Complicated Simplicity Podcast

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In the last episode of the SZN the pod squad goes out with a few laughs. Hope you enjoy.

On this episode: The pod squad of Normal Chris, Tonie The Owl, Thangin' Ty and Ollie Cobain are back. We discuss receiving blessings, Mo'Nique's comments about representing yourself in the spaces like the airport, Summer Walker's vegan diet for her baby, hyphenating names and parenting beef. Also we get into a heated debate about if a man can actually being able to pursue happiness AFTER getting in a relationship if it doesn't mean making more money and if it's feasible?Intro song:  West Indian Archie by Jeff WalkerCheck it out and share and follow our pages!Instagram: @complicatedsimplicitypodcastFacebook: Complicated Simplicity PodcastTwitter: CSimplicitypod

On this episode: The pod squad of Normal Chris, Tonie The Owl, and Ollie Cobain have returned for an episode of laughs, deep thoughts, and free game!  We discuss if you would choose business over your friends, can you be with someone you don't admire, why is it so difficult for women to leave, and breadcrumbing. Check it out and share with a friend.Also s/o to Duffel clothing.Intro song: Leak off of West Indian Archie by Jeff WalkerCheck it out and share and follow our pages!Instagram: @complicatedsimplicitypodcastFacebook: Complicated Simplicity PodcastTwitter: CSimplicitypod

On this episode: Normal Chris, Thangin' Ty, and Tonie The Owl are back for another episode and we are joined by our special guest Arlin aka City Girl Lin. The episode begins with our usual recap of our week and a few stories before we address 3 main topics. In light of some of the things1. If you're boss was a good person and contributed positively to the community and our people as a whole via opportunities and acquisition of power, would you find it necessary to air out any grievances you have with him/her or would you turn a blind eye to some things to support their ascension?2. Are women projecting their own insecurities on men as it pertains to the glamorization of plastic surgery or the women that have received plastic surgery?3. When you feel like you wear too many hats how do you balance it all to avoid burnout?Check it out and share and follow our pages!Instagram: @complicatedsimplicitypodcastFacebook: Complicated Simplicity PodcastTwitter: CSimplicitypod

On this episode: The pod squad is back with Essence Money as a special guest. We recap our Mother's Day weekend, the Verzuz battle and a bunch of current event topics. Tune in and share with friend.Check it out and share and follow our pages!Instagram: @complicatedsimplicitypodcastFacebook: Complicated Simplicity PodcastTwitter: CSimplicitypod

On this episode: The pod squad recaps our respective weekends. Random PSA, stay away from drugs. Then we discuss if you're ever too old for a hoe phase and if one is needed at all. Also if your partner offered you a hall pass would you take it? Why or why not?  After giving our opinions on each questions Tonie poses the question of what do we feel we have to contribute to the community or the culture? And lastly what was your wildest night in your 20's. Check it out and share and follow our pages!Instagram: @complicatedsimplicitypodcastFacebook: Complicated Simplicity PodcastTwitter: CSimplicitypod

On this episode: Justice is FINALLY served. Derek Chauvin is now a convicted murderer and the Floyd family can have a small piece of closure.Onto other things, we discuss a few questions. First, if you were to meet your untimely demise early in life would you want your partner to remarry? Why or why notSecondly, what's something a woman can get a man that's equivalent to a man getting a woman flowers?Then we venture off into a convo about dating and not introducing people into a vibe you can't maintain. To hear all of our responses check out the episode on all streaming platforms.Check it out and share and follow our pages!Instagram: @complicatedsimplicitypodcastFacebook: Complicated Simplicity PodcastTwitter: CSimplicitypod

On this episode: The pod squad is joined by a special guest this week, Brionna! We begin with a quick recap of everyone's week including Chris transitioning into being an old man and Tyana's experience as a vendor at The Women's Empowerment conference. We pay our respects to DMX and the impact he left on us. Also Tonie leads us into a conversation that address microagressions and gaslighting and how do we deal with those types of situations. Also we explore what's something each of us want people to understand about us that may be genrally misunderstood?  Instead of letting people control the narrative, we offer clarity on what it is we want people to understand.Lastly, in the light of the tragic and unnecessary passing of Daunte Wright at the hands of police and the contentious interaction with Army Lt. Caron Nazario with police at a routine traffic stop we pose another question:  Are we wasting our breath trying to get people to acknowledge racism and white supremacy in America?To hear all of our responses check out the episode on all streaming platforms.Check it out and share and follow our pages!Instagram: @complicatedsimplicitypodcastFacebook: Complicated Simplicity PodcastTwitter: CSimplicitypod

