The Oral Report

Caitlin just returned from a retreat with Jaiya, a somatic sexologist, where she learned about the erotic blueprints. In this episode we discuss the blueprints and how they can have a major impact in helping you understand how you experience pleasure. Take Jaiya's quiz here to better understand which blueprint most resonates with you: https://surveyanyplace.com/s/eroticblueprint?rid=UID_KhiHKurfS&cookieUUID=17d8b17d-2c4b-483e-9629-0034a3217477 This episode will close out season 2! Thank you for all your support, the Caitlin's appreciate the love. Stay subscribed for updates on future seasons and as always, you can reach us at theoralreportpodcast@gmail.com xoxo --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Caitlin V recently bought herself some lingerie, so the Caitlin's decided to discuss the topic. From teddies to thigh-highs...the world of lingerie is vast. But really though, it's nearly impossible not to feel sexy in lingerie! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Caitlin V gives us a (mostly) scientific walk through squirting. What is it? Why does it happen? And how can you squirt/make a partner squirt? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Is cheating always a bad thing? Is it sometimes necessary? Can you prevent your partner from cheating? The Caitlin's discuss a topic that affects nearly everyone, including the Caitlin's themselves! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Summer is more then half-way over (sad face). Take a little time for yourself. Between the bbq's and weekends at the lake and the rooftop drinks, we needed a minute to remember to slow down and chill out! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

In this mini episode Caitlin and Caitlin discuss what makes vacation sex so appealing. They share some personal stories, discuss what makes it so hot, and lend some tips for not irritating your vacation hosts. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Is hate sex always a bad thing? Most people have experienced some form of hate sex so the Caitlin's dive in and discuss the pro's and con's. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

In honor of summer (and being able to escape hibernation) we decided to cover sex outdoors. Grab your bug spray and a beach blanket and remember...DON'T GET CAUGHT! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Technology is a wonderful thing...especially when it acts as a vehicle to getting us laid. Caitlin and Caitlin discuss some do's and don'ts and talk about why we love a good sext message. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Why do one night stands get such a bad rap? The Caitlin's discuss the art of the one night stand. The upsides, the downsides, the how to's. If you listen to your intuition and use safety precautions, you can have a real good time! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

This week Caitlin and Caitlin discuss LUBE! We gathered the lubes that we both had laying around the house and began rubbing them on our hands and tasting them (because, research). Listen up to get the full low down on lube and everything you need to know about choosing the right one for you. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Caitlin and Caitlin answer a listener question from Australia and share their strip club stories and tips for not being a jerk (intentional or not) at the strip club. Intimidated by strip clubs? Fear not, we give advice on how to enjoy yourself and have some fun. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Break up's suck. They can be hard and messy and painful, but sometimes they're necessary! Caitlin and Caitlin talk about some of their break up's and how to make them a little easier. Do you need to be mean? Should you lie? Take the high road? Tune in. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Caitlin V gets asked about the best sex positions all the time. The Caitlin's discuss their favorite positions and if there is an “ultimate position”. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

In this episode, Caitlin V gets real about asking for help, discusses why it's hard even for her sometimes, and offers some suggestions on what you can do to improve your life with the help of others. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

In honor of everyone's least favorite season (tax season), Caitlin and Caitlin discuss sex and money. Is there a correlation? What about sex for money? Both topics are pretty stigmatized so why not discuss both! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

This week Caitlin and Caitlin talk about the big O...orgasms. There's no "one-type-fits-all" and we're here to talk about the different types of orgasms. We cover the best sex we've ever had, earth shattering orgasms, and even the little baby orgasms. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Are boundaries sexy? Maybe not...but they sure are necessary! Caitlin and Caitlin talk about their own experiences with boundaries and how setting them can make a world of difference in your life. Can it improve your work like? Yep. Your sex life? Sure can. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

This week it's Caitlin Darcy's turn! Listen in as she details her sexual journey and what led her to start her own sex toy company: Eros Fine Goods. A little adversity can go a long way. Also, since she loves you all dearly, get 15% off your purchases at www.erosfinegoods.com with discount code ORAL15. Enjoy lovers. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Listen in as Caitlin V takes you on a deep dive into her history and what inspired her to become a coach. From an early age, Caitlin was interested in exploring all the fun and pleasure of sex, but what she learned from her family and schooling was that sex was supposed to be a shameful source of pain and suffering. Unable to take this disconnect lying down, she decided to dedicate her life to understanding sex and making it better for everyone, everywhere. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

