Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show Is there anything more loaded with expectation than pregnancy and birth? They joys, the pains; the nausea, the luscious hair, the love you will feel when you first hold your little one, the stretch marks, the birth plan....oh....that birth plan. Talk about setting yourself up for disappointment. What if everything you've ever dreamed your pregnancy would be like is a huge barrier to a greater possibility that your mind cannot conceive of? Not expecting when you're expecting could be one of the ways to create great ease with all of it. Would you be willing to destroy all your preconceived notions about pregnancy and birth? Would you go so far as being willing to have the pregnancy and birth you are most resisting? Join us for a different conversation about pregnancy and birth! Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! http://www.petrinafava.com www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show What if ending bullying is not the answer? Many Anti-Bully Programs have one very large underlying assumption; the bullied are the victims. The bullied suffer at the hands of the bully who is bigger, meaner and has the power to affect their lives. What if kids didn't have to be impacted by mean words, ridicule and rudeness? How different would a child's life be, if he was taught how to truly receive judgement? Imagine a child who could truly receive judgement with no point of view. You, the parent can play a part in empowering your child to outcreate victimhood. But first, you may have to outcreate your own. Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! -www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show What exactly gets created when we swear to always remember 911, the holocaust, WWII? Does remembering and making significant the anniversaries of acts of terror truly honour those who died? How many centuries worth of the energy of torture and pain and sadness have we been dragging into each new year? Are we changing it? Or holding it in place? Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! http://www.petrinafava.com www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show Are you more beautiful if you are broken? Many of us seem to be applying the Japanese art of Kintsugi to our lives. What happens if you are never broken and never repaired with gold? Are you less wise if you are simply untouched by adversity? Less courageous if you've never faced unimaginable fear? What could we create in the world that is beautiful, without suffering? Can you have wisdom and courage alongside a life filled with ease and joy? Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! http://www.petrinafava.com www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show Deceit. No one likes to be lied to, taken advantage of or taken for a fool, right? But, what if you could be grateful for people who lie to you? Would you be willing to get past being hurt and offended so that you could be aware? Are all lies deceitful? Is it possible that a lie can be a kindness? A contribution? Let's take a look at all our conclusions about lies and see what can show up when we receive lies and liars! Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! http://www.petrinafava.com www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show What would mistakes be without judgement? They'd be choices! Have you ever made a mistake that ended up taking a twisty, turny road to a fantastic outcome that you never would have imagined? Maybe a wrong turn that showed you the house for sale that turned out to be the home of your dreams? Fired from a job that turned out making room in your life to create your own business? What if mistakes are just choices you then judge? Can you receive the magical and mysterious manipulations of the universe if you are busy smothering your choices with judgement? Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! http://www.petrinafava.com www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show Are you creating or are you doing "busy"? What's the difference? Is there one? Is it possible to be staying busy without creating? Or what exactly are you creating with your busy-ness? So many questions! Let's uncover all the places you are "doing busy" and what that is creating in your life. What would you actually like to create your life as? Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! http://www.petrinafava.com www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show Have you ever felt guilty asking for more? Told to be quiet and just be grateful since you had more than most people? Do you believe that if you ask for too much, you will end up with nothing? What if the unwillingness to ask is actually limiting what is possible for everyone in the world? Get ready to up your ask with Christine McIver! Christine McIver is a Possibilities Coach, Inspirational Speaker, TV Personality on Inspired Choices TV, Radio Show Host & Owner of Inspired Choices Network as well as an Access Consciousness® Certified Facilitator. Christine is highly successful at inspiring individuals and businesses to make choices that will bring them increased success, greater joy, self-confidence and remarkable inspiring change. Christine lives her life out loud and is a natural cheerleader who believes in the abilities of others to change their lives quickly and easily. Creator of the programs The Pleasure of Business, Divorce with Dignity and Be The Dominatrix of Your Life, she entices clients to show up more in their life, business & relationships than they have ever before. Inviting them to make all that they once knew was possible, possible. Christine believes that you can be living & loving your life with ease! Christine has impacted thousands of individuals both in Canada and abroad with her enthusiastic message of possibilities. Her kind, direct and joy filled approach is both comforting and stretching. Christine infectious laughter invites you into knowing that all things are possible beyond what is present in your life right now. http://www.inspiredchoices.ca/upyourask.html www.inspiredchoices.ca   Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three!  