Podcasts about invitations

Humans, walking and taking bags of water and trace chemicals that we are, have managed to convince well-organized sand to pretend to think like us.” - Ethan Mollick In this episode, Ana Melikian challenges the common "us vs. them" mindset when it comes to technology, especially in the age of Artificial Intelligence. Ana takes listeners on a journey through humanity's long history with technology, highlighting how our survival and progress have always been intertwined with new tools—from controlling fire to inventing computers and now, navigating the waves of AI. Ana shares why seeing humanity and technology as allies, rather than adversaries, is essential. She encourages listeners to drop the outdated "humans vs. machines" narrative and instead adopt an experimentation mindset, inviting AI to the table as a collaborator. Drawing wisdom from Ethan Mollick's "Co-Intelligence," Ana presents a practical framework for thriving in this era: always invite AI to the table, be the human in the loop, treat AI like a person (but guide it with intention), and remember that today's AI will soon be considered primitive. Throughout the episode, Ana offers insightful historical context and practical advice for increasing your "AI literacy" without getting overwhelmed or burned out. She emphasizes that we don't need to face the AI revolution alone—working as a team is key to using these powerful tools to shape a better future. Let's dive in! This week on the MINDSET ZONE podcast: 00:00 Introduction and Expanding Our View of Technology 01:31 The Essential Mindset Shift: Humanity and Technology as Allies 03:33 Technology's Deep Roots in Human History 07:58 The Emergence of AI in Our Everyday Lives 10:09 Shift from “Us vs. Them” to “Teamwork with Technology” 12:17 Learning AI as a Strategic Advantage 13:41 Combating Overwhelm: Teamwork and Shared Learning 15:27 Ethan Mollick's Framework for Co-Intelligence 18:49 Practical Prompts: How to Effectively Engage with AI 22:30 Embracing Growth: The Future of AI Evolution 23:33 Reflections, Invitations, and Looking Ahead 25:02 Resources, Book Info, and Gratitude Meet Your Host: Ana Melikian, Ph.D., advises leaders on how to amplify impact while avoiding burnout. She is passionate about teaching others how to unlock their human potential using simple and powerful approaches such as her P.I.E. method.

In this episode, Nick Smoot sits down with Javis Cornett, Audience Development Director at Hagadone Media, to announce a groundbreaking partnership between Build_ and The Coeur d'Alene Press. This isn't just a media collab. It's the birth of a modern business community—where local news, startups, mentorship, and creativity converge to reshape the future of North Idaho.Whether you've got a dream project, a big idea, or you're just looking for your tribe—this episode lays out how the new Build_ membership gives you the tools, access, and support to actually build it.

Ever been stuck in a never-ending conversation and felt trapped? Learn 14 powerful, graceful, and guilt-free ways to end conversations you don't want to be in without burning bridges. Whether it's saying no to invitations, stopping gossip, ending endless email chains, or gracefully exiting networking conversations, this episode covers it all. Hear practical tips for maintaining your boundaries with assertiveness and kindness.   0:00 Introduction to Graceful Exits 01:56 Personal Struggles with Ending Conversations 03:57 Saying No to Invitations 05:37 Interrupting Politely 07:28 Ending Phone Calls Gracefully 08:45 Managing Endless Email Chains 11:33 Exiting Networking Conversations 15:17 Dealing with Talkative Individuals 16:28 Handling Unexpected Calls 19:34 Managing Complainers 21:44 Ending Zoom Calls Smoothly 22:33 Handling Quick Questions 24:07 Avoiding Gossip 25:30 Declining Coffee Invitations 26:32 Protecting Your Expertise 27:31 Conclusion and Further Resources     ✅ Free Newsletter: https://assertiveway.com/newsletter/   ✅ Free Resources FREE Training & presentation on How To Be Assertive Without Being Rude, Aggressive, or Offensive: https://assertiveway.aweb.page/assertivenotrude  30 min Amplify Voices Strategy Session: https://calendly.com/assertiveway/amplifyvoicesstrategycall Sign Up for Our Email Newsletter: https://assertiveway.com/newsletter/ Ivna's Unapologetic Voice Stories: https://assertiveway.aweb.page/ivnastories From Rambling To Articulate PDF Guide: https://assertiveway.aweb.page/articulate Podcast episode lists by theme: https://assertiveway.aweb.page/speakyourmindunapologeticallytopics Women in Tech Leaders Podcast Interviews: https://assertiveway.com/womenintechpodcastguests/ Podcast Summaries & More Email Newsletter: https://assertiveway.com/newsletter Our Linkedin Blog Articles:  https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/6863880009879306240/   TEDx Talk How To Speak Up Safely When It's Psychologically Unsafe: https://assertiveway.aweb.page/safespeak 10 Day free Assertive And Liked Challenge: https://assertiveway.aweb.page/beassertiveandliked Assertiveness free training: https://assertiveway.aweb.page/getahead Other Free resources: https://assertiveway.com/free/ Podcast page: https://assertiveway.com/podcast-speak-your-mind-unapologetically/   ✅ Listen on the Speak Your Mind Unapologetically podcast on Apple Itunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/speak-your-mind-unapologetically-podcast/id1623647915      ✅ Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6L1myPkiJXYf5SGrublYz2   ✅ Order our book, ‘Unapologetic Voice: 101 Real-World Strategies for Brave Self Advocacy & Bold Leadership' where each strategy is also a real story: https://www.amazon.com/Unapologetic-Voice-Real-World-Strategies-Leadership-ebook/dp/B0CW2X4WWL/   ✅ Follow the show host, Ivna Curi, on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ivna-curi-mba-67083b2/     ✅ Request A Customized Workshop For Your Team And Company:  http://assertiveway.com/workshops   ✅ Work With Us Workshops: http://assertiveway.com/workshops   Break The Silence: https://assertiveway.com/communicationculturetransformation/ Services: https://assertiveway.com/offerings Contact me: info@assertiveway.com or ivnacuri@assertiveway.com Contact me on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ivna-curi-mba-67083b2 Website: https://assertiveway.com   ✅ Support The Podcast Rate the podcast on apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/speak-your-mind-unapologetically-podcast/id1623647915 Ask me your question for the next episode: https://www.speakpipe.com/speakyourmindquestion

Breaking free from hesitation to confidently invite others into your wellness business can change everything. It's all about the invitation. Your potential clients are overwhelmed with options; make sure they know you're the solution they've been looking for.Join us in rethinking how wellness entrepreneurs grow. It's not about twisting arms; it's about making clear, confident invitations that highlight your transformation power.Key Takeaways: The "Confidential Invitation Framework" helps create authentic and comfortable methods for inviting clients to wellness services, emphasizing clarity on transformations offered.Making consistent, value-based invitations is crucial for turning social media engagement and educational content into tangible business opportunities.Transitioning from casual conversations to direct offers, particularly at workshops or networking events, drastically improves client conversion and retention.Addressing fears around rejection and self-doubt can empower entrepreneurs to be confident while inviting clients, which leads to positive business outcomes.Regularly expressing the value and results of services through optimized emails, Instagram posts, and consultations can establish a strong, reliable client base.Be sure to tune into this full episode to explore how these transformative techniques can empower you as a wellness entrepreneur and equip you with the confidence to extend impactful invitations.Follow me on Instagram →  igniteyourwellnessbusinessReady to work with me? Book a coaching call on my website!→ https://igniteurwellness.com/business-coach-for-health-coaches/Get the free guide with the 6 Figure Workshop System so you can sign more wellness clients into your business: https://igniteurwellness.com/6-figure-lead-generation-workshops/

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Phil Stutz is the legendary psychiatrist, author, and protagonist in the Netflix documentary “Stutz.” Alongside co-author and writer Elise Loehnen, they explore their new book “True & False Magic.”   This conversation delves into “Part X”—the destructive force within us all—along with Universe 1 vs. Universe 2 thinking, and how pain, uncertainty, and constant work serve as unavoidable portals to growth. Together, they present actionable tools and a profound spiritual framework for living fully.   Along the way, Phil illustrates concepts with hand-drawn diagrams, while Elise translates these insights into everyday practice.    Their complementary wisdom offers a rare treasure—an invitation to a more expansive way of being. Enjoy!   Show notes + MORE Watch on YouTube Newsletter Sign-Up   Today's Sponsors: iFit: Use the code RICHROLL to get 10% off any purchase of $999+

