For Crying Out Loud

Follow For Crying Out Loud
Share on
Copy link to clipboard

Lynette Carolla, and Stefanie Wilder-Taylor are two mothers of twins just trying not to eff it up. In this raucous hour of conversation they, along with Producer Caelan Biehn, a father of two young girls, cover a range of topics from marriage, divorce and the space in between, to what they’re watching, where they’re going (Target) and how they manage to look so damn young. The format is informative, loose and most of all entertaining. If you’re looking for parenting advice you’ve come to the wrong place but when you hear their honest, unfiltered experiences you may come away knowing what NOT to do. Put them in your ears while you clean your floors or walk your dog and let them keep you company during what will surely become your favorite hours of the week. New shows come out Tuesdays and Fridays.

For Crying Out Loud


    • Dec 24, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • weekdays NEW EPISODES
    • 1h AVG DURATION
    • 1,356 EPISODES

    4.5 from 3,689 ratings Listeners of For Crying Out Loud that love the show mention: fcol, lynette, swt, don't have kids, tpe, producer gary, crying out loud, drew and adam, stefanie's, don't have children, don't even have kids, i'm not even a parent, david wild, housewives talk, i'm not a parent, stephanie are hilarious, shows per week, non parent, week would, teresa strasser.


    Ivy Insights

    The For Crying Out Loud podcast is an absolute gem in the podcasting world. Hosted by Stefanie Wilder-Taylor and Lynette Carolla, this show offers a delightful mix of humor, personal stories, parenting insights, and current conversations. It feels like sitting down with old friends and catching up on each other's lives.

    One of the best aspects of this podcast is the chemistry between Stefanie and Lynette. Their banter is effortless, and they play off each other's jokes with ease. They have a way of making listeners feel like they're part of the conversation, which creates a sense of connection that keeps you coming back for more. Additionally, their honesty and openness about their own experiences as parents makes them relatable to many listeners.

    Another highlight of the For Crying Out Loud podcast is the variety of topics they cover. From discussions about raising teenagers to pop culture recommendations, there's always something interesting to listen to. The hosts also often invite guests onto the show, providing fresh perspectives and adding depth to the conversations.

    However, it's important to note that some listeners may not agree with everything said on the show. The hosts have their own opinions on various topics, which may not align with everyone's views. However, this can be seen as a positive aspect as well since it encourages diverse opinions and fosters interesting discussions.

    In conclusion, The For Crying Out Loud podcast is a must-listen for anyone seeking a lighthearted yet insightful conversation about life, parenting, and everything in between. Stefanie Wilder-Taylor and Lynette Carolla are fantastic hosts who make you feel like part of their inner circle. Whether you're in need of a laugh or looking for relatable stories from fellow parents, this podcast has it all. Don't miss out on this truly enjoyable listening experience!



    Search for episodes from For Crying Out Loud with a specific topic:

    Latest episodes from For Crying Out Loud

    Drunk-ish: Mom, Influencer, Badass, Suzanne Warye

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2025 58:06 Transcription Available


    Hey, it's me, Stefanie. Awhile ago I aired an episode with Suzanne Warye that I thought you all might enjoy but this episode is actually the first one I recorded with her and I REALLY think you'll enjoy this. She is so honest about motherhood and how hard it is and she also speaks a lot about OCD which many who listen to FCOL can relate to. Hope you enjoy!

    Elby Schools Us on Sorority Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2025 39:46 Transcription Available


    Elby Taylor guests with us this week and on this episode we talk all about working on tour and why being in a sorority wasn't right for her but might be right for you. Hey, it's never too late! To get some GLP-1 action visit ForHers.com/CryingAlso to get free shipping and 365 day returns go to Quince.com/FCOL

    Do I Have to Look Like I'm Listening?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2025 43:09 Transcription Available


    Sonny and Lynette get some bonding time, we learn the correct pronunciation of Natalia once and for all...or do we? And should Lynette move to Palm Springs and live in a retirement community? Get $10 off plus free shipping on Nutrafol by going to Nutrafol.com and using the promo code FCOL

    FCOL Old Skool: A Hotel Room From Hell

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2025 41:31 Transcription Available


    Lynette and Stef talk about the aftermath of their FCOL meet-up in Palm Springs including the less than idea hotel accomodations IYKYK. This episode is from Oct 2022.

