It's Me, Tinx

As I take a much-needed break and do my own Summer of Outside, I am playing you an AMA from the past.  Today's callers feature dealing with the mean clique at work and a bachelorette party heading to Miami to relax (which is wild).

 I remain out on my annual trip to Europe, so I am taking a look back at some episodes from the past.  Today I bring you a two for one episode featuring a short sermon on “business development” followed by all things bad mood.  Mainly when we feel them taking over how we can overcome.

Happy Friday! Before I embark on my European vacation, I want to leave you all with a record of the best things I ate, drank, read, watched, and listened to this July. I'll miss you all but I'll be back in two weeks feeling rejuvenated with new philosophies for us to power through the rest of summer! Bye!

It's AMA day! Lots of great callers on this final radio show before my European vacation. We talk about compromising with your boyfriend, the importance of throwing parties, and we hear from someone whose engaged best friend expects her to forego urgent medical care to come visit her across the country. Also, if all your friends are married or in relationships, you need to make single friends. Enjoy and tune in Friday for some July favorites!  

Happy Monday! Today's is a very special episode. We have our first guests ever on the live radio show! Alison Brie and Dave Franco join us to talk about their new movie, Together,  in theaters everywhere on July 30th. Alison, Dave, and I take calls from you guys about keeping sex lives spicy years into a marriage and how to navigate relationships in the entertainment industry. Then we chat about the TEA app data breach and hear from someone who used the app and had an unhinged first date. See you Wednesday!

Happy Friday guys, it's time for a sexy summer episode. Today we cover a LOT of topics, including dry spells, hand jobs, doggie, condom etiquette, and more! Also I was so happy to get a question from a man on what he can do in the bedroom to turn on his partner. I hope you enjoy and tune in on Monday for a VERY SPECIAL edition of the live radio show. We have two celeb guests and they want to hear from all of you so be sure to tune in Monday to Radio Andy at 11am Eastern and CALL US! Have a great weekend and see you Monday!

Today we get a caller whose former friend with benefits is engaged and is still hitting her up to sext! We are all stumped on whether or not she should let the fiancé know, but she might have already done so. We also hear from successful Summer of Outsiders who are figuring out how to handle wishy-washy flings and still have fun, while one caller breaks up with a man who couldn't handle a playful joke. Finally we talk about staying grounded when long distance relationship fears can cause a spiral, and end with a factual history lesson on Ceasar salads and why some things shouldn't be wrapped. See you Friday!

You guys, I might be Summer of Outside-ing too hard. On today's show I tell you about my insane and super fun weekend. Some callers are having a similar experience, but we will persevere! We also hear from a caller with an interesting theory she calls Red Flag Inflation Theory about how we perceive so many red flags and icks and what that might mean about us and the people we date. We discuss the article of the week, "My Kids Asked for the Benson Boone Cookie: Here is My Reply" by Jessica Grose (NYT). And lastly we give our takes on the CEO cheating scandal exposed by Coldplay and take some interesting calls on that! Enjoy and I'll see you Wednesday!

At the start of this year I stressed to everyone how important it is to be writing down your goals for the year, and now it is time for us to check in where we are with them.  We are half way through 2025, so lets have an honest look at where we are and how we can use the next 6 months to accomplish them all.

Have you ever heated up a bowl of tomato sauce and eaten it like soup?  Well for those who have, I stand with you.  After that bit of housekeeping, I get into your calls.  We hear from a woman who finally met a man after a long time off from dating and is worried she is getting ghosting, and someone who needed a full summer of outside reset.

Happy Monday everyone! Today I tell you about some great dates I went on with a guy who was weird at texting and couldn't hang well with my friends. My intuition was right about him, and if he wanted to really date me, he would. We also hear some Summer of Outside stories from boats in the Midwest and professional athlete flings in the Northeast. And lastly, Steve did a survey of 100 single women and made a game for us about the biggest red flag names for guys (Sorry 'J' names).  

I am kicking off my second weekend in the Hamptons, and I couldn't be more excited for a boat day.  It feels like summer is moving a little too fast, but regardless we remain steadfastly OUTSIDE!  Also, I give you my full list of all of the things I loved in June.

