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Hey ladies! It’s time to love yourself and free yourself from abuse. Emotional abuse is just as damaging as physical abuse. I share my story of how I learned to love and respect myself and gained freedom from abuse in the hope that you can do the same. “Attitude is the difference between an ordeal and an adventure.” - Unknown

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    • Nov 5, 2023 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 17m AVG DURATION
    • 99 EPISODES


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    Surviving Life; Finding Contentment

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2023 11:09


    Life is hard, and sometimes all we're doing is surviving it. How do we find get through hard things and then find contentment? That's the journey we're on in this series.

    Today was hard for the right reasons.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2022 11:41


    In recovering from abuse, choosing the right thing can be hard and sometimes cast you as the villain. Here's why I this Thanksgiving was hard for me. But things are going get better because you are stronger than you think, and you're not alone. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Ground Yourself in Connection to Yourself (GYCY1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2022 10:42


    Grounding yourself in connection to yourself means offering unconditional acceptance to yourself as a whole human being, not just the parts you “like.” This is vital for survivors of abuse/trauma

    Celebrate your strengths

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2022 26:37


    Celebrate and enjoy what you're good at!!

    Growing into yourself (TBAL 8)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2022 20:33


    Growing into the person you are becoming is a vital part of rebuilding your life. Find your special:)

    Self Compassion (SS)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2022 6:18


    We thrive in practicing self compassion and acceptance.

    Speak up Buttercup (SS)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2022 14:30


    It's time to find your voice

    Forget people; Chase your Happy (Survival Skills)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2022 5:19


    It's time to forget everyone else and chase down your own happiness!

    You are not the problem (TBAL 9)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2022 32:40


    You are not the problem. But people shamed you into believing you were, and now it's time to break free!

    Maladaptive Survival Behaviors (TBAL 8)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2022 16:35


    It's time to leave behind survival behaviors we developed in toxic environments that won't help us in the new, healthy relationships we're building.

    Cycle Breakers (TBAL 7)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 30, 2021 10:38


    You courageously break the dysfunctional cycles you knew to build a good life.

    It's ok to not be ok (TBAL 6)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2021 10:12


    It's ok to not be ok because we're moving forward in a healthy way and making progress even when it's hard.

    Let them Go (TBAL 5)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2021 16:24


    It's time to let people go who don't celebrate your growth or honor you boundaries: it's time to fly.

    Don't be a boat tied to the dock (Survival Skills)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2021 5:12


    Growing forward means letting go.

    It's gonna feel weird (TBAL 4)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 14, 2021 10:06


    It feels weird at first to build a life and set boundaries and advocate for yourself. But I believe in you!!!

    Move forward with a smile (TBAL 3)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2021 10:06


    It's time to be happy and move forward and leave the sadness behind.

    So what makes you happy (TBAL 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2021 11:24


    Do what makes you happy and guard it. You can enjoy your life after abuse.

    Equality with Sex

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2021 9:51


    You can expect equality in sex where your partner respects your boundaries.

    Be Practical (To Build A Life 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2021 23:09


    Slow progress is the best kind, and you'll be taking practical steps forward to build a life and work on your dream.

    100% Worth It

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2021 19:23


    The road to recovery from abuse and dysfunctional, toxic family systems is so hard and sometimes lonely, but also 100% worth it.

    Coulda Woulda Shoulda

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2021 29:32


    Sometimes recovery is hard, especially when you're faced with a history of people who coulda shoulda woulda been there with you and for you. But you're not alone. And I hope you get up and keep moving forward.

    Communicate Your Pleasure to Your Partner (Sex Ed 4)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2021 20:00


    It's important to communicate what pleases you to your partner. A loving and caring partner will want to learn your pleasure and please you when you're intimate; but they won't know what that is unless you tell them.

    Self-Pleasure (Sex-Ed 3)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2021 25:33


    You are responsibly for learning your own pleasure. To learn what you like and don't like. To know what will bring you orgasms and what won't. Today we're learning how to figure that out.

    Orgasm Basics (Sex Ed 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2021 17:54


    An orgasm is a explosion of stimulation on nerve endings. We can learn the basics of orgasms and learn our bodies to know how to achieve them. And if you've been a victim of sexual assault and orgasmed, it's not your fault. It was just a natural and response to nerve stimulation. It doesn't mean you enjoyed it. Sex should always be consensual. Sexual assault is NEVER your fault.

    Sexual Freedom (Sex Ed 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2021 11:44


    Part of gaining our sexual freedom is taking responsibility for our sexual reproductive health so we can engage in fun and healthy sexual pleasure.

    Meet Me in the Middle (Part 3)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2021 31:35


    It's time for resolution and peace and confidence!

