Dudes Spankin' Dudes

Another Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs has come and gone, and HotBotScott is joined this episode by SleepyBap to chat about the spanktastic times they had this March. Spoilers: The weather was perfect this year, especially compared to last year's wind and rain, and there were many, many, many spankings. Naughty misbehaving boys were disciplined by their dads, wayward students and jocks were paddled by principals and coaches, and bullies roved the grounds, handing out wedgies and tormenting their prey—consensually of course. Listen on, dudes, for all the details. Upcoming events: OTKLA: May 30. https://www.otkla.com/home Camp Red Tails: July 17-22. https://www.campredtails.com/ Hot Seat Vegas, July 30-August 3. https://www.hotseatvegas.com/home Bad Ass Weekend, Oct 15-19. https://bawevent.com/ Music: Vivera / “I Don't Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

You've found the perfect disciplinarian who knows exactly what to say to you to get you into that headspace where you can just want to say to him, “Yes, sir, I deserve a spanking,” and mean it. He knows what you need, how much you need it, and the right way to give it to you. The problem? You live in Yonkers and he lives in Albuquerque. So how do you make it work if you can't see each other face-to-face? Long-distance, directed discipline scenes have been a part of the spanking community for a long time. But how exactly do you pull them off so that it feels genuine for both sides? Listen on dudes, as HotbotScott is joined by Steven and Mike to talk you all through it. (Note: This episode was recorded before the announcement that Skype would be shutting down its services.) Links: “Bad Lads, Strict Sirs and the World of Adult Male Spanking”: http://badladsandstrictsirs.com/ The Chicago Leather Archives and Museum: https://leatherarchives.org Music: Vivera / “I Don't Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Would you believe Dudes Spankin' Dudes has been around for more than five years and nearly 60 episodes and we've never actually done an episode about hand spankings? That's a terrible oversight over which Scott should be spanked. And he will be! Scott is joined again by Sean to talk about what they both love about hand spankings and give some tips on both giving and receiving. Then they delve a little bit into spanking roleplay and how to establish realistic expectations when you're new. Listen on Dudes, and find out what Sean plans to do to Scott's butt in Palm Springs in March! Bonus links: Check out the “Sips and Smacks” Podcast: https://www.sipsandsmacks.com/ (Scott is a guest on Episode 97) Hot Seat Retreat 2025 in Palm Springs, March 19-23: https://www.hotseatps.com/home Hot Seat Vegas 2025 in Las Vegas, July 30-August 3: https://www.hotseatvegas.com/home Music: Vivera / “I Don't Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

We are pleased to announce that Hot Seat Vegas has found a new home and will return in 2025 from Wednesday, July 30th through Sunday, August 3rd. Registration for Vegas will open on Saturday, February 1, at 10 a.m. Pacific time (7 a.m. East Coast time). Visit hotseatvegas.com for more details and prices.

Hot on the heels of hurricane Helene, Bad Ass Weekend returned to Augusta, Georgia, in October. There were upturned trees, but more importantly, upturned bottoms, particularly Scott's. Scott is joined this episode by Sean, who attended Bad Ass Weekend for the first time this year. We have stories to share about hot spankings out by the pool, backtalking authorities and paying the price for it, and wonderful experiences with new friends. All that and Scott's new nickname (HotBotScott), as well as information about what's happening with Las Vegas. Listen on, dudes! Bad Ass Weekend: https://bawevent.com/ Hot Seat Vegas: https://www.hotseatvegas.com/home OTK LA: https://www.otkla.com/home Music: Vivera / “I Don't Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Hey dudes, Bad Ass Weekend is just around the corner. and Scott is joined by Bruce, one of the event organizers known for his love of providing aftercare to any spanked bottoms who need it. Aftercare following a spanking can help provide a chance not just to help a butt physically recover from a spanking, but also for both the top and bottom to continue to reinforce their roles with each other. It can even, of course, lead to cuddling, comforting, and sex. But not every bottom wants that kind of aftercare, and not every top is comfortable in providing everything a bottom might want. So, it's important for tops and bottoms to communicate what they want—or don't want—after a spanking session is over. Listen on dudes, to learn more. All of this and a quick explanation about some rule changes at Etsy about the types of BDSM and adult gear they allow to be sold through the site. Oh, and the pink lanyards are coming to Bad Ass Weekend! Bad Ass Weekend: BAWevent.com Etsy's adult content policies: https://www.etsy.com/legal/policy/adult-nudity-and-sexual-content/1269612959532

