Misadventures with the Narcissist (The Lost Years)

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If you have a narcissist in your life or have been the victim of narcissistic abuse, you will find my misadventures very relatable. In this podcast, I share my experiences with being in a relationship - dating, marrying, divorcing and co-parenting - with a narcissist. Some of these stories might be sad, some might be hopeful - but it is my goal to share this so other women (and men) who have been the victim of narcissistic abuse feel less alone and like there is someone out there who understands exactly what they are going through. Welcome to Misadventures with a Narcissist - The Lost Years Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    68. MAJOR UPDATE and There's no "winning" against a Narcissist

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2025 45:34


    It's been MONTHS since I've done an update. Here's what's happened with the narcissist since the last episode.

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    67. Long overdue update: The narcissist and I are going to court. AGAIN!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2024 36:05


    In this episode, I'm sharing some long overdue updates and tell you the story of why the narcissist and I are back in court. AGAIN! To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misadventures-narcissist/support --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    66. My message to the narcissist's new "supply" (or How could she not see these 3 red flags?)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2023 44:42


    In this episode, I share what I want to tell the narcissist's new supply and three major flags that she should look out for. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    65. I had to file a "motion for contempt" because the narcissist did THIS!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2023 34:51


    In this episode, I share why I had to file a motion for contempt in my divorce case with the narcissist. Make sure to stay ALL the way through the end because I ended the episode and then had some new info to add, so listen all the way through the end. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    64. "Mom, you're irrelevant..."

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2023 29:59


    In this episode, I share my reaction to being told that I'm "irrelevant"... To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    63. Three things I realized - and what I need to change!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2023 29:53


    In this episode I share three things I realized about my narcissistic abuse healing journey. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    62. The biggest crossroads yet. Sigh...

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2023 48:38


    In this episode I share some recent developments and how I'm feeling about finding myself at a crossroads. The narcissistic abuse healing journey continues! To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    61. Grief and "I never had that..."

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2023 45:58


    In this episode I share my recent experience with grief and the idea of "I never had that"... To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    60. The day the narcissist died

    Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2023 33:56


    In this episode, I share a very bizarre, powerful and healing experience that I had during an "intuitive healing session" with a friend of mine. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    59. I went to court against the narcissist without a lawyer!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2023 47:39


    Here's what happened when I went to court against the narcissist without a lawyer! To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    58. How do my kids feel about narcissistic abuse?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2023 60:17


    In this episode, I share with you my thoughts on how my kids have been dealing with the concept of narcissistic abuse. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    57. You won't believe what happened with the Court... and a quick update

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2023 29:24


    In this episode, you won't believe what happened with our court date and why it got postponed! And you'll get to hear a quick update on what's been going on. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 To support this podcast with a small monthly donation to help sustain future episodes visit https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    56. I was SO WRONG about the narcissist...

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2022 22:26


    In this episode, I want to share with you this one thing that I got wrong about the narcissist. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 To support this podcast with a small monthly donation to help sustain future episodes visit https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    55. I told the narcissist the ONE THING you should never tell a narcissist...

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2022 29:11


    In this episode, I want to share the story of how I told the narcissist the ONE THING you're never supposed to tell a narcissist. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 To support this podcast with a small monthly donation to help sustain future episodes visit https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    54. An open letter to my listeners

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2022 16:03


    In this episode, I want to thank all my listeners for being here and for allowing me to share my story and to be seen and validated. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 To support this podcast with a small monthly donation to help sustain future episodes visit https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    53. Is this normal? (Part 2 - Wife edition)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2022 31:00


    In this episode, I want to share some scenarios for me that were "normal" and part of my daily life with the narcissist. But are they really "normal" or was I not in touch with reality? To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 To support this podcast with a small monthly donation to help sustain future episodes visit https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    52. Is this normal?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2022 31:44


    In this episode, I want to share some scenarios for me that were "normal" and part of my daily life with the narcissist. But are they really "normal" or was I not in touch with reality? To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 To support this podcast with a small monthly donation to help sustain future episodes visit https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    51. "He's just an asshole who doesn't deserve your attention"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2022 27:20


    In this episode, I talk about feeling understood and seen by others on your healing journey from narcissistic abuse, as well as a book that I've been reading lately called Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How it Can Help You Find and Keep Love" which you can purchase here https://amzn.to/3PQznLb (Affiliate link) To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 To support this podcast with a small monthly donation to help sustain future episodes visit https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    50. This is the HARDEST thing about divorce from a narcissist...

