة البيضاء أو السوداء. تأكدي من أن أي قرار شراء هو قرار واعي وليس اندفاعي.لينك فيديو وصفة السينامون رول (سينابون)https://youtu.be/1vAXD5DScUcلينك فيديو وصفة المناقيشhttps://youtu.be/ikgvvyXvAskونلتقي على خير ان شاء الله في موعدنا صباح الجمعة الثاني والرابع من كل شهر How to apply Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in Minimalism, using cognitive distortions and learning about Dichotomous Thinking & Selective Abstractionحلقة اليوم هي الجزء الثالث من سلسلة "بصمتك" دورة تدريبية في الخياطة والتفصيل لتقومي بتفصيل المنيماليزم الخاص بك وتطبيق مبادئ العلاج المعرفي السلوكي.ستتعرفون على التشوهات المعرفية والأفكار السلبية التلقائية مع أمثلة من المنيماليزم نقع فيها بأخطاء التجريد الانتقائي والتفكير الثنائي.تحذير هام من الانتكاسات الموسمية الكبرى في المنيماليزم مع قرب موعد تخفيضات الجمعة البيضاء أو السوداء. تأكدي من أن أي قرار شراء هو قرار واعي وليس اندفاعي.لينك فيديو وصفة السينامون رول (سينابون)https://youtu.be/1vAXD5DScUcلينك فيديو وصفة المناقيشhttps://youtu.be/ikgvvyXvAskونلتقي على خير ان شاء الله في موعدنا صباح الجمعة الثاني والرابع من كل شهر Support the showللمزيد من الموضوعات النفسية والتربوية اشتركوا في قناة يوتيوب Riham Jarjourhttps://www.youtube.com/@RihamJarjourلمتابعة حساب إنستجرامhttps://www.instagram.com/rihamiat/وتفضلوا بزيارة الموقع الإلكتروني لبودكاست رهامياتhttps://www.rihamiat.com

ADHD Experts Podcast
582- Adapting Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for ADHD and Neurodivergence

ADHD Experts Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2025 61:04


Saskia Van der Oord, Ph.D., and Michael Meinzer, Ph.D., discuss the efficacy of cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) for ADHD, and how modern approaches should move from treating ADHD behaviors and impairments to empowering individuals. Behavioral Therapy for ADHD: Additional Resources Free Download: Everything You Need to Know About CBT Read: ADHD Therapy Comparison: CBT vs. ADHD Coaching Read: Why the ADHD Brain Chooses the Less Important Task — and How CBT Improves Prioritization Skills Read: Adult ADHD Treatment Options — an Overview Access the video and slides for podcast episode #582 here: https://www.additudemag.com/webinar/therapy-for-adhd-adapting-cbt/ Thank you for listening to ADDitude's ADHD Experts podcast. Please consider subscribing to the magazine (additu.de/subscribe) to support our mission of providing ADHD education and support.

Optimal Health Daily
3177: [Part 1] 10 Ways to Get Back on Track After a Binge by Rachael Link with Healthline on Healing Your Relationship with Food

Optimal Health Daily

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2025 11:57


Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3177: Rachael Link offers a grounded and compassionate guide for what to do after a binge, emphasizing recovery without guilt or extremes. With practical steps like rehydrating, practicing self-kindness, and returning to normal eating patterns, she helps readers avoid the binge-restrict cycle and build a healthier, more forgiving relationship with food. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.healthline.com/nutrition/what-to-do-after-a-binge Quotes to ponder: "One binge won't ruin your progress, but letting it spiral into an ongoing cycle can." "Try not to think of foods as ‘good' or ‘bad.' Instead, focus on how they make you feel." "Restricting yourself after a binge can increase cravings and the risk of bingeing again." Episode references: National Eating Disorders Association: https://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/ Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Eating Disorders: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6534340/ Intuitive Eating: https://www.intuitiveeating.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Stories With Traction
#171: Sleep Is a Skillset: The Surprising Habits That Heal Insomnia

