Podcasts about Emotional safety

In this episode, we dive into an enlightening conversation with Cindy Stibbard, a certified divorce and relationship coach and the founder of Divorce Redefined. Cindy shares her journey of dealing with infidelity, navigating the breakdown of her marriage, and ultimately finding purpose in helping others. The discussion touches on the importance of addressing conflict in relationships, emotional safety, and the value of independence and self-worth. Cindy offers practical advice for both single and married listeners on how to build healthy relationships, whether it involves staying and working through tough times or knowing when to move on.IN THIS EPISODE:- (06:20) Deciding Whether to Stay or Go- (15:09) The Importance of Emotional Safety- (22:21) Cindy's Personal Marriage Experience- (39:19) The Two-Year Rule for Relationships- (43:09) The Dangers of Codependency- (47:16) The Strength of Being Single- (54:28) Dealing with Betrayal and InfidelityRESOURCESCheck out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE My FREE eBook The Magnetic WomanApp rec: BumbleFeminine Embodiment HERECONNECT WITH CHARLENE On Instagram @mscharlenebyars On YouTube @chosentrainingWork with me HERECONNECT WITH CINDYOn Instagram HEREHis Links HERE

In this episode, our returning guest expert (and favorite friend of the podcast!) Dr. Nacchi Felt joins us to unveil the brand-new Cycle of Accountability—the life-direction loop that helps ADHD brains point their power at the right targets.Inside the loop:Alignment — Name your values (think truth, responsibility, gratitude) so decisions stop feeling random.Accountability — Drop the “shoulds.” Hold yourself to what you care about.Attention — Your attention is your presence. Reclaim it as your birthright.Attachment — Safe relationships supercharge the loop and keep you present.But here's the deeper truth: safety and acceptance are the foundation that make this loop possible. Being “safe” means you can be fully seen and still contained—someone can sit with you in your hardest moments without pulling away. That's a rare experience for many ADHDers, and therapy or coaching can provide a version of that safety while you learn to build it yourself. From playful co-regulation with a child to a friend's honest reassurance, relationships that combine honesty and containment create fertile ground for growth. When you experience that kind of attachment, it not only soothes your nervous system—it also strengthens your alignment with your values and makes accountability feel natural, not forced. You're not going to want to miss this episode!More from Dr. Felt here!Clearheaded: The ADHD Guide for Turning Overwhelm into Clarity, Calm, and Control

How to pass the 4 pillars of manhood to your kids Why celebrating vulnerability matters more than perfect discipline How to normalize hard conversations about sex, money, and struggle The long view: Becoming a tender-hearted grandpa starts now FULL SHOW NOTES LEARN about joining the Fall 2025 DadAwesome Accelerator Cohorts SUMMARY Some days you feel like a C-grade dad, and that's when presence matters most. In this episode, Josh Krehbiel shares how he's learning to create emotional safety for his kids, celebrate vulnerability over performance, and pursue the long view of becoming a tender-hearted grandfather. You'll hear about the four pillars of manhood, why crock-pot freedom beats microwave solutions, and how to get to the rocking chair with love on your heart. TAKEAWAYS Marking moments matter: Creating manhood ceremonies and intentional milestones leaves lasting impressions on your kids, even if the follow-up isn't perfect. Celebrate vulnerability first: When your kids fail or confess something hard, make it about their openness before addressing consequences—this builds emotional safety. Reject passivity, accept responsibility, lead courageously, and be fueled by the future: These four pillars of manhood provide a framework for raising boys and girls with character. Pursue purity as a top priority: The war for purity as a father protects your ability to show physical affection and have compassion without contamination. Freedom is crock-pot, not microwave: Breakthrough comes through long-suffering love and staying present, not by trying to manhandle change. GUEST Josh Krehbiel is the lead founding pastor of Every Day Church in Roseville, Minnesota—a community focused on prayer, discipleship, and sending out leaders and movements. Along with his wife Katie, Josh is passionate about raising up the next generation through worship, ministry, and authentic family connection. They have four children: three teenagers and a five-year-old. Josh is also a songwriter and worship leader who believes in the power of declaring truth over families through music and prayer.   LINKS Learn about the next DadAwesome Accelerator Cohort Subscribe to DadAwesome Messages: Text the word "Dad" to (651) 370-8618 Download a free chapter of the DadAwesome book Raising Modern-Day Knights by Robert Lewis Everyday Church, Roseville, Minnesota   QUOTES "When failure happens we celebrate the vulnerability first because the most important thing is connection and felt safety." "I want to get to the rocking chair with love on my heart and grandkids who say grandpa is kind." "Freedom doesn't happen through manhandling it happens through long suffering love and staying present in the crock pot not microwave." "Your kids don't feel safe because you think they're safe they feel safe when you celebrate their vulnerability over their performance." "The war for purity as a father protects your ability to show physical affection with compassion instead of contamination."

Send us a textEpisode 191 - When Conflict or Silence Feels Like Love: What Fighting and Avoidance Say About Your FamilyIs your family stuck in conflict—either yelling and arguing or avoiding everything in silence? In this episode, family relationship coach Tina Gosney explains how conflict styles shape marriage, parenting, and your relationship with adult children—and how to move from destructive patterns to constructive conflict and emotional safety. In this episode of Coaching Your Family Relationships, Tina Gosney, Family Life Educator and Family Relationship Coach, breaks down the hidden conflict styles that shape your marriage, your parenting, and your relationship with your family.You'll discover:Why yelling, arguing, or “unfiltered honesty” can feel like love and connection in some familiesWhy silence, sweeping things under the rug, or avoiding tough conversations can feel like safety in othersHow destructive conflict, conflict avoidance, and constructive conflict each shape your family relationshipsWhat happens when highly religious families label conflict as “sinful” and shut it downHow parents—whether raising kids or relating to adult children—set the emotional tone for the whole familyWhy fighting doesn't always mean connection, and silence doesn't always mean peacePractical steps to create emotional safety, better communication, and genuine connection at homeWhether your home has been marked by explosive arguments or cold silences, this episode will help you understand your conflict style and begin practicing constructive conflict that leads to healing, intimacy, and lasting connection.Join Tina Gosney's live workshop on October 9th: End Family Disconnection and Rebuild Relationships that Last. Learn how to change the emotional climate of your family—even if no one else changes first. CLICK HERE TO REGISTER Tina Gosney is the Family Conflict Coach. She works with parents who have families in conflict to help them become the grounded, confident leaders their family needs. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us: Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/tinagosneycoaching/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tinagosneycoaching ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Tina is certified in family relationships and a trauma informed coach. Visit tinagosney.com for more information on coaching services.

Emotional safety is the foundation of lasting intimacy and trust in marriage. In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into what it really means to feel safe with your spouse, and being able to share thoughts, feelings, and vulnerabilities without fear of judgment or rejection.We'll explore the signs of emotional safety, the common behaviors that destroy it, and practical ways to create a safe space where both spouses feel understood, respected, and supported. From breaking patterns like criticism, stonewalling, or dishonesty, to building habits of empathy, validation, and open communication, this conversation will help you strengthen the bond in your marriage and deepen your connection.If you want more trust, better conflict resolution, and deeper intimacy with your spouse, this episode is for you.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

If sex feels disconnected, mechanical, or just not happening, then the real block might not be desire… it might be safety.In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share why emotional safety is the foundation of intimacy and how it creates the conditions for passion, polarity, and lasting connection. What you'll hear in this episode:What emotional safety really means and why “not fighting” isn't enoughHow polarity and turn-on are fuelled by safety in both masculine and feminine energyWhat is the hidden cost of ignoring safety, and how does it erode intimacy over timeWhat are some simple, daily practices that build safety, trust, and connectionWhy safety is the foundation of better sex and not just more sex.If you're craving sex that feels alive, nourishing, and deeply connected, this episode is your reminder: it all starts with safety. OUR NOVEMBER 20–24 GROUP RETREAT IS A FULL TANTRA EXPERIENCE AND REGISTRATION IS NOW OPENHere's what you'll experience:• Practices that bring your body into safety so pleasure can expand• Tools to rewire old patterns of shame, disconnection, or performance• Sacred intimacy rituals that turn sex into something nourishing and electric• Private time to take everything you've learned into your own bed