6 Then I heard what seemed to be the voice of a great multitude, like the roar of many waters and like the sound of mighty peals of thunder, crying out,“Hallelujah! For the Lord our God     the Almighty reigns. 7 Let us rejoice and exult     and give him the glory, for the marriage of the Lamb has come,     and his Bride has made herself ready; 8 it was granted her to clothe herself     with fine linen, bright and pure”—for the fine linen is the righteous deeds of the saints.9 And the angel said to me, “Write this: Blessed are those who are invited to the marriage supper of the Lamb.” And he said to me, “These are the true words of God.” 10 Then I fell down at his feet to worship him, but he said to me, “You must not do that! I am a fellow servant with you and your brothers who hold to the testimony of Jesus. Worship God.” For the testimony of Jesus is the spirit of prophecy.11 Then I saw heaven opened, and behold, a white horse! The one sitting on it is called Faithful and True, and in righteousness he judges and makes war. 12 His eyes are like a flame of fire, and on his head are many diadems, and he has a name written that no one knows but himself. 13 He is clothed in a robe dipped in blood, and the name by which he is called is The Word of God. 14 And the armies of heaven, arrayed in fine linen, white and pure, were following him on white horses. 15 From his mouth comes a sharp sword with which to strike down the nations, and he will rule them with a rod of iron. He will tread the winepress of the fury of the wrath of God the Almighty. 16 On his robe and on his thigh he has a name written, King of kings and Lord of lords.17 Then I saw an angel standing in the sun, and with a loud voice he called to all the birds that fly directly overhead, “Come, gather for the great supper of God, 18 to eat the flesh of kings, the flesh of captains, the flesh of mighty men, the flesh of horses and their riders, and the flesh of all men, both free and slave, both small and great.” 19 And I saw the beast and the kings of the earth with their armies gathered to make war against him who was sitting on the horse and against his army. 20 And the beast was captured, and with it the false prophet who in its presence had done the signs by which he deceived those who had received the mark of the beast and those who worshiped its image. These two were thrown alive into the lake of fire that burns with sulfur. 21 And the rest were slain by the sword that came from the mouth of him who was sitting on the horse, and all the birds were gorged with their flesh.1.     What have you heard/learned about Armageddon in the past? Does that line up with what we see in ch. 19?2.     In what ways does Satan deceive you into potentially attending Armageddon?3.     Is it comforting that all Jesus does is come and speak to defeat evil? What does that mean for you and how you see him and the bible?4.     Can you approach God's word as a wedding invitation and marriage proposal? How might that change how you read it?5.     Do you live like you have to dress yourself and pay for your own clothes, or like Jesus will cover you in glorious garments? How does that impact your life?6.     What does it look like for you to live as one betrothed to Jesus?7.    &

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Canada Immigration Provincial pick for Entrepreneur Immigration invitations, released by British Columbia on 18 March 2025   | Good day ladies and gentlemen, this is IRC news, I am Joy Stephen, a certified Canadian Immigration practitioner, and I bring to you this Provincial News Bulletin from the province of British Columbia. This recording originates from the Polinsys studios in Cambridge, Ontario. | Stream : Regional Minimum Score : 123 Number of Invitations :

Canada Immigration Provincial pick for Express Entry by Prince Edward Island on 20 March 2025   | Good day ladies and gentlemen, this is IRC news, I am Joy Stephen, a certified Canadian Immigration practitioner, and I bring to you this Provincial News Bulletin from the province of Prince Edward Island. This recording originates from the Polinsys studios in Cambridge, Ontario. | Prince Edward Island selected potential PNP nominees under Express Entry on  20 March 2025.  Additional Infor and News release by province: Prince Edward Island selected potential provincial nominees under Office of Immigration Invitations to Apply, This is the news release by the province:   Date of Draw - 3rd March 2025 Labour & Express Entry Invitations - 124 Total number of Invitations 2025 - 124 Invitations were extended on March 20, 2025 to individuals working in occupations and priority sectors based on economic impact in Prince Edward Island. The focus was on people working and living in Prince Edward Island for a minimum of one year.  | You can always access past news from the Province of Prince Edward Island by visiting this link: https://myar.me/tag/pe/. Furthermore, if you are interested in gaining comprehensive insights into the Provincial Express Entry Federal pool Canadian Permanent Residence Program or other Canadian Federal or Provincial Immigration programs, or if you require guidance after your selection, we cordially invite you to connect with us through https://myar.me/c. We highly recommend participating in our complimentary Zoom resource meetings, which take place every Thursday. We kindly request you to carefully review the available resources. Should any questions arise, our team of Canadian Authorized Representatives is readily available to address your concerns during the weekly AR's Q&A session held on Fridays. You can find the details for both of these meetings at https://myar.me/zoom. Our dedicated team is committed to providing you with professional assistance throughout the immigration process. Additionally, IRCNews offers valuable insights on selecting a qualified representative to advocate on your behalf with the Canadian Federal or Provincial governments, which can be accessed at https://ircnews.ca/consultant.  

Canada Immigration Provincial pick for Base Entrepreneur by British Columbia on 18 March 2025   | Good day ladies and gentlemen, this is IRC news, I am Joy Stephen, a certified Canadian Immigration practitioner, and I bring to you this Provincial News Bulletin from the province of British Columbia. This recording originates from the Polinsys studios in Cambridge, Ontario. | British Columbia selected potential PNP nominees under Base Entrepreneur on 18 March 2025.  Additional Infor and News release by province: British Columbia selected potential provincial nominees under Base, This is the news release by the province:   Stream : Base Minimum Score : 115 Number of Invitations : 8  | You can always access past news from the Province of British Columbia by visiting this link: https://myar.me/tag/bc/. Furthermore, if you are interested in gaining comprehensive insights into the Provincial Express Entry Federal pool Canadian Permanent Residence Program or other Canadian Federal or Provincial Immigration programs, or if you require guidance after your selection, we cordially invite you to connect with us through https://myar.me/c. We highly recommend participating in our complimentary Zoom resource meetings, which take place every Thursday. We kindly request you to carefully review the available resources. Should any questions arise, our team of Canadian Authorized Representatives is readily available to address your concerns during the weekly AR's Q&A session held on Fridays. You can find the details for both of these meetings at https://myar.me/zoom. Our dedicated team is committed to providing you with professional assistance throughout the immigration process. Additionally, IRCNews offers valuable insights on selecting a qualified representative to advocate on your behalf with the Canadian Federal or Provincial governments, which can be accessed at https://ircnews.ca/consultant.  

The NCAA Midwest regionals comes to Indianapolis this weekend, which means Lucas Oil Stadium needs to be transformed into a proper basketball venue. Indianapolis faith leaders are urging local law enforcement not to help Immigration and Customs Enforcement deport people. Indiana Medicaid waiver invitations hit capacity with more than 10,000 people still on waitlists.  A new report shows foreclosure filings in central Indiana are on the rise. Want to go deeper on the stories you hear on WFYI News Now? Visit wfyi.org/news and follow us on social media to get comprehensive analysis and local news daily. Subscribe to WFYI News Now wherever you get your podcasts. WFYI News Now is produced by Drew Daudelin, Zach Bundy and Abriana Herron, with support from News Director Sarah Neal-Estes.

The hilarious Jerry O'Connell asks a question about event invites, plus an extensive Handsome makeup tutorial involving "pink tint," Biggie discovering beauty products, and more!Handsome is streaming LIVE from Austin April 12! Get your tickets here.Handsome is hosted by Tig Notaro, Mae Martin, and Fortune FeimsterFollow us on social media @handsomepodMerch at handsomepod.comWatch Handsome on YouTubeThis is a Headgum podcast. Follow Headgum on Twitter, Instagram, and Tiktok. Advertise on Handsome via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

TakeawaysAlways have an invitation on hand to foster connections.Shared experiences are the greatest currency in relationships.Surrendering control can lead to beautiful experiences.Inviting others creates opportunities for connection.99.9% of people will accept an invitation to an experience.Creating a go-to invitation is a powerful tool.Everyone, regardless of status, desires beautiful experiences.Health and time are essential for a rich life.Trust in the power of invitations to build relationships.Shared experiences with loved ones enrich life.Sound Bites"99.9% of times that's a yes."Chapters00:00The Power of Invitations02:55Creating Shared Experiences05:50Building Exceptional Relationships

