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"The mind is like water. When it's turbulent, it's hard to see. When it's calm, everything becomes clear." — Kobe Bryant Kobe Bryant was definitely onto something when he spoke those words. If you're not in control of your commitments and have no idea what needs to be done next, you're going to be stressed. And stress, like turbulent water, makes it hard to see where you should be spending your time. Links: Email Me | Twitter | Facebook | Website | Linkedin Join the Time And Life Mastery Programme here. Use the coupon code: codisgreat to get 50% off. Get Your Copy Of Your Time, Your Way: Time Well Managed, Life Well Lived The Time Sector System 5th Year Anniversary The Working With… Weekly Newsletter Carl Pullein Learning Centre Carl's YouTube Channel Carl Pullein Coaching Programmes Subscribe to my Substack The Working With… Podcast Previous episodes page Script | 395 Hello, and welcome to episode 395 of the Your Time, Your Way Podcast. A podcast to answer all your questions about productivity, time management, self-development, and goal planning. My name is Carl Pullein, and I am your host of this show. What's the point of learning how to be more productive and to be better at managing our time? Are we not just shuffling work around—work that will need to be done at some point anyway? Well, yes and no. Historically, people went to work, often in factories, where they performed repetitive manual labour. When their workday finished, they “downed tools”, clocked out and went home. As there were no TVs or smartphones, people often played cards or board games with their families, read books or went to the pub. It was easy to leave work at work. It was easy to manage our time. There was personal time and work time, and the two did not mix. Today, it's very different. Most of you listening to this podcast will likely be working in what is commonly called “knowledge work' jobs. You're not hired for your muscles. You're hired for your brain. And this causes us a problem. Manual labour meant you did a hard day's work, and when you went home, you could forget about work. In knowledge work, it's not so easy to stop your brain from thinking about a work problem. I remember when I worked in a law firm, I caught the bus home and often spent most of the journey thinking about an issue with a client and trying to figure out the simplest way to solve the problem. In the past, people would have looked forward to getting home to their families. When you're mentally distracted in that way, it's hard for you to switch off and enjoy that time with your family and friends. Today, it also means there's no barrier—except our own willpower—to sending an email or a Teams message at any time of the day or night. In the past, the factory gates were locked, or someone else was doing your job on the night shift. It wasn't possible to work beyond your regular working hours. Time management was much easier. Not so today. And that nicely leads us to this week's question. And that means it's time to hand you over to the Mystery Podcast Voice. This week's question comes from Michael. Michael asks, Hi Carl, I've spent years struggling with time management, and it's got to the point where I think there's no point. As hard as I try, there's always something that needs to be done, and I never get a chance to finish anything and end up with everything being urgent. Is there any point to all this time management and productivity stuff? Hi Michael, thank you for your question. In many respects, you might be right that managing time, or at least trying to, is a waste of time. (I think there might be a pun there) As I alluded to, with knowledge work and the explosion of communication tools over the last few years, things that could have waited a day or two now seem to have to be dealt with immediately. It's not that the task is suddenly urgent; it's a combination of people's expectations and the delivery system. The problem here is that no matter how fast the delivery system becomes—or other people's expectations— we are human. We can still only do one thing at a time. That is not going to change in our lifetime. And that's where to start—understanding that you, as an individual, can only work on one thing at a time. In other words, if you have ten equally urgent messages to reply to, you're going to have to choose which one to respond to first. Now, you could come up with a complex, convoluted system for deciding which message to respond to first, or you could adopt a more straightforward first-in-first-out approach. Start with the oldest and work your way through your list of messages. What are we talking about here—perhaps a ten-minute delay for you to get to a particular message? Does ten minutes really matter? You're not trying to save someone's life in an emergency room, are you? Messages are often more time-sensitive than emails, and I find that responding to them between work sessions works best. For instance, if you were to protect 9:30 to 11:30 am for focused work. That's two hours where you are technically not available. Once you finish that session, check your messages and respond to any that require a response. When I set these barriers of doing undisturbed, focused work for two hours a day, I used to panic every time my phone dinged. I felt I had to respond immediately. Of course, that was not true. It never was, and it's still not true for any of us today. It took a few weeks to wean myself off panicking every time a message came in, but the results were fantastic. My productivity went through the roof, leading to fewer urgent tasks. Our brains are not good at handling interruptions to the flow of work. I've seen studies showing that even a minor interruption can take you up to 18 minutes to refocus and get back to where you were before. Think about that for a moment. Even if you were taking ten minutes to refocus and getting an average of six interruptions per day, you've lost an hour. Or to put it into a better perspective, that's 12 ½ per cent of your work day gone. Wasted. By responding to messages between work sessions, you avoid losing focus and get more work done in less time. And it's there that you will find fewer urgent tasks to do. Because you are getting more done in less time, you will be able to stay on top of projects and other work without getting too close to the deadline. Another area that can make us feel that managing our time is a waste of time is focusing on the number of tasks rather than the time we