Some quick dating updates for you before I jump into your calls for the day. A woman calls in with an absolute first regarding a hot hook up with a 25-year-old and why the chicken tenders he ordered really turned her on? We round out the show with some boyfriend sickness, the cutest roommates calling in together, and a downright dangerous man who was living multiple lives.

I am back from my 4th of July in the Hamptons, and I have updates.  Summer of outside is working her magic as I am flush with some really good updates for you all!  Lucas and I spent our actual 4th DJ'ing literally the whole day but you best believe I left plenty of time for hot dogs, cuppa vodkas, and pool time with Pig and co.  I wrap up playing a clip that really struck me about dating apps and how they are potentially coming to an end.My heart goes out to all of the victims in Texas, here is the article I mentioned to find the best places to help:  https://www.nytimes.com/2025/07/07/us/texas-flooding-victims-rescue-donate-help.html?campaign_id=60&emc=edit_na_20250707&instance_id=157990&nl=breaking-news®i_id=74783398&segment_id=201380&user_id=749030e65e7b11e8e3ae7340cb763a01 

I am off for the Fourth and I am bringing back a couple of my favorite episodes.  First up, I have been talking about it on the pod lately encouraging everyone to listen to it, so here it is...Single Girl Calendar Management!  I finish up with an episode around knowing when it is time to push ourselves to do the things we want.

We are approaching the 4th of July holiday, and even though I am not live, I bring you an ALL-NEW episode!I am emptying the mail bag and get into the topics that matter.  Men who can't finish, insecure men, men who like banging in pools, and European men!Have a happy and safe holiday, and I will be back LIVE on Radio Andy, on Monday.

Happy Monday everybody! Today I talk about two movies that you should all watch ASAP. I saw F1 the Movie and I loved it, didn't look at my phone one time. And Javier Bardem is so sexy. Also watched the new Mariska Hargitay documentary titled "My Mom, Jayne", which is so good and tragic and a must watch. I tell you about a bad recent date where this guy wore statement shorts and had shrimp cocktail on my dime. Lastly we help a community member out of a dry spell and give her tips to get laid after a recent move to a new city.  

First and foremost I love my entire community, but today's episode is only for the single girls! Married girls, see yourselves out. Single girls, let's get into how I got over the "hump" and how you can too. 

Quick catch up on my life including an outstanding dinner with my mother, and getting the team pumped for "organization day"!  First caller is a woman who broke up with a boyfriend only an hour ago.  The emotions were raw, and being able to help talk her through it meant the world to me.  Another caller brings up a potentially shady situation where her BF after a night out ended up at her best friends apt where they were alone, and the bestie at first was less than honest.

I am fresh off my weekend away in the Hamptons, where Lucas and I DJ'ed together.  I sincerely needed that after one of the worst dates I have had in quite sometime....not exaggerating.  Also I am all caught up on "And Just Like That" and I have some thoughts.  Oh and the cutest caller, brings the girls a fun game to break the ice with men for Summer of Outside '25.

I was absolutely flooded with responses to my episode last week about my relationship with porn.  So I wanted to take todays episode to read some emails, and dive deeper into my thoughts on the topic.  Remember strong opinions loosely held!

I open the show teasing an upcoming Summer of Outside get together that I can't wait to announce.  Stay tuned to my Instagram stories this coming Friday for all the details on how you can join me!  Today, we dealt with one of the most dangerous women on this planet….a future Mother-in-Law who is obsessed with her baby boy.  Then we activate Summer of Outside and hear from callers who started their own 400 person SOO group in Houston, and a woman in NY who has dove head first into nude modeling.  

I debrief the team about my weekend in Miami including a very awkward run in with someone.  Reminder when you're in the club, conversation is impossible and not necessary.  Sabrina Carpenter's latest album cover has drummed up controversy, I give my take and discuss with a listener.  Finally our Summer of Outside continues with a success story, some advice on how to jump in, and a dating app that truly promotes the ideals of SOO!