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Nicodemo tenía conocimiento, posición y respeto, pero en lo más profundo de su ser sabía que le faltaba algo. Bajo la sombra de la noche, se acerca a Jesús buscando respuestas, y recibe una verdad que sacude su entendimiento: "Es necesario nacer de nuevo" (Juan 3:3). No se trata de religión, sino de una transformación total del corazón, una vida nueva solo posible por el poder de Dios.Mientras tanto, Mateo, un hombre despreciado por su pueblo, atado a la codicia y la soledad, escucha las palabras que cambiarán su destino: "Sígueme". Jesús no lo rechaza ni lo juzga por su pasado; le ofrece una nueva identidad y un propósito eterno.Jesús sigue llamando hoy. No importa cuán perdido te sientas o cuán atrapado estés en tu pasado. Él te ofrece una vida nueva. ¿Estás dispuesto a dejarlo todo y seguirle?Link: ⁠Season 1 Episode 7: Invitations

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New Brunswick Express Entry, released by New Brunswick on 05 March 2025  Good day ladies and gentlemen, this is IRC news, I am Joy Stephen, a certified Canadian Immigration practitioner, and I bring to you this Provincial News Bulletin from the province of New Brunswick. This recording originates from the Polinsys studios in Cambridge, Ontario. |   The New Brunswick Express Entry is accepting new Expressions of Interest (EOIs) under the following two (2) pathways beginning Wednesday, March 5, 2025.  New Brunswick Express Entry stream – Employment in New Brunswick pathway New Brunswick Express Entry stream – New Brunswick Interests pathway At this time, the province will not be considering occupations that fall under the following NOCs:  Accounting technicians and bookkeepers (NOC 12200) Administrative assistants (NOC 13110) Retail and wholesale trade managers (NOC 60020) Restaurant and food service managers (NOC 60030) Retail sales supervisors (NOC 62010) Food service supervisors (NOC 62020) Cooks (NOC 63200) Bakers (NOC 63202) Please note: The New Brunswick Student connection under the New Brunswick Express Entry stream is not returning for 2025.  Qualifying New Brunswick graduates with eligible employment are still invited to apply under the New Brunswick Employment pathway of the New Brunswick Express Entry stream. Alternatively, these graduates can explore other available pathways under the New Brunswick Skilled Worker stream, the New Brunswick Strategic Initiative stream for francophone applicants, and/or the Atlantic Immigration Program (AIP).  Please be aware that EOIs submitted to the New Brunswick Express Entry stream are not processed on a first-come, first-served basis. EOIs submitted through the INB portal are placed in a pool and remain valid for 365 days. Immigration New Brunswick will review submitted EOIs and issue Invitations to Apply (ITAs) only to selected individuals through scheduled draws, starting in April.  Please note that eligibility requirements for many programs and pathways have changed for 2025.  Before submitting an EOI, carefully review the updated eligibility criteria and NOC restrictions for your chosen pathway.  Only submit an EOI if you meet all eligibility requirements for your selected pathway.   | You can always access past news from the Province of New Brunswick by visiting this link: https://myar.me/tag/nb/. Furthermore, if you are interested in gaining comprehensive insights into the Provincial Express Entry Federal pool Canadian Permanent Residence Program or other Canadian Federal or Provincial Immigration programs, or if you require guidance after your selection, we cordially invite you to connect with us through https://myar.me/c. We highly recommend participating in our complimentary Zoom resource meetings, which take place every Thursday. We kindly request you to carefully review the available resources. Should any questions arise, our team of Canadian Authorized Representatives is readily available to address your concerns during the weekly AR's Q&A session held on Fridays.

A sermon by Rev. Kara Nichols Barrett on Luke 13:31-35 on the second Sunday in Lent.

God has prepared an eternal marriage feast for all believers in heaven. Invitations to this feast are sent out through the gospel, and all who respond to the call may attend.

Throughout the Gospel accounts of Jesus, we see Him perform so many incredible miracles. These moments separate Jesus from comparison to any other religious figure throughout human history. We have to wrestle with why so many are collected and shared when they are beyond our comprehension. The miracles in the Gospel of Luke are more than moments of wonder but invitations to learn from and worship our Lord. This week, we move to Luke 8:22-25 ESV and find Jesus calming a literal storm with his disciples. Speaker: Barry Agnew Text: John 8:22-25 ESV

In this episode, Gem reflects on a powerful moment from a difficult season in her life when she found hope in a simple yet profound image: a long, dark tunnel with a pinhole of light in the distance. This light became a symbol of God's presence, reminding her that even in the darkest moments, His light is enough to guide us forward. She explores the invitation from Psalm 27:4 to dwell, gaze, and seek God, unpacking each of these spiritual practices and how they bring us closer to Him. Through reflection and personal insights, this episode encourages you to embrace God's presence in the everyday moments—dwelling in His love, gazing upon His beauty, and seeking His guidance with a childlike heart. Tune in and discover how these simple practices can deepen your connection with God and His sacred presence in your life. In this episode, you'll reflect on: How can we find hope and God's presence even in dark or uncertain seasons of life? What are some practical ways to engage with the spiritual practices of dwelling, gazing, and seeking God? How can cultivating a childlike wonder and expectancy transform our spiritual journey? Resources and Links: Psalm 27:4 Psalm 139:7-10 Marina Abramović’s The Artist is Present ______________________________________________________ Connect with Gem on Instagram and learn more on the Unhurried Living website and her new book, Hold That Thought: Sorting Through the Voices in Our Heads Learn about PACE: Certificate in Leadership and Soul Care Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Hello Listeners, This is a brief episode with a few updates that you may find of interest as members of the Somatic Wisdom community. For a machine-generated transcript of this podcast, see the link here.  Links to resources mentioned in the podcast:  https://30isthenew40.substack.com/ Wisdom of Saturn gathering - Live on Zoom: Register Here *** Free Saboteur Self-Assessment from Positive Intelligence  Link to schedule Free Saboteur Discovery Session 1:1 with Cristy  *** We would love to hear your thoughts or questions on this episode via SpeakPipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/SomaticWisdomLoveNotes To show your gratitude for this show, you can make a one-time gift to support Somatic Wisdom with this link. To become a Sustaining Honor Roll contributor to help us keep bringing you conversations and content that support Your Somatic Wisdom please use this link. Thank you! Your generosity is greatly appreciated! *** Podcast editing and production by: Laura Pritchard Music credit: https://www.melodyloops.com/composers/dpmusic/ Cover art credit: https://www.natalyakolosowsky.com/ Cover template creation by Briana Knight Sagucio    

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Pastor Courtney goes over important dates, the meaning behind the spiritual practices, and how to keep a holy Lent.

Terrence kicked off a new series, The Path Forward, focusing on overcoming sin and committing to a Christ-centered life. It emphasizes the importance of living dead to sin and alive in Christ, drawing from Romans 6:11-12: “So, you also should consider yourselves to be dead to the power of sin and alive to God through Christ Jesus. Do not let sin control the way you live; do not give in to sinful desires.” The message outlines a nine-step process for overcoming sin, based on the G4 counseling model, which many churches use to help people break free from sinful patterns. The sermon covers the first three steps, focusing on the mindset and posture that may prevent believers from taking them.

Canada Immigration Provincial pick for Business Impact: Work Permit by Prince Edward Island on 20 February 2025   | Good day ladies and gentlemen, this is IRC news, I am Joy Stephen, a certified Canadian Immigration practitioner, and I bring to you this Provincial News Bulletin from the province of Prince Edward Island. This recording originates from the Polinsys studios in Cambridge, Ontario. | Prince Edward Island selected potential PNP nominees under Business Impact: Work Permit on 20 February 2025.  Additional Infor and News release by province: Prince Edward Island selected potential provincial nominees under Office of Immigration Invitations to Apply, This is the news release by the province:   Date of Draw: 02/20/2025 Labour & Express Entry Invitations :87 Invitations were extended on February 20, 2025 to individuals working in occupations and priority sectors based on economic impact in Prince Edward Island. The focus was on people working and living in Prince Edward Island for a minimum of one year. In addition international graduates from UPEI, Holland College and Collège de l'Île were prioritized in the invitations.  | You can always access past news from the Province of Prince Edward Island by visiting this link: https://myar.me/tag/pe/. Furthermore, if you are interested in gaining comprehensive insights into the Provincial Express Entry Federal pool Canadian Permanent Residence Program or other Canadian Federal or Provincial Immigration programs, or if you require guidance after your selection, we cordially invite you to connect with us through https://myar.me/c. We highly recommend participating in our complimentary Zoom resource meetings, which take place every Thursday. We kindly request you to carefully review the available resources. Should any questions arise, our team of Canadian Authorized Representatives is readily available to address your concerns during the weekly AR's Q&A session held on Fridays. You can find the details for both of these meetings at https://myar.me/zoom. Our dedicated team is committed to providing you with professional assistance throughout the immigration process. Additionally, IRCNews offers valuable insights on selecting a qualified representative to advocate on your behalf with the Canadian Federal or Provincial governments, which can be accessed at https://ircnews.ca/consultant.  

