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E66 -Interview with Love Can't Wait host- Lopaze- Part 2 In this week's JUICY episode, @bcflyers2016 dives into the world of open marriages with me and practicing non-monogamy for 13 years of marriage. They've been together for 27 years talks about the ups and downs of being married and how the marriage has evolved over the years. Follow them at linktr.ee/Bcflyers2016 #bcflyers2016 #hotwifeinok Support the program: CashApp: https://cash.app/$BCFlyers2016 PayPal: bcflyers2016@paypal.com The Boardroom to Bedroom Podcast https://bcflyers2016.podbean.com/ Places to See Adult Content loyalfans.com/bcflyers2016 fansly.com/bcflyers2016 onlyfans.com/bcflyers2016 Get copies of my books: https://www.draft2digital.com/book/ Visit my websites: https://www.bcflyers2016.com https://www.bcauthors.com TWITTER twitter.com/bcflyers2016 REDDIT https://www.reddit.com/user/hotwifeinok2010
E66 - Interview with Love Can't Wait - Part 1 In this week's JUICY episode, @bcflyers2016 dives into the world of open marriages with me and practicing non-monogamy for 13 years of marriage. They've been together for 27 years talks about the ups and downs of being married and how the marriage has evolved over the years. Follow them at linktr.ee/Bcflyers2016 Support the program: CashApp: https://cash.app/$BCFlyers2016 PayPal: bcflyers2016@paypal.com The Boardroom to Bedroom Podcast https://bcflyers2016.podbean.com/ Places to See Adult Content loyalfans.com/bcflyers2016 fansly.com/bcflyers2016 onlyfans.com/bcflyers2016 Get copies of my books: https://www.draft2digital.com/book/ Visit my websites: https://www.bcflyers2016.com https://www.bcauthors.com TWITTER twitter.com/bcflyers2016 REDDIT https://www.reddit.com/user/hotwifeinok2010
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S2:E57 - Meeting People - Apps and Polyamory Announcements Announcements: Next Show S2:E58 - Miss Kitty - History, Chatting, Date Night, and Sex News and the Likes Listener Questions/Comments Ananymous - Youtube Hello! So my name is ... and I just heard your interview with Choose Your http://Relationships.com on Youtube. First of all thanks for sharing your story! I am finally inspired again after being discouraged about my wife every reconsidering the hotwife lifestyle again. I find so many parallels between our stories. Anyways, there is no way I can go back to plain ole vanilla sex. Just no way. I so want to share her with other men. It is on my mind a lot. I know you guys have a bazillion requests and questions so I understand if you cannot respond. But I just need some encouragement. How do I reignite the embers tastefully without being pushy and turn her off even more? Ananymous - Onlyfans Do you prefer having younger guys or older guys. What does your husband prefer? Love the content!! Ananymous - Reddit You are truly an inspiration and the main reason I decided to start posting. The Show Boardroom [1] Cosmopolitan: Dating apps for polyamory [2] GQ: A throuple's hope for acceptance & dealing with rejection amongst peers. Bedroom Cosmopolitan GQ magazine (On Brian, Lori, & Geli going public - dealing with rejection from their peers). Sumarize Article Https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a33626157/best-polyamorous-dating-apps/ https://www.gq.com/story/house-hunters-throuple-modern-lovers You're more likely to run into others who are ethically non-monogamous—or at least open to it: Tinder & Bumble are the top dating apps in the US. Feeld & OKCupid are also good for ENM (ethical non-monogamy) As quoted in the Cosmopolitan article: "Feeld was made for ENM. Formerly called 3nder, Feeld claims to be “a sex-positive space for humans looking to explore dating beyond the norm,” GQ Magazine: “We wanted to put the normalcy of being in a non-monogamous relationship out there,” Lori says. "After the episode aired and went viral, Geli couldn't stop scrolling through negative social media posts—the garden-variety trolls, the inaccurate assumptions about their relationship dynamic." Cosmopolitan: Reviews of 3 dating apps (Feeld, Tinder, OkCupid): “I started with Feeld, which was great when I was first exploring and is incredibly [non-monogamous] friendly. It was an education and chance for me to learn a lot (especially what various abbreviations meant!) and I met some amazing people who have been really influential for me.” —Sammy, 29, London “I gravitate more toward Tinder because the interface is better and I think it has something for everyone. [I find there can be] a lot more bi-phobia sometimes and a lot more people who are staunchly against ENM, but there's also a lot more people who practice ENM. There's a higher volume of users.” —Gabrielle, 28, New York “The number and types of filters you can set on OkCupid is super helpful because I can adjust settings so that I only see folks who are non-monogamous or are open to non-monogamy, which is a feature none of the other major apps seem to offer.” —Michelle, 27, Oregon Other LS Places / Apps 3Fun (App) www.C4P.com www.sls.com www.sdc.com www.kasadie.com www.adultfriendfinder.com Article Notes The Bottom line of dating apps? "despite ethical non-monogamy becoming more popular, the bulk of singles are still seeking more traditional relationships. That said, it is possible to find relationships that fit your needs as an ethically non-monogamous person on “regular” dating apps. You just might have to look a little deeper. " EndNotes[3] [1] ttps://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a33626157/best-polyamorous-dating-apps/ [2] https://www.gq.com/story/house-hunters-throuple-modern-lovers [3]