What if the change your child needs starts with you? This episode explores how rethinking your role through an attachment lens can unlock new ways to connect, support, and truly understand your child. Discover what happens when you stop trying to fix and start seeing differently. You may never look at parenting the same way again.What to expect in this episode:Why real change begins when caregivers feel just as empowered as their kidsHow an attachment-based lens helps reframe behavior and connectionWhat reflective parenting looks like and why it builds trust over timeHow to move from “fixing” to truly listening and understandingWhy belonging matters more than we think in classrooms and homesAbout Tania Johnson, R.PsychTania is a registered psychologist and co-founder of the Institute of Child Psychology. Originally from South Africa, she holds an Honours degree in psychology and a Master's in counselling from City University of Seattle. Tania brings a global perspective to her work, having taught in Taiwan and trained at the Cancer Treatment Centers of America in Chicago. A former foster parent and current supervisor for emerging clinicians, she draws from attachment theory to support meaningful connections between children and caregivers. Tania is known for turning research into practical strategies that parents can apply in daily life. Connect with TaniaWebsite: Institute of Child Psychology Facebook: Institute of Child Psychology Instagram: instituteofchildpsych YouTube: Institute of Child Psychology Related Links:EP153: Trusting Complex Kids & Helping Them Trust Us https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-153-trusting-complex-kids-helping-them-trust-us/id1565976964?i=1000648999971EP207: Rebuilding Trust with Teens: Cleaning the Slate Conversations https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep207-rebuilding-trust-with-teens-cleaning-the/id1565976964?i=1000700897363Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Read the full blog here:https://impactparents.com/how-to-build-trust-and-emotional-security-in-kids Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors"Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com

“We're taught how to fall in love, but not how to stay there.” So in today's must-listen episode, I chat with renowned relationship repair expert Baya Voce, MSW, to learn the art of repair, and how to maintain love and connection through conflict.Arguments happen (they're an important part of relationships and individuation!) — but they don't have to break your bond. In this powerful episode, we dive into proven tools for transforming conflict into deeper connection, and Baya's strategies for building better communication, boundaries, and emotional safety.If you're in love, want love, or care about love, this is your roadmap for working towards interdependence, rebuilding trust, and creating love that lasts.With an MSW from Columbia University, Baya specializes in couples counselling and MDMA-assisted couples therapy research, and is supervised by the incredible Esther Perel!  Her work has been featured in a TED Talk, on Vice, Forbes, MTV, and ABC, and her videos on everything from boundaries, to using AI for therapy, to navigating jealousy, have been viewed by millions.Tune in as we explore:

In this episode of the Midlife Mavericks Podcast, I sit down with Tim Thomas, father, business owner, ex-Special Forces Commando, MMA athlete, and founder of Breathwork in Bed. Tim shares his extraordinary journey from combat zones and chronic fatigue to discovering the life-changing power of breathwork. We dive into how breath regulates stress, balances hormones, improves sleep, and reconnects men to their true power. Tim unpacks the myths around breathwork, why it's not “woo-woo,” and how every man in midlife can use it to boost energy, reclaim peace, and lead with strength.Tim Thomas Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breathworkinbed/ Tim Thomas Website: https://breathworkinbed.com.au/ Midlife Assessment ScoreCard: https://midlife-mavericks.scoreapp.com/ Midlife Mavericks Skool Community: https://www.skool.com/midlife-maverick/about Key Takeaways:Power isn't about dominance, it's about feeling strong, peaceful, and generous from the inside out.Breath outranks the thinking mind; it can switch off stress, heal, and reset the nervous system.Sleep is the soil thing grows out of it; men run on fumes and disconnect from their power.Myths around breathwork being “woo-woo” are false; it's science-backed and performance-proven.Practical breathwork techniques can energise, calm, and connect men in midlife in minutes.Investing in yourself raises your “energetic bank account,” helping you show up better for family, work, and legacy.Chapters:00:00 Introduction to Breathwork and Travel Dreams02:52 The Power of Breathwork in Nature05:44 Finding Purpose and Motivation08:28 Overcoming Childhood Challenges11:21 The Journey of Self-Discovery13:56 Creating a Legacy Through Healing17:04 Masculinity, Power, and Generosity20:00 The Importance of Safety and Connection22:39 Emotional Safety and Vulnerability28:31 The Beginning of Breathwork Journey29:09 The Weight of Duty and Loss37:13 Transforming Energy: From Survival to Thriving44:41 The Journey of Breathwork: From Rock Bottom to Recovery52:59 The Power of Conscious Breathing57:51 Sleep: The Foundation of Energy and Well-being01:02:15 The Power of Breathwork01:06:08 Breath as a Tool for Performance01:07:42 Conscious Breathing and Empowerment01:12:08 Breath as a Source of Energy01:16:51 Practical Applications of Breathwork01:17:57 Introduction to Midlife Challenges

High performers are often praised for their drive, precision, and reliability. But what if what looks like ambition... is actually anxiety? In this episode, Jean Dorff—founder of The Empowering Story and author of Broken Silence—explores a quiet truth many professionals carry: that what the world sees as excellence may actually be a trauma response. From over-editing emails to automatic “yeses,” we explore how fear-based striving can become a silent survival strategy. ✨ This isn't about pathologizing success. It's about understanding the invisible labor survivors perform to stay “safe” in environments that reward compliance over authenticity. We'll cover: Why trauma survivors often perform for safety at work How hypervigilance becomes perfectionism in disguise What burnout looks like when it's rooted in self-erasure Three micro-boundaries that support nervous system healing How healing your work habits can shift workplace culture This is a space for reflection, not shame. Whether you're navigating leadership, rebuilding from burnout, or just beginning to unlearn old survival strategies, this episode is here to help you pause—and breathe.

Send us a textIn this episode of the Relaxing To Love podcast, Teal Riege explores the reasons why emotionally healthy men may initially feel boring compared to the excitement of emotionally unavailable partners. She discusses the impact of nervous system imprinting on attraction, the difference between trauma bonding and real connection, and how to retrain oneself to embrace healthy love. Teal emphasizes the importance of recognizing emotional safety and building a secure foundation for relationships, encouraging listeners to reflect on their attachment styles and patterns in love.Takeaways:Emotionally healthy men can feel boring due to past trauma.Nervous system imprinting affects our attraction to partners.Stability in relationships may feel less exciting than chaos.Recognizing emotional safety is crucial for healthy connections.Trauma bonding creates a cycle of craving chaos and drama.True connection is calm and emotionally nourishing.Craving excitement can indicate an unhealthy attachment style.Retraining your nervous system can help embrace healthy love.Building attraction takes time and emotional safety.You are not broken; healing is a process.Schedule Your 30-Minute Relationship Audit Today: https://calendly.com/tealeriege/auditFollow Teal on Insta Here:https://www.instagram.com/tealelisabeth_/Download Teal's Relax into Love Guided Meditations here: https://www.tealelisabeth.com/meditationsJump into the Love Life Accelerator Here:https://www.tealelisabeth.com/accelerator Learn more about her Soul Rebirth Course here: https://www.tealelisabeth.com/soul-rebirthLearn more about her Sacred Union Course here:https://www.tealelisabeth.com/sacred-unionEmail Teal anytime here: teal@relax-into-love.comSupport the show

Episode #168: Can authentic connections change your perspective on life? Join me, Kimberly Lovi, as we explore transformative insights from my recent journey to Charlotte, where I had the privilege of collaborating with Leonard Wheeler on a major campaign. A visit to Gordon's barbershop revealed powerful lessons on humility and the true essence of connection amidst his personal health battles. We discuss the enlightening cultural contrasts between Charlotte and Los Angeles, particularly the openness about faith, which left a lasting impression on us. This episode promises a wealth of reflection on the value of material possessions in the face of life's challenges and the importance of embracing authenticity, support, and respect for diversity. Moreover, we dive deep into the significance of personal accountability and self-reflection when navigating conflicts. Learn how owning your part and being honest with yourself can not only build trust but also open doors for more meaningful conversations. We touch on the necessity of emotional safety and the role of a supportive network in expressing vulnerability. Through personal stories, we reinforce the message that it's okay not to be okay, and that genuine feelings can fortify relationships and foster deeper connections. This episode is a heartfelt reminder of the power of authenticity in overcoming life's challenges. Chapters: (00:00) Transformative Insights and Authentic Connections (13:13) Navigating Authentic Self-Reflection and Connections Follow Kimberly on Instagram and TikTok @kimberlylovi or @iconicnationmedia  WATCH us on YouTube and view our brand new studio! 

