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We're dropping in with an episode from Sex Ed with DB, a podcast all about inclusive, pleasure-focused sex ed. In this episode, host Danielle Bezalel sits down with Dr. Emily Nagoski — bestselling author of Come As You Are — to talk about what it really takes to keep sex fun and fulfilling in long-term relationships. They cover desire myths, polyamory, and the science behind sexual connection. Plus, Emily shares her top three tips for great sex with a long-term partner, and there's a hilarious new listener story in their segment Booty Call. For more information, check out Boom! Lawyered: https://rewirenewsgroup.com/boom-lawyered/ Support the showFollow Us on Social: Twitter: @rePROsFightBack Instagram: @reprosfbFacebook: rePROs Fight Back Bluesky: @reprosfightback.bsky.social Email us: jennie@reprosfightback.comRate and Review on Apple PodcastThanks for listening & keep fighting back!
Episode Notes On E389, Andrew sits down with Samantha J. Duran, better known to the internet as A Disabled Icon. She shares with us her experience of disability, what it's like to be an influencer around disability, and I'm fairly certain we just have a lot of laughs along the way. Enjoy! You can follow Samantha here: www.instagram.com/adisabledicon Episode Sponsors Are you looking for attendant care when you need it at your convenience? Check out your team, on tap www.whimble.ca Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Order Andrew's book Notes From a Queer Cripple US: https://us.jkp.com/products/notes-from-a-queer-cripple Canada: https://www.ubcpress.ca/notes-from-a-queer-cripple UK: https://uk.jkp.com/products/notes-from-a-queer-cripple?_pos=4&_psq=notes&_ss=e&_v=1.0 Support us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Comedy on a MondayFirst a look at the events of the dayThen Amos ‘n' Andy, originally broadcast June 9, 1944, 81 years ago, Shirt Tail. The start of the program is delayed for D-Day bulletins (Communique #8) and invasion news (four and a half minutes). The case of Andy and the Comfy Collar Shirt Company. Followed by The Great Gildersleeve starring Harold Peary, originally broadcast June 9, 1946, 79 years ago, 4th of July Picnic. Gildersleeve recalls a Fourth of July picnic held by The Jolly Boys, at which they sang, "In The Good Old Summertime." Then The Eddie Cantor Show, originally broadcast June 9, 1943, 82 years ago. It's Cantor's twenty-ninth wedding anniversary. Helping him celebrate are guests: Jack Benny, George Burns, Gracie Allen, and Groucho Marx.Followed by The Adventures of Ozzie and Harriet, originally broadcast June 9, 1950, 75 years ago, The Party. Joe Randolph is throwing a party. But not an ordinary party. It's a Come As You Are party. Ozzie is bound and determined to look good when the call for the party comes. Finally, Lum and Abner, originally broadcast June 9, 1942, 83 years ago, Greeting Card Verses. The Edwards and Edwards Publishing Company has hired Mousey Gray as staff poet for the Greeting Card division. Thanks to Adele for supporting our podcast by using the Buy Me a Coffee function at http://classicradio.streamIf you like what we do here, visit our friend Jay at http://radio.macinmind.com for great old time radio shows 24 hours a day
Episode Notes On E388, Andrew chats about Whimble an on-demand attendant care program out of Ottawa, Ontario, Canada, with its founder, Emma Brown. Emma talks about how Whimble that ensures people with disabilities can receive attendant care when they want and need it. Enjoy! You can find out more about Whimble by going to www.whimble.ca Episode Sponsors Are you looking for attendant care when you need it at your convenience? Check out your team, on tap www.whimble.ca Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Order Andrew's book Notes From a Queer Cripple US: https://us.jkp.com/products/notes-from-a-queer-cripple Canada: https://www.ubcpress.ca/notes-from-a-queer-cripple UK: https://uk.jkp.com/products/notes-from-a-queer-cripple?_pos=4&_psq=notes&_ss=e&_v=1.0 Support us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Can religion ruin your sex life? This week on A Little Bit Culty, Sarah and Nippy are joined by psychotherapists and certified sex therapists Jeremiah Gibson and Julia Pastima—co-hosts of the podcast Sexvangelicals: The Sex Education the Church Didn't Want You to Have. Together, they explore how religion, especially purity culture and fundamentalist gender roles, can cause lasting damage to relationships and sexual well-being. From internalized shame to rigid scripts about gender and sex, Jeremiah and Julia explain how high-control religious environments affect intimacy long after someone leaves the faith. They also discuss the complexities of deconstructing religion as a couple, the importance of finding shared values, and why therapy can be a vital lifeline through it all. If you're trying to untangle your beliefs from your bedroom, this conversation offers both validation and guidance. This one's extra spicy, so listener discretion is advised. Resources mentioned in this episode: When Religion Hurts You by Dr. Laura Anderson available on her website. Sex, God, and the Conservative Church by Tina Schermer Sellers can be found on her website. Come As You Are and Come Together by Dr. Emily Nagoski is available on Amazon. To hear more from The, listen to their podcast, check out their blog, and visit their website. Also… let it be known that: The views and opinions expressed on A Little Bit Culty do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the podcast. Any content provided by our guests, bloggers, sponsors or authors are of their opinion and are not intended to malign any religion, group, club, organization, business individual, anyone or anything. Nobody's mad at you, just don't be a culty fuckwad. Check out our lovely sponsors Join ‘A Little Bit Culty' on Patreon Get poppin' fresh ALBC Swag Support the pod and smash this link Cult awareness and recovery resources Watch Sarah's TEDTalk CREDITS: Executive Producers: Sarah Edmondson & Anthony Ames Production Partner: Amphibian.Media Co-Creator: Jess Tardy Writer: Kristen Reiter Associate producers: Amanda Zaremba and Matt Stroud of Amphibian.Media Audio production: Red Caiman Studios Theme Song: “Cultivated” by Jon Bryant co-written with Nygel Asselin
