Podcasts about Narcissistic abuse

Have you ever looked back and wondered...when exactly did I stop being me?If you've walked away from a relationship feeling like a stranger to yourself, you might be blaming your own weakness for letting it happen. But what if the story you've been telling yourself is the very thing keeping you stuck?Here's what you'll take away:Why the smallest decisions feel impossible right now (and what it actually reveals about what happened to you)How his reactions slowly trained you to abandon yourself and why you called it "keeping the peace"Why beating yourself up for being "weak" is the last thing he'd want you to stop doingHit play now, because every day you spend believing you let this happen is a day he still gets to hold the pen on your story.QUICK LINKS FROM EPISODE:Schedule your free Intro Session: https://freeintrosession-pa.youcanbook.me/RESOURCES FOR YOUR HEALING:

— How do we heal from wounds that were never acknowledged? What happens when the pain we carry has been minimized, dismissed, or hidden for years? And how do we begin to trust ourselves again when we've been taught to doubt our own memories, feelings, and instincts? In this episode, we explore the lasting impact of childhood trauma, emotional manipulation, narcissistic abuse, and the invisible wounds that can follow us long into adulthood. These experiences often shape far more than we realize—affecting our self-worth, relationships, boundaries, sense of safety, and even our ability to experience joy. Yet healing is possible. We discuss what it means to gently face painful truths without becoming overwhelmed by them, how to reclaim your voice after years of silence, and why self-compassion is such an essential part of the healing journey. We also explore the importance of validating our own experiences, honoring our emotions, and releasing the pressure to heal according to someone else's expectations or timeline. This conversation is not about staying stuck in the past. It is about understanding how the past may still be influencing the present—and discovering that awareness can become the first step toward freedom. Most importantly, we explore the profound truth that healing is not about fixing what is broken. It is about remembering who we were before the wounds, reconnecting with our inner wisdom, and finding the courage to live from a place of authenticity rather than survival. Whether you are on your own healing journey, supporting someone you love, or simply seeking a deeper understanding of the human experience, this episode offers compassionate insights, hope, and a reminder that no matter what you have endured, your story is not over. You deserve to feel safe. You deserve to trust yourself. You deserve to be heard. And perhaps most importantly, you deserve permission to heal. Valeria interviews Melonie Packer — She is the author of  " Permission To Heal: From Sexual Abuse, Narcissistic Abuse, and Childhood Trauma." Melonie's book is a deeply personal memoir exploring narcissistic abuse, childhood sexual trauma, and the many paths to healing. Melonie speaks with raw honesty, compassion, and hope, drawing from her lived experience and the practical tools that helped her heal. To learn more about Melonie Packer and her work, please visit: https://permissiontoheal.org/

This is an update for the podcast for 2026 and some encouragement. Please see resources here in shownotes I mentioned in the update. Christian Emotional Recovery ResourcesPodcast WebsiteAccess Episodes, Get Free Resources, and MoreFacebook GroupJoin Community, Get Support, and Get Weekly EncouragementYouTube ChannelSubscribe for Exclusive Material Not on PodcastChristian Emotional Recovery StoreGet meditations, infographics, journals, and other resources for your healing journeyTrauma SurvivorsCheck out Resources Page for Trauma SurvivorsEmail ListGet updates on episodes, platform, resources, and productsFree ResourceFree Visual A.C.O.R.N Resource to Heal Difficult EmotionsDonate Monthly Through PatreonHelp More Trauma Survivors Through This Ministry  ...