Today I have an article (linked below) review centered around porn.  I always preach strong opinions loosely held, and this article has truly made me rethink my relationship when it comes to consuming adult content.  Give it a listen, and please let me know what you think email me, itsmetinx@siriusxm.com.   Article: https://www.thefp.com/p/what-porn-took-from-us

Two very important topics covered by our callers today is sometimes we need to give into our desires and be ok with banging our situation-ships.  Especially when we had some radio silence time, there i nothing better than post silence banging.  Also one our incredible southern callers informs us on how she's using communication to help end the orgasm gap!

I'm back from Italy, and I missed you all desperately!  I let you know about my trip and how my lack of chill was not meshing well with the laid-back attitude of Italy.  A listener calls in to discuss mediocre men and their inability to communicate via text and lets us know that she slid into Lucas's DMs.  Finally sharing this theory from two amazing members of the community.  All men can be broken down into 4 groups…..

I taped an all new episode before heading off to Italy, and I am excited to let you know all the things I loved in the month of May!  Of course I have the standard beauty and food, but I do get a bit into my newest couple obsession.  Timmy and Kylie are the absolute cutest and make me truly love, love, again.  

I am traveling for work, but I will be back LIVE on Monday 6/9 with an all new episode.  Until then enjoy a few calls from the past.  We have some from around holiday time, the first involving a girl who got a little to drunk at the office party and needs help with the anxiety.  Also a caller is traveling home to visit her family and her fathers new fiancée is being forced on her.

I am loving our new Monday time together, so I can give you a fresh debrief on my weekend.  I had a boring date, got hit on by a guy with a girlfriend, and I ended up sending a less than acceptable anti ghost text.  UGH, note to self never outsource to your single guy friends for help.  We also talk about some summer of outside successes, and bring up a viral Tik Tok where in shocking fashion the man posting it is in the WRONG!

I am fresh off the Beyonce concert, and I give you my full experience.  Then I discuss Hailey Bieber and the news that she has sold her company for 1 Billion (with a B) dollars, and how inspiring that is.  It really has me in my thoughts about tuning out the haters, and pressing on with what I love doing.

Todays callers were dealing with some lying men, but in two way different instances.  The first dealing with a love bomber who every time caught in a lie blames his very own sister.  The other, is dealing with a gay best friend who used AI to craft a lie as to why he couldn't come to the bachelorette, but forgot she had his location.

I hope everyone is enjoying a well-deserved 3-day weekend, I am back LIVE on the radio this Wednesday.  Until then enjoy this double header from the past as I take you deep into "ick intolerance" and "the flip".  Most of all how to manage the both while they are happening, or from happening at all!

We are headed into the unofficial kick off to summer, and I hope all of you get to enjoy a long weekend!  Todays episode is about friendship.  Probably the topic I get the most questions about.  I wanted to focus on how friendships aren't tit for tat, and what it means to truly show up for someone you love and consider a friend.

Todays show I start off talking about a spicy pic I received last night, and let's just say I have never been so impressed.  We start off the calls with a woman who is dealing with a cheating husband while she is pregnant with their first child.  Their is a special place in hell for a man like that.  Also some summer of outside, men loving Instagram models, and a whole lot more.

Today is my very first LIVE Monday show, and I am so excited for everyone that missed it on the radio to hear it right now.  This weekend was incredible as I got to enjoy watching the Knicks playoff game in NY, and finally reunited with Pig for a Sunday funday.  Then things take a turn into some dating updates, cringe texts, and a caller gives us the most epic Summer of Outside story involving male Greek strippers.

On todays episode I welcome Summer House's Jesse Solomon.  Jesse has been quite the lighting rod on social media during this current season for his relationship with cast newcomer Lexi Wood.  We get into all things relationship discussing why he thinks it all went so south.  Don't worry it isn't all Lexi, we talk about the other cast members, where he stands with Ciara today, and even take a look at the time I slid into his DMs (many years ago).

I am back from book tour, and I can't put into words how happy I am to talk to all of you again!  First I catch up with the woman who got engaged at my book tour stop in Chicago, and how hard it was for me not to ruin the surprise.  The call of the day?  That goes to our friend Sarah who's current hook up loves the backseat of cars, and embarrassed girls in the woods (not a joke). 

