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Here we go again!In today's episode, co-hosts Alex Simmons and Christopher Ryan are joined by acclaimed comic book artist Eric Battle for an in-depth, wide-ranging conversation brimming with heart, honesty, and humor.From Eric's earliest memories of being transfixed by comics on the spinner rack as a six-year-old, to the pressures and passions of telling powerful, real-world stories on the page, this interview is both a roadmap for aspiring artists and a celebration of where creativity and impact intersect. You'll hear about Eric's battles (pun intended!) to find his voice in industries slow to accept comics as art, his leap from illustrating for newspapers to making his mark at DC, the emotional toll of tackling the graphic novel about Emmett Till, and how balance comes from everything from bike rides to—yes—baking epic cookies.Along the way, there are throwbacks to Eric and Alex's Tarzan/Blackjack crossover, deep dives into hidden chapters of American history, and tributes to the inspirational giants upon whose shoulders they stand. Whether you're a writer, artist, or passionate about storytelling, this episode offers hard-won wisdom, vulnerability, and plenty of laughter.So settle in for a moving, motivating, and mouthwatering conversation—we're talking cookies after all! This is one creative journey you won't want to miss.Have any questions, comments, or suggestions?Then please leave them in the Comments Section.Write: TTDSOnAir@gmail.comAnd follow us on ...@Tell The Damn Story www.TellTheDamnStory.comwww.Facebook.com/Tell The Damn Story TTDSonYouTubeIf you're enjoying these episodes, take a moment to help wet our whistle and click on the link to ... Buy Me A Coffee!
Or, "Why Tell Tales of Angels and Monsters?"Welcome to Tell The Damn Story, where hosts Alex Simmons and Christopher Ryan dig into the secrets of writing stories that outlast their times. In this episode, they explore how classic Twilight Zone episodes like “One for the Angels” and “The Monsters Are Due on Maple Street” prove that great fiction isn't just about reflecting current events—it's about tapping into universal themes and characters that resonate for years to come.Alex and Chris share insights from teaching, writing, and analyzing how authors can avoid the pitfalls of making their stories too time-bound. If you want advice on crafting narratives that feel relevant today and powerful tomorrow, you're in the right place. Brew a cup, settle in, and get ready to tell the damn story.Have any questions, comments, or suggestions?Then, please leave them in the Comments Section.Write: TTDSOnAir@gmail.comAnd follow us on ...@Tell The Damn Story www.TellTheDamnStory.comwww.Facebook.com/Tell The Damn Story Youtube.com/ Tell The Damn StoryIf you're enjoying these episodes, please take a moment to help wet our whistle by clicking on the link to ... Buy Me A Coffee!
The Kansas native and longtime Kansas City writer in numerous capacities has penned his first novel, "Discovery", an empathetic and engaging tale of aging, exploration, and friendship. A fascinating personal and artistic conversation.
Both monogamy and non-monogamy are valid choices, but a lot of people default into the modern-day societal norm without even fully discussing it or considering the options that best align with us. This episode provides an introduction to the different choices for relationship structures available. Whatever you choose, I encourage you to make it an intentional decision for you and your partner or partner. I also provide direct you to some resources that can really help. As a coach who has helped many couples navigate changes in their relationship structures, I highly recommend having a listen. Book list mentioned: Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships (originally The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality) by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda JetháPolysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica FernPolywise: A Deeper Dive into Navigating Open Relationships by Jessica FernGet my free email newsletter with helpful tips, plus a free guide to Finding Your Deepest Turn-Ons, and learn how to work with me at https://laurajurgens.com.
Civilized to Death by Christopher Ryan explores the ways in which “progress” has perverted the way we live — how we eat, learn, feel, mate, parent, communicate, work, and die — in this engaging, extensively documented, well-organized, and thought-provoking book. Civilized to Death will make you see our so-called progress in a whole new light.The Price of Progress "Civilized to Death" by Christopher Ryan - Book PReview Book of the Week - BOTW - Season 8 Book 11Buy the book on Amazon https://amzn.to/41znFMBGET IT. READ :)#civilization #issues #awareness FIND OUT which HUMAN NEED is driving all of your behaviorhttp://6-human-needs.sfwalker.com/Human Needs Psychology + Emotional Intelligence + Universal Laws of Nature = MASTER OF LIFE AWARENESShttps://www.sfwalker.com/master-life-awareness
Hey there, storytellers! Or should we say, fellow procrastinators? Welcome to this episode of "Tell The Damn Story," where hosts Christopher Ryan and Alex Simmons, alongside the ever-charming John Beard, take on the playful yet pesky world of writing roadblocks like procrastination and self-doubt. In this fun and insightful chat, our trio humorously tackles the different shades of procrastination, from guilt to busywork, and how these can feed into fear and imposter syndrome. They share personal stories and practical tips on embracing your unique writing path, understanding your creative intentions, and why your first draft doesn't have to be perfect. So, grab your favorite drink, sit back, and join us for a hearty laugh and some valuable advice on how to stop dawdling and start telling the damn story!Have any questions, comments, or suggestions?Then, please leave them in the Comments Section.Or Write: TTDSOnAir@gmail.comFollow us on ...@Tell The Damn Story www.TellTheDamnStory.comwww.Facebook.com/Tell The Damn Story Youtube.com/ Tell The Damn StoryIf you're enjoying these episodes, please take a moment to help wet our whistle and click the link to Buy Me A Coffee!
On this episode of Unsupervised Learning Razib talks to Conn Carroll, the author of Sex and the Citizen: How the Assault on Marriage Is Destroying Democracy. Caroll is currently an editor for the Washington Examiner, but previously he was the communications director for Senator Mike Lee of Utah, an assistant director at the Heritage Foundation, White House correspondent for Townhall.com and a reporter at National Journal. Carroll wrote Sex and the Citizen in response to what he felt was misleading and biased reporting in the mainstream media on the origins and implications of marriage and monogamy. Razib asks Carroll how he refutes the ideas presented in Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá's Sex at Dawn, which argues that prehistoric humans were non-monogamous. Carroll outlines the current mainstream thinking in evolutionary anthropology and primatology, and all the biological reasons that indicate that Homo sapiens is far more monogamous than our common chimpanzee and gorilla cousins, most clearly in our reduced sexual dimorphism. But while our hunter-gatherer past was defined by monogamy, Sex and the Citizen argues that the rise of agriculture resulted in the explosion of polygamy, as high status males in societies defined by incredible inequality began to monopolize access to women, culminating in the explosion of Y chromosomal “star phylogenies,” where supermale lineages exploded all over Eurasian 4,000 years ago. Carroll then explains that the Romans and Greeks took steps toward enforcing monogamy as a legal institution, and Christianity introduced the idea of sexual fidelity upon men. After Christianity popularized egalitarian monogamous marriage, Sex and the Citizen follows in Joe Henrich's wake in The WEIRDest People in the World: How the West Became Psychologically Peculiar and Particularly Prosperous. Carroll discusses the Catholic Church's strict policies on incest and adoption, which destroyed the power of elite related clans in the West, and hastened the emergence of the Western European marriage norm of independent and separate nuclear families, rather than extended families as the primary unit of kinship in society. In the second half of Sex and the Citizen Carroll addresses the social history and policy changes in relation to marriage in the US. While Western European societies took a significant step away from familialism, Carroll explains that American marriage was even more individualistic and radical, as nuclear families spread out to the frontier, away from their extended kin networks. He also contextualizes the rise of the 1950's nuclear family, which some scholars have argued was an aberration in American history. Carroll argues that actually it was an extension of earlier American norms, but the rise of the wage-based capitalist economy allowed for couples to set up separate households earlier in their lives. Carroll concludes the discussion outlining the 1970's policy changes in welfare provision that discouraged marriage, noting the decline of the institution across American society over the last 60 years, and how government policy might reverse it.