In this episode, I'm talking about something I call the Saturday text. It's never Tuesday at 10 AM when your coffee is warm and you're mentally ready. It's always when you've finally exhaled, and I want to explain why that timing is never an accident.I go deep into the way dysregulation gets used as a delivery mechanism of coercive control, including what the person sending the text is actually getting out of it, which is not just pressure relief but confirmation that they still have access to your nervous system. I also talk about co-regulation, what it's supposed to be, and how it gets weaponized in coercively controlling relationships.I share my own experience with this pattern, including the specific moment when someone I was with sent a breakup ultimatum by text while I was alone in another country, and what that taught me about the intentionality behind timing.If you're in a high-conflict co-parenting situation, still entangled with someone controlling, or just trying to understand why you're always exhausted and can never quite explain it, this episode is for you. I also talk about practical ways to start creating distance between the text arriving and your response, because your nervous system belongs to you, and so does your Saturday.Support the show*Please Note: there is a long intro that explains my services. If you do not want to listen, just fast-forward 5 mins past. This intro will be changed in future recordings to be shorter. I am not paid to record this podcast and it is a free offering. Offering my work is the only way I can sustain the podcast*Join the Patreon: https://patreon.com/Youarenotcrazy*New Course*: Unhooked: Map the Cycle of Abuse in your RelationshipWebsite: Emotional Abuse Coach and high-conflictdivorcecoaching.comInstagram: @emotionalabusecoachEmail: jessica@jessicaknightcoaching.com{Substack} Blog About Recovering from Abuse{E-Book} How to Break Up with a Narcissist{Course} Identify Signs of Abuse and Begin to Heal{Free Resource} Canned Responses for Engaging with an Abusive Partner

In this rerelease episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Brandon talks with clinical psychologist and author Dr. Ingrid Clayton about narcissistic abuse, complex trauma, and the long journey toward believing your own experiences. Dr. Clayton shares how growing up within an abusive and gaslighting family system shaped her nervous system, relationships, and sense of self. She explains why emotional abuse can remain hidden for decades, with its effects often mistaken for personal failings, addiction, perfectionism, or an inability to maintain healthy relationships. Brandon and Dr. Clayton discuss complex PTSD, fawning, trauma reenactment, toxic shame, and the painful hope that an abusive or enabling parent will eventually acknowledge the truth. They also explore why familiar relationship dynamics can feel safe to the body, even when those dynamics are harmful. To buy Dr. Ingrid Clayton's book 'Believing Me', click here. *** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses childhood sexual abuse. *** If you are in search of therapy from professionals dedicated to dealing with TRAUMA - Narcissist Apocalypse recommends REBOUND THERAPY and they can be reached at  hellorebound.com/na Click if you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@pm.me Click on the title to read about Coercive Control as Care: Signs & Patterns Sign up to our Domestic Violence Newsletter    Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Do you want to know why despite years of therapy and other healing modalities you still feel guilt, anxiety, you still double-guess yourself and keep on people-pleasing? Do you want to know why you keep feeling stuck and you still get caught in the same patterns even though you have learnt all about them? This is because you are still carrying trauma in your body and talking does not heal trauma. It can help you become aware of it, but that's only the first step. If we remain stuck in talking, or in other tools that only work with rational thinking, we never truly break free. In this episode I share why every client I've worked with came to me feeling broken and defeated despite having tried many different healing modalities, and I share what made the difference. This is what made the difference in my own life too, as a daughter of a narcissistic mother recovering from abuse and trauma in my own body. I also share the price I had to pay before I realised that I needed to go deeper, so you don't have to go through the same pain too. Take the FREE assessment NOW to know which is your main coping pattern

Hey, Survivor! Why does rebuilding your life after narcissistic abuse feel so hard? In this episode, I explore some challenges survivors face after the crisis ends. Learn how trauma and chronic stress impact the nervous system, why survival mode can make moving forward difficult, and how healing creates the capacity to dream, grow, and rebuild. If you're struggling to move forward after your narcissistic or toxic relationship, this episode is for you. Know who you're dealing with.  Know who you are.

Survivors of narcissistic abuse need CLARITY. They need the truth! They need to be pulled out of the world of delusions that the narcissist has them stuck in, in order to move on. This is probably one of, if not the most critical things that is holding so many people back from healing and moving on. Book a Coaching Session: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://link.me/mentalhealness⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠]