S2:E57 - Meeting People - Apps and Polyamory Announcements Announcements: Next Show S2:E58 - Miss Kitty - History, Chatting, Date Night, and Sex News and the Likes Listener Questions/Comments Ananymous - Youtube Hello! So my name is ... and I just heard your interview with Choose Your http://Relationships.com on Youtube. First of all thanks for sharing your story! I am finally inspired again after being discouraged about my wife every reconsidering the hotwife lifestyle again. I find so many parallels between our stories. Anyways, there is no way I can go back to plain ole vanilla sex. Just no way. I so want to share her with other men. It is on my mind a lot. I know you guys have a bazillion requests and questions so I understand if you cannot respond. But I just need some encouragement. How do I reignite the embers tastefully without being pushy and turn her off even more? Ananymous - Onlyfans Do you prefer having younger guys or older guys. What does your husband prefer? Love the content!! Ananymous - Reddit You are truly an inspiration and the main reason I decided to start posting. The Show Boardroom [1] Cosmopolitan: Dating apps for polyamory [2] GQ: A throuple's hope for acceptance & dealing with rejection amongst peers. Bedroom Cosmopolitan GQ magazine (On Brian, Lori, & Geli going public - dealing with rejection from their peers). Sumarize Article Https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a33626157/best-polyamorous-dating-apps/ https://www.gq.com/story/house-hunters-throuple-modern-lovers You're more likely to run into others who are ethically non-monogamous—or at least open to it: Tinder & Bumble are the top dating apps in the US. Feeld & OKCupid are also good for ENM (ethical non-monogamy) As quoted in the Cosmopolitan article: "Feeld was made for ENM. Formerly called 3nder, Feeld claims to be “a sex-positive space for humans looking to explore dating beyond the norm,” GQ Magazine: “We wanted to put the normalcy of being in a non-monogamous relationship out there,” Lori says. "After the episode aired and went viral, Geli couldn't stop scrolling through negative social media posts—the garden-variety trolls, the inaccurate assumptions about their relationship dynamic." Cosmopolitan: Reviews of 3 dating apps (Feeld, Tinder, OkCupid): “I started with Feeld, which was great when I was first exploring and is incredibly [non-monogamous] friendly. It was an education and chance for me to learn a lot (especially what various abbreviations meant!) and I met some amazing people who have been really influential for me.” —Sammy, 29, London “I gravitate more toward Tinder because the interface is better and I think it has something for everyone. [I find there can be] a lot more bi-phobia sometimes and a lot more people who are staunchly against ENM, but there's also a lot more people who practice ENM. There's a higher volume of users.” —Gabrielle, 28, New York “The number and types of filters you can set on OkCupid is super helpful because I can adjust settings so that I only see folks who are non-monogamous or are open to non-monogamy, which is a feature none of the other major apps seem to offer.” —Michelle, 27, Oregon Other LS Places / Apps 3Fun (App) www.C4P.com www.sls.com www.sdc.com www.kasadie.com www.adultfriendfinder.com Article Notes The Bottom line of dating apps? "despite ethical non-monogamy becoming more popular, the bulk of singles are still seeking more traditional relationships. That said, it is possible to find relationships that fit your needs as an ethically non-monogamous person on “regular” dating apps. You just might have to look a little deeper. " EndNotes[3] [1] ttps://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a33626157/best-polyamorous-dating-apps/ [2] https://www.gq.com/story/house-hunters-throuple-modern-lovers [3]
S2:E56 - Throuple Trouble Announcements Announcements: Season 2 Begins! New Video Intro We are working on splitting the Podcast more properly, so on the 1/2 hour, we will take as short 15 sec break. We are MOVING to a new studio! Well, it isn't really new, but a new place with a bit more room than we currently have! Costume Competition Next Show S2:E56 - Meeting People - Apps and Polyamory News and the Likes We are still stupid! Listener Questions/Comments Ananymous - Reddit Curious if you would help fulfill a guy's fantasy. I am married my wife cheated on me so now looking to cheat on wife with a random beautiful woman. Would love to have discreet sex during the day with you if your willing. No strings attached. Ananymous - Twitter You will be my wife. I want to fuck you hardly Ananymous - Twitter Hello!!! Found your profile and have to confess I can't seem to be able to get enough of it. Naughty, daring, open minded, honest, sexy, yet you've managed to keep it classy and kinky. Hard balance to achieve yet you're nailing it. Your new admirer! ? It's SOOOO refreshing. It comes across that way. It looks genuine. It also shows how much you two care about each other and that comes across clearly. You're obviously in a great relationship and having some naughty fun comes naturally. You're one in a million on here that's for sure. I'm so glad I found your profile. It's so rare to come across people like you guys The Show Boardroom Labor Day Push - Back to the office! Returning to the office - Forbes - Bosses are Winning the Battle to get Workers back [1] 1.Results indicate that 49% of Manhattan office workers are currently at the workplace on an average weekday—up from 38% in April. Under 10% of employees are in the office five days a week. The number of fully remote workers fell from 28% in April to 16% as of mid-September.2. In the first week following Labor Day, office usage in 10 major metro areas neared 50% of 2020's pre-pandemic attendance,[2] 1. Apple - 3 days per week - Can't replicate Us = Bookkeeper - health - great, rest - hell no!! Bedroom Men's Magazine Sumarize Article https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a30255960/throuple-relationship/ What does it mean to us? Having someone else to share with, to grow with As Womenshealth stated: Which has definite benefits, Spector says: When you have a third person involved, chances are you'll expose yourself and your original partner to qualities that both of you may want but can't offer each other. Article Notes What do you dislike the most about being in a throuple? Annie: Wanting to have sex when they didn't, and subsequently feeling incredibly rejected. Also, my male partner wasn't out about our relationship to his friends and family. Not being involved in his life outside of our relationship was heartbreaking and made me feel small and unwanted. John: I dislike having to check in with the other two. I have long been a very strong-willed and independent person, so making a unilateral and comfortable decision is easy for me. But I often have to check myself to make sure I'm aligned with what benefits us as a triad. Asher: Logistics—our society is built for pairs. I get plus one invitations all the time, and have to decide whether or not it's worth it to ask for an additional invitation. Incidentally, Disney World is totally built for throuples (two parents and their kid). We went there a year-and-a-half ago and were pleasantly surprised