So here's how this works..... You're going to join Vtheonlylettter(that's me) and his plethra of guests while discussing the many matters of the human experience every week covering from how to start a business, to the tribulations of losing weight, to what is a Jelly Doughnut(Believe me.....It's not what you think...It's not. The "Oh..That's Sexy Podcast" is a platform that invites all respected minds for honest conversations, genuine bonding, and of course....Drinks.... Stay Sexy Everyone Any Questions please..send an email @oththatssexypodcast@gmail.com
D.O.T.E: Ciroc Mango https://www.ciroc.com/en-us/ Music: LAKEY INSPIRED - Me 2 (Feat. Julian Avila) SoundCloud: https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbjYzQlEyRTJCSndEaGUxYnBnaXZENUh3alZ4d3xBQ3Jtc0trdEdhaklnMjBBNWhoUFl3Y2tzTWo3M21iWkpJbEdMUXl3d3MtRzk1T3JaWjNGQ1BiZU45SUFIenJ5WWc0aDdvdHV2TGN0TWdaQmw0azdFOWZoR20yMTVzY2hZWFlwREhKVEFRMFB0dXU2OEFsZ1FLMA&q=https%3A%2F%2Fsoundcloud.com%2Flakeyinspired (https://soundcloud.com/lakeyinspired) Instagram: https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbVg4TF9mQm5xMDZ6NzI1TTNRTTRJN1ZEamJJZ3xBQ3Jtc0tuNzFsWDVwUWgxdHZIeE5jQjVyZV9ycmRxUTBZRjQ2dnpMal9Ecmx2RmVSVHZ5Zk5YQkJDUURYMmJ6UFFrLTVIT0lHbU94NjZCel9jTXNIaUJ2bWdBRjZiRk93R3BITjdsUno3UFZhcHZQNTl0VnJaTQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Flakeyinspired (https://www.instagram.com/lakeyinspired) So you want the attention but can you handle the attention???? Yes, it's nice to take sexy pictures and me $24,000 a year from it. Hell, it's $24,000 more than what you had but at what cost?
D.O.T.E: Cristal Champange Music: LAKEY INSPIRED - Me 2 (Feat. Julian Avila) SoundCloud: https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbjYzQlEyRTJCSndEaGUxYnBnaXZENUh3alZ4d3xBQ3Jtc0trdEdhaklnMjBBNWhoUFl3Y2tzTWo3M21iWkpJbEdMUXl3d3MtRzk1T3JaWjNGQ1BiZU45SUFIenJ5WWc0aDdvdHV2TGN0TWdaQmw0azdFOWZoR20yMTVzY2hZWFlwREhKVEFRMFB0dXU2OEFsZ1FLMA&q=https%3A%2F%2Fsoundcloud.com%2Flakeyinspired (https://soundcloud.com/lakeyinspired) Instagram: https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbVg4TF9mQm5xMDZ6NzI1TTNRTTRJN1ZEamJJZ3xBQ3Jtc0tuNzFsWDVwUWgxdHZIeE5jQjVyZV9ycmRxUTBZRjQ2dnpMal9Ecmx2RmVSVHZ5Zk5YQkJDUURYMmJ6UFFrLTVIT0lHbU94NjZCel9jTXNIaUJ2bWdBRjZiRk93R3BITjdsUno3UFZhcHZQNTl0VnJaTQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Flakeyinspired (https://www.instagram.com/lakeyinspired) We're living in a very interesting time where the mass of people power by the evolutionary internet can control your life. In an old fashion pitch forks and fires outside of the house situation, we're standbys watching to see the how the story plays out because it's natural to want to destroy the monster terrorizing the people. Right?? But what if we're monster? Who is going to pitch fork and fire us? Instead of the pitch forks, we use our phones, laptops, desktops and instead of the fire, it's out social media accounts. Welcome to the age of cancel culture where the people rage on canceling a persons lively hood for have an opinion or his stance on some thing that the majority do not agree. In some levels, there is a to stifle an individual's "views" because it is hate speech or insinuates violent acts upon a particular group. That needs to be canceled. But does it really? How do we know how to interact with one another to achieve the greater good of accelerating the human race forward? Why can't you have an opposite opinion and still be respected as an individual? What are the dangers of stifling people because you don't like what they say or do?