There is a particular kind of loss that doesn't get talked about enough when you leave a coercive relationship, and it isn't the loss of the person. On some level, that was survival. The loss I am talking about is quieter and stranger than that. It's the loss of your own mind, entire summers, thousands of small moments that were technically yours but that you never actually lived.In this episode, I talk about what it looks like when coercive control colonizes your nervous system so completely that you can't find the beginning of it anymore.Support the show*Please Note: there is a long intro that explains my services. If you do not want to listen, just fast-forward 5 mins past. This intro will be changed in future recordings to be shorter. I am not paid to record this podcast and it is a free offering. Offering my work is the only way I can sustain the podcast*Join the Patreon: https://patreon.com/Youarenotcrazy*New Course*: Unhooked: Map the Cycle of Abuse in your RelationshipWebsite: Emotional Abuse Coach and high-conflictdivorcecoaching.comInstagram: @emotionalabusecoachEmail: jessica@jessicaknightcoaching.com{Substack} Blog About Recovering from Abuse{E-Book} How to Break Up with a Narcissist{Course} Identify Signs of Abuse and Begin to Heal{Free Resource} Canned Responses for Engaging with an Abusive Partner

Some healing doesn't come from therapy or from doing the work in the way you expect it to. Sometimes it comes from watching your team win the NBA finals.In this episode, I'm sharing something personalL what the Knicks winning the 2026 championship actually did to me, and why I wasn't prepared for it. This win cracked something open that I didn't know was still there, and I've been sitting with it ever since.This is a detour from my usual content, and it also isn't, because healing has never been linear for me, and I've never once claimed to be finished with it.Support the show*Please Note: there is a long intro that explains my services. If you do not want to listen, just fast-forward 5 mins past. This intro will be changed in future recordings to be shorter. I am not paid to record this podcast and it is a free offering. Offering my work is the only way I can sustain the podcast*Join the Patreon: https://patreon.com/Youarenotcrazy*New Course*: Unhooked: Map the Cycle of Abuse in your RelationshipWebsite: Emotional Abuse Coach and high-conflictdivorcecoaching.comInstagram: @emotionalabusecoachEmail: jessica@jessicaknightcoaching.com{Substack} Blog About Recovering from Abuse{E-Book} How to Break Up with a Narcissist{Course} Identify Signs of Abuse and Begin to Heal{Free Resource} Canned Responses for Engaging with an Abusive Partner

Hey, Survivor! What does healing actually look like after narcissistic abuse? Many survivors believe healing means they'll never feel triggered, grieve, or think about the past again. In this episode, I'm offering a different perspective—one rooted in trauma recovery, chronic stress healing, nervous system regulation, personal growth and empowerment. Healing isn't about perfection, grief can still show up after closure, and recovery creates the capacity to dream, connect, and thrive again.  If you're feeling “perfection pressure,” or rushed in your recovery - internally or externally - this episode is for you.

What does the narcissist do to you? It's worse than you think/

You know something is wrong, you just cannot name it yet. In this episode, I walk through the cycle of abuse — tension building, explosion, reconciliation, and the illusion of calm — and explain why that cycle is exactly what keeps you hooked. I break down what a trauma bond is, how intermittent reinforcement conditions your nervous system to crave the person who is hurting you, and why your confusion, your self-blame, and your inability to just leave are not weaknesses. They are conditioned responses to abuse. I also share practical first steps for beginning to break the cycle, even if you are still inside the relationship — including how to tell yourself the truth privately, release the pattern of self-blame, and start choosing your own safety over someone else's comfort.Support the show*Please Note: there is a long intro that explains my services. If you do not want to listen, just fast-forward 5 mins past. This intro will be changed in future recordings to be shorter. I am not paid to record this podcast and it is a free offering. Offering my work is the only way I can sustain the podcast*Join the Patreon: https://patreon.com/Youarenotcrazy*New Course*: Unhooked: Map the Cycle of Abuse in your RelationshipWebsite: Emotional Abuse Coach and high-conflictdivorcecoaching.comInstagram: @emotionalabusecoachEmail: jessica@jessicaknightcoaching.com{Substack} Blog About Recovering from Abuse{E-Book} How to Break Up with a Narcissist{Course} Identify Signs of Abuse and Begin to Heal{Free Resource} Canned Responses for Engaging with an Abusive Partner

Hey, Survivor! In this episode, I'm talking about something rarely discussed in trauma recovery: supporting the survivor-parent after narcissistic abuse. We explore caregiving, forgiveness, accountability, aging, trauma, healing family dynamics, and what it looks like to help someone reclaim life after years spent in survival mode. If you've ever loved a parent who survived dysfunction while carrying wounds of their own, this episode is for you. Listen and remember: Don't just survive.  Heal and thrive! Know who you're dealing with.  Know who you are.