have available. Again, this is linked to the fragility of being human. We are affected by how much sleep we get, our mood, and our diet. Have a bad night's sleep, then a fight with your kids over the breakfast table and a sugary doughnut as a midmorning snack, and you're not going to get a lot of work done. You have a sleep debt, you're worked up by the argument, and that doughnut is going to give you a massive energy crash. This is why estimating how long a task will take is challenging. I've been writing a 1,000-word blog post every week for around ten years now. You'd think I would be able to estimate reasonably accurately how long writing 1,000 words would take after writing over 500 blog posts. Ha! No chance. Some days I can write the first draft in forty-five minutes, other days it can take me two hours. The biggest effect on how long it will take me is sleep. If I get my seven hours, I know it'll take me less than an hour. Less than six hours, and I'm struggling to do it in two hours. A better approach is to allocate time for doing groups of linked tasks. For example, group all your actionable emails and set aside 40 to 60 minutes at the end of the day to deal with them. This way, it doesn't matter how many emails you have to act on; you do as many as you can in the time you have. If you're doing this every day, you'll soon find you have no email backlogs. What amazes me is the people who try this for a few days and give up because their huge backlog of actionable emails is not getting significantly smaller. Well, of course not. If you're starting with six hundred actionable emails, it's going to take you a long time to get that under control. What you could do is set aside a one-off period to get that backlog under control first. Then set a time each day to keep it under control. Or make sure you have a “net-gain” with your responses. For instance, if you get 20 actionable emails in a day, respond to at least 21. That's a net gain. If you do that consistently over a few weeks, your backlog of actionable emails will reduce significantly. You're not going to lose the holiday weight you gained in a few days. It might have only taken you a few days to gain that weight, but it's going to take you a few weeks, if not months, to lose it. (Life's tough, isn't it?) Most of the reasons why so many people quit making necessary changes, whether in their work or personal life, are linked to the initial difficulty of change. All change is difficult at first. You're changing. But soon that change becomes your norm, and then it becomes easy. It becomes “just what you do”. There's a time and place for the things you want to or must do. This is where your calendar comes into play. Scheduling time for play, rest and exercise is just as important as scheduling meetings with your clients or boss. Trouble is, we don't do that. We prioritise work over other essential things in our lives. As Jim Rohn said, “When you work, work. When you play, play. Don't mix the two” Ask yourself, where's your boundary? If you don't have one, you're not managing time; you're allowing time to manage you. There are many ways you can take control of your calendar. You could, for example, limit the number of hours you spend in meetings each week. If you work a typical 40-hour week, you could set the maximum time you spend in meetings at 15 hours. That will leave you with 25 hours dedicated to doing your work tasks. Most people I talk with have no idea how much time they are spending in meetings each week. They say “yes” to every meeting request. WOW! If you don't have control of that, you're “up the creek without a paddle”. Managing time is about managing your calendar and doing the hard things, like saying no to additional meetings that won't help you do your work. This is one reason why the old-fashioned paper planners were so good. Because you had to handwrite your appointments into your diary, there was no way you could double-book yourself. Sadly, that one simple feature does not exist in digital calendars. I've seen people with four appointments all scheduled at the same time. Come on, you cannot be in two meetings at once, let alone four! You can also protect blocks of time for doing your most important work each day. It's not difficult, and with shared calendars, doing so indicates to other people that you are not available at that time. And most important of all, you can do a short daily planning session where you look at your calendar to see where your commitments are, then curate your to-do list so that the number of tasks you have for today is realistic, given how much non-meeting time you have. Yet none of these are tool issues. These are human decisions we need to make, and we need to be strong enough to follow through with them. Blaming our boss, colleagues, customers, or tools won't improve the situation. Only by being strong enough to say “no, not then, how about this time”, can you ever regain control of your time and see a corresponding increase in your productivity. So there you go, Michael. Time management and productivity systems can and do work, but they only work if you are willing to make the difficult choices that come with them. Be consistent in trusting your calendar. Allow it to structure your day between your work and home life. Don't allow someone else's “urgent” to become your urgent. Respond to messages appropriately, but within your time frames. I hope that has helped, and thank you for your question. And thank you to you, too, for listening. It just remains for me now to wish you all a very, very productive week.
Roka Sheddo fled the war in Syria to Germany 11 years ago. She is speaking to us about the International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women, its importance and how it is observed in Kurdish society and the diaspora. She explains the situation of women—especially Kurdish women—in a European society within the framework of cultural perspectives, rights foundations and educational assistance. - Ev hevpeyvîna bi Roka Şido re li ser Roja Navneteweyî ya Ji-holêrakirina Tundiya li ser Jinan e, girîngiya vê rojê û awayê ku di civaka kurd û diyaspore de tê hêsibandin e. Hevpeyvîn di destpêkê de girîngiya 25 Mijdarê wek rojeke ku balê dide ser pêwîstiya şopandina mînakên girîng yên têkoşîna jinan li dijî tundutûjiyê, ewlehiya civakî û mafên bingehîn e ku tên şikandîn. Her weha, di nav civakeke Ewropî de rewşa jinan—bi taybetî jinên Kurd—di nav çarçoveya dîtinên çandî, bingehên mafî û alîkarîya perwerdehiyê de tê şirove kirin.