You can say all the right things and still miss each other. Discover why emotional honesty—not performance—is the gateway to real connection, and how to break the cycle of surface-level intimacy without sacrificing strength.What if the very thing that makes you successful is also what's silently distancing you from your partner?In today's episode of The Recalibration, we explore emotional honesty in marriage — and why it's so hard for high-capacity humans to access it. You might be articulate, self-aware, and transparent… and still be emotionally unavailable. Julie Holly shares her own journey of emotional detachment disguised as leadership, revealing how high performers often substitute control and composure for true vulnerability — not out of malice, but out of protection.This episode blends real-world storywork, neuroscience, and relationship research from Dr. John Gottman to uncover the invisible gap between what we say and how we actually connect. It's not about mastering conflict scripts or fixing communication. It's about recalibrating identity — so your presence matches your power.You'll hear:Why emotional honesty feels risky to high achieversHow “transparency” can still be a maskWhat Gottman's bids for connection reveal about nervous system safetyHow tiny missed moments create emotional shutdownWhy ILR is not mindset work — it's identity work that restores intimacyHow to lead your marriage with presence, not performanceWhether you're in a long-term relationship or simply desiring deeper emotional connection, this episode invites you to stop calculating and start connecting.Today's Micro Recalibration:Where have I been withholding emotional honesty to protect an image?What truth — even a small one — could I share today that would build intimacy, not distance?For Couples (Recalibration Together):What's one moment recently where you felt I turned toward you — or didn't?This is the kind of clarity that recalibrates more than just your marriage — it shifts your whole life.Linked Resources:Seven Principles to Making Marriage Work by John Gottman PhD and Nan Silver The Deep-Rooted Marriage: Cultivating Intimacy, Healing, and Delight by Dr. Dan B. AllenderIf this episode gave you language you've been missing, please rate and review the show so more high-capacity humans can find it. Explore Identity-Level Recalibration→ Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Join the waitlist for the next Recalibration cohort This isn't therapy. This isn't coaching. This is identity recalibration — and it changes everything.

In this candid episode, Alicia gets real about something most stepmoms won't say out loud: you want to be over your partner's past… but reminders keep ambushing you—kids' faces, old photos, in-law stories, even the house you live in. She explains why your brain grabs the past when you don't feel safe, the hidden cost of re-hashing old wounds, and a step-by-step plan to stop using history as ammunition so you can build the future you actually want.Who this is for:Stepmoms who feel caught between “I'm fine” and “I'm about to bring up 2014 again.” If you've ever tossed a decades-old moment into a current disagreement, this one's for you.What you'll learn:Why the past feels so present: Safety responses, stepfamily triggers, and the comparison trap (you're not “first,” so it feels like you'll never “come first”).The real cost of holding on: Erosion of trust, the resentment loop, and how re-reading old chapters keeps you from writing new ones.Six tools to move forward (without pretending it never happened):Catch the trigger in real timeSeparate past from presentJournal it (hello, Ex-Files) instead of dumping it on your partnerChoose your future over your fear (simple visualization prompt)Forgiveness vs. boundaries (what each one actually does)Shift the self-talk: from “I'll never measure up” to “I am the present and the future”Key takeawaysWhen you don't feel safe, your brain reaches for “proven” past evidence to protect you. That doesn't mean it serves your relationship now.The more you punish your partner for the past, the less space there is to create something new—today.You are not in competition with their past. You are their present and future.Boundaries protect you; expectations attempt to control them. Keep them separate.If the roles were reversed, you wouldn't want your old chapters thrown at you either.Related episodes & resourcesEpisode 111 – Spiraling: Why It Happens & How to Feel Safe Again → aliciakrasko.com/111Episode 110 – The Secret Journal Every Stepmom Should Have (Your “Ex-Files”) → aliciakrasko.com/110Want a specific topic covered? Let me know here.After you listen to this, tag me on Instagram @aliciakrasko and let me know what you think!Get all the FREE RESOURCES here.Want to learn more about The Stepmom Side community? Here's where you get all the info. Looking forward to connecting with you on the inside.All things Alicia visit www.aliciakrasko.comGet on the list, get behind the scene info on Stepmom life, and tips delivered to your inbox.

When we feel safe in our relationships, we feel we can show up with more vulnerability.  When we show up with more vulnerability, we create more emotional and physical intimacy.  But oftentimes, the behaviors we are engaging in in our relationships put the other person into protective mode rather than feeling safe, and so we struggle to create the connected relationships we really desire.  In this podcast we will talk about ten ways we can create more of a safe space for our person. Thanks for listening!  Want to learn more about this concept?  Check out these podcasts: #218 Honest Relationships #243 Having More Honest Communication #244 The Relationship Circle #284 Why Vulnerability Matters #295 Safety in the Relationship Circle #326 Stop Being Right, Start Being Safe #331 Sense of Self #332 Sense of Self – It's All In Your Head #333 Sense of Self and Dating #334 Sense of Self and Marriage #341 Choosing to Be All In #344 Are You a Safe Place for Vulnerability? #347 The Self Care of Relationship Repair #357 How to Be More Understanding #359 10 Ways to Be a Safer Spouse #364 Relationship Neglect Are you curious about what it would be like to work with me? Here are three options: Group coaching classes are available at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Talk with Tanya is a free monthly webinar where you can ask me anything and we can have a great discussion.  You can sign up for that at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Interested in a free 90-minute coaching/consult with me?  Access my calendar at: https://tanyahalecalendar.as.me/  

Emotional safety is more than just a buzzword. It's the foundation for healing and thriving in every area of your life. But for many women, creating emotional safety can feel like an abstract idea. And honestly, it wasn't until I really started to dig into it as a coach that I understood what it truly meant.In this episode, I break down why emotional safety isn't about being calm or waiting for others to “make” you feel safe, but rather starts when you go first. That means acknowledging your emotions and taking the steps to regulate your own nervous system, even when everything around you feels out of control.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: amandahess.ca/274Interested in working with me? Sign up for a discovery call: amandahess.caWant to join the Love Yourself No Matter What Membership For Free? Join here: amanda-hess.mykajabi.com/loveyourselfCome find me on TT and IG: @theamandahessMentioned in this episode:Are You Ready for a Change?Book a free discovery call with me here: https://how-to-love-yourself-no-matter-what.captivate.fm/bookacallBook a Discovery Call

Why can't women just understand men? Why can't men just understand women? The short answer is, “we're not supposed to.” If we were, we wouldn't really have any need for each other, would we? My guest today, Adam Lane Smith, has made it his life's work to get closer to helping men understand women and help us understand our own natural tendencies in relationships. Today, Adam and I talk about emotional starvation, the concept of CEO/COO between men and women, the ‘red flags' that your marriage is struggling, what men and women do to cause each other pain, and how men can lead in their relationships much more effectively. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Finding Purpose and Chasing It 00:59 – Building a 200-Year Family System 02:51 – Two Worlds: Secure vs Insecure Attachment 05:55 – Teaching People Safety vs Creating Secure Attachment 07:27 – Maslow's Hierarchy and Emotional Safety 10:46 – Safety for Men as Peace 14:19 – Security Starts Outside the Relationship 17:38 – Rebuilding a Marriage After Decades 20:53 – Invalidation and Dismissal in Relationships 22:23 – Venting vs Bringing Concerns 27:18 – The Purpose of Female Feelings as Data 29:36 – Men and Women's Brains Are Meant to Interlink 32:05 – The Ancient Fear of Not Being Believed 37:25 – Emotional Starvation in Relationships 40:38 – Signs She's Thriving or Starving Emotionally 45:13 – Four Levels of Safety Women Need 48:24 – Level 1: Physical Safety 50:07 – Level 2: Resource Safety 52:00 – Choosing the Right Woman for Your Circle 55:08 – Defining Masculine and Feminine Roles 58:32 – How Men Decide and Women Refine 01:02:05 – Level 3: Emotional Safety 01:04:29 – Level 4: Bonding Safety Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready  

