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Once upon a time a spender and a saver got married, but in order to have their happily ever after they needed to get on the same page about money. Join us as we discuss our current journey through marriage and money!

David & Heather Proehl


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    #100 - 100th Episode Special!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2022 35:10


    To celebrate 100 episodes of Marriage & Money, David & Heather find out how well the saver can answer spender questions and vice versa, as well as sharing some of their favorite spending and saving tips. Finally, we also announce that we are going to be pausing production of this podcast while we stabilize our schedules after moving back to the US. Thank you for 100 episodes! Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money

    #99 - Appearances vs Reality

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2022 25:41


    When looking at other people's lives from the outside it can be easy to think they are doing better, or perhaps worse, than they actually are financially. In today's discussion we discuss how making these assumptions can lead to you sabotaging your own financial goals and what you can do to combat these issues. Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money

    #98 - Starting Your Personal Finance Journey

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2022 31:54


    When it comes to personal finance, we all start somewhere and we all have more to learn. As such, it can be intemidating when starting on your personal finance journey to understand where and how to begin. Today we discuss how to start if you are new to personal finance and want to level up your finances. Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money

    #97 - Mid-Year Check-Up

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2022 32:14


    It may be hard to believe, but we are already halfway through 2022! An what better time than midway through the year to check in on the progress you've made so far on your financial goals, and adjust accordingly! Today we dive into our mid-year discussion as well as offer thoughts on how you can be most successful with yours. Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money

    #96 - How to Build an Emergency Fund

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2022 27:55


    While it is easy to see why an emergency fund is important, it is a lot harder to see how to save for one, especially when money is already tight. In our conversation this week we discuss a few ways to save for your emergency fund and a little on our journey to create our emergency fund. Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money

    #95 - Why Isn't My Budget Working?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2022 27:02


    If you've been struggling with your budget, there is a good chance it is because situations during the month ended up being different than you originally planned. In our discussion today we talk about how to make adjustments mid-month as well as a few tips to make the next month more accurate! Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money

    #94 - New Home Ownership

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2022 32:21


    You've been working hard and waiting for the right time to buy that house, now you are finally ready to do it. So what is next? In today's episode we discuss a few things you will want to have in place and be considering as you look to buy that first home. Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money

    #93 - Money Conflict Scenarios

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2022 29:40


    It may be easy to think about how you might address a conflict in theory, but what about specific scenarios where you and your spouse may disagree? Today we jump into 4 common scenarios where couples often run into trouble and talk offer common sense suggestions on how to work through each. Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money

    #92 - Vacation Planning

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2022 27:42


    Vacations should be fun! So why is it than when making decisions on how to spend our time and money we can create situations that result in arguments with our spouse? Let's talk about a few of the trouble spots we can hit when planning vacations together and some possible ways to get past them. Also, we end with dreaming about what vacations we'd like to work towards as a couple! Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money

    #91 - Finances Made Easy

    Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2022 31:28


    Often times we make our personal finances more complicated than they need to be, which can then introduce confusion or arguments into money conversations. Today we discuss several ways for you to simplify your finances to make managing them easier! Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money

    #90 - Financial Proofing Your Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2022 29:53


    Like water and fire, money can be either a tool to improve your marriage or a force that creates havoc. Protecting your marriage against financial arguments certainly isn't easy, but today we discuss a few techniques for protecting your marriage against the harms money can cause. My apologies, we had some audio problems for David's recording around the 12:30 mark, but it does improve after a couple minutes. Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money

    #89 - Options for Investing

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2022 33:28


    There are a host of options available when looking to start investing or if you are considering taking a new approach. Each strategy has different levels of risk, reward, and is potentially suited for a different time horizon. Today we look at several different options to discuss when they might meet your needs best and things to consider when you and your spouse are determining your investment approach. Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #88 - Working with a Financially Irresponsible Spouse

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2022 27:18


    Not everyone is able to get on the same page as their spouse right away, in fact, sometimes a spouse might be actively working against what the other spouse is trying to accomplish. We discuss how to work with a spouse that might be financially irresponsible, and where to start the hard work of rebuilding communication. Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #87 - Personal Finance Trends