Episode Notes On E387, Andrew reads the very first chapter of their book Notes From A Queer Cripple ahead of their book launch on May 22 from 6-8 p.m. So many people have asked about an audiobook, and I'm not sure if that will happen, so I wanted to do a cozy reading instead. Enjoy!] Episode Sponsors Are you looking for attendant care when you need it at your convenience? Check out your team, on tap www.whimble.ca Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Come to Andrew's Virtual Book Launch for Notes From A Queer Cripple on May 22, 2025 from 6-8 p.m. EST time. FREE TIX here: www.andrewgurza.com Order Andrew's book Notes From a Queer Cripple US: https://us.jkp.com/products/notes-from-a-queer-cripple Canada: https://www.ubcpress.ca/notes-from-a-queer-cripple UK: https://uk.jkp.com/products/notes-from-a-queer-cripple?_pos=4&_psq=notes&_ss=e&_v=1.0 Support us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Have you ever felt overwhelmed by your to‑do list? This episode is truly the best productivity advice you'll ever receive because it's built on a foundation of self-compassion. It's Oliver Burkeman exposes why mainstream time management hacks fail and how accepting your human finitude liberates you to be meaningfully productive.You will learn how to...redefine productivity beyond endless to‑do listsditch hustle culture, but still do what matters mostapproach time management with self-acceptance and self-compassionunlock mental shifts that free you from perfectionism, anxiety, and overwhelmcare about the world's problems without succumbing to paralyzing despairRemember: One day, you will die with an unfinished to-do list. No amount of productivity hacks will avoid that. Let this truth liberate you to focus on what truly matters and approach your workload with self-acceptance, self-compassion, and self-love.OLIVER BURKEMAN is the acclaimed author of Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals and Meditations for Mortals: Four Weeks to Embrace Your Limitations and Make Time for What Counts. His earlier works include The Antidote: Happiness for People Who Can't Stand Positive Thinking and HELP! How to Become Slightly Happier and Get a Bit More Done. For years, he penned the Guardian column “This Column Will Change Your Life,” and his writing has been featured in the Observer, The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, Psychologies magazine, and New Philosopher. A former Brooklyn resident, Oliver now lives with his wife and son in England's North York Moors.Sign up for Oliver's newsletter, The Imperfectionist Please get yourself copies of Four Thousand Weeks and Meditations for Mortals!!And if you enjoyed this episode, screenshot it and share it on social media! Make sure to tag @maryspodcastMentioned In This Episode...Productivity for Self-Lovers, Ep. 125 on Mary's Cup of Tea PodcastElizabeth Gilbert's book Eat, Pray, LoveElizabeth Gilbert's book, CommittedResonance: A Sociology of Our Relationship to the World by Hartmut RosaNew York Times article on NoveltySlow Productivity by Cal NewportAre We Still Empathic if We Don't Take Action?
Pat welcomes podcaster and friend Nick Bambach back to the show to discuss Peter Wolf's 8 solo albums!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Watching Come As You Are is a fairly chill, fun road trip film. The trailer for the film did not over-deliver, which is refreshing. The writing is quick, funny, and intimate. On a technical level the film hits the marks straight across the board. The acting is fantastic, with each actor bringing various levels of intensity and humor throughout. One of the standout lessons for screenwriting is the dialogue. It is fast, slowing only to match the moment here and there. Witty and clean, you feel like you're in the conversation most of the time. Come As You Are can be found on Tubi.
Episode Notes On E386, Andrew sits down with Erica Carson-Sami, founder of CARCO Disability Strategies as they talk about disability entrepreneurship, Cerebral Palsy (the best of the Palsies) and a whole lot more. Enjoy! You can follow and support Erica and CARCO Disability Strategies by heading over to carcodisability.ca Episode Sponsors Are you looking for attendant care when you need it at your convenience? Check out your team, on tap www.whimble.ca Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Come to Andrew's Virtual Book Launch for Notes From A Queer Cripple on May 22, 2025 from 6-8 p.m. EST time. FREE TIX here: www.andrewgurza.com Pre-order Andrew's book Notes From a Queer Cripple US: https://us.jkp.com/products/notes-from-a-queer-cripple Canada: https://www.ubcpress.ca/notes-from-a-queer-cripple UK: https://uk.jkp.com/products/notes-from-a-queer-cripple?_pos=4&_psq=notes&_ss=e&_v=1.0 Support us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