If you have ever felt like you were walking on eggshells, apologizing for things that made no sense, or grieving a version of someone who seemed to disappear, this episode is for you. I am revisiting one of the most listened-to episodes BPD in romantic relationships with two more years of client work, research, and personal processing behind me.I break down what borderline personality disorder actually is, how it differs from Narcissism even when the lived experience feels nearly identical, and why the idealization-devaluation cycle is so disorienting to survive. I also cover the role of splitting, unstable self-image, and emotional dysregulation in driving the patterns you could never quite make sense of — and why no amount of reassurance was ever going to be enough.Lead to GoldThe podcast devoted to discussing realistic growth and wellness.

Dr. Valerie Sussman, author of Love, Lies, and Narcissists in Disguise: The A to Z Guide for Survivors of Narcissistic Abuse, talks about recognizing covert narcissism, gaslighting, and narcissistic behaviors in the workplace and at home. Sussman shares practical strategies for setting boundaries, protecting company culture, and supporting those affected by emotional abuse. Listen Where You Live!About Spotlight and Cloudcast Media  "Spotlight On The Community" is the longest running community podcast in the country, continuously hosted by Drew Schlosberg for 20 years.  "Spotlight" is part of Cloudcast Media's line-up of powerful local podcasts, telling the stories, highlighting the people, and celebrating the gravitational power of local.   For more information on Cloudcast and its shows and cities served, please visit www.cloudcastmedia.us. Cloudcast Media | the national leader in local podcasting.   About Mission Fed Credit Union  A community champion for over 60 years, Mission Fed Credit Union with over $6 billion in member assets, is the Sponsor of Spotlight On The Community, helping to curate connectivity, collaboration, and catalytic conversations.  For more information on the many services for San Diego residents, be sure to visit them at https://www.missionfed.com/

Setting boundaries in a narcissistic relationship isn't just hard — it can feel impossible. In this Community Chat, Renee is joined by 2 ladies from the CNG community for an honest conversation about what boundaries really looked like in their relationships with covert narcissists. They talk about growing up without healthy boundary models, what happened when they tried to voice even the most basic needs, and how guilt, fear, and exhaustion became part of their everyday lives. Miranda shares what it felt like to finally set a boundary and have it met with encouragement instead of punishment. Nicole opens up about the years she spent scripting conversations perfectly — only to have them blow up anyway — and the moment she stopped taking the bait. If you've ever felt like your needs were too much, been guilt-tripped for asking for basic respect, or wondered why something so simple felt so terrifying, this episode will help you feel seen. Topics covered: Why boundaries were absent or unmodeled in childhood What happens when you set a boundary with a narcissist The guilt that comes even when you know the boundary is right The exhaustion of over-explaining and people pleasing What it feels like the first time a boundary is actually respected How to start setting boundaries when you're scared The Covert Narcissism Podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. Nothing shared here should be taken as professional mental health advice. If you are in crisis or need support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

I break down some of the most insidious and subtle ways abusers use language to dominate the narrative and erode your sense of reality.I walk you through five distinct patterns of weaponized communication: emotional manipulation disguised as vulnerability, defensiveness used as a silencing tool, blame-shifting hidden behind false equivalence, coercion dressed up as ultimatums, and silence deployed as punishment. Each example reveals the same underlying strategy — redirecting accountability, centering the abuser's discomfort, and leaving you questioning whether your own feelings are valid.If you've ever felt confused after a conversation you thought was reasonable, found yourself apologizing for simply expressing how you feel, or wondered whether you're the problem — this episode is for you. Because weaponized communication isn't poor communication. It's a strategy, and once you can see it, you can begin to break free from it.Support the show*Please Note: there is a long intro that explains my services. If you do not want to listen, just fast-forward 5 mins past. This intro will be changed in future recordings to be shorter. I am not paid to record this podcast and it is a free offering. Offering my work is the only way I can sustain the podcast*Join the Patreon: https://patreon.com/Youarenotcrazy*New Course*: Unhooked: Map the Cycle of Abuse in your RelationshipWebsite: Emotional Abuse Coach and high-conflictdivorcecoaching.comInstagram: @emotionalabusecoachEmail: jessica@jessicaknightcoaching.com{Substack} Blog About Recovering from Abuse{E-Book} How to Break Up with a Narcissist{Course} Identify Signs of Abuse and Begin to Heal{Free Resource} Canned Responses for Engaging with an Abusive Partner