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Welcome to podcast episode 192 - Stuff I Wish Every Missionary Knew. On today's episode we'll talk about, as missionaries, there's so much I wish we all knew from the start. In this episode, I'm sharing 8 key insights that can help provide peace, purpose and resilience throughout your mission experience. First and foremost, your job is simply to show up and share Christ's light. Don't get caught up in numbers or specific outcomes - Jesus is the true miracle, not the baptisms or other measurable results. Remember that God's plan is perfect, and you can't derail it no matter what. Your feelings, even the tough ones like anxiety, are completely normal and okay. Focus on what you're doing well, not your shortcomings. Planting seeds through your invitations and presence matters, even if you don't see the harvest. And keep your hope anchored in Jesus Christ and God's eternal plan, not just the immediate outcomes you desire. Apply these principles, and watch how your mission experience transforms. As always, if you found this episode helpful, I want to invite you to subscribe if you aren't already, share this episode with your friends and missionaries you know, and write a review. I know this work will help LDS missionaries around the world and it would mean so much to me if you did. Until next week my friends.   Website | Instagram | Facebook   Get the Full Show Notes and Text/PDF Transcripts: HERE   Free PDF Download:  Podcast Roadmap   Free PDF Download:  Preparing Missionary Cheat Sheet   Free Training for Preparing Missionaries:  Change Your Mission with this One Tool   RM Transition Free Video Series:  3 Tools to Help RMs in Their Transition Home   Free Guide:  5 Tips to Help Any Returning Missionary   Schedule a Free Strategy Call:   Click Here

In this episode, Scott Becker shares six key strategies for managing invitations, speaking engagements, and networking requests.

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In this episode, Scott Becker shares six key strategies for managing invitations, speaking engagements, and networking requests.

Wondering when to send your wedding invitations and save the dates? You're not alone! One of the biggest mistakes couples make in wedding planning is sending invitations too early, which can actually cause more stress down the road.In this episode of the Wedding Planning Collective Podcast, I'm breaking down:✅ When to send your save the dates (so guests have enough notice, but not too much!)✅ The ideal wedding invitation timeline to avoid RSVP nightmares✅ Why sending invites too early can backfire (and what to do instead!)✅ How to handle last-minute guest changes without losing your mind✅ The truth about guest count deadlines and what vendors really need