On our penultimate episode—and the final album on Kurt Cobain’s list—Martin Douglas dives into Yip/Jump Music by Daniel Johnston. Johnston rose from obscurity by self-recording (and self-dubbing) his own tapes and handing them out at McDonald’s, eventually finding a massive audience after Cobain was repeatedly spotted wearing a t-shirt featuring the cover of Hi, How Are You. Live in Seattle? Join us in the KEXP Gathering Space on April 26, 2025, for our Come As You Are live finale event. Details here. Hosts: Dusty Henry and Martin DouglasWritten & Produced by: Martin DouglasMixed & Mastered by: Matt Martin and Roddy NikpourSpecial thanks to: Isabel Khalili and Larry Mizell Jr.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
I’ve followed intimacy coach Eleanor Hadley for years now, and one of my 2025 goals was to work with her one-on-one. Fresh from our coaching time together, I invited her to come on the show to pass on some of the biggest aha moments I had with her… and also to answer your burning questions on all things pleasure, intimacy and sex. Eleanor is an award-winning certified sex educator, speaker and writer. She offers 1:1 sexuality and embodiment coaching and practical sex education courses. She has also just released a new online program called Lust & Libido, which she is very generously offering my listeners a 20% discount for. Go to eleanorhadley.com/libido and use code LORRAINE! In our conversation, Eleanor and I cover: Her background and how she came to do the work she does What exactly an intimacy coach does! The most common blocks she sees women having when it comes to intimacy Her clever metaphor for how our beliefs around sex are formed The “Madonna Whore Dichotomy” and how it relates to mothers If it’s possible to regain the spark if it's gone from a relationship The importance of setting the right context for sex, and what the "checklist" is for that The concept of brakes and accelerators when it comes to desire Sex post baby - “how to give a f*ck about giving a f*ck” (exact words from a listener Q ) The top toys she recommends A book Eleanor highly recommends is Come As You Are, by Emily Nagowski.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Episode Notes On E385, Andrew sits down with author, essayist and speaker, Jessica Slice and her new book all about being a disabled parent, Unfit Parent. We talk about disability, parenting, ableism within all that plus so much more. Enjoy! Get Unfit Parent, and follow Jessica at www.jessicaslice.com Episode Sponsors Are you looking for attendant care when you need it at your convenience? Check out your team, on tap www.whimble.ca Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Pre-order Andrew's book Notes From a Queer Cripple US: https://us.jkp.com/products/notes-from-a-queer-cripple Canada: https://www.ubcpress.ca/notes-from-a-queer-cripple UK: https://uk.jkp.com/products/notes-from-a-queer-cripple?_pos=4&_psq=notes&_ss=e&_v=1.0 Support us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Bringing a baby into the world is a life-changing experience, but it also introduces major shifts in intimacy and connection for couples. In this episode I sit down with Dr. Michele Waldron, clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist, to talk about navigating the postpartum period with intention and care.We explore:✅ Why intimacy changes after birth (hormones, exhaustion, body image, and shifting roles)✅ How to communicate openly about your needs without guilt or pressure✅ The science behind sexual desire—understanding "accelerators" and "brakes"✅ Ways to foster connection beyond sex, from mindful touch to shared rituals✅ When to seek professional support for intimacy strugglesIf you're feeling disconnected from your partner after birth, this conversation will help you feel seen, validated, and equipped with strategies to nurture your relationship.Resources & Links: AASECT - Find a Certified Sex Therapist Postpartum Support InternationalBooks mentioned:Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski Desire: An Inclusive Guide to Navigating Libido Differences in Relationships by Jennifer A. Vencill and Lauren Fogel MersyYou can learn more about Dr. Michele Waldron's work at: www.sexualhealthandhealing.org Check out the blog post for this episode HEREIf this episode was helpful, share it with an expecting parent who needs this info!Get 20% off your first monthly subscription with NEEDED Vitamins
Episode Notes On this episode, I sit down with founder and CEO of Making Space, Keely Cat Wells. We talk about everything from disability representation to Making Space. We also fan girl over Sophie Morgan and so much more in this one enjoy. You can follow Keely by going to https://keelycatwells.com Episode Sponsors: Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Pre-order Notes From A Queer Cripple Support us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
This week Brandi shares her 100 word story that she wrote at a creative writing class. The title is Dry January, and it is amazing. She shares two different daily affirmations with ways to become a better “you”. And what we have all been waiting for, chapter 2 review of “Come As You Are” by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D. Brandi tells us about the sexual temperament questionnaire and how she scored. Check out the authors website for more information on this book, www.emilynagoski.com
YOU GUYS! The EMILY NAGOSKI is on the pod, and I've never been more excited in my entire life. She is the author of Come As You Are, Come Together, Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle, and a really cool s*x expert. She walks us through how to complete the stress cycle and make way for sexy time! We touch on stress in the body, partner-caused stress, stress hitting your s*x breaks, transitioning from stressed to turned on, completing the stress cycle, acute versus chronic stress, pleasure, and what kind of s*x is worth wanting! We also nibble on Bloomington, Indiana, fan fiction, commutes, nice hotels, Residence Inns, Trader Joe's, recalled foods, Libby, and more.