Stories With Traction

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2025 47:04


SHOW NOTES:In this insightful episode, Matt Zaun sits down with Morgan Adams, an insomnia and holistic sleep coach, to break down why so many high achievers are running on fumes and what to do about it.Morgan shares practical tools, mindset shifts, and behavioral strategies for those struggling with sleep maintenance, middle-of-the-night wakeups, and chronic insomnia. Whether you're a business leader burning the candle at both ends or someone simply trying to reclaim restful sleep, this episode unpacks the science and psychology behind sleep and how to improve it.In addition, they talk about:✅ The trifecta Morgan uses to help clients: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBTI), behavior shifts, and mindfulness✅ How racing thoughts at 3 a.m. are biologically wired to feel catastrophic (and what to do about them)✅ How “constructive worry” sessions help offload anxiety before bed✅ The danger of social jet lag and how inconsistent wake-up times sabotage your circadian rhythm…and much more.BIOSMorgan Adams is a holistic sleep coach and former insomniac who helps ambitious professionals overcome sleeplessness without the use of sleep aids. She is a Certified Sleep Science Coach, has completed Brief Behavior Therapy for Insomnia (BBTI) certification, and holds a Health Coach Certification. Morgan helps clients rewire their habits and mindset to get the restorative sleep they need.Matt Zaun is an award-winning speaker and strategic storytelling expert who shows leaders how to inspire action and drive results through the power of story. He's the author of The StoryBank, a book that teaches people how to leverage strategic storytelling to build a vibrant company culture, boost sales, strengthen marketing, and become dynamic public speakers.

Optimal Health Daily - ARCHIVE 1 - Episodes 1-300 ONLY
3177: [Part 1] 10 Ways to Get Back on Track After a Binge by Rachael Link with Healthline on Healing Your Relationship with Food

Optimal Health Daily - ARCHIVE 1 - Episodes 1-300 ONLY

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2025 11:57


Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3177: Rachael Link offers a grounded and compassionate guide for what to do after a binge, emphasizing recovery without guilt or extremes. With practical steps like rehydrating, practicing self-kindness, and returning to normal eating patterns, she helps readers avoid the binge-restrict cycle and build a healthier, more forgiving relationship with food. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.healthline.com/nutrition/what-to-do-after-a-binge Quotes to ponder: "One binge won't ruin your progress, but letting it spiral into an ongoing cycle can." "Try not to think of foods as ‘good' or ‘bad.' Instead, focus on how they make you feel." "Restricting yourself after a binge can increase cravings and the risk of bingeing again." Episode references: National Eating Disorders Association: https://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/ Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Eating Disorders: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6534340/ Intuitive Eating: https://www.intuitiveeating.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Intelligent Medicine
Intelligent Medicine Radio for October 25, Part 2: Cancer Incidence is Soaring

Intelligent Medicine

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2025 44:19


While we're making progress in TREATING cancer, worldwide cancer INCIDENCE is soaring, especially among young people; New guidelines for colon cancer screening urge earlier start at age 45; Rates of peanut allergy are declining as more parents follow revised advice to introduce nuts earlier to kids; What's with all the buzz about methylene blue? Legalization and stronger pot are creating an epidemic of ER visits for uncontrolled vomiting, debilitating abdominal pain; New smart toilet gives you a report card on your poop; When Zoloft doesn't work for anxiety.

Hypnotize Me with Dr. Elizabeth Bonet
HM329 Prevent Burnout with Michelle Niemeyer

Hypnotize Me with Dr. Elizabeth Bonet

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2025 52:33 Transcription Available


Our guest this week is Michelle Niemeyer. After more than 30 years of law practice, Michelle found herself overweight, unhappy, unmotivated, divorced and dealing with a life threatening autoimmune diagnosis. She went back to school and became a certified health coach to learn about holistic health and stress management and studied motivation, wellness,  the science of happiness, neurolinguistic programming and positive psychology. It all led to “The Art of Bending Time,” a system to prevent burnout, increase productivity, and increase happiness.   Get free journal prompts to start your journey by texting the word CLARITY to 33777 See more about Michelle Niemeyer's at https://www.michelleniemeyer.com -------------- Support the Podcast & Help yourself with Hypnosis Downloads by Dr. Liz! http://bit.ly/HypnosisMP3Downloads Do you have Chronic Insomnia? Find out more about Dr. Liz's Better Sleep Program at https://bit.ly/sleepbetterfeelbetter Search episodes at the Podcast Page http://bit.ly/HM-podcast --------- About Dr. Liz Interested in hypnosis with Dr. Liz? Schedule your free consultation at https://www.drlizhypnosis.com Winner of numerous awards including Top 100 Moms in Business, Dr. Liz provides psychotherapy, hypnotherapy, and hypnosis to people wanting a fast, easy way to transform all around the world. She has a PhD in Clinical Psychology, is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) and has special certification in Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy. Specialty areas include Anxiety, Insomnia, and Deeper Emotional Healing. A problem shared is a problem halved. In person and online hypnosis and CBT for healing and transformation.  Listened to in over 140 countries, Hypnotize Me is the podcast about hypnosis, transformation, and healing. Certified hypnotherapist and Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Dr. Liz Bonet, discusses hypnosis and interviews professionals doing transformational work. Thank you for tuning in!