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2022 29:52


    In this episode, I talk about what has been, for me, the hardest thing about being married to - and getting divorced from - a narcissist. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 To support this podcast with a small monthly donation to help sustain future episodes visit https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    49. Co-parenting with the narcissist - OH MY!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2022 40:02


    In this episode, I share about my experience with co-parenting with the narcissist. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 To support this podcast with a small monthly donation to help sustain future episodes visit https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    48. Ten "interesting" things I noticed about the narcissist

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2022 66:21


    In this episode, I share ten things/traits/characteristics that I noticed about the narcissist. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    47. Did the narcissist support my career?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2022 54:15


    In this episode, I share my perspective of the narcissist's relationship with my work and career To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    46. The narcissist and his relationship with his career (AKA his #1 priority)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2022 74:09


    In this episode, I share my perspective of the narcissist's relationship with his work and career To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    45. This is what happens with the narcissist when I try to stand up for myself...

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2022 37:12


    In this episode, I share what happens when I try to stand up for myself with a narcissist... To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    44. How I REALLY felt being married to a narcissist

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2022 52:15


    In this episode, I share how I really felt while being married to a narcissist. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    43. The narcissist and our "friends"

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2022 43:43


    In this episode, I share how the narcissist interacted with my female friends and his female friends, and how he convinced me that his behavior was ok and totally normal. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    42. The narcissist has NEW SUPPLY and what that means for me...

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2022 38:33


    The narcissist has new supply! Listen to this episode to learn how this is affecting me and what this all means! To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    41. Have I healed from narcissistic abuse?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2022 27:52


    In this episode, I share some insight into my healing from narcissistic abuse journey and where I am at now. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    40. I went to marriage counseling with the narcissist!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2021 32:23


    The narcissist and I went to marriage counseling and it was HELL! In this episode I share some of the things he said and how it all played out. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    39. Quick update since the narcissist announced he is taking me to court!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2021 24:32


    OMG, the narcissists is a rollercoaster. After he announced that he is taking me to court, he's now changed his mind and wants to do THIS instead. Listen to today's episode to find out more. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    38. The narcissist is taking me to court!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2021 30:14


    The narcissist wants to take me to court, wants joint custody of our children from 900 miles away, doesn't want to pay his share of child support and says that he is not in agreement with any of the mediation plans that we had agreed on over the summer. Oh my! Is anyone surprised by this? In this episode I share how I'm feeling about all of this. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    37. Ten "rules to live by" that don't apply to narcissistic abuse

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2021 33:35


    This week I am exploring 10 (plus a bonus one) rules of life that may apply when you are in a relationship with someone that is not a narcissist, but they sure don't apply when you are with a narcissist. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    36. Am I "stuck" in my healing if I keep telling my story of narcissistic abuse on this podcast?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2021 28:25


    This week I am sharing my thoughts on a podcast episode from Caroline Strawson's show, "The Narcissistic Trauma Recovery Podcast" - Why keeping telling your narcissistic abuse story keeps you stuck https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/072-why-keeping-telling-your-narcissistic-abuse-story/id1527479270?i=1000542795780 To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    35. The narcissist "apologized!" Plus, a quick life update...

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2021 24:00


    The narcissist apologized, but I'm not sure how I feel about it. Check out this week's episode to hear my thoughts on an "apology" from the narcissist. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    34. How do I KNOW my ex-husband was a narcissist?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2021 43:36


    One question that I get almost always is "But how do you KNOW he is a narcissist? Was he formally diagnosed? Or is that your diagnosis of him?" Every time I get asked this question I feel like my experience is being invalidated, so I wanted to share about this in today's episode. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    33. I wish I could gift THIS ONE THING to every victim of narcissistic abuse (and a quick update since the narcissist moved)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2021 29:43


    In this episode, I share what's happened since the narcissist moved 900 miles away, how I'm doing and feeling, as well as a few things I realized over the last few months. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    32. I did something!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2021 10:55


    In this episode, I shared something that I did on Instagram last week. It took me a while to feel brave enough to do it, but if you want to see more follow my Instagram account at https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    31. Vacations (from hell) with the narcissist

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2021 32:29


    Narcissists love to ruin special occasions and our vacations were no exception. In this episode, I share details of some of our vacations and how I felt during each trip. To follow my journey on Instagram or to connect with me directly, please click here https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    30. The narcissist is moving 900 miles away - and what he said SHOOK me!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2021 36:34


    The narcissist just dropped the bomb that he is moving 900 miles away for work - and he expects me to follow him! In this episode, I share what led to this news, how I really feel about it, how he feels about it and what this is triggering for me. To follow my journey on Instagram or to connect with me directly, please click here https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    29. Cognitive dissonance and (lack of) emotional safety with the narcissist

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2021 30:02


    In this episode, I share my experience with the concept of "emotional safety" and cognitive dissonance in my marriage to a narcissist. Many people who have been involved with a narcissist will tell you that the emotional safety they felt during their relationship was only an illusion. In truth, there is no sense of security because it takes little to nothing for the person on which your love and attention have depended so greatly to turn against you in anger or frustration. The experience can be traumatic but also teaches us valuable lessons about what we are willing risk pursuing relationships that I otherwise would not go near - even when those risks seem worth it at first glance. To follow my journey on Instagram or to connect with me directly, please click here https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    28. "Safety" in a narcissistic relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2021 46:56


