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Kodie & Felisha; Two friends enduring the chaos of motherhood, military marriage and every mess in between, one cup at a time. Sometimes its sweet, other times its bitter, but it will always be REAL. So grab a cup and join us while we #spillthekofe in our latest confession. KoFe Confessions is rec…

Kodie Simon


    • Feb 26, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 34m AVG DURATION
    • 144 EPISODES

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    The Kofe Confessions podcast is an absolute gem for milspouses like myself. From the very first episode I listened to, I instantly felt a sense of camaraderie and belonging that I had been craving. With my husband often gone due to his military commitments, and the challenges of being a mom on top of that, it can sometimes feel like a lonely journey. However, this podcast has made me realize that I am not alone in this and has become a lifeline for me in so many ways.

    One of the best aspects of The Kofe Confessions podcast is how incredibly down to Earth Kodie and Felicia are. They don't put up any facades or pretend to have it all figured out. Instead, they openly share their struggles, triumphs, and everything in between. Their raw honesty is refreshing and makes me feel like they truly understand what it's like to walk in my shoes. It's comforting to listen to their conversations and know that someone else gets it.

    Another aspect I love about this podcast is their authenticity. Kodie and Felicia are unapologetically themselves at all times, which creates such a genuine atmosphere. They laugh, they cry, they rant – they aren't afraid to express their emotions openly and honestly. This level of realness makes the podcast relatable on so many levels and helps create a deep connection with their listeners.

    If I had to point out one potential downside of The Kofe Confessions podcast, it would be that there are times when the audio quality could be improved. While it doesn't detract from the overall content, there are moments when it can be slightly distracting. However, considering the down-to-earth nature of the podcast, this minor flaw can be easily overlooked as part of its charm.

    In conclusion, The Kofe Confessions podcast has quickly become my favorite go-to for relatable milspouse content. Kodie and Felicia's authenticity and raw honesty make me feel seen, understood, and part of a community. Despite the occasional audio quality issue, this podcast is a must-listen for any milspouse in need of validation, support, and a good dose of humor. I can't recommend it enough!



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    Generational bridges

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2024 24:23


    Have you ever been called the “BRUH” or been told your outfit was “Mid?” Us too. So today, we #spillthekofe on what it's like to raise Gen Alpha as Millennials. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    I Lied On My Survey

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2024 26:04


    Today, we're normalizing the effects of postpartum. As moms who have had multiple children, we've been there and it's time we speak up about more than the baby blues. It's time we quit lying on our surveys. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    Ready.. Set.. Fail..

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2024 32:03


    Think you are connected with your best friend? Think again… In this episode, we are trying a new trend and let's just say, it did not go as planned… --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    Help Me Quit My Job

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2024 31:03


    This week, we #spillthekofe on pursuing new adventures, and avenues, while overcoming the hardships. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    Meet The Moms Behind The Mic, Four Years Later

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2024 33:14


    It's crazy to think it's been four years! In this weeks episode, we share all the changes and differences a few years can make, including a blurb from our very first episode. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

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    If A Group Chat Was A Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2024 30:08


    Welcome to season SIX and with it year FOUR of KoFe! In this season opener, we #spillthekofe on a holiday hiatus and updating you with where KoFe is at four years later…. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    Speed Dating My Best Friend

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2023 35:28


    Today, we #spillthekofe on the details behind KoFe! It's 20 questions with your with favorite duo on facts about us! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    When God Breaks Your Heart

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2023 33:03


    With every blessing, comes a season of lessons. In the spirit of Thanksgiving, let's #spilthekofe on finding thanks in challenging moments. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    Aftershocks

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2023 32:02


    In one of our most vulnerable episodes yet, we #spillthekofe on dealing and healing from betrayal in relationships. *Trigger warning* --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    Sorry Not Sorry (please don't be mad)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2023 31:43


    Are you tired of saying 'yes' when you want to say 'no'? Today we #spillthekofe on setting boundaries when you have a tendency to people please. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    Empathy In Exhaustion

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2023 25:56


    This week we give our take on another listener topic request and #spillthekofe on nurturing your relationship amid burnout. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    Motherhood on The Homefront

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2023 32:11


    The transition into motherhood leaves no woman as it finds her, this is especially true for military spouses who often navigate this milestone alone or away from family. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    The Basics of Basic

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2023 39:47


    In this weeks episode we #spillthekofe with a drill sgt to talk about life on the trail. What to expect and the experiences that follow in Basic Combat Training. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

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    I'm in a Long Distance Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2023 24:56


    It's inevitable in all military friendships, someone will eventually live far away. But that does not mean your friendship ends, this week we #spillthekofe on continuing connection with your tribe from afar. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    It's Not Me, It's You

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2023 35:31


    It's always hard to set boundaries but even harder with people you love. This week we #spillthekofe on breaking up with people who aren't pouring into you the same way you pour into them… --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    I Want To Love You..