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On this episode: Gunshot Ty has returned!!! The podcast teamed has returned from the brief hiatus. Covid scares and farms got in the way but show must go on. We recap what we been up to and give our take on two of the most recent Verzuz announcements. Also we touch base on the Derrick Jaxn situation and the Quavo and Saweetie breakup.  Then we also discuss which would take priority, business or friendship? If you go into business together and y'all start beefing, which are you tryna save?  Lil' Nas X is buggin but what else is new.Tyana and Tonie flash back to their high school rivalry.We also shoutout @missthrilla and the upcoming pod from Ramos and friends.Then we end with not one but TWO would you rather questions!Check it out and share and follow our pages!Instagram: @complicatedsimplicitypodcastFacebook: Complicated Simplicity PodcastTwitter: CSimplicitypod

On this episode: It's fellas night again. Chris, Jon, Ryan and Greg team up to talk about the importance of health as Ryan tells updates his condition and the importance of discovering symptoms early and regular check ups. We also get into a passionate discussion about the recent of Verzuz by Triller and Tidal by Square and the importance of black ownership and if it's more important than having a seat at the table. After that we close with if you feel like you could wife a girl that smashed a homie and a few more topics.  Lock in with us and let us know what you think.Check it out and share and follow our pages!Instagram: @complicatedsimplicitypodcastFacebook: Complicated Simplicity PodcastTwitter: CSimplicitypod

On this episode: The pod squad returns after a week off to discuss a few topics a recall the past week.  Ollie pops in mid-episode as we're discussing Coming 2 America and if we found the movie enjoyable or not? Spoiler alert if you haven't watched it. Also we lightly touch on the TI and Tiny controversy and the wild allegations they are facing.  Following that topic we ask the two black women on the show do they feel flattered or appropriated when outside cultures borrow their style, fashion, or swag. Also keeping in mind that black women borrow from other cultures as well.And then we end with not one but 2 WOULD YOU RATHER QOTD.Check it out and share and follow our pages!Instagram: @complicatedsimplicitypodcastFacebook: Complicated Simplicity PodcastTwitter: CSimplicitypod

On this episode: Tonie takes the lead with a myriad of random questions as only he can. No need for a description on this one because we were all over the place. And then we end with a WOULD YOU RATHER QOTD.Check it out and share and follow our pages!Instagram: @complicatedsimplicitypodcastFacebook: Complicated Simplicity PodcastTwitter: CSimplicitypod

On this episode: Fresh off Valentine's Day weekend the CS pod squad is back to recap the "holiday" that just passed and discuss a few relationship themed topics. Are men supposed to get gifts for Valentine's Day and will you judge him if he complains when he doesn't get anything?We also do a mental health check in to make sure errybody gucci!Which is worse: Romantic breakups or friend breakups?What's more important in a relationship: love or respect?Can you be with someone who is financially unstable? Can the ambition override that?And then we end with a WOULD YOU RATHER QOTD.Check it out and share and follow our pages!Instagram: @complicatedsimplicitypodcastFacebook: Complicated Simplicity PodcastTwitter: CSimplicitypod

On this episode: The Complicated Simplicity Podcast bonus episode series continues. Joining Chris this week are special guests Jon and Greg. For this all male panel discussion we talk about the importance of following your goals but at what cost? Also some strong takes about what we would like to see improved on both the men and women's side of relationships need to be improved amongst a few other topics that provide our prospective on.Check it out and share and follow our pages!Instagram: @complicatedsimplicitypodcastFacebook: Complicated Simplicity PodcastTwitter: CSimplicitypod

