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Lucia is an internationally known dating expert who specializes in getting an ex back. She will entertain, educate and enlighten you!

Lucia


    • Jun 2, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
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    • 13m AVG DURATION
    • 713 EPISODES

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    The Art of Love Podcast is a hidden gem in the world of relationship advice podcasts. Hosted by Lucia, this podcast offers incredibly insightful and honest advice on dating, breakups, and relationships. Lucia's unique perspective sets her apart from other coaches, as she emphasizes the importance of self-respect and patience in finding a healthy and fulfilling relationship. Her no-nonsense approach may not always be what listeners want to hear, but it is exactly what they need to know.

    One of the best aspects of this podcast is how Lucia's advice resonates with listeners. She tackles common issues that many people face in dating and relationships, offering practical solutions and guidance. Her advice is not only informative but also entertaining, with her witty commentary adding a touch of humor to each episode. Listeners will find themselves both educated and entertained while listening to The Art of Love Podcast.

    One potential downside to this podcast is Lucia's vocal mannerisms. Some listeners may find it distracting or hard to ignore the noises her lips/mouth make during speaking. While this can be mitigated by adjusting sound settings or using earphones, it would be helpful if steps were taken to improve audio quality in future episodes.

    In conclusion, The Art of Love Podcast is a must-listen for anyone going through a difficult breakup or looking for guidance in their dating life. Lucia's straightforward yet compassionate approach provides valuable insights that can help listeners overcome insecurities, learn from past mistakes, and ultimately find happiness in love. Whether you're new to relationships or have been through numerous breakups, this podcast offers refreshing perspectives that will leave you feeling empowered and ready to take control of your love life.



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    Latest episodes from The Art of Love Podcast

    Episode 707: Why Avoidants Don't End Up With The Person They Truly Want

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2025 8:26


    Why do avoidants run away from someone they claim to love?  Why do they sabotage the love they crave?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares why avoidants prefer to be with someone they're not in love with.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 706: 9 Signs Your Avoidant Ex Is NEVER Coming Back

    Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2025 10:21


    When an avoidant is truly never coming back, their actions show clear signs of detachment.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares 9 signs your avoidant ex is gone for good.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 705: What Your Avoidant Ex Is Thinking During No Contact

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2025 8:00


    What really goes on in the mind of an avoidant when you don't chase them after a break up?  Do they start to miss you or do they just move on without looking back?  Dating expert Lucia reveals the truth about how avoidants react to the no contact rule.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 704: What Happens When Your Avoidant Ex Finally Breaks?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2025 8:06


    What happens when your avoidant ex finally cracks?  Will they reach out?  Will they come running back?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares exactly what happens when an avoidant cracks under pressure.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 703: When Your Ex Thinks You Don't Care Anymore

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2025 8:56


    What happens when your ex thinks you've moved on and don't care anymore?  This is a crucial moment that will change their attitude towards you.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares the shocking outcome of having your ex think you've stopped caring.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 702: No Contact Not Working? Do THIS Next!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2025 10:55


    You've been in no contact, haven't reached out to your ex and yet you still haven't heard from them.  Does that mean no contact failed?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares 2 actions you can take to get your ex to reach out.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 701: 8 Undeniable Signs You & Your Ex Are Meant To Be

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2025 9:24


    Is your breakup permanent or is it just a temporary detour on the path to forever?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares 8 signs you and your ex may get back together.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 700: The Silent Power Move: Ignoring Your Ex's Breadcrumbs

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2025 12:12


    By refusing to engage in your ex's breadcrumbs, you show self respect, deny your ex validation and force them to confront their true intentions.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks down why ignoring insignificant messages is a silent power move that puts you back in control.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 699: THIS Is the Reason You Will Never Get Your Ex Back

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2025 12:07


    There are 2 parts to getting an ex back - no contact and after no contact.  If you mess up once you're back in touch with your ex, you'll lower your chances of getting them back.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares what you need to do once you hear from your ex.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 698: So You Want Your Avoidant Ex Back?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2025 9:33


    If your ex is an avoidant, there's a good chance you're anxious.  If you let your anxiety take over when you're trying to get your ex back, your chances of success are very low.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what you absolutely must do if you want your avoidant ex back.