How much of your adult life is still being shaped by childhood experiences?In this powerful episode of Get on the Couch, Dr. Judy Rosenberg takes a deep dive into the lasting impact of childhood wounds and how unresolved emotional pain can influence relationships, self-esteem, success, and overall well-being. Using her renowned Be the Cause® Mind Map system, Dr. Judy explains how early experiences of neglect, abuse, trauma, and unhealthy attachment patterns become encoded into our subconscious and continue to affect our lives decades later.Dr. Judy explores topics including:• Childhood trauma and attachment wounds• Fight, flight, freeze, and fawn responses• Negative core beliefs and self-worth issues• Why we repeat unhealthy relationship patterns• The connection between emotional wounds and physical health• Healing from narcissistic abuse and toxic family systems• Turning breakdowns into breakthroughs through conscious healing• Creating a legacy of emotional health for future generationsThe episode also features audience questions about healing later in life, overcoming feelings of inadequacy despite success, and navigating the painful realities of parental alienation and narcissistic family dynamics.Whether you're just beginning your healing journey or looking to better understand the roots of your emotional struggles, this conversation offers practical insights, hope, and a roadmap toward becoming the best version of yourself.For more information about Dr. Judy Rosenberg and The Psychological Healing Center, visit PsychologicalHealingCenter.com.#DrJudyRosenberg #GetOnTheCouch #HealingChildhoodWounds #ChildhoodTrauma #MentalHealth #EmotionalHealing #Psychology #Therapy #NarcissisticAbuse #TraumaRecovery #SelfHealing #AttachmentTheory #InnerChildHealing #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness #HealingJourney #MentalWellness #PsychologicalHealing #BeTheCause #PodcastInterview

What does it take to rebuild your life after narcissistic abuse, grief, and divorce?In this powerful episode of Save Our Sisters Unplugged, host Norine Fahie sits down with Deanna Scaldaferri, a Licensed Massage & Bodywork Therapist, Reiki Master, Intuitive Life Coach, and founder of Healing Hands by Deanna, LLC.Deanna shares her deeply personal journey of overcoming narcissistic abuse, emotional trauma, and divorce — and how she transformed her pain into purpose by helping others heal their mind, body, and spirit.Now a facilitator of a Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Support Group in Charlotte, Deanna works with survivors who are learning to reclaim their voice, rebuild their confidence, and rediscover their inner light.In this episode, we discuss:✔️ What narcissistic abuse really looks like✔️ The emotional impact of toxic relationships✔️ Healing from trauma, grief, and divorce✔️ Releasing trauma from the body✔️ Moving from surviving to thriving✔️ Reclaiming your power and rebuilding your lifeThis conversation is for anyone who has ever felt lost in a toxic relationship and is ready to begin their healing journey.✨ Special Offer for Save Our Sisters listenersDeanna is offering 10% off private sessions for Reiki Energy Healing or Intuitive Coaching.Use the coupon code: SOS10

In this empowering episode, clinical psychologist Dr. Lauren Napolitano, PsyD, explores the often-overlooked connection between intimate partner violence (IPV) and eating disorders. We break down what IPV and narcissistic abuse really mean, unpack trauma bonds and coercive control, and highlight key warning signs in relationships. You'll learn why eating disorders and IPV frequently co-occur, how abuse cycles develop, and how these patterns often play out in real life. This episode offers practical tools for treatment providers and hope for anyone who may feel trapped, isolated, or unsure of what to do next.   If you enjoy our show, please rate, review, subscribe, and tell your friends and colleagues!   Interested in being a guest on All Bodies. All Foods.? Email podcast@renfrewcenter.com for a chance to be featured.   All Bodies. All Foods. is a podcast by The Renfrew Center. Visit us at: https://renfrewcenter.com/