Join the SmartSX Membership : ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx⁠ Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/guides/⁠ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: ⁠https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ ⁠(free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/⁠ In this enlightening episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily welcomes Sarah Sloane, sex and kink educator from the Hashtag Open app, for an essential conversation about consent, sexual communication, and finding partners who truly align with your desires. This episode tackles everything from making consent conversations sexy to navigating ethical porn, kink exploration, and the realities of dating after divorce. Sarah breaks down how to make consent attractive rather than awkward, emphasizing that consent is temporary and can be withdrawn at any time. We explore the "hell yes" versus "hell no" standard for enthusiastic consent and practical ways to slow down sexual encounters for better awareness and communication. The conversation addresses how to teach consent early through body autonomy and why being honest about your boundaries actually makes you more attractive to compatible partners. We dive into listener questions from Matt, who's navigating dating after an abusive marriage with no prior dating experience, and Christi, whose 20-year marriage is strained by concerns about her husband's porn use. Sarah offers guidance on video dating as the pandemic norm, using apps like Hashtag Open for specific interests, and the importance of yes/no/maybe lists for discovering preferences without shame. Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction & Sarah's Early Life 03:41 - Discovering Kink & Initial Curiosity 07:38 - Power Exchange & Emotional Safety in BDSM 11:59 - Consent, Boundaries & Clear Communication 16:13 - Self-Worth, Validation & Identity 20:46 - Shame, Judgment & Cultural Programming 26:17 - Healing from Trauma Through Play 31:03 - BDSM & Somatics: Embodiment Work 36:42 - Rewriting Scripts Around Pleasure & Worthiness 43:20 - Advice for Beginners & Empowered Exploration

Jamie Lynn is a marriage and family therapist, FHM cover model, and returning guest on the podcast. She openly shares her personal journey through abuse, healing, and professional growth, offering insight into mental health, narcissism, and self-worth. Her experience gives her a powerful and compassionate voice in both therapy and public conversations. 00:00:00 – Intro 00:01:12 – Clarifying The Drama 00:02:25 – Is He a Narcissist or Just Not Into You? 00:03:37 – Patterns vs Red Flags 00:04:50 – Empathy or Lip Service? 00:06:02 – Women and the Victim Mindset 00:07:15 – Misusing Pop Psychology 00:08:27 – Victimhood as an Identity 00:09:40 – Manipulation Through Guilt 00:10:53 – The Trap of Empath Label 00:12:05 – Nobody Really Cares 00:13:18 – “That Won't Work for Me” Syndrome 00:14:30 – Linking Therapy & Fitness 00:15:43 – Physical Health, Mental Health 00:16:55 – Skirting Around the Truth 00:18:08 – What Body Positivity Hides 00:19:20 – Therapists and Avoidance 00:20:33 – CBT vs Real Change 00:21:46 – Rewiring the Brain 00:22:58 – Behavioral Activation Basics 00:24:11 – Depression vs Inactivity 00:25:24 – The “Just Move” Advice Debate 00:26:36 – Labeling People Isn't Helpful 00:27:49 – Diagnosing Doesn't Fix It 00:29:01 – Narcissist vs NPD 00:30:14 – Court-Ordered Therapy Explained 00:31:27 – Behavior Without Remorse 00:32:39 – Stop Dating Red Flags 00:33:52 – Healing Without Closure 00:35:04 – Bullet Removal Analogy 00:36:17 – Imposter Syndrome or Self-Doubt 00:37:30 – Split Thinking in Success 00:38:42 – The Root is Low Self-Esteem 00:39:55 – Specific vs Situational Confidence 00:41:07 – Authenticity vs Insecurity 00:42:20 – Childhood Trauma & Belief 00:43:32 – Abusive Home Life 00:44:45 – Religious Confusion & Abuse 00:45:57 – Growing Through Education 00:47:10 – Forgiveness Is For You 00:48:22 – Letting Go of Justice 00:49:35 – Closure Is Not Reconnection 00:50:48 – Resentment Bonds You 00:52:00 – Forgiveness and Spiritual Freedom 00:53:13 – Narcissist Still Controls You 00:54:25 – Heal to Stop Obsessing 00:55:38 – Abundance as Antidote 00:56:51 – Betrayal Still Hurts 00:58:03 – Forgiveness Is Daily Work 00:59:16 – Busy Over Bitter 01:00:28 – Power of Forward Vision 01:01:41 – No One Is Coming to Save You 01:02:53 – How She Met Her Ex 01:04:06 – Attracted to Power 01:05:18 – First Signs of Manipulation 01:06:31 – Creating Jealousy Early 01:07:43 – Triangulation Tactics 01:08:56 – Control Through Insecurity 01:10:08 – Going to Therapy After Abuse 01:11:21 – Why She Chose Psychology 01:12:34 – Knowing Her Purpose Early 01:13:46 – Happiness Through Work 01:14:59 – Not Idle, Not Depressed 01:16:11 – Focus on the Future 01:17:24 – Saving Herself, Not Waiting 01:18:36 – First Red Flags in Marriage 01:19:49 – Idealizing False Safety 01:21:02 – Ignoring the Warning Signs 01:22:14 – When Love is a Trauma Bond 01:23:27 – Psychological Abuse Isn't Loud 01:24:39 – The Power of Projection 01:25:52 – Living for Someone Else 01:27:04 – Silence as a Weapon 01:28:17 – Leaving Without Closure 01:29:30 – Self-Worth After Breakup 01:30:42 – Dating While Healing 01:31:55 – Falling Into Old Patterns 01:33:07 – Looking for Safe Chaos 01:34:20 – Why Trauma Feels Like Home 01:35:33 – Fantasy Relationships 01:36:45 – Emotional Safety vs Excitement 01:37:58 – Recognizing Real Love 01:39:10 – Drama Isn't Chemistry 01:40:23 – Trust Takes Time 01:41:35 – Slow is Safe 01:42:48 – Conflict Avoidance Patterns 01:44:01 – Learning to Speak Up 01:45:13 – Boundaries Are Self-Love 01:46:26 – When to Walk Away 01:47:38 – Coaching vs Counseling 01:48:51 – What Clients Really Need 01:50:04 – Accountability Over Validation 01:51:16 – The Truth About Change 01:52:29 – Helping People Who Won't Help Themselves 01:53:41 – Final Thoughts on Narcissism 01:54:54 – Leaving the Past Behind 01:56:06 – Stay Grounded in Reality 01:57:19 – The Power of Reflection 01:58:31 – Own Your Healing 01:59:44 – Thank You Jamie Lynn

Subscribe to the video podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@DrTazMD/podcastsIn this episode, Dr. Taz sits down for a heartfelt conversation with Sophie Grégoire Trudeau about tending to our emotional health and mental well-being. They explore topics including emotional literacy, brain health, trauma recovery, and the importance of community and connection in maintaining mental wellness. They also delve into the power of personal and familial healing and emphasize the significance of slowing down, being present, and nurturing authentic relationships. About Sophie Grégoire TrudeauBest-selling author, celebrated public speaker, and passionate mental health advocate, Sophie Grégoire Trudeau has championed gender equality, female empowerment, youth self-esteem, and the importance of physical activity for over two decades.In her first book, Closer Together: Knowing Ourselves, Loving Each Other, Sophie explores the science behind brain health, emotional intelligence, and our unique emotional signatures, drawing on her personal journey and interviews with renowned experts.Stay ConnectedConnect further to Hol+ at https://holplus.co/- Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell to stay updated on future episodes of hol+.Subscribe to the audio podcast: https://holplus.transistor.fm/subscribeSubscribe to the video podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@DrTazMD/podcastsFollow Dr. Taz on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drtazmd/https://www.instagram.com/liveholplus/Connect with Sophie Grégoire Trudeauhttps://www.instagram.com/sophiegregoiretrudeauhttps://sophiegregoiretrudeau.com/Host & Production TeamHost: Dr. Taz; Produced by Rainbow Creative (Executive Producer: Matthew Jones; Lead Producer: Lauren Feighan; Editors: Jeremiah Schultz and Patrick Edwards)02:42 Exploring Emotional Literacy03:20 The Impact of Early Life Experiences07:05 The Global Mental Health Crisis14:57 The Importance of Emotional Safety29:51 The Language of Love is Slow33:27 The Emotional Load Carried by Women36:41 The Role of Social Connections in Wellness40:44 Navigating Family Dynamics and Raising Teenagers50:50 The Influence of Social Media on Mental Health54:11 The Importance of Community and Connection56:08 Sophie Grégoire Trudeau's Personal Journey

