Podcast appearances and mentions of wendy paris

In anticipation of Leah's elopement, she and Rachel discuss wedding celebrations, traditions, and rituals. Check out what we talked about: Books mentioned: "Emily Post's Wedding Planner" by Peggy Post. "The Knot Guide to Wedding Vows and Traditions: Readings, Rituals, Music, Dances, Speeches, and Toasts" by Carley Roney and "The New American Wedding: Ritual and Style in a Changing Culture" by Diane Meier Delaney. "The Green Bride Guide: How to Create an Earth-Friendly Wedding on Any Budget" by Kate Harrison and "Diane Warner's Complete Book of Wedding Vows" by Diane Warner. "Words for the Wedding: Creative Ideas for Choosing and Using Hundreds of Quotations to Personalize Your Vows, Toasts, Invitations & More" by Wendy Paris and Andrew Chesler. "Celebrate Everything! Fun Ideas to Bring Your Parties to Life" by Darcy Miller and "Lauren Conrad Celebrate" by Lauren Conrad. "Barn Weddings" by Maggie Lord. Past Sadness by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5024-past-sadness License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license To access complete transcripts for all episodes of Not Your Mother's Library, please visit: oakcreeklibrary.org/podcast Check out books, movies, and other materials through the Milwaukee County Federated Library System: countycat.mcfls.org hoopladigital.com wplc.overdrive.com oakcreeklibrary.org

On this episode of Sing It, Sister! Clare and Ellen discusses the 1954 musical movie Seven Brides for Seven Brothers. There's singing and dancing and sexism and we talk about it all!    Show Notes: HONOR NATIVE LAND: A GUIDE AND CALL TO ACKNOWLEDGMENT from the US Department of Arts and Culture Here are some resources about your Lizard Brain      - Why We Want Who We Want, from Psychology Today by Wendy Paris, July 2017      - Overpowering Your Lizard Brain by Seth Godin, via YouTube  

S4 E03: In this episode, meet Hillary Frank, creator of the popular parenting podcast “The Longest Shortest Time,” self-described "professional soul-searcher" Megan Griswold, and Jane Mosbacher Morris, the Founder and CEO of TO THE MARKET. Each of these women were inspired to share insights they’ve learned in order to help listeners and improve the world around them. And, learn why one author wants to take her dad with her on her book tour. Enjoy! Weird Parenting Wins by Hillary Frank: https://www.penguinrandomhouseaudio.com/book/563936/weird-parenting-wins/ The Book of Help by Megan Griswold: https://www.penguinrandomhouseaudio.com/book/592246/the-book-of-help/ Buy the Change You Want to See by Jane Mosbacher Morris with Wendy Paris: https://www.penguinrandomhouseaudio.com/book/567244/buy-the-change-you-want-to-see/

The word alone carries tremendous negativity, judgment and fear and divorce is commonly portrayed in the media as hostile and high-conflict. Amicable or civil divorces aren’t considered news unless there’s a novelty factor associated with them like Gynweth Paltrow’s “conscious uncoupling.”Often, our own beliefs and expectations around divorce pushes us to stay in unhealthy relationships and we procrastinate or delay ending our marriage.What if there was another way?What if there was a way you could break up without hostility?What if you could get divorced without spending a ton on legal fees and without it consuming all your emotional energy?Well, it’s possible and there are loads of resources readily available to help you do that. It starts by setting the intention to have a good divorce.Joining Mandy to discuss the good divorce is Wendy Paris, journalist, communications professional and author of Splitopia: Dispatches From Today’s Good Divorce and How To Part Well. Wendy is also the creator of the website Splitopia – a comprehensive divorce wellness website. You can also learn how to manage the practicalities and logistics of getting divorced from Mandy’s online divorce coaching program, MyDivorcePal.com. And check out Mandy’s blog – SinceMyDivorce.com where you’ll find a write of this show.

Do you want to break up from a relationship but you don’t know how? As Neal Sedaka said: “Breaking up is hard to do!” We are fortunate to have Wendy Paris, author of Splitopia. She will share how to achieve a happier split with our significant other!