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2023 35:16


    This week we #spillthekofe on the love/hate relationships we have with duty stations… The truth is, we all have a list of the things we like and dislike but you never really know all of them until you PCS. So we're sharing our best tips on how to make the most out of your time there. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    Just Girls Together

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2023 36:29


    Growing up together and getting to experience a life long friendship is like no other. But when you stop to think about it, we all want those types of friendships that you can just be girls together with. This week, we #spillthekofe on watching our girls getting to experience it and how it's established our friendship and views of the world. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    Watching Home

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2023 21:28


    With the holidays approaching, it's easy to get caught up in the nostalgia of being home. This week, we #spillthekofe on how we get through the though times of missing out --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    Stand By Me

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2023 39:10


    Did you know that Best Friend is synonymous with Therapist? Look it up! To kick off Season Five we are going to #spillthekofe on walking with your friends through hard times, and how to support them even if it's something you've never experienced. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    When Proven Guilty…

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2023 36:28


    We all have them, and this week we #spillthekofe on our guilty pleasures. Whether it's an indulgence, way to relax or a treat yourself moment that we are guilty of. Join us as we talk about all the little things we enjoy doing to fill our cup. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    Just Fishing…

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2023 27:29


    This week, we #spillthekofe the smallest types of memories having the biggest impact. Making a core memory is often mistaken for some elaboration display of affection when in reality, it could be as simple as just fishing. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    Happy Birthday Ya Filthy Animal

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2023 29:48


    Did you know the US Army turns 245 years old this year? This week, we #spillthekofe on the good and bad of Mr. Army, being military families and a few extra birthday wishes. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    Build-A-Family

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2023 32:52


    Family isn't always blood related but who shows up when you need them most. This week, we #spillthekofe on how we've turned our friends into family, how to pour into good relationships, and how it's okay to end the ones who drain you. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    We Remember: Logan Gaughan

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2023 40:54


    Every year for Memorial Day, we sit down with a Gold Star Spouse to remember their fallen hero. This year, it hits close to home because we were stationed with this family, for a few years, back at Bragg. Join us we sit down with Meagan and listen as she shares about her husband Logan. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    I'll Just Linger…

    Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2023 35:42


    The TEA or should I say Coffee? IS HOT. If you've ever been in a spouse page, you know exactly what we're talking about. Often, I'll catch myself reading a post and realize I don't even live there anymore. So grab a cup and join us as we #spillthekofe on lingering in the Spouse pages. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    That Last One Hurt

    Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2023 33:29


    That feeling of having your last baby is something nobody can prepare you for. Often times, it doesn't hit you that it's your last until you realize there's no more little “firsts”. How this is the last time you would bring somebody home from the hospital, a gummy smile, or those first steps. So grab a cup as we #spillthekofe on the emotional roller coaster that is your last little one. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    Where Am I?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2023 28:44


    We may be part of a community, but the vast differences can be crazy, in just one location to another. We'll be the first to tell you that living on a training base and an Air Force Base are completely different experiences. So grab a cup and join us for our latest confession. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    Needed you..

    Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2023 37:59


    May is mental health awareness month and we are kicking this off with the importance of how much someone NEEDS you, even when it doesn't feel like it. Because sometimes reassurance is necessary, especially when it comes to “I'm glad you're here”. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    Elementary Blues

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2023 32:51


    There's a lot that comes with parenting, a child, especially a military one. As they get older, the transition of this life gets a little bit harder each time. So today we #spillthekofe on how we help our school-aged children military through the elementary blues and the process of new school. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    Eight Dollar Apples

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2023 26:58


    It should be no surprise to you that the cost of living, specifically grocery shopping, is crazy high. We couldn't help but think about the financial insecurities some of the families in our community may be facing, especially when it comes down to the lower enlisted. Today, we #spillthekofe on statistics, our personal research, and the way today's prices have influenced our own families. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    Learning And Leading

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2023 35:43


    This week we #spillthekofe on taking lessons from the path already paved for us from woman of the past! The Bible is filled with so many stories of the strength and faith women had long ago and we're sharing how we've implemented these into our daily lives. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    South VS The Midwest