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2022 28:33


    This week we look findings from a study done by the AICPA, a prestigious accounting institution, on the top financial trends in the US. While these trends tend to focus more on the negative, there is light at the end of the tunnel! Join us as we discuss how to combat these trends in addition to as what is working well! Link to article referenced: https://www.aicpa.org/news/article/6-personal-finance-trends-that-should-worry-all-americans Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #86 - Financial Transitions

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2022 33:13


    It doesn't matter if change is for the better or worse, with it brings financial consequences. Today we discuss what common types of financial transitions are, how to plan for them, and how to thrive in the midst of them. We discuss some of the changes we've been through through our time as a married couple along with what has gone well and what hasn't. Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #85 - Navigating Different Financial Philosophies

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2022 29:35


    Everyone comes to a marriage with different financial perspectives and philosophies. This can add stress and perhaps even hard feelings between partners when these philosophies collide. Today we have a conversation about how to start these conversations while talking a little about our journey through the ups and downs of conflicting philosophies. Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #84 - Financial Spring Cleaning

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2022 26:46


    You're no doubt familiar with the concept of spring cleaning, but have you ever thought about how you might apply the concept to your finances? Today we dive into what spring cleaning might look like for your finances and how you could approach it as a couple. Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #83 - Top 10 Common Money Mistakes

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2022 30:02


    Today we discuss the most common mistakes people make with their money, often times without even realizing they are mistakes! Join us as we share about the mistakes we have made and the ones that still tempt us today. Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #82 - Big Hairy Audacious Goals (BHAGs)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2022 29:07


    If you are setting goals, why not go big!? Today we discuss a few of the benefits of aiming high with your goals and how to create a strong BHAG while sharing a few of the BHAGs we've set over the years as well as what might be next. As always, we wrap up with a related question for you to discuss as a couple. Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #81 - Emergency Mode

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2022 33:52


    Having an emergency fund is great, but using it can be an entirely different thing. What should you be thinking about when a crisis strikes and how do you ensure you are ready for the next one? We tackle these and other questions today as we dive into handling emergencies. Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #80 - Personal Finance FAQs

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2022 31:56


    There are a lot of great questions in the personal finance world, and today we take a crack at providing our answers to 9 of them. Questions ranging on topics from debt, to retirement, to family planning, and even wills. Join us for a discussion that spans the gambit of personal finance! Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #79 - How to Make More Money

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2022 28:19


    No matter how well you manage your budget, I'm sure you could find a use for some extra cash each month right? While there is no easy or simple answer for making a little extra money, there are plenty of options on how to do so. We dive into a few ideas that we've seen work for people we know and what we've tried ourselves. Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #78 - Vacations: Essential or Extravagant?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2022 29:32


    The two of us have a history of disagreeing on vacations. David has thought they were extravagant and perhaps even a misuse of money, while Heather has seem them as an essential part of life. So who is right? Well, like most things the answer likely rests somewhere in the middle. Today we talk about our different perspectives on vacations and what we have considered when making vacation budgeting choices. Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #77 - Bringing More Communication to Your Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2022 30:07


    Marriages live and die by how well you communicate. Given how critical practicing good communication is, how can you improve it in your own marriage, or even find ways to start communicating beyond the surface if it has been lost in your marriage? Today we discuss some practical tools for introducing more communication between you and your spouse! Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #76 - Top Marriage Destroying Money Issues

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2022 34:08


    If left unchecked, money issues in your marriage will continue to grow until they blow up in an argument or perhaps even become too large to deal with. Alternatively, if you can recognize early on some of the common issues married couples face when coming together with alternate viewpoints you can resolve many of these issues before they even start. In today's episode we review the article linked below which highlights common money issues and ways couples can address them. Link to Article Discussed: Top 6 Marriage-Killing Money Issues Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #75 - Spending Priorities

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2022 28:35


    We all spend money, but how can you be intentional when doing so in order to get the most of of the money you are spending? We discuss how to prioritize where your money goes and what to do when your wants don't align between you and your spouse. Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #74 - Stages of Financial Conversations for Couples

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2022 32:42


    At each new stage of your relationship (dating, engaged, married, growing) there are different conversations about money that should be taking place. We dive into what some of the conversations are you should be having at each stage while sharing some stories about our experiences so far at each of them. Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #73 - The Value of Life Insurance