    Episode 697: Your Ex Will 100% Reach Out If You Do THIS

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2025 11:18


    Exes come back because they miss you and they realized what they lost when they broke up with you.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares how to motivate your ex to change their mind about the breakup and reach out.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 696: Yes, Your Ex Wants To Talk!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2025 8:46


    Believe it or not, even though your ex broke up with you, they do want to talk with you, even if weeks or months have gone by.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares why your ex wants to talk, even if they haven't reached out yet.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 695: Why Your Ex Will Feel Worse Over Time

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2025 10:52


    There's a quote that says, "Dumper: Laugh Now, Cry Later.  Dumpee:  Cry Now, Laugh Later.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why eventually your ex will feel worse and you will feel better.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 694: 3 Biggest Mistakes That RUIN Your Chances Of Getting Your Ex Back

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2025 10:43


    The no contact phase of a breakup is simple, but not easy. Where people make the most mistakes is AFTER no contact.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares the 3 biggest mistakes that will ruin your chances of getting your ex back.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 693: LIES Your Mind Tells You During No Contact

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2025 11:23


    Your mind is not your friend during no contact.  It wants a dopamine hit and will lie to you to get you to break no contact.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares the biggest lies your mind tells you after a breakup.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 692: Yes, Your Ex Is Suffering Too!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2025 9:21


    Is your ex in pain, even though they dumped you?  If so, what are some signs that they're suffering as much, if not more, than you?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia talks about whether your ex is in pain and the signs to look for.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 691: You're Breaking Your Own Heart When You Break No Contact

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2025 11:39


    Are you tempted to break no contact out of curiosity, just to see if your ex might still be interested?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you're asking to be rejected twice when you break no contact.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 690: THIS Is What Happens When Your Ex Feels Your LOSS

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2025 10:21


    What happens when your ex finally feels your loss after dumping you?  Will they immediately contact you and say they want you back?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares what to expect after you've been dumped and you go into no contact.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 689: EXACTLY What Your Ex Will Feel When You Do No Contact

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2025 13:21


    What happens when you simply disappear after being dumped?  What will your ex be feeling?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares exactly how your ex will feel when you go into no contact and stay there.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 688: Why Your Avoidant Ex Is STILL Thinking About You

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2025 10:31


    It may be hard to believe that your ex is still thinking about you, especially if they're an avoidant.  However, they probably are.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares 4 reasons why your ex is still thinking about you.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 687: Your Avoidant Ex Misses You If They...

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2025 8:19


    If an avoidant ex misses you, they'll rarely let you know directly.  However, there will always be signs.  In this video dating/relationship expert Lucia shares the signs that your avoidant ex misses you.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 686: How To Make Your Avoidant Ex Miss You

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2025 10:12


    Avoidants are love being independent and autonomous.  Is it possible to make them miss you if they're broken up with you?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares her secrets on how to get an avoidant ex to miss youGet coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 685: 12 Signs Your Ex Never Care About You

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 30, 2024 11:58


    Did your ex ever care about you or were you gaslighting yourself into thinking they did?  If you've been dumped, realizing they didn't care may help you to move on.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares 12 signs your ex never cared about you.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 684: Your Ex Doesn't Care NOW, But They WILL Care Later

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2024 10:01


    In order for your ex to break up with you, their interest level had to go below 50%.  However, that doesn't mean it won't go back up after the breakup.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares why even though you ex doesn't care about you now, they will care later.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 683: Why Your Ex Must Lose You

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2024 12:15


    Before your ex can change their mind and decide they made a mistake and want you back, they need to feel as if they have truly lost you.  Dating'/relationship expert Lucia shares what you need to do in order for your ex to feel the loss and start to reconsider their decision.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 682: NEVER Say This To Your Ex (If You Want Them Back)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2024 7:38


    If you want your ex back, there's something you shouldn't ask them, once you're in contact with them again.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares what you should never ask your ex after no contact.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 681: Why You Become More Attractive When You Do No Contact

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2024 12:29


    Why is no contact so powerful?  Why is no contact the absolute best way to get your ex back?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why doing no contact will attract your ex back.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 680: Avoidants Do NOT Fall Out Of Love, They...

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2024 6:43


    If your ex is an avoidant and they dumped you, you probably think they fell out of love.  But you'd be wrong.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares the real reason most avoidants pull away or break up with you.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 679: 5 Phrases Avoidants LOVE To Say

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2024 6:31


    Is your ex an avoidant?  How do you know for sure?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares 5 phrases people with an avoidant attachment style will use when they're dating someone.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 678: 5 Signs Your Ex Will Eventually Come Back

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2024 12:58


    If your ex is starting to change their mind about the breakup and is thinking about coming back, there are always signs.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares the 5 top signs your ex will eventually come back.  The more signs you see, the more likely your ex is regretting the breakup and will come back to you.  Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 677: Warning: THIS Will Make You Break No Contact (And You'll Regret It)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2024 12:22


    Your strong desire to hear from your ex makes you susceptible to manipulation during no contact.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals a trick that may cause you to reach out to your ex.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 676: 7 Ways To MAKE Your Ex Reach Out First

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2024 10:45


    If you've been dumped, your number one wish right now is to talk to your ex.  If you're in no contact, you know you can't reach out first.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how to make your ex reach out to you.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 675: How A Secure Person Deals With An Avoidant Pulling Away

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2024 8:38


    If you have an anxious attachment style, your first instinct when your avoidant partner pulls away will be to run after them. But this rarely works. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explain what a secure person would do when an avoidant starts to pull away.

