Welcome to the In Bed with Strangers Podcast! I am your host, Casey Donatello (along with my husband Jason). This a sex positive and alternative lifestyle (swinger, ENM, Hotwife) podcast inspired by my real-life journey to sexual empowerment and freedom. Join me as I discuss my complicated physical, mental and emotional transformation from shy Catholic school girl to insatiable unicorn and finally a happy and horny Hotwife. Jason and I share the female, male and couple perspective on a wide array of topics. if you know anything about me, then you can assume this show will be a combination of funny, steamy, awkward, serious, honest, kinky, embarrassing, insightful and more! Please be advised this podcast does contain graphic and mature content which is intended for listeners 18 and over. This show is meant for informational and entertainment purposes only. So what are you waiting for? Hop in bed with me and let's have some fun! xoxoCASEYxoxo
FINAL EPISODE! This week we dish on our most recent playdates! I enjoy the variety of BWC & BLC, plus we take things up a notch and attend our first official BBC event! Tune in to find out how it went - from the pros and cons to how many guys I played with, how squirting proved Jason has no reason to feel insecure, and the unexpected effect the party had on Jason - we share it all!
WTF is going on with us lately??? Tune in to hear how we are reinventing our Hotwife dynamic, how mutual humiliation drove us crazy, what secret fantasies we confessed to each other, what changes we made to our playdates, and where we stand with couples. Plus, find out how the effects of chemo encouraged us to blur the line between stag and cuck!
What happens when your dynamic gets stale? Does conflict always lead to chaos or can it bring you closer? Why did we lose our Hotwife spark and how can we get it back? Tune in to find out why I offered Jason an unexpected hall pass, how he reacted and what happened next. Plus, what major promise did I make that totally blew his mind?
This week Jason & I chat all about the fascinating world of fetishes. We attempt to decipher the difference between kinks and fetishes, I test his knowledge to see how many unique fetishes he has heard of, and we learn some cool names for things we already love.
In this episode we share the juicy stories from a fun-filled week. From an awesome BBC date, a sexy phone call with a fan, making kinky home videos, new BJ techniques, to finding a unique way to repurpose an unwanted sex toy, and more!
This week we finally have tons of juicy stories to share! Jason and I start off easy and quickly work our way up from kissing, hand stuff, and oral to bareback fun! Oh, and we also add in some hot wax play and a BBC MFM with a triple facial!
With cancer finally behind us, we look forward to a future full of filthy unrestricted s*x. In order to prepare, Jason and I each share a freaky alphabetical list of all the things we have missed during our hiatus. Do our dirty minds think alike? Tune in to find out!
Jason completed his chemo treatments! We share an update about his health, explain our differing reactions to the news, and start our countdown to resuming a normal s*x life. Plus, I quiz Jason to see how well we know each other in order to bring some laughter and connection back into our relationship.
This week Jason returns! He shares his perspective on struggling with a low libido due to chemo, worrying about keeping me satisfied, and his thoughts on wanting me to play solo. Plus, we talk about how we have been slowly reintroducing s*x into our relationship. What were our concerns and limitations, how much are we having, how does chemo s*x compare to our regular s*x, and when do we plan on having dates with other guys? Tune in to find out!
This week IN BED WITH STRANGERS teams up with Ruan Willow of the OH F*CK YEAH PODCAST to chat about the wonderful world of erotica. We tackle topics like why it is liberating to write it, the struggles of censorship, judgement, the benefits of reading it, and more! Find out more about Ruan!: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Check out the FILTHY FICTION AUDIOBOOK!: https://www.audible.com/ac/Dirty-Daydreams-Audiobook/B0D6H1345N https://www.amazon.com/Dirty-Daydreams-Filthy-Fiction-1/dp/B0D6GZ8RQ4 https://books.apple.com/us/audiobook/dirty-daydreams-filthy-fiction-volume-1-unabridged/id1752526294 Ruan Willow also shares what it's like to narrate erotica. Once you hear her sexy voice you will understand why I chose her to narrate the audio version of my book FILTHY FICTION.
This week we share how chemo is testing our marriage. From intimacy, socializing, swinging, finances, body image and more - nothing is safe from the side effects. Why have I chosen a sexless marriage instead of using my Hotwife hallpass? Tune in to hear my views on love, loyalty and lust when coping with a sick spouse.
Jason is taking a break this week so I am joined by a special guest - one of the security guards at the adult theater where we celebrated my birthday last year. We chat about how he ended up working there, his previous career in the adult industry, what goes down at the theater and more!
Jason is taking a break this week so I am joined by a special guest - one of the security guards at the adult theater where we celebrated my birthday last year. We chat about how he ended up working there, his previous career in the adult industry, what goes down at the theater and more!
This week I try to keep it together as we share Jason's recent medical diagnosis of lymphoma and how it has been impacting our life emotionally, mentally, physically and sexually.
This week Jason & I have a messy mishap during an MFM, deal with a disappearing date, get freaky in a livestream and get roasted at a comedy club.
Tune in to hear the awkward story regarding our date with Mr. #1000 plus two of our most reliable guys stop by for a super hot MFM with some much needed DV.
Jason and I recently took a spontaneous trip to an adult theater and tried something new! Tune in to hear all the dirty details about our incredible night including what made it so different, how many loads were donated to me and who cleaned me after!
Tune in to hear all of the steamy details from our MMF date that started in the hot tub and ended in the playroom! Plus, find out how the wild night inspired some incredible moments between Jason and I later on.