D.O.T.E: Deléon Tequila https://www.deleontequila.com Music: LAKEY INSPIRED - Me 2 (Feat. Julian Avila) SoundCloud: https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbjYzQlEyRTJCSndEaGUxYnBnaXZENUh3alZ4d3xBQ3Jtc0trdEdhaklnMjBBNWhoUFl3Y2tzTWo3M21iWkpJbEdMUXl3d3MtRzk1T3JaWjNGQ1BiZU45SUFIenJ5WWc0aDdvdHV2TGN0TWdaQmw0azdFOWZoR20yMTVzY2hZWFlwREhKVEFRMFB0dXU2OEFsZ1FLMA&q=https%3A%2F%2Fsoundcloud.com%2Flakeyinspired (https://soundcloud.com/lakeyinspired) Instagram: https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbVg4TF9mQm5xMDZ6NzI1TTNRTTRJN1ZEamJJZ3xBQ3Jtc0tuNzFsWDVwUWgxdHZIeE5jQjVyZV9ycmRxUTBZRjQ2dnpMal9Ecmx2RmVSVHZ5Zk5YQkJDUURYMmJ6UFFrLTVIT0lHbU94NjZCel9jTXNIaUJ2bWdBRjZiRk93R3BITjdsUno3UFZhcHZQNTl0VnJaTQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Flakeyinspired (https://www.instagram.com/lakeyinspired) Step 1: Find something in life to follow Step 2: Hunt for it Step 3: Watch out for pitfalls and don't be afraid to make mistake. Step 4: Repeat Septs 2 and 3 until you reach that goal You will find what it is that you're looking for. Now whether what you desire is a good bad thing is up to you.
D.O.T.E: Agua De Piedra http://www.aguadepiedra.com/?lang=en Music: LAKEY INSPIRED - Me 2 (Feat. Julian Avila) SoundCloud: https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbjYzQlEyRTJCSndEaGUxYnBnaXZENUh3alZ4d3xBQ3Jtc0trdEdhaklnMjBBNWhoUFl3Y2tzTWo3M21iWkpJbEdMUXl3d3MtRzk1T3JaWjNGQ1BiZU45SUFIenJ5WWc0aDdvdHV2TGN0TWdaQmw0azdFOWZoR20yMTVzY2hZWFlwREhKVEFRMFB0dXU2OEFsZ1FLMA&q=https%3A%2F%2Fsoundcloud.com%2Flakeyinspired (https://soundcloud.com/lakeyinspired) Instagram: https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbVg4TF9mQm5xMDZ6NzI1TTNRTTRJN1ZEamJJZ3xBQ3Jtc0tuNzFsWDVwUWgxdHZIeE5jQjVyZV9ycmRxUTBZRjQ2dnpMal9Ecmx2RmVSVHZ5Zk5YQkJDUURYMmJ6UFFrLTVIT0lHbU94NjZCel9jTXNIaUJ2bWdBRjZiRk93R3BITjdsUno3UFZhcHZQNTl0VnJaTQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Flakeyinspired (https://www.instagram.com/lakeyinspired) So I'm on a Mr Robot binge (If you haven't seen the show....PLEASE watch it) and It dawns on me how much information about myself is out there on the web. And not just me, you too. How much information do we share about ourselves? Have you noticed how you can search for a particular pair of shoes and next thing you know, ads of that exact shoe is posted everywhere? They are watching us, every minute and every second of our lives predicting our motives.