Hey all! Time to mark your calendars. Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs will be returning in 2025 on March 19-23. If you want to enter the lottery for one of the rooms at host resort CCBC, you'll want to register once it opens on Saturday Sept. 14. You'll have until 11:59 p.m. Pacific Time on Sept. 14 to enter the lottery. Listen for more details. And information about registration and room rates can be found on our site: https://www.hotseatps.com/home

Scott is back home after hosting the first Hot Seat Vegas and returns with a new outlook on his spanking life. And that new outlook is one where he is ass up over a man's knee, getting spanked as much and as frequently as possible. Scott is re-embracing and reclaiming his bottomhood. He's joined this episode by returning guest Steve, who gave Scott four of the 36 separate spankings he got his birthday weekend. Listen on, Dudes, to hear hot stories about hot spankings in one of the hottest cities in America. Bad Ass Weekend: Bawevent.com Avatar L.A.: Avatarla.org Justin and Trevor's spanking blog: https://justintrevorblss.blogspot.com

July is one of the hottest months of the year, and thanks to a couple of spanking events that month, we're going to make it even hotter. Insert as many “global warming” puns and jokes as you see fit as you rub your sore bottom—or somebody else's! Scott is joined by Tony, a.k.a. Bearspanks, to help newbies know what to expect at their first spanking event and also to provide some tips for anybody who is thinking about getting or giving a spanking involving somebody they've just met. Pack your bags, your paddles, and don't forget your belt, and listen on dudes. Links: The Spank Bank Podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thespankbank-774333226 Hot Seat Vegas: https://www.hotseatvegas.com/home Camp Red Tails: https://www.campredtails.com/home Music: Vivera / “I Don't Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

TL;DR version: Register for Hot Seat Vegas by Sunday, June 9 to make sure that you'll get a room placement in the same buildings as the other attendees. Also, we're looking for attendees who want to put on activities or meetings that help people connect in the conference rooms we've got for our event. Message RedSpankScott on Whappz if you'd like to host an event or activity, or if you're interested in helping run games for our planned Friday game night! More details about Hot Seat Vegas here: HotSeatVegas.com. More information on Tuscany Suites, Las Vegas here: https://www.tuscanylv.com/

Another Hot Seat Retreat has come and gone, and Scott is joined by Dean, who attended Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs for the first time in March and got spanked a whole lot. He tells us all about it. Mother Nature decided to make her presence known this year in some unpleasant ways, but we powered through, warming ourselves up nicely with the heat of some very, very sore bottoms. Listen on, dudes, if you want to hear how Hot Seat Retreat's roleplay interest tracks brought some new opportunities for punishment to manifest. Valuable links: OTK LA: otkla.com/home Hot Seat Vegas: hotseatvegas.com/home Camp Red Tails: campredtails.com Music: Vivera / “I Don't Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Scott is joined by Hot Seat Retreat co-organizers Jaden and Doug to announce a new spanking weekend venture. We're going to Vegas, guys! Hot Seat Vegas will be launching July 10-14, 2024, at the Tuscany Suites and Casino. Registration opens on January 20, 2024. Listen on for more details. Visit our site here and sign up for our newsletters to keep track of the latest info: https://www.hotseatvegas.com/home