The 55-year-old driver of a school bus in Maple Lake, MN blamed his 0.082 breathalyzer result on NyQuil. Yes, this happened on a school day. One of the students noticed the smell of alcohol and set the ball in motion. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Episode Two Hundred and Seventy Seven STOP THE BLAMING GAME!
Male loneliness among men is rising while leftists on this podcast try to figure out how to address this issue without addressing the issue. Interesting strategy, Cotton.
Good morning! Start your day with Go Birds! Daily, a daily Eagles podcast giving you everything you need to know for November 18th. In today's episode Eliot Shorr-Parks dives into the latest reports that cite people within the Eagles blaming Jalen Hurts for the offensive struggles. Then, more on Lane Johnson suffering a potentially season-ending injury and the Jalen Hurts Rewatch Report Card. Help us raise money for TreeHouse Books and win a Zack Baun signed football by clicking HERE! To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Dive into a delightful chain-reaction folktale where one small accident turns into a wild forest chase! Once upon a time, crabs were round like balls—until one curious crab asked a mouse to fetch him some fruit. A single fallen fruit sets off a hilarious misunderstanding involving angry ants, a frightened pig, a startled bat, a panicked elephant, and a very furious old woman. Blaming each other in a comical trail of confusion, all creatures eventually turn against the poor crab. What happens next explains why crabs look the way they do today!This playful, fast-paced tale is perfect for kids and families who enjoy imaginative origin stories, humor, and lively storytelling.
In this week's episode Rabbi Kohn discusses a lesson from this week's Parsha on blame. He talks how we learn from Rebecca not to let ourselves blame other for our failures in life. He also discusses a lesson from the Parsha on the essense of prayer. Subscribe to The Practical Parsha Podcast. For questions or comments please email RabbiShlomoKohn@gmail.com. To listen to Rabbi Kohn's other podcast use this link- the-pirkei-avos-podcast.castos.com/ If you would like to support this podcast please use this secure link to donate: SUPPORT THE PODCAST Chapters (00:00:00) - The Practical Parasha Podcast(00:00:28) - The Parsha(00:03:52) - The lineage of Rivkah in the Parsha(00:11:59) - Why Hashem Made The Matriarchs Barren
Episode #261 with Taylor and Adam. Come send it with the boys, as we discuss - Undercover Boss, Blaming your Cousin, Fire Fighters, GMD, Rumours, Running from the Po, AI porn, Rockstar Games, Queen Sydney, OutKast, Jack White, and much more... Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bigsendpodcast Patreon BoSodes(Bonus Episodes): https://patreon.com/BigSendPodcast Please forward all complaints to: bigsendpodcast@gmail.com
Shannon Sharpe issues a public apology to Commanders DT Daron Payne after Payne reached out and showed Unc the real clip revealing Lions WR Amon-Ra St. Brown threw the first punch! Shannon sets the record straight and apologizes directly to Payne on Nightcap. Plus, Unc, Ocho and Joe Johnson react to Jameis Winston being named the New York Jets starting QB over Russell Wilson and much more! 0:00 - Jameis Winston named starter for Giants6:30 - Jaire Alexander stepping away from football14:27 - Mike McDaniel trolls Bills fans OTW home after W23:00 - Unc apologizes to Daron Payne (Timestamps may vary based on advertisements.) #ClubSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
America has a habit of blaming poor people + immigrants for the problems that policy makers create. Stop letting the oppressors scapegoat the oppressed, and start focusing your outrage on the people who perpetuate (and profit from) this harmful false narrative. The Big Short Script: https://www.sellingyourscreenplay.com/wp-content/uploads/screenplay/scripts/The-Big-Short.pdfThe "Careful, that foreigner wants your cookie" Meme: https://www.reddit.com/r/PoliticalHumor/comments/lwssxm/america_summed_up/The "average taxpayer pays $36 in SNAP vs $300 corporate bailouts" meme: https://www.reddit.com/r/theydidthemath/comments/1kjoekc/request_is_this_accurate/SUPPORT JULIE (and the show!)DONATE to the Palestinian Children's Relief Fund AND THE Sudan Relief FundGET AN OCCASIONAL PERSONAL EMAIL FROM ME: www.makeyourdamnbedpodcast.comTUNE IN ON INSTAGRAM AND YOUTUBESUBSCRIBE FOR BONUS CONTENT ON PATREON.The opinions expressed by Julie Merica and Make Your Damn Bed Podcast are intended for entertainment purposes only. Make Your Damn Bed podcast is not intended or implied to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/make-your-damn-bed. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Taking ownership of our mistakes is not admitting complete failure but simply recognizing that we messed up. Blaming others when we miss our goals will not help us learn from our mistakes. Learning from our mistakes is the best way to improve our processes moving forward.Go to therootbrands.com/confidencethroughhealth for more information on Zero-In, Restore, and Clean Slate that I take daily to help stay healthy. Visit ConfidenceThroughHealth.com to find discounts to some of our favorite products.Follow me via All In Health and Wellness on Facebook or Instagram.Find my books on Amazon: No More Sugar Coating: Finding Your Happiness in a Crowded World and Confidence Through Health: Live the Healthy Lifestyle God DesignedProduction credit: Social Media Cowboys
Relationship Stories - OP planned two fun, lowkey birthdays — both ruined by her boyfriend's mood swings and emotional deflection. After being blamed, dismissed, and called selfish again, she finally decides she's done tolerating the disrespect.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lost-genre-reddit-stories--5779056/support.