https://www.inspiredchoicesnetwork.com/media/the-fishermans-wife-can-you-ask-for-too-much/ -www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show What if parenting wasn't about control? Many people assume kids are not as smart as adults, and so parenting becomes a launch of molding and controlling techniques. We think we are guiding them to make the right choices, but what if we are actually using our judgments to fit them into a neat little package we've decided is success? What if molding them into what we think is a "good person" or a "successful person" is an enormous unkindness? Would you be willing to ask what you can contribute to them without any judgement of what that would look like? Would you be willing to acknowledge that your kids have their own path, that they know what they are doing when they make their own choices, even if it looks like destruction to you? Imagine what it would be like to have a generation of people in the world who, as children, were allowed to choose and create their own lives, without being judged in any way? Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! -www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show You know that thing that's haunted you your whole life? The one you can never seem to get rid of? Self judgement, physical pain, fatigue, illness, anxiety, depression, the voices in your head...whatever it is for you. Does it seem that you just can't change it? Have you spent years of counseling, paid thousands of dollars, and stressed your body trying to get rid of it once and for all? What if the reason you can't get rid of it is because it's not your problem to start with? What if it's not a problem at all, but a gift called awareness. Can you ever stop awareness? And would you really want to get rid your magic? You could use it to your advantage instead. Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! -www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show Have you ever watched young kids create stuff? They just begin. And then, they keep creating until...they stop. No expectations, no judgement, and no disappointment; just joy. What would it be like to create your life from that space? Imagine going about your day wondering what would be fun to create instead of tackling a to do list. Unrealistic? Unreasonable? Think you wouldn't get anything accomplished? What if creating without expectation invites possibilities you may never conceive of with your mind? What if this would allow you to create more and create faster? Are you ready to stop killing the creation of your life with your expectations? Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! -www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show Do you or your child have anxiety? Are you a teacher? A parent? A kid? Would you be willing to throw away all your definitions and conclusions about anxiety, at least for an hour? Together with my guest Dean Larson, we'll be looking at the effects of anxiety on learning and how can we change them with some simple techniques. Dean began tutoring and teaching students with learning problems in 1998 after a 25 year career as a counselor for adults and adolescents with addictions. In 1998, he began working in a tutoring business, which led to the opening of an accredited “Special Function” high school. Using the methods and processes he had been teaching as an Access Consciousness Facilitator and his experience as a counselor, Dean facilitated his students in achieving incredible success, in most cases, very quickly. One of the problems among his students was anxiety, something Dean was familiar with on a personal level. What if eradicating a child's anxiety is easier than you think? What if it starts with you? Dean Larson bio: Dean began tutoring and teaching students who had learning problems in 1998 after a 25 year career as a counselor for adults and adolescents with addiction problems and their families. In 1998, he began working members of his family in a tutoring business, a move that led to the opening of an accredited “Special Function” high school for students who were unable to thrive in regular schools. During that time, he taught and tutored students with every imaginable learning and life problem, from fetal alcohol syndrome to autism, mental health diagnoses to addiction. After a number of years as a Certified Facilitator in Access Consciousness, teaching other people the tools of Access, in 2014, Dean began his own tutoring business. Over the ensuing three years, he spent over 3500 hours tutoring a students of all ages, preschool to adult, who had learning disabilities. Using the methods and processes he had been teaching as an Access Facilitator and his experience as a counselor, Dean facilitated his students in achieving incredible success, in most cases, very quickly. One of the problems that kept arising among his students was anxiety, something that Dean was very familiar with on a personal level. He has put together tools and techniques to help students and their parents get rid of the roadblocks to learning that anxiety presents, and will be presenting a series of classes on how people can ease or eradicate their own anxiety. Dean lives just outside of Houston Texas with his wife Sande, who is an artist and a teacher.  