It's a very common fantasy for dudes into spanking: You get pulled over for speeding or tailgating or some other moving violation by a gruff, authoritative police officer. Is there anything you can do to get out of a ticket? Maybe pay some other penalty right then and there? Perhaps bent over the hood of the police car? Perhaps with the police officer's belt, or maybe some paddle he happens to be carrying around with him? You can live out that fantasy, either as the wayward driver or the cop. We're joined by Dave, also known as Hunter Chase, who does roleplay spanking scenes as a police officer or prisoner with advice on living out these fantasies and incorporating handcuffs into spanking play safely. All this plus the latest on upcoming spanking events, including a very hot time coming to some butts this summer in Las Vegas! Links "Bad Lads and Strict Sirs" shop: https://blssworld.printify.me/products SWAT Studios: https://www.swat-studios.com/ Dave's Twitter feed: https://twitter.com/hunter_chase_23 Music: Vivera / “I Don't Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Bad Ass Weekend 2023 in Georgia has come and gone, and Scott is joined by Justin and Trevor to talk about our seminars and some very hot spanking action. Scott talked about how to properly bully deserving bottom boys and ended up on both the giving and receiving end of some very hot bully play. Justin and Trevor made an example of themselves in an excellent public lesson about putting together genuine roleplay scenes in your spanking play. Justin and Trevor also have plenty to say about their amazing new book, “Bad Lads, Strict Sirs, and the World of Adult Male Spanking,” which had its release party at Bad Ass Weekend. Oh, and we have a spanking flag now. No, really, we do. Listen on, dudes! More on Justin and Trevor's book: http://badladsandstrictsirs.com/ Buy it here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CH7BLWSW Music: Vivera / “I Don't Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Good news! Moonburn m/m spanking parties will be returning in January 2024 at Sanctuary Studios in South Los Angeles. Listen for some quick details. Sanctuary Studios is at 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles, CA 90061. Their website is here: https://www.sanctuarylax.com/. There will be more news to come in December. Looking forward to seeing you all back.

The Bad Boys Spanking Party will be returning to L.A. Leather Getaway on Thanksgiving weekend. It will take place from 4-7 p.m. on Saturday, Nov. 25 and is free to anybody registered to attend the weekend. For more information about attending L.A. Leather Getaway, visit clawinfo.org.

Episode 50 was supposed to be a celebration! Instead, Scott, joined by Paul, a.k.a. Copper, has to discuss the state of L.A.'s Moonburn parties. The upcoming October Moonburn party is the last we have scheduled for the foreseeable future. We talk about what has happened and why, and what the future holds. We are working on keeping Moonburn going, but it's gonna take a little work. We also share fond memories of Moonburn and our friend Vern, who was a pivotal part of Man's Hand Films, Camp Red Tails, and the Moonburn parties and just recently passed away. All this, plus reminders about the pending Bad Ass Weekend in October (Scott's giving another presentation on Bully Play) and the pending release of Steve and Mike's book on spanking, “Bad Lads, Strict Sirs, and the World of Adult Male Spanking.” More on Bad Ass Weekend: BawEvent.Com More on Hot Seat Retreat: HotSeatPS.com More on the OTK LA spanking parties: OTKLA.com Music: Vivera / “I Don't Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Scott and Jaden are happy to announce that registration for 2024's Hot Seat Retreat will open on Saturday, Sept. 16, starting at 10 a.m. Pacific (1 p.m. Eastern). There are major changes coming to the room assignment process as we shift to a lottery system, which Jaden explains. And Scott announces an addition of "interest tracks" for attendees who want to focus on activities involving certain types of roleplay. There is more info to come! Visit Hot Seat Retreat's website for more info: HotSeatPS.com Follow Hot Seat Retreat on Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/HotSeatRetreat

Ow Canada! Ryan joins Scott this episode to discuss CanSpanks, a spanking event at Fox Haven, a big, isolated campground in Lavigne, Ontario. Their next gathering is coming in September, and Ryan's got some hot stories about what happens up there. And in the fantasy life of spanking, Ryan, an unrepentant brat, talks about how he best uses his bratty behavior to get what he deserves, how to recognize when tops are reacting well to your bratty behavior and when to turn the brat on and off. All this and some updates on some more spanking events coming up in our community. CanSpanks: Sept. 4-10, 2023. https://www.canspanks.com/foxhaven Bad Ass Weekend: Oct 11-15, 2023. Bawevent.com. OTK LA: Next party, August 11, 2023. OTKLA.com Hot Seat Retreat, March 13-17, 2024. Hotseatps.com Music: Vivera / “I Don't Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

For Episode 48, Steve from Episode 46 is back to join Scott to talk about switches. Not the implement—though we should probably talk about that, too, in a future episode. Rather, we discuss what it's like to be somebody who craves both giving and receiving spankings as opposed to just taking on one role. Many, many men in the spanking community identify as a switch, but we haven't yet had an episode focusing specifically on what it's like. We discuss both our real-life experiences trying to navigate our alternating modes of play as well as how the desire to both give and receive affects our fantasies and how we pursue them. Music: Vivera / “I Don't Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

