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Often in groups when brainstorming or exploring new ideas what often occurs is that people think the way others are thinking. Think to impress. Think to avoid ridicule or think to out-maneuver. This is my journal. Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

Boitumelo Nkonde


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    #54 - The importance of Community (Self-Esteem)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2025 20:59


    We often underestimate how much a community influences how we perceive ourselves. Our family, friends, relationships different aspects of our self-esteem and how we show up in the rooms we walk into. This episode is about how you show up

    Episode #53 - The Return

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2025 20:13


    It's only appropriate that I reintroduce myself and the reason why I started this podcast in the first place - this is the return

    Episode 52 - Johnny Bravo Behaviour

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 8, 2023 32:00


    You're not there to fix someone, you're there to be empathetic and support --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/boitu/support

    Episode 51 - Kicking Rocks

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2023 17:12


    Giving until you're empty is not for the feint hearted. But growing up is about learning what your tolerance levels are in different facets of your life. A conversation with my therapist from June. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/boitu/support

    Episode #50 - These are my expectations

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 23, 2023 26:50


    Understanding the tiers of trust and vulnerability are communicated through our expectations. Tough experiences force you to create boundaries but expectations set the tone for what you're willing to allow. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/boitu/support

    Episode #49 - The Main Character

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2023 26:56


    How our upbringing shows up in who we are as young adults and informs how we see the world and people around us. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/boitu/support

    Episode #48 - Illusions of Abundance

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2023 31:24


    The intricacies of an abundance mentality has its own challenges. From navigating relationships and friendships while making space for what will perceivably take it's place. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/boitu/support

    Episode #47 - Redefining and Shedding

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2023 24:45


    Through each phase of our lives we're confronted with different challenges and breakthroughs we need to make. That requires us to redefine our immediate environment or shed what we always held to be true to make room for what will come in the future --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/boitu/support

    Episode #46 - Make an attempt again

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2023 28:01


    Understanding how we can use our emotions to better connect with people. Feeling more deeply means making the attempt to connect with each other beyond our screens. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support

    Episode #45 - Retrospective

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2023 32:10


    Becoming the person you've always needed in moments, requires time to reflect and acknowledge all that has happened and all that will come. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support

    Episode #44 - Nudge ft My Therapist

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2022 34:05


    Teaching my therapist about the dating landscape (situationships, relationships and dating apps) and the importance of financial literacy between partners --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support

    Episode #43 - It's how you say it

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2022 26:51


    It's almost impossible to be specific all time when communicating, but it's still important to communicate through your expectations --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support

    Episode #42 - Personal Freedoms

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2022 26:32


    ‘We don't get our lives together and then give them to God, but rather we give our lives to God and then things start coming together' - MW --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support

    Episode #41 - Psychological Safety

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2022 25:59


    Reestablishing a practice of vulnerability that is free of the guardrails of the past and how we want to be in the future. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support

    Episode #40 - A sense of release

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2022 17:58


    A shift in how we think about life produces a shift in how we experience it. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support

    Episode #39 - Centre Yourself - Conversations with my Therapist

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2022 21:01


    Working your way back to yourself. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support

    Episode #38 - The Parks Interview with 91.9FM

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2022 18:41


    In this episode we talk about the journey of The Parks a South African clothing brand, pioneering it's way through South African essential wear. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support

    #37 - What are the homies gonna think? Pt 1 ft Ntokozo Mbokazi

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2022 69:48


    In part 1 of this episode we discuss men's conflicting relationshop with masculity, understanding public perception and role playing. Also something along the lines of Black Men and White Women being the new D-Generation X. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support

    Episode #36 - Time to Think

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2022 11:47


    Learning about how to communicate through this thing called life and how we should take more time to think in between the chaos of life and death --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support

    Episode #35 - Notifications

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2021 20:36


    Inexhaustible - unable to be used up because existing in abundance. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support

    Episode #34 - The Breadwinner

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2021 14:11


    Taking note of who are you when no one is around and finding out what really matters or what is really bothering you. Understanding the breadwinner beyond their perceived value. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support