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2022 31:41


    One thing is 100% certain, you will die. What is less certain is whether or not your loved ones will have enough money to maintain their current lifestyle once you are gone. Today we tackle the difficult topic of life insurance. Do you need it? How much? How do you get it? We all die, so let's be sure we do so mindfully and in a way that doesn't destroy your family while they are already going through a difficult time. Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #72 - The Good and Bad of Credit Cards

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2022 32:49


    Credit cards may seem like a requirement in today's world, and while there are a lot of good reasons to use them, they certainly aren't without their faults. So is it possible to go through life without a credit card and why would you want to do so? Let's talk about it! Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #71 - Taking Control of Lifestyle Creep

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2022 35:18


    The gradual increase of expenses, commonly referred to as lifestyle creep, seems to happen to us all. Even so, it isn't inevitable, in fact you have it in your power to stop or reverse it in your own life! Today we dive into how lifestyle creep happens, why it is so hard to stop, and what can be done about it. Additionally, we close out with a listener question related to a spouse that has maxed out credit cards and is struggling to get on the same page with their budget minded husband. Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #70 - New Year New Goals

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2022 31:20


    It's a New Year! If you want to make progress financially, you need to know where you are going and why. And what better time to check-in on your financial goals and make new ones than the start of the new year? Join us for a discussion into how to brainstorm goals, what makes a good goal, and how to prioritize them! Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #69 - Getting Curious about Personal Finance

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2021 31:04


    Curiosity can mean the difference between staying the course you are currently on or diving deeper to challenge yourself to become more. So can you grow your curiosity, especially if it is something you aren't even interested in? And if so, how? Heather and David see what they are curious about and discuss a few ways you can expand your ability to be curious. Curious Questions to Ask your Spouse about Personal Finance David's YouTube Channel: Singapore Expat Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #68 - Importance of Self Control

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2021 32:50


    Doing what you want to do sounds easy right? If only that were true. Self control is easier said than done but it is something we can learn and something we can build up as a skill. Today we dive into the benefits of self control and how we can develop more of it. Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #67 - Can Money Buy Happiness?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2021 30:12


    There is an old saying that money can't buy happiness, but is it true? And if so, to what extent? Let's wrestle with this question and see what it might be able to tell us about how we can bring more happiness into our marriages. Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #66 - What's the Deal with Inflation?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2021 31:35


    Inflation has been in the news a lot lately with prices surging on everything from gas to groceries. So why does this happen and how can we insulate ourselves from it? The answer isn't as hard as you might believe, and the discussion is most certainly more fun than you would expect! Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #65 - Financial Infidelity

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2021 29:11


    We all know sexual infidelity is damaging to a marriage, but did you know there is such a thing as financial infidelity which can be just as harmful in extreme cases? Today we dive into what financial infidelity is, how you can spot it, and how to protect your marriage from it! Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #64 - Talking Money with Family

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2021 32:54


    The holidays are upon us, and that means family time, and with family comes conversations about religion, politics, and of course money. So what should we do if the topic of money comes up? What should we not do? You may not have a crazy cat lady aunt who wants money for her dear kitty's surgery, but even so you should still consider your approach before diving head first into a conversation that could potentially damage relationships. Today we discuss different approaches to the conversations to give you a head start on the holidays!

    #63 - Amy Scott - Money Challenges in Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2021 38:30


    Marriages often suffer for a variety of reasons, but unquestionably near the top of that list of marriage stressors is money. Today we sit down with financial coach Amy Scott, someone who entered the coaching world after recognizing the challenges money was creating in her marriage and decided to do something about it! Now, she helps couples (and individuals) get on the the path that is best for them. Connect with Amy Scott on: Website: https://amyscottcoaching.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amyscottfinancialcoaching/ Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #62 - Rich vs Poor Mindset

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2021 32:25


    Can a state of mind change the trajectory of your finances? Your state of mind has a profound influence on your behavior, and while certainly not the only factors, there are several key attributes of our thought life that will push us further towards wealth or further towards poverty. Today we dive into what those factors are and how we might be able to work on shifting into a rich mindset. Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #61 - Derrick Kinney - Money with Purpose