Can you rebuild your life after narcissistic abuse, trauma, anxiety, depression, debt and losing almost everything?Caroline Strawson is a trauma therapist, nervous system expert, author, coach and founder of The Mental Wellbeing Company and TIDAL.After experiencing narcissistic abuse, anxiety, depression, PTSD, self-harm, chronic illness, £70,000 of debt and having her house repossessed, Caroline rebuilt her life as a single mum and went on to create one of the UK's fastest-growing trauma-informed mental wellbeing brands.Watch more episodes: https://www.youtube.com/@buildingthebrandofficialConnect Here: https://buildingthebrand.co.uk/newsletterCaroline breaks down how she went from rock bottom to building a multi-million pound business helping people heal from trauma, narcissistic abuse, emotional abuse and toxic relationships. She explains why traditional talk therapy was not enough for her recovery, why the nervous system is the missing piece in mental health, and how trauma can impact business, leadership, relationships, health and self-worth.She also shares how she built a powerful personal brand, launched trauma-informed coaching certifications, created The Mental Wellbeing Company, generated £1.9 million at launch and learned to lead a growing team without losing the compassion at the heart of her work.Caroline shares:▪️ How she rebuilt her life after narcissistic abuse, debt and repossession▪️ Why narcissistic abuse is a form of domestic abuse and trauma▪️ Why talk therapy helped her understand her pain but did not change how she felt▪️ How nervous system healing became the missing piece in her recovery▪️ How she turned lived experience into a trauma-informed business▪️ Why The Mental Wellbeing Company took £1.9 million at launch▪️ Why founders and leaders need nervous system capacity, not just strategy▪️ How stress, struggle and chaos can become addictive for entrepreneurs▪️ Why trauma-informed leadership requires both compassion and boundaries▪️ How Caroline is evolving from personal brand to business empireFind out more about Caroline Strawson here:https://carolinestrawson.com/Key Moments:0:00 — Caroline Strawson on narcissistic abuse, trauma and rebuilding her life1:13 — Anxiety, panic attacks and sitting in a repossessed house3:55 — Why her children became the driving force behind her recovery5:14 — Building a business around motherhood14:13 — What narcissistic abuse actually means16:49 — Googling “narcissistic sociopath” and understanding her experience18:30 — £70,000 of debt, repossession and single motherhood20:08 — Why counselling helped but did not fully heal her21:12 — Discovering nervous system healing23:31 — The £58,000 launch that changed what felt possible25:05 — Creating trauma-informed coaching certifications27:05 — Taking £1.9 million at launch29:42 — Listening to your audience without abandoning your beliefs32:45 — Building a trauma-informed business with integrity34:00 — Victimhood, responsibility and healing38:01 — Why founders can become addicted to stress42:24 — Functional freeze, burnout and business performance45:04 — Caroline's Capacity Plus framework52:21 — Using nervous system capacity in business57:38 — Handling hard conversations as a leader1:02:30 — Why you cannot lead beyond what your nervous system can hold1:05:56 — Lessons from a difficult team exit1:11:00 — Empathy, codependency and trauma-informed leadership1:16:15 — Moving from personal brand to scalable companies1:19:07 — Challenging the traditional mental health system1:22:51 — Becoming visible as the woman she is today1:25:56 — Why doing your own healing is a gift to your children