    In this episode, I share my experience with the concept of "safety" while being in a relationship with a narcissist. I talk about both my safety and my kids' safety and how this played out in my relationship and our parenting. To follow my journey on Instagram or to connect with me directly, please click here https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    27. Ten ways that living with mold is like living with a narcissist

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2021 38:59


    In this episode, I share my experience with how living in a house with mold (which has been causing a lot of my health symptoms) is similar to living with a narcissist (which has also been causing a lot of my health symptoms). To follow my journey on Instagram or to connect with me directly, please click here https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    26. Money and the narcissist (part 2) - Spending Money

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2020 56:44


    In this episode I share the dynamics of how my narcissistic ex-husband spent our money and how he reacted when I spent money. To follow my journey on Instagram or to connect with me directly, please click here https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    25. Money and the narcissist (part 1) - Making Money

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2020 57:48


    In this episode, I share the story of our financial responsibilities during my marriage to the narcissist. You'll hear about our jobs, careers, ways that we made money and our money story. To follow my journey on Instagram or to connect with me directly, please click here https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    24. I spent Thanksgiving with the narcissist

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2020 60:00


    I celebrated Thanksgiving at my ex-husband's house and here's what happened. To say that I left heartbroken, confused and in tears is an understatement. Today, I feel duped once again and I'm sharing that story in today's episode. To follow my journey on Instagram or to connect with me directly, please click here https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    23. The five love languages and the narcissist

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2020 46:01


    In this episode I share my experience with the Five Love Languages and how they relate to being in a relationship with a narcissist. To follow my journey on Instagram or to connect with me directly, please click here https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ And here's the Instagram post that I mentioned at the beginning of this episode https://www.instagram.com/p/CHHJu86JJ_D/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    22. Sex and the narcissist

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2020 55:21


    I wasn't sure if I should talk about this at all, since sex is a very private and vulnerable topic for anyone, but I feel that this was such an important aspect of my marriage to the narcissist. Narcissists view sex very differently and they use it to gain power and narcissistic supply, not to connect and be intimate with their partner. In this episode, I share my journey with sex with the narcissist. PLEASE NOTE: I don't recommend listening to this episode with kids around, as there is some language that is not very kid-friendly. ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 Here are some books that have helped me understand and heal from narcissistic abuse: Melanie Tonia Evans - You Can Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse: The #1 System for Recovering from Toxic Relationships https://amzn.to/2YGAsOc Dr. Ramani Durvasula - Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving A Relationship with a Narcissist https://amzn.to/3eLslW0 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    21. The REAL reason why I didn't leave - TRAUMA BONDING

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2020 19:05


    After I recorded last week's episode, I realized that I left out a HUGE part of why I didn't leave. So in this episode, I'm sharing an article about trauma bonding, what it is and why it keeps people, including myself, in abusive relationships. If you want to read the article, here's a link: https://www.yourtango.com/experts/joanne-brothwell/what-is-trauma-bonding-how-to-break-cycle-of-abuse-partner-with-narcissistic-personality-traits And here's another very helpful article about this topic: https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-to-recognize-the-signs-of-trauma-bonding/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    20. Thirty reasons why I didn't leave my marriage to the narcissist

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2020 57:58


    In this episode, I share more than 30 reasons why I stayed in my marriage for 12+ years and didn't leave. Some of them made sense at the time, some of them make no sense looking back, but these are some of the things I thought about at the time. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. Here are some books that have helped me understand and heal from narcissistic abuse: Melanie Tonia Evans - You Can Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse: The #1 System for Recovering from Toxic Relationships https://amzn.to/2YGAsOc Dr. Ramani Durvasula - Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving A Relationship with a Narcissist https://amzn.to/3eLslW0 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    19. "I'll stay married to you if I can sleep with other women" and other things the narcissist said during our last six months of marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2020 38:24


    This is the story of the last six months of being married to the narcissist: what went down, how I felt, what he said, and how things finally ended. ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 Here are some books that have helped me understand and heal from narcissistic abuse: Melanie Tonia Evans - You Can Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse: The #1 System for Recovering from Toxic Relationships https://amzn.to/2YGAsOc Dr. Ramani Durvasula - Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving A Relationship with a Narcissist https://amzn.to/3eLslW0 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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    18. Here's what I realized about the narcissistic abuse recovery journey...

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2020 27:08


    There are a lot of things that I realized since recording the last episode. In today's episode, I share what those things are, as well as where this podcast about narcissistic abuse and recovery is heading. Thanks so much for being here and for witnessing my story. ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christiane Northrup or "Should I Stay or Should I Go" by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. Here are some books that have helped me understand and heal from narcissistic abuse: Melanie Tonia Evans - You Can Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse: The #1 System for Recovering from Toxic Relationships https://amzn.to/2YGAsOc Dr. Ramani Durvasula - Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving A Relationship with a Narcissist https://amzn.to/3eLslW0 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/misadventures-narcissist/support

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