Erin is dehydrated after her visit to Austin, Bryan befriends his Erewhon-going seatmates on a flight to New York, plus some balm/SPF talk and a celebration of the results from last week’s elections. Erin discusses the NYT Opinion interview with three feminist conservative bootlickers titled “Did Liberal Feminism Ruin the Workplace”. Bryan brings us some cautious optimism with Kim Davis’ defeat with the Supreme Court declining to take up her case against Obergefell v. Hodges and the right to same-sex marriage, but how it doesn’t necessarily set a precedent and could still be brought up again in the future. For hours of bonus content visit www.patreon.com/attitudes See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
An attendance expert says David Seymour's disingenuous to blame attendance numbers on striking teachers. He's claiming their industrial action meant term three attendance dropped year on year. He says it was on track for 52 percent attendance, but ended closer to 50. Manurewa Attendance Service head Cathy Chalmers says attendance on those days isn't recorded - and numbers usually slip at the end of term. "Historically, that last day before the long weekend, we get a lot of students not turning up to school." LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
11-11 Dirty Work Hour 1: Is it fair to compare Brock Purdy's injury with Joe Burrow? Is blaming training staff misguided? Plus, are the Sharks more exciting than the Warriors?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
11-11 Dirty Work Hour 1: Is it fair to compare Brock Purdy's injury with Joe Burrow? Is blaming training staff misguided? Plus, are the Sharks more exciting than the Warriors?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Decline of Democracy: Autocracy and Oligarchy on the Rise. Gaius and Germanicus discuss Michael McFaul's hypothesis that democracy is in recession and autocracy is ascendant. Germanicus concurs, blaming "Blue" (Democrats) for pursuing steps that strip the nation of its Republican character, including efforts to control media and censor, which he terms "creeping authoritarianism." He cites examples like a two-tier justice system and the pursuit of "thought crimes" (e.g., silent praying outside an abortion clinic) in the US and UK. Germanicus believes the US is heading toward a "brutal oligarchy" controlled by a ruling class, rather than a classic autocracy. Gaius asks if autocratic models, such as Chinese capitalism, are appealing to allies. Germanicus confirms that certain nations (like the expanding BRICS) view China and Russia as providing a better model for societal progress, especially given the US's poor global reputation since 2001. Furthermore, neoliberalism benefits only the very wealthy, creating devastating wealth inequality akin to the ancien régime before the French Revolution. Projecting 100 years ahead, Germanicus believes the US will likely be an "oligarchic autocracy" and an empire competing as a trans-Pacific/transatlantic block against a Eurasian block. They agree that modern technology, capable of tracking thoughts and speech, is an "enormously powerful instrument" supporting this autocratic trend. Germanicus notes that moralizing about dictators and "saving democracy" will persist, but merely as a means to keep the population passive and quiet, labeling modern censorship as highly Orwellian. They conclude they are living through a transformation from kingship to democracy, now moving toward autocracy. 80 BCE. SULLA
Ep. 396 In Episode 396, Ken and Dave discuss the ongoing shutdown, UPS's DC-11 crash, the big Blue wins, cutting down flights, one trillion dollars, cutting the fat, SCOTUS taking on tariffs, and Nancy hanging it up. Current Events & Politics The Government Shutdown: Entering week six, the longest ever. Discussing the impact on federal workers like TSA agents and soldiers (citing the closure of a chow hall at Fort Leavenworth). There is a proposal being offered to reopen the government and extend ACA premium tax credits for one year. Temporary Government Measures: Examination of how government "emergency" actions, such as the creation of the TSA or temporary bonuses, inevitably become permanent, noting that the Income Tax was also supposed to be temporary. New York City Mayor: Discussion of Mayor-elect Montani Montani, who won the election but immediately sought fundraising for his transition team. Concerns were raised about his lack of professional experience, his communist ideology, and the potential consequences of his policies, such as free buses leading to safety issues. Nancy Pelosi Retires: Longtime Congresswoman Nancy Pelosi is retiring after 40 years. Reflecting on her historical role as the first female Speaker of the House and the perceived corruption associated with long tenure in Washington D.C. Dick Cheney's Passing: Noting the death of former Vice President Dick Cheney, highlighting his historical significance in expanding the power and influence of the Vice Presidency. Economics & Consumer Issues Food Prices & Thanksgiving: Highlighting outrageous food prices, particularly meat (rib eyes over $20/lb), but noting conflicting stats on the average cost of Thanksgiving dinner this year. Blaming ethanol subsidies for driving up feed costs and