Visit his website - https://dleducate.com/ Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! -www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show Is it possible to want to die so badly that you can actually create illness in your body? How sick and tired are you of your life? Are the choices available so uncomfortable that death seems like an easier option? Escape is not necessary, but it is a choice. It's ok. You can leave if you like. But it's not the only way. -http://www.petrinafava.com www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show Could there be joy in dying? Would you be willing to receive death as an energy for creation instead of loss? Most people would say no; that death, even when it comes as a welcome relief, is an ending that brings sadness. But, what if this isn't true? What if death could be celebrated as the beginning of something greater? How beautiful would it be to celebrate your loved one and fill their days with gratitude, happiness and joy as they prepare to transition to another way of being? My guest, Benoit Trudel knows this is possible because he and his mother created it together as she prepared to leave this world and begin her journey into a new one. Join us for a fascinating conversation about a totally different possibility with death! Benoit Trudel, originally from Canada, has been working in international development with non-government organizations for the past 15 years, from a keen desire to work with and support the poor and empower them in their lives and livelihood. He worked mainly in Asia in Vietnam, Nepal and Burma until 2 years ago when he felt drawn to the Caucasus and started work for a regional project in Georgia and Armenia.  He is a single father to 2 adopted boys from Vietnam, Simon 10 years old and Rémi, 13 years old. By day he works on agricultural policy development and in his free time, he facilitates change in people’s lives with energy and body work.   Benoit is the first and only Access Consciousness® Certified Facilitator and Energetic Facelift Facilitator in the South Caucasus region, and he is happy to travel the globe sharing the tools and magic of Access COnsciousness which have changed so much for him.  The change in their life. You can find him on Facebook or by email at voirlemonde@hotmail.com Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! -www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show How many people have stabbed you in the back? Wronged you? Ripped you off? Stolen your ideas? You can get angry. You can get jealous. You can hate. Or ... you can be so grateful for that energy and use it to outcreate! What does holding onto anger, jealousy and hate create in your body? What shows up in your body when you are in creation mode? So...what will you choose? Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! -www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show What if telling kids how to be safe based on your fears and judgments, is actually more likely to put them in harm's way? We dis-empower our kids when we impose "safety rules" on them. It teaches them that our fears and judgments are greater than their awareness. It teaches them to make conclusions; actually it teaches them to "buy" our conclusions. Safety is a lie. There are no formulas or rules to follow with awareness. There is no one way to be safe. What if the ability to have razor sharp awareness that is far beyond any logical thought, together with the willingness to completely trust their knowing, could be the best way for your kids to avoid harm? To know when they need to leave a situation even if it means breaking the rules or getting in trouble? How do we show our kids how to be that energy? How do we empower them to trust their knowing? What if it starts with us, trusting them more than we trust fear? Join me for some tips and tools you can use to break away from fear and empower your kids! Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! -www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show Did you have one? Do you think you are one? Would you be willing to be one? Any definition of "good mom" that you're holding yourself to is a set of blinders to what your child requires. You cannot be open to receiving the awareness of what will work to create something greater with definitions in the way. Any definition is a closed box of options. What would it be like to be an undefined mother? What if the willingness to be a "bad mom"; truly, without judging yourself for it, could be the thing that gives your kids the space to be the greatness of them...if that's what they would like to choose? Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! -www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show What do you believe about death that is actually a lie? What if "sad" and "loss", "missing" and "gone" are all lies, no matter how real they feel to you? What if it's possible to have an even greater relationship with someone after they die? And can that show up if you're holding on to the lie that they're gone? Join me and my amazing guest, psychic medium, Jeneen Yungwirth as we bust the lies we've been believing about death. What if dropping them could open to floodgates to easily staying connected to our loved ones, whether they have a body or not! Jeneen is an Author, Speaker and Radio Show Host.  