Episode Notes On E383 I sit down with Youtuber, Podcaster and content creator Cassidy Huff. We talk about her experience with dwarfism, being a content creator with disabilities, relationships and so much more. Enjoy! Follow Cassidy Huff at www.cassidyhuff.com Episode Sponsors: Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Pre-order Notes From A Queer Cripple Support us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
We have structure this episode baby! First Brandi dives into the daily affirmation that is based around her impatience then she talks about the book she just started reading, Come As You Are, by Emily Nagoski Ph.D. This book has been said to transform your sex life. Brandi is only one chapter in and says she can't wait to read more. She gives an overview about the book and everything chapter one has taught her. Next thing she talks about is her Birthday Celebration that got a little too crazy. Don't forget to follow on instagram @UnforgettableTalkPodcast @BrandiMaynes
Get the Couples Therapy 101 course: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/ Join the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new Join The Couples Therapist Couch Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/295562197518469/ In this episode, Shane talks with Emily Nagoski, PhD about sex & science. Emily is a Sex Educator & Researcher and New York Times Bestselling Author of Come As You Are and other books on sex. Hear why there needs to be more sexuality education out there, the different forms of desire, how the sexual accelerator & brake work, how to bring up sex with your clients, and the most surprising findings from Emily's research. To learn more about Emily Nagoski, PhD, visit: EmilyNagoski.com Come As You Are Book Come Together Book Burnout Book Feminist Survival Project Podcast
Episode Notes On E382, we explore body grief with the author of This Body is Grief, Jayne Mattingly. She shares her experience with disability grief, we talk about what stage of disability grief I think I'm in, and so much more. Follow Jayne Mattingly and pre-order her book, This Body is Grief at www.jaynemattingly.com Episode Sponsors: Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Pre-order Notes From A Queer Cripple Support us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Sexual Accelerators and Brakes is a podcast that unpacks the key insights from Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski. We dive into the science of desire, exploring what turns you on (your accelerators) and what shuts you down (your brakes). With real talk, expert breakdowns, and practical takeaways, we help you understand your unique sexual wiring so you can cultivate a more fulfilling and confident sex life. Tune in and discover how to work with your body, not against it! Support the show Dr. Molly Hart, Pelvic Floor PT, Owner of Pelvic Balance Physical Therapy Dr. Katie Schubert, Sex Therapist, Owner of Cypress Wellness Center Email any questions to: info.sexonthefloor@gmail.com Follow Us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/cypress_wellness_center/https://www.instagram.com/pelvicbalance/ https://www.buzzsprout.com/1382578/supportDISCLAIMER: Please remember that this information is not meant to diagnose or treat any medical conditions. Please speak with your medical provider for ALL things related to your health care.
Episode Notes On E381 I talk with my friend and author of The Anti-Ableist Manifesto, Tiffany Yu. We talk about the book, politics, disability, how to be anti-ableist and so much more. Enjoy! Follow Tiffany and buy a copy of The Anti-Ableist Manifesto at www.tiffanyyu.com Episode Sponsors: Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Pre-order Notes From A Queer Cripple Support us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
In this enlightening episode of We Heart Therapy, host Dr. Anabelle Bugatti, PhD, LMFT, Certified EFT Supervisor & Therapist, and author of *Using Relentless Empathy in the Therapeutic Relationship*, engages in a compelling discussion with Sex Educator and best-selling author Emily Nagoski, Ph.D., on "The Importance of Playfulness." Together, they delve into how incorporating playfulness can enhance emotional connections and is essential to overall health and well-being. Emily Nagoski is an award-winning author and renowned sex educator with a Ph.D. in Health Behavior and a minor in Human Sexuality from Indiana University. She began her career as a peer health educator at the University of Delaware and has served as the Director of Wellness Education at Smith College. Emily is dedicated to teaching women to live with confidence and joy inside their bodies, combining sex education and stress education in her work. Her notable publications include the New York Times bestseller Come As You Are and *Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle*, co-authored with her sister, Amelia Nagoski. Her latest book, *Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections*, was published in January 2024. Learn more about Emily Nagoski and her work: Official Website: [https://www.emilynagoski.com](https://www.emilynagoski.com) Explore Emily's acclaimed books: Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life Purchase: [https://www.amazon.com/Come-As-You-Ar...](https://www.amazon.com/Come-As-You-Ar...) Audiobook: [https://www.audible.com/pd/Come-As-Yo...](https://www.audible.com/pd/Come-As-Yo...) Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle Purchase: [https://www.amazon.com/Burnout-Secret...](https://www.amazon.com/Burnout-Secret...) Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections Purchase: [https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/bo...](https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/bo...) *Discover Dr. Anabelle Bugatti's work:* Using Relentless Empathy in the Therapeutic Relationship: Connecting with Challenging and Resistant Clients Purchase: [https://www.amazon.com/Using-Relentle...](https://www.amazon.com/Using-Relentle...) *Visit Dr. Belle's (Anabelle Bugatti) websites:* We Heart Therapy: [https://www.wehearttherapy.com](https://www.wehearttherapy.com) Dr. Belle's Professional Site: [https://www.drbelle.com](https://www.drbelle.com) -Work with Dr. Belle: https://www.LasVegasMarriageCounselin... For EFT Training and Information please visit: https://www.iceeft.com https://www.drsuejohnson.com https://www.snveft.com Don't miss this opportunity to gain valuable insights into the role of playfulness in fostering deeper relationships and personal growth.
I am thrilled to welcome back Luci Lampe, a dear friend and mentor. If part of your relationship anxiety stems from lack of sexual desire — you're going to want to listen. We also discuss how neediness can be an incredible gift to awakening sexually. I've been committed to a daily self-pleasure practice through diligently taking Luci's course "Come As You Are" and have seen incredible results. I've decided to be an ambassador and highly endorse Luci's gifts in this arena ;) To enroll, use this link: https://the-wild-awakening.teachable.com/?affcode=1051804_8anrysej Email List - Stay in touch I'm going on maternity leave in January! I'll be in touch via email for a while. Please subscribe! As thanks, I'll send you my free relationship anxiety meditation to help you snap out of ruminating. Get that here. Both Feet In - Get help at your own pace Get my signature program to help you pull your other foot out the door in your relationship, open your heart, and make a decision you feel proud of either way — all in your own time. PDFs, audio/video recordings, and support from other students. Get that here. Patreon - Join my community Lastly, if you love my work, please consider sponsoring me on Patreon! I appreciate it so much. I offer discounts, some exclusive content, and a monthly community support call on Zoom where you can ask me anything, for $5-9/month, cancel anytime. Become a patron here.