Are you a people pleaser? A nice guy/gal? It's one of the most quietly destructive behaviors - and it's also surprisingly common. In today's conversation, I'm joined by Oliver Robert Lucas to talk about the causes of and solutions to people pleasing.Oliver works with men to overcome nice guy tendencies, insecurities and other behaviors that keep them stuck. You can find him here:https://www.youtube.com/@OliverCowlishawhttps://www.olivercowlishaw.com/work-with-me/https://www.instagram.com/oliverrobertlucas/Chapters:00:00 Intro01:43 Sacred Combat?03:21 The Importance of Physical Confidence10:14 Male Bonding Through Martial Arts18:00 The Role of Emotional Safety in Men's Work26:45 Overcoming People Pleasing Tendencies30:27 The Pain of Self-Abandonment38:59 Expressing Desire and Facing Rejection42:40 The Power of Honest CommunicationResources:Learn more about themed journaling and Introspective Writing here: https://youtu.be/XRzGthevzTsGet my Introspective Writing Course: https://shanemelaugh.com/iw/Oliver's video about the friend zone illusion: https://youtu.be/llbB5ayOVsw

In this episode I dive into one of the most attractive things that men can do and why so many have lost it. I get into my impressions on the death of the old way of masculinity and what is being ushered in now.Listen in to learn about the difference between informing and connecting, mature masculinity, whether we are regressing, male muses, and much more.TIMESTAMPS:00:00 - 00:14 Intro and Welcome 00:14 - 01:34 Masculinity and What's Missing 01:34 - 03:39 Loss of Purpose and Brotherhood 03:39 - 05:10 New Masculinity and Presence 05:10 - 07:50 Informing vs Connecting 07:50 - 10:09 The Chair Metaphor and Emotional Blocks 10:09 - 12:13 Warrior Archetype and Focus 12:13 - 14:21 Attraction and Emotional Safety 14:21 - 16:11 Archetypes and Transition Time 16:11 - 18:45 Stages of Male Development 18:45 - 21:51 Attachment, Culture, and Bonding 21:51 - 22:04 Closing and Outro_______________________If you found some value today then help me spread the word! Share this episode with a friend or leave a review. This helps the podcast grow.You can also watch the episodes on youtube hereFollow me on Instagram @anyashakhYou can book a discovery call at anyashakh.com

Are modern men slowly losing their grip on what it means to truly lead?You're working hard. You're showing up. You're providing. But still—your marriage feels off. You're getting blindsided by disconnection, resentment, or even divorce. You're trying to be a good man, yet nothing seems to be enough. Why is it that despite doing “everything right,” so many men are silently failing in the one place that matters most—at home?In this powerful conversation, we dive deep with Quentin Hafner, therapist, author of Black Belt Husband, and coach to high-performing men. What makes Quentin different? He's not your typical therapist—he's a former corporate climber who hit rock bottom after a divorce, did the inner work, and made it his life's mission to help other men heal, lead, and thrive. And he's brutally honest about what's wrong with traditional therapy and how it can actually keep men stuck.Quotes:"My mission field is to really serve men in that capacity, help men heal so they can be highly effective in their families."- Quentin Hafner"There's a time to sit in that pain, not to wallow in it and be miserable, but to be self-reflective and contemplative. - Quentin Hafner"When you trust yourself, other people trust you more too." - Matt BeaudreauKey Takeaways:Most “marriage problems” are personal problems in disguise.According to Quentin, couples often don't have relationship issues—they have individual wounds and unresolved trauma showing up in the marriage.70% of divorces are initiated by women.The most common reason? A deep emotional pain: “I didn't feel like I mattered.” Men often don't realize their wives are emotionally disconnecting until it's too late.Men underestimate the power of emotional safety.Many men believe being a good provider and father is enough. But their wives are craving emotional connection—not just physical security.Passivity is killing modern marriages.High-performing men often become passive or conflict-avoidant in their relationships, fearing they'll come off as controlling. Quentin calls this “fear-based passivity,” and it erodes trust and respect.Conclusion:This episode is a powerful wake-up call for any man who wants to lead—not just at work, but where it matters most: at home. Quentin Hafner doesn't sugarcoat the truth—he reveals how being a passive, well-intentioned husband can still lead to emotional disconnection and even divorce.But there's hope.Leadership in marriage isn't about being dominant or controlling—it's about creating emotional safety, setting the tone, and becoming the kind of man your wife and children naturally trust and follow. Quentin reminds us that real strength isn't found in aggression or avoidance—it's found in presence, purpose, and self-awareness.If you're ready to stop reacting and start leading—with clarity, confidence, and connection—this conversation is your blueprint.Because becoming a Black Belt Husband isn't about perfection. It's about transformation.And it starts with you.Call to Action:Ready to step into your role as a strong, emotionally safe, and purpose-driven leader in your home?

Christi and Josh talk about the nervous system, childhood wounds, and why the motivation behind our spouse's anger or criticism is deeper than we often give them credit for.If you're looking to have an understanding of your pain cycle and how to cultivate a deeper sense of emotional safety in your marriage, this episode is for you.Time Stamps: 0:00 Introduction1:15 Christi and Josh update on life this summer6:15 Josh shares what's coming for season 67:50 Introduction to the emotionally safe marriage 10:40 Your spouse's motivation in the pain cycle18:30 The nervous system, childhood wounds, and your pain cycle29:17 A practice for interrupting your pain cycle and seeing your spouse 32:25 Learning what feels “safe” for you Show Notes: If you're interested in a marriage you love, fill out this form: https://www.famousathome.com/loveyourmarriageRegister now for the Tender & Fierce Fall Cohort: https://www.famousathome.com/offers/dDt2Aobj/checkoutDownload NONAH's brand new single Find My Way Home by clicking here: https://bellpartners.ffm.to/findmywayhome

In this week's episode, Keana W. Mitchell explores the essential role of emotional safety in building and deepening intimacy within relationships. She unpacks how emotional security—feeling seen, heard, and accepted without judgment—isn't just comforting, but transformational. Through personal insights and therapeutic strategies, Keana shows how creating a safe emotional space can help couples reconnect, heal, and experience intimacy on a deeper level.Whether you're navigating vulnerability or striving to build trust in your relationship, this episode offers practical tools and heartfelt encouragement to help you foster stronger emotional bonds.Key Takeaways:What emotional safety looks like and why it mattersHow it influences vulnerability, trust, and connectionActionable steps to cultivate emotional safety in your relationshipReal-world scenarios and guided reflections to deepen intimacyListener Challenge: Practice a moment of emotional safety with someone you care about this week. Choose one situation to listen without judgment and validate their feelings—then reflect on how it impacts your connection.Connect with Keana:

In this episode, we explore how your nervous system, subconscious, and body are constantly scanning for emotional safety—even when your logical mind doesn't quite know why something feels off. You'll learn why your body might respond to subtle relational red flags long before your brain catches on, especially when someone seems kind, generous, or emotionally available on the surface. These intuitive hits aren't irrational—they're rooted in lived experience, stored patterns, and how your brain and body protect you. We also look at how disconnection from your body often starts in childhood—when you had to override your instincts to survive or stay connected. As adults, this can make it harder to trust yourself, your gut, or your internal signals. But healing doesn't require perfection—it starts with quiet awareness, small check-ins, and beginning to believe your body again.   Three Takeaways: Sometimes what feels “off” isn't about logic—it's your body remembering what it learned before you could name it. The people who drain or confuse you the most often disregard your boundaries in subtle ways. Emotional safety is felt, not proven. You're allowed to trust what your body is telling you.   Your nervous system doesn't need evidence.  It needs you to listen.   Get your FREE Boundaries Ebook here! If you're ready to find your voice, set healthy boundaries, and create more fulfilling relationships, this guide is your roadmap!   Need more?  Check out the Masterclass on Reclaiming Your Voice:   https://www.findyourvoicecourse.com/beyond-words     Hey! My signature course is live!  I am so excited to also offer a free upgrade to the group coaching program.  Be sure to click here to check it out: https://findyourvoicecourse.com/   Need coaching? Sign up here for your Power Hour, where you and I can get you started on your confidence journey!  https://findyourvoicecourse.com/power-hour     Resources: Join the private Facebook group! It's a great group of people working on themselves…and supporting each other.  https://www.facebook.com/groups/1212485642262143   Thank you for tuning in to this podcast. Please remember to leave a positive review on your podcast platform and let us know how this episode has been helpful. Also don't forget to subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts, Google Play or Spotify so you don't miss a thing!        