D.O.T.E: Casamigos https://www.casamigos.com/en-us The right mindset going into any situation could mean the difference between wins and losses. Too often I feel we try to "WILL" our way to success without a second thought if the energy or investment we're sending out is positive enough to receive favor(blessings, luck, whatever toy want call it). I hate to sound like a self help book from an instagram celebrity but maybe....just maybe what they're saying is true? Let's find out and see
D.O.T.E: Piñaq Liqueur https://pinaq.com Guest: Sir Wilkins @sir_wilkins Topics: Dating In NYC Blue Pill VS Red Pill Mentality Understanding Who You Are Before Entertaining A New Partner What Does It Mean To Level Up BBW Pornstars Crazy EX's
D.O.T.E: Nothing..... Enneagram Test: https://www.truity.com When people talk about self care, you’ll usually hear the basic methods of “how to pamper yourself” • Take A Day Off • Treat Yourself To A Spa Day • Take Time To Love Yourself These examples are all true and you rightfully should do these things for yourself but I think what’s not being spoken of more in the “self care” message is what it looks like and the process of what true self care is. It all starts with the mind and this past year I’ve took the most time with myself and had full on therapy sessions to understand how my mind works. One of the best tools I’ve used to understand myself was an Enneagram test. It’s a series of questions and based on my answers it will give me a type that my personality best represents. With each types come strengths, weaknesses, fears, career advice...everything. I’ve done similar exams but this one hits more and I think it’s because of the time I took to look more inward. It reflected what I felt I knew about me so it wasn’t bullshit and because I trusted it’s legitimacy, I’ll trust how I could improve myself hence the tittle....Be Selfish For me....I have to remind myself that I need to established borders, TRULY TAKE CARE OF ME(that even means giving myself tough love), and accept that people won’t like me JUST BECAUSE....and that’s sexy
Struggle Love is well............a struggle and so is trying to win your money back in a Casino. You feel the rush of possibilities and future gains but more often than not, you're going to be met with so much resistance and disappointment in a person who don't want grow for themselves. But what the fuck does that have to do with a Casino? Just listen and find out
D.O.T.E: Ocean Organic Vodka https://oceanvodka.com The year 2020 was a year where the world stopped and when it stopped, we stopped with it. For some, this was Hell. For others, this was the break that they needed from the customary hustle and bustle to focus on what was important. You're (for the most part) surrounded by four walls and have to face all of the choices you'd made. What was 2020 for you? Was that the year of seclusion, emptiness, mishaps? Was that the year of growth, development, prosperity? How well did you manage you physical, mental, emotional well being? Whatever last year brought, It is time to move up. If anything, this past year has taught us not to take life for granted. So many lives were affected by our social political climate, coronavirus and, our financial well-being that it forced us to look at ourselves in the mirror and say, are we happy with the life you've lived so far? if so, how do we make it last longer? If not, how do we make it better if we want to? There is no better time to move up in your life then right now. At this moment. At this second. Take all that you have learned and apply it, grow from it and develop because if you're reading this, that means you could survive through anything.
Episode 37 "No Checks, No Balance" by Oh..That's Sexy Podcast
Episode 36 "Fuck The Fez Hat" by Oh..That's Sexy Podcast
Thanksgiving special.... D.O.T.E: Grand Marnier: https://www.grandmarnier.com What are we thankful for this season of uncertainty? What are we really thankful for in a world that is rapped in the lore of being "insta-famous" and false accomplishment and accolades. What does it say to us when out possessions become more of a priority then our very lives? Where are we going as a society?
D.O.T.E: Water.....It was needed Topics: This one goes to all my content creators. Sometimes you get caught up in the rat race of making content. People love it. Goals become bigger. You could actually make a fucking dollar off what you do. Then BOOM....you don't feel like doing it. That's it. You don't feel like it. Fuck.....you'd wish it was something more than that like some divine calling from God or a call to action to fight every polluter with a cap gun and a Chick O Stick(A very dangerous combination I'd might add) but atlas....You don't feel like it. And for years that has plagued me for my creative process. It was to the point I had fell out of love with music in totality(I'll share that story next time) But what's the funny thing about life as a creator is that those moments when you don't feel like it, that's when you should work AND THAT SHIT SUCKS. The inspiration is NEVER found in the beginning. Sure you get a idea about something that may call you to work but it's in the process that true growth begins to develop. Accept that. You'll also have to accept that sometimes, It's good to walk away. Restart and refresh. It's ok. You'll be ok. Accept the process. Growth is inevitable when you're on your path. Embrace the process. TAKE A BREAK. TAKE A BREAK. TAKE A BREAK. Don't brake too long because the reward is in the work.