Episode Notes On E380, Andrew sits down with his friend Graham Isador who talks about his experience of losing his sight, creating a podcast around it called "Short Sighted and so much more! Enjoy! Follow Graham's work at: https://www.instagram.com/presgang/ Stream Short-Sighted on CBC Premium Podcasts Episode sponsors: Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Pre-order Notes From A Queer Cripple Support us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Come As You Are' at Work (Terms & Conditions Apply) with Farah HarrisIn this episode of The WorkWell Podcast™, Jen Fisher speaks with Farah Harris, licensed psychotherapist, workplace wellbeing expert, and CEO of Working Well Daily. Her book "The Color of Emotional Intelligence" challenges us to rethink what authenticity and emotional intelligence really mean across different cultures and identities in the workplace. Episode Highlights: The hidden costs of "bringing your whole self to work" Why emotional intelligence looks different across cultures and backgrounds How our family dynamics shape our workplace emotional expressionThe real price of fitting into "professional" cultureWhat looks like "high EQ" might actually be a survival strategyWhy declaring "safe spaces" doesn't make them safeThe problem with one-size-fits-all approaches to emotional intelligenceHow power dynamics affect workplace authenticityThe importance of having "safe people" to process workplace experiences Quotable Moment: "If you can't take what you're learning outside of the four walls of the workplace, then is it truly applicable? Is it truly authentic?" - Farah Harris Lyra Lens: We're excited to introduce Lyra Lens, a new segment with our friends from Lyra Health. "The beauty of inclusion and diversity at work is shifting from 'why do you do it like that?' to 'what can I learn from someone who does it differently?'" Andrea Holman shares this and other insights in today's Lyra Lens segment, where she joins Jen Fisher to discuss cultural humility in the workplace. Resources: This episode of The WorkWell Podcast™ is made possible by Lyra Health, a premier global workforce mental health solution. Learn more at Lyrahealth.com/workwell.
Come As You Are' at Work (Terms & Conditions Apply) with Farah HarrisIn this episode of The WorkWell Podcast™, Jen Fisher speaks with Farah Harris, licensed psychotherapist, workplace wellbeing expert, and CEO of Working Well Daily. Her book "The Color of Emotional Intelligence" challenges us to rethink what authenticity and emotional intelligence really mean across different cultures and identities in the workplace. Episode Highlights: The hidden costs of "bringing your whole self to work" Why emotional intelligence looks different across cultures and backgrounds How our family dynamics shape our workplace emotional expressionThe real price of fitting into "professional" cultureWhat looks like "high EQ" might actually be a survival strategyWhy declaring "safe spaces" doesn't make them safeThe problem with one-size-fits-all approaches to emotional intelligenceHow power dynamics affect workplace authenticityThe importance of having "safe people" to process workplace experiences Quotable Moment: "If you can't take what you're learning outside of the four walls of the workplace, then is it truly applicable? Is it truly authentic?" - Farah Harris Lyra Lens: We're excited to introduce Lyra Lens, a new segment with our friends from Lyra Health. "The beauty of inclusion and diversity at work is shifting from 'why do you do it like that?' to 'what can I learn from someone who does it differently?'" Andrea Holman shares this and other insights in today's Lyra Lens segment, where she joins Jen Fisher to discuss cultural humility in the workplace. Resources: This episode of The WorkWell Podcast™ is made possible by Lyra Health, a premier global workforce mental health solution. Learn more at Lyrahealth.com/workwell.
One of the most common questions Shandy has received over the years has been around keeping the *SPARK* alive in a long term relationship. Who better to help us answer that age old question than legendary writer and sex educator Emily Nagoski, PhD! You know Emily for "Come As You Are", the mega bestseller that—no biggie—REDEFINED WOMEN'S SEXUALITY. Her latest book, "Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections", could not be more on topic for today's conversation! Today Emily teaches how to navigate mismatched libidos, expert tips for orgasming, the 4 big questions couples need to ask themselves, and how to find time for sexy time in a schedule full of to-do lists! Do not miss this one! Thank you to our sponsor! - Go to https://huel.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off your order! More Emily Nagoski: - Emily's latest book, Come Together: https://amzn.to/4hMmlMU - Website: https://www.emilynagoski.com - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/enagoski - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@emilynagoski Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Emily Nagoski! 3:29 - Long Term Relationship Sex Myths 7:34 - Mismatched Libidos 12:57 - Creating Context/The 4 Questions 15:59 - When You Wish You Wanted It More 17:43 - Sense Of Obligation 26:38 - Orgasm 41:12 - Control 43:51 - Long Term Relationships 48:10 - Body Confidence 50:36 - Emily's Vibrator Picks 52:58 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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In this episode of So I Married a Relationship Expert, Zach and Laura sit down with renowned sex educator and author Dr. Emily Nagoski and her husband, Richard Stephens, to discuss how Emily's expertise in sexuality and relationships intersects with their personal lives. Emily, known for her groundbreaking books Come As You Are and Burnout, introduces her latest work, Come Together, which focuses on sustaining sexual connection in long-term relationships. The conversation explores Emily and Richard's journey as a couple, from their serendipitous meeting on OKCupid to navigating challenges such as perimenopause, long COVID, and the demands of collaborative intimacy. Emily shares insights into her “emotional floor plan” model, which maps how emotions like care, play, and lust interact in relationships, offering