Dr. Christine Cocchiola is back, and this conversation goes deep. Dr. Christine is a coercive control specialist, therapist, TEDx speaker, and author who trained under the godfather of coercive control, Dr. Evan Stark.In this episode, we get into what coercive control actually is: not a form of abuse, but the underpinning of all abuse. That distinction matters more than most people realize, especially inside a family court system that still does not know what to do with it.We talk about the emails that land on Saturday afternoon, right when you have the kids. We talk about why your therapist telling you that you have anxiety might be missing the point entirely. We talk about what it actually looks like when an abuser uses permissiveness to lure your children in, and what you can do about it without losing the connection you have worked so hard to protect.Dr. Christine's children's book, Every Moment of Every Day, is linked in the show notes. You can also find her at coercivecontrolconsulting.com and on Instagram at @drcocchiolacoercivecontrol.Support the show*Please Note: there is a long intro that explains my services. If you do not want to listen, just fast-forward 5 mins past. This intro will be changed in future recordings to be shorter. I am not paid to record this podcast and it is a free offering. Offering my work is the only way I can sustain the podcast*Join the Patreon: https://patreon.com/Youarenotcrazy*New Course*: Unhooked: Map the Cycle of Abuse in your RelationshipWebsite: Emotional Abuse Coach and high-conflictdivorcecoaching.comInstagram: @emotionalabusecoachEmail: jessica@jessicaknightcoaching.com{Substack} Blog About Recovering from Abuse{E-Book} How to Break Up with a Narcissist{Course} Identify Signs of Abuse and Begin to Heal{Free Resource} Canned Responses for Engaging with an Abusive Partner

What is the impact of adapting to maternal narcissistic abuse? This survival mechanism, which has served you powerfully to get to here, has a downside: it impacts your life in more than one way, leaving you trapped in abuse and toxicity not only with your narcissistic mother or family, but also in career, friendships and romantic relationships. In this episode I share the 3 main ways this coping strategy impacts your life even now. The good news is: once you become aware you can take the first step and transform your life for good.

Ever been in a relationship that left you questioning your own reality? That left you feeling like you've completely lost yourself, doubting every gut instinct and walking on eggshells because emotional manipulation made you forget how to trust yourself? If you're nodding right now, this episode is for YOU. In today's deeply raw, honest, and healing podcast, I open up about how to start rebuilding trust in yourself after toxic relationships, especially narcissistic ones. This one's all about walking with you through the real confusion and aftermath of emotional manipulation: The gaslighting, the self-doubt, the pain, and (more importantly) the steps you can actually take to heal. I break down tactical, practical tips (the real stuff that works, NOT just feel-good inspiration), including how to rebuild your gut instincts, how to spot red flags in friendships and romantic partnerships, and how to stop gaslighting yourself after someone else has manipulated your reality. I also share golden nuggets from top experts like Dr. Peter Salerno, and how to rebuild something he calls your “reality confidence.” Get ready to take notes, because we're getting into actual, actionable steps that will change your life. SHOWNOTES: “I Don't Trust My Own Instincts”: How to Rebuild After Manipulation The Tactic That Retrains Your Gut: Spotting Early Warning Signs Building Reality Confidence: The Five Steps to Reclaim Your Truth “Why Do I Still Miss My Toxic Ex?”—How to Break Emotional Addiction Step-by-Step: How to Give Yourself the Validation You Crave Healing & Growth: Outgrowing People Without the Guilt Making the Tough Choice: Your Goals vs. People-Pleasing Setting Boundaries, Scripts & Non-Negotiables (When Friends or Family Resist) Loving from a Distance: Yes, It's Still Love After Narcissistic Abuse: Learning What a Healthy Relationship Looks Like The List-Making Habit: What You Don't Want vs. What You Do Want Attachment Styles 101: How to Pick (and Become) a Safe Partner Building (and Earning) Real Trust, One Action at a Time Thank you to today's sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.com Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Follow Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Have you ever felt like you were in a relationship that slowly burned you out — and you couldn't quite explain why? In this episode of the Covert Narcissism Podcast, host Renee Swanson breaks down Taylor Swift's "Dear John" through the lens of covert narcissistic abuse — and the patterns it reveals are ones you may know all too well. We're talking about the moving goalposts. The walking on eggshells. The version of someone you keep trying to get back to. The moment you finally stopped picking up the phone. And the long list of "traitors" that tells you everything you need to know. This isn't a music review. It's a roadmap. If you've ever felt gaslit, depleted, or like you couldn't trust your own instincts in a relationship — this episode will help you see it clearly, maybe for the first time. Topics covered in this episode: Why smart, self-aware people get caught in narcissistic relationships The intermittent reinforcement cycle — give love, take it away Walking on eggshells and hypervigilance in relationships Gaslighting and why the people around you could see it when you couldn't The "tired, lifeless eyes" effect — what getting run dry really looks like How to recognize a covert narcissist before the fire catches you What clarity after the relationship finally feels like — and what to do with it If you're ready to stop just understanding what happened and start actually moving through it, visit covertnarcissism.com to learn more about working with Renee one-on-one. The information provided by Renee Swanson, Covert Narcissism Podcast, and CNG Life Coaching is for educational purposes only and is not to be used for diagnosis purposes and not intended to be a substitute for clinical care. Please consult a health care provider for guidance specific to your case. This material discusses narcissism in general. Renee shares stories from her personal experiences as well as from those she has talked with for several years. Her material does not claim that any specific person has narcissism and should not be used to refer to any specific person as having narcissism. Permission is not granted to link to or repost this material to support an allegation or support a claim that any specific person is a narcissist. That would be an unauthorized misuse of the material and information provided. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