On this episode: The Complicated Simplicity Podcast returns for a new episode. Joining us this week is a special guest. Our friend Ollie blesses us with her presence to join in on the laughs as we recap some of the ongoings in the  world but also helps us with the main topic which is the struggle with spirituality and religion.Before getting into the more serious topics we touch on the Chloe Bailey situation, some of our favorite non sexual turn ons and turn offs, and women's group chats vs. men's group chats.Business of the week: Sweet Keep EventsOutro song: Dupree's Freestyle (He's 10!)Check it out and share and follow our pages!Instagram: @complicatedsimplicitypodcastFacebook: Complicated Simplicity PodcastTwitter: CSimplicitypod

On this episode: The Complicated Simplicity Podcast returns for a new episode. Tonie tells us why he LOVES Clubhouse, Chris tells about his first massage experience, and Ty tells us about her new adventure in tiny living. After recapping the verzuz the teams  dives into the weeks topics.- Does someone having a mental issue make it hard for you to believe any allegations they make against someone? Specifically referencing the ongoing Raz B situation.- Would you still follow someone or allow them to follow you of it was causing issues in their relationship? Why or why not?- We discuss the incident that took place in Harlem, NY involving the black woman was brutally attacked by black men simply for denying the offer of letting them pay for her wine and what we like to see done.And then of course we just get random! Check it out and share and follow our pages!Instagram: @complicatedsimplicitypodcastFacebook: Complicated Simplicity PodcastTwitter: CSimplicitypod

On this episode: The Complicated Simplicity Podcast returns for the first episode of 2021! Ty is back with her shenanigans. Tonie is half way vaccinated and Chris is buying guns.  We recap what we did over the past week and some of the current events including the insurrection at the capitol among other things. We also have a discussion regarding censorship before taking a curve and discuss the 5 love languages and how they impact relationships.  The team is reunited and it feels so good.  Tune in and laugh with us.Instagram: @complicatedsimplicitypodcastFacebook: Complicated Simplicity PodcastTwitter: CSimplicitypod

On this episode: The Complicated Simplicity Podcast returns for another week of topics. Tyana is still away on vacation so guests Myah and Nicole fill in and join Chris and Tonie to discuss a few topics.  Nicole saw a post online stating that women date men's pockets and men date women's bodies and we explore if that's a true assessment.(15:00) Also does a man deserve romantic love if he can't provide anything? (48:01)Are we systemically set up to fail? (71:08) What should your friend circle look like? (107:34)Intro song: Ock Milly - Stick TogetherBusiness of the week - Suite105 Event venue in Sicklerville, New JerseyAddress: 412 Sicklerville Rd Unit 104A, Sicklerville, NJ 08081Instagram: @complicatedsimplicitypodcastFacebook: Complicated Simplicity PodcastTwitter: CSimplicitypod

On this episode: Everyone recaps their week as we head into the holidays and what they'll be doing with their $600 stimmy.  Also tells us her travel plans and her solo RV/tiny house expedition. and then TOPICS! This week the team is led by Tonie as he delves into what cancelled culture is and why it is an accepted norm now not just among celebrities, but among every day people.  A very detailed breakdown of possible reasons follows. Check it out and let us know if you agree or disagree.Instagram: @complicatedsimplicitypodcastFacebook: Complicated Simplicity PodcastTwitter: CSimplicitypod

On this episode: This week the pod squad is joined by a special guest...Nicole! We recap the week. Chris has done  180 on the covid vaccine, Tonie tells about us about his Baby dreams, and then Tyana leads us into our topics. What makes you difficult to deal with? When do you cut your hoes off? What's the biggest lie people tell the opposite sex? What's the most childish thing you still do? and lastly what's the first thing you would do if you woke up as the opposite gender? Take a listen and tell us what you think!Business of the week: Spoiled_chicInstagram: @complicatedsimplicitypodcastFacebook: Complicated Simplicity PodcastTwitter: CSimplicitypod

On this episode: the pod squad reunites after Thanksgiving and Tyana's 30th birthday trip. After some catching up the team discusses a few topics including establishments with restrictions that  seem to target black people, does a man with his stuff together have the right to act like he's the catch in the dating phase, and if flirting is cheating,S/o to Gabrielle Hodgson and her 2nd book coming soon "Blending Bailey"Business of the week: Adorned by Essence by Essence Money Song: Jeff Walker - Elevator CultureInstagram: @complicatedsimplicitypodcastFacebook: Complicated Simplicity PodcastTwitter: CSimplicitypod