Peak Performance Life Podcast
EPI 221: World Renowned Psychologist & Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Expert Dr. Josh Spitalnick On How To Improve Your Mental Health, Reduce Anxiety, And Enjoy Your Life More.

Peak Performance Life Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2025 55:43


Show notes: (0:00) Intro (1:11) Why anxiety is on the rise and how Dr. Spitalnik got into psychology (6:21) What CBT is and why it often works faster than other therapies (10:42) The most common types of anxiety his clinic treats (13:16) What exposure therapy looks like (17:02) Parenting with anxiety and how it affects your kids (22:38) Changing how you think vs. what you think (27:34) The “manslaughter vs. man's laughter” exercise (35:29) Choosing your response instead of reacting (38:51) Mental health is health, even if you're not “sick” (42:28) Simple, weird ways to add laughter to your day (46:44) Curating your social media feed to protect your mindset (50:03) Where to find Dr. Spitalnick and his team online & get help (52:52) Outro   Who is Dr. Josh Spitalnick?   Dr. Josh Spitalnick is a licensed psychologist and board-certified expert in behavioral and cognitive psychology, serving as the CEO of Anxiety Specialists of Atlanta. He's also a faculty member at the International OCD Foundation's Behavior Therapy Training Institute (BTTI).   In his clinical work, Dr. Spitalnick uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) to treat OCD, anxiety, mood disorders, phobias, trauma, and relationship difficulties. He works with children, teens, adults, families, and couples, with specialties in pediatric anxiety, health anxiety, psychosomatic and chronic health conditions, and less common OCD subtypes like harm OCD and moral scrupulosity.   He also supports executives, athletes, and media professionals facing performance anxiety, imposter syndrome, and career stress. Beyond his clinic, he runs a consulting business that helps healthcare practices improve efficiency, scalability, and profitability.   Dr. Spitalnick is the co-author of two books: The Complete Guide to Overcoming Health Anxiety and Raising Resilience: 25 Tips for Parenting Your Child with Anxiety or OCD, both recognized internationally.   Connect with Dr. Josh: Website: https://www.anxietyspecialistsofatlanta.com/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/anxietyatldoc   Resources: https://www.overcominghealthanxiety.com/ Links and Resources: Peak Performance Life Peak Performance on Facebook Peak Performance on Instagram  

Self Reflection Podcast
Decoding the Narcissist

Self Reflection Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 13, 2025 37:00


Send us a textIt starts like a fairytale. They're charming, magnetic, and make you feel like the center of the universe. Then, slowly, the story changes. The compliments turn to criticism, your reality is questioned, and you start to feel like you're losing yourself. Sound familiar?In this crucial and eye-opening episode, host Lira Ndifon sits down with practical psychologist Zinaida, a specialist in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, to pull back the curtain on one of the most confusing and damaging relationship dynamics: narcissism. This isn't just a clinical breakdown; it's a survival guide for anyone who has ever felt trapped in a toxic cycle and wondered, "Is it me?"Zina provides a powerful psychological roadmap, explaining that narcissistic behavior isn't about self-love but stems from deep childhood wounds. She demystifies the narcissist's playbook, from their masterful use of gaslighting to the "Four S's" they secretly seek in every relationship: Sex, Supply, Safety, and Service. This conversation will equip you with the clarity to see the red flags you might have missed and the strength to reclaim your power.This is a must-listen for anyone healing from a toxic relationship or wanting to understand the psychology of manipulation. You will discover:The Narcissist's Playbook: How to spot the subtle ways a narcissist tests your boundaries from the very beginning.The Science of Gaslighting: A simple, powerful phrase you can use to shut down gaslighting without engaging in a fight.The Addictive Cycle: The psychological reason why victims of narcissistic abuse often find themselves in similar relationships over and over again—and how to finally break free.The Path to Healing: A compassionate guide to rebuilding your self-worth, learning to set boundaries, and differentiating between love and abuse after a narcissistic relationship.This episode is a powerful message of validation and hope, reminding you that healing is possible and that you deserve a love that builds you up, not one that breaks you down.Support the showCall to Action: Engage with the Self-Reflection Podcast community! Like, follow, and subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube (Self-Reflection Podcast by Lira Ndifon), and all major podcast platforms. Share your insights and feedback—we value your contributions! Suggest topics you'd like us to explore. Your support amplifies our reach, sharing these vital messages of self-love and empowerment. Until our next conversation, prioritize self-care and embrace your journey. Grab your copy of "Awaken Your True Self" on Amazon. Until next time, be kind to yourself and keep reflecting.

