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If you've gone no contact with your avoidant ex and they still haven't said a word, this episode will tell you exactly what's going on in their mind. Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks down each stage of what happens internally - from denial to realization - so you can understand why silence works better than chasing.#nocontact #nocontactrule #avoidantex #avoidantattachment #fearfulavoidant #anxiousavoidant #dismissiveavoidant
Ceasing communication with an ex can be scary and you may wonder if you will even hear from them or not. In this episode, we talk about the fear of an ex not reaching out, even while you are in No Contact. Check us out on YouTube: Coach Craig KennethGet Craig's help personally: https://www.askcraig.net/take-action/Get Victoria's help: https://www.askcraig.net/victoriaCraig's workbook series: https://www.askcraig.net/workbooks-1/Get Started on the Creative Healing Course: https://courses.askcraig.net/
For many people, the idea of cutting a parent, sibling or other relative out of your life goes against everything we hope family should be. But as you'll hear, and may know first-hand, it happens. Whether it is because of politics, abuse, money, or something else entirely, the choice to sever ties is a difficult one.Our question: Have you ever gone 'no contact' with a family member? Have you ever had to decide when to heal a relationship, or when to move on?
What if No Contact goes wrong? In this episode, we talk about if No Contact can cause an adverse reaction with your ex. Check us out on YouTube: Coach Craig KennethGet Craig's help personally: https://www.askcraig.net/take-action/Get Victoria's help: https://www.askcraig.net/victoriaCraig's workbook series: https://www.askcraig.net/workbooks-1/Get Started on the Creative Healing Course: https://courses.askcraig.net/
Kevin Federline has a new book coming out, and he's making some WILD accusations against his ex-wife Britney Spears! Jamie Lynn Spears praises K. Fed and his wife, and now Britney claps back! Plus, Taylor Swift has officially gone "no contact" with Blake Lively, amid "Cancelled" song speculation. Special Guest Chef Stuart O'Keeffe @chefstuartokeeffe (Don't Let It Stu) is here to dish! Eat smart at https://www.factormeals.com/nofilter50off and use code nofilter50off to get 50% off your first box, plus Free Breakfast for 1 Year. Bring on the good vibes and treat yourself to Soul today! Go to https://www.getsoul.com/ and use the code NOFILTER for 30% off. Become a Member of No Filter: ALL ACCESS: https://allaccess.supercast.com/ Shop New Merch now: https://merchlabs.com/collections/zack-peter?srsltid=AfmBOoqqnV3kfsOYPubFFxCQdpCuGjVgssGIXZRXHcLPH9t4GjiKoaio Watch Disaster Daters: https://open.spotify.com/show/3L4GLnKwz9Uy5dT8Ey1VPi Book a personalized message on Cameo: https://v.cameo.com/e/QxWQhpd1TIb
Morning Rush Hour Podcast: • Blake Lively and Taylor Swift updates — Taylor reportedly goes no contact, sparking fan theories about what really went down. • The latest from the Caribbean Sea — Venezuela versus the United States as tensions rise over disputed waters and shifting alliances. • What this means for trade, tourism, and the growing military presence in the region. All that and more on this morning's Rush Hour Podcast — where pop culture and politics collide.
