Podcast appearances and mentions of tanya koens

This week Ify sat down with sexologist Tanya Koens to chat all things disability and sex. Why is disability and sex still such a taboo topic? What concerns do disabled folk have around sex? And what is the significance of the NDIS' proposed changes to access to sex workers?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ify talks with Tanya Koens on our segment Let's Talk About Sex! Tanya is a somatic sexologist and pleasure activist from Pleasure Love Rating.  Today Tanya talks to us about situationships. What are they and could you possibly be in one? Tanya discusses when is the right time to walk away from a situationship and how do you have that difficult conversation if it is something that you think you're ready to do.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ify is once again joined by Tanya Koens somatic sexologist and pleasure activist from Pleasure Love Rating, for Let's Talk About Sex!  This week we demystify the tricky world of erectile dysfunction. How common is it? What are the causes? What are your treatment options? And how could you best support a partner with ED? Get the full run-down here!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ify talks with Tanya Koens on our segment Let's Talk About Sex! Tanya is a somatic sexologist and pleasure activist from Pleasure Love Rating.  We tackle the complicated issue of how to deal with mental health impacting our relationships. How can we support our partners while also supporting ourselves in the process? Or what happens when the relationship itself is giving us anxiety? Dating is sometimes stressful – Tanya provides some tips for reducing our anxiety and helping us cope.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Benny and Ify sit down with Tanya Koens, a somatic sexologist and pleasure activist from Pleasure Love Rating. In this episode we talk about the scary L word - Love. Tanya discusses what love means, what happens when we say it to someone and why it can sometimes feel like a big deal to say “I love you”. Listen to find out the answers to this scary topic!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Benny and Ify sat down with Tanya Koens, a somatic sexologist and pleasure activist from Pleasure Love Rating. We're excited to welcome her back to our fortnightly segment Let's Talk About Sex! Tanya is one of the leading lights in sex and relationships in Australia. She gives people language to tackle sensitive subjects and believes that a healthy sex life has positive impacts in all areas of life.  Today Tanya discusses her life-long passion of working to reduce the orgasm gap. The orgasm gap refers to the fact that 95% of straight men reach orgasm compared to only 65% of straight women. Tanya hopes to reduce this gap through teaching us about how people with (and without) vulvas can reach orgasm more often. Listen back to learn all about how to reach the big O!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Benny sat down with Tanya Koens, a somatic sexologist and pleasure activist from Pleasure Love Rating. After a small break, Tanya joins us on our segment Let's Talk About Sex! Tanya is one of the leading lights in sex and relationships in Australia. She gives people language to tackle sensitive subjects and believes that a healthy sex life has positive impacts in all areas of life.  Continuing the discussion on the big O, Tanya explores the issue of Anorgasmia, a condition where people have trouble achieving a full orgasm despite feeling aroused. There are a multitude of reasons for why this can happen, including stress and anxiety amongst other things! Listen back on this week's episode to find out some strategies for how to achieve orgasm, and/or more pleasurable sex, more often.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today we got chatting with Tanya Koens, a somatic sexologist and pleasure activist from Pleasure Love Rating. Tanya joins us on our segment Let's Talk About Sex!  Benny and Ify talk with Tanya about the importance of communication in relationships and dating, not just within our romantic relationships, but also when we talk about our romantic relationships to our friends and family. Listen back to find out how communication helps us build trust and express our needs. Tanya's websiteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ify got chatting on a cold Eora morning with Tanya Koens, a somatic sexologist and pleasure activist from Pleasure Love Rating. Tanya joins us on our segment Let's Talk About Sex! Tanya discusses the importance of holding on to our own identity when we are within a relationship. Why is it that sometimes we get caught up in our romantic relationships and neglect our friendships and other connections? Tanya talks about how we can manage jealousy, insecurity, and our own independence within our relationships and how this can strengthen our bond.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ify sat down with Tanya Koens, a somatic sexologist and pleasure activist from Pleasure Love Rating. We're excited to welcome her back to our returning segment Let's Talk About Sex! Tanya is one of the leading lights in sex and relationships in Australia. She gives people language to tackle sensitive subjects and believes that a healthy sex life has positive impacts in all areas of life. Make sure to catch up on all our episodes back online.  We talked about dating, dating apps and Hinge. Tanya suggested we all ‘hold lightly', nowadays dating profiles are so ubiquitous and people aren't looking with a lot of intention, so we shouldn't place too much importance. Hinge can be great… but quite two dimensional. Tanya suggested we be honest with who we are looking for, and have strong boundaries. We need to ‘fine tune the people coming into our in tray'! Listen back to get all the advice, and Tanya will be on the show every fortnight. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Benny and Ify sat down with Tanya Koens, a somatic sexologist and pleasure activist from Pleasure Love Rating. We're excited to welcome her back to our returning segment Let's Talk About Sex. Tanya gave us lots of advice about what a good date looks like.  So how do you plan a good date? Don't do the movies, you can't talk there! First dates should be chatty situations, maybe a coffee but definitely not a three course dinner. Have it short and sweet and something planned afterwards. Have it in a place that will facilitate good chat. Tanya's final advice on how to plan a date is: Make it easy and simple and time-limited. Be curious, what can you learn about this person?   Ify and Benny found out this and more great advice from Tanya this morning.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Resident sexologist and pleasure activist Tanya Koens joins Maleeka on Up For It to discuss what makes a good date.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Tanya Koens - our resident sexologist, pleasure activist and relationship therapist - is back in the studio to discuss compulsory heterosexuality: how are we conditioned towards heteronormativity, how can we decondition from compulsory heterosexuality, and how to unpack internalized homophobia/biphobia?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Tanya Koens our resident sexologist, pleasure activist and relationship therapist is back in the studio to discuss 'Decolonising Sex'. Head to the Mornings program page on FBi Radio's website to access resources mentioned in this episode.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How does stress affect experiencing pleasure? Does masturbation help stress levels? How can you feel sexy during stressful times? Tanya Koens our resident sexologist, pleasure activist and relationship therapist answers all our questions on the relationship between stress and sex.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Why do romantic relationships often take priority over non-romantic relationships in our society? Have you ever felt confined by these definitions of romantic love? Following on from the last episode on "Queer-platonic Relationships", our resident sexologist, pleasure activist and relationship therapist, Tanya Koens is on the show to expand on the notions of love and how to care for your single friends and/or yourself!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Do you feel confined by the societal definitions of relationships? Have you ever felt an indescribable closeness to your friends which isn't championed like heterosexual, romantic relations? On today's episode of LTAS, Tanya Koens (resident sexologist, pleasure activist and relationship therapist) will be exploring Queer Platonic Relationships & just how important these are to our understanding of love. This one hits the feels.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“If you don't have to think about it, it is privilege." Have you ever thought about how bodily autonomy not only applies to intimate relationships but also in the context of healthcare, and identity expression? Maybe you have thought about how idealisation of bodily integrity often does not exist for female bodies, trans-bodies and for people with differently abled bodies. Tanya Koens, our resident sexologist, pleasure activist and relationship therapist is back in the studio to discuss this incredibly important topic, and answer your questions on “The Importance of Bodily Autonomy”.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Tanya Koens is in the studio to discuss all things "Consensual Non-Monogamy" (CNM). This relationship style, that is usually described as "Ethical Non-Monogamy" (ENM), involves expanding a relationship to add romantic and/or sexual partners. Tanya and Deb discuss how CNM/ENM is practised, and why there is a shift towards the term consensual!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Tanya Koens our resident sexologist, pleasure activist and relationship therapist is back in the studio! We'll explore the impacts of religion on perceptions of sex, what is religious-trauma syndrome, and how to develop a healthier relationship with sex!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“Love is a doing word - it's an act of showing up.” Resident sexologist Tanya Koens is here to answer all our questions on “Genital Response vs Arousal vs Desire (vs consent)”. An exciting episode inspired by Emily Nagoski's “Come As You Are”, Tanya helps us understand areas like if you can have sexual arousal without sexual desire & what is arousal concordance? “My genitals don't tell you what I want or what I like - I do”See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Tanya Koens joins us to talk when open relationships go wrong - what do you do?!?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ever wondered what to expect when going into a sex therapy session? Resident sexologist Tanya Koens tells you everything you need to know.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We're back with for Conset Pt.2 with resident sexologist Tanya Koens to talk communicating, negotiating and withdrawing consent.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We're wrapping up a big year on LTAS with a deep dive into fantasies - resident sexologist Tanya Koens joined us one last time to chat keeping our fantasies under wraps vs getting them out into the open with a partner, plus so much more!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ever wondered what you need to know going into a sexual health check up? Tanya Koens talks STIs, GP vs sexual health clinics, what questions to expect in an appointment, testing (and self testing!), and more.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Impact play can sound a little intimidating if you don't know where to start, so resident sexologist and pleasure activist Tanya Koens joined us to chat everything from slapping, spanking, whipping and thuddy play to safe words.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