She is intuitive and does work as a Psychic Medium. At the age of 13, Jeneen had an experience where she felt as though she was being watched. Not sure what was going on and thinking it was all in her head, she brushed it off each time she was in that location. Not long after she overheard someone talking about all the strange things that were happening there, Jeneen’s validation that it wasn’t all in her head. Being a Psychic Medium is an amazing ability Jeneen has and yet she feels it is more important for people to start acknowledging what they too are capable of this. Jeneen has the most fun when she is teaching people how to acknowledge themselves as the creators of their life and teaching them the tools for how to change the areas in their lives that are not working for them. http://www.jeneen.ca/   accessjeneen@gmail.com Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! http://www.petrinafava.com www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show Have you ever asked yourself "What if a whale eats me by accident?" Ok, probably not. But my guest Frank Fradella has! And his story about whales and sharks had me wondering ...if you totally trusted your awareness, would you have to believe in accidents? Is an accident really an accident? Or is it a total unwillingness to be aware? What's the value of being at the affect of accidents? What gets created when we live in fear of accidents? What would happen if we made the demand of ourselves to have razor sharp awareness? What do our bodies know about this? Join me and my guest Frank Fradella as we explore the Lie of Accidents! Get ready to rid yourself of all the beliefs, judgments and points of view that are stopping you from being totally aware, 24/7! Frank Fradella is a creator of insane magnitude! He's worked in the fields of fiction, publishing, podcasting, art, tarot, language, comics, self-help, content marketing, and video production. In addition to creating dozens of videos for Gary and Dain and the Access team, he's traveled the world on the Stream Team, and is currently hosting The Art of Creation Show along with Rebecca Boswell on YouTube. As a Certified Facilitator of Access Consciousness, Frank loves to dedicate himself to destroying the barriers that prevent people from choosing their best life. For the creative, that most often means working with them to overcome the persistent "starving artist" mentality. Frank's particular passions have led him to create his own specialty classes such as Total Ease with Video, Total Ease with Languages, and The Geek's Guide to Consciousness — where he takes familiar movies and characters from pop culture and uses them to explain the tools of Access Consciousness. You can find more about Frank, here - http://www.accessconsciousness.com/fac_detail.asp?mid=2961 And check out Frank's Youtube channel, here - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvSEDSaHPevVIHxt_2EVjrA Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! -www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show Are you willing to pay for ease? Or … have you decided that you would rather keep your money and suffer a little to get the same result at a cheaper price? Are you a “DIY er”? Do you refuse to let anyone else do work for you because you figure you can do it yourself and keep your money? What is the energy of this? What is this actually creating in your life? And do you actually value ease? Or is it at the bottom of the pile? Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! -www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show Are you waiting for it to feel right? Feel easy? Feel good, before you choose it? Many choices are uncomfortable, but is uncomfortable wrong? Or could it be an awareness of a fixed point of view? A firmly held belief that's keeping you stuck? A lie that's held in place? Are any of those even yours? We've learned to believe that we can't help our feelings. What if this isn't true? Assigning significance and meaning to your feelings puts you into massive conclusion and limits your ability to create beyond them. Let’s talk about some questions you can ask yourself to get clear about what you're actually aware of. What could you create if you were willing to choose even in the face of discomfort? Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! -www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show Are you outrageously happy? Or happy enough? There's a commonly held belief that happiness should come in a "good enough" quantity. Is being ridiculously happy unnecessary if you're content? What's stopping you from asking for more happiness? Would it be too much to handle? Have you even considered asking for more happiness? And if you have ... why isn't it showing up? What would it be like if you were  happier than you thought was necessary? Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! -www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show How many years of your life have you spent trying to be normal? Or at least ...trying to appear normal to your friends? Family? Co-workers? The world? How many parts and pieces of you have you cut off in an attempt to avoid being judged as strange, weird or different? Bending and folding yourself into something you that you're not hurts. It hurts your being, and it hurts your body too. Those people whose judgement you are trying to avoid; are they worth it? Trying to fit in is exhausting. And, it's mean. Because the world needs you. Normal doesn't change the world. Normal perpetuates more of the same, and you, being your weird abnormal self, is a gift beyond measure. Why are you holding it back? Stop being such a jerk and give us your weirdness already! Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! -www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show We make choices constantly. At least ... in our minds. Whether or not we act on them is another story. When your choices are uncomfortable or judge-able, do you look for justifications? Ways to defend your choices to others? To yourself? And when you don't find any obvious ones, do you unconsciously create justifications and call them problems? Do your problems force you to choose? Do they justify and defend your choices? Are you unconsciously provoking and creating drama so that your choice appears to be justified? What if you could just choose, without having any reason...other than...because you can?  What if problems were not a necessary push to choice? Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! -www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show "I don't think I can", "What if I'm wrong?", I don't know". Doubt. The great distractor. The killer of dreams. Your biggest barrier to greatness. We've come to accept that doubt is a normal part of life, but what if it doesn't have to be? How many of your creations would come to life if you never, for a second, doubted yourself? Tools to eliminate doubt from your reality and create the life you know is possible. Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! -www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show Have you ever said these words: "Everyone wants something from me!" "How can I keep up with all these demands?!" Are you trying to create a business, a family, a relationship...wishing people would want you or your service, while also resisting being demanded? My guest Julia Sotas knows something amazing about what gets created when you are willing to be in demand. Are you ready to be willing to be TOTALLY demanded? Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! Julia Sotas: www.juliasotas.accessconsciousness.com/   www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show Beauty. What is it? Who defines it? Whose standards are you judging yourself against? So many of us are trying to attain beauty, but as we define it in this reality, beauty is a judgement. A set of standards to be compared to. Can you BE a judgement? Can you attain a judgement? What if your beauty is undefinable? When you are in a space of no judgement and when you have total gratitude for your body, you exude the energy of beauty! Join me and my guests, Cassy Summers and Sarah Grandinetti; the creators of the I Am Beauty 30 Day Challenge and the I Am Beauty Movement. So..if you weren't judging yourself, what would you know about how beautiful you really are? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show Are you the kind of person who gets super excited about an idea and then, as soon as you start putting it into motion, gets dragged down by all the hows and whens and wheres? Maybe you need to sit down and think about setting some reasonable goals instead of acting on emotion. Be reasonable. Lower your standards a little and set realistic goals. Stop being such a dreamer and get real.  BLEH! Or...NOT! When did you buy that baloney? Who did you buy it from and what has the price of that baloney been? You're not just an unrealistic dreamer. You know you have the ability to create great things. If you didn't buy the lies of "reasonable goals", how much magic could you create? Let's dream big and start getting unreasonable! www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show Well you chose it. So it’s your own fault. Feeling blamed? Blaming yourself? Does the concept of “everything is just a choice” have you feeling like the mess you are in is your own fault? Since you chose it? Where did you learn to equate choice with fault? When did the lightness of choice become heavy with responsibility? Acknowledging choice is very different than blame. How many insidious judgments does it take to turn choice into fault? If you eliminated blame, would you be more willing to choose? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show It's a brand new year! Happy 2017! This time, no hoping. No wishing. You're not a Disney princess. Get out there and get choosing. Choice creates. What do you know is possible? And what choices can you make to create that? What will your choices create this year? Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you truly desire; all while having more fun than you can possibly imagine?   You are invited to come get messy with us and discover that everything you always knew was possible is waiting for you to choose it. Are you looking for change? What if the magic is right in your own hands? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show Ready to get your Christmas Ease on? Stressful holidays are so last year! EASE is the new black! The idea that the holidays are stressful is a lie. A construct. Simple as that. You can choose ease. Holidays are for celebrating with joy, laughter and gratitude! Not bah-humbug, stress and grumpies of magnitude! If you’re finding yourself dreading the holidays, come join us for some tips on choosing joy this Christmas! www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Were you ever shown the energy of adventure? Or has your life been one responsibility after another? Can you remember the sense of adventure you had as a kid, but are wondering where your sense of adventure went? It’s easy to replace adventure with fear, responsibility, and obligation? Are you living an adventure? Or getting through life? And … would you like to change that? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