    Meet Me in the Middle (Part 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2021 27:44


    So....that happened. And when we get caught in the pain we're in this awkward middle place until we learn to heal and move forward.

    Meet Me in the Middle (Part 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2021 23:18


    Come meet me the middle where everything still hurts, it's a little bit bitter, but we're still moving forward.

    Fluff the House (Survival Skills)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2021 10:00


    Moving goalposts are meant to break down your self-esteem and establish your dependence on a toxic person...so fluff the house.

    Sex and Bubblebaths (Survival Skills)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2021 12:25


    Sometimes we need to admit what we want to get to the underlying drives. Like when I'm craving sex in a bubblebath with chocolate and red wine...yeah that'd be nice. But really I can break that down and see that I want acceptance and comfort, the underlying drives.

    Self-Compassion

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2021 30:46


    Your body and soul need self-compassion to engage in healthy self-care.

    Empower Self and Others

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2021 26:25


    It's time to empower yourself, raising your sense of self-esteem, and then to encourage people you encounter.

    Lay Your Ghosts to Rest

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2021 22:29


    It's time to let go of the voices of your past and lay those ghosts to rest. Then, you can finally move forward.

    Safely Stand Your Ground

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2021 32:34


    I quit my job today because I stood my ground. And I don't regret it. You won't regret finding ways to safely stand your ground in an abusive relationship either.

    Deer in the Headlights (Survival Skills 5)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2021 5:56


    Have you ever frozen during confrontation like a deer in the Headlights? Well, this encouragement is for you!

    Being uncomfortable but unable to leave is like ovulating. (Survival Skills 4)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 29, 2021 18:06


    When we get stuck, we focus on getting out....but sometimes we can't yet. This survival skill will help you to thrive in uncomfortable processes.

    Resiliency and Flexibility 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2021 3:25


    The wrap up for the previous episode. I believe in you. You should believe in you too.

    Resiliency and Flexibility

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2021 16:49


    We build resiliency by not giving up but also finding flexibility in the outlets we need to succeed.

    Be a Little Petty (Survival Skills 3)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2021 16:10


    You can be a little petty and use that as tinder to light your dreams and overcome adversity.

    Be a Jellyfish in a Shark Dating App World (Survival Skills 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2021 14:55


    My cousin signed me up for a dating app, and I decided after the first five minutes of “swiping” that you have to be a Jellyfish among sharks, and for goodness sakes, get laughs out of it.

    Laugh with Yourself

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2021 15:55


    Whether you're falling out of the shower and taking the whole rod down late at night or your dealing with the most ridiculous situations with your abuser and/or their supporters, there is strength in laughing with yourself.

    When Grief is Long and Joy is Short

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2021 23:57


    Seasons of grief drag on and on, while joy feels like just a glance. But this season is not forever, and one day you will smile and look back knowing this moment is no longer anything but a memory.

    Heaven's Fallacy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2021 21:26


    You can feel torn between believing good things should happen when you do the right thing and what you experience. What do you do when hard begets hard instead of better?

    Panic Attacks and Freedom (Choose Happy 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2021 18:16


    In abuse, someone is hell-bent on making you miserable and breaking down your sense of self. We're going to take it back, love ourselves, and choose happy.

    Choose Happy (Restructuring Emotionally 6)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2021 10:00


    Choose what makes you happy. In abuse, you experience sadness and frustration and fear. It's time to choose your happy.

    Frustration (Restructuring Emotionally 5)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 23, 2021 17:31


    Frustration turned in on yourself is so damaging. Abuse is not your fault. It's time to stop blaming yourself.

    Connecting with Your Emotions (Restructuring Emotionally 4)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2021 21:05


    Your welcome emotions are like a chain link. In abuse, you suppressed them. But now it's time to reconnect.

    This is Normal (Restructuring Emotionally 3)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2021 7:07


    Metamorphosis is messy and it sucks hard. But when you're recovering from abuse: this is normal. You're not alone, and we're walking this journey together.

    Unpack Your Suitcase (Restructuring Emotionally 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2021 18:17


    It's time to unpack your emotional suitcase. Enduring an abusive relationship is like a trying to take a vacation and instead ending up in your own personal hell. There's gonna be baggage, but that's ok. We're gonna unpack it together. You're not alone.

    Be Honest with Yourself (Restructuring Emotionally 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2021 48:27


    It's time to check in with ourselves and be honest in facing our emotions. In acknowledging the instinct and feelings we've buried, we can start to heal.

    Stand Up (Restructuring Physically 4)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2021 13:15


    It's time to stand up. To stand up for yourself against the abuse and reclaim your life again.

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