It's time to get ready to register for Hot Seat Retreat 2023, from March 16-19 at CCBC resort in Palm Springs. Registration will open at 10 a.m. Pacific Time (1 p.m. Eastern) on Nov. 19th. Rooms will be reserved on a first-come first served basis, so be ready when registration opens if you want a chance to stay at the resort. We also have rate agreements with two overflow motels. And we're making everything a little bit easier by allowing you to pre-pay registration. Scott is joined by Jaden and Doug to go over some of the basics. Please visit the site here and subscribe to our newsletter so you don't miss any developments: https://www.hotseatps.com/ And Hot Seat Retreat's Twitter feed is here: https://twitter.com/HotSeatRetreat

Scott is joined by The Sweet (and briefly by an awkwardly meowing cat) to discuss the fun of Bad Ass Weekend 2022. And there was a lot of fun to be had. Scott got to be a bully and get punished for it. The Sweet got spanked for some real life bad manners. More spankings were dished out at Uno games and wrestling matches. An amazing time was had by all. The Sweet can be followed on Twitter @sweet_as_aheart: https://twitter.com/sweet_as_aheart There's still time to register for the L.A. Leather Getaway! https://www.clawinfo.org/ And be sure to register for our Hot Seat Retreat newsletter for information about registration opening soon. Hotseatps.com. Music: Vivera / “I Don't Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

The Bad Boys Spanking Party is back for 2022 on Thanksgiving weekend, as is CLAW, now rechristened in its L.A. home as the L.A. Leather Getaway. The Spanking Party will be held in the Pasadena Room of the Westin Bonaventure on Saturday, Nov. 26, from 4-7 p.m. The party is free to those registered for the L.A. Leather Getaway. It's $20 for those who just want to come to the party. Scott provides all the details. For information about the L.A. Leather Getaway and for registration and room rates, visit: https://www.clawinfo.org/. Hope to see you all at the party

For Episode 46, Scott is joined by Stephen and Mike, two members of our spanking community who are working on a special project: a book about our scene and its members. They chat about their plan, what they're looking for, what they are hoping to produce, and how you can participate. If you want to participate in their survey, visit: https://forms.gle/3hnCcTTPgg4qa1DQ6 Music: Vivera / “I Don't Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

As Monkeypox spreads within the male community this summer, Scott felt it necessary to record a special piece with warnings and tips. Just because you're not engaging in sex, that doesn't mean you're not at risk of either getting or spreading Monkeypox. Some information from the CDC on social gatherings, safe sex, and Monkeypox here: https://www.cdc.gov/poxvirus/monkeypox/pdf/MPX_Social_Gatherings_Safer_Sex-508.pdf

Some spanking implements are rigid. Some spanking implements are flexible. By the same token, some guys have rigid spanking fantasies where the scene plays out in very particular pre-determined ways. Some others have more flexible fantasies that revolve a bit more about evolving or improvisational play based on reactions during the scene. Both approaches (and both types of implements) are perfectly valid in the spanking scene. But it's important to know the ins and outs of not just the tools but the types of play. A person with a rigid spanking fantasy may have a difficult time adjusting to a more flexible player and vice-versa. Scott is joined by Jaden from Whappz to discuss and advise. Don't forget, Bad Ass Weekend is coming up in October: Bawevent.com. And mark your schedules for Hot Seat Retreat next March 16-19, 2023: hotseatps.com. Music: Vivera / “I Don't Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Our second Hot Seat Retreat has come and gone, and Scott is joined by attendees Randy (a.k.a. RedBearSpanker) and Tony (a.k.a. BearSpanks) to discuss all the fun of the event. Lots of swats were dished out, Scott got bullied and wedgied quite a bit, a pool party led to some wet bottoms getting paddled, and a good time was (mostly) had by all. In other news, Dudes Spankin' Dudes now has a Discord server. If you want to join, message Scott on the Twitter feed (https://twitter.com/DudesSpankDudes) or look up Scott on Whappz (RedSpankScott) and send him a message. Music: Vivera / “I Don't Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