What are you tired of? Struggling? Trying? Fighting? Are you tired of those things? Or are you tired of the NOT You? Trying to be someone you’re not is exhausting. And when you get a taste of possibility, it’s downright intolerable. What do you know about how much more is possible for you? And are you ready to have it all? Is it time to be all of you? Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you truly desire; all while having more fun than you can possibly imagine?   You are invited to come get messy with us and discover that everything you always knew was possible is waiting for you to choose it. Are you looking for change? What if the magic is right in your own hands? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Are you often accused of trying too hard to see the good in everyone? How many times have you been called naïve; too nice? You’re not wearing rose coloured glasses. The beauty you see in them is real.  You have an amazing capacity to see beauty, there’s just something else that you’re not willing to see.  Ever find yourself giving people too many chances because you know, deep down, they’re a good person; only to be disappointed time and again? If so, there’s a question you haven’t been asking.  What if you could acknowledge the beauty in people while also seeing where they are unwilling to choose it? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Is “life” keeping you distracted from living? Distracting you from creating the life you would really like to have? Family, Jobs, Mortgages, Health, Kids, Relationships. ..all necessary responsibilities that come with life.  Or are they? Are you tired of doing “life”? Would you be willing to stop putting energy into the distractions and start living? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

I know I asked for change! But wait! It wasn't supposed to be THIS! Are you judging how the change is showing up? What if you gave it the space to create it's magic? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Hi there, we’re Ghosts.  Yes, we are real.  We’ve been trying to talk to you, but you haven’t been listening! And it’s not that you can’t hear us, you can.  See here’s the problem, you think you’re going to hear our voices or see our faces.  Some people do, but not most. Almost always, our whispers are subtle and you do perceive them, but not in the way you think you you’re supposed to, so you brush them off as coincidence.  You’re scared to acknowledge what you really know. Sure, some of us can be jerks like we were when we were alive. Don’t be scared, we aren’t any more powerful than you are. Some of us are asking for your help, some of us want to throw a little magic your way and a few of us don’t even realize we’re dead! What if most of what you’ve heard about ghosts in the movies wasn’t true? What if communicating with us looks nothing like what you expect? Wouldn’t it be amazing to tune into the whispers of your loved ones?  How much fun could you have creating your life with your teammates’ contribution?  What if communicating with ghosts could add to your life in a way you never imagined? Tanya Liczner's Video www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Bad words. Nice words. Right words. Wrong words. Politically correct words. Hurtful words. Healing words. What do they all mean? Do they have meaning? Or energy? What could be created if acknowledged the energy of words rather than attach meaning to them? What if you could use the energy of words instead of their meaning to create what you desire? Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you truly desire; all while having more fun than you can possibly imagine?   You are invited to come get messy with us and discover that everything you always knew was possible is waiting for you to choose it. Are you looking for change? What if the magic is right in your own hands? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

What do kids know about bodies that we are not willing to acknowledge? We try to control what they eat, how much they eat, when they eat, when they sleep and how much they sleep, what they wear and even how they move. We give them “code names” for body parts.How many of our own conclusions about bodies are we projecting onto our kids? How early do they learn that bodies are to be hidden, not talked about or even shameful? Are we protecting them? Or teaching them to disregard their awareness and dampening their natural ability to communicate with their bodies? What would it be like if we allowed them to honour their bodies by making their own choices? What would that create in the world? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