On this episode: the team recaps their weeks which include Tyana taking care of her sick dog, Tonie celebrating Joe Biden's win and Chris doing his usual... nothing. Also we send rest in peace shoutouts to Alex Trebek and King Von before jumping into our topic of the week. This week we discuss the art of hustling/branding as opposed to just over working and what opportunities we have to explore further to work smarter not harder.Business of the week: The Hair Lounge. Owner: Toya JohnsonSong: Jeff Walker - Gold LinkInstagram: @complicatedsimplicitypodcastFacebook: Complicated Simplicity PodcastTwitter: CSimplicitypod

On this bonus episode: The team discusses some topics around the biggest current event in the world right now...THE ELECTION.The conversation is based around the use of rappers to sway the black vote instead of the use of intellectuals or actual leaders, the potential for civil unrest, and the overall outlook on what's next?Instagram: @complicatedsimplicitypodcastFacebook: Complicated Simplicity PodcastTwitter: CSimplicitypod

On this episode: The pod squad recaps their weekends. What would you do if you found out your wedding band was fake? (28:00) When is it ok to reach out to your ex? (40:49) The one that got away. (58:00) Soulmates and Twin Flames (1:01:30 Women shooting their shot (1:13:30)Instagram: @complicatedsimplicitypodcastFacebook: Complicated Simplicity PodcastTwitter: CSimplicitypod

Oh we poddin' now! On this week's episode the CS team recaps some of the changes that have taken place in the past 2 weeks. We tackle a few current events. The birkin bag discussion (8:55) Chris' 2 cents surrounding the Philly riots (14:00) Tyana's 2 cents about the oil spill in the Caribbean (24:15) and the #EndSARS movement (31:03). Also we get into our topics of the week including how will you be celebrating the holidays during covid (33:30) embarassing dating moments (45:04) and then wrapping up with touching on topics like ghosting, getting catfished, and Tonie getting full nelson'd. Song: Jeff Walker - Let The Song CryInstagram: @complicatedsimplicitypodcastFacebook: Complicated Simplicity PodcastTwitter: CSimplicitypod

Happy Birthday to Chris, now 33 years old. Joined by Fly Ty and Pretty Tonie the Complicated Simplicity team recaps some ongoings from the past week including the Vice Presidential debate, Tory Lanez indictment, and the Lakers championship before getting to the main subject of the week. Why is it that we cannot be ok with not being ok? Whether it be financially, mentally or physically we should be ok with embracing the struggle but clearly we're not there yet. So we try to deal with the the root of why and explore what language can we use to communicate these hardships and what systems can be put into place to help when we hit a rough patch. Check it out and share with a friendBusiness of the week: @chefboyraeSong: Jeff Walker - Money TreesInstagram: @complicatedsimplicitypodcastFacebook: Complicated Simplicity PodcastTwitter: @csimplicitypod

The CS starts off with a recap of Tyana's successful vendor event at the masked melanin market. After which we switch to a conversation about the changing beauty standards of the world and if there are actually any beauty standards at all or if we've reached a point where we create our own. Also do women wear makeup because of an insecurity or just because they like it? And why do men feel they have the right to inject their opinion or preference when no one asked them? The 2nd of the show took a k-turn to discuss representation in modern tv and entertainment and if the community is still struggling with homophobia, transphobia and many other forms of discrimination overtly or unknowingly. A lot of interesting takes were shared. Check it out.

In order to learn and understand you have to have tough conversations. This week is no different. In light of the recent album released by Tory Lanez, the CS team discussed the overall impact of what such an act entails. It's not about the music. It's more about the disrespect, the gaslighting, the lack of protection and the outright disregard for black women. Although this Tory and Meg's situation is a hot topic the issue runs much deeper and we attempt uncover some of those reasons and provide some insight on our personal feelings and experiences. Tune in and share with a friend! Intro song: KW snippet Upcoming event: 5footer essentials will be at the Melanin Market on 10/4/20 from 8am-2pm Follow us: Instagram: @complicatedsimplicitypodcast Facebook: Complicated Simplicity Podcast Twitter: CSimplicitypod