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Lesley Logan sits down with marriage and family therapist Kristal DeSantis, author of Strong: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man, to discuss healthy masculinity, relationship communication, and how to create strong, lasting partnerships. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or married, this episode offers actionable insights into understanding and improving connections with the men in your life.If you have any questions about this episode or want to get some of the resources we mentioned, head over to LesleyLogan.co/podcast. If you have any comments or questions about the Be It pod shoot us a message at beit@lesleylogan.co. And as always, if you're enjoying the show please share it with someone who you think would enjoy it as well. It is your continued support that will help us continue to help others. Thank you so much! Never miss another show by subscribing at LesleyLogan.co/subscribe.In this episode you will learn about:Why men and women often struggle to communicate effectively in relationships.The impact of societal messaging on men's mental health and self-worth.The difference between needing vs. wanting a partner and why it matters.How women can invite—not force—men into self-growth and therapy.The 4 communication styles and how they impact relationships.The 3 P's of traditional masculinity (Protector, Provider, Procreator) and how they shape men's identity.The power of collaboration vs. compromise in a partnership.Practical steps to create emotional safety and trust in a relationship.Episode References/Links:Strong: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man - https://beitpod.com/strongKristal's Website: https://www.strong.loveInstagram: https://instagram.com/atxtherapistFacebook: https://facebook.com/strongloveatxLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kristal-desantis/Guest Bio:Kristal DeSantis is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in Austin, Texas, specializing in men's mental health, trauma work, and sex therapy. She is the author of STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man, which offers practical guidance on building healthy relationships. Kristal's expertise lies in helping both men and women navigate the complexities of modern relationships, with a focus on intentional partnerships, emotional resilience, and balancing traditional masculinity with emotional sensitivity. If you enjoyed this episode, make sure and give us a five star rating and leave us a review on iTunes, Podcast Addict, Podchaser or Castbox.DEALS! DEALS! DEALS! DEALS!Check out all our Preferred Vendors & Special Deals from Clair Sparrow, Sensate, Lyfefuel BeeKeeper's Naturals, Sauna Space, HigherDose, AG1 and ToeSoxBe in the know with all the workshops at OPCBe It Till You See It Podcast SurveyBe a part of Lesley's Pilates MentorshipFREE Ditching Busy Webinar Resources:Watch the Be It Till You See It podcast on YouTube!Lesley Logan websiteBe It Till You See It PodcastOnline Pilates Classes by Lesley LoganOnline Pilates Classes by Lesley Logan on YouTubeProfitable Pilates Follow Us on Social Media:InstagramThe Be It Till You See It Podcast YouTube channelFacebookLinkedInThe OPC YouTube Channel Episode Transcript:Kristal DeSantis 0:00  It's not I'm half a person out here searching for my other half, and then, oh, you complete me. We're soul mates. No, be a whole person, do your work, and then find the person that also is a whole person that does his work, so that together you can have a whole, healthy relationship.Lesley Logan 0:16  Welcome to the Be It Till You See It podcast where we talk about taking messy action, knowing that perfect is boring. I'm Lesley Logan, Pilates instructor and fitness business coach. I've trained thousands of people around the world and the number one thing I see stopping people from achieving anything is self-doubt. My friends, action brings clarity and it's the antidote to fear. Each week, my guest will bring bold, executable, intrinsic and targeted steps that you can use to put yourself first and Be It Till You See It. It's a practice, not a perfect. Let's get started.Lesley Logan 0:59  All right, Be It babe. I can't wait for you to hear today's episode. When I met with today's guest Kristal DeSantis, I was like, okay, this is an interesting topic. And I asked her some questions, and I was like, oh my God, I love you. I really love what you're saying. So she is actually a marriage and family therapist. She is the author of Strong: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man. And I was like, well, most of my listeners are women, so what about this is something you can take away. And ladies, here's the deal, we talk about this in the episode. We have been given so much messaging on how we can be strong, independent, amazing, do things, and unfortunately, our male counterparts did not receive that same messaging growing up, and so there's some miscommunication going on. And I really love her approach. We do not have to play small. We do not have to make ourselves smaller. We don't have to change or compromise. It's actually a really great invitation for us to have better relationships with our partners. And so I really think this is an excellent episode. I think you're gonna really love it. I hope you do. And this is for you, whether you're single or married or have a great marriage, but have sons or daughters like I really found this to be very fascinating. And her book is Strong: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man. Here is Kristal DeSantis. Lesley Logan 2:17  All right, Be It babe. I am really, really excited for today's conversation. When I met our guest today, I was like, this is a topic we haven't touched on and, I think, impacts us all in so many ways. Kristal DeSantis is our guest today. Crystal, can you tell everyone who you are and what you rock at?Kristal DeSantis 2:35  Sure. I am a marriage and family therapist and author. I specialize in men's mental health and trauma and sex therapy, and I wrote a book for men. And, yeah, I'm really passionate about relationships, healthy relationships. Lesley Logan 2:51  I can tell you're passionate about it. And I actually, I think people are like, what? Lesley, but I'm a woman, and listens to this podcast, and I was like, yeah, but something that you touch on as a marriage counselor is really helping us understand what is going on with the men in our lives. And I think that that can be heated topic depending on like, where we are in this planet and what your life experience is. But as much as we want them to understand us, I think especially as the understanding of mental health with them is happening, and more and more people are diving into that, and also the topic of masculinity, we've had people come on and talk about what healthy masculinity looks like, I think us being able to understand a different perspective can be really helpful. Am I on the right track with what you want to do?Kristal DeSantis 3:31  Totally, totally. And I really specialize in healthy masculinity in the context of a healthy relationship, right? So I always want to say, like, you know, I'm not here to tell men how to be men. I am here to talk about what that looks like in a healthy partnership, how to be a strong, powerful, empowered adult in a healthy relationship. Lesley Logan 3:52  How did you get into this? Is this something that you thought you were going to school for? Is this something that you just kept finding couples and you started to go, wow, I'm the only one talking about this. What was the journey? Kristal DeSantis 4:03  Yeah, so it actually is really interesting is I had no interest in dating or relationships when I was growing up, like my parents, they had a very traditional marriage, and my mom was a stay-at-home mom, and my dad was the breadwinner, and it was just this very traditional setup. I have a lot of siblings, so you know, my mom was very much a stay-at-home wife and mother, and I, you know, was like, I don't think that's for me. I wanted to grow up and be a woman about the world, a career woman, boss babe and jetting off here and there. And I was like, who has time for a man and all of that, right? And so I was just focused on being a strong woman, just myself. So I went to college. I went to an all women's college. I was surrounded by these, like, fabulous, strong women. And so I was like, boys, come on. Like, the last thing on my list, I have no time for them. And then, as I started to, you know, go out in the world, my younger sister ended up getting married, and she married this really lovely man, and it started to make me realize, like, oh. Huh? Well, I haven't even thought about this. And also, you know, in my culture, my mom is Asian, and so in Asian culture, like the oldest daughter gets married before the next one, and then there's, like, a, you know, a rule to follow here. So I think that's also where I was like, well, shoot, I guess I should probably start to think about this. So I just kind of did what, you know, most women would do, I just went and put myself on a dating app, and it was a horrific and terrible experience, like it was, you know. Lesley Logan 5:29  Sounds about right. Kristal DeSantis 5:30  Yeah, exactly. It was like, wow, this is awful. I don't want to do this at all, but then I ended up in a relationship that it was just, it highlighted so much, how I did not have any relational skills, and it started to make me think that, you know, in the back of my mind somewhere, I guess I thought maybe just buying into the narrative, a little bit like you're a woman, you know, at some point when you decide you want to get married, it'll happen. And again, it wasn't that I was looking for marriage, even dating. I didn't know how to do this. I didn't know what I was looking for. I had a relationship. We couldn't communicate. And so I was like, oh, maybe I actually need to work on this a little bit. And then I met my husband on a dating app, and then it was like, okay, here's somebody that you're actually really interested in having a relationship with, and you know, you want to get your act together, girl. So I took my butt to therapy, I worked and I found a marriage and family therapist, and that's when I realized, like, oh, there's this whole field of learning about marriage and family therapy and relationship skills, and these are things you can learn. So yeah, so I went to therapy myself, and then I started going to school, and then eventually, 10 years later, here I am.Lesley Logan 6:40  Oh my God. (inaudible) What a journey. Okay, so here's what comes to my mind, though. When we think about working on ourselves, we work on ourselves, and we hope that our partner, our future partners, are working on themselves. But then there's also the marriage, right? And the relationship skills that you brought up. And I think it's really easy as women for us to think we have to do all the work to work on the relationship, but actually, it takes two people to work on a relationship.Kristal DeSantis 7:05  Absolutely, yeah, and that's part of what I realized when I met my husband is he had already been divorced, and so he did a lot of therapy at the end of his relationship. And so that's what really showed up for me, is that here is this man who was ahead of me in the relational skill game, and I was the one who had to catch up. And so that also really kind of showed me that, oh, wow, you know, what is it like for men to go to therapy? And it made me curious about his experiences, and that's really where then, when I started to go to school to be a therapist, I realized a lot of people talk about women's therapy needs and what women need. And like you said, the women doing all the work of the relationship. And I was like, well, what about the men out there that want to do the work? Who's speaking to them?Lesley Logan 7:50  Yeah, I mean, and is anyone speaking to them? Because, you know, I have a lot of single friends, and it is tough out there. Obviously I'm only hearing one side of the story, but what I'm hearing I'm like, oh yeah, you should run from that. But also, if there are people out there with good intentions, there does need to be a, not a give and, I don't like the idea of a give and take or a compromise, because I think that it's really easy for one side to compromise more or to give more, but there does need to be an understanding of, how do we actually move forward together as a we without losing the me that is part of it. Kristal DeSantis 8:26  Exactly. And that's why I always want to talk about collaboration, right? It's like when you hear about two artists coming together to collaborate on a project or on a song, it's always about they're creating something better because they're working together. It's not, okay, this is going to be worse material that we're hearing from both of them, right? It's not compromise, it's collaboration. So I always like to think about that (inaudible).Lesley Logan 8:48  Kristal, that's brilliant.Kristal DeSantis 8:51  Like, a strong woman needs a strong man, right? And a strong, healthy man needs a strong partner by his side so they can have strong relationship. I put it in the book. It's multiplication. It's not addition. It's not I'm half a person out here searching for my other half, and then, oh, you complete me. We're soul mates. It's like, no, be a whole person, do your work, and then find the person that also is a whole person that does his work so that together you can have a whole, healthy relationship. Lesley Logan 9:17  Oh, I love it. I love it so much. Because I really hated Jerry Maguire. I hated the whole sentence, everything about that. I was raised by parents who are like, you're not looking for your other half. You need to have a whole life. And they add to your life. They don't take away from your life. They're just really, really big on that, which I'm really grateful for, because I think I could have ended up in a really lousy relationship and divorced at a young age. Had I thought I needed to be completed in my life. But I love the idea of multiplication. I love the idea, the visual of like, we should be making better art together. Yeah, that's super cool. Okay, you wrote an amazing book. What made you want to write this book? Who is this book for? Can you tell us a little bit about it?Kristal DeSantis 9:55  Absolutely. And so I wrote the book for men, because what I otniced is, again, there's this gap in the field when it comes to self-help, messaging and therapy, messaging and self-improvement and trauma healing and all of that. It really does tend to skew really heavily towards women (inaudible). Lesley Logan 10:12  We have the most work to do. That's what it feels like. We have the most work to do, and they have nothing to do, which is not true. Kristal DeSantis 10:20  But also I saw like a huge resource imbalance, because even what you just said about the message that you got as a young girl is a message that young girls have been getting since feminism is, hey, you can do anything, you can be anything, you can have a whole life. Don't fall for a guy that just wants to make you a part of his. Right?Lesley Logan 10:40  You're right. And they didn't get. Kristal DeSantis 10:42  They did not, men are not getting that message. They're still getting the message that look for someone who needs you, because that's your job. Lesley Logan 10:50  Kristal, this is what's going on in the world. This is the problem. Yes, they're all wanting someone who needs them, and these women don't, and they're like, hey, (inaudible) I don't need you. Isn't that cool? And they're like, but I'm supposed to be needed. That's the love language. Okay, I'm getting it now. Kristal DeSantis 11:05  Yeah. I mean, that was really, like, the first quote that I put in my book is one that I found because I was on Twitter and I was seeing this pattern in couples where I'm like, you know, the women are working really hard and the guys just are not getting it. But I'm not getting this sense from these men that they don't want to get it. They want to get it really bad. But there's something that's like, hugely missed in translation here. And this quote that I found on Twitter, it was, everybody's out