D.O.T.E: Bombay Sapphire Gin https://www.bombaysapphire.com/us/en/ Topics: Im going to start off by saying that over 80% of Sigmund Freud work has been discredited but....... This Shit Right Here......baaaaaaabyyyyyyyyyy The Madonna-Whore Complex has been the staple of an "selection processing" the brain of humans for centuries and where living in a time where this archaic binary form of data collection should be extinct, but why do we hold on to this tradition to see if someone is for a night or lifetime.
D.O.T.E: D'ussé https://www.dusse.com Topics: Polyamory.....Good or bad? Could you see yourself in Poly relationship? As we grow and develop as humans in an advancing world, is the rules of monogamy becoming antiquated? So many individuals compare their lives to societal standards that was set by there predecessors that they lose sight of their own desires and ingenuity when it comes to love. What may work for someone else, may not work for someone else. With that being said, I have just a few out of many questions I would love to have answered to help me understand Poly love...
Guest: J D.O.T.E: Bartenura Moscato https://bartenura.com Topics: Hot Girl Summer and Mexico Driving the Boat Dating Struggles Cuddle Buddies Gender Roles
D.O.T.E: James E. Pepper "1776" https://jamesepepper.com David Foster Wallace: This is Water https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PhhC_N6Bm_s Don Toliver "Company" Slowed and Reverb (***Preferred to Listen While High***) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DvaUca7jsrU Topics: Indulging in comfort could have two sides to it. It's necessary for the human experience to enjoy the pleasures of the world but there has to be a balance. Comfort is the most addicting drug once its take over the process of the human brain because the brains very nature is a make the human experience as comfortable as possible. But to those that shake the world in it's very existence, avoid comfort for their greater good or reward. David Goggins once said "“You are in danger of living a life so comfortable and soft, that you will die without ever realizing your true potential." It's in the moment where we feel that we just don't enough, is the moment we should push through in life.
Guest: Latashia D.O.T.E: Celestial Seasonings Cinnamon Apple Tea http://www.celestialseasonings.com/ Topics: Buying back the Block Gentrification in Queens Community Economics Bad road trips Edible Trips My experience with an Colon Cleanse New Books
D.O.T.E: Suntoy Whisky Toki Topics: Kintsugi-(金継ぎ, "golden joinery"), also known as kintsukuroi (金繕い, "golden repair"), is the Japanese art of repairing broken pottery by mending the areas of breakage with lacquer dusted or mixed with powdered gold, silver, or platinum, a method similar to the maki-e technique. As a philosophy, it treats breakage and repair as part of the history of an object, rather than something to disguise. Embrace pain, flaws, disappointments. When life breaks down around you, don't discard the pieces and build a new world. Conjoin all the pieces with the golden knowledge of life and create something beautiful with what was once shameful
Topics: The responsibility of being a business owner and a content creator can be a heavy one. The quote that comes to mind is from Shakespeare "Heavy is the head that wears the crown" and rightly so So when recognition is given to anyone because of how you are conducting you business, it gives such gratification to those who support you. The sleepless nights, the endless times of facing of self doubt, the days where you don't see the light at the end of the tunnel, becomes all worth it for that recognition Keep pushing, and keep striving content creators, entrepreneurs, students, people all over. Someone is watching. They see you.