In this episode of 'Tell the Damn Story,' hosts Alex Simmons and Christopher Ryan discuss the evolving landscape for writers in 2025, focusing on how to approach global and domestic changes creatively. They explore how writers can address deep-seated emotions such as 'heart hurt,' fear, frustration, and rebellion through their work while avoiding legal issues when critiquing public figures. The discussion touches on using metaphors, similes, and creative world-building, providing historical and literary examples from the past to argue that art often stems from personal and societal challenges. Emphasizing the importance of hope and positive direction amidst adversity, the hosts encourage writers to harness their experiences to produce impactful art. Have any questions, comments, or suggestions? Then please leave them in the Comments Section. Write: TTDSOnAir@gmail.com And follow us on ... @Tell The Damn Story www.TellTheDamnStory.com www.Facebook.com/Tell The Damn Story Youtube.com/ Tell The Damn Story If you're enjoying these episodes, take a moment to help wet our whistle and click on the link to ... Buy Me A Coffee!
Neujahrsvorsätze sind oft dieselben: mehr Sport, gesünder essen, schlechte Gewohnheiten ablegen. Aber wie wäre es mit einem Vorsatz, der Sie wirklich weiterbringt? Lesen Sie mehr Bücher! Tiefgehende, inspirierende Bücher – keine oberflächlichen Schlagzeilen oder sozialen Medien. Hier präsentiere ich Ihnen sieben Bücher aus den Bereichen Psychologie, Abenteuer, Geschichte, Politik und Inspiration. Diese Bücher sind anspruchsvoll, aber sie werden Sie 2025 mit Klarheit und Stärke ausstatten. The Comfort Crisis – Michael Easter (die Komfort Krise) (2021)Michael Easter nimmt Sie mit auf eine fünfwöchige Jagd nach einem Karibu in der Arktis – eine Reise voller körperlicher Herausforderungen und existenzieller Fragen. Doch das ist nur der rote Faden. Easter unterlegt seine Abenteuererzählung mit wissenschaftlichen Erkenntnissen und psychologischen Studien, die eine zentrale Botschaft tragen: Unsere moderne Bequemlichkeit macht uns schwach. Die ständige Verfügbarkeit von Komfort hat uns körperlich, geistig und moralisch geschwächt. Easter zeigt, dass Wachstum nur ausserhalb der Komfortzone stattfindet – durch Fasten, körperliche Herausforderungen, durch Langeweile (!) und den Mut, sich dem Scheitern zu stellen. Warum lesen? Dieses Buch ist ein Weckruf, der zeigt, wie Sie durch bewusste Unbequemlichkeit ein stärkeres und erfüllteres Leben führen können.Civilized to Death – Christopher Ryan (2019)Christopher Ryan stellt eine provokative Frage: Was, wenn unser Fortschritt uns in die falsche Richtung führt? Er zeigt, wie viele Errungenschaften der modernen Zivilisation nur die Schäden reparieren, die der Fortschritt selbst verursacht hat – von Zivilisationskrankheiten wie Diabetes und Krebs bis hin zur Isolation in Städten. Ryan zieht scharfe Vergleiche zwischen unserer modernen Lebensweise und einem schlechten Zoo, in dem wir wie Tiere in Käfigen gehalten werden. Seine Thesen sind unbequem, aber sie regen zum Nachdenken an: Was bedeutet Fortschritt wirklich, wenn er uns unglücklich, krank und isoliert macht? Warum lesen? Ryan fordert uns auf, unser modernes Leben kritisch zu hinterfragen. Dieses Buch wird Ihre Perspektive auf Fortschritt und Zivilisation verändern. Everybody Lies (2017) & Don't Trust Your Gut (2022) – Seth Stephens-Davidowitz Ehemals Datenanalyst bei Google, zeigt Seth Stephens-Davidowitz, warum wir Umfragen und Statistiken nicht trauen sollten. Wir lügen – ständig. Aber vor Google? Da geben wir unsere wahren Ängste und Zweifel preis. Ob es um Gesundheit, Beziehungen, Sex oder Glück geht – diese Bücher enthüllen, was uns wirklich antreibt, und bieten datenbasierte Erkenntnisse, wie wir bessere Entscheidungen treffen können. Warum lesen? Sie lernen, ehrlicher mit sich selbst zu sein und die Wahrheit hinter den Zahlen zu erkennen – eine wertvolle Fähigkeit in einer Welt voller Fake News und Manipulation. The Wager – David Grann (2023)Ein wahres Abenteuer aus dem 18. Jahrhundert: Schiffbruch, Meuterei und der nackte Überlebenskampf. David Grann erzählt die Geschichte der HMS Wager, die vor der Küste Südamerikas strandet. Die Überlebenden kämpfen gegen Hunger, Kälte und einander – eine psychologische Studie darüber, wie dünn die Schicht der Zivilisation ist. Warum lesen? Dieses Buch ist mehr als eine Abenteuergeschichte. Es zeigt die menschliche Natur in Extremsituationen und regt dazu an, über Moral, Loyalität und Überlebensinstinkte nachzudenken. The War on Warriors – Pete Hegseth (2023)Als Donald Trump seinen Kandidaten für das Amt der Verteidigungsministers präsentierte, schossen vor allem die europäischen Medien aus allen Rohren. Pete Hegest habe keine Erfahrung und sei lediglich Journalist, so der Tenor. Doch wer ist Herseht wirklich und wie denkt er? Pete Hegseth, Harvard- und Princeton-Absolvent sowie Kampfveteran, rechnet in diesem Buch ab mit der Richtung, die das US-Militär eingeschlagen hat. Politische Agenden und woke Ideologien haben die Effizienz der Streitkräfte geschwächt, argumentiert er. Hegseth fordert eine Rückkehr zur Meritokratie und zeigt auf, wie politische Eingriffe die nationale Sicherheit gefährden. Seine Kritik ist scharf, seine Lösungen klar. Warum lesen? Egal, ob Sie Hegseths Ansichten teilen oder nicht – dieses Buch zwingt Sie, über die Rolle und den Zustand moderner Institutionen nachzudenken. Black Spartacus – Sudhir Hazareesingh (2021)Toussaint Louverture, der Anführer der Haitianischen Revolution im ausgehenden 18. Jahrhundert, ist für mich eine der bemerkenswertesten Figuren der Weltgeschichte. Ein ehemaliger Sklave, der gegen die stärksten Armeen seiner Zeit kämpfte und die erste unabhängige schwarze Republik gründete. Der Republikaner Louverture war nicht nur ein militärisches Genie, sondern auch ein Mann von Prinzipien: Freiheit, Gleichheit und Vergebung. Dieses Buch zeigt, wie eine Vision und unerschütterliche Werte die Welt verändern können. Warum lesen? Louvertures Geschichte inspiriert dazu, mutig für das einzustehen, was richtig ist, und erinnert daran, dass wahre Größe aus Charakter und Überzeugung entsteht. Warum lesen Sie nicht mehr? Hören Sie auf, sich mit sozialen Medien oder flachen Schlagzeilen berieseln zu lassen. Bücher bieten Tiefe, Perspektive und Klarheit. Sie machen Sie zu einem stärkeren, klügeren Menschen. Besuchen Sie meine Webseite www.muellermathias.ch für das vollständige Transkript dieses Artikels und weitere Buchempfehlungen. Unterstützen Sie diesen Podcast via www.buymeacoffee.com/stoicpirate – jeder Beitrag hilft, weiterhin Inhalte für Sie bereitzustellen. Machen Sie 2025 zu einem Jahr des Wachstums und der Selbstherausforderung. Lesen Sie, lernen Sie, und denken Sie kritisch. Die Welt braucht Menschen, die denken können – nicht nur Mitläufer.
