Often in groups when brainstorming or exploring new ideas what often occurs is that people think the way others are thinking. Think to impress. Think to avoid ridicule or think to out-maneuver. This is my journal. Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
We often underestimate how much a community influences how we perceive ourselves. Our family, friends, relationships different aspects of our self-esteem and how we show up in the rooms we walk into. This episode is about how you show up
It's only appropriate that I reintroduce myself and the reason why I started this podcast in the first place - this is the return
You're not there to fix someone, you're there to be empathetic and support --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/boitu/support
Giving until you're empty is not for the feint hearted. But growing up is about learning what your tolerance levels are in different facets of your life. A conversation with my therapist from June. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/boitu/support
Understanding the tiers of trust and vulnerability are communicated through our expectations. Tough experiences force you to create boundaries but expectations set the tone for what you're willing to allow. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/boitu/support
How our upbringing shows up in who we are as young adults and informs how we see the world and people around us. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/boitu/support
The intricacies of an abundance mentality has its own challenges. From navigating relationships and friendships while making space for what will perceivably take it's place. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/boitu/support
Through each phase of our lives we're confronted with different challenges and breakthroughs we need to make. That requires us to redefine our immediate environment or shed what we always held to be true to make room for what will come in the future --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/boitu/support
Understanding how we can use our emotions to better connect with people. Feeling more deeply means making the attempt to connect with each other beyond our screens. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support
Becoming the person you've always needed in moments, requires time to reflect and acknowledge all that has happened and all that will come. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support
Teaching my therapist about the dating landscape (situationships, relationships and dating apps) and the importance of financial literacy between partners --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support
It's almost impossible to be specific all time when communicating, but it's still important to communicate through your expectations --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support
‘We don't get our lives together and then give them to God, but rather we give our lives to God and then things start coming together' - MW --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support
Reestablishing a practice of vulnerability that is free of the guardrails of the past and how we want to be in the future. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support
A shift in how we think about life produces a shift in how we experience it. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support
Working your way back to yourself. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support
In this episode we talk about the journey of The Parks a South African clothing brand, pioneering it's way through South African essential wear. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support
In part 1 of this episode we discuss men's conflicting relationshop with masculity, understanding public perception and role playing. Also something along the lines of Black Men and White Women being the new D-Generation X. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support
Learning about how to communicate through this thing called life and how we should take more time to think in between the chaos of life and death --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support
Inexhaustible - unable to be used up because existing in abundance. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support
Taking note of who are you when no one is around and finding out what really matters or what is really bothering you. Understanding the breadwinner beyond their perceived value. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support
Understanding how your emotions are connected to your financial well-being. This conversation revolved around Dave Fisher's book Destination Wealth. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support
Conversations with my therapist about some life decisions and how I want to feel once I arrive at those decisions --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support
Understanding the different aspects of dependency --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
Couch conversations and their impact --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
How many experiences are all experienced by one --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
The untold stories of (his)story and the gaps it has left --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
For the culture. By the culture. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
Why is ending racism so controversial? Why is there so much disagreement? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
The black experience is one that encompasses the beginning of the human experience and technological advancement we’ve made since --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
When enough is enough --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
Speaking truth to reality and acknowledging the lived experience --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
Our life experiences often determine how we interpret the interactions we decide are necessary for us to continue what we started. But the question that we don’t often ask ourselves is was it really worth it. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
The African Experience in the changing American society --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
What is our reaction as a society to moments of uncertainty and a pandemic? Only time will tell --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
How much are you will to change to be match or be with someone? Or does have to be the right frequency in order for it to work. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
Its inevitable, its constant but it comes down to what are you going to do about it? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
The pursuit of certainty breeds more insecurity. Uncertainty is the root of all progress and all growth. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
Heighten: To strengthen, deepen or intensify --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
Moments over time where I was alone even when I wasn’t physically alone --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
The examination or observation of one's own mental and emotional processes. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
In between conversations with my Roommate --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
Reliving moments that have not been spoken about before --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
Diving into different aspects of fitness and how to take a holistic approach instead of what is conventionally available. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
If you're not being true to yourself or tend to compromise your needs, you'll feel the consequences. This is a time for endings and beginnings. Let go of what is no longer serving you - to make room for new growth and opportunities. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
Boitumelo = Brings Joy --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
Letting go and vocalizing --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
Even if you fell pressure to put down roots and focus on material things, it's important to carve out time to go on your own adventures and seek your own truth and meaning --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
Your reaction determines how the rest of a situation unfolds. The pivot is often one of the most important decision making tools you already have. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
When you believe more in what you don't see or can't see. More than what you do see. Obstacles and Challenges will begin to manifest. And what you do see you won't see. Managing expectations and reality. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
Self awareness is of great importance and it comes with layers. The first layer comes with connecting to your emotional intelligence. The second layer involves asking the question WHY and getting to the root cause. While the third layer connects with your personal values. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support
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