Relationship Goals?

In this week's episode Amber details the benefits and struggles of working from home as a new mom. Listen in as she discusses the pros and cons of getting to be home while the baby is in his first year and how women are taking a stand to compensate for the lack of help provided to them in the US. Support the show

As a counter to the Motherhood episode, Danny answers your burning questions about his journey into fatherhood. Tune in to hear about how he navigates the ups and downs of year one with a baby! Support the show

In this emotionally resonant episode of "Relationship Goals?", hosts Danny and Amber Zakem candidly share their personal experience with gender disappointment during pregnancy. Delving into the complexities of this widely felt yet often undiscussed emotion, the couple opens up about how this unexpected feeling shaped their journey to parenthood. Despite not having a strong preference for their baby's gender, they explore the societal expectations and stereotypes that contribute to these sentiments. Through their heartfelt conversation, Danny and Amber emphasize the significance of breaking the silence surrounding gender disappointment, fostering a supportive space for others to acknowledge and navigate their own emotions on this often-overlooked aspect of the parenting journey. Tune in to discover the depth of this shared human experience and the importance of embracing one's feelings on the path to becoming a parent.Support the show

No one talks about how hard relationships can be after having a baby. This week Amber and Danny Zakem dive into postpartum relationship struggles and how they are focused on getting through the hard times. Support the show

Welcome to "Relationship Goals?" – the podcast that explores the intricacies of love, connection, and everything in between. In Season 3, Episode 12, join your hosts, Amber and Danny Zakem, for a heartfelt journey into the world of romance in their special annual Valentine's Day episode.In this episode, Amber and Danny share their personal reasons for cherishing Valentine's Day, offering insights into why this holiday holds a special place in their hearts. From cherished traditions to unique celebrations, they delve into the various ways to make Valentine's Day meaningful, regardless of your relationship style or background.Discover the secrets to making this day extraordinary, as Amber and Danny discuss how small surprises can have a big impact. Whether you're a hopeless romantic or someone who prefers a more low-key approach, they provide valuable tips on creating memorable moments and expressing love in your own way.Support the show

Amber answers your burning questions about her journey into motherhood. Tune in to hear about how she navigates the ups and downs of postpartum and the first year with a baby. Support the show

Embark on a picturesque journey through Ireland with our latest podcast episode, where we explore the enchanting concept of a Babymoon in the Emerald Isle. Join us as we guide you through the charming city of Galway, where cobblestone streets and lively pubs create the perfect backdrop for a romantic getaway before the arrival of your little one.Our adventure then takes us to the majestic Ashford Castle, a fairy-tale fortress surrounded by lush landscapes. Immerse yourself in the rich history of this iconic landmark and discover the regal allure that makes it a dreamy destination for Babymooners.As we venture into the heart of Dublin, experience the vibrant energy of the capital city. Explore historic sites, embrace the lively culture, and delve into the essence of Ireland. We'll also discuss the significance of connecting to your Irish roots, exploring ancestral ties, and creating lasting memories with your growing family.Throughout the podcast, we'll share heartwarming stories of spending quality time with family, creating precious moments that will be cherished for a lifetime. From exploring historic sites to savoring delicious Irish cuisine, our Babymoon in Ireland is a celebration of love, family, and the anticipation of a new chapter.Tune in for an inspiring blend of travel, heritage, and the joy of savoring delectable Irish flavors, making this podcast episode a delightful companion for those dreaming of a Babymoon filled with love and adventure in the Emerald Isle.Support the show

Everyone's birth story is dramatic, find out how we had a scheduled c-section two days early, our journey to the NICU, and the ups and downs of the first hours of parenthood! Support the show

In this podcast, we embark on a transformative journey into the heart of New Year's resolutions, exploring the intersections of mental health, family dynamics, business growth, and the art of setting boundaries. Whether you're aiming to strengthen your mental resilience, foster healthier family connections, fuel your professional ambitions, or establish mindful boundaries, this podcast is your compass for a balanced and purposeful new chapter. Tune in and empower yourself to create positive change across all facets of your life. Let's embrace the possibilities together and make this year a canvas for growth, connection, and fulfillmentSupport the show

This holiday season, join us for a heartwarming episode that goes beyond the presents and unwraps the true magic of Christmas traditions. In "Gifts of Tradition," we explore the concept of the Four-Gift Rule, where the focus shifts from quantity to quality, making each gift a cherished memory.