by how many activities the three of us could participate in as a unit. Cathy: Having to defend our relationship when we come up against negative judgement. Nicole: Being the third person coming into an existing relationship, people always assume that I'm being misled or coerced, which isn't the case at all. What is/was the hardest part about being in a throuple? Annie: There wasn't anything inherently hard about being in a throuple vs duo. Navigating boundaries took a little extra communication, though. John: The hardest part of being in a throuple is not being out to everyone. Each of our three mothers knows about us. Our closest friends know about us. But we live in a somewhat Red State, and my job, specifically, relies to a great degree on popular opinion. We have to be guarded in public situations. Asher: The hardest part about being in a throuple, like any relationship, is communication. It's really important to manage expectations and to be open and honest with each other. Like any relationship, it requires maintenance, which takes time and energy. Thomas: Time management is the hardest part about being in a throuple. Sometimes sleeping arrangements can be a bit inconvenient. Cathy: I wouldn't say it's "hard"—but having an extra person's experience to consider requires more time than when you're in a couple relationship. Nicole: Having to dedicate extra time to communication because there are additional feelings to take into consideration. However, this communication has allowed us to connect on a deeper level.] How have you and your partners overcome issues surrounding jealousy? Annie: First off, I'm not a jealous person. Second, jealousy isn't automatically damaging, it all depends on how you handle it. Having really open dialogues, checking in especially when something is new (i.e. solo sleepover), and being okay with feeling a little crumby—knowing that it doesn't mean the end of the relationship—is really important. John: I am less jealous than my wife, but we both experience it. We have had episodes of legitimate jealousy, and we have talked ourselves through it. It's all about the communication. Asher: We talk about our jealousy issues when they arise. Additionally, when the two of them are connecting and I'm not involved, my gut tells me to get in there and join and be a part of it. I resist that urge to always be included because it's important to give the other two space to work on their own connection to each other. Thomas: Not that jealousy hasn't been a problem in the past, but in this relationship it isn't because being open and honest is prioritized, plus we each give each other the freedom to live our lives in the way we would like to, which creates very little friction. Jealousy in the past has occurred because of an imbalance of power and lack of honest communication. Cathy: I feel like jealousy is a fear of loss for me. Nic met someone back home in Australia last year and I felt a bit jealous because I thought she may not come back to the U.K. I was just honest with her about it and saying it out loud made me feel better. I don't think you can ever completely avoid jealousy in relationships, regardless of their structure. But feeling empowered and able to speak truthfully about your feelings stops it from becoming an issue. Nicole: You need to approach jealousy head on. Speak about it the moment the feeling arises. Establish what has stirred those feelings and be understanding of your partners' views. People often think that two people will inevitably become closer in a throuple, and the third person ends up feeling left out. Has that happened to you? Asher: Absolutely, though not necessarily in those terms. The best lesson I've learned from being in this relationship is that it doesn't always have to be about me and that I don't need to take their relationship with each other personally; it's not a commentary on me. It's great for me to understand that resisting the urge to always be included in everything strengthens all relationships involved. Advertisement - Continue Reading Below Thomas: I wouldn't say that anyone has felt left out in our relationship, but two of us getting closer has happened before. (Nic and I were closer when we first met, then over time Cathy and Nic became closer.) But like most relationships, things continually change and we adapt accordingly. Cathy: I've never personally felt left out, but we have gone through stages when two of us have been closer. When Thomas and Nicole first met they would go out partying together and I would stay home, but I really valued that time because I have a family and a very demanding job, so time alone is super rare. Nicole: In our relationship we're all compersion weirdos. [Compersion is the feeling of vicarious joy associated with seeing one's sexual or romantic partner having another sexual or romantic relation that brings them joy. Think of it as an antonym to sexual or romantic jealousy.] What are some other misconceptions people tend to have about being in a throuple? Annie: That it's overly complicated. Love, be loved, be open and honest, and any relationship structure can work for you. Also, that you must be super kinky. Asher: I think a lot of people think it's primarily about sex, and while our throuple certainly began with an incredible sexual connection, it quickly evolved into a much more significant and meaningful relationship. I think there is also a misconception about commitment. We're not exclusive, but the three of us are definitely committed. Thomas: There's always this idea that I'm this straight dude at the center of the relationship being serviced by Catherine and Nicole; that they are somehow my possessions and there to please me. Also I identify as pansexual and am attracted to people regardless of their gender identity, so it's likely that our throuple relationship will evolve again at some point. Cathy: That it makes us bad parents. We have an 8-year-old son who absolutely adores Nicole (Aunty Nic) and understands that both Thomas and I love her. We feel that being completely transparent with him is healthy and allows him to understand that relationships and families come in all shapes and sizes. Also our relationship choice came about because we all watched our parents struggle to stay together (all of our parents are divorced) due to lack of communication and/or infidelity. We wanted to try and do things differently and prioritize being honest with one another. For us, it felt like a much healthier lesson to teach a young person. Nicole: People often think that because you've got multiple partners that you're easy or up for anything sexual. EndNotes [1] https://www.forbes.com/sites/jackkelly/2022/09/20/bosses-are-winning-the-battle-to-get-workers-back-to-the-office/?sh=44679e55783e [2] https://hubblehq.com/blog/famous-companies-workplace-strategies#apple