Join this channel to get access to exclusive members only videos, full viewer questions podcasts & The 3% Man & Mastering Yourself Study Group Podcasts with the girls where we discuss the content of both books in depth:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQTAVxA4dNBCoPdHhX9nnoQ/joinJoin Members Only On My Website. 7 day free trial. Save 25% when you choose an annual Membership plan. Cancel anytime:https://understandingrelationships.com/plansJoin Members Only on Spotify:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coachcoreywayne/subscribeWhen to use no contact & when to use once per week reach out rule from the book.In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who is new to my work. He went out on 4 dates with a woman who is a roommate with one of his friends. However, he hasn't tried to kiss her yet and started acting like her butler. She canceled 2 dates in a row when she was supposed to come to his place. Now he hasn't reached out in 2 weeks and wonders when to go no contact and when he should reach out once per week.If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B01EIA86VC/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-057626&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_057626_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:http://amzn.to/1XKRtxdHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B07B3LCDKK/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-109399&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_109399_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/2TQV2XoHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUoYou can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/33K8VwFHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1
This episode explores how growing up with a narcissistic or emotionally immature parent can distort your perception of yourself, others, and your worth, and how to reclaim it. Instead of fixating on the parent, we look at the damage that lingers and the path to undo it.Learn why triggers around work, relationships, and self-doubt aren't personality flaws—they're leftover survival responses from childhood. Patrick shares vulnerable personal stories about being cast as “the dumb one” and how those old narratives showed up in adulthood, even during success.Topics include:How narcissistic parents damage a child's perceptionThe impact on self-worth, identity, and intimacyHypervigilance, projection, and feeling “in trouble” for existingThree powerful recovery tools:Protecting your inner childWriting a truth statementGiving back what was never yours to carryYou'll walk away with practical exercises to shift perception, stop living in fear, and reclaim a sense of self that was always yours.-----------------------------Workbook Chapters1 — How to Get Your Inner Adult in Place … 122 — The Built-In Forgetter (Codependency) … 273 — Honoring Our Trauma Responses & Coping Strategies … 384 — Overcoming Magical Thinking … 515 — The Feeling of Being "In Trouble"… 636 — How to Stop Anticipating Criticism … 747 — Childhood Trauma & Physical Energy Issues … 848 — Depression Related to Childhood Trauma … 979 — Processing Childhood Emotional Neglect (The Things That Didn't Happen)… 10710 - Processing Childhood Enmeshment with an Emotionally Immature Parent …11811 - Processing Childhood Trauma-Related Grief … 13112 - Processing Guilt: Recognizing the Family History Before Low or No Contact … 14313 - How to Recover from a Narcissistic Parent … 153Journal PromptsJournal Prompt #1: How did self-worth get twisted?How did your narcissistic parent create damage around your self-worth and how you perceive yourself?Write a list of ten experiences about lost self-worth due to that parent.ExamplesThat Christmas when my mother made me stand up in front of the entire extended family while she berated me about why I didn't get any gifts.My father would take any achievement I had and one-up me. I gave up on having self-worth because he was the focus.Journal Prompt #2: Who did they say you are?Write several paragraphs about your struggle with a healthy sense of self and how the narcissistic parent contributed to a poor sense of self. Who did your parents say you were, either through protection, neglect, or supply?ExampleI've always guessed at what I like or who I am. My mother had these twisted ideas, or fantasies, that I was going to become an entrepreneur and live a fabulous life in support of her. Did I want that? What even is that? What I know now is if she had a child who was a rich genius, she could have supply and validation—she could tell her friends she raised an entrepreneur. Of course I don't know who I am.Access the workbook herePatrickteahan.com/workbookKeywords: narcissistic parent recovery, childhood trauma, perception wounds, inner child healing, self-worth repair, intimacy triggers, emotional abuse healing, trauma recovery toolsJoin the Monthly Healing Community Membership
One in four American adults is now estranged from their parents, and most aren't cutting contact over abuse, but ideology. In this conversation with Noelle Mering author of Awake, Not Woke and the forthcoming No Contact, we discuss why so many young adults are severing ties with family. Upgrade and become a Psychobabble Insider, get full access to more content, bonus material and live sessions today! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit hannahspier.substack.com/subscribe
Find my course "Finding Your W.H.Y. Healing From Narcissistic Abuse" at https://mentalhealness.netHow long should you stay No Contact with a narcissist? In this video, I explain the real answer to how long No Contact should last - whether it's with a narcissistic partner, parent, or toxic person in your life. As a diagnosed narcissist, I break down why No Contact is meant to be permanent, how long it takes to heal, and when (if ever) it's okay to break No Contact.More resources and join the group coaching community at https://mentalhealness.netContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
Join this channel to get access to exclusive members only videos, full viewer questions podcasts & The 3% Man & Mastering Yourself Study Group Podcasts with the girls where we discuss the content of both books in depth:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQTAVxA4dNBCoPdHhX9nnoQ/joinJoin Members Only On My Website. 7 day free trial. Save 25% when you choose an annual Membership plan. Cancel anytime:https://understandingrelationships.com/plansJoin Members Only on Spotify:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coachcoreywayne/subscribeWhy you should never break no contact after she rejects you.In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who saw a girl dancing at a club a few times before working up the courage to talk to her and ask her out. They had a date and spent 17 hours together, but he chickened out on trying to seduce her. She texted him a few days later rejecting him. He saw her at the club a few days later and reached out. He wonders if it was a mistake.If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B01EIA86VC/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-057626&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_057626_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:http://amzn.to/1XKRtxdHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B07B3LCDKK/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-109399&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_109399_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/2TQV2XoHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUoYou can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/33K8VwFHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1
No one talks enough about how brutal no contact really is. It's not just about cutting someone off — it's an identity death. It's the death of the version of you that kept hoping, fixing, waiting, and losing herself in the process.This episode is for anyone who's months into no contact and wondering why it still hurts so much… why it still feels disorienting and soul-shattering even though you know it was the right choice.I also opened up about my abortion — something I've carried quietly for years. Society tells us to move on, to normalize it, but for some of us, the pain and guilt never just go away. Especially for women of faith, that grief can feel like a secret we're not allowed to have.If you've been suppressing your own pain, whether it's from a breakup, trauma, or an abortion — this episode is a gentle permission slip to bring it to light. Healing doesn't happen in silence.