    Episode 674: THIS Is Why You Have NOT Gotten Your Ex Back

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2024 9:14


    If you did everything right after getting dumped and still haven't gotten your ex back, there may be an invisible reason why.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals exactly why you don't have your ex back and what to do about it.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 673: This Always Happens Just Before Your Ex Comes Back

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2024 7:00


    If your ex is having second thoughts about the breakup, there's something they'll do that signals they want to come back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals exactly what your ex will do just before they come back.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 672: How To Behave When She Comes Back After No Contact

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2024 7:54


    Is she back because she wants to try again or because she wants to put you in the friend zone?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to find out what your ex really wants when she returns after dumping you.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 671: When He Comes Back: How To Handle His Return Like A Pro

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2024 7:39


    He broke your heart and now he's back. Whether you're feeling confused, hopeful, or even a bit skeptical, dating/relationship expert Lucia has got you covered with advice to help you navigate this tricky situation. Find out the signs that he's genuinely changed, how to protect your heart, and the steps you should take before making any decisions.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 670: Stages Your Avoidant Ex Goes Through During No Contact - Part 2 of 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2024 9:07


    If you don't know the stages your avoidant ex is going through after a breakup, you risk ruining the power of no contact.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the remaining 4 stages your ex will go through during no contact, before they're ready to get back together.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 669: The Stages Your Avoidant Ex Goes Through During No Contact - Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2024 9:20


    How long does it take an avoidant ex to realize they made a mistake in breaking up with you?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the first 3 stages an avoidant goes through after a breakup when you do no contact.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 668: The Evil Reasons Your Ex Wants To Be Friends

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2024 8:44


    When someone dumps you but wants to be friends, you should always say no.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the real reasons an ex would still want to be in touch.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 667: If Your Avoidant Ex Did THIS, They Are NEVER Coming Back

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2024 7:18


    What are the chances your avoidant ex will come back?  If they did "this", the chances aren't good.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what "this" is, and exactly what percentage of avoidant exes are likely to come back.Get coaching!Download Silenzio:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 666: One Year After No Contact FEELS GREAT!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2024 6:48


    How will you feel after being in no contact with your ex?  Will your ex still be interested or curious?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares an email from a guy who is shining & thriving one year later.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book 

    Episode 665: Avoidant Exes (Almost) ALWAYS Come Back IF You do THIS

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2024 7:37


    Is it possible to get an avoidant ex back, or is it a lost cause, since they value independence?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what you have to do to get an avoidant ex back.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 664: How To Successfully Detach & Move On From Your Ex

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2024 8:25


    Have you decided you don't want your ex back and it's best to let them go?  Dating/relationship Lucia explains exactly what to do to detach from your ex and move on.Get coachingDownload Silenzio App:  iPhone Or AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 663: Social Media Games Your Ex Will Play During No Contact

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2024 13:39


    If you're in no contact to get your ex back, there's a very good chance your ex will try to get your attention through social media.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the games your ex will play to trick you into breaking no contact.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidBuy No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 662: Yes, You WILL Hear From Your Ex. Here's WHY!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2024 9:30


    If you're in no contact to get your ex back, you're constantly wondering if you'll ever hear from your ex.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what the chances are that your ex will reach out to you after a breakup.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 661: Your Ex Must Feel The Consequences

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2024 12:17


    Before your ex can decide they want you back, they need to fully feel the consequences of their decision to break up with you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what your ex will go through before they decide they want you back.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 660: Think You'll Never Hear From Your Ex Again?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2024 10:21


    If you've been in no contact for months & months and haven't heard from your ex, this video is for you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia offers hope if you think you'll never hear from your ex again.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidBuy No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 659: Doing THIS Will Make Your Ex Miss You Like Crazy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2024 8:22


    In order to get your ex back, they need to miss having you in their life.  How can you make someone who dumped you, miss you?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what you can do to make your ex miss you like crazy.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 658: What Happens When Your Ex Finally Breaks?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2024 9:04


    The day you've been waiting for has arrived.  Your ex who dumped you is starting to have second thoughts about the breakup.  Now what?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains exactly what happens when your ex decides they want you back.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidBuy No Contact Secrets Book

    Episode 657: The Real Reason Why No Contact Works To Get Your Ex Back

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2024 13:00


    If you've been dumped or had to dump someone because they cheated or took you for granted, no contact is your best option if you want them back.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why no contact is so powerful when it comes to getting an ex back.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  IPhone OR AndroidBuy No Contact Secrets Book

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