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✨ Description:Let's talk about the link between worthiness and abundance, because it's real, and it's deep.In this episode, I sit down with the beautiful Tannaz Hosseinpour — a registered psychotherapist, relationship coach, and total breathwork lover — to explore why healing your nervous system is the missing piece for so many women who are doing “all the right things” but still not feeling safe to receive.We go into:

Our hearts yearn for it. We long for a sense of emotional safety with God, with others, but also within ourselves. Yet for many of us, there's a war going on within us over our sense of emotional safety, and there can be a lot of confusion as to what it even means. View Post […]

Journey to Deep Rest Series | The Nurturer | Nova Nidra for Emotional Safety & Soft StrengthLet this gentle Yoga Nidra practice return you to the sanctuary within. A space where your sensitivity is sacred and your emotions are not too much. Guided by the archetype of Cancer, this is a call back to trust, tenderness, and rest. Some wounds don't need to be fixed... They need to be felt.00:13 Welcoming Words from Ayla Nova00:53 Preparing the Body for Deep Rest03:15 Nervous System Orientation & Physiological Sighs05:45 Yoga Nidra Practice BeginsSession Focus:• Holding space for the soft and the hard• Exploring the Nurturer archetype—emotional wisdom, sensitivity, intuition• Healing resentment and restoring tenderness• A journey through the five koshas to reclaim your presence and peace• Integration of self-care, boundaries, and rest as sacred birthright This practice is especially powerful during times of emotional burnout, when you've been holding too much for too long. It invites you to feel without fear, and to return home to your being.Suggested Sankalpa (Intention):• I am nurturing• I am protected• I am blessed• I amPranayama & Energetic Suggestions: • Physiological sighs for immediate down-regulation• Breath as a tide—softening and soothing the edges• Visualization of cocoon, release, and rebirthPrepare for the Session:• Lie down somewhere safe and supported• Use pillows or props to feel truly held• Cover your eyes or dim the lights• Invite your softness to leadAfter Your Practice:Write what softened.What emerged.What are you ready to let go of, or hold more gently?I read all your comments, and they remind me why this work matters.

In part 2, we go deeper into the emotional side of leadership—how leaders create safety, why self-regulation matters more than charisma, and what to do when culture starts to drift. Adam shares how the best leaders he's seen are relentlessly curious, not just confident. If you've ever wondered how to lead with both clarity and care, this one's for you. This half of the conversation dives into trust, communication, and team growth. Adam and I unpack how misalignment shows up before it explodes, why "tough conversations" are actually moments of deep connection, and how to build a culture that self-corrects. You'll walk away with practical ways to notice drift, course correct early, and foster alignment that lasts. Highlights: What emotional safety looks like in growing teams Why trust is the core multiplier in leadership The role of humility in hiring and coaching How to rebuild trust after it's broken Why great leaders ask better questions, not give better answers Key Takeaways: Culture isn't built in offsites—it's shaped in everyday decisions Listening deeply is one of your most powerful leadership tools People will only be as honest as they feel safe Trust takes intention, not just time Next Steps for You: Schedule 1:1 time with someone on your team and just listen Reflect: What's one misalignment you've been avoiding? Start tracking what you tolerate—not just what you preach Connect with Adam Jackson here.

How can we keep ourselves with a sense of safety if we are not taking care of our own needs? Audiobooks and courses: https://emma-digallo-s-school.teachable.com/YouTube Channel All about Business and Self-care : https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC86s2ZCT-JvW4A5i3UfoaLA

In this episode, we explore one of the most important (and often overlooked) ingredients in a thriving relationship: safety. Not just physical safety, but emotional safety. The kind that allows both partners to relax, open up, and show up fully. We'll unpack what emotional safety really means, how to recognize when it's missing, and why your partner's sense of safety affects you, even if you don't realize it. If you've ever felt stuck in defensiveness, conflict, or emotional shutdown, this episode will help you understand the deeper mechanics at play and how to rebuild trust from the inside out.Download The Connection Compass: my free guide to creating relationship safety here.My Socials:Nick Solaczek on InstagramNick Solaczek on YouTubeNick Solaczek on Facebook

What if I told you that 95% of your leadership decisions aren't actually yours? In this raw and revelatory episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on the invisible cultural conditioning that's been running your leadership show from behind the scenes. After years of coaching global executives and my own journey from perfectionist performer to authentic leader, I've discovered that most of us are leading from someone else's script – and it's time to rewrite the story.Your leadership presence and emotional mastery depend on understanding these hidden rules that operate beneath your awareness, shaping everything from your attachment styles to your team dynamics.In this episode, you will be able to:Learn the four-step process for identifying and unlearning cultural conditioning that's limiting your leadership authenticity and keeping you stuck in performance modeDiscover how unconscious childhood experiences create automatic leadership behaviors like micromanagement, delegation challenges, and emotional distance in team connectionsUncover the difference between adapting from fear versus making intentional choices from a place of self-awareness and grounded leadershipResources Mentioned:E111: Childhood Attachment: The Hidden Influence on Your Leadership StyleE112: Childhood Attachment: How Early Wounds Shape Your Leadership"Less Ego, More Soul" - Janet's book on authentic leadership transformationReady to stop leading from someone else's script? I'd love to continue this conversation with you – share your biggest "aha" moment from this episode and tag me on social media @leadershipcoachjanet. Let's build a community of leaders committed to showing up with less ego and more soul.Connect with Janet Ioli:Website: janetioli.comLinkedin: Janet IoliInstagram: @janetioliJanet is the founder of Leadership Presence. She helps leaders ground themselves with confidence, connection, and purpose and lead with Less Ego, More Soul.If you want to become more grounded, confident, and aligned with your deeper values in just 21 days. Check out Janet Ioli's book Less Ego, More Soul: A Modern Reinvention Guide for Women.If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Select “Listen in Apple Podcasts,” then choose the “Ratings & Reviews” tab to share what you think. Produced by Ideablossoms

This one's for you who's longing to be known. Today, we are joined by dear friends of The Grove— Rachel Baldwin, Kerri Stanfill, and Susan Robinson— for a vulnerable conversation about what it really means to be seen, loved, and surrounded by a real community.  But where do we begin? How do we create a space where people feel safe to be known — not only when we win, but also when we ache?Through wisdom and practical encouragement, Rachel, Kerri, and Susan invite us to go first — in vulnerability, in confession, in reaching out, in showing up. They discuss the power of presence, the courage it takes to initiate, and why we don't have to have it all together to start forming or maintaining our meaningful relationships. For the woman longing for deeper friendship but unsure where to begin, this episode is filled with grace and guidance for taking that first brave step.Whether you're flourishing in community or feeling forgotten on the sidelines, you'll leave this conversation reminded that you're not alone.