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When Wendy Paris announced her trial separation to her liberal friends in New York City, she was surprised by the incredibly negative feedback she received. But when she unpacked their predictions of doom and gloom, Wendy realized that their fears around divorce derived from the facts of an earlier era, before no fault filing was an option. Wendy and her ex-husband moved slowly, leveraging alternative dispute resolution to collaborate on a settlement that set them both up for success. Wendy has worked as a journalist and editor for 20-plus years, contributing content to media outlets including The New York Times, Quartz, The Guardian, Washington Post and Marketplace Radio, among many others. She currently blogs for Psychology Today, Huffington Post and Splitopia, the divorce wellness platform she founded in conjunction with her book, Splitopia: Dispatches from Today’s Good Divorce and How to Part Well. Wendy lives in Santa Monica, California, with her son—just a few blocks up the beach from her ex-husband. Today, Wendy joins Katherine to share how her own experience with divorce inspired her to write Splitopia. She explains how our fears around divorce stem from the facts of an earlier era and the bizarre juxtaposition between society’s glamorization of marriage AND valorization of independence. Wendy discusses the need to inform divorcing couples of the collaborative options available to them early in the process and offers insight around how she and her husband navigated an amicable end to their marriage. Listen in and learn how to commit to self-compassion during the divorce process, viewing yourself with passion and forgiveness. Topics Covered Wendy’s friends’ surprisingly negative reaction to her trial separation How our fears around divorce stem from the facts of an earlier era The bias resulting from conflated statistics promoted by pro-marriage pundits Society’s glamorization of marriage vs. the valorization of independence The need to inform divorcing couples of collaborative options early in the process Wendy’s surprise around liking her ex-husband in the aftermath of divorce Wendy’s insight on slowing down the divorce process How Wendy’s ex-husband reframes divorce as a ‘success that ran its course’ The ‘seven principles of parting’ detailed in Splitopia How to commit to self-compassion in the divorce process Universality of experience Practice mindfulness View self with understanding, forgiveness Connect with Wendy Paris Wendy’s Website: http://www.splitopia.com/ Resources Splitopia: Dispatches from Today’s Good Divorce and How to Part Well by Wendy Paris: https://www.amazon.com/Splitopia-Dispatches-Todays-Good-Divorce-ebook/dp/B010MHAH08/ref=asap_bc?ie=UTF8 University of Arizona Self-Compassion Study: http://citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/viewdoc/download?doi=10.1.1.422.2124&rep=rep1&type=pdf Self-Compassion with Dr. Kristin Neff: http://selfcompassion.org/ Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself by Dr. Kristin Neff: https://www.amazon.com/Self-Compassion-Proven-Power-Being-Yourself/dp/0061733520 Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@westchesterfamilylaw.com Call (914) 738-7765

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Kathryn interviews Pulitzer Prize-winning science reporter Amy Ellis Nutt, author of “Becoming Nicole: The Transformation of an American Family”. This is the inspiring true story of a transgender girl, her identical twin brother, and an ordinary American family's extraordinary journey to understand, nurture, and celebrate the uniqueness in us all. Becoming Nicole was named “One of the Ten Best Books of the Year” by People Magazine and Men's Journal. br Kathryn also interviews journalist and essayist Wendy Paris MFA, author of “Splitopia: Dispatches from Today's Good Divorce and How to Part Well”. Splitopia chronicles Paris' own divorce in real time; shares insights from happily divorced couples, international experts, and the latest research; and follows her own divorced parents' possible reunion. Her work on marriage, relationships and contemporary culture appears in The NY Times, Psychology Today, Glamour, Brides and Salon.com.

Kathryn interviews Pulitzer Prize-winning science reporter Amy Ellis Nutt, author of “Becoming Nicole: The Transformation of an American Family”. This is the inspiring true story of a transgender girl, her identical twin brother, and an ordinary American family's extraordinary journey to understand, nurture, and celebrate the uniqueness in us all. Becoming Nicole was named “One of the Ten Best Books of the Year” by People Magazine and Men's Journal. br Kathryn also interviews journalist and essayist Wendy Paris MFA, author of “Splitopia: Dispatches from Today's Good Divorce and How to Part Well”. Splitopia chronicles Paris' own divorce in real time; shares insights from happily divorced couples, international experts, and the latest research; and follows her own divorced parents' possible reunion. Her work on marriage, relationships and contemporary culture appears in The NY Times, Psychology Today, Glamour, Brides and Salon.com.