S2:E56 - Throuple Trouble Announcements Announcements: Season 2 Begins! New Video Intro We are working on splitting the Podcast more properly, so on the 1/2 hour, we will take as short 15 sec break. We are MOVING to a new studio! Well, it isn't really new, but a new place with a bit more room than we currently have! Costume Competition Next Show S2:E56 - Meeting People - Apps and Polyamory News and the Likes We are still stupid! Listener Questions/Comments Ananymous - Reddit Curious if you would help fulfill a guy's fantasy. I am married my wife cheated on me so now looking to cheat on wife with a random beautiful woman. Would love to have discreet sex during the day with you if your willing. No strings attached. Ananymous - Twitter You will be my wife. I want to fuck you hardly Ananymous - Twitter Hello!!! Found your profile and have to confess I can't seem to be able to get enough of it. Naughty, daring, open minded, honest, sexy, yet you've managed to keep it classy and kinky. Hard balance to achieve yet you're nailing it. Your new admirer! ? It's SOOOO refreshing. It comes across that way. It looks genuine. It also shows how much you two care about each other and that comes across clearly. You're obviously in a great relationship and having some naughty fun comes naturally. You're one in a million on here that's for sure. I'm so glad I found your profile. It's so rare to come across people like you guys The Show Boardroom Labor Day Push - Back to the office! Returning to the office - Forbes - Bosses are Winning the Battle to get Workers back [1] 1.Results indicate that 49% of Manhattan office workers are currently at the workplace on an average weekday—up from 38% in April. Under 10% of employees are in the office five days a week. The number of fully remote workers fell from 28% in April to 16% as of mid-September.2. In the first week following Labor Day, office usage in 10 major metro areas neared 50% of 2020's pre-pandemic attendance,[2] 1. Apple - 3 days per week - Can't replicate Us = Bookkeeper - health - great, rest - hell no!! Bedroom Men's Magazine Sumarize Article https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a30255960/throuple-relationship/ What does it mean to us? Having someone else to share with, to grow with As Womenshealth stated: Which has definite benefits, Spector says: When you have a third person involved, chances are you'll expose yourself and your original partner to qualities that both of you may want but can't offer each other. Article Notes What do you dislike the most about being in a throuple? Annie: Wanting to have sex when they didn't, and subsequently feeling incredibly rejected. Also, my male partner wasn't out about our relationship to his friends and family. Not being involved in his life outside of our relationship was heartbreaking and made me feel small and unwanted. John: I dislike having to check in with the other two. I have long been a very strong-willed and independent person, so making a unilateral and comfortable decision is easy for me. But I often have to check myself to make sure I'm aligned with what benefits us as a triad. Asher: Logistics—our society is built for pairs. I get plus one invitations all the time, and have to decide whether or not it's worth it to ask for an additional invitation. Incidentally, Disney World is totally built for throuples (two parents and their kid). We went there a year-and-a-half ago and were pleasantly surprised by how many activities the three of us could participate in as a unit. Cathy: Having to defend our relationship when we come up against negative judgement. Nicole: Being the third person coming into an existing relationship, people always assume that I'm being misled or coerced, which isn't the case at all. What is/was the hardest part about being in a throuple? Annie: There wasn't anything inherently hard about being in a throuple vs duo. Navigating boundaries took a little extra communication, though. John: The hardest part of being in a throuple is not being out to everyone. Each of our three mothers knows about us. Our closest friends know about us. But we live in a somewhat Red State, and my job, specifically, relies to a great degree on popular opinion. We have to be guarded in public situations. Asher: The hardest part about being in a throuple, like any relationship, is communication. It's really important to manage expectations and to be open and honest with each other. Like any relationship, it requires maintenance, which takes time and energy. Thomas: Time management is the hardest part about being in a throuple. Sometimes sleeping arrangements can be a bit inconvenient. Cathy: I wouldn't say it's "hard"—but having an extra person's experience to consider requires more time than when you're in a couple relationship. Nicole: Having to dedicate extra time to communication because there are additional feelings to take into consideration. However, this communication has allowed us to connect on a deeper level.] How have you and your partners overcome issues surrounding jealousy? Annie: First off, I'm not a jealous person. Second, jealousy isn't automatically damaging, it all depends on how you handle it. Having really open dialogues, checking in especially when something is new (i.e. solo sleepover), and being okay with feeling a little crumby—knowing that it doesn't mean the end of the relationship—is really important. John: I am less jealous than my wife, but we both experience it. We have had episodes of legitimate jealousy, and we have talked ourselves through it. It's all about the communication. Asher: We talk about our jealousy issues when they arise. Additionally, when the two of them are connecting and I'm not involved, my gut tells me to get in there and join and be a part of it. I resist that urge to always be included because it's important to give the other two space to work on their own connection to each other. Thomas: Not that jealousy hasn't been a problem in the past, but in this relationship it isn't because being open and honest is