Today I discuss my brand new erotica book - FILTHY FICTION Volume 1: Dirty Daydreams! Plus, my friend and fellow author, Casandra Charles, calls in to chat about why we love writing and how I became a character in her latest book - CODE RED! Both books are available on Amazon! FILTHY FICTION: https://www.amazon.com/FILTHY-FICTION-1-Dirty-Daydreams-ebook/dp/B0CZF55GNV?ref_=ast_author_dp CODE RED: https://www.amazon.com/Code-Red-Erotic-Casandra-Charles-ebook/dp/B0CXVKKWFY?ref_=ast_author_mpb
Today we discuss some things to consider when creating your own playroom, PLUS we share some exciting news regarding my latest project!
This week special guest pornstar and comedian SILIVA SAIGE calls in to chat! I question her about the reality of being in the adult industry, plus we discuss female sexuality, double standards, shame, favorite positions and more!
Today we answer another round of questions submitted by our listeners.
Wow! Jason & I were very busy this week with four incredibly exciting dates! Tune in to hear the naughty details about hooking up with Mr. #998 and Mr. #999, date night with one of our favorite married men, and a long awaited second round with a super hot BBC. Plus, find out how my newly acquired deepthroating skills are affecting Jason's libido!
Jason & I are finally ready to jump back into the playing field after a forced break. Tune in to hear the details from our latest dates including our BBC friend who likes to spank, an impromptu midday MFM, my exciting progress in our deepthroat quest, how I feel when Jason doesn't cum after a playdate, and more!
With my ladyparts temporarily out of order, Jason & I need to find alternative ways to entertain ourselves on vacation so we attend our first BDSM/kink event together. Tune in to hear us discuss expectations versus reality, what happens when I am forced to switch from exhibitionist to voyeur, and how it compared to the swinging world. Plus, hear all about the highlight of our night which included a teddy bear, red roses and a knife.
Today we share some really important things to consider before jumping into a hotwife relationship so you and your partner can be better prepared for the adventure ahead. Learn about essential conversation starters like which dynamic you prefer, selecting guys, creating a pre-date routine, establishing rules for playdates, the excitement of reclaiming, the importance of aftercare, how to test the waters and more!
Today we discuss the ups and downs of dating during the past month and why the lack of reliable guys has temporarily stopped me from reaching my goal of 1,000. We also share the juicy details from three of our incredible recent dates including a repeat encounter with an out of towner, a much needed rendezvous with one of our favorite BBCs and how bending some of our rules led to a very steamy MMF with a new guy.
I am so excited to have a special guest this week! Tune in to listen to my awesome conversation with Dan (my #1 fan on OF!) We reminisce about some of our most memorable moments during our creator/fan relationship, discuss fan ettiquette, why people choose to subscribe to adult pay sites, and more!
This week Jason and I compare our disappointing experiences with hotel takeovers (from before we met)... Who's first DV got cut short? Who got kicked out of the party? Who ended up having a panic attack and being banished from the hotel room? Plus, find out why we decided to spend NYE at a takeover and more!
Today I share several of my scariest experiences in the Lifestyle and discuss how I got myself into those dangerous situations and how I could have potentially avoided them. Find out why I was kicked out of a couple's house, why I passed out at a GB, what led to a physical altercation at a swinger's club, and more!
Today we continue our conversation from last week regarding MMFs. We share the REAL story about how we met plus chat about privacy breaches, pegging, answer some listener questions & more.
I am so excited to discuss my absolute favorite formation - the MMF! Find out how both of us experienced our first encounters by accident, why it's so difficult to arrange them, our thoughts on how bi guys are viewed, plus more!
Today Jason and I chat about the wonderful world of GBs. We each reminisce about our personal experiences with them from our single days as well as relive our first joint adventure soon after we met which turned out to be a disaster!
Today we chat about our very different experiences with self-pleasure.
Today we explore my love of multiple men! Find out how I ended up having my very first MFM, our thoughts on DV and DP, used p*ssy, and more!
Today I reveal some of my complications as a unicorn from figuring out general expectations, sexual preferences, keeping emotions in check, the need for boundaries, what I miss most about my single days, why I don't take advatntage of Jason's permission for me to play solo and more.
Today I get vulnerable as I share how relationships in my life have affected me and pushed me towards the Lifestyle including my parent's divorce, mental health issues, being a mistress, low self-esteem, falling for guys with erratic behavior, not practicing enough self-care and more.
Today we dive into the world of foot fetishism & what it entails. Jason also learns how I originally got exposed to it starting with my past boyfriend's kinks, an ad on Craigslist which led to my time spent as a paid foot fetish model, what turns me on the most, and how we incorporate it into our current lives.
After we return from Exxxotica, Jason and I seek out some much needed stress relief at an adult bookstore and share our reclaiming with our livestream fans.
Join us as we answer our first batch of questions submitted by listeners!
In this episode, Jason and I discuss our views on cheating including intimacy, trust, sex drives, love languages, wedding rings and more.
Today we share our attempt to find some sexual escapades during a recent trip to Kansas!
Joinus for a very honest discussion about what it's like to be content creators including the positives and negatives.
This week, Jason and I chat about all the ways you can incorporate roleplay into your sex life to add some excitement, plus we share some of our personal success and failure stories!
Today Jason and I discuss all the different ways you can incorporate cum play into your world!
Today we share our thoughts on ways to utilize all of your senses to increase sexual pleasure.
We continue Jason's journey as he transitions from a single guy meeting hotwives to becoming a married man sharing his own!
In today's episode, Jason reluctantly discusses his past relationships and shares some stories from his days as a single male in the Lifestyle before I changed his world!
Today, Jason and I have a little fun as we chat about all things oral!
Jason and I bare it all for a candid discussion about nudity in vanilla life, pictures, the Lifestyle, and nudist resorts.
In today's episode Jason and I will share some of our personal experiences with a variety of potential addictions and the effects they have had on us. Sometimes we agree and sometimes we disagree.