food prices. SCOTUS and Tariffs: The Supreme Court held a hearing on the legality of tariffs imposed by former President Trump, who cited the International Emergency Economic Powers Act. Most judges viewed tariffs as taxes, suggesting the ruling will likely strike them down 9-0, which is predicted to boost the economy and consumer confidence. American Finances: Observation that many Americans lack cash reserves and are increasingly financing basic necessities, even with predatory 0% financing deals that inflate the final cost. Georgia Politics & Local News Local Elections: Several municipal races were extremely close, including the Jefferson mayoral race, which was decided by one vote, emphasizing the importance of voting in off-cycle elections. PSC Losses: Georgia Republicans lost two seats on the Public Service Commission (PSC) to Democrats Alicia Johnson and Peter Huard, leading to concerns among Republicans about the state "going blue." SPLOST Failure: A local SPLOST (Special Purpose Local Option Sales Tax) failed in one county, which is described as highly unusual. Meth Bust: Local news item about a meth bust at a well-known produce stand. Science & Health Gray Hair and Cancer: Reporting on studies involving mice suggesting that gray hair signals a successful cancer defense mechanism, where the body eliminates potentially dangerous DNA-damaged cells. Weight Loss Drugs: Discussion of Donald Trump's plan to reduce the cost of GLP-1 weight loss drugs via his Trump RX website, raising concerns about price controls potentially stifling future pharmaceutical research and development. Transportation & Aviation FAA Air Traffic Cuts: Due to the continuing shutdown, the FAA is planning to gradually cut air traffic by up to 25%, likely leading to consolidated and fewer flights on major routes. UPS DC11 Crash: A UPS DC11 cargo plane went down in Louisville following a catastrophic failure where the left engine caught fire and fell off, leading to at least 13 fatalities. The discussion focused on the airframe's age not being the issue, but potential maintenance concerns. Misc. The First Trillionaire: Discussing Elon Musk's new compensation package at Tesla, which could potentially make him the world's first individual trillionaire if the company hits aggressive financial milestones (e.g., $8 trillion valuation). Marjorie Taylor Greene (MTG): Discussing her appearance on "The View" where she performed well, drawing applause primarily when she criticized her own party and Republican figures like Donald Trump and Mike Johnson.
Discover what's possible when you shift from blame to resilience. Although many myths about the causes of autism have been thoroughly debunked, misinformation continues to take a toll on mothers. Whether you know from personal experience or through an autism mom in your life, you'll want to listen to this episode with Lisa Candera. Lisa Candera is a single mom, attorney, ADHD-er, autism-mom coach, and the host of The Autism Mom Podcast. She helps parents of autistic children regulate themselves first, so they can show up for their kids with compassion, clarity, and strength. This episode is part one of our conversation, and we discuss: Lisa's journey of understanding and accepting her son's autism and OCD diagnoses What she envisions for her son's future The importance of shared experiences and support groups Misinformation about autism, including recent unfounded claims that it can be caused by Tylenol The debunked “refrigerator mom” theory Working through blame and guilt after learning that your child is autistic How parents can protect themselves from misinformation fatigue Cultural expectations of motherhood Unspoken pressures placed on autism moms To learn more about Lisa Candera and her work, please visit: The Autism Mom Coach ----more---- We appreciate your time. If you enjoy this podcast and you'd like to support our mission, please take just a few seconds to share it with one person who you think will find value in it too. Follow us on Instagram: @autismpodcast Join our community on Mighty Networks: Global Autism Community Subscribe to our YouTube channel: Global Autism Project We would love to hear your feedback about the show. Please fill out this short survey to let us know your thoughts: Listener Survey
Are you tired of feeling stuck, resentful, or like life keeps happening to you instead of for you? In this episode of Masks Off for People Pleasers and Perfectionists, host Kim Gross, author of Free to Be: A Pathway to Inner Liberation, breaks down what it really means to take ownership and personal responsibility — and why it's the key to breaking free from the victim mindset.If you've ever caught yourself blaming your ex, your parents, your job, or your friends for how you feel, this episode will hit home. Kim shares her own journey from blaming others for her unhappiness to realizing that freedom begins when you stop giving your power away. You'll learn how to recognize when you're in victim mode, how to reclaim your agency, and how to take radical responsibility for your peace, joy, and growth.This episode is especially for women in their twenties who are learning to navigate adulthood, relationships, and self-discovery without losing themselves in perfectionism or people-pleasing.