couples a practical framework for enhancing connection and pleasure. Richard provides a refreshingly candid and humorous perspective on life with a relationship expert, highlighting the importance of playfulness, empathy, and teamwork. Together, they normalize the struggles that even the most informed couples face, underscoring that expertise does not eliminate life's challenges—it simply offers tools to address them. Whether you're looking to deepen intimacy or better understand the dynamics of long-term relationships, this episode is packed with valuable lessons, heartfelt stories, and laughter. Episode Highlights: Emily and Richard's Love Story: From meeting on OKCupid to their early days as a couple, they reflect on how their shared values and collaborative mindset laid the foundation for their relationship. The Emotional Floor Plan: Emily explains her innovative model for understanding how emotional states influence sexual connection and how couples can use this framework to foster intimacy. Navigating Life's Challenges: The couple discusses the impact of perimenopause, chronic illness, and other life events on their relationship, sharing how teamwork and humor helped them persevere. Insights from Come Together: Emily introduces key concepts from her new book, emphasizing the importance of pleasure over desire and the role of collaboration in overcoming relational obstacles. Empathy and Playfulness in Relationships: Richard shares how his lighthearted approach complements Emily's intensity, creating a dynamic that fosters connection and resilience. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Episode Notes On E379 I sit down with queer content creator Max Hovey as he shares his experience of ADHD and what that means for his queer experience, and I let him ask me questions. Enjoy. Follow Max here: linktr.ee/maxhovey Episode sponsors: Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Send us a textThis episode emphasizes the importance of unlearning childhood lessons about sex and body image while cultivating compassion for ourselves. Bridget shares insights from her conversation with Laura Federico, exploring themes of curiosity, self-dialogue, connection with the body, and useful resources for deeper understanding.• Unlearning misconceptions about sex and body image • Importance of compassion in self-talk • Questioning the validity of negative thoughts • Body scans as a tool for reconnection • Resources for sexual health and body scans • Exploring the emotional side of hormones and desireResources referenced in episode:- Dr. Lori Brotto and her book, "Better Sex Through Mindfulness"- The book "Come As You Are" by Emily NagoskiBUY THE CYCLE BOOK & CONNECT WITH THE AUTHORSwww.thecyclebook.comInstagram - @thecyclebookLaura Federico's website - laurafedericotherapy.comMorgan's website - morganmillermidwifery.comMEAL PREP TRAINING PROGRAMRegister here - 21-Day Meal Prep Training ProgramProgram starts Feb 3rdRegister by Feb 1stUse code "2025" to save $20.25JOIN THE MEAL PREP TRAINING PROGRAMRegister here (by Feb 2nd)Code "2025" for $20.25 off registrationStart date: Feb 3rdCONNECT WITH BRIDGET Email listInstagramBook a free consult callWebsite
Send us a textIn this episode, we dive deep into the relationship between hormonal health and sexual desire, exploring how mental and emotional factors play crucial roles in our sexuality. We discuss the importance of cycle tracking, body connection, and the inevitable intersection of trauma and self-discovery. • Understanding psychotherapy and its role in sexual health • The barriers preventing clarity in sexual desires • Importance of self-compassion in body awareness • The impact of hormonal cycles on libido and desire • Recommendations for reconnecting with one's body • Cycle tracking as a tool for understanding sexuality Resources referenced in episode:- Dr. Lori Brotto and her book, "Better Sex Through Mindfulness"- The book "Come As You Are" by Emily NagoskiBUY THE CYCLE BOOK & CONNECT WITH THE AUTHORSwww.thecyclebook.comInstagram - @thecyclebookLaura Federico's website - laurafedericotherapy.comMorgan's website - morganmillermidwifery.comMEAL PREP TRAINING PROGRAMRegister here - 21-Day Meal Prep Training ProgramProgram starts Feb 3rdRegister by Feb 1stUse code "2025" to save $20.25JOIN THE MEAL PREP TRAINING PROGRAMRegister here (by Feb 2nd)Code "2025" for $20.25 off registrationStart date: Feb 3rdCONNECT WITH BRIDGET Email listInstagramBook a free consult callWebsite
Episode Notes For E378, Andrew unpacks whether or not the most common New Year Resolutions are actually accessible. We explore why drinking more water may not actually be super accessible, and we talk about why decluttering is full of access issues + we explore some sexy resolutions and how they can be accessible (or not!) too. Enjoy! Episode Sponsors Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DISABILITYAD20 at Checkout. www.cloneawilly.com Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Join the Patreon and get the show days early and ad free at www.Patreon.com/disabilityafterdark Pre-order my forthcoming book, "Notes From A Queer Cripple: How to Cultivate Queer Disabled Joy (and Be Hot While Doing It!) on Amazon This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Episode Notes On E377, I sit down with creator of "Access Intimacy" Mia Mingus. We talk about what access intimacy is, what it feels like; the links between abled supremacy and white supremacy, disability justice + so much more. Enjoy! Follow Mia Mingus at www.miamingus.com Episode Sponsors Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DISABILITYAD20 at Checkout. www.cloneawilly.com Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Join the Patreon and get the show days early and ad free at www.Patreon.com/disabilityafterdark This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
In this episode, Charles and Dan tackle the often-overlooked topic of female anatomy with a mix of humor and practical insights. From debunking common myths to encouraging open communication in the bedroom, this episode dives deep into the anatomy lessons many of us missed in school. If you're looking to strengthen intimacy, increase your confidence, and become a better partner, this one's for you.