here empowering women, but who's preparing men for these empowered women? And that's really what it is, is that the guys are hearing, we don't need you anymore. And they're like, well, then what are we? Chopped liver? And then they're getting all angry and spun up.Lesley Logan 11:47  Well, and that's, so that's the thing. As I have tried to listen to some decent male masculinity experts, and I will say decent, because they're not the ones that are like, telling terrible things about women. But even then, I left confused, going, I don't understand how we're not on the same page. And you just nailed it. The women are empowered and are excited to meet someone who wants them to be empowered, but also wants someone who is at the level of them, like they're looking for that. And unfortunately, the people who are there to be there for these men who are looking for research and looking for help, are actually making it worse. I feel like they're making the division worse. They're making it seem like masculinity is this, like, tough, hard thing, and it's really, it's really sad, and I see that because I have a brother, I have friends with younger brothers, and I'm listening to them talk about women, and I'm like,who raised you? You weren't even raised in that house. So you wrote this book for men, is this something that women can read or gift to a male in their life? Is this something that they give to a son or a brother or husband?Kristal DeSantis 12:47  Yeah, I would hope so. And I've heard, you know, from my clients, that reading it together as a couple has been really enlightening, because part of what I talk about in here, which, again, what I was seeing, is the disconnect, is women are saying, like, how do you guys don't get it, because women don't realize that the messages that we've been getting the men haven't been getting. Right? And so for us, it's just common sense. Of course, everybody should be independent and self-sufficient and all of that, and look for somebody to improve your life. So how come you guys are so behind? And so I think hopefully if women read this book, they can also start to understand some of the messages that men get about what it means to be a man because in the prologue, I talk about how, for so many generations of men, their worth was tied to what I talk about as the three P's, you're a protector, you're a provider, and you're a procreator. If you can't do one of these things. You're useless as a man. You can't protect, you can't provide, you can't give your wife babies if she wants them, you suck.Lesley Logan 13:48  This is really, really fascinating, because it's true. I think the single women who are listening and in my friendships are like, why wouldn't they want someone like me who is independent, who wants to be a partner, and not as someone who needs them or as a drain on them. And yeah, it's because of the messaging, and they're still getting that. And so for my married women listening, I think that there can be friction or miscommunication. What is your advice for them to or for us? I should just, I should include myself there, to understand our husbands. I will say, I'm like, you, my husband was divorced when I met him, and I was like, oh, I love the work you've done on yourself, and I love what you know that you don't like. And I also love that she was a little crazier than me, so I got a long runway. But like, what can we, and I say this, I really want to say this intentionally, I'm not saying that we back off from our independence or we, but I want to say, like, what can we be doing to understand, again, this is gonna sound terrible, how to make them feel that they're worthy in their relationship, too? I guess this is without making ourselves smaller. Kristal DeSantis 14:50  Yeah, well, and I think this is an important piece of the puzzle as well, is that a lot of women also grew up with internalized messaging about what men should be and what men should provide. The kind of internalized expectations that, you know, sometimes we don't even realize we have because we don't want to have them. For example, we don't need a man who's a provider, like, I have my own job, I have my own money. But then, if he doesn't have a job, do we look at him as less of a man, right? Or if he chooses a job with less income, do we also then get a little bit frustrated that he's not, quote-unquote, on our level? And so, this is part of what I talk about in my book of like, how can we start to encourage that men can still be protectors, they can still be providers, they can still be procreators, but let's make it more adaptive to what the modern relationship actually wants, right? So maybe a man is not the primary financial provider anymore, and maybe women need to start looking at okay, so then what else does he provide? Maybe he provides a sense of emotional safety. Maybe he provides a place where I can be vulnerable. Maybe he provides emotional support and a vision for our family that helps me just feel alive and supported and all of that. And the same thing with protection. Well, do I really need a guy who's gonna be the biggest six foot football player type otherwise I see him as less of a man, which, again, that's also something that women kind of also kind of objectify men in that way, right? Lesley Logan 16:15  Yeah. Oh, every woman wants a six foot tall man who's super vulnerable but ambitious. They want all those things.Kristal DeSantis 16:22  Yeah. And so this is also where I can hear from the men, they're getting so frustrated. They're like, you want us, you're saying that looks don't matter, and you want us to be people. And then you have these TikToks that are like, I want a six, five guy in finance. Which one is it? So I think that's also where the women, us, women can do our own work of is it really true that we would value personality, that we do value a man who is able to protect us emotionally, even though he's not the biggest, strongest guy that could fight every guy on the block? And so those kinds of things are really important for us to also come to a reckoning with. Same thing with the procreator. Can we be with somebody who wants to prioritize being a parent? I've seen sometimes with this in relationships, where, you know, women are frustrated that their husband is not being an equal parent. But then when I actually look at, well, where is there room for him to be a parent? Because if it's your vision of what you want your parenting style to look like, and there's no room for him, well he's kind of stuck in a rock and a hard place here.Lesley Logan 17:19  Yeah, you're (inaudible) like, I'm not perfect everyone, which you should know that already. And I can even say in my own marriage, when Brad came on to the team, my business, I had to really learn how to say we instead of I, because I'm so used to being my business. I'm doing X, I'm doing Y, and I still fuck it up. Like, I still say I don't want to spend on that, and it's hold on, if I want him to be the CEO of the company, and I believe he is the better CEO versus me because I'm the visionary and I do all these things, then there has to be a we and I also have to let him be him. And so it's not about making myself small. It's about going, okay, going back to what you say, where is there room, and what are the strengths that he brings to that, that I can go, okay, that's actually more beautiful than what I could have done by myself and then communicating that. And I think that's the hard part.Kristal DeSantis 18:09  Yeah, and this is again, where maybe we focus on women don't need men, but we need to start thinking about where do we want them? If you don't need someone, that's fine, but he's got to feel wanted, at least. I want your input. I value your vision. I value what you bring to the table. That's always something I want to encourage is like, you know, we don't have to be co-dependent on each other, but you do have to have some sense that you're desired here. You know?Lesley Logan 18:33  Yeah, I think that's a really important distinction, because when Brad and I first started dating, he was like, I don't want to do everything together all the time. And I was like, yeah, so that would be a no for me, too. I need my private time because what he has seen, and I don't think my in-laws listen, but as they hang, they're always together. They're, they do everything together. They are on sports teams together. They're on all these things that I am like, oh, I'm gonna get people are surprised that I get an Uber and leave a party all the time, and that's like, no, I'm done now. So we had to do a lot of what does that look like? What does a relationship together look like? What we're still, what are we sharing with each other, and what aren't we sharing with each other? And I think communication up front is really can be difficult, because some people are afraid they'll say the wrong thing, or they'll offend the person, or the person will feel not needed, and it's like we have to also probably be able to let people explain things and then maybe follow up with questions. If we are, like, hold on, where am I in that that sentence, it feels like you said, this is that what you said. And I think we're not taught those communication skills Kristal DeSantis 19:35  Absolutely. I mean, that is such a huge thing that has shown up. I realized for myself as like, oh, I don't know how to do this. I think there's some magical thinking going on when it comes to relationships that, like, when you find the right person, it'll just happen. Love conquers all. You'll get this, like, magical like, no, you don't. You don't get the the download of relationship skills the minute you fall in love. And so, like you said, just like recognizing, where could I be more curious? This, where could I be less sure that okay, they're doing it because they're a jerk, and instead start to maybe look at if we're working together here, how do I ask about this differently? How do I invite them into this conversation? Rather than start with an accusation. Lesley Logan 20:15  Let's talk about the invitation, because I'm also thinking about the women like I'm doing this work, ladies, I am trying this, and my partner isn't participating in this conversation. It feels like I'm doing the work on the relationship, and they're not. How should they be setting the conversation up or what should they be doing? Should they be inviting you into it? What does that look like, if the woman listening is wanting to flesh all this out so that everyone's on the same page about how they're valued and how they want to be valued?Kristal DeSantis 20:38  Yeah. And that's where I would say, you know, part of the reason I wrote this book for men as a woman is also giving them insight into what, typically women are looking for when it comes to a strong man, right? And so again, just redefining what strong means. A lot of men think that it still means, like, strong, physically, strong financially. And really, what I'm saying is, no, I break it down into the first S of strong it stands for safety. Women look to feel safe in a relationship. That's kind of that in sometimes where women are like, I would love to feel safer and more secure in this relationship. Here's how I found this book that really resonated with me about ways that I could feel safer and more secure, because that would help me trust and respect you more, right? Or that could help us with our intimacy, that would help us feel more connected, help me feel more connected to you. You know, that's what I want, and so inviting it not as a here's a book on how you're screwing up and all men suck. And I was like, that's probably not going to go over very well, but really an invitation to I want our marriage to be the best. I don't want to just phone it in. I don't want to have, you know, what, maybe my parents or my neighbors, or, you know, these people that are just like, I think, the old trope of the boomer, miserable ball and chain thing, like, I want us to have a relationship that we can be proud of, that we can really look forward to coming home to. I want to have that. So will you work on that with me? And often for men too, it's like the conversation can be so high stakes for men, because often, again, with the idea that if you're a real man, you're supposed to be good at everything, you're never supposed to need help. You're never supposed to ask questions. This idea that for a man, you're just supposed to know, and so for a lot of men having this conversation, really come from a place of, I think we're great, and I would like us to be even better. Or I've noticed that we started out great, and here's a place where maybe I've noticed we started to fall off, like maybe our intimacy has not been as fulfilling as we'd like, or I don't. I noticed that we don't connect the way we used to. I'd like that kind of strength-based approach. Lesley Logan 22:47  Yeah, yeah, not the we need to talk approach which, oh, no one, no, by the way, you guys. I say this to people who have employees like, never say we need to talk. Tell people what it is so that, like, ease in, because you're gonna put people on defensive as opposed to an invitation to have a conversation. I really like all of that advice. I think that is helpful. You know what? You, and forgive me if you hate this comparison, but when I broke up with my ex, I read Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man, which you have to take some of the advice, and not all the advice, everybody. And one piece of advice that I took out of the whole book. It was like, he needs to feel needed. We know you can pick up the box. We'd like to pick up the box for you. And I was like, okay, so when my husband, we weren't together yet, we actually had a little bit of a we weren't dating, but we broke up anyways, he broke up with me, just further clarification, but he texted me. He's like, hey, I'm on my way. We had this mutual thing that we both knew we're going to and I was too stubborn to not go. And he's like, hey, I picked up some sparkling water and some hummus and carrots. I know you're gluten-free, is there anything else? And I was like, this is my opportunity to need something. So even if I don't really want him to get me anything, I should try this out. And that was that opened up an invitation for us to actually hang out at this thing and not to have something in between us. And it was, that was a fun piece of advice. But I feel like your book, written for men by a woman and a married woman, is really cool, because it gives them advice from the perspective of the gender of their spouse. And I think that that is, you know, kind of we can, we could all learn from the other person's perspective in a different way. I don't know if you, that's (inaudible), you know, and that and the (inaudible) into you. Like, I read that, and I was like, okay, that was really helpful. Thanks, guys, for the advice on what you want.Kristal DeSantis 24:38  Absolutely. And again, like, the distinction between needed and wanted is, I think that's where sometimes people get really hung up. But it's like, you know, I didn't need something for the store, but I know you'd want to feel useful, so I'll throw out a want. Can you just grab a, I don't know, chocolate almonds or something, same thing, like, could I open the jar by myself? Absolutely. If it was me and this jar on an island, I could do it. But do I want to just hand it to my husband to help him feel like, yeah, she might not need me, but she sure wants me, because I feel like I play a role to improving her life. And that's really the thing that I noticed is, of course, there are men that have no interest in contributing to relationships, but they've totally phoned it in, and they don't want to improve. They don't want to do any of that. But again, maybe that's not the best relationship to be in, but there are lot more men that are like, I desperately want to make my wife happy. I just don't know how. And again, I'm not saying like, oh man, they just don't know anything. I'm saying that a lot of times they aren't getting the messages, because society hasn't started to tell them those messages yet. It's kind of been the message of, you should just know. And they're like, I sure don't. You know? Lesley Logan 25:48  