Therapy on the Cutting Edge
Utilizing Forgiveness to Allow Oneself To Be Connected to The Now and Increasing Our Capacity for Love and Joy

Therapy on the Cutting Edge

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 13, 2025 53:47


In this episode, Fred discusses how in college he got very interested in spiritual questions and read books, learned how to meditate, thought a lot about deeper meaning and opened a vegetarian restaurant in Santa Cruz. After having his first child, he went to graduate school and decided to do his dissertation on the topic of forgiveness, which was something that he struggled with in his own life, describing himself as “dramatically unable to forgive”. He shared that the dissertation was a great success and received a lot of media attention, which set him in this direction in his research. He shared how they went for a secular approach, because a religious approach involved a lot of tribalism, and they were all essentially different portals to enter into the work of forgiveness. They integrated mindfulness and a Buddhist influenced Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, which were not common in psychotherapy then. We discussed my interpretation of his work and how I've conceptualized is as forgiveness is for you, not for the other person who did the harm. Fred discusses the term “trauma” and how sometimes it is used in situations that may not be trauma, and labeling it that way can lead to blame, rather than the empathy for what one has gone through and allowing the person to cope with their life right now. He discussed how forgiveness can allow us to be more connected to what is happening with one's life, right now, in the present. He shared that an essential part of forgiveness is acknowledging our vulnerability, which never goes away, and accepting that vulnerability and not blaming that which reminds us of how vulnerable we are. He said he learned more about mindfulness from Jon Kabat Zinn, Ph.D. and how when you increase awareness, you increase choice. We discussed his work with people from Northern Ireland, Israel, Palestine, Sierra Leon, Columbia and people after 9-11 and how one of the hardest parts related to forgiveness is when there are different sides, as forgiveness may lead the person's “side” to label them as a traitor. In discussing how to forgive when the person is not safe because they may not be out of the situation, like Israel and Gaza, this lead to a discussion of what makes us safe. He shared that often armoring up, becoming bitter, and trusting others less and being more guarded may feel like it's protecting us, but it also limits our capacity for love and joy. He shared that mindfulness helps us bring ourselves back to the now and in this very moment, we are usually safe. He explained that our threat response overreaches, and combatting that overreach is important to connect us to our present safety and abundance that we may have. He discusses his new workbook, The Forgive for Good Recovery Workbook, that helps people through a process of forgiveness. He leaves us with one of his favorite quotes about forgiveness: "It's giving up all hope for a better past". Frederic Luskin, Ph.D. is a psychologist in Counseling and Health Psychology from Stanford University where he has been teaching for the past 30 years. Currently, he is on the faculty for the Stanford School of Business Executive Education program where he teaches mindfulness, emotional intelligence, psychological safety, and positive psychology to executives from all over the world. He serves as Director of the Stanford University Forgiveness Projects, researching the positive effects of forgiveness for a healthy and happy life. Fred is one of the world's recognized authorities on forgiveness of self and others. He's been interviewed and featured in such media outlets as The New York Times, O Magazine, Today Show, LA Times, Time Magazine, Huffington Post, and CBS Morning News. In addition, he's published 3 books and dozens of articles on forgiveness. His book Forgive for Good is the best-selling secular self-help book published on the topic of forgiveness.

Hypnotize Me with Dr. Elizabeth Bonet
HM328 Guilt – Don't let it Eat You Up!