prioritized, plus we each give each other the freedom to live our lives in the way we would like to, which creates very little friction. Jealousy in the past has occurred because of an imbalance of power and lack of honest communication. Cathy: I feel like jealousy is a fear of loss for me. Nic met someone back home in Australia last year and I felt a bit jealous because I thought she may not come back to the U.K. I was just honest with her about it and saying it out loud made me feel better. I don't think you can ever completely avoid jealousy in relationships, regardless of their structure. But feeling empowered and able to speak truthfully about your feelings stops it from becoming an issue. Nicole: You need to approach jealousy head on. Speak about it the moment the feeling arises. Establish what has stirred those feelings and be understanding of your partners' views. People often think that two people will inevitably become closer in a throuple, and the third person ends up feeling left out. Has that happened to you? Asher: Absolutely, though not necessarily in those terms. The best lesson I've learned from being in this relationship is that it doesn't always have to be about me and that I don't need to take their relationship with each other personally; it's not a commentary on me. It's great for me to understand that resisting the urge to always be included in everything strengthens all relationships involved. Advertisement - Continue Reading Below Thomas: I wouldn't say that anyone has felt left out in our relationship, but two of us getting closer has happened before. (Nic and I were closer when we first met, then over time Cathy and Nic became closer.) But like most relationships, things continually change and we adapt accordingly. Cathy: I've never personally felt left out, but we have gone through stages when two of us have been closer. When Thomas and Nicole first met they would go out partying together and I would stay home, but I really valued that time because I have a family and a very demanding job, so time alone is super rare. Nicole: In our relationship we're all compersion weirdos. [Compersion is the feeling of vicarious joy associated with seeing one's sexual or romantic partner having another sexual or romantic relation that brings them joy. Think of it as an antonym to sexual or romantic jealousy.] What are some other misconceptions people tend to have about being in a throuple? Annie: That it's overly complicated. Love, be loved, be open and honest, and any relationship structure can work for you. Also, that you must be super kinky. Asher: I think a lot of people think it's primarily about sex, and while our throuple certainly began with an incredible sexual connection, it quickly evolved into a much more significant and meaningful relationship. I think there is also a misconception about commitment. We're not exclusive, but the three of us are definitely committed. Thomas: There's always this idea that I'm this straight dude at the center of the relationship being serviced by Catherine and Nicole; that they are somehow my possessions and there to please me. Also I identify as pansexual and am attracted to people regardless of their gender identity, so it's likely that our throuple relationship will evolve again at some point. Cathy: That it makes us bad parents. We have an 8-year-old son who absolutely adores Nicole (Aunty Nic) and understands that both Thomas and I love her. We feel that being completely transparent with him is healthy and allows him to understand that relationships and families come in all shapes and sizes. Also our relationship choice came about because we all watched our parents struggle to stay together (all of our parents are divorced) due to lack of communication and/or infidelity. We wanted to try and do things differently and prioritize being honest with one another. For us, it felt like a much healthier lesson to teach a young person. Nicole: People often think that because you've got multiple partners that you're easy or up for anything sexual. EndNotes [1] https://www.forbes.com/sites/jackkelly/2022/09/20/bosses-are-winning-the-battle-to-get-workers-back-to-the-office/?sh=44679e55783e [2] https://hubblehq.com/blog/famous-companies-workplace-strategies#apple
S2:E55 - Throuples and Us Announcements Announcements: Season 2 Begins! New Video Intro We are working on splitting the Podcast more properly, so on the 1/2 hour, we will take as short 15 sec break. Next Show S2:E55 - Throuples and Us News and the Likes We are still stupid! Listener Questions/Comments We just found your YouTube channel today and subscribed. We've been married 35 years and in the LS for 12. She 's having her first Gang Bang next week and is very excited, but also very nervous. We watched your podcast from April 28th today and it really helped her to relax more. Thank you for sharing your experiences. The Show Boardroom Meetings and Efficiency Meetings should have agenda's Meetings should have a time scope (start and stop time) Meetings should be as productive as possible. Meeting are already in-efficient. If we were perfectly in sync and on the same page, there would never be a need for meeting. So, we take people from their productive format (whatever their are paid by the company to do) and we bring them to a meeting about inefficiency. So we make them more inefficient to make them more efficient. Meeting Traps Captivated Audience So speakers drone on Management and employees in one place So people want to "show/display their worth" Too much feedback to simple questions Productive Meetings Have an agenda Stick to the time allotted MEASURE performance! If you are continually discussing the same things, you are making no progress and just wasting time. Have a "Back to Work" time. Bedroom What is a Throuple?[1] Womens Magazine What does it mean, in general? A committed, balanced relationship between three people. Not an open relationship Not a Threesome - which simply means sex involving 3 people Same as a Triad (often called that in non-monogamy circles). Throuple is a more mainstream, monogamy reference to a Triad. Mens Magazine Sumarize Article https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a30255960/throuple-relationship/ What does it mean to us? Having someone else to share with, to grow with As Womenshealth stated: Which has definite benefits, Spector says: When you have a third person involved, chances are you'll expose yourself and your original partner to qualities that both of you may want but can't offer each other. Corrie's take; Different perspectives- - help understand one another better Give others a break Everything from one person is a lot of pressure- Dr. Marston's Wonder Women "If you could combine the two of you, you'd be the perfect woman" Insulted Relieved - Negative? Don't ever want to be left out - like a pre-schooler Want things to be fair - like a pre-schooler EndNotes [1] https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/a27346835/what-is-a-throuple-relationship/