First-grade teacher Abigail Zwerner is under cross-examination during her civil trial after being shot by one of her students. Plus, Terence Crosbie is sentenced for rape. #CourtTV - What do YOU think?Binge all episodes of #ClosingArguments here: https://www.courttv.com/trials/closing-arguments-with-vinnie-politan/Watch the full video episode here: https://youtu.be/FsO0J9PKUfoWatch 24/7 Court TV LIVE Stream Today https://www.courttv.com/Join the Investigation Newsletter https://www.courttv.com/email/Court TV Podcast https://www.courttv.com/podcast/Join the Court TV Community to get access to perks:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCo5E9pEhK_9kWG7-5HHcyRg/joinFOLLOW THE CASE:Facebook https://www.facebook.com/courttvTwitter/X https://twitter.com/CourtTVInstagram https://www.instagram.com/courttvnetwork/TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@courttvliveYouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/COURTTVWATCH +140 FREE TRIALS IN THE COURT TV ARCHIVEhttps://www.courttv.com/trials/HOW TO FIND COURT TVhttps://www.courttv.com/where-to-watch/This episode of Closing Arguments Podcast was hosted by Vinnie Politan, produced by Kerry O'Connor and Robynn Love, and edited by Autumn Sewell. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Kevin D. St Clergy joins us today to shake things up and challenge the way we think about our problems. He's not just your average guest; he's a breakthrough specialist and the author of “Beyond Blind Blaming,” a book that helps folks uncover the real issues behind their struggles. Kevin's approach is all about seeing beyond the blame game—because let's be real, we've all been there, pointing fingers while the real problems hide in plain sight! With his RCD method, which stands for Reflect, Connect, and Decide, Kevin offers a fun and effective way to break free from the cycle that keeps us stuck. So, grab your favorite beverage, get comfy, and let's dive into a conversation that's all about finding clarity, making bold decisions, and maybe even having a few laughs along the way!Takeaways: In today's episode, we unpack the journey of breaking through limitations with Kevin D. St Clergy, who challenges the conventional mindset. Kevin shares that the best advice he ever received was how you do anything is how you do everything, emphasizing personal accountability. The core of Kevin's breakthrough methodology is the RCD method, which stands for Reflect, Connect, and Decide, a framework for transformative change. Blind blaming keeps us stuck in a cycle of finger-pointing, preventing us from recognizing the real issues that hold us back from success. Links referenced in this episode:blindblaming.com
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Kevin StClergy is a distinguished breakthrough specialist, keynote speaker, and author recognized for his impactful work in leadership development and entrepreneurship. Formerly an audiologist, Kevin transitioned into the business world, where he built a thriving coaching and digital marketing enterprise that has served more than 450 clients across the country. Through his website, blindblaming.com, and his active presence on social media, Kevin continues to inspire growth, accountability, and transformation in leaders and entrepreneurs nationwide.Please learn more about Kevin StClergy at www.BlindBlaming.comIn this episode of Mr. Biz Radio, host Ken “Mr. Biz” Wentworth sits down with Kevin StClergy, a thought leader dedicated to transforming blame-based mindsets into self-aware, empowered approaches. The conversation opens with the concept of “blind blaming,” where people instinctively assign fault—either to others or themselves—without addressing the true underlying issues. Kevin shares personal stories, including a memorable childhood baseball experience, to illustrate how blame can limit growth and obscure genuine understanding.As the discussion unfolds, Kevin introduces his Root Cause Discovery (RCD) method—a practical framework built on Reflection, Connection, and Decision-Making—to help uncover what truly drives challenges beneath the surface. Through engaging stories and relatable business examples, he reveals how identifying unseen obstacles can foster clarity, accountability, and transformation. This episode challenges cognitive biases that often distort problem-solving and underscores the importance of seeking deeper insight, including support from coaches and trusted advisors, to achieve lasting progress.Key Takeaways:-Recognize instances of blaming others or oneself for issues without discovering the root problem.-Engage in reflection, seeking external perspective and making decisive actions to tackle real constraints.-Understand biases such as availability and confirmation biases which can thwart problem-solving efforts.-Utilize professional guidance to escape the 'blame loop' and achieve higher levels of success.-Embrace full responsibility by eliminating blaming, complaining, and excuses for personal growth and improved outcomes.
Blaming others keeps us stuck, but repentance opens the way to forgiveness.
Are Eliot Wolf + the Patriots capable of being aggressive at the deadline? // Which new member of the Celtics has impressed us most through five games? // Reacting to Jaylen Brown's comments about Boston fans on recent livestream //
Today's talk: Blaming my kids incorrectly, movie night in the midst of chaos, Root Beer Floats, Clair Obscur in bed with me, and concerts. Patreon My Website.