We are chatting Amber's pregnancy style in this week's episode. The number one thing she loved about pregnancy was dressing her bump. Listen to us chat about what went into curating a pregnancy wardrobe. Support the show

Although pregnancy comes with a lot of positives, hello a sweet angel baby, but what no one talks about is all the hard shit. We are blowing big pregnancy wide open with these top things Amber hated about her pregnancy.Support the show

Amber's favorite holiday is here! We recap our Thanksgiving holiday and why we enjoy this time of year so much. Tune in for our schedule, menu, and what we are most thankful for this year! Support the show

You're invited to our annual Anniversary -- Damberversary! We are chatting about the yearly party and how we rang in year 8! Support the show

We're back and better than ever! Listen as Amber and Danny Zakem recap the last year of their life and kick off season 3 of Relationship Goals? Support the show

We have made it through another year and are wrapping up season 2 with our highlights, takeaways, and what we are looking forward to in season 3. Thank you all again for another great season! Support the show

After a nine month hiatus Amber and Danny Zakem are welcoming Derrick and Alexa Welton back to the podcast. Last time the Weltons were on they discussed their journey to becoming parents. In part 2, they are discussing the ups and downs of parenthood and what that looks like for their relationship. Strap in for an emotional and informative ride with a great set of guests! Alexa recommends @biglittlefeelings on Instagram Support the show

This week Damber celebrates their 7th wedding anniversary! In this episode Danny and Amber Zakem discuss some of the highlights from the last 7 years of marriage and what they are looking forward to in year 8! Support the show

In this week's episode Danny and Amber list all of the things their partner has taught them. Some silly, some serious, it makes a great way to connect with your partner in a new way! Support the show

There was an article written for the New York Times entitled, "7 questions to strengthen your relationship" Danny and Amber Zakem are taking on these questions to help better strengthen their relationship and see if they can get on or stay on the same page. Check out the article here: https://www.nytimes.com/2022/07/01/well/family/relationship-questions.htmlSupport the show

It's your favorite podcast hosts birthday! Amber turns 32 on August 18th and in this week's episode she details all her love for her birthday and Danny's memory fails majorly. Send her a bday wish! Support the show

In this week's episode Danny and Amber Zakem discuss what is inspiring them right now. Between their relationship, work, and their personal lives, it is great to reflect on the things that are contributing to your happiness and making you feel motivated. It is important to reflect on what is inspiring you to refocus and center yourself which will ultimately lead to achievement of goals! Support the show

In this episode, Danny and Amber Zakem discuss their recent trip to Europe. They detail their time onboard Uniworld's S.S. Antoinette, and talk about relationship issues that arise while traveling -- especially with family. Support the show

Back with another wedding episode! Amber and Danny Zakem discuss their dos and don'ts the night before your wedding. They discuss the things they did, what they would do all over again, and the things they would change. With a couple major PSAs. Tune in! Support the show

Amber and Danny discuss how marriage does not create the start of your life. Live now and if you find someone along the way that you mesh with, then great. Marriage is a lot of work and isn't riding off into the sunset at the end of a movie. Support the show

Find out where Amber shops, how she feels about her style, and how she puts outfits together. Hear from Danny and Amber about Amber's best "looks" and enjoy this fun episode that exactly 3 people asked for! The Skeptic Metaphysicians - Metaphysics 101Exploring all things metaphysical, paranormal and spiritual w/a pragmatic eye and a smile!Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the show

We were going to give you a nice little 4th of July episode where we detailed the flag cake that Amber makes every year, renting boats and enjoying the lake here in Chicago, and watching fireworks at our tennis club. But instead, the Supreme Court of the United States decided to take rights away from every woman in this country, so we changed things up. Listen is as we yell about how terrible the decision to overturn Roe V. Wade is for 20 minutes and get mad with us! 10ish PodcastComedy and edutainment podcast discussing a new Top 10ish List every week.Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the show

After a lot of highs and lows over the last few months, Amber and Danny Zakem took advantage of a free weekend and had a staycation. Check out what they have to say about what it did for their relationship and how you can make staying home or staying in your city a fun filled, recharging, weekend! Support the show

Happy Pride Month! We are welcoming Amber's sister, Tilli Evans and her girlfriend Della Ferguson to the podcast! Tilli and Della have been dating for just over a year and they are talking coming out, their love story, what Gen Z does differently when it comes to LGBTQ+ as well as what they think is Relationship Goals! 

If you haven't been able to tell we have been going through a hard time lately. We finally discuss the ins and outs of where we have been mentally in our relationship and why relationships are so hard. Thank you to everyone for tuning in and helping us along our journey, that is this podcast. 

So you are in a relationship, and now you want to expand your family, but wait, not children!! --Pets!! Congratulations, there is nothing better than loving on a fur baby, but wait, have you thought about all that comes with getting a dog, cat, or other pet with your sig o?! Danny and Amber, in this week's episode, detail some of the things you should think about before diving in on the pet parent train! 

The episodes have been a little heavy, as of late, so Damber is giving you some fun. Whether you live in Chicago, are in a relationship, need some Inspo for a Bumble date, or are going to be visiting the Windy City here are a ton of fun options for things to do this summer! 

Danny Zakem takes on this week's episode solo. He gets very vulnerable about things he has been going through, and how relying on the people in your life is so essential to meet your goals. Sometimes we just need to talk through where our heads are at and Danny leads the charge. 