S2:E55 - Throuples and Us Announcements: Season 2 Begins! New Video Intro We are working on splitting the Podcast more properly, so on the 1/2 hour, we will take as short 15 sec break. Next Show S2:E55 - Throuples and Us News and the Likes We are still stupid! Listener Questions/Comments We just found your YouTube channel today and subscribed. We've been married 35 years and in the LS for 12. She 's having her first Gang Bang next week and is very excited, but also very nervous. We watched your podcast from April 28th today and it really helped her to relax more. Thank you for sharing your experiences. The Show Boardroom Meetings and Efficiency Meetings should have agenda's Meetings should have a time scope (start and stop time) Meetings should be as productive as possible. Meeting are already in-efficient. If we were perfectly in sync and on the same page, there would never be a need for meeting. So, we take people from their productive format (whatever their are paid by the company to do) and we bring them to a meeting about inefficiency. So we make them more inefficient to make them more efficient. Meeting Traps Captivated Audience So speakers drone on Management and employees in one place So people want to "show/display their worth" Too much feedback to simple questions Productive Meetings Have an agenda Stick to the time allotted MEASURE performance! If you are continually discussing the same things, you are making no progress and just wasting time. Have a "Back to Work" time. Bedroom What is a Throuple?[1] Womens Magazine What does it mean, in general? A committed, balanced relationship between three people. Not an open relationship Not a Threesome - which simply means sex involving 3 people Same as a Triad (often called that in non-monogamy circles). Throuple is a more mainstream, monogamy reference to a Triad. Mens Magazine Sumarize Article https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a30255960/throuple-relationship/ What does it mean to us? Having someone else to share with, to grow with As Womenshealth stated: Which has definite benefits, Spector says: When you have a third person involved, chances are you'll expose yourself and your original partner to qualities that both of you may want but can't offer each other. Corrie's take; Different perspectives- - help understand one another better Give others a break Everything from one person is a lot of pressure- Dr. Marston's Wonder Women "If you could combine the two of you, you'd be the perfect woman" Insulted Relieved - Negative? Don't ever want to be left out - like a pre-schooler Want things to be fair - like a pre-schooler EndNotes [1] https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/a27346835/what-is-a-throuple-relationship/
S2:E54 - And Then There Were Three! Announcements Announcements: Season 2 Begins! We survived the summer!! No, we didn't know there would be seasons! Planning I am a spontaneous planner! Over The Summer GrandKat Last daughter off to college Bought a Restaurant Bought a Bakery Meet Our Lady: Miss Kitty Say Hey, Miss Kitty! Next Show S2:E55 - News and the Likes Georgia Lawmaker comes out as non-monogamous[1] NY Post - Jana Hocking - Article that ENM Turns Her On [2] Said she discovered when a friend got divorced and started dating on apps and said the only people she was matching with were ENM. NY Post Polyamorous Section https://nypost.com/tag/polyamorous/ Listener Questions/Comments We just found your YouTube channel today and subscribed. We've been married 35 years and in the LS for 12. She 's having her first Gang Bang next week and is very excited, but also very nervous. We watched your podcast from April 28th today and it really helped her to relax more. Thank you for sharing your experiences. It's The Show Boardroom No Boardroom today Bedroom So, we are now in a DON'T SAY IT: Throuple Never say never! Season of Women Bumble EndNotes [1] https://www.newsweek.com/what-ethical-non-monogamy-us-politician-comes-out-polyamorous-1747639 [2] https://nypost.com/2022/07/21/ethical-non-monogamy-is-a-turn-on-for-me/
S2:E54 - And Then There Were Three! Announcements Announcements: Season 2 Begins! We survived the summer!! No, we didn't know there would be seasons! Planning I am a spontaneous planner! Over The Summer GrandKat Last daughter off to college Bought a Restaurant Bought a Bakery Meet Our Lady: Miss Kitty Say Hey, Miss Kitty! Next Show S2:E55 - News and the Likes Georgia Lawmaker comes out as non-monogamous[1] NY Post - Jana Hocking - Article that ENM Turns Her On [2] Said she discovered when a friend got divorced and started dating on apps and said the only people she was matching with were ENM. NY Post Polyamorous Section https://nypost.com/tag/polyamorous/ Listener Questions/Comments We just found your YouTube channel today and subscribed. We've been married 35 years and in the LS for 12. She 's having her first Gang Bang next week and is very excited, but also very nervous. We watched your podcast from April 28th today and it really helped her to relax more. Thank you for sharing your experiences. It's The Show Boardroom No Boardroom today Bedroom So, we are now in a DON'T SAY IT: Throuple Never say never! Season of Women Bumble EndNotes [1] https://www.newsweek.com/what-ethical-non-monogamy-us-politician-comes-out-polyamorous-1747639 [2] https://nypost.com/2022/07/21/ethical-non-monogamy-is-a-turn-on-for-me/
Interview by: FireBreathinRob Part 2 Podcaster, Radio, and Youtube Personality: FireBreathingRob Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/FIREBREATHINROB/videos Twitter: https://twitter.com/convoswithrob?lang=en
Interview by: FireBreathinRob Podcaster, Radio, and Youtube Personality: FireBreathingRob Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/FIREBREATHINROB/videos Twitter: https://twitter.com/convoswithrob?lang=en
Re-Broadcast of Episode 10 - Playing with Ladies.