Hypnotize Me with Dr. Elizabeth Bonet

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2025 36:23 Transcription Available


Dr. Liz talks about her own guilt when her oldest daughter revealed recently that she too has been diagnosed as autistic and that she's struggling with depression. She shares what to do about guilt – how to check it out to see if it's appropriate and what to do about it so you don't get trapped in it.   Free Hypnosis download at >>> https://bit.ly/HypnosisReduceFearandAnxiety Support the Podcast & Help yourself with Hypnosis Downloads by Dr. Liz! http://bit.ly/HypnosisMP3Downloads Do you have Chronic Insomnia? Find out more about Dr. Liz's Better Sleep Program at https://bit.ly/sleepbetterfeelbetter Search episodes at the Podcast Page http://bit.ly/HM-podcast --------- About Dr. Liz Interested in hypnosis with Dr. Liz? Schedule your free consultation at https://www.drlizhypnosis.com Winner of numerous awards including Top 100 Moms in Business, Dr. Liz provides psychotherapy, hypnotherapy, and hypnosis to people wanting a fast, easy way to transform all around the world. She has a PhD in Clinical Psychology, is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) and has special certification in Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy. Specialty areas include Anxiety, Insomnia, and Deeper Emotional Healing. A problem shared is a problem halved. In person and online hypnosis and CBT for healing and transformation.  Listened to in over 140 countries, Hypnotize Me is the podcast about hypnosis, transformation, and healing. Certified hypnotherapist and Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Dr. Liz Bonet, discusses hypnosis and interviews professionals doing transformational work. Thank you for tuning in!

Intelligent Medicine
Depression and Anxiety: Holistic Solutions with Dr. Jacob Teitelbaum, Part 1

Intelligent Medicine

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2025 29:51


In this episode of the Intelligent Medicine podcast, host Dr. Ronald Hoffman discusses the increasing prevalence of depression and anxiety, particularly among young people, with guest Dr. Jacob Teitelbaum, Integrative Medicine physician, researcher, and best-selling author. They explore potential causes, including societal factors, diet, sleep patterns, and the fear-inducing media environment. Dr. Teitelbaum shares insights from his expertise in both conventional and integrative medicine, emphasizing the role of nutritional support, such as magnesium, B vitamins, and curcumin, as well as the importance of psychological strategies, biophysical techniques like shaking off trauma, and natural remedies. They also delve into the potential benefits of alternative therapies like CBD, ketamine, and psychedelics for mental health conditions. Listeners are encouraged to consider a comprehensive approach to managing these pervasive mental health issues.

Heal from Infidelity
How to Get More Sleep After Infidelity with Yana Vriesinga

Heal from Infidelity

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2025 50:34


Sleep struggles are one of the most common and painful side effects after betrayal. I know firsthand how exhausting it can feel to lie awake night after night—your mind racing, your body restless, and your heart heavy with unanswered questions. In this episode, I sit down with certified sleep coach Yana Vriesinga, who not only brings professional expertise in cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia but also personal experience of navigating sleepless nights after infidelity. Yana shares her journey of turning her own struggle into a calling to help others, and she gives us practical, compassionate tools to reclaim restful nights. Together, we talk about why sleep matters so deeply in the healing process, the three “dials” you can adjust to improve your sleep, and how to shift from anxious, perfectionistic thinking into gentle, supportive habits that allow your body to rest. If you've been battling insomnia after betrayal, this episode is for you. Healing is possible—and peaceful sleep can return. Takeaways: Why insomnia is so common after infidelity The three dials that influence healthy sleep How to calm nighttime anxiety and surrender to rest Practical habits to gently reset your sleep rhythm If you're ready to find hope, rest, and resilience, reach out—I'd love to support you on your journey. YANA'S INFORMATION: Yana Vriesinga is a journalist turned certified sleep coach, specializing in helping people reclaim their nights after the shock of infidelity. She knows firsthand how betrayal can hijack the nervous system, leaving even the strongest sleepers among us wide awake at 3 a.m. Drawing on her own story, her background in health reporting, and certification in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBT-I), Yana has developed a clear, compassionate approach to what she calls post-infidelity insomnia. Through her coaching and her free email course, ‘Sleep More, Heal Stronger', she equips betrayed partners with practical tools to calm their bodies, quiet their thoughts, and finally get the restorative sleep they need to stay resilient.  Join her free course at ResilientDays.com (https://www.resilientdays.com) and start sleeping better tonight.  More from me: October Virtual Retreat: Coming Home to Yourself - on October 7th - register at https://portal.andreagiles.com/offers/jL7m4zzd/checkout Please leave a rating and review if you like our podcast: https://ratethispodcast.com/healfrominfidelity Sign up for the $47 class "Decide: How to Commit to Staying or Going After Infidelity" here: https://portal.andreagiles.com/decide Apply to join the "Get Your Life Back After Infidelity" group program here: https://andreagiles.com/get-your-life-back/ Follow me on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/theinfidelitycoach/ Please click the button to subscribe so you don't miss any episodes! For transcripts and other available downloads, please visit my website at https://andreagiles.com/podcast/ © 2020 - 2025 Andrea Giles