From swapping to sex parties, Tanya Koens gives us the rundown on Swinging and what it really takes to make this form of non-monogamy work for you.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

From oysters to eggs, chilli to ginseng, aphrodisiacs are said to give our libido an extra kick. But do they really work? Find the answer in this episode, hosted by Bindi Mutiara and resident sexologist Tanya Koens.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Do asexual people ever have sex? The simple answer, yes. Resident sexologist and pleasure activist Tanya Koens joined us to break down some of the many misconceptions around the diverse spectrum of asexuality.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Special guest Dr. Lou Cooper and resident sexologist Tanya Koens joined us to help bring it back to basics this week as we talked pronouns - what are they, how do we use them and why are they so important?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Is your sex drive completely different to your partners? When your libidos are out of whack, you might feel rejected, insecure and worried about whether or not you're right for each other.  In this episode, we hear your stories, find out if you can change your sex drive, and get some expert advice from sex therapist Tanya Koens on how to find that balance in your relationship. For questions or topic suggestions email thehookup@abc.net.au or dm us @triplejthehookup https://www.instagram.com/triplejthehookup

Is your sex drive completely different to your partners?When your libidos are out of whack, you might feel rejected, insecure and worried about whether or not you're right for each other. In this episode, we hear your stories, find out if you can change your sex drive, and get some expert advice from sex therapist Tanya Koens on how to find that balance in your relationship.For questions or topic suggestions email thehookup@abc.net.au or dm us @triplejthehookuphttps://www.instagram.com/triplejthehookup

Is your sex drive completely different to your partners?When your libidos are out of whack, you might feel rejected, insecure and worried about whether or not you're right for each other. In this episode, we hear your stories, find out if you can change your sex drive, and get some expert advice from sex therapist Tanya Koens on how to find that balance in your relationship.For questions or topic suggestions email thehookup@abc.net.au or dm us @triplejthehookuphttps://www.instagram.com/triplejthehookup

Is your sex drive completely different to your partners? When your libidos are out of whack, you might feel rejected, insecure and worried about whether or not you're right for each other.  In this episode, we hear your stories, find out if you can change your sex drive, and get some expert advice from sex therapist Tanya Koens on how to find that balance in your relationship. For questions or topic suggestions email thehookup@abc.net.au or dm us @triplejthehookup https://www.instagram.com/triplejthehookup

Going on antidepressants can be life changing, but sometimes your sex drive can turn to shit.In this episode, how SSRIs and other medications affect your sexual performance and desire, how to find pleasure while being on meds and chat to your partner about it. If you need support contact: Lifeline: 13 11 14QLife: 1800 184 527

Going on antidepressants can be life changing, but sometimes your sex drive can turn to shit.In this episode, how SSRIs and other medications affect your sexual performance and desire, how to find pleasure while being on meds and chat to your partner about it. If you need support contact: Lifeline: 13 11 14QLife: 1800 184 527

Going on antidepressants can be life changing, but sometimes your sex drive can turn to shit. In this episode, how SSRIs and other medications affect your sexual performance and desire, how to find pleasure while being on meds and chat to your partner about it.  If you need support contact:  Lifeline: 13 11 14 QLife: 1800 184 527

1 in 10 people have it, but we still have more questions than answers - and no cure. In this episode, we're deep diving into the world of Endometriosis, a painful chronic illness that for some can take a decade to diagnose.

1 in 10 people have it, but we still have more questions than answers - and no cure. In this episode, we're deep diving into the world of Endometriosis, a painful chronic illness that for some can take a decade to diagnose.

1 in 10 people have it, but we still have more questions than answers - and no cure. In this episode, we're deep diving into the world of Endometriosis, a painful chronic illness that for some can take a decade to diagnose.

Have you been with someone who guilted you or pressured you into sex? Coercion is pretty common in relationships, and can leave you feeling really confused. We find out how to navigate it and hear the difference between compromise and being out of consent. If this episode brings up anything for you contact: 1800 RESPECT Lifeline: 13 11 14

Have you been with someone who guilted you or pressured you into sex?Coercion is pretty common in relationships, and can leave you feeling really confused.We find out how to navigate it and hear the difference between compromise and being out of consent.If this episode brings up anything for you contact:1800 RESPECTLifeline: 13 11 14

Have you been with someone who guilted you or pressured you into sex?Coercion is pretty common in relationships, and can leave you feeling really confused.We find out how to navigate it and hear the difference between compromise and being out of consent.If this episode brings up anything for you contact:1800 RESPECTLifeline: 13 11 14

We should all know now that if you're not getting an enthusiastic YES, you're probably out of consent. But consent doesn't just stop there. It's ongoing!Here's how you do it, so you can have hotter, better sex. If this episode brings up anything for you contact:1800 RESPECTLifeline: 13 11 14

We should all know now that if you're not getting an enthusiastic YES, you're probably out of consent. But consent doesn't just stop there. It's ongoing!Here's how you do it, so you can have hotter, better sex. If this episode brings up anything for you contact:1800 RESPECTLifeline: 13 11 14

We should all know now that if you're not getting an enthusiastic YES, you're probably out of consent. But consent doesn't just stop there. It's ongoing! Here's how you do it, so you can have hotter, better sex. If this episode brings up anything for you contact: 1800 RESPECT Lifeline: 13 11 14

If you've never been in love before, you might be wondering why?In this episode, we find out what's going on, how to deal if you're worried AND what it means to be 'aromantic.'

If you've never been in love before, you might be wondering why?In this episode, we find out what's going on, how to deal if you're worried AND what it means to be 'aromantic.'

If you've never been in love before, you might be wondering why? In this episode, we find out what's going on, how to deal if you're worried AND what it means to be 'aromantic.'