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Gaslighting as Method and Ways to Resist It is the second conversation in a series centering the Warscapes anthology Insurgent Feminisms: Writing War (Daraja Press). Featuring Suzy Salamy, Suchitra Vijayan and Bhakti Shringarpure. Gaslighting is a term used to describe the process by which a person is manipulated into questioning their own reality. Defined as a "conscious intent to brainwash," gaslighting is understood as occurring primarily in interpersonal situations of domestic abuse. Victims of gaslighting find themselves questioning their sense of reality as well as their memories; they experience high levels of anxiety and they may begin to lose trust and confidence in themselves. Gaslighting can happen in several different ways: denial, mockery, jokes and trivialization, withholding information, stereotyping, and repetitively countering observations and memories. Without doubt, gaslighting becomes an important concept to understand the feelings, stories and experiences of women, queer, transgender and racialized individuals. As the #MeToo movement grew with hashtags such as #BelieveHer trending, many of the narratives pointed to victims being told for years that they had misread a situation or were overthinking flirtatious advances. Victims of gaslighting found themselves feeling increasingly guilty and wondering if they were responsible for having caused their own abuse and trauma. Increasingly, the phrase "structural gaslighting" has also come into use to explain the effect of ingrained, harmful stereotypes that refuse engagement with marginalized people and continually dismiss their views, beliefs and ideas. Those that challenge the status quo are deemed abnormal, as exaggerating the problem, and often as imagining things. Women are told to "lighten up;" Black women are told they are "too angry;" individuals wishing to emphasize their pronouns are deemed as pushy and petty; migrants are often accused of not trying hard enough to assimilate; the list of such harms is long and the effects of these societal and political abuses is manifold. This is a timely topic because many of us who are deeply concerned about the unfolding horrors in Palestine are being gaslit constantly not only in our own domestic and work environments but also on a broader level by the media and by politicians. Panelists will unpack gaslighting on interpersonal levels but also something that disproportionately affects marginalized individuals and communities, and will try to come up with clear ways to resist these structures and preserve one's self-confidence, moral compass. and belief systems. Suzy Salamy is a social worker and a filmmaker. She has an extensive history of working in the television and film world and has worked on several award-winning documentaries about the Middle East. Suzy has worked at the NYC Anti-Violence Project providing crisis intervention, counseling, and advocacy to LGBTQ and HIV affected survivors of violence. She received her B.A. in film from Bard College and Masters in Social Work from the Silberman School of Social Work at Hunter College, CUNY.Suchitra Vijayan is a writer, photographer and activist. She is the founder and Executive Director of The Polis Project. For her first book, The Midnight's Border: A People's History of India, Suchitra traveled across the 9000-mile Indian border. A barrister by training, she previously worked for the United Nations war crimes tribunals in Yugoslavia and Rwanda before co-founding the Resettlement Legal Aid Project in Cairo, which gives legal aid to Iraqi refugees. She is the co-author of How Long Can the Moon Be Caged? Voices of Indian Political Prisoners (2023) which offers a lens into today's India through
In this classic episode, horror fans Anney and guest co-host Lauren Vogelbaum talk about the horror movie trope of not believing women, and how it relates to #BelieveHer.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Content Warning: Today's episode deals with sexual abuse and domestic violence. Please take care while listening. If you need help, please reach out to the National Domestic Abuse Hotline: 1-888- 799-SAFE.This is not a whodunnit. This is a complicated look at what happens when a woman who has endured abuse at the hands of her partner, shoots and kills him. Nikki Addimando went from being viewed as a victim to a cold blooded killer when she shot and killed her partner, Chris Grover, in 2017.Today's conversation explores the many complex issues at the heart of this “upside down” true crime story; believing victims, women in prison, domestic abuse, trauma, and whether it's bad luck or a flawed system that lands people in prison. Listen to BELIEVE HER:https://open.spotify.com/show/0VqP7R41LntCG4LC1P2oWLYou can follow Justine on social media IG@jvanderleunPlease rate and review DIE-ALOGUE on apple podcasts if you haven't already?! Then share the show with your friends, family, foes, + true crime communities.https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/die-alogue-a-true-crime-conversation/id1470890320Liked this episode? Share it on social media + tag the @diealoguepodYou can get early, ad free episodes, plus exclusive bonus episodes when you become a DIE-HARD on #patreon. https://www.patreon.com/diealogueThank you so much for joining me in these conversations. You can always reach out to me via my website:https://www.rebekahsebastian.com/discover/#contactDIE-ALOGUE is hosted and edited by Rebekah Sebastian. Audio engineering by Jason Usry.