It's Hot Seat Retreat time! But for those of you unable to join us out in Palm Springs, Scott managed to squeeze in a fun episode about some important spanking history connected to Man's Hand Films, which has just recently shut down as a company. Scott is joined by Mike (a.k.a. StricTop) and Phil (a.k.a. SFspank), who have launched a brand new m/m spanking art archive. The initial focus is on the artwork and contents of old issues of the now-defunct “Red Tails” magazine that Man's Hand Films produced. We talk about how they started the archive, the work involved, why it's important, and commissioning new art from erotic artists online. And we also reminisce about the days of Man's Hand videos and some of our favorite old movies of theirs. Check out Mike and Phil's archive here: www.gayspankart.com. Mike's Twitter feed is here: https://twitter.com/spank_gay Music: Vivera / “I Don't Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Hey out there to any dudes attending Hot Seat Retreat. If you're looking to get your hands on Scott's ass while he's involved in his hosting duties, please listen to these guidelines. Yes, Scott wants to be bullied and spanked all weekend long while he's serving as host and he'll be attending as a bottom. He takes a few minutes here to outline his consent and what he's giving all of you permission to do to him. His poor butt is already quivering in anticipation for what's to come. Please visit our site at HotSeatPS.com for info about the event. If you're already registered to attend, please get active on our forums as folks schedule fun spanking activities. Music: Vivera / “I Don't Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

It's our very first female guest ever, as author and spanking kinkster Jillian Keenan joins Scott to discuss what it is about guys spanking each other that appeals to some women. In the Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes segment, we discuss a complex issue that Jillian has strong feelings about: Are kinks and fetishes a type of sexual orientation that we should treat differently from being gay or straight (or other)? Scott talks about some of the feedback he has gotten since coming out in episode 41 as asexual, and we discuss a recent Dan Savage letter from a straight guy who wants to be spanked by other men and how frequently dudes spank other dudes in her part of the spanking community. In the Fantasy Life of Spanking, Jillian absolutely loves stories about Star Wars Jedi Master Qui-Gon Jinn spanking Padowan Obi Wan Kenobi, and really any spanking fan fiction revolving around a male mentor spanking a younger student (like Batman and Robin). We discuss why that is, and she details an amazing recreation of one of her favorite stories that some of her fans put together. All of this, plus updates about Hot Seat Retreat and news about a new spanking party coming to Cleveland's CLAW event, and a letter from a top who is getting mixed signals from a bottom. Jillian Keenan's book, “Sex with Shakespeare,” can be found at Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/Sex-with-Shakespeare-audiobook/dp/B01BLV3UTY Her YouTube channel is here: https://www.youtube.com/c/KinkingOutLoud Her Patreon page is here: https://www.patreon.com/KinkingOutLoud Music: Vivera / “I Don't Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Jaden of Whappz is back with Scott on the podcast for a review of CLAW in Los Angeles on Thanksgiving weekend. Scott did the work to put together some panels on spanking and a big spanking party. Jaden was there as well, and the two discuss what they've learned (and how awesome it was to have major spanking presence at a big leather festival). In the second half of the podcast, Scott “comes out” as asexual, something he had been on the edge of and thinking about for quite some time. But after spending a weekend with 1,000+ hot and kinky dudes and realizing he didn't want to have sex with any of them, it was time to come to terms with the truth. Jaden is also asexual, and the two of them talk about what it means to be super kinky, but not want to actually engage in typical intercourse.

Come out to CLAW on Nov. 24-28 at the Westin Bonaventure Hotel in downtown Los Angeles. and have a great spanking time. Scott goes over all the important details of the Bad Boys Spanking Party and other fun activities. If you book a hotel room now, you will receive one free five-day event ticket for CLAW - just use CODE: C21-HOTELPACKAGE at www.clawinfo.org. There will also be day, night and vendor mart passes available for purchase soon. Vaccination is required to attend!

Scott is back from Bad Ass Weekend and is joined by Aaryn to discuss the amazing time they had at the first major U.S. spanking weekend to take place since the COVID lockdown. Pledges were hazed, naughty sons were disciplined by upset dads, and wrestlers grappled for dominance in some super-hot spanking activities. Also, Scott provides some more details about the upcoming Bad Boys Spanking Party and other spanktastic activities at CLAW in Los Angeles on Thanskgiving weekend. Spanking booth, anybody? Hope to see you there! Bad Ass Weekend's website: bawevent.com CLAW's website: clawinfo.org Aaryn's Twitter feed: https://twitter.com/aarynleesparxxx Music: Vivera / “I Don't Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Definitely do NOT listen to this if you're a top attending Bad Ass Weekend in October. This is JUST for bottoms. Bad Ass Weekend: bawevent.com.