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2023 23:30


    After decades of being in the south, our families were sent to the west... So we thought it was time for a showdown! This week we are telling you all about the pros and cons we learned from both places. Grab a cup and join us for our latest confession! #spillthekofe --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    It Falls On Me

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2023 31:42


    Military spouses are often judged for commenting on the hardships the military life brings us, When in reality, it's falls on us a lot of the times because our service member is away. Listen in as we #spillthekofe on how we push past these comments --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kofeconfessions/support

    Less Is More

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2023 25:00


    Growing up on a lower income can teach you a few things. Some lessons you bring with you into adulthood and others you'd prefer to leave behind. Join us as we #spillthekofe on the ways our childhood molded us into the women we are today. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kofeconfessions/support

    The One Where You Laugh Out Loud

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2023 28:02


    This week we're not only sharing our confessions… But yours, too! We asked for your funny stories about experiences in this life and you delivered. This episode will be sure to have you laughing out loud as we #spillthekofe! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kofeconfessions/support

    The Shelter In A Storm

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2023 29:19


    Inevitably, there's bound to be a setback your service member experiences some time in their career. It could be a school, a PCS, even a tab they wanted to earn but missed. So today, we #spillthekofe on how we help our spouses through those hard times and ways you could apply it to your relationship. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kofeconfessions/support

    Lost And Found

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2023 49:39


    You hear, “ I lost myself in motherhood” and “I found myself in motherhood” right? Today we're explaining how we've done both, how it's made us a better person and the one we are today. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kofeconfessions/support

    On The Road Again

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2023 60:16


    We finally sit down to #spillthekofe on our highly anticipated PCS adventures. These moves were definitely memorable in their own ways, not all of them good. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kofeconfessions/support

    Be My Galantine!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2023 36:28


    This Galentines we dive into the importance of having someone to lean on. So grab the tissues while we #spillthekofe on the times we needed each other most during our friendship.

    Moving Up

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2023 19:04


    They're moving up the ranks, now what? This week we #spillthekofe on promotions! The dos and don'ts, the traditions, and everything in between.

    Favorite Places: Fort Carson

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2023 30:56


    Part two in our favorite place series is Fort Carson! We were lucky enough to end up at the same duty station, 8 months after our move. So this week we #spillthekofe on all the places we loved in Colorado.

    Learning And Relearning

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2023 34:00


    Listen in as we kick off season 4 and #spillthekofe on life lessons we have learned over the last 10 years. Some are easy, some are hard, but all are extremely valuable to this lifestyle.

    Spill The Tea, KoFe Is THREE!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2023 27:38


    As season 3 comes to end, we #spillthekofe on the high and lows of building a platform, the accomplishments of the last year, and the biggest THANK YOU to our community of KoFe fans for supporting us the last three years!

    Favorite Places: Fort Bragg

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2023 24:32


    After spending 3 years together at this duty station, we're finally breaking down our favorite places to go! So listen in as we #spillthekofe on Fort Bragg!

    When To Keep It Hush Hush

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 2, 2023 19:32


    What's a better way to start a Monday than a topic that's debated about in the spouse pages. In this episode, we #spillthekofe on the ins and outs of OPSEC and PERSEC.

    It's Hard Being The Default…

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 26, 2022 32:49


    One of the hardest parts of a military marriage is the default parent / default provider struggle. Today we #spillthekofe on overcoming and remembering that hard is hard, no matter the role.

    A Military Gala

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2022 29:37


    In this episode we #spillthekofe on Military Balls! From snagging a high dollar dress on a low dollar budget, what to expect, and the tradition behind it all.

    A Shoulder To Lean On

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2022 33:51


    Saying goodbye is never easy, especially with military kids. Because we know they will say goodbye to their parent, family and friends more often than others. This week we #spillthekofe on ways we've comforted our kids through these hard times.

    A Binding Resource

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2022 14:27


    This week we wanted to #spillthekofe on something we utilize at all times. So we're breaking down our families biggest resource, a military family binder.

    When Loneliness Comes To Play

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2022 29:17


    Most don't people realize how absent things can feel while your spouse is away. You could be in room full of people but you're still missing your #1. So today, we #spillthekofe on how to cope with the loneliness.

    Operation Elf

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2022 17:01


    SPOILERS: Christmas magic! This week we #spillthekofe on how we incorporate Elf On The Shelf into our military lifestyle.

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