Mental Health: Hope and Recovery
Attacking Anxiety

Mental Health: Hope and Recovery

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2025 56:18


    Anxiety disorder is the most prevalent mental illness in the U.S. and worldwide. Twenty percent of Americans, 40 million people, suffer from an anxiety disorder. The disorder can have a devastating impact on society and the individual, and can be particularly damaging to the human brain. Experts caution that an anxiety disorder requires treatment for the person to recover. The good news is that this episode highlights effective, proven treatment such as psychotherapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and medication, along with cutting-edge treatment methods. With the current and developing treatment methods, there is cause for optimism and hope in overcoming anxiety disorder today. Valerie and Helen both battle anxiety disorder, and they are well-versed in the symptoms and severity of the illness. Join them as they share what they have learned. Find Valerie and Helen at https://mentalhealthhopeandrecovery.com Shownotes: Attacking Anxiety Episode #58Release Date: September 29th, 2025   What This Episode Covers  ·      Helen and Valerie explore lived experience, causes and symptoms, coping skills, and research in the area of anxiety disorders. Key Takeaways & Tools · Anxiety disorder is the most prevalent mental illness in the U.S. and worldwide.  · The disorder can have a devastating impact on society and the individual, and can be particularly damaging to the human brain. · The good news is that with the current and developing treatment methods, there is cause for optimism and hope in overcoming anxiety disorder today. · There are a vast number of practical coping skills for anxiety disorder, including mindfulness, diaphragmatic breathing, journaling, therapy, dialectical and cognitive behavior skills, checking for the actual truth of a situation, exercise, and proper sleep.   Resources & Links Mentioned · National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI): https://nami.org · Crisis Lifeline (U.S.): Dial 988 for immediate support Related Episodes https://mentalhealthhopeandrecovery.com/episode/goal-setting-a-necessity-for-recovery https://mentalhealthhopeandrecovery.com/episode/mindfulness-exercise-favorites   How to Connect with Mental Health: Hope and Recovery · Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Audible · Follow on Facebook and LinkedIn · Share your story or suggest a topic: mentalhealthhopeandrecovery.com Disclaimer The content in this episode is for educational / informational purposes only. The hosts are not licensed mental health professionals. If you are in crisis or believe you may harm yourself or others, please seek immediate help from qualified professionals. Inspiring Quote from This Episode · “Nothing diminishes anxiety faster than action.” Walter Anderson · “The greatest weapon against stress is our ability to choose one thought over another.”  William James   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hypnotize Me with Dr. Elizabeth Bonet
HM327 Mini: Self-Hypnosis vs Hypnosis

Hypnotize Me with Dr. Elizabeth Bonet

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2025 11:20 Transcription Available


What's the difference between self-hypnosis and hypnosis? Dr. Liz goes into it in this mini-episode! Free Hypnosis download at >>> https://bit.ly/HypnosisReduceFearandAnxiety -------------- Support the Podcast & Help yourself with Hypnosis Downloads by Dr. Liz! http://bit.ly/HypnosisMP3Downloads Do you have Chronic Insomnia? Find out more about Dr. Liz's Better Sleep Program at https://bit.ly/sleepbetterfeelbetter Search episodes at the Podcast Page http://bit.ly/HM-podcast --------- About Dr. Liz Interested in hypnosis with Dr. Liz? Schedule your free consultation at https://www.drlizhypnosis.com Winner of numerous awards including Top 100 Moms in Business, Dr. Liz provides psychotherapy, hypnotherapy, and hypnosis to people wanting a fast, easy way to transform all around the world. She has a PhD in Clinical Psychology, is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) and has special certification in Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy. Specialty areas include Anxiety, Insomnia, and Deeper Emotional Healing. A problem shared is a problem halved. In person and online hypnosis and CBT for healing and transformation.  Listened to in over 140 countries, Hypnotize Me is the podcast about hypnosis, transformation, and healing. Certified hypnotherapist and Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Dr. Liz Bonet, discusses hypnosis and interviews professionals doing transformational work.