This episode Scott is joined by Bob Miller, one of the of the founders and the executive director of Cleveland Leather Annual Weekend (a.k.a. CLAW). Due to COVID wrecking schedules and planning, CLAW's annual convention is happening this year in Los Angeles on Thanksgiving week. Better yet, it marks the kick-off of what they're planning to be a new annual leather-kink-bdsm gathering every November here on the West Coast. Scott will be attending, and has taken the initiative of putting together a spanking party for CLAW for Friday, Nov. 26. He talks with Bob (who is also into spanking) about why spanking fetishists should feel comfortable attending these events even if they're not into leather gear or pup play or other kink activities. If this spanking party works out, Scott hopes to make it an annual event, so get your asses out here to L.A. And don't forget about Bad Ass Weekend coming up in October. And registration will be opening up on Sept. 18 for Hot Seat Retreat 2022 on March 17-20 in Palm Springs. More info on CLAW here: Clawinfo.org. More on Bad Ass Weekend: Bawevent.com More on Hot Seat Retreat: Hotseatps.com

Scott is joined by Jaden and Doug to formally announce that Hot Seat Retreat is on track for 2022. The event will take place from March 17-20 at CCBC resort in Palm Springs, California. Registration will formally open on Sept. 18. We go over all the basics to prep y'all on what to expect if you attend next year's hot spanking weekend. We hope to see you there! Visit the website here: https://www.hotseatps.com/ Follow our Twitter feed at: https://twitter.com/HotSeatRetreat

Jaden, founder of Whappz and co-founder of Hot Seat Retreat, is back for another episode as we all prepare for Bad Ass Weekend (bawevent.com) in Georgia in October. And Scott announces plans for a spanking party at the Cleveland Leather Awareness Weekend (CLAW) event (clawinfo.org), which will actually be taking place in Los Angeles this November on Thanksgiving weekend. Stay tuned for more details. We'll also be announcing registration for Hot Seat Retreat 2022 very soon. In “Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes,” Scott and Jaden tackle the problem of dudes that are not actually real on hookup sites and apps. There's been a rise of scammers using our favorite fetish platforms to try to weasel private information and money out of you. We talk about tools that help you make sure your dudes are really real, and how to make sure dudes you try to talk to recognize you're also a real dude and not a scammer. In “The Fantasy Life of Spanking”: Wedgies! Wedgies have always been a fringe kink on the scene that has combined well with spanking. There's been an increased interest in it in recent years. Scott the bully loves dishing out wedgies to his victims, and Jaden has even made it an interest tag on Whappz. We discuss. Also, we answer a complicated question from a young kinky sub who wants to serve his spank-loving dom. The problem—the sub is not very experienced in spanking, hadn't really been fantasizing about it, and is worried about the pain. Music: Vivera / “I Don't Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Greetings dudes! Scott takes a step away from podcast episodes to record a special segment on spanking basics, inspired by seeing a bunch of fresh faces (and butts) coming into the scene post-COVID. This is intended to be a sort of “evergreen” podcast episode that can be searched for and shared with other dudes who are having fantasies about spanking and are wondering what to expect. Music: Vivera / “I Don't Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Just a quick message to let y'all know that the L.A. Moonburn m/m spanking parties are officially back! The next party will be on Saturday, July 3, from noon-5 p.m., at the Threshold club in North Hollywood. (Their site is here: threshold.org) Vaccinations are mandatory to attend. Scott will be celebrating his 50th birthday, so be sure to give him some licks!