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We discuss whether there is real Black Unity or do things have to get desperate for us to come together. The good news of when Six Flags and the Georgia Aquarium opened back up. And why women need to speak up when a man makes unwanted advances toward her.
In another culturally vital episode of the "MOPPC", the guys discuss male toxicity and culture, and why men need to BELIEVE and LISTEN to all women.
In another culturally vital episode of the "MOPPC", the guys discuss male toxicity and culture, and why men need to BELIEVE and LISTEN to all women.
What did Obama know about the DoJ and FBI and their investigation into the Russian collusion delusion? VP Biden has a little #Believeher problem, and Justin Amash, viable candidate, or another third party spoiler, or both? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
This week on the show...Despite recent funding cuts from the federal government, the largest arts touring organization in Canada is still sticking to its commitment to bring dance to communities across the entire country. In fact, Ballet Jorgen shows in Toronto are so popular that the only performance of the Nutcracker this year is already completely sold out.Clara Osei-Yeboah sat down with Kathy Grant, the founder of the Legacy Voices Project that memorializes the stories of black and other coloured veterans who served in World War I and II.AndThe Men’s and Women’s summit on Masculinity in Toronto has become a controversial event, gaining many followers. The Chair of the Canadian Association for Equality told CJRU last week that the #BelieveHer movement is the wrong position to take. Sofia Vavaroutsos has the full story.Social MediaTwitter: twitter.com/CJRU1280Instagram: www.instagram.com/cjru1280/?hl=enRyerson events:: Ryerson.ca/eventsFor inquires, tips and volunteer information contact:News@CJRU.ca
TRIGGER WARNING.For those celebrating Brett Kavanaugh's confirmation on Saturday, listen to this commentary.For other Podcasts, listen to these.The Christian Church and Me Too.https://www.spreaker.com/user/kevole/the-christian-church-metoo-and-churchtooKristin Raworthhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/kevole/kristinraworthOnline Dating with Casey Logan.https://www.spreaker.com/user/kevole/agree-or-disagree-the-podcast-metoo-part_1With men.https://www.spreaker.com/user/kevole/agree-or-disagree-the-podcast-me-too-parWith womenhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/kevole/agree-or-disagree-the-podcast-metoo-partFacebook: Kevin OlenickTwitter:@kevoleSpreaker:@kevoleYou Tube: Kevin OlenickITunes:Agree or Disagree:The Podcast
Horror fans Anney and guest co-host Lauren Vogelbaum talk about the horror movie trope of not believing women, and how it relates to #BelieveHer. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
This morning I hope to bring you something that maybe you had not thought about concerning what we are hearing and seeing due to the fight to confirm or not confirm Brett Kavanaugh. This is a very sensitive subject and my hope to make sure it gets treated like by me today. I am not a professional in this area so, these are questions I have that maybe we can gently walk through. I want to talk about projection. I trust we can have a discussion.
Jonny and Danette discuss the fresh election results of the Alabama special election for Senator, check in on the arrival of marriage equality to Australia, and take a closer look at the impact (and sometimes, unfortunately, the lack of impact) of sexual harassment and assault charges on political and media figures.
Jonny and Danette discuss the fresh election results of the Alabama special election for Senator, check in on the arrival of marriage equality to Australia, and take a closer look at the impact (and sometimes, unfortunately, the lack of impact) of sexual harassment and assault charges on political and media figures.