ZOE Science & Nutrition
Fix your sleep with the Royal Marine's sleep consultant Dr. Sophie Bostock

ZOE Science & Nutrition

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2025 56:54


We've all been there: tossing and turning, checking the clock, and stressing about not getting enough sleep. But what if the secret to a good night's rest isn't in a pill or a product, but in changing your mindset and daily habits? In this episode, we're joined by Dr. Sophie Bostock, a leading sleep scientist and founder of The Sleep Scientist. Sophie has dedicated her career to helping people understand the science of sleep and how to build lasting, healthy habits. We dive into what really happens when we don't get enough sleep, from the psychological effects on our willpower and relationships to the physiological impacts on our long-term health. Sophie debunks common myths about blue light, alcohol, and cheese, and explains the critical difference between occasional poor sleep and true insomnia. And introduces us to Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBT-I), explaining why it's a more effective long-term solution than sleeping pills. Finally, we walk through the simple, science-backed habits you can adopt right now to improve your sleep, starting the moment you wake up. Unlock the science of sleep

Intelligent Medicine
Understanding the Biology of Trauma, Part 1

Intelligent Medicine

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2025 34:59


Dr. Aimie Apigian, author of “The Biology of Trauma: How the Body Holds Fear, Pain, and Overwhelm, and How to Heal It,” details how unaddressed trauma is often the hidden cause of many preventable illnesses and is linked to eight of the ten leading causes of death. The conversation delves into the physiological responses to trauma, the mechanisms by which trauma can manifest in chronic physical ailments, and the importance of incorporating a holistic approach that includes addressing mental, somatic, and biological impacts of trauma. Dr. Apigian also shares insights from her personal journey and professional evolution, emphasizing the need for a combination of medical treatment and trauma work for optimal health.

Hypnotize Me with Dr. Elizabeth Bonet
HM326 Mini: What DOES Hypnosis feel like?

Hypnotize Me with Dr. Elizabeth Bonet

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2025 13:15 Transcription Available


One of the most frequent questions asked is what does hypnosis feel like? Wonder no more! Dr. Liz talks about it in this mini episode and encourages you to go get one of her free downloads so you have to wonder no longer! Free Hypnosis download at >>> https://bit.ly/HypnosisReduceFearandAnxiety -------------- Support the Podcast & Help yourself with Hypnosis Downloads by Dr. Liz! http://bit.ly/HypnosisMP3Downloads Do you have Chronic Insomnia? Find out more about Dr. Liz's Better Sleep Program at https://bit.ly/sleepbetterfeelbetter Search episodes at the Podcast Page http://bit.ly/HM-podcast --------- About Dr. Liz Interested in hypnosis with Dr. Liz? Schedule your free consultation at https://www.drlizhypnosis.com Winner of numerous awards including Top 100 Moms in Business, Dr. Liz provides psychotherapy, hypnotherapy, and hypnosis to people wanting a fast, easy way to transform all around the world. She has a PhD in Clinical Psychology, is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) and has special certification in Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy. Specialty areas include Anxiety, Insomnia, and Deeper Emotional Healing. A problem shared is a problem halved. In person and online hypnosis and CBT for healing and transformation.  Listened to in over 140 countries, Hypnotize Me is the podcast about hypnosis, transformation, and healing. Certified hypnotherapist and Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Dr. Liz Bonet, discusses hypnosis and interviews professionals doing transformational work.

Intelligent Medicine
Understanding Interoception: Transforming Mind-Body Health, Part 1

Intelligent Medicine

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2025 30:21


In this episode of the Intelligent Medicine podcast, Dr. Ronald Hoffman explores the concept of interoception with UK-based science journalist and author Caroline Williams. They discuss her latest book, “Inner Sense: How the New Science of Interoception Can Transform Your Health.” The conversation details the intricate relationship between the mind and body, the importance of bodily self-awareness, and how it impacts mental and physical health. Williams shares insights from her extensive research and practical strategies for enhancing interoception, such as controlled breathing exercises and body scans. They also touch on future advancements and therapeutic applications in the realm of interoception, offering listeners a comprehensive understanding of this emerging science and its potential to revolutionize healthcare.