    Introducing Drunkish: Rosebud Baker

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2025 63:54 Transcription Available


    Thought the FCOL crowd would like this one. In my conversation with Rosebud Baker, we trace a line from grief to grace: a political-family childhood near D.C., the loss of her little sister, finding alcohol, and then finding a room where people spoke her language. We talk about the slow work of sitting with feelings, Al-Anon, the beginnings of stand-up and writing, sobriety since 2006, pregnancy loss, IVF, becoming a mom, and the memoir she's written along the way, Fully Baked. It's a hopeful map for anyone who needs community, laughter, and permission to start again.  

    You're Ready When You're Ready

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2025 44:37 Transcription Available


    Stefanie has been searching dogs like she's Tinder dating and some people in the house aren't here for it...yet. How do you know when you're ready to open your heart? Get $10 off plus free shipping on Nutrafol by going to Nutrafol.com and using the promo code FCOL

    I'm Just Going to Read the Spoilers

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2025 45:17 Transcription Available


    Lynette and Stef talk Diddy doc (plus some sound up of a funny TikTok about the Diddy jurors), The Big C, The Beast in Me and more. Check out Quince for holiday gifts go to Quince.com/FCOL

    FCOL Old Skool: The One Where We Trash Celebrities

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2025 46:25 Transcription Available


    This one is pretty old but the year is unknown. Lynette tells a story about a diva at Disneyland (her name rhymes with Hey No) and Stef talks limo assholes.

    Drunk-ish: Anna David and the Wrong Promises

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2025 51:43 Transcription Available


    Thought FCOL people would appreciate this episode of Drunk-ish with new mom, Anna David.  We get into the infamous “Fix” headline fiasco, why community laughter can be medicine, and how she accidentally checked into the other Promises—think broken hoop, not Malibu tennis courts. Anna talks getting sober at 30, the power of 12-step, and how EMDR rewired her life. We also compare notes on early motherhood being… let's say “not a spa day,” and celebrate her new gig co-hosting Sober Living and running Legacy Launchpad Publishing. If you like this pod please follow it on the Drunk-ish feed! And give it a review or rating!Follow Anna on everything @AnnaBDavidAnd find her website at AnnaDavid.comWatch the episode on YouTube 

    Are You a Restaurant Or Karaoke Bar? Pick a Lane.

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2025 50:52 Transcription Available


    Lynette goes to a Christmas party and sees some fun people and spill a little tea, Stefanie goes to a birthday party and leaves with PTSD plus, the perils of aging!Check out Quince for your gift giving needs Quince.com/FCOL

    Jingle Bell Rock Doesn't Need to Be 90 Decibels

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2025 45:21 Transcription Available


    Stefanie goes to a concert and almost loses her hearing, more college talk and some TV and podcast recommendations.For GLP-1's go to ForHers.com/Crying

    Introducing Drunk-ish: Kate Anthony

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2025 53:15 Transcription Available


    Remember when Kate Anthony (The Divorce Survival Guide - book and podcast) to discuss her work as a divorce coach? Yeah well she was also on Drunk-ish getting very real about getting sober. It was an eye opening conversation in the best way and relatable to moms and parents in general.

    FCOL Old Skool: Parenting Fails

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2025 48:36 Transcription Available


    In an episode from January 2022, Producer Gary joins to talk parks, playrooms and parenting fails.