Former veterinary surgeon turned author, columnist and podcaster Manda Scott explores the need for new narratives that challenge existing economic, cultural and environmental paradigms perpetuating scarcity and powerlessness. Manda critiques current economic systems and advocates for serotonin-driven behaviours over dopamine-centric lifestyles, emphasising transformative corporate governance models and changes in media. Through a thrutopian lens, Manda promotes value-based systems prioritising stakeholder representation and environmental sustainability. Calling for a shift from trauma-driven frameworks to an initiation culture that focuses on healing and connection, Manda urges us to consider the long-term impact of our actions for future generations and to reconnect to the web of life. KEY TAKEAWAY ‘If we begin to evolve the serotonin mesh of connection to other people, to ourselves first of all, create that sense of connectedness inside, connection to other people, communities of place, purpose and passion, and connect to the web of life, the more than human world, then I can ask for help, and that help will be given.' BOOK RECOMMENDATIONS* Any Human Power by Manda Scott - https://amzn.eu/d/gsRGYkF Civilised to Death by Christopher Ryan - https://amzn.eu/d/aPDMfAi The Dawn of Everything by David Graeber and David Wengrow - https://amzn.eu/d/iLtIyjQ ABOUT MANDA In 2016, Manda read for a Masters in Regenerative Economics from Schumacher College, which led her to co-create the Accidental Gods membership programme and podcast, each of which aims to facilitate emergence into a new, regenerative system we'd be proud to leave to the generations that come after us. Her latest novel, Any Human Power, described by Lee Child as 'Instantly immersive and compelling, rich and strange, human and humane', weaves currents of shamanic mythology similar to those in the Boudica series through a ‘Thrutopian' thriller of political upheaval and transformative change. She lives in the edge place between England and Wales with her wife and assorted animals. Image credit Faith Tilleray CONNECT WITH MANDA LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/mandascottauthor/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/MandaScottAuthor Twitter https://twitter.com/MandaScott Mastodon https://mastodon.scot/@Eceni BlueSky https://bsky.app/profile/mandascott.bsky.social YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@AccidentalGods ABOUT AMY Amy is a Life Purpose Coach, Podcast Strategist, Global Podcaster, Speaker and Mastermind Host. Helping you to improve productivity, engagement and fulfilment in your everyday life and work. Prepare to banish overwhelm, underwhelm and frustration to live with clarity of purpose. BUY AMY'S BOOK* Focus on Why by Amy Rowlinson – https://amzn.eu/d/6W02HWu WORK WITH AMY If you're interested in how purpose can help you and your business, please book a free 30 min call via https://calendly.com/amyrowlinson/call KEEP IN TOUCH WITH AMY Sign up for the weekly Friday Focus - https://www.amyrowlinson.com/subscribe-to-weekly-newsletter CONNECT WITH AMY https://linktr.ee/AmyRowlinson HOSTED BY: Amy Rowlinson DISCLAIMER The views, thoughts and opinions expressed in this podcast belong solely to the host and guest speakers. Please conduct your own due diligence. *As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases.
Christoper Ryan is a psychologist, author and podcaster. His work has appeared everywhere from Netflix & HBO to CNN & Fox News. He has been a featured speaker at TED and SXSW, as well as a frequent guest on the Joe Rogan Experience. In this episode we discuss his books "Sex At Dawn" & "Civilized to Death" as well as happiness, the illusion of luxury, psychedelics, his interview with comedian Neal Brennan and much more! 0:00:00 - Intro0:00:13 - Comparing American and Spanish Healthcare Systems0:02:17 - Christopher Ryan Discusses His Relationship with Joe Rogan0:09:27 - Human Nature Through the Lens of Bonobos and Chimps0:14:31 - The Evolutionary Roots and Modern Implications of Sociopathy0:17:50 - The Paradox of Fame and Leadership in Modern Society0:26:22 - The Illusion of Luxury and True Value0:30:26 - The Difference Between Private Jets and Commercial Flights0:33:16 - The True Cost of Never Having Enough0:33:26 - Balancing Drive and Enjoyment in Personal and Professional Life0:41:05 - Monogamy Vs. Swingers 0:45:00 - Hysteria of Women & Orgasms 0:47:50 - Female Teachers Having Sex with Students 0:51:15 - Controversy of "Sex at Dawn" 0:54:45 - Asexual People Vs. Toxic Masculinity 1:00:57 - Comedian Neal Brennan 1:05:40 - Helping Each Other Out & Doing Podcasts 1:08:40 - Misinterpretations and Backlash Against 'Sex at Dawn'1:12:20 - Navigating Non-Monogamy and Parenting in Modern Society1:16:20 - A Return to Basics: Whole Foods, Self-Sufficiency, and Community1:18:10 - The Transformative Potential and Risks of Psychedelics1:28:35 - Healing Concussions and Exploring Ultimate Reality with Psychedelics1:31:20 - Outro Christopher Ryan website:https://chrisryanphd.com/Chuck Shute Linkree:https://linktr.ee/chuck_shuteSupport the Show.Thanks for Listening & Shute for the Moon!
Or, "The Case of the Anxious Author!" This week, Alex Simmons and Christopher Ryan discuss the abyss of imposter syndrome and its often paralyzing effect. In this episode, we explore how imposter syndrome can hinder making live appearances and attending conventions. Chris divulges his personal battles with self-doubt, especially resonant during a foray among horror genre titans. At the crux of the convention chaos—AuthorCon—Chris experiences an all-too-familiar apprehension and So, our hosts discuss strategies for calmly assessing imposter syndrome, taking steps to overcome it, and, most importantly, walking into the fear. This is an episode that can inspire you to conquer your doubts! Have any questions or comments? Then please leave them in the Comments Section. Write: TTDSOnAir@gmail.com And follow us on ... @Tell The Damn Story www.Facebook.com/Tell The Damn Story Youtube.com/ Tell The Damn Story Want to support us so we can help you? Then just... Buy Me A Coffee!
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Jake Marquez and Maren Morgan are filmmakers, writers, and podcasters. They chat with Dr. Anthony Gustin about their crazy journey making their documentary and podcast: Death In the Garden. For the last four years, Jake and Maren have been trying to untangle the complex, tangled web of how we address climate change, fix the food system, and, hopefully, save the world. Their project discusses these and other problems in our society through the lenses of ecology, philosophy, myth, storytelling, and, ultimately, our fear of death. Jake and Maren have experienced their fair share of anxiety, despair, and existential dread on their quest for ecological and cultural regeneration. But as you'll hear in the episode, they've learned how to find meaning and purpose. They also helped Jake's mom start a grass-fed tallow balm company called The Beekeeper's Granddaughter! Tune into the episode as these three chat about: What inspired Jake and Maren to start the Death In The Garden project Why prioritizing “left-brain consciousness” is harming our society/planet What it looks like to live ethically in an unethical world The four reasons people go vegan (and why Jake stopped) The potential collapse and finding good in the next “Dark Ages” Finding meaning and purpose in life The value of conscious, intentional consumption The most important things we can do to change the food system How being conscious about our mortality empowers us to embrace the natural cycles of life, death, and regeneration (and not make the same mistakes) Their hopes for this generation and what's next for them Resources mentioned in this episode: Visit HVMN.com/AG to get 30% off your first subscription order of Ketone-IQTM Visit LineageProvisions.com and use code AG20 for 20% off your first order Jake and Maren's substack: DeathInTheGarden.substack.com @DeathInTheGarden on Instagram @Death_TheGarden on Twitter Jake's Mom's grass-fed tallow balm company: The Beekeeper's Granddaughter Small is Beautiful: Economics as if People Mattered by E.F. Schumacher A Guide for the Perplexed by E.F. Schumacher The Master and His Emissary: The Divided Brain and the Making of the Western World by Iain McGilchrist Dark Ages America: The Final Phase of Empire by Morris Berman Civilized to Death: The Price of Progress by Christopher Ryan
In this episode we talk with New York Times Best-Selling Author Dr. Christopher Ryan.We discuss "Sex at Dawn", "Civilized To Death", psychedelics, the current state of Polyamorous discourse, Ryan's appearance on Australian TV & being invited to the 100th Birthday of the creator of LSD.Guest Links:https://chrisryan.substack.com/https://chrisryanphd.com/Premium Episodes:To gain access to the Premium feed and full episodes, you can subscribe at:https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/Contact Us:To get in contact, reach out to us at evolvingloveproject@gmail.com This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe
Moments after the door to my condo closed behind us, the stranger I'd cruised on the subway locked his mouth on mine. I eagerly accepted. The tension of 30+ minutes of eyeing each other in the train car, up the escalators, down Sunset Blvd., to this moment, piqued our primal need to engage. He pulled at the bottom of his shirt. I leaned away from kissing his scruffy face and said, “Hold on, can I get that for you?” and I slowly pulled his shirt up, revealing his bare skin, happy trail, belly button, chest, nipples, and finally, his masculine shoulders. The inside-out collar of thin cotton material moved up his throat while the bulk of the shirt acted as a temporary blindfold. As the shirt released from his head, I looked into his eager eyes – the t-shirt hanging relaxed in my hand. “Your turn,” I said. “Take your time.” Rather than ignoring all this erotic energy and racing towards orgasm with the intensity of an Olympic sprinter, I've learned to lean into erotic tension and savor its rare pleasures. This is a departure from the avid Sport Fucker practice I once thought was the height of sexual pleasure and liberation. Sport Fucking is about having sex for its own sake. Keeping a score sheet (even if it's just in one's head) of the numbers, variety, and status of sex partners is what it's all about. Commitment and emotional depth are not part of the practice. An ass up, no talking, jackhammer fuck n' go is its hallmark protocol. It allows us to protest against the heteronormative standard narrative: All sex outside of a monogamous relationship is bad. It also satisfies our need to seed, and be seeded by, as many individuals as possible. Sperm competition, as outlined in the book Sex At Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá, provides evidence that our genes are programmed to both give and receive as much sperm as possible. The one who gives or receives the most wins the genetic prize. Sport Fucking is still in my sexual repertoire, but it is only one musical genre with which to play the music. Sometimes, I want a nasty two-minute country tune by Dixon Dallas: “No strings attached, I'll arch my back and let you do what you want.” At other times, I want an hour-long Deep House Anjunadeep Edition 434 with Marsh DJ session: “Reach inside me. Gonna take my love in,” that transports us on a multilayered sensory/emotional/spiritual journey. Each encounter is usually a variation that mixes a bit from each style, depending on my partner's proclivities and how our energies mix.If I'd taken this guy to a stairwell to seal the deal, a long, drawn-out connection wouldn't have been practical. But we were in my place, and I had more than two minutes. Until the moment his shirt came off, and I felt the heat radiating from his torso, my attraction to this guy was almost entirely visual. It was tied to what he was wearing, especially his grey sweatpants and the shape of the underwear seams framing his butt cheeks as he shifted his weight, side to side, only one escalator step ahead of me on the long ride up and out of the deep Sunset-Vermont subway station, my heart pounding all the way. I was returning home from my workout, where I'd seen lots of Hollywood hotties dressed in their best gym gear hugging all the right places oh so coyly, never to be touched. (Well, not never, but that's another post.) This was an opportunity to actually touch, smell, and taste the tantalizing essence that is usually off-limits. Why throw all that on the floor? Both shirtless, we moved to the playroom.It had become clear to me during our makeout session, while my hands massaged the raised underwear seams through his sweats, that he preferred to let me take charge. I didn't let that stop me from dropping to my knees to explore the cause of a raging boner still inside my jeans. As an aside, for a long time, I lived with a made-up rule that tops don't kneel for their partners – that maintaining dominance requires insertive, taking energy only. I was wrong about that, especially the kneeling part. Down on my knees, there is a lot of pleasure to give by actively taking what he generously allowed. Undressing a man slowly, like the beautifully wrapped gift that he is, moves that spark of erotic energy up and into every power zone of your body. Without an immediate release (a quick orgasm), the energy expands its way from that space between your balls and your butthole, through your gut, your heart, your throat, your mind, and out into the Universe. The vibrational energies of your whole self, the energies that the Great Yoga Sages called the seven chakras, become available mojo for your eventual climax. Dipping my fingers between the cotton waistband of his sweatpants and the formfitting elastic of his briefs, nuzzling the swollen mound straining the fabric beneath his sweatpants, looking up to see how this is being received via his eyes, expressing gratitude in mine, inching the sweats down to reveal his previously hidden tight undies, feeling the heat of his contained junk that had been walking down the street with me, now pressing on my nose and cheeks, smelling the epicenter of his pheromone production, allowing the sweatpants to gather at his feet, fanning anticipation by leaving his underwear on, overtly looking him up and down, from his bright brown eyes to his pants that are now a heap around his ankles. Pro Tip: To remove his pants with just two sweeping motions, I find the leg opening behind one heel, allow him to shift his weight to the other foot, and pull on the seam of the leg opening. Most pants will easily slide off one leg at a time. This avoids the struggle of pulling the pants at the waist and having them turn inside out, causing awkward logistics that break the sultry trance. “Your turn,” I said. Whatever we do next will be charged with intimacy and understanding, which clears a path to mind-bending release.While undressing each other, we transmit and receive information about what turns the other guy on, what doesn't, and what's meh. We just need to look, listen, and feel for it. It also builds erotic tension. Cum denial, as it's called in parts of the fetish community, or semen retention, as it's called in various eastern spiritual communities, leads to an altered state of consciousness. Senses are heightened, and the mind focuses. Done in a community of men, it fosters heart-centered connections and a willingness to be vulnerable. I first experienced this state with Tantra 4 Gay Men during a weeklong retreat near Joshua Tree, California, where I went nearly two weeks without ejaculation. The point is that building erotic heat without release creates a heightened mental state. Invest in that state, and you'll have an insanely intense orgasm—a frighteningly powerful full-body release. It's a rollercoaster ride that's worth the wait in line. The undressing ritual gives you a tiny glimpse into that euphoria, that connection to Everything, to the Divine. You just need to be emotionally brave enough to speak your truth. Communicate what you want. Probably non-verbally. Say and accept “no” as helpful information so that everyone can lean into their erotic and emotional desires and needs, sometimes called fantasies. The jackhammering may still happen, but if it does, it becomes a well-timed crescendo rather than the entire piece of music. It's a dynamic highpoint, igniting the root charka, blasting energy up through the now energized spiritual centers, including the crown chakra where it's possible to touch Divine wisdom, imbuing your cum shot with a melding of primal and sacred certainty. We know joy. We know peace. Strangers we meet on the train leave happy. Get full access to The Sensitive Slut at mikegerle.substack.com/subscribe
For a Healthy, Productive 2024- This week, Alex Simmons and Christopher Ryan discuss physical, mental, and emotional health for creatives, especially writers. Why? To help them put their bodies and minds in the best position to succeed in 2024. No matter what age, it is necessary for each of us to take care of our bodies, our minds, and our emotions to be able to produce the stories and the art that so many others are looking for. Be good to yourself so you can be good for others. Have questions or comments for us? Post in the comments section or ... Write: TTDSOnAir@gmail.com And follow us on ... @Tell The Damn Story www.Facebook.com/Tell The Damn Story Youtube.com/ Tell The Damn Story
As we round out this adventurous year, veteran authors Christopher Ryan and Alex Simmons discuss their favorite works of 2023 in novels, music, TV, and film and discuss the future of Marvel's MCU. Tune in as they discuss the impact of political history, the art of recasting iconic characters, the future of Black Panther, and Marvel's storytelling strategies. Get ready for engaging discussions on old and new musical discoveries, captivating TV moments, and the power of self-reflection. Dive into the lessons from their favorites. Plus, enjoy lots of laughs, great art, and good cheer for you to share as we prep for 2024! PS. And boy, do we have some plans for you in the coming new year! Have questions or comments for us? Post in the comments section or ... Write: TTDSOnAir@gmail.com And follow us on ... @Tell The Damn Story www.Facebook.com/Tell The Damn Story Youtube.com/ Tell The Damn Story
Welcome to Season 3 of the podcast. A little Happy New Year episode from the lads as we grab 3 books we read and loved this year that perhaps sit outside the mainstream best sellers. And, of course, we encourage you to do the same - just read! Or just have an awesome day wherever you are! Here is the list (one for one): The Rider by Tim Krabbé - https://booko.co.nz/w/86187/The-Rider_by_Tim-Krabbe Humankind by Rutger Bregman - https://booko.co.nz/w/7812846/Humankind_by_Rutger-Bregman The Kite Runner - Khaled Hosseini - https://booko.co.nz/w/3123/The-Kite-Runner_by_Khaled-Hosseini Civilised to Death - Christopher Ryan - https://booko.co.nz/w/7834119/Civilized-to-Death-The-Price-of-Progress_by_Christopher-Ryan The Drinking Game - Guyon Espiner - https://booko.co.nz/w/9929157/The-Drinking-Game_by_Guyon-Espiner Ultraprocessed People - Chris van Tulleken - https://booko.co.nz/w/9891130/Ultra-Processed-People_by_Chris-van-Tulleken Support your local bookstore PLEASE :-) Connect with us here: the232podcast@gmail.com HAPPY NEW YEAR! Or just have an awesome day wherever you are…
And What Does Your Favorite Holiday Films Have To Do With It? This week, veteran authors Alex Simmons and Christopher Ryan find themselves smack dab amid the SCROOGE WARS! They go through a March Madness-style bracket filled with Scrooge/A Christmas Carol films, choosing their favorites and making their cases for their merits. Play along and see who would win your own Scrooge War! Then, the scribes turn the show over to the audience, commenting on their favorite version of A Christmas Carol and their favorite holiday movies. Don't miss all the fun as you prep for your holiday! Have questions or comments for us? Post in the comments section or ... Write: TTDSOnAir@gmail.com And follow us on ... @Tell The Damn Story www.Facebook.com/Tell The Damn Story Youtube.com/ Tell The Damn Story