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2021 42:38


    Derrick Kinney sold his financial planning company with the goal of serving even more people than his existing clients. Today, he hosts the Good Money podcast, is an author, and a financial coach. We talk with him about how couples can navigate the pitfalls of different money backgrounds/cultures and finding more meaning behind making money than simply a bigger nest egg. True potential is unlocked when work is paired with purpose! Join us in one of our most energizing conversations yet! Find Derrick at: Good Money Podcast Instagram: DerrickTKinney GoodMoneyFramework.com Marriage and Money Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Marriage and Money Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #60 - Everything I Needed to Know About Personal Finance I Learned in Kindergarten

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2021 31:23


    We get it, managing your personal finances can seem hard, but if you break it down you'll find these are all simple concepts you learned to embrace years ago as a kid. The key is taking these simple concepts and applying them to your financial life. In today's discussion we break down these financial best practices into behaviors you've been doing since kindergarten. Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #59 - Making Personal Finance Fun with Zach & Meredith

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2021 33:12


    Let's be real about this: personal finance can be boring, even a chore at times. So how do you you add some fun into the equation? Today we talk with our friends Zach & Meredith and they share how they transitioned from financial discussions that were a disaster to actually looking forward to having them. Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #58 - How to Break Bad Money Habits

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2021 32:39


    So often the things that are holding us back most in our financial success are the very things that have become so engrained in us, they are almost a part of us...our habits! Let's talk about those bad money habits we all have and how we can be more successful at changing them. Who knows, we might even come clean on a few bad habits of our own along the way :) Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #57 - Is Being Overwhelmed Keeping You from Financial Success?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2021 30:13


    When finances are tight, it is easy to become overwhelmed and not know how or where to start. When overwhelmed it is even harder to see if there is a way out. In today's episode, we talk through how we've handled overwhelming moments and some things you can do today in order to get a handle on stressful financial moments.

    #56 - Are You Ever Done Saving?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2021 29:12


    We are told we need to SAVE, SAVE, SAVE! So does it ever end? Is it ever ok to back off of saving and how do you know if you've gotten to a point where you can? Heather pushes David on when he will end his binge saving ways and we dream about what will change when we hit "our number." Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #55 - Budgeting 101

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2021 31:56


    You know you should have a budget, but how to start? Let's talk through practical strategies for making budgets easier! While we are at it, we walk through what recommended percentages are for each category of your budget so you can have a starting point to work from! Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #54 - Save an Extra $100 This Month

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2021 33:57


    You don't need to budget to find ways to save extra cash (although it helps!). Today David & Heather discuss some of their favorite strategies to squeeze a few extra dollars out of a tight month and what you can do to save more money over the long term. Email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage.and.money/

    #53 - Setting College Expectations with Tanya Ruden

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2021 29:51


    As a parent it can be hard to decide how to treat your kids fairly, and things get even harder when we start talking about college. Do you give each kid a certain amount of money? Do you give each full funding for a degree? Do you give them cash if they don't go to college? While life isn't fair, you want to be as fair as possible as a parent. Heather's sister joins us today to discuss her approach and some of the difficult questions she is wrestling with.

    #52 - Looking Back at 1 Year of Marriage & Money

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2021 30:05


    It is hard to believe it has already been 1 year since our first episode! Thank you so much for making this podcast possible. Let's pause for a moment to look back at the last year and some of our favorite moments and biggest takeaways. Contact us: email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Instagram: @marriage.and.money

    #51 - Income Swings

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2021 30:01


    Ups and downs can be fun at the amusement park, but things can be different when we start talking about our personal finances. We all experience changes in our income, so it is best to be prepared for how you will react when it happens. In this episode we discuss things to consider when planning for income increases, decreases, and unpredictability. Contact us: email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Instagram: @marriage.and.money

    #50 - Eating Out

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2021 30:55


    Most everyone enjoys the convenience, variety, and service when eating out, but it all comes as a cost. Today's discussion is how to balance eating out with managing a responsible budget and not end up fighting with your spouse in the process! Contact us: email: marriageandmoneypodcast@gmail.com Instagram: @marriage.and.money

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