In this episode, we tackle one of the most vulnerable and misunderstood areas of marriage—intimacy. Using insights from renowned experts like Dr. John Gottman, Vanessa Marin, and biblical principles, we dive into the common challenges couples face in their sex lives, the role of stress and unspoken expectations, and how intimacy evolves over time. Whether it's mismatched libidos, the impact of life changes, or cultural taboos around discussing sex, we provide actionable steps and strategies to overcome barriers and build both emotional and physical intimacy. By the end of this episode, you'll feel equipped to deepen your connection and create a more fulfilling relationship. What We'll Cover: Understanding Common Barriers:How stress, unspoken expectations, and cultural taboos impact intimacy in marriage. Mismatched Libidos:What differing sex drives mean, how to compromise on frequency, and the importance of connection over numbers. Biblical Misconceptions:Addressing common biblical misunderstandings about sex and embracing the truth. Building Emotional Intimacy:Why emotional safety is the foundation of physical intimacy and practical ways to nurture it. Reigniting Passion:Ideas for spicing up your sex life and reigniting the flame after years of marriage. Navigating Conversations About Sex:How to talk about intimacy when one partner sees the topic as taboo or uncomfortable. Life Changes and Libido:Why libido changes (e.g., after childbirth, menopause) and how to work through them as a team. Breaking Unspoken Expectations:Identifying hidden assumptions and how to communicate needs effectively. Listener Takeaways: Practical exercises for building emotional intimacy, like “listening dates” and daily appreciations. Examples of healthy boundaries and how to have meaningful conversations about intimacy. Real-life strategies for reigniting passion, even in the busiest seasons of life. Encouragement to embrace open communication, respect, and connection. Resources Mentioned: Dr. John Gottman's research on intimacy and emotional connection. Vanessa Marin's insights into understanding mismatched libidos and spicing up your sex life. Relevant biblical verses that highlight the importance of love, respect, and physical intimacy in marriage. Suggested books: The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by Dr. John Gottman and Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski. Engage with Us: What challenges have you faced in your intimacy journey? Share your story or questions by sending me a DM or email—I'd love to hear from you and may feature your question in a future episode. Don't forget to follow me on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration for building a stronger marriage. Email: coaching@recognizingpotential.com IG, TT- @divorceproofmarriage Facebook- www.facebook.com/divorce.proof.marriage Work With Me:If you and your partner are ready to break through the barriers in your marriage and build deeper intimacy, my 1:1 coaching program is designed to help you do just that. Let's work together to create a relationship where both emotional and physical intimacy thrive. Click here to learn more and schedule your first session.
Tune into this repeat episode as Kyle and Alana chat about ways to make intimacy more of a priority this Christmas! Spoiler alert: it starts with decreasing the amount of stress in your life!! Merry Christmas, from the KS Team!! Praying this Christmas is filled with love, joy, and Jesus. Links from today's episode: Come As You Are book Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Episode Notes On E376 I sit down with queer content creator and author Matt Baume to talk about his experience with ADHD and nerve pain. We explore how that plays a role in his work and his queerness + so much more. Enjoy. Follow Matt Baume: https://www.mattbaume.com/ Episode Sponsors Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DISABILITYAD20 at Checkout. www.cloneawilly.com Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Join the Patreon and get the show days early and ad free at www.Patreon.com/disabilityafterdark This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
The HuSTLe City duo continues to give the record label Audacity Music Group its flowers by doing another album review of "Come As You Are" by Hills.
In this episode, Elle and Vee dive deep with a psychotherapist who they refer to as Wonder Woman on this episode for the sake of anonymity. With specializations in sex therapy and ketamine-assisted psychotherapy, the girls pick her brain on everything from desire discrepancy to the most common issues within couples, from what a ketamine-assisted psychotherapy session actually looks like to neuroplasticity. Psychotherapy vs. Psychoanalysis: what is the difference? (1:58)Top reasons couples seek sex therapy counseling: both gay and cis-het couples, and individuals. (5:15)Spontaneous desire vs responsive desire: a dive into libido differences and desire discrepancy. (6:25)Is there a way to get spontaneous desire back? Esther Perel's Mating in Captivity. (13:33)The Dual Control Model (Sexual Brakes and Accelerators): a concept from Emily Nagoski's book Come As You Are and her 2nd book Come Together. (20:57)Kink and shame: how to bring you kinky desires up to your partner and working through internalized shame. (26:12)Kink as shadows: how roleplaying can help one work through shame with reframing and control. (30:02)Kink isn't always about processing something. Heteroflexible male-male play as a “taboo kink”. (31:27)Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy: how to use it properly, and how it's being done irresponsibly. (35:17)How neuroplasticity works in the brain using the snow track analogy by Michael Pollan, author of the book How to Change Your Mind. (47:24)Ketamine Assisted Couples Psychotherapy. (53:02)Final Nugget: Keeping the idea of play and pleasure at the forefront. (53:57)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!