    Episode #33 - Destination Wealth with Dave Fisher

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2021 58:09


    Understanding how your emotions are connected to your financial well-being. This conversation revolved around Dave Fisher's book Destination Wealth. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support

    #32 Doctor Patient Confidentiality

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2021 36:04


    Conversations with my therapist about some life decisions and how I want to feel once I arrive at those decisions --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitu/support

    #31 Dependency

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2020 15:54


    Understanding the different aspects of dependency --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

    #30 The Thing Fell

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2020 38:11


    Couch conversations and their impact --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

    #29 Artistically Speaking

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2020 50:04


    How many experiences are all experienced by one --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

    #28 Fahrenheit 451 ft Haniyyah Dixon

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2020 51:34


    The untold stories of (his)story and the gaps it has left --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

    #27 Are you still watching?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2020 41:49


    For the culture. By the culture. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

    #26 A midst the chaos

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2020 13:53


    Why is ending racism so controversial? Why is there so much disagreement? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

    #25 The Black Experience w/ Haniyyah Dixon

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2020 41:44


    The black experience is one that encompasses the beginning of the human experience and technological advancement we’ve made since --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

    #24 Black Lives Matter

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2020 12:44


    When enough is enough --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

    #23 The Death Of Wounded Nations

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2020 15:28


    Speaking truth to reality and acknowledging the lived experience --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

    #22 Was it really worth it?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2020 48:12


    Our life experiences often determine how we interpret the interactions we decide are necessary for us to continue what we started. But the question that we don’t often ask ourselves is was it really worth it. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

    #21 Dangote ft TheQueenMandy

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2020 47:58


    The African Experience in the changing American society  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

    #20 Weathering the Storm

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2020 30:40


    What is our reaction as a society to moments of uncertainty and a pandemic? Only time will tell --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

    #19 Deal breakers & Connectors

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2020 42:04


    How much are you will to change to be match or be with someone? Or does have to be the right frequency in order for it to work. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

    #18 Transitioning Through Change

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2020 25:34


    Its inevitable, its constant but it comes down to what are you going to do about it? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

    #6 Spirituality, Religion and Science ft Eric Anderson

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2020 40:11


    The pursuit of certainty breeds more insecurity. Uncertainty is the root of all progress and all growth.  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

    #17 A Reflection of the Decisions we make

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2020 33:04


    Heighten: To strengthen, deepen or intensify --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

    #16 Spending Too Much Time Alone

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2019 29:18


    Moments over time where I was alone even when I wasn’t physically alone --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

    #15 Introspection

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2019 30:55


    The examination or observation of one's own mental and emotional processes. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

    #14 From Where We Started

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2019 24:53


    In between conversations with my Roommate --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

    #13 The Day That Never Happened

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2019 15:11


    Reliving moments that have not been spoken about before --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

    #12 Fitness Theory and Wellbeing w/ TJ Westre

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2019 39:13


    Diving into different aspects of fitness and how to take a holistic approach instead of what is conventionally available.  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

    #11 Independence within a relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2019 37:48


    If you're not being true to yourself or tend to compromise your needs, you'll feel the consequences. This is a time for endings and beginnings. Let go of what is no longer serving you - to make room for new growth and opportunities.  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

    #10 Too good to be true?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2019 26:36


    Boitumelo = Brings Joy --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

    #9 Venting

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2019 40:22


    Letting go and vocalizing --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

    #8 Inherently afraid of change

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2019 23:51


    Even if you fell pressure to put down roots and focus on material things, it's important to carve out time to go on your own adventures and seek your own truth and meaning --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

    #7 Life Update and The Pivot

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2019 23:47


    Your reaction determines how the rest of a situation unfolds. The pivot is often one of the most important decision making tools you already have.  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

    #5 Trust

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2019 28:40


    When you believe more in what you don't see or can't see. More than what you do see. Obstacles and Challenges will begin to manifest. And what you do see you won't see. Managing expectations and reality. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

    #4 Situationships and Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2019 27:57


    Self awareness is of great importance and it comes with layers. The first layer comes with connecting to your emotional intelligence. The second layer involves asking the question WHY and getting to the root cause. While the third layer connects with your personal values. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boitumelo-nkonde/support

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