Topics : Sometimes in life you have to lose in order to win. You have to throw away what can hold you back, make you comfortable, stagnate you...in order to develop and grow as a person. When someone leaves you, you have to take a few steps back and see what went wrong, even if the person was the one that deteriorated the relationship... Too many times we avoid self reflection because we don't want to recognize our own short comings to preserve our ego but that only holds you back from the deeper level of understand oneself... It is to recognize flaws, embrace them, and grow that not only give purpose, but peace of mind...
First Solo Episode ***Will Do A Few More*** Topics: One of the biggest investment in your life is not a car, or a home. It's who you decide who you'll will spend the rest of your life with if you choose to spend it with anyone.... This person could solely be responsible how pleasurable or miserable you life could be... When finding a mate, treat it like car shopping...the more knowledge of how a car work, cost of parts, maintenance, performance, your budget and your psychology are as a buyer, the better and efficient your choice will be....
Guest: King Reg D.O.T.E: Blue Moon Topics: Black Beauty In America Hair MeToo and Feminism Body Positivity Fat Shaming Lizzo Interracial Dating Stereotypes
Guest: Jemini and Reggie Topics: Bodega's and Ock 6ix9ine Trial The Rise and Fall of Trey Nine Where Does 6ix9ine Land In the Hip Hop Community
Guest: Gina D.O.T.E: Water Topics: People Switching Up On You Toxic Masculinity and Is It Real The Mental State After Weight Loss The Balance Of Internal Change and External Change Allowing Growth In Relationships
Guest: Jai Emm and Vincent King D.O.T.E: Beringer Pink Moscato https://www.beringer.com Topics: Dungen Sex A.K.A Basement Sex Weird Sex Stories Sex When You're High When It's Ok To Go Pass Cuddling Best Places To Have Sex A Jelly Doughnut....SMH Flip Phone Sawg
Guest: Nadine AKA Nay Nay D.O.T.E: Chairman Reserve Rum Topics: Going To Work With A Hangover Quitting Your Job What We're Attracted To Vs What We Attract Horoscopes and Traits What Women Want Trust and Openness
Guets Priscilla Ash Topics: Dating While Being A Entrepreneur The Mindset Of A Boss 9-5 Mentality Bad Girls Sexual Revelations
Guest: Billionaire Drummer ***Recorded Pre-Quarantine*** D.O.T.E: Ron Barcelo Anejo Rum Topics: Maintaining A Positive Mindset Traveling Church People How To Beat That Negative Voice Social Media Lurkers R.I.P Sin City Missionary Work
Episode 18 "Late Night Rants" by Oh..That's Sexy Podcast
Guest: Diane D.O.T.E: McDonalds Tea (It's good for your throat) Topics: What It Takes To Build A Marriage Deal Breakers In Relationships Facebook VS Real Life Monogamy VS Polyamory How To Search Your Soul
Guest: Tashaiah D.O.T.E: Miss T 1 ounce of Crown Royal Peach 1 ounce of @binyaminawinery Amaretto 3 ounces of @tropicana_juices Island Punch Topics: Black Family Vacations Food Shopping In With Black Families Learning How To Cook Family Clocking Your Money
Guest: Tashaiah D.O.T.E: Sweet Bitch Moscato Rosè https://www.instagram.com/sweetbitchwines/?hl=en Topics: Co-Vid 19 Updates And Etiquette Co-Vid 19 Conflicting Reports On Social Media How Trump Is Handling This Crisis How To Spend This Time At Home Instagram Live The Adverse Affects Of Too Much Social Media
Guest: Tashaiah D.O.T.E: D'USSÈ https://www.dusse.com Topics: Co-Vid 19 Working From Home How Is Co-Vid 19 Affecting The Hospital Industry Things To Watch Quarantine Annoying Things On Social Media