Straight to the point...do you think breaks can work in a relationship? That's the main topic of this week's episode. Apparently this is polarizing topic and strong opinions come from both sides. Also we discuss dutch dates, what it means to be broke and if a man can make a woman happy without money. These topics are sure to get you going and we want to know what side you're on! Hit us up on @complicatedsimplicitypodcast on IG BUSINESS OF THE WEEK. @styleyourtee

After some technical difficulties last week we are back with a very interesting episode. This episode jumps around a few different topics to force the host to really express their personalities so the listeners can REALLY get to know the real us. Some of the questions we address are centered around prenups, body shaming, are you shallow, if cheating is a deal breaker, going through phones and much more. Full disclosure, we're probably gonna make a lot of people upset but this is all in good fun...kinda. Tune in and share with a friend. Hit us up on @complicatedsimplicitypodcast on IG if you have anything you want chime in on Song: "Clear My History"

DISCLAIMER: If you don't wanna hear about the groceries being taken out, hairy men, and being choked until you almost pass out, move on! Hey yall, it's the Complicated Simplicity back with another episode of insightful randomness.  This week we touch on a few different topics.  First we address the Jacob Blake situation and how it is being spread around and the possible trauma that goes along with.  Also we debate the outcome of the upcoming Verzuz between Brandy and Monica. Who do you think will win and will Monica punch Brandy...again!? As for the 3 weekly topics: What are your sexual turn offs and turn ons? What makes a good partner in your opinion? Have social norms changed? Is marriage the goal anymore? Find out our episodes and more and get involved in the conversation, Intro: iam.das - "Cry Like This" Business of the week: @taylor.d_wellness --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/complicatedsimplicity/message

New session alert! In addition to our weekly episodes we will now also be posting a shorter episode each week focusing on one specific topic. This week it is how do you feel about dating in the pandemic? Check it out --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/complicatedsimplicity/message

Back again with another episode! The trio of Complicated Simplicity is here to give you our 2 cents on some current happenings in the world as well as break down our 3 topics of the day. First, what do you do if your friend is in a romantic relationship that you don't agree with? Does it impact your relationship with your friend? Are there differences between the genders? Also if two of your close friends are beefing what do you do? Are you going to play the peacemaker or let the situation play out on its own? And last but not least, is there a such thing as being too honest?  Find out our answers and more with Tyana, Tonie and Chris in our new episode on Complicated Simplicity. S/o to our business of the week: Pyramid Tires of Sicklerville, NJ. Intro song: Jeff Walker - Are We Still Good --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/complicatedsimplicity/message

After a year away Complicated Simplicity has returned. Times haves changed, life has evolved, hosts are different but the goal is the same.  The trio of Chris, Tonie, and Tyana provided insight on how they are handling the pandemic and how to cope with stress and anxiety. Also we discussed if the resurgence of black owned businesses and interest in the BLM movement will still be going strong when the virus is gone. The conversation culminates with a look into how generation curses/traumas affect us today and what can be done to break those curses. All that and more so have a listen and spread the word. Intro song: Jeff Walker - 1992 Special s/o to Ace and Ace Of Spades Studios for exclusively recording all of season 1 of the show and being our home for 28 episodes. Much appreciated. Also special s/o to Brandy aka "Bebe" for being an amazing co-host for season 1 and providing so much laughter, unfiltered insight, and passion to every episode you were a part of.  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/complicatedsimplicity/message

Back with another episode and this week we have a special guest as well as a returning one. Jason Jones, creator of #DaddyUp joins the show this week along with recurring guest Ace of Ace Of Spades studio for the return of the all men's panel.  We talk about how the #DaddyUp movement was started and what inspired Jason to become not only a standup for his own 4 children but also a figure in the community that is looking to inspire other men, fathers or not, to step up and be leaders as well.   We also delve into other topics such as when did he know his wife was THE ONE he wanted to marry and why some of us might be a little bit slower to commit. Also we discuss if gender roles are outdated, are men to blame for trends among women and much much more. Take a listen and share with a friend.  

Friends! How many of us have them? And are they really your friends? This week we discuss what qualities we expect from a friendship and how we deal with changes to the different dynamics of that relationship as we grow and evolve. A lot of different views are in play here so listen and let us know if you agree it disagree. Also this is a special episode because it marks 1 year since Complicated Simplicity went live so Happy Birthday to us!