You can’t stay at any one job for very long. Just when you start getting good at one thing you become interested in something else. When you were a kid, you wanted to learn guitar, then piano, then trumpet, then drums and then guitar again. You jump from one thing to the next and never stick to one thing. You wonder why that business you started a few years ago with so much enthusiasm is suddenly boring. Your relationships never last.  Do you quit too easily? Or … do you have a high level of creativity and a low tolerance for boredom? Are you a quitter? Or a chooser? Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you truly desire; all while having more fun than you can possibly imagine?   You are invited to come get messy with us and discover that everything you always knew was possible is waiting for you to choose it. Are you looking for change? What if the magic is right in your own hands? www.petrinafava.com  And see Petrina's line of Yummy creations for Bodies at naturally-happy-body.com www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Great news! You’re in the driver’s seat! You have been all along! What you do you mean you didn’t know that? Who did you think was driving?! You have been creating your life with choices. Whose choices have they really been?  Yours or someone else’s?  When you create your life from someone else’s choice, you end up resentful, unhappy and angry. What would it be like to become aware of what you truly desire, and acknowledge that you are in the driver’s seat, and that you can steer your life in any direction you choose. Now…where would you like to go? What adventures would you like to have? Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you truly desire; all while having more fun than you can possibly imagine?   You are invited to come get messy with us and discover that everything you always knew was possible is waiting for you to choose it. Are you looking for change? What if the magic is right in your own hands? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

How uncomfortable are you with discomfort? Are you waiting for a choice to feel good before you choose it? Sometimes choices are uncomfortable, but discomfort can be an exciting space of change and new creation … if only we didn’t judge it and try to get rid of it so quickly! What is so uncomfortable for you that it makes you want to crawl out of your skin?  Now, truth … Is your greatness hiding in there? Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you truly desire; all while having more fun than you can possibly imagine?   You are invited to come get messy with us and discover that everything you always knew was possible is waiting for you to choose it. Are you looking for change? What if the magic is right in your own hands? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

So… you’ve embraced your weirdness and have let go of trying to fit into this reality! Great! Now…are you truly willing to totally stand out? Even if it means being the only one who gets you? Is there somewhere you are still trying to be part of the “it” crowd? Even just a little bit? Have you completely given up fitting in or just shifted over into a different group? Our need to belong is creating more separation in our lives and in the world. How much of ourselves do we have to cut off in order to belong? How much does belonging have us trying to do it like someone else? Would you be willing to be totally different, even if that means following what you know when not even one person is willing to come along with you? What if belonging creates separation and individuality creates communion? Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you truly desire; all while having more fun than you can possibly imagine?   You are invited to come get messy with us and discover that everything you always knew was possible is waiting for you to choose it. Are you looking for change? What if the magic is right in your own hands? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Are you trying hard to think positive, banish all negativity, focus on your happy mantras but finding that you are still unhappy? Thinking positive thoughts only and blocking out everything negative is a little like putting on a blindfold during a fire and telling yourself everything is going to be ok. If you acknowledged the fire and were aware of your options, wouldn’t you move your butt and GET OUT?! Are you sweeping your awareness under the rug in favor of positive thinking? Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you truly desire; all while having more fun than you can possibly imagine?   You are invited to come get messy with us and discover that everything you always knew was possible is waiting for you to choose it. Are you looking for change? What if the magic is right in your own hands? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Longing for your youth? Remember wishing you could be a grown up so that you could do whatever you wanted; excitedly looking forward to a future when you could finally choose for yourself? When did you become a grown up and was it anything like you expected? Have you taken on "old"? What if growing up and growing old are lies? Are we setting kids up with this lie? How can we show them that they can choose for themselves now instead of "when they grow up"? Have you bought the aging lie and how much are you fighting it? What if your resistance to aging and your unwillingness to play are creating the aches and pains you've labeled "getting old"? You don't actually have to grow up. Wouldn't it be great to have all the bonuses of being an adult with all the carefree joys of childhood too? You can! Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you truly desire; all while having more fun than you can possibly imagine?   You are invited to come get messy with us and discover that everything you always knew was possible is waiting for you to choose it. Are you looking for change? What if the magic is right in your own hands? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Do newborns take 21 days to build the habit of eating? Do they need motivation to poop? They just do it, right? What do they know? What awareness are they willing to have that we, as adults, are not? Do habits really bring success? Or are they autopilot systems that dampen your awareness? If you are truly excited, do you need motivation? And if you are not excited …why are you choosing it? Because you have to? How many things in your life are “no choice” options for which you’ve decided you need habits and motivation to make you do them? And is this really how you would like to live? What if you never need to create a habit or build motivation again? What if it’s ok to just choose? Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you truly desire; all while having more fun than you can possibly imagine?   You are invited to come get messy with us and discover that everything you always knew was possible is waiting for you to choose it. Are you looking for change? What if the magic is right in your own hands? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Yes. You Can. And it’s nothing like what you think it is.  Do you look around at people travelling the world giving inspiring seminars and TED talks, building schools in third world countries or starting movements that inspire people across the globe and think … “I could never do anything that big, I could never do anything that impactful?” TED talks, building schools and spearheading movements can create enormous change! And…there’s more.  It starts with you.  What if your choices are not just one small drop in the vast ocean?  The wonderful poet Rumi said “You are not a drop in the ocean. You are the entire ocean in a drop”. You are not just small person in this vast universe. You ARE the entire Universe. All the miracles of the universe are within you. The world is demanding change. You are the world. Time to step up and BE the change.Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you truly desire; all while having more fun than you can possibly imagine?   You are invited to come get messy with us and discover that everything you always knew was possible is waiting for you to choose it. Are you looking for change? What if the magic is right in your own hands? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Deadbeat Dads. Absentee Fathers. They abandoned you. They forgot you. They made you cry. They abused you. They drank. They gambled. They treated you like garbage. What could possibly be right about any of that? Have you felt left out, ripped off, rejected? Did you grow up proving you could make it without them? Are you still angry? What if your deadbeat dad has been the gift you have been unwilling to receive? Join me and my guest, medium and intuitive Keisha Clarke, as we connect with dads who have been far from ideal. Has your dad passed on? Would you like to connect with him and release all the junk you’re still holding onto? What could be possible if you were willing to receive the unexpected and unlikely gift of him? Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you truly desire; all while having more fun than you can possibly imagine?   You are invited to come get messy with us and discover that everything you always knew was possible is waiting for you to choose it. Are you looking for change? What if the magic is right in your own hands? Contact Keisha Clark: https://www.facebook.com/livingwealwithkeisha www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Have you ever heard of a chameleon with an identity crisis? Do you think other animals accuse them of being flakes because they change their colours to suit the world around them? No? Then why are you beating yourself up for faking it once in a while? Ever consider the possibility that in certain circumstances, blending in might actually be a contribution? Or a way to manipulate someone into choosing greater for themselves? It may be a capacity you have. It certainly would create more … *gasp* … EASE… for you, but you wouldn’t want that, would you? If you’re convinced that you must, at all times, be your most true self in every moment, you might just be missing opportunities to blend in and change the world ever so quietly. www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Are you still cat-fighting with other women? Jealous? Competing? Just overall hating? What’s the deal?! How much are you cutting out of your life by holding this in place? Well…guess what? Something else is really possible! And it could be the key to receiving more of everything in your life. Join me and my guest Jenny G Perry as we talk about what could change for you if you were willing to end the cat-fights. Are you ready to stop acting like a teenage drama queen now? http//jennygperry.com/ www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

What’s your waiting game? Do you notice yourself furiously impatient for change; refusing to wait and demanding that it show up NOW while at the same time, waiting for everything or everyone else to fall into place first? Isn’t that an interesting dynamic? So what are you waiting for? Who are you waiting for?  What is this see-saw of “waiting while also resisting waiting” creating in your life?  What is it creating in your body? Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you truly desire; all while having more fun than you can possibly imagine?   You are invited to come get messy with us and discover that everything you always knew was possible is waiting for you to choose it. Are you looking for change? What if the magic is right in your own hands? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com