Episode Notes On E375, I sit down with my friend Stella as we discuss why she uses the term severely disabled, why her wheelchair isn't always freedom for her + so much more. Enjoy! You can follow Stella here: https://www.instagram.com/stella.and.venus/ Episode Sponsors Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DISABILITYAD20 at Checkout. www.cloneawilly.com Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Join the Patreon and get the show days early and ad free at www.Patreon.com/disabilityafterdark This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
I don't know how I've got 110 episodes without talking about sex but we're fixing that today! Alex Baynesworth is back on the show for a 3rd time and we are talking all things sex and intimacy. We'll get into some lesser known topics around pleasure and desire types, how Alex helps women who have never had an orgasm, why toys are your teammates, and more! Time Stamps: (0:38) Alex Is Back and We're Talking Sex (7:04) Talking About Sex With Friends (10:22) For Those Who Don't Know About My Dad (16:45) Misconceptions Around Female Pleasure and Desire Types (27:37) Intentional Intimacy (31:05) Juggling Everything in Life and Wanting Sex (37:38) Heterosexual vs Homosexual Space and Desire (40:02) Helping Women Who Have Never Had An Orgasm (44:58) Speaking Up For Things You Enjoy (53:00) Toys Are Your Teammates (58:35) Where To Start (1:01:30) Marvin Gaye Playing (1:03:42) Where To Find Alex --------------------- Instagram - @nobayne_nogayne Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski Ph.D. --------------------- Stay Connected: Instagram: @alyciaisrael Facebook: Alycia Israel Apparel: Be Your Own Daddy
Episode Notes On E374, I sit down with fellow Canadian, Rheumatoid Arthritis Advocate, Chronic Eileen. We talk about her experience of rheumatoid arthritis; we learn how fatigue affects her, how to be a parent with rheum, we talk about sex and rheum, the darker shade of patient advocacy and more. Enjoy! Follow Eileen here: linktr.ee/chroniceileen Episode Sponsors Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DISABILITYAD20 at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Submit your sexy, sultry, seated disability poems to the upcoming Eff-able Anthology. More info can be found at www.effable.uk Join the Patreon and get the show days early and ad free at www.Patreon.com/disabilityafterdark This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Episode Notes On E373 I sit down with an old school friend Hollis as we talk about his experience of congenital Muscular Dystrophy, why he lives in a hospital, his podcast 21st Century Disability and so much more. This was a fun one indeed. Apologies for the audio glitches! Follow Hollis and his podcast here: www.21stcenturydisability.com Episode Sponsors Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DISABILITYAD20 at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Join the Patreon and get the show days early and ad free at www.Patreon.com/disabilityafterdark This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
I'm beyond thrilled to welcome back to the pod, the brilliant Dr. Emily Nagoski, author of the groundbreaking books "Come As You Are" and her newest release "Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections." In this intimate and enlightening episode, Emily breaks down what it really takes to maintain a vibrant sexual connection in long-term relationships – and it might not be what you think! We dive deep into: • The 7 emotional "rooms" that influence our sexual experiences • Why pleasure matters more than desire • How to navigate body changes and transitions while maintaining intimacy • The surprising truth about what makes sex "magnificent" (hint: it's not what most people assume!) Emily also shares her own experiences, including how writing her books impacted her personal relationships and what she learned about rekindling intimate connections during challenging times. Her practical wisdom about navigating perimenopause, body image, and relationship transitions is both validating and empowering. For anyone struggling to find their way to pleasure in these challenging times (and let's be honest - when isn't it "these times"?), this episode offers hope, practical tools, and permission to prioritize pleasure as essential nourishment for our relationships and wellbeing. Whether you're in a long-term partnership or simply want to better understand your own sexual wellbeing, this conversation offers invaluable insights about creating lasting intimate connections that can weather life's many changes. Ready to transform your intimate life? Listen to the full episode above, and don't forget to check out Emily's new book "Come Together" for even more wisdom about creating the sexual connection you desire. Links Mentioned: Find more from Dr. Emily Nagoski at EmilyNagoski.com and sign up for her newsletter! Books: Come As You Are, Burnout, and Come Together If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship, head over to www.amandatesta.com/thegoods to get started. Sign up here to receive your complimentary Sensual Self Discovery Kit Journal, Self Love Meditation, and Sensual Activation Practice
Episode Notes On E372, I sit down with fellow Canadian Disability Advocate & Entrepreneur of Seated Perspectives, Ali Cameron. We talk all things disability, Ali shares her experiences of ableism in the workplace, finding disabled community, and we gush about Seated Perspectives, her really cool brand + so much more! Enjoy! Follow Ali here: bio.site/seated.perspectives Episode Sponsors Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DISABILITYAD20 at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Submit your queer, crip, sexy poems to www.effable.uk Join the Patreon and get the show days early and ad free at www.Patreon.com/disabilityafterdark This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Episode Notes On E371, I sit down with disabled icon; presenter, writer and all around disabled powerhouse, Sophie Morgan. We talk about everything from the Paralympics to the word Cripple + Rights on Flights, activism and Making Space + so much more. This is the first part of an eventual 2 part episode! Enjoy! Follow Sophie: bio.site/sophielmorgan Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code ANDREWGURZA at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Submit your sexy, sultry, seated disability poems to the upcoming Eff-able Anthology. More info can be found at www.effable.uk Join the Patreon and get the show days early and ad free at www.Patreon.com/disabilityafterdark This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Emily Nagoski is a best-selling author, researcher, and sex educator. Emily studied psychology in college, and a fateful job as a peer health educator drew her immediately to the field of sex education and violence prevention. She went on to receive a master's degree in counseling psychology and a PhD in health behavior. After working as a researcher at the famed Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction, she took a job at Smith College, where she lectured and was the director of wellness education. After teaching a class on women's sexuality, the thing her students said they took away most from the class was that their bodies were normal. She knew that she was onto something powerful and wrote Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life to help women understand their own sexuality. The book was a huge hit, and eventually, Emily left her job to write and speak full-time. Over the last five years, Emily has written two more books, including this year's Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections.National Domestic Violence Hotlinewww.ndvh.org1-800-799-SAFE (7233)TTY 1-800-787-3224National Sexual Assault Hotlinewww.rainn.org1-800-656-HOPE (4673)Love Is Respectwww.loveisrespect.org1-866-331-9474TTY 1-866-331-8453Text: loveis to 22522Chat Online:www.loveisrespect.orgThese resources were sourced from futureswithoutviolence.org.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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