Send Us a Message (include your contact info if you'd like a reply)What does it really mean to be "trauma-informed" as a divorce coach? Beyond the buzzword, there's a profound responsibility to understand how trauma impacts our clients without overstepping our professional boundaries.Tracy and Debra dive deep into this increasingly popular term, clarifying that being trauma-informed isn't about taking one class or having experienced trauma yourself. Rather, it's developing a working knowledge of how trauma affects the brain, nervous system, and behavior—then intentionally creating safety in your coaching relationships.For divorce coaches, this understanding is crucial because divorce itself can be traumatizing. When clients apologize for crying, speak rapidly and scattered, or seem emotionally detached, these are often trauma responses. The magic happens not by diving into past wounds (that's therapy's domain), but by offering a different experience: one where clients feel heard, respected, and empowered to access their own wisdom.The most powerful revelation? Properly trained divorce coaches are already practicing trauma-informed care through client autonomy, co-regulation, and appropriate boundaries. When a client has experienced controlling relationships, simply asking "What feels right for you?" helps rebuild agency. When someone is emotionally dysregulated, your calm presence can help settle their nervous system enough to think clearly.Ready to strengthen your trauma-informed approach? Focus on continued learning about neuroscience, develop self-awareness around your triggers, participate in regular supervision, and remember that your presence—grounded in curiosity and compassion—is your most powerful tool. You don't need to be a trauma expert to create safety; you just need to honor your client's humanity and pace.Curious how this applies to your coaching practice? Connect with us on social media or at divorcecoachesacademy.com. Want to deepen these skills? Join our affordable case consultation group that meets twice monthly. Your commitment to this approach isn't just professional excellence—it's transformative for clients navigating one of life's most challenging transitions. Learn more about DCA® or any of the classes or events mentioned in this episode at the links below:Website: www.divorcecoachesacademy.comInstagram: @divorcecoachesacademyLinkedIn: divorce-coaches-academyEmail: DCA@divorcecoachesacademy.com

You don't just marry your partner's strengths—you marry their triggers too. If you've found yourself walking on eggshells to avoid setting them off… or shutting down because you feel like you're too much… you're not alone. But let's be clear: tip-toeing isn't emotional maturity—it's disconnection in disguise. In this episode, we unpack how to create real emotional safety in your marriage—so you can stop spiraling and start feeling heard, seen, and safe again.

Dr. Alexandra sits down with author and speaker Jennifer Pastiloff for a heartfelt conversation centered on vulnerability, new beginnings, and embracing joy through trying times. Jen's candid sharing of her personal journey reminds us that we're constantly given opportunities to evolve ourselves, heal, and step more deeply into our authenticity. Jen and Dr. Alexandra also discuss navigating the "messy middle" after a breakup or divorce, and how we can begin again in life after facing bumps in the road. Jen's new book, Proof of Life: Let Go, Let Love, and Stop Looking for Permission to Live Your Life, is out today and explores all of these topics and many more.You'll come away from this episode with:Hope & permission to live a bigger and more beautiful lifeReminders for how to cultivate emotional safety in your intimate partnerships, which will pave the way for deeper connectionA deeper understanding of the importance of "I Got You" people—the supportive folks in your circle who reflect your best self back to you—and clues for how to find themEmpowerment to feel joy and search for beauty even in the most difficult or heartbreaking chapters of your life“Your Midyear Refresh” on MasterClass: masterclass.com/yourmidyearrefreshCouple Therapy Certification Course from PESI: pesi.com/dralexandraProof of Life: Let Go, Let Love, and Stop Looking for Permission to Live Your Life by Jennifer PastiloffOrder Dr. Alexandra's book, Love Every DaySubscribe to Dr. Alexandra's NewsletterSubmit a Listener Question

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In this episode of Recovery for the Narcissist, Dr. Eric Perry explores the subtle but powerful impact of frustration leaks in narcissistic relationships. This episode explores how unspoken emotional distress—expressed through sighs, muttering, or tension-filled body language—can quietly alter the emotional safety of a relationship without a single word being said.Dr. Perry unpacks the psychological mechanics of frustration leaks, highlighting how this behavior often reflects a deeper struggle with emotional regulation and vulnerability. He explains why individuals with narcissistic tendencies may externalize distress in indirect ways—and how those around them are left to absorb the emotional weight of what goes unspoken.Listeners will learn about: What frustration leaks look like in real-life dynamics Why narcissistic individuals often externalize emotional distress unconsciously The difference between self-regulation and emotional outsourcing How subtle expressions of frustration can create emotional pressure and distance Practical tools to contain emotion, name impact, and rebuild emotional safetyDr. Perry offers clear and compassionate insight for both those who have experienced the tension of frustration leaks and those who may be unintentionally creating it. Whether you have noticed a growing emotional distance in your relationship or felt the weight of someone else's mood without understanding why, this episode provides language, clarity, and a path toward change.Tune in to discover how frustration—when acknowledged rather than leaked—can become a moment of honest connection rather than quiet rupture. Healing begins not with denial or perfection, but with presence, ownership, and the choice to create emotional safety, one moment at a time.Connect with Dr. Perry: https://drericperry.comOwn Your Stuff Online Coaching Group: https://drericperry.com/ownyourstuffEmpathy Awakening Workshop: https://drericperry.com/empathyawakeningDisclaimer: The content contained in this podcast is for general information only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, assessment, diagnosis, or treatment. Listeners should not rely on the information provided for their own health needs. All specific questions should be presented to your own healthcare provider. Listening to this podcast in no way creates a professional/working relationship between the listener and the host. If at any time you have an emergency while listening, please contact your local emergency center immediately.

Men, it's okay to NOT be okay. In this heartfelt episode, we explore the importance of prioritizing men's mental health and breaking down the societal pressures that demand constant strength and stoicism. June is Men's Health and Mental Awareness Month, and we dive deep into why vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness. This open discussion touches on personal struggles, the need for supportive relationships, and how seeking help—like therapy—can create meaningful growth and healing. Whether it's finding your supportive "team," listening to your partner, or recognizing the signs of emotional burnout, this conversation is a powerful reminder that taking care of your mind is just as important as taking care of your body. Share this with someone who might need to hear it, and let's set a new standard for mental wellness together. You're not alone. It's okay to not be okay. Let's talk about it. Get Coaching on the go with the Married Into Crazy App. Download at Apple Play / Google Play. Learn more at Marriedintocrazy.com  #mentalhealthadvocacy #mensmentalhealth #relationshipadvice #mentalhealthstigma #men'shealthmonth  CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 01:40 - June Mental Health Challenges 04:00 - Vulnerability and Emotional Safety 07:05 - Embracing Emotional Struggles 10:35 - When to Seek Help for Mental Health 11:17 - Benefits of Seeking Support 15:11 - Leading by Example in Mental Health 19:50 - Value of Having a Coach 21:00 - Final Thoughts on Mental Well-being

Loneliness isn't just about being alone — it's about feeling unseen and disconnected. In this powerful episode, Harvard-trained psychology coach Jerry Henderson breaks down the surprising science behind loneliness, why it physically affects your brain and body, and shares the one proven thing anyone can do to start healing loneliness today.You'll learn:What loneliness really is (it's not what you think)The shocking health risks of chronic lonelinessThe role of emotionally safe relationshipsHow to start building one authentic connection that can change everythingIf you've ever struggled with feeling disconnected — even when surrounded by people — this episode is for you.