Bedroom Summary last show Decision to go exclusive Lots of time together - having fun Hell week - Corrie fucks up, a lot Anniversary week - alcoholic and near death Break up Back together Overnights Final break up Life as a threesome
Episode 2 - Our Exclusive Couple Experience
E40 - Girlfriend Experience Part 3 Announcements Announcements: PGA Today Tiger, Rory, Jordan There are some Beautiful Ladies on Twitter! Foxy Viking Meet Setup - Really Hope it Happens! Erin Moore Really Hoping we can pull this off as well! Next Show E41 - Our Only Exclusive Couple Experience - Part 1 News and the Likes Listener Questions/Comments SQ36 - On the falling out of love - I consistently hear "I love you, but am not in love with you". As a religious culture, we have destroyed the emotional connectivity surrounding love. The Show Boardroom Business Value What is your business worth? Book Value Revenue Multiple? EBITDA Multiple? Business Valuation Good - get good value Bad - Expensive to do on a regular basis Good to do on Entry or Exit of a Partner. Business % Value 409a Valuation Bedroom Las Vegas We had sex and didn't tell her Trip Extended, tempers high Chasing Brad in the lobby The Lake New York Immigration Back together in August Final straw EndNotes
E39 - Girlfriend Experience Part 2 Announcements Announcements: There are some Beautiful Ladies on Twitter! Foxy Viking Erin Moore YourDreamCouple Annabelle Peaches Next Show E40 - Girlfriend Experience Part 3 News and the Likes Formula Issue and Lies [i] Congress saying we had stockpile, WH and Dems said they were lying Cancelled 43% of manufactures production with no plan to catch up In Fall of last year, Whistleblower alerted to bacteria issue. March, FDA said bacteria did not match bacteria in infant deaths; recall; Abbot facility complied, still not open (they manufacture 43% of Baby Formula). No tariff work or import work to close the baby formula shortage caused by the administration. Abbot Received permission to reopen, will likely take 2 weeks and 6-8 weeks for product, AFTER this report went public!! [ii] Border Crisis Dem's voted to allow Arrest Warrant Documents as Proof of ID to be admitted into the country! Listener Questions/Comments SQ-55 Hey! I have been following you for awhile, especially since I discussed with my wife about the lifestyle I was in before we got married and how I wanted to introduce her into the stag/vixen and or hotwife lifestyle. She created a Reddit and learns more everyday, even if it's only just a fantasy she now shares with me. The Show Boardroom Bedroom [iii]10 Bad Health Habits that Can Ruin Your Relationship Smoking Keeping Emotions Bottled Letting Yourself Go Letting Yourself Go Excessive Drinking Excessive Drinking Doing Drugs Not Getting Help When You Need It Lying Lack of Physical Intimacy Introducing Girlfriend to the Friends Group Friend Night - Chinese Night Drama in The Work Place - Admin Jealous of Friend Jealous of Admin Las Vegas EndNotes [i] https://video.foxbusiness.com/v/6306260770112#sp=show-clips [ii] https://www.foxbusiness.com/economy/baby-formula-shortage-abbott-and-fda-reach-deal-on-reopening-plant [iii]https://www.activebeat.com/diet-nutrition/10-bad-health-habits-that-can-ruin-your-relationship/?utm_medium=cpc&utm_source=google_search_network&utm_campaign=AB_GGL_US_DESKTOP&utm_content=g_c_517635342131&utm_term=relationships&placement=kwd-10187681&utm_acid=1504835999&utm_caid=12874789832&utm_agid=121884657096&utm_os=&utm_pagetype=var-multi&device=c&gclid=CjwKCAjw7IeUBhBbEiwADhiEMUbIo0Easq3JhlKRHfxJOXYWLpzb49XL84va7-ffp7yEzfcXMVQtaRoC1uAQAvD_BwE
E38 - Discovered in a Small Town Announcements Announcements: Our trip starts one month from today!! It's 91 here, so we are headed to the lake! Our Ruumba is still for sale Next Show E39 - The Last Girlfriend Experience - Part 2 News and the Likes Russia withdrawing troops after heavy losses [i] Elon Musk under investigation on Twitter Deal[ii] Crash of Terra USD - Crypto Crash[iii] Biden Admininstration cancels drilling contracts amid surge in Gas Prices. [iv] Podcast about how harmful OF is to girls - "selling their bodies". Listener Questions/Comments General Comment: Thanks for sharing your stories and making us feel less crazy The Show Boardroom Bedroom Computer IT guy Email mishap Threat Meet up What did we learn? Everyone lies on their profile Police Dept Reddit leak Message from Friend What did learn? Decided to quit caring Assume everyone knows Small Town Dynamics Prevalent but secretive "rich" neighborhood and friends EndNotes [i] https://www.foxnews.com/world/russia-withdrawing-troops-kharkiv-ukraine-war-uk-says [ii] https://www.forbes.com/sites/zacharysmith/2022/05/11/sec-reportedly-investigates-musk-for-delay-in-disclosing-5-twitter-stake/?sh=7e198aad37b2 [iii] https://www.wsj.com/articles/crash-of-terrausd-shakes-crypto-there-was-a-run-on-the-bank-11652371839?mod=hp_lead_pos7 [iv] https://www.wsj.com/articles/biden-administration-cancels-oil-and-gas-drilling-leases-in-gulf-of-mexico-alaska-coast-11652378410?mod=hp_lead_pos11