    And How Was YOUR Thanksgiving?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2025 49:42


    Lynette and Stef discuss their Thanksgivings then Stef tells the story of Sadie's first (and definitely not last) tattoo plus Phil updates and more.For GLP-1 meds go to ForHers.com/Crying

    She's All That

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2025 54:58 Transcription Available


    Tamara is back in the co-host seat and she tells us stories about her career in TV (Popular, Nothing Sacred) and film (She's All That, Torilla Soup) including some fun tea and some acting humiliations. Plus Stefanie retells the story of the time she got fired from The Three Stooges. Tamara's jewelry can be found at Grey By Tamara Mello on Etsy.

    FCOL Old Skool: Summer Camp

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2025 54:11 Transcription Available


    Another episode from way back in 2015 and Lynette and Stef have some views on summer camp that will definitely change! 

    Laying the Hammer Down

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2025 60:29 Transcription Available


    Guest co-host Tamara Mello joins Stefanie today to talk about her son's first year at Berkeley and the process of getting this college application stuff done. Plus, we delve into the different types of schools the kids have been to because again, it's not one size fits all. Tamara talks about her two dogs' origin stories. And, of course, this episode is dedicated to sweet Penelope Taylor. She will be greatly missed. To check out Tamara's jewelry go to Grey By Tamara Mello on Etsy.

    It's the End of an Era

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2025 44:05


    After Xander has his stint as the assistant director of the school play, he needs to make some hard decisions about college. Lynette tells us about the latest Clare Danes show and Stef shares some news. Trigger warning. This one is a little sad.

    FCOL Old Skool: Phil's Origin Story

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2025 56:59 Transcription Available


    In this throw back (way way back) to 2016 Lynette and Stef give so many great true crime recommendations plus the whole Philly Cheesesteak origin story.

    Go Ducks!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2025 53:09 Transcription Available


    Lynette sees two kids in one week beginning with a trip to Santa Barbara that gets scary when she can't find a charging station for her car but ends with an overnight to Oregon. Stef talks about Elby's 21st birthday and needs some advice about a tattoo for Sadie. 

    Manage Your Expectations

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2025 41:41 Transcription Available


    Lynette tells Stef about a movie she saw in the theater and a movie she hasn't seen yet that everyone thinks she should plus, Squid Games, a new podcast rec and Stef has a mea culpa.

    FCOL Old Skool: Tell Your Kids About Sex!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2025 58:20 Transcription Available


    Enjoy this throwback to 2016 which is mostly about sex. 

    Robin Reiser Got Sober at 16 (Part 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2025 33:28 Transcription Available


    (Part 2) She got sober at 16 and, spoiler alert, she's still sober. For all of you parents who are dealing with teenagers and substance abuse, this episode of Drunk-ish is a must listen! Feel free to follow Drunk-ish wherever you get your podcasts. You can also watch this episode and every episode on YouTube 

    Robin Reiser Got Sober at 16 (part 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2025 42:58


    (Part 1) She got sober at 16 and, spoiler alert, she's still sober. For all of you parents who are dealing with teenagers and substance abuse, this episode of Drunk-ish is a must listen! Feel free to follow Drunk-ish wherever you get your podcasts. You can also watch this episode and every episode on YouTube 

    The "I" is Right In the Name!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2025 60:48 Transcription Available


    Lynette and Stef talk Nikki Glaser and then they reflect back on their first car purchases, their first arrest warrants and Stef's first tax lien. Those were the days. Plus, Stef has an issue with her brand new car. 

    The Ex-Wives Detective Podcast Needs Work

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2025 49:07 Transcription Available


    Lynette and Stef talk about Don't Date Brandon and the podcast that it was based on, we revisit the Scott Peterson murder (did Mark Garagos do it?), Stef recommends a great podcast (based on a listener tip) plus much more!

    FCOL Old Skool: The Most Difficult Job

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2025 49:07 Transcription Available


    Lynette and Stef remember an old Bill Burr bit plus, how to tell your kids that a toddler got eaten by an alligator and so much more.This is from June 2016

    Well Look Who Got Scrappy!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2025 57:22 Transcription Available


    Stef gives the GLP-1 update you've been waiting for, Lynette introduces us to the wonderful world of ear cleanings and Elby gets a new gig!