I am wrapping up book tour, and will be back with an all new AMA this Wednesday!  In the meantime enjoy one last look back at one of my most responded to episodes I ever recorded.  The case I make for why we need to be more interesting, and how we can go about it.

I am still out on book tour, and will return with a brand new LIVE show on Wednesday 5/14.  Until then I am highlighting one of my favorite guests from the past, Mel Robbins.  Her latest book "The Let Them Theory" has helped not only me, but so many.  So ICYMI, enjoy this Office Hours from the past!

Hey all, I am out on book tour and will return with an all new episode on Wednesday 5/14.  In the meantime enjoy some fun calls from the past!  Including a woman who is crushing hard on a friends ex, and doesn't know what to do.

Tomorrow is the release of "Hotter in the Hamptons" and I am so excited for all of you to read it.  I am headed out on book tour so this is my last new episode until I am back for the live show on 5/14.  Today I am giving you some of my favorite things from April books, shows, gadgets, and more.  We end with a full round up of all the current Bravo shows I am watching.

Back by popular demand is holistic dating coach Amy Nobile Messing, for an update on our work together.  In our first episode we dove deep into my dating profile, and after Amy took me on as a client.  We are here to not only talk more about dating, but give you the full update of where my very own dating life stands a few months later (flaws and all).

As always I love your calls, but todays first two callers really set the tone for the show.  First we talk with a woman who lost her virginity to a man she was into, but turns out he was married.  Then a caller shares an unimaginable pain, and how her fiancé's family was down right gross in their response.

It's the moment we all have been waiting for, the long cold winter is over and it is time for...THE SUMMER OF OUTSIDE 2025!  This is my annual guide on how we are all going to get off of our phones, and get out there IRL. 

Today I welcome actor, comedian, podcaster, and most of all friend, Esther Povitsky.  This one has been long in the works and we dive right into Esther's day to day navigating life as a new mother while balancing a career.  Also we talk about it all the time, and Esther gives us incite into friendships and how they evolve post motherhood.

Less than 2 weeks until "Hotter in the Hamptons" hits book shelves, and I can't wait to see you all as I get ready to head out on tour.  We start off the calls with someone who needs help navigating a male dominated corporate environment.  Then talk to someone who has been in a 19 year relationship, and went into his phone while he was sleeping.  What she found has her confused on what to do next.

I am back from Coachella and I have a full update for all of you including my fav performances.  While at Coachella I was really feeling myself, and it got me thinking about how this positive mindset and feeling "hot" came later in life.  So I want to talk about my experience of being a late bloomer, and hopefully my fellow late bloomers all feel seen.

Today we are revisiting one of my fav episodes, with Sarah Hoover talking all about her incredible memoir, "The Motherload: Episodes From The Brink Of Motherhood".  We have an honest conversation about the life-changing experience of motherhood, while pushing back against the rosy narrative we've been sold.  Whether you are a mom, about to become a mom, or thinking about becoming a mom, this episode is for you!

I have survived Coachella and transporting a singular cat across the country, and as I recover mentally and physically, I was in no way prepared for the headlining call today.  A woman calls and asks the age old question, "to send a hey girly text or not ?".  I rarely (if ever) say yes, but in this case I make an exception.  You need to hear this less than mediocre man story to believe it!

As promised here is a special release of Office Hours on a Monday!  This week I welcome my friend, NYT best-selling author, social media creator, and open book Jake Cohen.  Jake has written books about food, has a show about food, his social media focuses on food, but this conversation is about all things dating.  From the gay dating scene, orgies, and exclusive clubs, to the simple and fundamental realization “if he isn't obsessed with you, then what's the point?”.  We get into everything Jake is going through as a single man in the scene.

I know you are expecting an Office Hours episode today, BUT I couldn't wait until Monday to talk about the "White Lotus" finale.  Everyone is breaking down every turn & outcome, but what I am obsessed with is the female friendship storyline.  I take these three women who I have loved watching so much (flaws & all), and apply my theories to them.