"Does my ex think of me?" Breakup Coach Vincent Bos explains what happens to the dumper mindset if you have been in no contact over time. How does the no contact rule alter your ex's thoughts about you? What are the clues your ex misses you? This will motivate you if you're struggling through breakup no contact and want to try and get your ex back.
When you go no contact with an avoidant ex, it might look like they don't care — but that's not what's really happening beneath the surface. In this episode, Coach Lee breaks down the true stages of no contact for an avoidant ex — what they feel, how they process silence, and why their calmness often ends with sudden panic or regret. Avoidant exes don't handle emotional loss the way secure people do. At first, they feel relief — convinced that distance equals peace. But that “peace” eventually cracks. What follows is a slow unraveling that ends in what Lee calls punctuated equilibrium — a sudden emotional rupture after weeks or months of suppression. You'll discover: Why avoidants appear cold right after the breakup The point when silence starts working on them internally Why they often resurface after long gaps of quiet How no contact reveals their attachment fears and triggers realization This isn't about manipulation — it's about understanding how an avoidant's emotional system reacts to loss. If you've wondered whether your ex still thinks about you, this episode will help you see the patterns behind their silence — and the moment it finally breaks.
Dismissive avoidants & fearful avoidants don't have the same reaction to no contact. Understanding the difference will make radio silence less scary.Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how the 2 attachment styles behave during no contact.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#avoidantattachment #getexback #nocontact #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidant
You think your ex is fine during no contact? Think again. In this podcast, I reveal the top 5 hidden signs she's actually hurting without you, and the power moves you can use to flip the script in your favor. If you've ever wondered if she still cares, you don't want to miss this.
If you've ever laid awake wondering how you became an estranged mother… if you've typed and re-typed a message to your estranged child, only to hit delete… if your heart is weary from navigating conflicting advice about estrangement… let me talk to you. In today's episode of The Estranged Mom Coach™ Podcast, I'm walking you through three common—and deeply painful—misconceptions that estranged mothers often believe about reconciliation. These misconceptions will keep you stuck in the separation from your adult child and immersed in an emotionally-devastating sense of guilt. Jesus said the truth will set you free, and that is so true. Come listen and let me help you untangle the lies, so you can move forward with clarity, grace and a sense of hope. Let's talk about it. . Next Steps: 1) Apply for your FREE consultation to talk to Jenny 1:1. Find out the exact path forward to feeling better and greatly increasing your chances of getting your son or daughter back in your life. And learn how estrangement coaching can get you there: www.theestrangedmomcoach.com/schedule ⬇️ 2) Access your audio meditation to help you cast your anxieties and worries about estrangement at the feet of Jesus: https://www.theestrangedmomcoach.com/meditation ⬇️ 3) Join the free Facebook support community for Christian estranged mothers: https://www.facebook.com/groups/christianestrangedmothers ⬇️ 4) Download Your Free Guide Of What To Do When Your Adult Child Estranges: https://www.theestrangedmomcoach.com/child-estrangement-next-steps . Client Reviews… ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Jenny's teachings have produced results reconnecting me with my estranged daughter I cannot express enough gratitude for the incredible support and guidance received in the most tragic time of my life from coach Jenny Good. Her faith, compassion, understanding, dedication and display of radical love has truly been life-changing for me. I was so overwhelmed with feelings of confusion, guilt, and sadness. I felt lost and didn't know how to navigate through the emotional turmoil I was experiencing. However, from the very first call, Jenny created a safe and non-judgmental space for me to share my details. Her ability to listen attentively and empathize while helping me understand a different way of thinking is truly remarkable. She understood my feelings and offered tools each session in ways I have not experienced even from therapy. I am forever thankful for the medicine she has poured into me to be the very best version of myself! This has rippled into all areas of life for me. Jenny's teachings have produced results reconnecting me with my estranged daughter! Thank you for being the vessel of unwavering faith & love that so many of us could benefit from, estranged or not. A true Godsend. - Melinda Wyman . ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ I am living a truly happy life, and I reconciled with my son Having a coach and mentor who is rooted in Christ is very important. I've experienced so much inner healing with Jenny as my Coach. I am living a truly happy life, and I reconciled with my son! I feel empowered to continue stepping into my full power as a mother and to live a life where my children matter, but they don't determine my worth. I am me again. - Carol Adams
Have you ever asked yourself: “Why does my ex keep reaching out?” “What is hoovering in narcissism?” “How do I stay strong after going no contact?” This episode is a must watch. They don't disappear when you go No Contact — they escalate. In this episode, I break down the 4 things narcissists do after you cut them off (Heat, Workarounds, Rotation, Hawk), the real psychology behind hoovering, and the exact boundary language that starves their supply and puts you back in control. If you're done with the chaos and ready to reclaim your power, this is for you. Find out: How narcissists hoover (subtle + overt) and why it's all about supply The difference between diamond-level vs coal-level supply (and how to leverage both) Stealth smear tactics “couched in care” — and how to shut them down Trauma-bond science (why your brain keeps checking the phone) + fast boundary resets Scripts and response frames that end circular conversations — for good #Narcissist #NoContact #RebeccaZung ___________________________________ _________________________________ Check out my FREE Live webinar, the EXPOSE THE NARCISSIST IN COURT: INSIDER SECRETS TO WIN YOUR CASE RIGHT HERE Learn more about the SLAY Your Negotiation with Narcissists program right here: https://slay.rebeccazung.com/slay-it-now-a ___________________________________ _________________________________ For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website www.rebeccazung.com and follow her on Instagram: @rebeccazung and YouTube! GRAB YOUR FREE CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE! SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Breakup Coach Vincent Bos explains what no one talks about regarding the no contact rule and how this can impact a dumpee getting their ex back after a breakup.
In this episode of Conversations on Motherhood, host Tinatswe Mhaka sits with Ayanda, host of Actually Let's Talk About It, as she opens up about the complexities of her relationship with her mother and the decision to go no-contact. Ayanda's story is tender and layered, reminding us how deeply childhood experiences shape our sense of self, our desires, and our choices. She reflects on mother wounds and the unspoken weight they carry, the longing for connection, and the courage it takes to choose distance in order to heal. Together, we explore what it means to reimagine care when love and pain coexist, and how healing can unfold in many different ways — sometimes in closeness, and sometimes in letting go. Follow The Feminist Bar Podcast: Instagram: @thefeministbarpodcast Twitter/X: @thefeministbar Patreon: patreon.com/thefeministbar
#narcissisticparent #narcissisticmanipulation #maternalnarcissism Have you gone no contact and now you are living in constant fear of meeting your mother? Do you feel anxious before going out in case you'll bump into her? Or maybe you are worried she will do it on purpose and even come to your house unexpected? I get it. I've personally been through that experience in different ways. And this fear can lead to crippling anxiety and hypervigilance. In this episode you will gain a deeper understanding of where the fear of meeting your mother after going no contact comes from, helping you feel less crazy and alone in all this. And by listening till the end you will get the 2 fundamental steps to help you navigate this anxiety free.