    Don't Quit Your Day Job

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2025 49:10


    Lynette revisits her time in the corporate world and thinks back to being a SAHM plus, both Stefanie and Lynette reminisce about the earliest days of the podcast. Plus, the college pressure is real, we recommend a few shows and more crazy mom stories.

    FCOL Old Skool: All About Our Moms

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2025 61:12 Transcription Available


    First we talk about Lynette's outing at an Endless Rant event and then Lynette talks about how Adam doesn't believe in homework or project but Lynette has to be the one to tell the teachers about that and we go deeeeep into our relationships with our own mothers. 

    She's My Cherry Pie

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2025 59:11 Transcription Available


    In this packed episode, Lynette goes back to the river and makes a few new friends and Stefanie finally leaves Harvest Fest in the rear view but not before a close encounter with a crazy ass mom. 

    If I Need It Explained I Don't Want To Watch

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2025 49:35 Transcription Available


     It's Fri-YAY and you know what that means, Lynette and Stef talk all the shows they are watching from Love is Blind to Black Rabbit to Nurse Jackie. Plus, Elby gets scrappy and Sonny and Penelope are on the same medication.https://learn.nocd.com/FCOL

    FCOL Old Skool: Penelope Was a Serial Killer!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2025 55:23 Transcription Available


    It's a throw back to August 2013 when Penelope was new and as it turns out, blood thirsty. Also, Lynette and Stef were not cut out for certain mall stores and much much more!

    These Crazy Dogs Love Chips

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2025 57:13 Transcription Available


    Lynette is back, back again and has stories from her trip to Florida. Meanwhile Stefanie has a tale to tell about starting a GLP-1 and goes hard against the idea that sugar isn't addictive.  https://learn.nocd.com/FCOL

    Julie Tells a Horror Story

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2025 58:14 Transcription Available


    Julie is back in the co-host seat and this time she tells us a crazy, awful story that almost drove Stefanie back to Xanax. Julie isn't an addict so she didn't need it. WHATEVER. Plus, scary times when Elby was a baby and more!

    FCOL Old Skool: The Scariest Sonny Bike Story

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2025 60:03 Transcription Available


    Yes it's THAT story told straight through with every. harrowing detail. Relive it! It'll haunt you.

    Introducing Drunk-ish: Kathleen Wilhoite

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2025 68:19 Transcription Available


    Hey Everyone, in honor of us all being obsessed with the Murdaugh Murder series on Hulu that's just released, we thought we'd air this episode of Drunk-ish with Kathleen Wilhoite who plays, Gloria, the loyal housekeeper. It was an incredible episode full of crazy stories including the time Kathleen passed out in the parking lot before a big audition. Check it out and then go subscribe to Drunk-ish!

    hulu drunk kathleen wilhoite
    Julie Kasem and Stef Get Real

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2025 57:37 Transcription Available


    Julie Kasem is here to "shoot the shit" and they talk about Julie's daughter in London, her younger daughter's college apps, Xander and Sadie's plans and then we get a little serious toward the end to discuss what Julie learned watching Xander growing up. Visit forhers.com/CRYING to get a personalized, affordable plan that gets you. Find out why Nutrafol is the best-selling hair growth supplement brand at Nutrafol dot com, promo code FCOL. 

    A Whole Lotta Spoilers

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2025 54:49 Transcription Available


    Lynette and Stef discuss Death in Apartment 603, Wayward, Escape at Dannemora and then Stef gets vulnerable and talks about her compulsive mind. Go to Quince dot com slash fcol for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Viiahemp.com and use the code FCOL to receive 15% off, free shipping on orders over $100, AND if you're new to VIIA - get a free gift of your choicehttps://learn.nocd.com/FCOL

    FCOL Old Skool: Oh Those KROQ Days!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2025 51:53 Transcription Available


    Stef has a basically one nighter with her neighbor, Lynette needs a colonoscopy and Stef's dentist shades her teeth.