Advice columnist Carolyn Hax and cartoonist Nick Galifinakis are ex-spouses who work together every day and manage to enjoy it. Lisa Bonos chats with them and with Wendy Paris, about how to survive a divorce.

April 5, 2016 Marijuana News Chris Walsh & Splitopia Wendy Paris

  Wendy Paris, journalist and mom, joins me to talk about the revolution afoot: There are in fact good divorces, and she can tell you how to have one. In her new and wonderful book, Splitopia, Paris explains the elements of a good divorce, how to achieve them, and the beauty of normalizing the end of a marriage. In this episode she shares: How to go through the inevitable freak-out of divorce without destroying your life. The balance between self-love, and self-reflective, brutal honesty. Dating, sex and love after your marriage shits the bed. Why and how to avoid spending your retirement and kids' college fund on a divorce lawyer.   Have a listen - she's delightful, wise and offers the roadmap for ushering this inevitable life event into the 21st century and beyond.

Join The LOVE Cafe on Facebook Visit New LOVE Cafe Web Site Wendy Paris drops into the LOVE Cafe Radio scene with Host Scott Cluthe LIVE 2 Nite 7 EST- 6 CST- 5 MST- 4 PST Call in: 347-308-8478 SPLITOPIA:  DISPATCHES FROM TODAY’S GOOD DIVORCE AND HOW TO PART WELL  by Wendy Paris While divorce has improved dramatically for many people over the past 40 years, our ideas and attitudes about it remain stuck in the past.  A belief that divorce must be a disaster for all can create just that outcome—and lead to the escalating fighting, scarred children and six-figure court battles we still see. It’s time to update our understanding of divorce and use the tools, cooperative legal processes and support available today to get through this tough time with compassion, self-compassion and love. We need to harness our knowledge and the resources available to better protect our children, and respect our families—in all their myriad forms.  Splitopia can help. ABOUT THE AUTHOR Wendy Paris is a journalist and personal essayist whose work on marriage, relationships and divorce has appeared in The New York Times, Psychology Today, The New York Observer,and is the co-author of the perennial-selling wedding-planning guide, Words for the Wedding (Perigee 2011; original edition 2001), and the author of a humorous book of dating advice, Happily Ever After: The Fairy Tale Formula for Lasting Love (HarperCollins, 2002). 

Author and journalist Wendy Paris talks about good divorce and her book "Splitopia: Dispatches from Today's Good Divorce and How to Part Well." Paris, who has written for the New York Times, Washington Post, and New York Observer talks about her own experience with divorce, why endings aren't failures, how to be your highest self in the midst of a painful divorce by following her 7 principles of parting. She also touches on the topic of dealing with friends (divvying up?) post-divorce, throwing divorce parties, counseling and prenups, and the consciously uncoupled: Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin and other celebrities whose divorces were not the worst things ever, like Jennifer Gardner. 

American attitudes toward marriage have undergone a seismic shift in recent decades. Gay marriage has become mainstream, nearly half of American households have female breadwinners, and gendered expectations of domestic roles have changed as well. Yet our attitudes toward divorce remain surprisingly unchanged. Even as marriage rates overall have fallen and long-term unmarried partnerships are increasingly accepted, ending a marriage is still widely regarded as a failure and is stigmatized accordingly. But divorce does not look as it once did. Changes in laws, customs, technology, psychology and child development research, and the evolving roles of men and women in the last decades have greatly improved uncoupling for many. And great knowledge of what helps both the adults and children involved in divorce have led to positively restructured families on the other side of marriage. Is there such a thing as a good divorce? And have our courts, public policies, or even pop culture caught up? Is a good divorce available to all, or just the highly educated or well-to-do? Join New America and Wendy Paris, author ofSplitopia: Dispatches from Today's Good Divorce and How to Part Well, for a conversation about new models of divorce and their impact on the families involved and in culture at large. A Broadly Speaking Event