Christopher Ryan, author of "A Simple Rebellion" and "Genius High", returns with his new upcoming release in the Mallory And Gunner Series, entitle "Infernal".The book release will be available at Barnes & Noble and Amazon.For more information, please visit the authors' page at Amazon.com Check our other links:TwitterRumbleInstagramYouTube
My guest today is Christopher Ryan, an acclaimed author and speaker who has led a diverse and unconventional life, from working odd jobs around the world to earning a Ph.D. in Psychology and being a self-proclaimed “vanthropologist.”He is the host of the podcast Tangentially Speaking, as well as the author of “Civilized to Death” and the co-author of “Sex At Dawn”, which columnist Dan Savage has called “The single most important book on human sexuality since Alfred Kinsey's Sexual Behavior in the Human Male.”When I read “Sex At Dawn” over a decade ago, it had a significant influence on my life path and approach to relationships, as you'll hear in this episode. As well, we cover Chris' own journey that inspired him to reach into the pre-history of humanity and find fresh insights into modern relationships, sexuality, and how remarkably similar we are to bonobos. We discuss the complex challenges for men & masculinity today, we touch on his observations about the radical peace project of Tamera, and finally, he shares his best (and only) advice on how to live into the future of relationships.LINKS* Christopher Ryan - Official Website* Christopher Ryan on InstagramSHOW NOTES* Crestone is a unique spiritual community at 8,000 feet with open-air cremations, Tibetan stupas, and diverse spiritual centers.* Historical Origins: Crestone's history involves visionary landowners and prophecies of harmonious coexistence among different religious traditions, leading to the creation of spiritual centers.* Chris's Journey: Chris's exploration of cultures and alternative lifestyles began in his youth and eventually led him to Crestone.* Understanding the Human Condition: Chris's career focuses on understanding human behavior and challenging cultural norms.* "Sex at Dawn": The book challenges traditional monogamy notions, examining evolutionary psychology, anthropology, and bonobo behavior.* Controversy and Conversation: "Sex at Dawn" sparked debates and opposition by questioning conventional beliefs about monogamy.* Career Evolution: Chris shifted from literature to psychology and faced backlash from the academic community.* Cultural Biases in Science: The discussion highlights how cultural biases influence scientific disciplines like anthropology.* Exploring Masculinity: Masculinity encompasses risk-taking, humor, and courageous conversations, not limited to stereotypical traits.* Challenges in Modern Masculinity: Contemporary culture presents complexities, with concerns about toxic masculinity and limited career opportunities for young men.* Impact of Toxic Messages: Toxic ideologies exploit the challenges faced by young men and promote disrespect toward women.* Rediscovering Cooperation: The future presents a choice between eroding traditional gender roles and rediscovering human cooperation, which may necessitate shared resources and mutual support.FROM THE ARCHIVEYou may also enjoy these episodes: Get full access to The Mythic Masculine at themythicmasculine.substack.com/subscribe
For a special Halloween episode I'm joined by Mark Plant and Joe Higgens to review three spooky themed episodes of BBC comedy shows. Chucklevision (1987). Season 1, ep 6 Halloween. Starring Paul and Barry ChuckleSteptoe and Son (1974). Season 8 ep 6 Seance in a Wet Rag and Bone Yard. Written by Galton and Simpson. Starring Harry H Corbett and Wilfred BrambellThe Young Ones (1984). Season 2, ep4. Nasty. Starring Rick Mayall, Ade Edmonson, Nigel Planer, Christopher Ryan and Alexi Sayle.This show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5639429/advertisement
The Art of Collaborating for Success This week, Alex Simmons and Christopher Ryan speak to TTDS friends Tom Sniegoski and Jeannine Acheson, writing partners on Vampirella and other projects, about all aspects of attending Cons as professionals. We discuss how to avoid becoming overwhelmed at major comics cons and conferences, how to work the room, and how to approach professionals such as Christopher Gold and Mike Mignola. And we also dive deep into the evolving writing partnership of these two dynamic storytellers. Come on in and enjoy some pretty fascinating insights and experiences. Have questions or comments for us? Post in the comments section or ... Write: TTDSOnAir@gmail.com And follow us on ... @Tell The Damn Story www.Facebook.com/Tell The Damn Story Youtube.com/ Tell The Damn Story
It wouldn't be a series of Too Hot For TV without the On The Timelash boys. Join Dylan, Mark and Ben as they explore the best and worst that Scotland has to offer when it comes to Doctor Who. First up it's the tenth doctor and Martha novel 'The Many Hands' by Dale Smith. Then it's the Lady Christina audio 'Death on the Mile' by Donald McLeary. As always we answer the bring questions: How many is too many cocks? Who is reading the script on their lunch break? What is the worst thing John Barrowman has ever done?
... with Client Expectations. Adventures in Editing This week, Alex Simmons and Christopher Ryan discuss the kinds of feedback you can expect to get from editors when working on a writing project. The gents talk about constructive criticism, how to embrace it how to learn from it. We discuss when editors have to help. Insert required points in a genre story, and we discuss when editing gets dark. They sandwich all of this insight within Alex's experience of plotting over 60 mystery stories for other writers and editors. Come on in. Learn from our experience so yours is more enjoyable. And share your thoughts in the comments section. Have questions or comments for us? Post in the comments section below or ... Write: TTDSOnAir@gmail.com And follow us on ... @Tell The Damn Story www.Facebook.com/Tell The Damn Story
Listen to this episode if you're a non-monogamous parent or part of a non-traditional family who wants guidance on how to navigate the challenges and celebrate the unique aspects of your family structure. Koe's insights will inspire and empower you to create an environment where your children feel supported, loved, and accepted for who they are.Koe, a second-generation sex educator, shares her journey growing up in a polyamorous family and provides insights from her intriguing book, This Heart Holds Many: My Life as a Non-Binary Millennial of a Polyamorous Family. Koe's raw and honest storytelling paints a vivid picture of the challenges faced by children in non-monogamous families and how they're navigating societal structures and perceptions. Want to connect with Koe Creation?https://www.koecreation.comhttps://www.twitter.com/koecreation
Here's another way of looking at this episode. "Are Some Genres Aging Out of Audiences & Readership?" With Flinch Books' John Bruening and Jim Beard, Alex Simmons and Christopher Ryan discuss whether pulp, adventure, and other older genres are still marketable. While we enjoyed these films, we couldn't help but notice the outdated sensibilities and lack of political correctness present in the 1940s. This got us thinking: Can these types of tropes and characters still have a place in society today? What still works, and what has to change? We'll dive deep into this question and explore the critiques of the new Indiana Jones movie from younger people. Are these iconic heroes still relevant in the modern world? Let us know in the comments. Have questions or comments for us? Post in the comments section below or ... Write: TTDSOnAir@gmail.com And follow us on ... @Tell The Damn Story www.Facebook.com/Tell The Damn Story [old films, books, comics, childhood, film club, Manhattan, serials, masked heroes, superheroes, 1940s films, political correctness, tropes, characters, society, Indiana Jones movie, leadership, nationalism, gaming, TV, social media, role models, Marvel movies, Superman comic story, hope]
In storytelling, can the old please the new? And can it inspire successful variations on the same theme? Comparing Indy Publishing Notes With Flinch Books' John Bruening and Jim Beard" This week, Alex Simmons and Christopher Ryan talk about the challenges of writing Indy publishing with friends John Bruening and Jim Beard. The gathering actively discusses the planning, publishing, marketing, and selling pulp adventures to young and old. Join this fun and information-filled this conversation. Books in the Flinch Publishing House: MIDNIGHT GUARDIAN SGT. JANUS Let us know in the comments. Have questions or comments for us? Post in the comments section below or ... Write: TTDSOnAir@gmail.com And follow us on ... @Tell The Damn Story www.Facebook.com/Tell The Damn Story