We're usually our harshest critics...especially when it comes to body image. This week the Caitlin's talk about lovin your own body and how to overcome talking mad shit to yourself (because, let's face it...we all do it sometimes). And for gods sake, stop following Instagram models! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

The title says it all. This week the Caitlin's focus on licking pussy, going south, oral sex...whatever you call it! Get tips and tricks from ladies who have given and received! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Caitlin V gets this question from her clients all the time...how often should I masturbate? Caitlin and Caitlin give some tips and discuss how often we flick the bean (for clarification, there's no flicking involved). --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Dating apps are a huge pain in the ass, we know. But they can be fun and they can lead to real relationships. The Caitlin's dish some advice on how to get in the game and stop sucking in your responses! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Who is responsible for your own pleasure? Is it you...or your partner? The Caitlin's (plus Caitlin's cat) discuss how to own, intensify, and communicate about your pleasure. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Due to some untimely construction noise the Caitlin's had to forego recording. But don't fear, Caitlin V has two separate breathing exercises that help connect you to your body and can calm your mind in this crazy day-to-day. The exercises also help reconnect ourselves to our bodies...and that always leads to better sex! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

We look back over 2018 and discuss our sexual, work, and personal high's and low's for the year. Caitlin has come up with new year intentions that help reflect on the where you are and where you want to be. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

We're all a little curious about the world of sugar dating, no? In this episode we dive into the sugar bowl and find out what it's like and if real emotions actually come into play! Get that money, honey! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Tis' the season! Since everyone is giving and receiving gifts during these merry days, the Caitlin's discuss the idea of giving sex as a gift. We have tips for you so you'll be sure to score big with this gift (...see what we did there?) --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Is vulnerability the key to great sex? The Caitlin's discuss Brene Brown's theory on vulnerability and how we can use it to our advantage. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

If you want our advice...we say the best way to achieve what you want in bed with a partner is to do it yourself first! This episode we chat all about masturbation, our experiences with it, and how it can enhance your sex life. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

This week we dive into the difference between fantasy and desire. What's the difference? We talk about our fantasies, how to explore your own fantasies and how to broach the subject with your partner(s). --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Anger...it's not fun. Anger and resentment surrounding your relationship and sex? Even worse. The Caitlins talk about what makes them angry and how they cope with it. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Sex while stoned? Yay or nay? We discuss the benefits and pitfalls of having sex while a little fuzzy headed. And don't worry...we discuss drugs other than Mary-Jane, just to cover the bases! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Are we all a little bi? Maybe...probably...possibly. Caitlin and Caitlin have a discussion about bisexuality, romance, and friendship and share our personal experiences. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

The Caitlin's explore the wonderful world of butt stuff. We all have butts so why not explore the pleasure that can be had! We discuss the the why, the how, and give you pointers to achieve the most enjoyable anal play. Strap in, lube up, and let's go! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

We managed to tie together two very different topics: Kavanaugh and how to process the current situation and birthday/special occasion sex. Just listen...you'll get it. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

This week we speak with Bettie Bondage! She's a fetish facilitator, kinkucator, sadist, and performer. Tune in to hear about the wonderful world of Bettie! Find her at Bettie_Bondage on Instagram, MsBettieBondage on Twitter, MistressBettie on Facebook and BettieBondage on Fetlife. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Caitlin and Caitlin both work in the sex industry and have therefore both experienced irritating and infuriating sex censorship. They talk about their experiences and how the goddamn Puritans are still affecting their lives today. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Ladies and Gentlemen, introducing...Karen Yates! She's a sex educator and the producer of the live show: SuperTasty. Listen as she talks to us about tantra and somatic sex. We have questions and she has answers. And don't forget to buy your tickets to SuperTasty the show on October 10th at Stage 773. Both Caitlin's will be a part of the show so check it out! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Have you attempted the clit spank? Or the assumed choke? Not everything you see in porn translates well to real life. Here we discuss the mistakes you learned from porn. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Sex with friends, is it a good idea or bad idea? Who's to say really...but we can guarantee, it will change things! Listen to our take and advice on the subject before you slip into the sheets with your buddy. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