Guest: Shirley D.O.T.E: Barefoot Moscato https://www.barefootwine.com Topics: Hedonism Traveling And Living Tourist Visiting The Joker Steps Kids Doing Dumb Shit Self Love What You Want In a Partner/Bonding Over Pain The Secret And The Power Of The Universe Health Care and Health Insurance
Guest: Nora Symphony D.O.T.E: Frontera Malbec https://fronterawines.com/en/ Topics: Gentrification In Queen Club Attire/ Slides In The Club Types Of Porn Fecal Play/ Scat Play Sexual Harassment At Work #MeToo Why I Hate Lena Dunham Men Being Sexual Assaulted How Courting Works How To Work The Power Of Your Sexuality Nora Finding Love
Guest: Candi D.O.T.E: Beringer Red Moscato https://www.beringer.com Topics: Laws Of Attraction How Jail Changes Individuals Parents Invest In Their Children/ Children Invest In Their Parents Introduction Of "The Lifestyle" Do's And Don'ts Of A Lifestyle "Party" Drunk Vince Birthday Party.....SMH.... When To Be A Cunt Say NO
Guest: Satira D.O.T.E: LaMarca Proscco Sparkling Wine http://www.lamarcaprosecco.com Topics: Getting Names Wrong What Is A Doula And Why Should Women Have One During The Pregnancy Phase Black Health Sexual Tips And Trick Gender Roles In Sexuallity
Episode 12 "I Promise You We're Not Racist" by Oh..That's Sexy Podcast
Guest: Ideal D.O.T.E: Makers Mark https://www.makersmark.com/ca/ Topic: Is It Worth It To Have Kid Young Parents Marshawn Lynch Altercation How Old Is 6 How Society Develops People and Masculinity Hair…..Don’t Fucking Touch It Pride
Guest: William D.O.T.E: Jack Daniels(Christ I regretted this) https://www.jackdaniels.com/en-us Topics 11 Years Of Marriage The Power Of Friends and Influence Growing Pains From The 1:00:00 Mark Is Best Drunk Rant In December of 2019 Stay True To Yourself
Guest: Jasmine D.O.T.E: Pendleton Whiskey https://pendletonwhisky.com Topic: Fronting On "The Gram" Keeping You're Relationship Private The Power Of Attention/ Cat-Fishing I've Never Been To A Strip Club We Love Strippers Does Marriage Work? Why A Threesome Helps A Marriage
Guest: Jemini D.O.T.E: Nutcracker https://www.wikihow.com/Make-Nutcracker-Drinks Topic: Akon Opinion About A Woman's Sexual Nature How Men Are More Romantic Than Women How The Sexual Market Value Determines Your Choices When Dating Quantity over Quality Polyamorous Relationship
Guest: Lord Allah https://www.instagram.com/bodiesdivinefit/ D.O.T.E: Water Topic: Yes....My Real Name Is Lord Allah The Aspects Of Becoming A Trainer Plant Base Diets VS Other Diets Poop
D.O.T.E: Xanté http://xantenorthamerica.com Guest: King Reg Topics: Vaginal Aroma Etiquette On Cleaning Your Penis Male Group Texting / Female Group Texting Rich Kids + Rich Parents = Happy Life??? The One What Is Love? The Value Of A Partner
Guest: Nalieka and Johnny D.O.T.E: Moto Spirits Whiskey Topics: Nalieka lying about her height....Again The difference between Connecticut and NYC McDonald Ice Cream machine never work/ Popeye's BYOB Why I hate Atlanta Dating by Health Insurance
Guest: Shirley Topics: Dollar Van Stories Girls Trips/ How to Wax A Pussy Rules of Car Sex 50 Cent
Guest: Tiara Topics: New Jersey Women Showing Male figures appreciation/Father's Day Nice Guys and Assholes Living Your Fucking Life
Second episode....Yay Guest: Jemini Topics: What makes a man leave a relationship? Society influence on relationships Bill De Blasio Doppelgänger & Rom Wills: Select and Non Select The state of masculinity Tossed salad
First episode of the Oh..That's Sexy Podcast Guest: Johnny Topics: Fucking Marriage Weight Loss and dating Are you really happy for me? Plenty of Fish.....Really?