Mastering Transformational Coaching: Creating Safe and Impactful ExperiencesJoin host Kelle Sparta, a transformational shaman and spiritual business coach, along with her best friend and fellow coach Katherine, as they dive deep into the process of creating transformational experiences for clients. This episode covers the importance of framing your offers as transformative, setting pricing to reflect the expected level of transformation, and establishing a safe environment to foster change.Key Topics Include:Designing workshopsSafety in group coachingSafety in physical retreatsCritical stages of identity shifts and integration00:00 Introduction and Hosts00:14 Creating Transformative Experiences01:15 The Importance of Framing and Investment05:38 Ensuring Safety in Transformational Work10:00 Physical and Emotional Safety in Group Settings14:36 Understanding Your Audience and Yourself17:57 Case Studies and Real-Life Examples20:35 Safety Management Failures21:14 Handling Unexpected Events22:57 The Importance of Safety Plans23:35 Understanding Transformation25:27 Facilitating Identity Shifts32:12 Integration and Celebration36:47 Final Thoughts and Clarifications40:33 Conclusion and Call to ActionKeywords:transformational retreatshow to create client transformationspiritual coaching businessretreat safety best practicestransformational event planninggroup coaching transformationidentity shift processtransformational facilitationKelle Sparta podcastKatherine Loranger spiritual coachholding safe space for clientsenergetic containers for healingretreat facilitation tipsspiritual entrepreneurshiptransformational shaman trainingmorphic fields transformationcoaching retreat structureintegration after transformationclient breakthrough strategiesdesigning transformational experiencesIf you would like to learn more please book a Discovery Call here: https://kellesparta.com/discovery-call/Licensing and Credits:“Spirit Sherpa” is the sole property of Kelle Sparta Enterprises and is distributed under a Creative Commons: BY-NC-ND 4.0 license. For more information about this licensing, please go to www.creativecommons.org. Any requests for deviations to this licensing should be sent to kelle@kellesparta.com. To sign up for, or get more information on the programs, offerings, and services referenced in this episode, please go to www.kellesparta.com

Have you ever asked yourself: "My wife calls me 'nice,' but why does it feel like a subtle insult?" "Why am I constantly chasing connection, and how do I stop walking on eggshells?" "What does it really mean to lead in my marriage without being controlling?" If you've ever felt like, "I don't even know what happened—she just drifted," this episode is your wake-up call to reclaiming your magnetic masculine presence. Welcome back to The Dad Edge Podcast. This is Week 3 of our 4-part solo series called The Magnetic Masculinity Series—where we're unpacking how to attract your wife back, not through tactics, but by becoming the man she's instinctively drawn to again. In Week 1, we talked about resentment—how it leaks into marriage when we ignore the signs. In Week 2, we revealed the emotional weight she's carrying—the invisible labor that most men never see. And now in Week 3, we're diving into the Masculine Pull: what it truly means to lead with strength, not submission. Because here's the truth: she doesn't want a man who obeys. She wants a man she can trust to lead—not control, not dominate—but lead with clarity, strength, and grounded presence.  Extraordinary marriages start here In this vital episode, we dig into: The Critical Difference Between Pleasing and Pursuing: Understanding why pleasing is approval-seeking and kills attraction, while pursuing is confident, directional, and inviting. Masculine Presence vs. Anxious Attachment: Learn to cultivate a calm, grounded energy that can handle her emotions without needing to fix them, creating safety and desire, rather than asking "Are we okay?" every time she's quiet. Rebuilding Polarity: Why Attraction Dies When Roles Blur: Discover how the charge between masculine and feminine energy gets lost when roles become indistinguishable, and why becoming more stable (not more emotional) is the key to reigniting that spark. This conversation offers the blueprint for becoming the magnetic man your wife is drawn to, leading with a quiet consistency that speaks louder than words. Here's what research and relationship dynamics highlight: Studies suggest that relationships lacking clear polarity or directional leadership often report a 30% decrease in passionate intimacy over time. Men who embody calm, grounded presence are perceived as 40% more attractive and trustworthy by their partners. When a man consistently takes initiative with empathy, couples report a 25% increase in feelings of partnership and mutual respect. www.thedadedge.com/friday213 www.thedadedge.com/mastermind Intimate conversation starters

Dr. Reedy defines and discusses what makes for emotional safety. He talks about how emotional safety heals us and how repeated exposure to an emotional safe person changes our nervous system permanently. He explains that when the “big people” from our childhood were unable to sit with us and our feelings, we learned to hide and protect ourselves… and these efforts to protect ourselves become our mental illnesses.

Ep509. The Mom Room favourite guest, Dr. Tanya Cotler is back to talk with Renee about raising emotionally resilient kids—especially boys—in a world that often discourages vulnerability. They unpack the impact of media like the Netflix series Adolescence, how to know when something's “off” with your child, and why kids don't need us to be perfect—they need us to be present, intuitive, and willing to set loving boundaries. Renee also opens up about parenting through grief after the loss of her dad and the emotional layers that surfaced in her son's quiet reaction. Together, they explore nervous system regulation, the role of play and connection, and how to teach kids that emotional expression is a strength that needs mindful nurturing from us parents.  Read more about Dr. Cotler and her work here: https://drtanyacotler.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ep509. The Mom Room favourite guest, Dr. Tanya Cotler is back to talk with Renee about raising emotionally resilient kids—especially boys—in a world that often discourages vulnerability. They unpack the impact of media like the Netflix series Adolescence, how to know when something's “off” with your child, and why kids don't need us to be perfect—they need us to be present, intuitive, and willing to set loving boundaries. Renee also opens up about parenting through grief after the loss of her dad and the emotional layers that surfaced in her son's quiet reaction. Together, they explore nervous system regulation, the role of play and connection, and how to teach kids that emotional expression is a strength that needs mindful nurturing from us parents.  Read more about Dr. Cotler and her work here: https://drtanyacotler.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Summary In this episode of the Addict to Athlete podcast, Coach Blu Robinson and Craig Filek explore the themes of reinvention, connection, and healthy masculinity. They discuss the challenges faced by midlife men, the importance of mentorship, and the need for emotional safety in men's work. The conversation emphasizes the significance of community and the role of elders in guiding younger generations towards authentic living. Through personal anecdotes and insights, they highlight the journey of finding purpose beyond addiction and the necessity of fostering healthy relationships among men. In this conversation, Coach Blu Robinson and Craig Filek explore the complexities of masculinity, fatherhood, and the importance of mentorship and community support. They discuss the impact of upbringing on male identity, the journey of breaking generational cycles of pain, and the necessity of finding role models and mentors. The dialogue emphasizes the significance of emotional intelligence, the healing process for those who help others, and the value of building supportive networks among men. Ultimately, the conversation serves as a call to action for men to seek deeper connections and to support one another in their journeys toward personal growth and fulfillment. 00:00Introduction to the Addict to Athlete Podcast 03:00The Journey of Reinvention 06:01Understanding Midlife Challenges 09:10The Importance of Connection and Belonging 11:56Navigating Success and Purpose 15:04The Role of Masculinity in Modern Society 17:57Healthy Masculinity and Emotional Safety 20:57Mentorship and the Importance of Elders 24:07Practices for Authentic Living 26:58The Future of Masculinity and Community Engagement 29:10Understanding Masculinity and Its Impact 32:38The Journey of Fatherhood and Breaking Cycles 35:41Finding Mentorship and Role Models 38:41The Importance of Community and Support 49:19Healing the Healers: Supporting Those Who Help Others 57:40Opportunities for Growth and Connection   For More: https://www.linkedin.com/in/craigfilek/ https://www.instagram.com/craigfilek/?hl=en   Please join Addict to Athlete's Patreon support page and help us turn the mess of addiction into the message of sobriety! https://www.patreon.com/addicttoathlete   Please visit our website for more information on Team Addict to Athlete and Addiction Recovery Podcasts. https://www.AddictToAthlete.org   Join the Team! Circle, our new social support event, along with the team and athlete communication platform, is designed to help us break free from doom scrolling and shadow banning and foster stronger connections among us. Follow the link, download the app, and start this new chapter of Team AIIA! Join Circle https://a2a.circle.so/join?invitation_token=16daaa0d9ecd7421d384dd05a461464ce149cc9e-63d4aa30-1a67-4120-ae12-124791dfb519

In this eye-opening episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt tackles the complexities of dysfunctional family systems and offers practical strategies for fostering healthier relationships. Drawing from her extensive experience, Brianne delves into the root causes of family dysfunction, including poor communication, emotional neglect, and unresolved trauma. With her signature blend of humor and honesty, she shares five actionable ways to improve family dynamics and promote emotional well-being.Brianne introduces the concept of the "feelings wheel," a tool designed to help family members articulate their emotions and foster deeper connections. She emphasizes the importance of allowing everyone to experience their feelings without judgment, encouraging listeners to embrace their moods and create a safe environment for emotional expression. The conversation also covers the significance of shared experiences, such as learning new activities together and enjoying quality time without screens.As the episode progresses, Brianne highlights the value of healthy conflict in relationships, asserting that disagreements can lead to greater understanding and intimacy. By demonstrating how to navigate conflicts openly, she aims to equip listeners with the skills to resolve issues constructively. Tune in for a transformative discussion that empowers you to break free from dysfunctional patterns and cultivate a more supportive and loving family environment.