    Like a Rolling Kidney Stone

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2025 55:19 Transcription Available


    In today's episode, Natalia has a medical emergency, Sonny came home and Stef made a new friend while taking Xander to tour UCSB and much much more!Go to Quince dot com slash fcol for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Viiahemp.com and use the code FCOL to receive 15% off, free shipping on orders over $100, AND if you're new to VIIA - get a free gift of your choiceIf you have OCD check out NOCD.com

    I Love a Lady in Dickies

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2025 38:10 Transcription Available


    This episode is packed with goodness: The Hatchet Wielding Hitchhiker, Beauty and the Bester and Wayward where Lynette and Stef agree on their lesbian type.For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners ten dollars off your first month's subscription and free shipping when you go to Nutrafol dot com and enter the promo code FCOL.

    FCOL Old Skool: I'm Not Going to Party City!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2025 46:39 Transcription Available


    Stef has to plan a sweet 16 birthday party plus Elby attends a birthday party at a place fit for the queen of England. Needless to say, no one is in the mood for this crap!

    And Now He's Wingless

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2025 50:50 Transcription Available


    Lynette and Stef contemplate how their love of amusement parks has evolved through the stages of life. It's not as deep as it sounds. Plus, Stef's figured out Elby's future!For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners ten dollars off your first month's subscription and free shipping when you go to Nutrafol dot com and enter the promo code FCOL. 

    Let Them...I Guess with Julie Kasem

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2025 48:28 Transcription Available


    Julie's back and we discuss why Stefanie is annoyed at her local Buy Nothing group, Mel Robbins' questionable advice plus Julie talks about a tragedy that happened to a friend of hers and how we can help.Check out Live Like Braun

    FCOL Old Skool: Mark Geragos Loves Scott Peterson

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2025 56:40 Transcription Available


    Enjoy this throwback to 2021 when Mark Geragos came on and spilled it all; so fascinating and fun. Of course Stefanie tries to tell him Scott Peterson is guilty but she doesn't get too far. 

    Julie Kasem Has the Best Life!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2025 49:30 Transcription Available


    At long last, Julie Kasem is back in our ears and we couldn't be happier. We open the episode with a discussion on all the things we're not supposed to talk about and then we get into Julie's various jobs, the college process her daughter is going through right now and more. So much more.

    Shit*ing the Nest...Again

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2025 49:16 Transcription Available


    Stef goes to scope out Elby's new apartment and help her buy some stuff for it while recognizing how you can tell when your kid is ready to go back to college. Both Lynette and Stef lament about how expensive and what a pain in the butt it is to move the kids plus a little TV talk.For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners ten dollars off your first month's subscription and free shipping when you go to Nutrafol dot com and enter the promo code FCOL. 

    FCOL Old Skool: Lynette Breaks the News

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2025 43:04 Transcription Available


    Yes it's THAT episode. The news that shattered Carolla-verse. It's so interesting to hear it but also hear how far Lynette has come! So much vulnerability, therapy talk and ultimately peace.

    Introducing Drunk-ish: Suzanne Warye

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2025 53:46 Transcription Available


    It's another intro to Drunk-ish but this one is in everyone's wheelhouse. Suzanne Warye is a mom, a sober influencer, and an author of the book The Sober Shift which is available on Sept 30th. This conversation is funny and so real like the time her husband put crime scene tape around her den where she'd left a huge mess due to day drinking and passing out. Give it a listen and then go subscribe to Drunk-ish and buy her book.

    Hungry But Scared

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2025 50:13 Transcription Available


    Lynette felt really ill yesterday when we normally record so Stef and Lynette put on their private dick hats and get to the bottom of what caused it. Plus, Stef recommends Love Is Blind France and Lynette shares a scary thing that happened to Natalia.Get ten dollars off your first month's subscription and free shipping when you go to Nutrafol dot com and enter the promo code FCOL. 

    Claim For Crying Out Loud

    In order to claim this podcast we'll send an email to with a verification link. Simply click the link and you will be able to edit tags, request a refresh, and other features to take control of your podcast page!

    Claim Cancel