Send us a textYou hit send. You see the “Delivered” tick turn to “Read.” And then... nothing. The silence is louder than any notification. Your mind starts racing: Are they hurt? Are they ignoring me? Did my message come on too strong? Was it the wrong emoji?Before you spiral into that abyss of overthinking, we want you to hit pause. The reason for that silent phone likely has very little to do with you, and everything to do with their internal wiring- their attachment style.In this episode of Decoding Attachment Style, we're applying the science of human connection to one of the most common and anxiety-inducing modern dilemmas: the unanswered text to an ex. We're moving beyond playing games and making guesses, and giving you a practical framework to understand the silence.We'll break down exactly how the four attachment styles - Anxious, Dismissive Avoidant, Fearful Avoidant, and Secure - typically process and respond (or not respond) to communication from a past partner. You'll learn…Why your Dismissive Avoidant ex might see your text as a pressure cooker of expectations and need to flee.How your Anxious ex could be overanalyzing every syllable, desperate to reply but terrified of getting it wrong.The reasons a Secure ex might respond with kindness and clarity, but not the reconciliation you hope for.What it means when a Dearful Avoidant (Disorganized) ex's response is hot, cold, and completely confusing.Stop decoding their messages and start decoding their behavior. This episode will give you the clarity you need to stop staring at your screen and start moving forward.Support the show
This episode is a really personal one. I'm talking about what it's been like to go no contact with my dad — how I came to that decision, what it looked like in real life, and why it wasn't something I rushed into. I share the messy parts too: the therapy sessions that helped me see some of his narcissistic patterns, the arguments that kept spiraling, and the point where I realized boundaries just weren't working anymore. For me, no contact wasn't about holding a grudge — it was about finally having space to breathe, figure out who I am, and stop getting pulled back into the same toxic cycle. In this chat, I get into: What starting “no contact” actually looked like for me How therapy and boundary work gave me the push I needed The guilt, family drama, and awkwardness that came with the choice Why it ended up being one of the most healing things I've done If you're thinking about going no contact with a parent (or already have), I hope this feels like sitting down with a friend who gets it. It's not easy and I hope this episode will support you in making the decision that feels right for you! Join the email community // Get reflections, insights, and practical tools to support your personal development journey—delivered straight to your inbox.
No contact isn't enough to get an avoidant ex back. There's something even more powerful that overrides attachment style.Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the secret factor that determines whether your avoidant ex comes back or stays gone.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay Hi on Instagram#NoContactRule #AvoidantEx #GetYourExBack #ExBack #NoContact
"Does my ex remember me?" Breakup Coach Vincent Bos explains what happens to the dumper mindset if you have been in no contact over time. How does the no contact rule alter your ex's memories? This will motivate you if you're struggling through breakup no contact and want to try and get your ex back.
Does is matter how long you are in No Contact for and does the first 30 days make a difference? In this episode, we talk about No Contact and timing. Check us out on YouTube: Coach Craig KennethGet Craig's help personally: https://www.askcraig.net/take-action/Get Victoria's help: https://www.askcraig.net/victoriaCraig's workbook series: https://www.askcraig.net/workbooks-1/Get Started on the Creative Healing Course: https://courses.askcraig.net/
The Avoidant's Love Bombing Cycle- They shower you with love, pull away, and later want to reconnect. Here's how to spot—and stop—the avoidant's love bombing cycle. An avoidant's pattern often begins with intense love bombing, creating the illusion of closeness and safety. Then, without warning, they pull away, go no contact, and reappear months later expecting to pick up where things left off. This episode breaks down the emotional mechanics behind this toxic cycle and shows you how to respond with clarity and strength. How love bombing creates a false sense of security. Why avoidants pull away and go no contact. How to handle their return without losing your power. Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
Breakup Coach Vincent Bos explains the dumper feelings after six months of no contact. This happens after months of no contact.