Betrayal is the breaking or violation of a presumptive contract, trust, or confidence that produces moral and psychological conflict within a relationship amongst individuals, between organizations or between individuals and organizations. This week we discuss something that we all have been through or will go through in life and that's betrayal. It's unfortunate but it's also inevitable. Instead of avoiding it we tackle it head by disclosing some examples of us being the betrayer and also being the betrayed and how we dealt with each scenario. Take a listen and see if you can relate.

It's 2019 not 1959 but you wouldn't be able to tell by what's going on in the world. Alabama is passing laws which almost ban abortions completely even in cases of rape and Texas cops are shooting pregnant black women down in the street. That's all we have for a description this week because that's enough. Tune in to hear our thoughts.

It's been a long time and we missed you! We return back from our month off with a new energy and excitement to share with you. We talk about the importance of taking time for yourself to align your energy and what we do to get back to being ourselves. Also we have a very special guest that came to drop some of the gems from her Therapy Thursdays regarding relationship trauma. The one and only Nakia joins us to spark a great conversation regarding the different types of trauma and how to deal with them.Also we discuss the importance of communication, growth and the being your partners friend and not just their lover. Check out this and so much more on the new episode!

Roses are red, violets are blue, love is supposed to be perfect, but we all know that aint true! We're back again with another episode and this time we talk about what love is to us. We talk about what we have experienced and what we've learned becoming adults and navigating the ups and downs of the L-word. Tune in and get some info because its getting warm and your partner probably bout to start acting up anyway! Just kidding...kinda

-Nobody seems to think the New Zealand attack is that big of a deal...well we do! Just because something happens in another country doesn't mean it can't hit close to home. Without being overly political we discuss some of the ways this act of terrorism is swept under the rug or deemed "isolated" - Jess Hilarious made the mistake of thinking xenophobia had humor to it and it backfired.  Was she wrong? Yes. Is she alone? No. The deeper question that situation reveals is do black people view people other poc the same way the rest of the world does and just don't like to admit it? -Will each culture self-educating their children about their own history help to alleviate stigmas and stereotypes instead of relying on school curriculum to fix such a deep rooted issue? Chris and Brandy discuss all of that and more is the newest episode of Complicated Simplicity.

R. Kelly is out of his mind! But we knew that already so we can recap the his first interview since his arrest. Also we weigh in on if we believe the allegations made against Michael Jackson after airing of the Finding Neverland documentary. We also give our kudos to Red Table Talk and how they used their platform to protect Jordyn Woods and change the narrative surrounding her story.  Then the question arises of do you feel like your emotions are being weaponized?  From strong dudes in the car, to BLM, your emotions are probably being used against you.  And lastly, we end with a passionate discussion about men being coddled by women.  Where did it begin and why do women still put up with it?  Find out the answers as Chris, Brandy, and this week's guest Mariel weigh in and break it down.

Hopefully for the last time we address this crazy Jussie Smollett story and if it is we are going to go out with a bang. We give our opinions on not just the story but what the backlash and ripple effect will be regarding hate crimes and how they are received moving forward. We also pose questions regarding Colin Kaepernick's NFL collusion settlement, Floyd Mayweather's Gucci protest of the Gucci protest, does 6ix9ine get a pass to snitch, and how do you feel about Monique interview on the Steve Harvey Show. For all that and more tune in to episode 20! This week's guest: @therealrhandy @jaina_bundage

Have you ever tried an edible? If not, DON'T! Chris will tell you about his first and last experience with eating an death carrying chocolate chip peanut butter cookie. Brandy, Jay, and Ty complete this weeks panel to discuss Valentines Day hype, Lori Harvey living her best life, Bow Wow's domestic abuse situation and an interesting outlook on an intimate conversation between Nikki Giovanni and James Baldwin. There's this and so much more so be prepared to sit back and laugh and get a little game along the way too.

Reunited and it feels so good! Chris and Brandy are back with another slate of topics to discuss. Briefly the importance of black men keeping up with their physical is discussed since Chris is dealing with some health issues and recovering from his first edible experience (more on that in the future). We also give our take on a few more things such as the Jussie Smollett incident, the Super Bowl performers, regretting a person you've placed in the friendzone and much more.