Have you ever found yourself in a transition period in your life? Do you find that things that used to be your main source of fun, entertainment, or joy, are suddenly not giving you the same shine? In this week's episode Amber and Danny Zakem discuss how they can feel their priorities shifting as they start the mental journey to starting a family. There are a lot of isolating feelings when you can feel your priorities shifting, whether it is in your job, with your family, or just to a new stage of life. Join the conversation today! 

You're the meaning in my life, you're the inspiration. In this week's episode Amber and Danny Zakem discuss the real life couples, peoples, places, and tv characters who have played a part in the people they are and relationship that they have. 

You are getting a solo Amberol Spritz episode this week. As Danny has never truly experienced a real breakup, Amber is here to reflect on what the major breakups in her life have had her reflecting on. If you have ever gone through a breakup in the past or are going through one right now, know that it changes you in ways that you can't even imagine, but it also opens the door for so much more of life. Breakups suck, grab a cocktail and enjoy this week's episode! *correction* in the podcast I say that I dated someone from 2016-2021, I meant 2006-2011 hahah just 10 years off! 

When you think back on your life, what are the best days that come to mind? In this week's episode Danny and Amber Zakem discuss how sometimes it's not the days that are the biggest milestones, but often the quiet unassuming ones that tend to have the most impact. Listen while they unpack the best moments from the last 31+ years. 

The pandemic shone a light on a lot of the negative traits that our relationship, or person lives, and our work lives had instilled in us since we were born. In this week's episode Danny and Amber Zakem discuss how the pandemic changed the way they communicate, how they look at social issues, and the importance of mental health. 

In this week's episode Danny and Amber Zakem are exploring their attachment styles and how they affect their relationship. The four attachment styles are: anxious, avoidant, disorganized, and secure. You can visit attachmentproject.com to take the quiz and learn more about your own attachment style or read about the other 3. Sources: attachmentproject.com

Relationship Goals? is back after a few weeks hiatus. Kicking off this week's episode with a common fight Amber and Danny Zakem are having. If you can relate not being on the same page as your partner, you will resonate with this episode. Working through this common fight on the podcast helps these two sort out their issues and realize that being on the same page is the goal, but knowing they are in the same book helps them come together. 

People never change, but they can grow. Amber and Danny Zakem take a look at how dangerous wanting to change a partner can be, and how it more often than not doesn't result in said change. On the flip side, they talk how growing as individuals and in your relationship is necessary to become Relationship Goals? Sources: https://possibilitychange.com/the-difference-between-change-and-growth-and-knowing-which-you-need/https://www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/why-you-shouldnt-try-to-change-your-partner/ 

In this week's episode Danny and Amber detail why friendship is so important as both an indicator and as part of romantic relationships. Listen as they describe how their friendships have played key roles in their lives and in the relationship of damber. 

Happy Valentine's Day everyone. We hope you have a love filled day. Enjoy an episode filled with a "how well do we know each other" quiz questions and some historical Valentine's Day fun facts. We love you all!! sources: quiz questions: https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a32160810/couples-quiz-questions/fun facts: https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/holidays/valentines-day-ideas/a26863/valentines-day-facts/

We LOVE Chicago and we are bestowing you some ideas for the perfect date, or day with friends. Whether you like something low-key, fancy, or active, Danny and Amber Zakem are giving you their favorite neighborhoods, bars, restaurants, and activities to do throughout the Windy City! 

Body image is such a personal journey, and how it relates to dating and relationships is something that everyone experiences. Listen as Amber and Danny Zakem discuss their individual journeys with their own body image and how it affected their relationships in both past and present. 

As we get older our priorities shift. One major thing many of us learned during the pandemic is what is truly important to us. On this week's episode Danny and Amber Zakem discuss how they manage work, life, and relationship balance, what they could do better and how they see this shifting in the future. 

I big part of growing in yourself and in your relationship is reflection. Taking the time to understand how you are contributing in a negative and positive way to your relationships will help you find balance in your life. Find out what Danny and Amber are working on in 2022. 

We welcome our first guests of season 2 -- Derrick and Alexa Welton! These two have been friends of ours since college, and have since welcomed two beautiful children. Derrick and Alexa are some of our first friends to have kids and are detailing their struggles with IVF and how that impacted their relationship. Stay tuned for the next episode where we explore parenting roles, how their relationship has changed, and what they find to be relationship goals! 

Take some time this week to write out all of the great things that you have achieved this year. All the small things you've add up to a really great year! In this week's episode Amber and Danny Zakem talk about all the things they felt like they achieved this year and look forward to 2022! 

We're having a holly jolly Christmas over at the Zakem house. Hear how we celebrate the holidays. *We apologize for the audio, we are trying to figure somethings out, we're so sorry!*