GET IN TOUCH: bravobreakingnews@gmail.com SHOP BRAVOCON MERCH: http://www.bravobreakingnews.etsy.com This week, Kim stands on her RHONY Legacy soapbox, discussing the Radio Andy anniversary party reunion and what that might mean for the cast. Then, she dives into the latest updates on Real Housewives of Potomac star Wendy Osefo and husband Eddie's arrest, as well as Stacey Rusch's alleged leaked contract with TJ. Finally, details surrounding Real Housewives of Salt Lake City and Bronwyn Newport's past felony charges, as well as Erika Jayne's new DJ career. Thanks for watching, and subscribe so you don't miss any Bravo Breaking News! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Have any questions, insights, or feedback? Send me a text!Length: 40 minutesSynopsis: This morning (10/23/25), in lieu of our usual morning Mishlei, we had a Q&A session! We discussed the following three questions: (1) According to the Rambam, if Olam ha'Ba is non-physical, and if our desires only relate to physical enjoyments, how can we desire Olam ha'Ba? (2) What do we mean in the short vidui when we say ti'ta'nu, which some translate as "You have let us go astray"? (3) Should every person strive to attain the "Crown of Torah"? In going over these answers, I also shared my answer to the question of why the Written Torah doesn't mention Olam ha'Ba, as well as an insight I had into Kayin's sin. -----מקורות:רמב"ם - משנה תורה: ספר המדע, הלכות תשובה ח:א,ו-ז; י:א-ברמב"ם - פירוש המשניות: הקדמה לפרק חלקקהלת ג:יט-כאעץ יוסף - וידויתנחומא - נח יטרמב"ם - משנה תורה: ספר המדע, הלכות תלמוד תורה ג:א,ו-----The Torah content for the remainder of October is sponsored by Yael Weiss in honor of her parents, and in celebration of her father's birthday (September 25 / 17 Tishrei). -----If you've gained from what you've learned here, please consider contributing to my Patreon at www.patreon.com/rabbischneeweiss. Alternatively, if you would like to make a direct contribution to the "Rabbi Schneeweiss Torah Content Fund," my Venmo is @Matt-Schneeweiss, and my Zelle and PayPal are mattschneeweiss at gmail. Even a small contribution goes a long way to covering the costs of my podcasts, and will provide me with the financial freedom to produce even more Torah content for you.If you would like to sponsor a day's or a week's worth of content, or if you are interested in enlisting my services as a teacher or tutor, you can reach me at rabbischneeweiss at gmail. Thank you to my listeners for listening, thank you to my readers for reading, and thank you to my supporters for supporting my efforts to make Torah ideas available and accessible to everyone.-----Substack: rabbischneeweiss.substack.com/YU Torah: yutorah.org/teachers/Rabbi-Matt-SchneeweissPatreon: patreon.com/rabbischneeweissYouTube Channel: youtube.com/rabbischneeweissInstagram: instagram.com/rabbischneeweiss/"The Stoic Jew" Podcast: thestoicjew.buzzsprout.com"Machshavah Lab" Podcast: machshavahlab.buzzsprout.com"The Mishlei Podcast": mishlei.buzzsprout.com"Rambam Bekius" Podcast: rambambekius.buzzsprout.com"The Tefilah Podcast": tefilah.buzzsprout.comOld Blog: kolhaseridim.blogspot.com/WhatsApp Content Hub (where I post all my content and announce my public classes): https://chat.whatsapp.com/GEB1EPIAarsELfHWuI2k0HAmazon Wishlist: amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/Y72CSP86S24W?ref_=wl_sharel
In this episode of Sister Wives, so much unfolds — Paedon makes the big decision to move to North Carolina, Meri keeps dipping her toes into the online dating world, and Kody continues to shift the blame for his failed plural marriage onto his wives. Meanwhile, he admits that he was focused on keeping Robyn “safely kept,” revealing once again where his priorities really lie.Join Sam and Melissa as they react to Sister Wives Season 20 Episode 4, breaking down Kody's mindset, the emotional fallout from years of dysfunction, and what these moments say about life inside and after polygamy.#SisterWives #KodyBrown #RobynBrown #MeriBrown #TLC #ExMormon #PolygamyIf you or someone you love has left polygamy and needs assistance, please reach out to "Holding Out HELP" at 801-548-3492 or visit their website at www.holdingouthelp.orgAt Growing Up In Polygamy our mission is to "Create compassion for communities that have been misunderstood, marginalized and/or abused by their leaders, and to empower those who have left by giving them a platform to share their stories with the world."If you would like to DONATE to this cause you can do so here: https://donorbox.org/growing-up-in-polygamyInsta: @growingupinpolygamyNew website is now up! www.growingupinpolygamy.comTheme Song created by @artcowles Please feel free to reach out to us!growingupinpolygamy@gmail.com
In this cozy and high-energy solo episode, hosts Kelsey Aida and Lynnsey Robinson of High Vibin' It reconnect for some long-overdue girl talk about astrology, eclipse season chaos, and the art of flowing through life's busier, messier seasons.
Andy and Abe have a great conversation on Raheem Morris and his job as the Falcons Head Coach, and while a lot of blame can probably be placed on him for this loss, this was a team loss at the end of the day.