J.R. (a.k.a. Bossman) returns to the podcast after giving Scott’s ass its first post-pandemic beating. We discuss what that was like and how to ease yourself back into pain play if you’ve taken, like we have, 14 months off from the scene. In the “Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes” segment, we talk about how rebooting your butt and your BDSM interest is an opportunity to perhaps experiment in other types of impact play and expanding your horizons. We discuss the ins and outs of flogging, punching, and face-slapping. And we discuss the state of events and the spanking scene (Hope to see you all at Bad Ass Weekend) as the world slowly starts to reopen. More on Bad Ass Weekend here: bawevent.com More on San Francisco’s spanking party here: https://sanfranciscomensspankingparty.com/ More on CanSpanks here: https://canspanks.wixsite.com/canspanks/foxhaven

For episode 36, Dudes Spankin’ Dudes Co-creator Croup/Soup Goblin/Brian returns to chat with Scott about furry culture, what it’s like to be a furry, and about bringing the spanking fetish to the furry community. In addition, Bad Ass Weekend is on schedule for October, and Scott reaches a birthday milestone and offers up his ass for punishment. In Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes, Croup talks about what furry culture is, how he developed an interest in it, his unicorn “fursona” Inarog, and how it all relates to spanking. In the Fantasy Life of Spanking, furry fantasies are an excellent way to explore unusual or wild ideas about spankings. Scott explains how he made a “fursona” of his own, a hippo named Brody, to help explore his fantasies of heavy duty play and other forms of BDSM, and how he actually helped Scott branch out into new areas of kink! More info on Bad Ass Weekend here at bawevent.com

Finally, the caning episode! With the assistance of British guest Harrison, we talk about the well-known, well-worn British love of caning this episode. The Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes section discusses caning techniques, things to do and not do, and what a caning feels like. The Fantasy Life of Spanking section discusses the British schoolboy fantasy, some of the history of caning in schools, and most importantly, how to bring those fantasies to life. Also, Scott memorializes another prominent members of the dudes spankin’s dudes community who passed away in December. And we take a question about what implements you can use if you can’t make a lot of sound. If you want to reach out to Harrison or check out his spanking videos— Twitter: https://twitter.com/hotspotharrison Clip store: http://clips4sale.com/studio/160647

This is not a full podcast episode, but sadly, a short message informing everybody that Hot Seat Retreat for March 2021 has been cancelled. We're making initial plans to return to Palm Springs in March 2022 and some sort of virtual event to take its place. Listen for more details.

This episode begins with some sad news for our listeners. Frank, a.k.a. “Big Daddy Vegas,” who was the guest for episodes 13, 14, and 16, has passed away from Bulbar ALS, also known as Lou Gehrig’s Disease. Scott opens with some warm thoughts about a close friend. Our guest for this episode is James AZ of Southspanking.com, and that’s what our “Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes” segment is about. SouthSpanking is a great social media platform for dudes into spanking, and if you’re not already on there, you should check it out. If you’re missing all the hot spanking smut you used to see on Tumblr, SouthSpanking has you covered. In the Fantasy Life of Spanking, James is in a domestic discipline marriage where he’s living out a very common fantasy—the weekly review discipline session. If you’ve ever fantasized about being in a relationship where you are on a regular discipline spanking schedule, James talks about what it’s like to live it out and what dudes should think about before they pursue it. Check out SouthSpanking here: https://www.southspanking.com/groups/

Scott is joined this episode by Isaac (izkboy on Whappz and SpankThis Hookups), a trans dude from New York who is new to the spanking scene but managed to get some action in before COVID-19 shut everything down. (FYI, Bad Ass Weekend for October has been cancelled.) In the Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes segment, Isaac talks about the mostly very positive experiences he has had joining the spanking scene as a trans dude and has tips for everybody. In The Fantasy Life of Spanking segment, Isaac talks about his childhood fantasies of having older brothers (nine of them!) to bully him and give him spankings and how that translates into adult spanking fantasies. Special shout-out here to the “Brother in Charge” series at Straight Lads Spanked for anybody looking for spanking porn that can help scratch this itch. And we take a question from a possible newbie to the spanking scene who worries he may be too old, especially as a bottom. Don’t worry! We’ll get you a sore butt! As soon as this stupid pandemic is over. (Apologies for any sound quality issues. Scott inadvertently recorded the entire conversation on his webcam mic and not his headset and didn't realize until afterwards. Clearly, he has gone wayyyy too long without a good beating.)