Yeah. Because I see some of the that my my clients are like, oh my gosh, Lesley, look what they wrote to me in a DM on this dating app. And I was like, okay, I really appreciate the people know what they want. But maybe not the second line that you say. You know? But also, what messaging are they getting? They're getting, like, women know what they want now, well, this is what I want. So I think it is true. There is a lack of information and support. We have plenty. And I even think about my friend Vincent. He became a first time parent, and he was looking for support for dads and he's like, there is nothing. There's nothing out here for me. There's no, I'm gonna have an infant daughter, and I have no idea what to do. So he had to create the stuff to guide dads. And there are, of course, dads who want to phone it in. There just are people who want to phone life in, I don't get those people either and we can't help people who don't want to help it, but there is a huge fraction of people who are like, hold on, educate me, and there's a lack of education. And so I do love that you provided this with this book, but also I think this is a really amazing opportunity for all of us as women to go, okay, hold on, where have we been so supported? And they haven't. I think it's really important we don't have to be the ones that fix them or educate them, because that's not what they want. That's your job. That is your job. So for the woman whose husband or partner is going through some sort of crisis, maybe they lost their job, or their mental health is having an issue, what is the best thing that they can do to support that person? Because it's not that they have to fix them. Kristal DeSantis 27:14  No. That's the thing, is that I do see that pattern of women then work too hard to try to fix, to try to solve, or they're like, I've called five different doctors and I'm setting up his appointments, and then they're resentful, because then it's like, well, now it's that parent-child dynamic, which is, ick, right, not that sexy at all. And so that's again, is coming at it from a place of concern, like, I've noticed that you've been kind of depressed lately, or your drinking has kind of escalated. I'm concerned. And as your partner, who cares about you, I'm concerned for you. Like, how can we get past this? What do you need to feel supported? And that's really where, again, a lot of men, and I know it sounds maybe a little bit ridiculous, but even the idea that they would call somebody doesn't quite enter their mind until it's been presented. Do you think you might want to talk to somebody? I'm noticing that you're pretty depressed or that your drinking has been escalated, or that you're having a really hard time finding a job. Do you want to do something about that? Would you like my help? Or do you think you got it? And that's really where sometimes the conversations can be just slightly different than if it's fine, you're useless. I got it. Where then a lot of women end up in that over-functional role that then ends up burning them out and then leads to a lot of resentment against the men that they're with. Lesley Logan 28:28  Yeah. That approach leads me to this question, and maybe it's the same answer, but if she's listening, and she's like, oh my gosh, actually, you know what, Kristal, or a marriage therapist like Kristal is the best thing, what is the best approach to making sure it feels like an invitation and not like you have to go to marriage counseling?Kristal DeSantis 28:46  Yeah. You know, it is kind of a tricky one, because, for unfortunate reasons, right, going to therapy can sometimes just already be seen as, like, the stigma of like you're being sent to the principal's office. And that's part of why I wrote this book is that men can actually do research on me before even coming to see me, so that they can, you know, be like, all right, I checked her out, I looked at her stuff. I feel like I know what I'm going to get walking in there. Because that's always why, I mean, that's why I said this book is for men. Is because so many men are worried that when they go into therapy, they're going to be one down that, you know, the wife and the therapists are both women. They know all this, like, jargon about therapy and there, I'm just going to be sitting there, like, being told I'm an asshole. I'm like, you know, and I'm going to pay for it. That doesn't sound like a good time. And so really showing them that, like, no, there are therapists and coaches out there that specifically work on helping men feel more empowered in their role, in their relationships, as husbands, as fathers, and the more you can kind of have it be like, no, this is about helping you activate your strengths, right? As opposed to we're going because I'm pissed at you, and this is the last straw, and so that's always where I would always say, you know, go proactively, frame it as a this is an additive for our relationship. It's like, I talk about this, like going to the emotional gym, you know? It's like, how do you invite your partner to go to the gym with you? You do have to talk about it as like, this is for our health, because I want to have a long life with you, you know? And that's exactly the same. I'm asking you to come to therapy with me, because I think that maybe there are some things that we could be healthier on, and I want us to be doing it together. Will you come with me?Lesley Logan 30:29  Yeah, that's so good. This is really great. I do love it, of course. Like when you say it, Kristal, it sounds like, oh, duh. That sounds like, that's how I want someone to invite me. But when you're in it, when you're in something with your partner and you're feeling like it's not going the way you want. Sometimes you just get defensive. So you guys, we transcribe every podcast so you can actually just copy from the website, memorize it and say it. You know?Kristal DeSantis 30:54  Yeah. Invitations versus accusations. That's (inaudible) all day. Turn it around. Lesley Logan 31:02  I love it. What are you most excited about right now? Kristal DeSantis 31:05  So in the new year, my husband and I are going to be teaming up to run some couples retreats, but we're doing it, again, because one of the things that a whole therapy thing, it feels really heavy, and sometimes it is, and that's really important to go do the hard work, but what I also see is couples don't have a lot of fun together these days, right? It's like the fun happens when you're dating, and then you start getting married, and then suddenly you're talking about bills and kids and logistics and diapers and in-laws, and you lose the fun. And that's often where I see couples just be so drained, is they don't have that bank of, you know, playful, pleasurable experiences that can get them through the hard times. So we're doing little bonding boot camps, where it's just a weekend, and we help couples work through some bonding skills, communication exercises, but in a fun and playful way. So it's not, you know, sitting in a conference room. We're big outdoorsy people, so, (inaudible). Lesley Logan 31:58  That's cool. That's so fun. I love that. I really do. I think it is needed. And, you are correct, especially if you're listening and you work with your husband like I do, you know, one of the things I had to do this year, well, for 2024 I told my assistant, I said you have to go through our calendars, and you have to find a weekend every quarter and block off Friday to Monday. And we're not going to plan anything. It's just blocked off. So we can have a trip, even if we just go two hours away, we've got to do something. Because, you know, you buy the house, you got these things, there's all these deadlines, and Friday can bleed into Saturday, and then you feel like you're together all the time, but you're actually not together as a partnership, yeah. So what a great invitation. And also, when I think about my parents' relationship conferences. It was in a conference room. And, like, we went to a hotel, sat in lectures all the time, and. Kristal DeSantis 32:46  Yeah, yeah. And then also it, what I noticed with my husband and I is we both had very busy jobs, and then we would look forward to the once a year big vacation that we would take. But I was like, I am dying in the meantime. And so, like you said, just these little tiny bursts of gosh, we can look forward to the one weekend, one weekend a month, that is just gonna be us. We maybe not even go far. We go an hour away, but like our little mini staycation vacation, where we get to re, pretend like we're on vacation, even though we're at Buc-ee's or something. Lesley Logan 33:17  Yeah, no, I think it's so creative. And also, if people don't want their parents' marriage, then they don't want their parents' marriage counseling retreat either. Kristal DeSantis 33:28  Yeah, yeah. Absolutely.Lesley Logan 33:32  All right, we're (inaudible). Yeah, I agree. I love it so much. Okay, we're gonna take a brief break, and then we're gonna find out how people can work with you, get your book, and more. Lesley Logan 33:39  All right, Kristal, where do you hang out? Where can people do marriage counseling with you via Zoom? Do they have to live where you are? Like, how do people work with you and where to get your book?Kristal DeSantis 33:46  If you are in Texas, I can work with you as a therapist. But if you are not in Texas and you just want to work with me, I have some courses, and then I do some coaching through the coursework, through my website, strong.love and then my book is on Amazon and on Audible, Strong: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man. And then, of course, I'm on Instagram @atxtherapist. Lesley Logan 34:12  Atxtherapist. Oh, you're in Austin. Kristal DeSantis 34:14  Uh huh, yeah. Lesley Logan 34:15  We're gonna be in Austin, you guys, it's too late once you hear this, because, but I'm gonna be there on January 4th, I think. Yeah, all right, we'll talk offline about that. Okay, so you actually, I feel like you've given us so much already, but it's a segment people love, because it's where they can take some action, bold, executable, intrinsic or targeted steps people can take to be it till they see it. What do you have for us?Kristal DeSantis 34:35  I have two. They're from my book. The exercises. One is, if you want to have more emotional connection with your partner, what I do is called the heartbeat exercise, and I honestly, I've seen people use it when they're dating. It's just as a way to kind of get beyond some of these surface-level conversations. So it's three points. It's a point of pride, a point of pain and a point of pleasure. So I like to imagine it as a heartbeat of the ups, the downs, and then the points that you can connect with. So asking your partner, you know, what is a point of pride, and then validating them, and then a point of pain, and then being practicing just holding space for that, and then offering care and then pleasure. Because even, again, with the dating period, is starting from the very beginning of normalizing, checking in about these three points will allow you to then set up in your relationship that we normalize talking about pain. We normalize checking in about pain. We normalize checking in about pleasure, and we check in with did you discover anything more pleasurable about our last sexual encounter? Or, you know, when you went on a walk today, did something special happen and you saw the first butterfly of the season, whatever. And so just normalizing some of these deeper points of connection.Lesley Logan 35:44  I love that. That's a great, that's a great one. That's so great. Kristal DeSantis 35:48  Yeah, and then the other one, if we have time for another one. Lesley Logan 35:50  Yeah, we totally do. Kristal DeSantis 35:52  The differences between the way that men and women have been socialized to communicate. This is one of the things that I think a lot of people just makes so much sense when they work with me, or they do read my book, there are four positions of conversation. So position one and two are typically the way women are socialized to communicate with each other. Positions three and four are typically the way men are socialized to communicate with each other. And when we get you know one of each in a relationship, this is where I so often see people clash when it comes to communication. So position one is just listening. Position two is joining, offering empathy. Position three is fixing, and then position four is debating. So you can see how so many women are like, I just want him to listen and then empathize. And he's like, well, I'm fixing and I'm offering you a reframe. Come on. And so I think one of the big things, if you want to take an actionable step, is in my book, or there's the four positions of conversation, you can download it from my website as well and just put it on your fridge. And anytime you feel like you and your partner are like, not in the same conversation, just point it out. Like, can I ask you to move into position one for a second? Or I need position one and two before I'm going to be ready for position three. Lesley Logan 37:06  Okay, Kristal, you are amazing. You're so great. All the Texans are so lucky to have you, and then those of us who aren't are just going to have to get your course, because, like, I learned so much, and these feel like common sense, but also no one, no one talks. And it's true, you hear so often, like, I don't want you to fix this. I just want you to listen. But that's if you're not trained to do that. If that's not the conversation skills you have, it's not that they're trying to do anything against you. That's what they think, that we're supposed to. Yeah. Kristal DeSantis 37:34  You're trying so hard, and it's just not landing. So you know, again, this is where people can work together to help each other out. I love that you're offering a fix. What I'm really looking for is some empathy and listening right now. Lesley Logan 37:44  Yeah, you are so fabulous. Thank you so much. I hope this was really helpful to all my listeners. I really thought it'd be an excellent way, because, also, if you want to be married for a long time to your partner, things are going to evolve. There's gonna be ups and downs on both sides, and the more we can understand the other person's perspective, the easier it is for us to be a partner without being a parent or being resentful, and we can grow together. So thank you, Kristal, for letting us have this amazing conversation. You guys. Go get her book. Strong:Kristal DeSantis 38:15  A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man Lesley Logan 38:17  Perfect. Get her book. You can read it. Give it to your partner, and also for the parents out there, I think this can be a really great conversation, and for understanding like, how are you parenting, both if you have daughters and sons, and what does that look like? Because it is true, I think we can be doing a better job of helping everybody, so we can have these partnerships that really last and they're supportive, and everyone can be stronger together. So thank you so much, Kristal. Lesley Logan 38:41  You guys, share this with a friend who needs it and tag Kristal. Tag the Be It Pod with your takeaways and until next time, Be It Till You See It. Lesley Logan 38:50  That's all I got for this episode of the Be It Till You See It Podcast. 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This season, we are looking at Invitations from God. The Bible is a book of invitations from God to mankind, urging us to become His partners in redeeming the world. The Invitations: The first invitation is an invitation to rest.—Come to me... “Come unto me, all ye that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” Matthew 11:28 A second invitation is to discipleship.—Follow me... “If anyone serves Me, let him follow Me and where I am, there My servant will be also...” John 12:26 “If anyone desires to come after me,” said Jesus, “let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me.” Luke 9:23 The third invitation is to live in the realm of God.—Abide in me... Jesus said, “Abide in Me, and I in you...” John 15:4 Host: Rachel Langston Guests: Beth & Rachel Kaiser Recording Date: January, 2025