Ever wonder why your partner's innocent behavior feels like a personal attack? What if the stories you're telling yourself about their intentions say more about you than about them? In this eye-opening episode, therapist Tony Overbay, LMFT, explores projection—the unconscious habit of attributing our own thoughts, feelings, and motivations to others. Through real stories from his practice, including a couple's argument over a bag of garbage and a wife accused of infidelity she never considered, Tony reveals how we're all swimming in "water" we don't even know exists. Discover why the things that trigger you most intensely often reflect your own unresolved struggles, learn the psychology behind "the lady doth protest too much," and understand how projection creates conflict in even the healthiest relationships. Tony shares practical tools for recognizing when you're projecting, explains the neuroscience behind why our brains do this, and offers actionable steps for breaking free from automatic interpretations that damage connection. What you'll learn: The difference between observation and judgment (and why it matters). How to recognize when you're projecting your own experience onto your partner. Why intense reactions are usually about you, not them. The connection between childhood survival strategies and adult projection. David Foster Wallace's "This Is Water" and what it teaches us about awareness. (You can read the full transcript here https://fs.blog/david-foster-wallace-this-is-water/) Real examples of projection in everyday relationships and public life. Three key takeaways you can use immediately to transform your communication. If you've ever thought "they should have known that would hurt me" or "they obviously did that on purpose," this episode will fundamentally change how you see yourself, your partner, and your conflicts. Because once you see the water you're swimming in, you can't unsee it—and that's where real growth begins. Perfect for: individuals in a relationship, those struggling with recurring conflicts, those interested in emotional maturity and self-awareness, and anyone seeking to understand the psychology behind their strongest reactions. 00:00 Introduction and Overview 00:44 Understanding Projection 01:36 Story Time: Real-Life Examples of Projection 06:06 Defining Projection 07:34 Historical Context and Theories of Projection 08:46 Modern Psychology and Projection 09:04 Integrating the Shadow 25:29 Projection in Everyday Life 30:48 Uncovering Hidden Struggles 31:49 The Defense Mechanism of Projection 34:18 Therapeutic Breakthroughs 37:34 Practical Examples of Projection 41:11 Understanding Our Default Settings 47:07 The Power of Curiosity and Compassion 52:59 Final Thoughts on Projection Contact Tony at contact@tonyoverbay.com to learn more about his Emotional Architects men's group. And visit https://julie-dejesus.com/cruise to learn more about Tony and his friend Julie De Jesus's "I See You Living" cruise, a 5-night Western Caribbean Cruise from January 24-29, 2026 aboard the Royal Caribbean Cruise Line. To learn more about Tony's upcoming re-release of the Magnetic Marriage course, his Pathback Recovery course, and more, sign up for his newsletter through the link at https://linktr.ee/virtualcouch Available NOW: Tony's "Magnetic Marriage Mini-Course" is only $25. https://magneticmarriage.mykajabi.com/magnetic-marriage-mini-course You can learn more about Tony's pornography recovery program, The Path Back, by visiting http://pathbackrecovery.com
Shannon Sharpe & Chad “Ochocinco” Johnson are joined by Las Vegas Raider linebacker Devin White to talk about why he left Tampa and how his career is going on in Las Vegas, Caleb Williams talks about how he was unable to meet with Troy Aikman, and Patrick Beverly talks about how the Lakers ruined Russell Westbrooks reputation and much more! 0:00 - Raiders LB Devin White joins the show 24:49 - Caleb Williams on not meeting with Troy Aikman29:50 - Pat Beverly on Russell Westbrook's situation44:54 - LeBron expected to be out until mid-November51:01 - Q & Ayyyyy (Timestamps may vary based on advertisements.) #ClubSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode, I dive into the controversial RCMP shooting of Chase De Balinhard in Surrey, British Columbia — a neurodivergent man carrying what appeared to be a firearm near a school, later revealed to be a pellet gun. While headlines rushed to condemn the police and call for inquiries, I challenge the narrative that accountability rests solely on the officers involved.Through the lens of my own experience as a first responder, I break down how incidents escalate in microseconds, not slow-motion replays. I share personal near-death calls, life-or-death decisions made in chaos, and the harsh reality of responding without the luxury of hindsight, pause buttons, or public opinion.This episode asks uncomfortable but necessary questions:How did Chase walk out of his home with a weapon unchecked?Why was he able to move freely around a school for so long?Where did the system fail him before police arrived?And what responsibility do families, services, and society hold?I speak with empathy for Chase's family and for the officers who now carry this weight. Blaming police alone ignores the deeper failures that led to tragedy.This is a conversation about nuance, accountability, compassion, and the unseen cost of being a first responder.If you want soundbites and outrage, this isn't that episode.If you want honesty, context, and humanity — press play.
Since President Trump announced at a White House news conference on Sept. 22 that pregnant women's use of acetaminophen, sold under the brand name Tylenol, might raise the risk of autism in their children, claims about the drug have been circulating online. But this isn't the first time moms have been blamed for their children's autism. In fact, an early theory of autism revolves around the term “refrigerator mothers.” In the Loop discusses this history of parental shame and uncovers the genetic components of autism with psychologist Dr. Latha Valluripalli Soorya at Rush, and J.J Hanley, a film producer and local mother of an adult with autism. For a full archive of In the Loop interviews, head over to wbez.org/intheloop
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Today on The Editors, Rich, Charlie, Noah, and Audrey discuss the impending government shutdown, Trump's newly released plan for rehabilitating Gaza, and Mississippi's academic achievements.Editors' Picks:Rich: Charlie's piece "Mississippi Learning: Educational Success Is a ‘Choice' After All"Charlie: Dan's piece “Five Problems with Blaming the Guns”Noah: Jeff's Carnival of Fools from today "The Chicago Teachers Union Is Exactly Who You Thought They Were"Audrey: Also Jeff's Carnival of Fools from todayLight Items:Rich: Dash Mini Waffle MakerCharlie: Duck talesNoah: His brother's weddingAudrey: Heading to another weddingSponsor:DonorsTrustThis podcast was edited and produced by Sarah Colleen Schutte. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.