Doug (from episode 30 about Hot Seat Retreat) is back to talk some more. He and Scott and Jaden worked on a great video to hopefully keep all you dudes entertained during our shared Coronavirus Lockdown, featuring interviews with guys involved with Sting, SpankThis, Bad Ass Weekend, and others. Check out the video at Hotseatps.com. In the Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes segment, Doug shares what it’s like to be married to another spanking fetishist, how their relationship works, how they negotiate play with other guys, how they handle issues, and how they keep their fetish interest fresh. It’s a useful discussion for anybody thinking that they might want to settle down with a spanking partner some day. In the Fantasy Life of Spanking, Doug reveals that he lives out a very common spanking fantasy: Being punished by a personal trainer. Yes, he over the past several years has been literally whipped into shape. He talks about how he got started and what people should think about before they actually try to get a dude to beat their asses in order to motivate them. And Doug even has a video on SpankingTube shows what these sessions and the discipline looks like here: https://www.spankingtube.com/video/87962/trainer-with-a-paddle

Scott is joined this month by buddy Mike, who was his next-door neighbor at March's Hot Seat Retreat. In the Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes segment, Mike is a big fan of self-spanking, and in a time where we shouldn't be out trying to hook up with each other, no matter how badly we need a spanking, Mike has tips on applying heat to your own seat. In the Fantasy Life of Spanking we talk about fantasies about real life "accountability" spankings and punishments. How do you know you really want to be spanked for real-life reasons and how is it different from just wanting to get spanked. Mike explains. Oh, and speaking of real-life spanking accountability, check out the Dudes Spankin's Dudes Twitter feed and weigh in on how much Scott should have to paddle himself for his terrible, terrible quarantine Mohawk: https://twitter.com/DudesSpankDudes

Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs has come and gone and was a wonderful success (with a few things we'll need to hammer out in future retreats--and there WILL be future retreats). Scott and Jaden are joined by Doug, the guy who actually came up with the idea of putting on a new spanking event in Palm Springs, and we talk about how things went and what we learned. Also, a short discussion about fetish play and the coronavirus. In short, treat social distancing seriously. We have members of the spanking community who are in risk categories because they're older or HIV positive. If you want to know when Colby Jansen's spankathon video is set to come out, follow his Twitter feed: https://twitter.com/COLBYJANSENXXX And keep an eye out the official Hot Seat Retreat website. We're already hammering out the dates for next March!: https://www.hotseatps.com/

It's our last podcast episode before Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs in March. Jaden joins yet again with friend Anthony. In our "Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes" segment, Anthony talks about his first experiences attending fetish events. He went to Bad Ass Weekend for the first time last October and Mid-Atlantic Leather for the first time in February. With Hot Seat Retreat just around the corner, we discuss a number of tips to make your first time at a big fetish event more successful. In our "Fantasy Life of Spanking" section, Anthony and Scott share a love of fantasies and stories that revolve around the use of spanking machines. We talk about what turns us on about the sadism of automated punishment. And maybe it doesn't have to be just a fantasy?

Jaden is back with another spanking buddy, Kevin, here to talk about their fun time at Mid-Atlantic Leather (M.A.L.) in January. Speaking of which, in the "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, M.A.L. got some negative publicity from a young gay conservative at the Washington Examiner who thinks that fetish and leather play makes the LGBT community look bad. Scott, Jaden, and Kevin discuss the problems with his opinion piece, which you can read here: https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/opinion/dcs-degenerate-leather-weekend-annihilates-gay-progress In the Fantasy Life of Spanking, Kevin and Jaden discuss what it's like to start filming your own amateur porn. If you're interested, there's a lot of fun to be had. And Hot Seat Retreat is just a month away! There's still time to register here: https://www.hotseatps.com/

What better way to celebrate ringing in the new year with a discussion of Adult Baby/Diaper Lovers (Or ABDL) and their connections to the spanking scene? Scott is joined by regular and Whappz co-founder Jaden and his buddy Richard, a member of both the ABDL and the spanking scene. We discuss what the two communities have in common and the opportunities for daddies out there in the spanking scene to find some guys in some firm need for discipline. In other news, Camp Red Tails is back on for July! And Jaden and Scott give the latest update on how things are going with Hot Seat Retreat in March. For more on Hot Seat Retreat and to register, visit the site here: www.hotseatps.com/