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Christopher Ryan is an American author, psychologist, and speaker best known for his groundbreaking work in the field of human sexuality and evolutionary psychology. He is the author of “Sex at Dawn”, a book that challenges conventional perspectives on human sexual evolution and monogamy, arguing that early human societies were more likely characterized by a non-monogamous, communal mating structure. In this episode, we talk about exactly that: love, sex, jealousy, monogamy VS polygamy, and even chimps and bonobos.00:00:00 00:02:07 Are We Not Wired For Monogamy? 00:07:28 Reframing Jealousy 00:10:38 What Does It Mean When They Say “I Love You?” 00:15:26 Loving Women Too Much and What They Really Want 00:21:00 Alpha and Beta Men 00:25:23 Chimp Empire 00:32:41 Watching Mass Violence and Gore Films 00:40:13 The US' Control Over Sexual Pleasure and the War on Masturbation 00:49:50 Chris' Best “Non-Sex Performance” AVN Award 00:54:02 Men and Women in Monogamy and Non-Monogamy 01:08:43 Biggest Misunderstandings Debunked 01:16:41 Listening to Your Body 01:20:00 Carl Jung VS Jordan Peterson 01:23:47 Where to Find ChrisReframing JealousyA lot of people think that if they let their partner be attracted to other people and express this openly, they might lose them. This couldn't be further from the truth. For Chris, you might lose them anyway, so it's best to start with the reality that nobody can control anybody else; if your partner wants to leave you, they're going to leave you unless you've got them in a cage in the basement. Beyond that, there's no way that you can control another human being's decisions. There's always a risk that your partner's going to leave you, so what are you then going to do? Is it safer, smarter, and more ethical to acknowledge the reality of your partner's consciousness, autonomy, and biological reality and start from that, or is it a smarter strategy to just pretend that none of this is happening and ignore the problem?Chimp EmpireIn Chimp Empire, Chris explains the many errors in the show. The show declares that chimps are our closest primate ancestors, but they are definitely not! Although chimps and bonobos are our closest primate relatives and are equidistant from humans, chimps are violent and aggressive while bonobos are just chill—they don't hurt or abuse other beings. They are highly sexualized but are not trying to control each other's behaviors. This agenda promotes a vision of human behavior that the roots of human violence lie millions of years in our revolutionary past.The Biggest Misunderstanding Between Men and WomenChris notes the “sweaty t-shirt study” by Claus Wedekind wherein a woman meets a man, she could go on to list down their positive qualities only to say in the end that they “don't smell right”. A man would rarely ever say that. According to Wedekind, women have a sense of smell much more acute than men's and it makes sense for them to become more attuned to smells than men are. But why? The conventional view is that when women get pregnant, they need to be careful of the food they eat, but what about all the time? This is tied into mate selection and his hypothesis was that maybe women pick up information about men's immune systems from their smell. Links and ResourcesSubstackWebsiteMeta-Description“Sex at Dawn” author, psychologist, and speaker Chris Ryan debunks myths about men and women, as well as overcoming jealousy and the miseducation on humans and our closest primate relatives.Support the show
This week we're Answering audience questions" And our co-hosts, Alex Simmons and Christopher Ryan, talk about two top challenges. The first is the ups and downs Chris is facing by publishing a series of new horror anthologies. In the second part, our dynamic duo answers audience questions, including: How do I write a story that takes place in a location I don't know? How do I write a story a time period I don't know? How do I write a story about a lifestyle I've never experienced? Should I only write about fictional events, people, and places? We offer detailed answers for each of these questions, giving different views on how you can approach answering these questions in your own writing. Come on in and grab some useful knowledge! Have questions or comments for us? Post in the comments section below or ... Write: TTDSOnAir@gmail.com And follow us on ... @Tell The Damn Story www.Facebook.com/Tell The Damn Story
This week, co-host Alex Simmons and Christopher Ryan discuss a writing challenge set up by Alex but driven by the people who listen to and watch this podcast/YouTube Show. Participants gave us three words or phrases, and Alex and Chris agreed to choose from this impressively long list, get inspired by what was offered to us, and then write a short story from this inspiration. We discuss this challenge and further agree to do a reading of the results during the next exciting episode. Have questions or comments for us? Post in the comments section below or ... Write: TTDSOnAir@gmail.com And follow us on ... @Tell The Damn Story www.Facebook.com/Tell The Damn Story
Pop the Bolli and pour the Stoli and don't forget your tickets, money, and passport! Join us as we celebrate the comedic genius of our favorite drunken duo Edina Monsoon (Jennifer Saunders) and Patsy Stone (Joanna Lumley), in the show that spawned this podcast, Absolutely Fabulous! Featuring bitch troll from hell daughter, Saffron (Julia Sawalha), the old woman, Gran (June Whitfield), a couple of bastard ex-husbands, Justin & Marshal (Christopher Malcolm and Christopher Ryan) and the entire moment that is Bubble (Jane Horrocks). Gabon? Find out, this time on Doom Generation! Support this podcast at patreon.com/doomgeneration --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/doomgeneration/message
After creating your world finding your target audience is your next big challenge. This week Alex Simmons and Christopher Ryan explore one of the more confounding areas of a writer's journey: who the heck are our readers? Combining multiple sources, we discuss or break down the answer to that question into four steps writers can take. All writers need to learn that not everybody will love what they do, so it's important to focus on the group of people who will enjoy our material and aim our promotions toward them. So we list a string of suggestions for you to zero in on a pretty solid idea of who your potential readers might be. This is helpful while writing your material, editing your material, and especially marketing your material. Have questions or comments for us? Post them in the comments section below or ... Write: TTDSOnAir@gmail.com And follow us on ... @Tell The Damn Story and on www.Facebook.com/Tell The Damn Story #podcast episodes #book #character #plot #convention #authors #writing #selling, #booksigning #writers #publicreading #despiteracism #imagination #TelltheDamnStory #editing #socialmedia #challenge #writing #reading #creativity #mentalhealthmonth
OR, How Writers Can Keep Mentally Healthy! This week cohosts Alex Simmons and Christopher Ryan honor mental health awareness month by discussing ways to challenge a sad reality. We cite research that confirms writers and creatives are eight times more likely to suffer mental health issues than people in non-creative professions. Then we offer a few researched suggestions on how to stay mentally healthy and improve your overall health. Because after all being healthier in mind and body helps to fuel creativity. Have questions or comments for us? Post them in the comments section below or ... Write: TTDSOnAir@gmail.com And follow us on ... @Tell The Damn Story and on www.Facebook.com/Tell The Damn Story #podcast episodes #book #character #plot #convention #authors #writing #selling, #booksigning #writers #publicreading #despiteracism #imagination #TelltheDamnStory #editing #socialmedia #challenge #writing #reading #creativity #mentalhealthmonth
Every writer has a Mom in their life. Happy Mother's Day! What's your story? This week Alex Simmons and Christopher Ryan shout out moms and their influence, one way or another, on our writing. While this episode is short, it is fun, with a few laughs, a few heartfelt moments, and some truths about our damn story and how to tell your damn story to your mom today. Enjoy! Say Hi to Your Mom For Us! Have questions or comments for us? Post them in the comments section below or ... Write: TTDSOnAir@gmail.com And follow us on ... @Tell The Damn Story and on www.Facebook.com/Tell The Damn Story #podcast episodes #book #character #plot #convention #book launch #authors #writing #selling, #book signing #writers #publicreading #despiteracism #imagination #TelltheDamnStory #editing #Mother'sDay #socialmedia #challenge #writing #Irishheritage #criticism #reading #creativity #southernUnitedStates #historicalresources
"Your words don't have to be perfect the first time they hit the page!" This week, Alex Simmons and Christopher Ryan take writers through how to edit and revise their work. Many creatives think of editing and revision as drudge work or punishment, the correcting of mistakes. But in fact, it is the opportunity to make good work great and great work excellent. That's why we explore the impact of using simple sentences and how it can improve storytelling. In addition, we share strategies for writers to stay focused while editing so they can meet deadlines. The boys of TTDS feel creators should run to revision with open arms. So in this episode, we offer 5 - 7 ways you can. Have questions or comments for us? Post them in the comments section below or ... Write: TTDSOnAir@gmail.com And follow us on ... Instagram: @Tell The Damn Story and on www.Facebook.com/Tell The Damn Story #writing process #character definition #authenticity in dialogue, personality, deadlines, calendar, focus, editing, revisions, feedback, storytelling, inspiration, personal promise, script-writing, short stories, conscious intention, coherence, rhythm, Jay Bennett, simplicity, drafts, screenwriting, grammar, spelling
In this episode we continue our discussion on Freud and the idea of our repression of our desires and Christopher Ryan's view on the biological effects of long-term monogamy. We also talk about humans as electromagnetic beings, approaching cultural taboos, redirecting repression and Ester Perel's ideas on dynamism, nourishment and closeness in relationships. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gintantra/message
Today I am talking to Lelia Gowland, a married Southern woman with a literal white picket fence, who confronted her fears and her need for anonymity to very publicly embrace her queer and polyamorous identities and discover the beauty of deep connection and authentic self expression. You will hear us talk about how the polyamory landscape has evolved over the last decade or two, and how self acceptance of your personal identities, queer, polyamorous, non monogamous, whatever they are, can affect you. Lelia is a writer and a speaker who centers her work on authenticity. She's written for publications like Forbes, Huffington Post, and Harper Bazaar, and she speaks to organizations and individuals about leading with authenticity to create happier, more productive lives.
Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is purely for educational purposes and should not be interpreted as a recommendation for a specific treatment plan, medicinal plant, or course of action for medical treatment. None of the statements or ethnobotanical information in this episode have been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration (FDA). The purpose of the information conveyed in this podcast is simply to explore the ancient healing practices of indigenous cultures. Please consult a professional if you are considering the use of plant-based medicines. In many ways people have become disconnected, dislocated, and dislodged from their place in the world as a result of trauma. Trauma due to physical, emotional, and sexual abuse, neglect, household dysfunction, or just everyday unmanaged stress as an important social determinant of health. These traumas can actually change the chemical makeup of the brain and increase the risk for developing certain physical ailments, including digestive problems, diabetes, chronic pain, and heart disease. Unfortunately, the American healthcare system is not effective in addressing the root causes of the chronic issues we face at a psycho-emotional level. Western culture is now looking for alternative ways to stem the epidemic of anxiety, depression, and stress we see in the modern world. Is there an opportunity in health transformation to seek alternative and ancient sources of healing medicine that finds coherence between the mind and heart and the body and the spirit? This week we are offering our listeners with a Bonus episode to discuss the healing potential of ayahuasca. Our guest is Kevin Johnson (also known by the Q'ero people of Peru as Puma Blanco). He is a shamanic healer who has become a popular public speaker, giving presentations on consciousness, shamanism, plant medicines and psychedelics. He's been featured in several magazines and periodicals, and has appeared on many popular podcasts including; “Tangentially Speaking” with Christopher Ryan, “The Duncan Trussell Family Hour”, “The Warrior Poet” with Aubrey Marcus, “Not Just Paleo” with Evan Brand, “Fat Burning Man” with Abel James, and “The Truth Junkie Podcast” with Kevin Bates…just to name a few. This won't be your typical Race to Value episode. Not only are we exploring the congruency between ayahuasca and healing and the parallels between shamanism and Western medicine, but we will also be learning about the Q'ero people of Peru who have a special relationship with the planet and an approach to energy balancing that maybe we could all learn from. If you have an open mind and an open heart, you will find this conversation to be quite enlightening and informative as people around the world are retracing the ancient pathways of shamanism, the oldest spiritual practice of healing on the planet. So let's now hear from Kevin Johnson, who is joining us for this special bonus episode of the Race to Value! Episode Bookmarks: 01:30 Trauma as an overlooked social determinant of health that leads to chronic disease. 02:30 Introduction to Kevin (Puma Blanco) Johnson – a shamanic healer and popular public speaker on the topics of consciousness, shamanism, plant medicines, and psychedelics. 03:00 The healing potential of ayahuasca, parallels between shamanism and Western medicine, and the Q'ero people of Peru. 05:45 Referencing prior episode with Dr. Charles Nemeroff, the Co-Director for the Center for Psychedelic Research & Therapy. 06:00 Inspiration from Hippocrates: “The greatest medicine of all is teaching people how not to need it.” “Foolish the doctor who despises the knowledge acquired by the ancients.” 06:30 Ayahuasca is a very ancient medicine, with archaeological evidence for the consumption of ayahuasca going back at least a thousand years. 07:30 An overview of ayahuasca as a plant medicine and how it can provide healing, alleviate suffering, and enhance spirituality.
Themes: Capitalism, Internalized Capitalism, Burnout, Over-functioning, Self Worth, Self Empowerment, Exploitation, Self Healing, Social Revolution, Socio-Economics, TraumaSarah Bryski-Hamrick is a partner, therapist, activist, podcaster, cat friend, plant mom, long time renter and ower of student loans. She is a forever student who loves deepening their yoga and meditation practice while honoring the tradition's Eastern roots. She loves speaking in her "therapist voice" to calm others down… and desires revolution and liberation for me and all citizens of the world.In this important & illuminating conversation between Sarah and Empowered Connection Podcast host Damodar Cordua, we bring the listener into these important topics:- Defining "internalized capitalism," a phenomenon that powerfully effect us all - What are the similarities and differences between the ideas of “burnout” and internalized capitalism?- The fetishization of the “hard worker” as the cultural & deeply internalized barometer of our goodness- Our main worth + value being based upon our productivity and our work- The commodification of our lives & our relationships- Social interactions becoming more about transaction & less about connection- The exploitation of the "wellness industry" - The inter-generational trauma of internalized capitalism - Identifying our own manifestations of internalized capitalism- Empowering ways to navigate internalized capitalism internally to our own self and externally within the world around usAnd so much more...Resources:Books Sarah mentioned on the podcast:Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jetha Rest Is Resistance: A Manifesto by Tricia Hersey Connect with the work of Sarah Bryski-Hamrick:website: https://www.teletherapywithsarah.com/instagram: https://www.instagram.com/teletherapy_withsarah/podcast: https://www.tndpodcast.com/-Connect with podcast host Damodar for your Free Discovery Sessionand start your 2023 journey of self & relational discovery & empowerment... for both individuals + couples who are ready to explore, illuminate + empower their lives & their relationshipsANDGet 10% OFF your coaching journey by mentioning the Empowered Connection PodcastFind Daily Relationship Tools + Tips & Self Growth + Empowerment Practices with Damodar on Instagram - @empoweredconnection.meBrought to you by Bhava WellnessandEMPOWERED CONNECTION
On this ID the Future from the vault, hear a segment from Discovery Institute Vice President John West's talk given at the Dallas Conference on Science and Faith, on how Darwinism has corroded Western culture. Here he examines the morally poisonous effects of Darwinism on marriage, sexual ethics, and religion, such that virtually anything can be defended as OK, and no particular culture's ethic is to be preferred over another. Humankind's spiritual purpose has likewise been eroded. Yet West closes with hope by pointing to moving examples of science in our generation uncovering more and more signs of intelligent design and purpose in nature. As West further notes, a new generation of researchers, including at least one Fulbright scholar, are Read More › Source
Yuval Noah Harari is a historian and philosopher whose books — "Sapiens," "Homo Deus," "21 Lessons for the 21st Century," and most recently "Unstoppable Us: How Humans Took Over the World" — have sold more than 40 million copies. He joins Rufus for a wide-ranging conversation about storytelling, life in the Stone Age, the future of democracy, and the threat of AI. --- If you enjoy this episode, check out our interviews with David Wengrow, Jennifer Raff, Christopher Ryan, Ray Dalio, and Jane McGonigal. You can listen to them ad-free by downloading The Next Big Idea app.