E37 - Planes, Paraguay, and Puerto Rican Booty Announcements Announcements: Packing for the gym Next Show E38 - Discovered in a Small Town News and the Likes Roe V Wade (Alito Opinion)[i] As A Women's Rights Issue The basic issue for me is the argument, her body, her choice. ZERO ARGUMENT, until pregnancy. Overturning it would not outlaw abortion it would make it a States Right Issue As a Court Decision It framed an abortion as a constitutional right, something never mentioned or intended in its writing It struck down laws in all 50 states and several Federal laws Many, many jurists have been concerned it was a massive court over reach including the late Ruth Bader Ginsburg The court in Roe purported to find the constitutional right to abortion in the 14th Amendment, which says that no state can “deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law.”[ii] this a time when abortion laws were being tightened. In an attempt to say unborn persons are not a person in the whole sense, he referenced something he called "pre-natal application", like the requirement that one must be 35 years old to run for president. How does this parallel that before 35, you are not a whole person or that persons under 35 don't have rights (or in the womb). Listener Questions/Comments SQ-36 Commonly asked question - Are you guys in the Mile-high club? The Show Boardroom When should you plan for Taxes and Asset Purchases? Bedroom Pilot history - When and how that began How did the Paraquay trip come about? Why did you decide to go alone? Highlights of the trip Maps? Pics Puerto Rico Booty! Crossing the Equator Dogs Storms and the rain forest Scariest story for Corrie Crazy hotel Paraquay Ranch, new friends Show Wrap EndNotes [i] https://www.documentcloud.org/documents/21835435-scotus-initial-draft#document/p40/a2102453 [ii] https://www.postandcourier.com/opinion/commentary/roe-v-wade-a-horrific-overreach/article_14cca854-7ef5-11e8-a8db-139bbef8db60.html
E36 - Our Latest Girlfriend - Part 1 Announcements Announcements: Happy Cinco de Mayo! [i]Only 40% of Americans know it isn't Independence Day - Sept 16 Cinco De Mayo commemorates the Battle of Puebla when Mexico defeated the French army. Bigger in Us, popular amongst Mexican-Americans in 60-70s - become commercialize Many don't like it because it's just an excuse to Party - yes Next Show E37 - Planes, Paraguay, and Puerto Rican Booty! News and the Likes Democracy vs Republic It MATTERS!! It matters in government. It matters in business (twitter board almost going against shareholders) you have ONE vote that matters in a Republic! USA Fun Facts - State of Relationships[ii] More divorce, less widows. Households with Married Couples 1949 - 78.8% - 2021 - 47.3% People Living Alone 1960 - 3.8% Now, All time high, 11.1% Average Married Age 1890 - Men - 26, Women 22 Lowest - Men 22 - 1956, Women 20 - 1956 Now - Men 30.4, Women 28.6 Listener Questions/Comments SQ-36 Hello! We Just wanted to reach out and say thanks so much for sharing. We are a Hotwife couple who have followed you over the years. We have had many experiences thanks to you! So much cool inspiration you have given us to be ourselves and go get what we want. Really appreciate it and we hope good times keep rolling for you and yours! The Show Boardroom Bedroom How it began. Fun from the beginning? Jealousy? Overnights Alone? Why did you do it? Would you ever have a boyfriend? Will you do it again? Why did it end? General feedback Acquaintence who has had several. The GF can never be "caught up" or on the same page as the couple...they always feel left out, no matter how hard the couples tries to make her feel included. She simply wasn't there for most of the history. Show Wrap EndNotes [i] https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2022/05/04/cinco-de-mayo-2022-mexico-us-holiday/7403350001/ [ii] https://usafacts.org/articles/state-relationships-marriages-and-living-alone-us/?utm_source=Twitter&utm_medium=Paid&utm_campaign=General&utm_content=Relationships_Desktop&twclid=26trpo0333dvtiv5fx6u6re6op