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How do relationships, opportunities, and invitations encourage young people to remain in the church and consider church work? Rev. Seth Flick, pastor of Divine Redeemer Lutheran Church in Hartland, WI , joins Andy and Sarah for our Set Apart to Serve Series to talk about his formation as a pastor and who encouraged him in this pursuit, his congregation's emphasis on their duty to raise up future church workers, how they use relationships, opportunities, and invitations to encourage children in the faith, and the roles of other church workers and parents in their approach. Learn more about the Set Apart to Serve Initiative at lcms.org/setaparttoserve. This episode originally aired on March 8, 2024. Christ's church will continue until He returns, and that church will continue to need church workers. Set Apart to Serve (SAS) is an initiative of the LCMS to recruit church workers. Together, we pray for workers for the Kingdom of God and encourage children to consider church work vocations. Here are three easy ways you can participate in SAS: 1. Pray with your children for God to provide church workers. 2. Talk to your children about becoming church workers. 3. Thank God for the people who work in your congregation. To learn more about Set Apart to Serve, visit lcms.org/set-apart-to-serve.

When we make invitations, we're making several statements all at once-- that we have something worth offering, that the other might receive, and that they're free to make a choice one way or another. If we don't make invitations, all three of those statements get called at least into question. Listen in to find out more! As always, check out our work, and join our email list, at https://ouroutpost.org/join our free resource library platform herecatch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at hello@ouroutpost.organd please rate, review, and share!If you're a Catholic husband, feel free to sign up for some time to chat with Joseph! https://bookme.name/ouroutpost/45-minutes-with-joseph

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In this episode, we're going to talk about five invitations that can help shift your energy and bring more positivity into your life, especially during challenging times. At the time of recording, I've been having one of those weeks where everything feels like it's falling apart. But I realized that in the midst of the chaos, I had forgotten to extend the simple invitations that have the power to shift my energy and bring in the good things I'm seeking. Whether it's inviting guidance from a higher power, support from trusted friends, or peace and rest for myself, these invitations can make all the difference. I encourage you to try extending these five invitations - they may just be the key to turning things around. Action Plan: 1 - Invitation for guidance: Extend an invitation for guidance from your higher power (universe, God, etc.) to find clarity and solutions. 2 - Invitation for support: Reach out to a trusted friend and extend an invitation for support when you're feeling stuck or overwhelmed. 3 - Invitation for peace and rest: Start your day by extending an invitation for peace and rest to yourself, as it is essential for resetting your energy and mindset. 4 - Invitation for celebration: Extend an invitation for celebration with others, even if you don't feel like you have a specific reason to celebrate. 5 - Invitation for opportunity and favor: Extend an invitation for opportunity and favor from the universe, shifting your focus from problems to possibilities. Get in touch with Megan if there is a specific mindset and self-care topic you'd like her to cover. Website | Instagram