How do you move forward after achieving your long-sought-after goals? Where do you go next after you succeed? Wouldn't it be great if you could do something meaningful beyond success? Being human is all about adding value to the lives around you, and that's when you realize that you have moved past being merely successful to becoming significant. Bob Buford, in his book Halftime, wrote, “When all is said and done, our success will be pretty empty unless it has included a corresponding degree of significance.” When we live a life of significance, we focus on others rather than ourselves. Having a true understanding of the things that matter most to us is what it means to be significant. Christopher Ryan, former CEO of peer-to-peer mastermind organization GoAbundance, joins us to talk about the differences between success and significance. In this episode, Darius and Chris discuss the importance of knowing your vocation and what it feels like to move from success to significance. They also talk about the value of family and what it truly means to leave a lasting legacy. Topics include: What helped Chris find his calling and vocation What is success and how to measure it What it looks like shifting from success to significance Why a parent-child relationship is important Chris shares the secret behind the success of GoBundance What it means to leave a legacy Overcoming imposter syndrome Resources mentioned: Halftime by Bob Buford: https://www.amazon.com/Halftime-Significance-Bob-P-Buford/dp/0310344441 More Than Money by Michael Cole: https://www.amazon.com/More-Than-Money-Sustaining-Preserving/dp/1119264707 Connect with Christopher: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christopherryan2 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Paredigm/ Website: https://www.gobundance.com/ Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whoompdarius/ YouTube: https://therealdarius.com/youtube Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Seriah welcomes Red Pill Junkie and Super Inframan for a wandering the road episode. Topics include favorite stories of high strangeness, people witnessing cartoon characters in real life, toys moving around on their own, a childhood memory of a muppet-like entity, the farmer gifted pancakes by UFO occupants, writers encountering their characters in physical reality, Alan Moore and John Constantine, Neil Gaiman and a powerful demon, Walter B. Gibson AKA Maxwell Grant and the Shadow, tulpas, Sam the Sandown Clown weird encounter, dead relatives showing up with aliens, assumptions about UFOs as spacecraft, an alien base in Lake Michigan, underwater alien base near a coastal city in Mexico, Alex Whitcomb's strange bigfoot encounter featuring out-of-synch time experiences, a fascinating speculation about Bob Lazar and a crashed extraterrestrial ship, the nature of time, Whitley Strieber and Jeffrey Kripal sharing a room and an experience at Esalen, shadow people, a physical phenomenon producing an illusion of a strange shadow, Seriah's experience of mistaken identity, the Aztecs encounter of the Spanish on horseback, ancient horses in North America, Graham Hancock, plasma bursts depicted in ancient art, Seriah relates a bizarre dream about the Devil, the TV series “Lucifer”, Satan and God in the Bible, the story of Job, the story of Adam and Eve and its implications, Gnosticism, the Demiurge, the nature of happiness, the pursuit of wealth, digital vs physical media, Christopher Ryan's “Civilized to Death”, obsessive collecting, doing tasks yourself vs hiring a skilled person, Seriah's adventure fixing his AC unit, Kenneth Grant, H.P. Lovecraft, Arthur Machen, UFOs in ancient Chinese and Southeast Asian beliefs, magical creatures that excrete precious metals, Jack Parsons, symbols and reality, how language affects perception, Terence McKenna, the movie “Arrival”, Inuit language and snow, ancient Egyptian language and the soul, Joshua Cutchin's “Ecology of Souls”, language and perceptions of color, high strangeness breaking through pre-existing mindsets, terminology specific to certain professions, Kenneth Grant's questionable numerology and drawing of connections, Marjorie Cameron, August Derleth, the Mauve Zone, Michael Bertiaux, the imaginal realm, the Necronomicon, the singularity, Aleister Crowley, a weird race of non-humans, Mayan beliefs, Cthulhu, Hekate, strange voices, magick and UFOs, elaborate hoaxes, the UMMO letters and an early 1990's alien landing in the Soviet Union, Carlos Castaneda, fiction proceeding real-life encounters, “War of the Worlds”, and much more! This is a casual but riveting discussion, not to be missed! - Recap by Vincent Treewell of The Weird Part Podcast Outro Music is DramaScream with Sham Download
[Rerun] Has civilization ruined our lives? Should we be living as hunter-gatherers? Is it against our evolution to have houses and cellphones? Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Dr. Christopher Ryan (author of Sex at Dawn) who answers these questions in his new book, Civilized to Death.Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattleEmail: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contactMerch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattleCameo: https://www.cameo.com/kirkhondaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychologyinseattle/Facebook Official Page: https://www.facebook.com/PsychologyInSeattle/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kirk.hondaThe Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com
Chris Ryan is a NYTs bestselling author and the host of Tangentially Speaking. In this episode, we talk about the way travel shifts your consciousness and how learning about our evolutionary psychology can help us live better in the modern world. This episode is sponsored by Feals CBD. Go here to save 50% on your first order. Coaching with Cory: I'm now offering One-to-One coaching to help you build a path to the next level.Please support the show by joining our Patreon Community.Sign up for my newsletter to receive new writing on Friday morning.My new meditation course Coming Home is now available. Now Is the Way is out now in paperback! Use Astral for 15% off Binaural Beats, Guided Meditations, and my Meditation Course.Please rate The Astral Hustle on iTunes. ★★★★★ Connect with Cory:Home: http://www.cory-allen.comIG: https://www.instagram.com/heycoryallenTwitter: https://twitter.com/HeyCoryAllenFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/HeyCoryAllen© CORY ALLEN 2022
In this episode, author of well-known books Sex at Dawn and Civilzed to Death, Christopher Ryan, and Dr. Anthony Gustin explore the misconceptions that everything in civilization is better. To do that, they compare our modern Western life to that of an egalitarian hunter-gatherer society and they discuss what our current civilization has right, what's dragging it down, what can be done about it, and more. Chris and Dr. Gustin also answer questions like, are we really better off than previous generations? And, what does it mean to be human? This is one of those episodes that may change what you previously thought and it'll open your eyes to a completely new perspective. You'll also hear these other topics when you check this episode out: Why the statistics aren't all they're cracked up to be Did Chris have an “aha” moment that led him down this path? What does it mean to be human? Chris' thoughts on our current state of agriculture How tech is negatively creeping in like a parasitic infection Are we really better off than previous generations? What hunter-gatherer tribes have shown us Actual objective measures that determine quality of life Do things need to get bad before people look for better alternatives? How our planet's carrying capacity is at its max How Chris balances being social and taking time away from people Other ways you can help contribute to creating a better world Chris also shares his experience buying land with friends to create a community that takes only the best parts of the modern world
Themes: Relationships, Monogamy, Polyamory, Communication, Psychedelic Medicine, Sexuality Summary: Today I'm honoured to be joined by the man, the myth, the legend: Aubrey Marcus. Aubrey is the founder of Onnit, a lifestyle brand based on a holistic health philosophy he calls Total Human Optimization. Aubrey also currently hosts the Aubrey Marcus Podcast, a motivational destination for conversations with the brightest minds in athletics, business, mindset and spirituality with over 35 million downloads on iTunes. He regularly provides commentary to outlets like Entrepreneur, Forbes, The Tim Ferriss Show, and The Joe Rogan Experience. He has been featured on the cover of Men's Health, is the host of the Fit For Service Fellowship, and is the author of the NYT Bestselling book Own The Day, Own Your Life from HarperCollins. Discover: Being yourself at the cost of belonging Aubrey's journey into polyamory and the lessons he learned from his experience in an open relationship How Aubrey's relationship developed with his now wife, Vylana, and how they make monogamy work for them Tips and practices for deepening intimacy and keeping the “honeymoon phase” alive Aubrey's thoughts on marriage and 'til death do us part' Links: Instagram: @aubreymarcus Aubrey Marcus Podcast | How To Prepare For True Love with Aubrey & Vylana Marcus Fit for Service Untrue by Wednesday Martin, PhD Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jetha Sponsors: Organifi | Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off all products at organifi.com/createthelove Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.