What happens when you've gone no contact with your narcissistic mother… but your body still doesn't feel safe?This week, we hear from a daughter who has done all the right things. She's named the abuse, set boundaries, gone to therapy, built a support network… and yet she still lives in fear of accidentally running into her mother.Together, we explore what it means to feel stuck in trauma responses even after estrangement, and how daughters of narcissistic or emotionally limited mothers can begin to trust their bodies, honor their fear, and create protection without self-abandonment.Why going no contact doesn't always mean your nervous system feels safeThe difference between trauma brain and trauma wisdomWhat to do if you run into your narcissistic parent in publicHow to make a realistic safety plan without shameThe cost of avoidance—and how to choose it consciouslyWhy messy, imperfect reactions are actually protectionYou've gone low or no contact and still feel like your mother has a hold on youYou're a high-functioning daughter who feels like you “should be over it”You're tired of being hypervigilant, but scared to let your guard downYou've ever walked through a store scanning the aisles—just in caseYou want support that honors your head work and your heart work
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During a breakup and even in reconnecting with an ex, our anxiety can go through the roof causing us to behave in ways we wouldn't if we acted on a clear mind. In this episode, we talk about how behaviors during and after No Contact are critical. Check us out on YouTube: Coach Craig KennethGet Craig's help personally: https://www.askcraig.net/take-action/Get Victoria's help: https://www.askcraig.net/victoriaCraig's workbook series: https://www.askcraig.net/workbooks-1/Get Started on the Creative Healing Course: https://courses.askcraig.net/
When separation anxiety kicks in, it is common to feel impatient and anxious during No Contact. In this episode, we talk about when No Contact may begin to impact your ex and how to manage your anxiety through it. Check us out on YouTube: Coach Craig KennethGet Craig's help personally: https://www.askcraig.net/take-action/Get Victoria's help: https://www.askcraig.net/victoriaCraig's workbook series: https://www.askcraig.net/workbooks-1/Get Started on the Creative Healing Course: https://courses.askcraig.net/
Why do avoidants come back after no contact? Most people assume it's because they miss you or realize your value—but the truth runs much deeper.In this episode, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the Black Hole Effect: the powerful psychological pull that happens when you stop chasing and give an avoidant the space they need. You'll learn why avoidants don't miss you while you're still reaching out, the stages they go through after a breakup, and the two main reasons they eventually return—even if it takes longer than you'd like.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay Hi on Instagram#AvoidantAttachment #BreakupPsychology #EmotionalUnavailability #FearOfIntimacy #GetExBack #NoContact
Join this channel to get access to exclusive members only videos, full viewer questions podcasts & The 3% Man & Mastering Yourself Study Group Podcasts with the girls where we discuss the content of both books in depth:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQTAVxA4dNBCoPdHhX9nnoQ/joinJoin Members Only On My Website. 7 day free trial. Save 25% when you choose an annual Membership plan. Cancel anytime:https://understandingrelationships.com/plansJoin Members Only on Spotify:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coachcoreywayne/subscribeSome things to consider while in no contact with a restraining order & child custody issues.In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who's in no contact with his ex. She has a restraining order against him that's in effect for another 6 months. They only text regarding their child. He wonders if he should go 50/50 in the child custody case. Despite all of this he wants her back and to get his family back together. They were together for almost 10 years.If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B01EIA86VC/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-057626&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_057626_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:http://amzn.to/1XKRtxdHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B07B3LCDKK/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-109399&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_109399_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/2TQV2XoHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUoYou can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/33K8VwFHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1
Tempted to break no contact? Don't do it until you listen to this episode!Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals when breaking it might lead to reconciliation and when it's almost guaranteed to backfire.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#nocontact #breakupadvice #exback #getexback #nocontactrule
What do you think of this episode? Do you have any topics you'd like me to cover?Do you ever worry about losing touch with your kids as they grow up? In this episode of Teenagers Untangled I'm joined by Catherine Hickem, a licensed clinical social worker, psychotherapist, and founder of Parenting Adult Children Today to explore the growing issue of family estrangement.Catherine is leading a conversation around one of the most overlooked family dynamics: the relationship between parents and their adult children. Despite how common this phase of life is, few resources exist to help parents navigate the transition from authority figure to trusted ally. *Research shows that about one in four American adults—27%—report estrangement from a family member. Notably, 26% of adult children have experienced estrangement from a father, compared to only 6% from a mother—and many of these rifts eventually heal.We discuss why adult children might cut ties with parents, and what we can do now—while our kids are tweens or teens—to build a strong, lasting relationship.We cover:The most common reasons adult children become estranged from their parentsThe key mistakes parents make (and how to avoid them)How to adapt