We're kicking off season 2 with a topic EVERYONE can relate to: how to pick someone up WITHOUT being a creep. We cover some do's and don'ts, share some first hand experience and give our best advice so you're not left with fake numbers or mace to the face! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Do you know how many different sex toys are on the market? Do you know what is safe to use and what to stay away from? Do you know which kind of lube to use with which toys? In this episode we go into detail about the types of toys on the market, what toys to avoid, and how to care for your play-things. If you are in the market for a new toy or just want to learn what all the buzz is about...listen up! Follow us on Twitter and Instagram @TheOralReport E-mail us at TheOralReportPodcast@gmail.com to have your sexy questions answered or just to say hey! Caitlin's Sex-Toy Suggestions: JimmyJane LELO Fun Factory NJoy Toys Sliquid Lube Andra's Recommendations: Hitachi Magic Wand Pretty Plug Butt Plugs --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Jacking off, Jilling off, slapping the salami, or flicking the bean - whatever you call it - masturbation is the name of the game. In this episode we'll go back, like 13th century back, to discuss the history of getting off and why some people think it causes hair loss (???). Follow us on Twitter and Instagram @TheOralReport Email us at TheOralReportPodcast@gmail.com to have your sex questions answered or just to say hey! Check out this scientific study on sexual satisfaction in college students: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3154236/ Or, read this article in the Chicago Tribune about the effects of early sexual behavior: http://articles.chicagotribune.com/1991-03-06/features/91012101191sexual-important-question-relationships --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

We dive deep into our first interview where we discuss polyamory, relationships in the transgender community, vegan cheese, and Whole Foods romance. Nathan and Solomon give us a glance into their day to day. Follow us on Twitter and Instagram @TheOralReport Email us at TheOralReportPodcast@gmail.com to have your sexy questions answered or just to say hello! Glossary: Polyamory: The philosophy or state of being where one is romantically involved with more than one person at a time. There is a movement/idea within the community to use the shorthand "PolyA" instead of "Poly" to avoid confusion with Polynesian people. Misgender (verb): Referring to a person using a word or pronoun that does not reflect their personal gender identity. "My teacher misgendered me today so I corrected them - I hope in the future they use my preferred pronouns." Hoping to do some research? Check out the book, "The Ethical Slut - A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities" by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

In this episode we dip our toes into the vast world of BDSM. Get tied up into learning about what it is to be in a 24/7 power exchange, and dispel some myths and judgements about aspects of the BDSM community. Andra shares her personal experience as a submissive to her late partner and we get all kinds of ideas for future episodes about specific aspects of this exciting, sexy world. Wanna test your kinky side? Take the BDSM test at bdsmtest.org and do your own research about your results. Some of the descriptions are #questionable... Follow us on Twitter and Instagram @TheOralReport Email us at TheOralReportPodcast@gmail.com to have your sexy questions answered or just to say hey! HEY! Are you a rigger? Do you regularly go to a sex dungeon? Do you have a really cool insight on BDSM that we talked about or missed out on completely? We wanna talk to you! Get in touch;) --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

This week, Andra and Caitlin talk to comedian, improviser, and feminist Kate O'Connor about breaking the cycle of abusive and co-dependent relationships, being a bad feminist, and sex (duh). Books mentioned this week that you should definitely read: Bad Feminist - Roxanne Gay Mating in Captivity - Esther Perel The Artist's Way - Julia Cameron You can follow Kate on Instagram @katesopinion and on Twitter @Kates0pinion and catch her standup around Chicago! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

In this week's episode Caitlin and Andra talk to Christian - otherwise known as Lady Ivory - about the Chicago drag scene and what it's like to be a fabulous queen! You can follow Lady Ivory on Instagram @TheLadyIvory or with #TheIvoryLeague and catch her shows around the city! (Apologies for the echoey sound quality - we're experimenting with spaces and will have it figured out soon!) As always, find us @TheOralReport on Twitter and Instagram or e-mail us at TheOralReportPodcast@gmail.com to have your questions answered or just to say hey! Are you an expert in a specific sexual field? Are you involved with a non-profit, local business, or organization that shares our values? Reach out! We'd love to chat and have you on the show! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

In the pilot episode of The Oral Report podcast, get to know Andra and Caitlin while they play a raunchy game of 20 questions! Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @TheOralReport Email us at TheOralReportPodcast@gmail.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support

Honestly, we didn't know until we read the definition. Turns out it's totally more common than you think and is DEFINITELY emotional abuse. This week we will clear things up for you as we talk with Caitlin and her new friend Allie about their recent experience with a gaslighting partner. You may remember this episode from a couple weeks ago when we first put it out. Now, it's remixed to avoid legal trouble from included characters! What a wild ride. Think you're being gaslighted? You can call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at: 1-800-799-7233 or chat with them on their website, where you can also learn more: thehotline.org. Follow us on Twitter and Instagram @TheOralReport and email us at TheOralReportPodcast@gmail.com. Is there something you want to hear about? Burning questions about sex and dating? Send 'em over! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-oral-report/support