your parenting style as your children grow into adulthoodThe impact of parental expectations, grief, and cultural pressures on family bondsPractical strategies for fostering trust, open communication, and unconditional loveReal-life stories of reconciliation and hopeCatherine Hickem brings decades of experience working with thousands of families, offering actionable advice and heartfelt encouragement.CATHERINE HICKEM:https://www.parentingadultchildrentoday.com/https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildrentoday/Research sources:A longitudinal U.S. study (Reczek et al.), Cornell's Fault Lines project, and the YouGov poll conducted in 2022. OtoZen — a new driving safety appAre you worried about your teenager getting distracted behind the wheel? The OtoZen app helps in real time — not just after something's gone wrong. It has voice alerts, drive scores, and even safe driving challenges you can set together, it's the kind of tech that actually helps your teen build better habits. OtoZen — a new driving safety app OtoZen helps build better habits in real time with voice alerts, drive scores, and safey challenges.Support the showThis episode is sponsored by OtoZen: The brilliant new driving safety app https://www.otozen.com Please hit the follow button if you like the podcast, and share it with anyone who might benefit. You can review us on Apple podcasts by going to the show page, scrolling down to the bottom where you can click on a star then you can leave your message. I don't have medical training so please seek the advice of a specialist if you're not coping. My email is teenagersuntangled@gmail.com And my website has a blog, searchable episodes, and ways to contact me:www.teenagersuntangled.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/teenagersuntangled/Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/teenagersuntangled/You can reach Susie at www.amindful-life.co.uk
Why is No Contact With A Narcissist so hard? Why is it so tough to let go and not want to be around this person or to call this person anymore? Contact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
After taking a break, we're starting up a new season of the podcast focusing on dysfunctional family systems and healing. In this episode, we explore in detail 7 PRESENT-day reasons for going no-contact. ❤️
This video provides various considerations for low contact vs no contact boundaries with toxic people such as narcissists and abusers. #limitcontact #setboundaries #dysfunctionalrelationship #healthyboundaries Website: https://www.changemyrelationship.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ChangeMyRelationship YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@changemyrelationship Watch this video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/8LD1nLMxXjo
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What happens after the 30 or 60 days? In this episode, we talk about "No Contact Periods" and further explain our approach. Check us out on YouTube: Coach Craig KennethGet Craig's help personally: https://www.askcraig.net/take-action/Get Victoria's help: https://www.askcraig.net/victoriaCraig's workbook series: https://www.askcraig.net/workbooks-1/Get Started on the Creative Healing Course: https://courses.askcraig.net/
Sometimes we can be so focused in No Contact, that we can be caught off guard by a message from our ex. In this episode, we prepare you for how to respond when you hear from your ex if you would like to repair the relationship. Check us out on YouTube: Coach Craig KennethGet Craig's help personally: https://www.askcraig.net/take-action/Get Victoria's help: https://www.askcraig.net/victoriaCraig's workbook series: https://www.askcraig.net/workbooks-1/Get Started on the Creative Healing Course: https://courses.askcraig.net/
Think avoidants aren't affected by no contact? Think again! In this episode, dating/relationship expert Lucia shares the 3 things they secretly hope for when you leave them alone after a breakup.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#AvoidantAttachment #NoContactRule #AttachmentTheory #BreakupRecovery
What To Do When You're Struggling With NO CONTACT with a narcissist or toxic person. SHould you reach out to them one last time or should you release them and let them go? Contact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
Struggling with no contact? If you have an anxious attachment style, silence from your ex can feel like physical pain.In this episode, dating/relationship expert Lucia shares why no contact is so hard for you and the dopamine hacks to use to rewire your nervous system.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hello on Instagram#nocontact #nocontactrule #anxiousattachment #getexback
A disturbing trend is sweeping Gen Z—and it's making headlines in The New Yorker, The Guardian, Time Magazine, and NPR. It's called No Contact: young people aren't just disagreeing with their parents—they're cutting them off entirely.In an age where ideological conformity is demanded, even a hint of dissent can be grounds for exile. Radical acceptance is the new litmus test—and conservative parents are failing by default. Instead of sticking with the families who raised them, many are replacing them with “chosen family” that affirms every belief and lifestyle.Author Noelle Mering is sounding the alarm in her upcoming book, exposing how authoritarian ideas are driving a wedge through families—and how parents can fight back with truth, boundaries and love.Theology of Home website: https://theologyofhome.com/Noelle's website: https://www.noellemering.com/NEW: Join our exclusive Rose Report community! https://lilaroseshow.supercast.com - We'll have BTS footage, ad-free episodes, monthly AMA, and early access to our upcoming guests.A big thanks to our partner, EWTN, the world's leading Catholic network! Discover news, entertainment and more at https://www.ewtn.com/ Check out our Sponsors:-Nimi Skincare: The best skincare—and it aligns with your values. Use code FREEDOM for 15% off! https://www.nimiskincare.com/discount/LILA?redirect=%2Fcollections%2Fall-products-We Heart Nutrition: https://www.weheartnutrition.com/ Get high quality vitamin supplements for 20% off using the code LILA. -Seven Weeks Coffee: https://www.sevenweekscoffee.com Buy your pro-life coffee with code LILA and get up to 25% off!