If you've ever felt like you're doing everything right — showing up, advocating, holding it together — and still somehow ending up as the problem, this episode is for you.Int his episode, I get honest about what it actually feels like to be in the cycle: the exhaustion of defending yourself against false narratives, the way every act of good parenting gets twisted into evidence against you, and the invisible toll of a system that wasn't designed to recognize coercive control. So many protective parents are living through isn't just "a difficult co-parent." It's post-separation abuse — and it has a name.I break down how coercive control shows up after separation: the counter-parenting, the gotcha moments, the forced engagement loops, the way silence doesn't end the cycle — it just changes the channel. I also talk candidly about my own experience navigating this, what keeping myself regulated actually looks like, and why being the safe parent is one of the heaviest gifts you can carry.Support the show*Please Note: there is a long intro that explains my services. If you do not want to listen, just fast-forward 5 mins past. This intro will be changed in future recordings to be shorter. I am not paid to record this podcast and it is a free offering. Offering my work is the only way I can sustain the podcast*Join the Patreon: https://patreon.com/Youarenotcrazy*New Course*: Unhooked: Map the Cycle of Abuse in your RelationshipWebsite: Emotional Abuse Coach and high-conflictdivorcecoaching.comInstagram: @emotionalabusecoachEmail: jessica@jessicaknightcoaching.com{Substack} Blog About Recovering from Abuse{E-Book} How to Break Up with a Narcissist{Course} Identify Signs of Abuse and Begin to Heal{Free Resource} Canned Responses for Engaging with an Abusive Partner

Today my older son moved out. He is 26 years old. And as I watched him go, the last 26 years played through my mind — the good, the bad, and everything in between. If you are a parent in a narcissistic relationship, you know the fear I am talking about. The one that sits in your chest and doesn't announce itself. The one that whispers — will my child be okay? I lived with that fear for years. I watched my son go through depression, isolation, and seasons so dark I genuinely wondered if I was losing him. In January of 2019, my worst fear almost came true. In this episode, I am sharing what I learned from the hardest years of my life — the mistake I was making without realizing it, the conversation with a dear friend that changed everything, and two recent conversations with my son that I will carry with me forever. If you are parenting through narcissistic abuse and wondering if any of it is getting through — this episode is for you. What we cover: — The impact of narcissistic abuse on children and what they carry — The mistake well-meaning parents make that buries their child's pain deeper — Why safety, love, and time are the most powerful things you can give — What is actually possible on the other side — from a mom who has lived it. If any of these topics resonate with you, this episode was made for you: narcissistic abuse, parenting through narcissism, children of narcissists, co-parenting with a narcissist, raising kids in a narcissistic home, covert narcissism, emotional abuse, hope and healing, narcissistic relationship recovery. Links mentioned in this episode: "A Plea to Parents" blog post: https://www.covertnarcissism.com/blog-home/a-plea-to-parents "You Want to See My Bruises? Look at My Kids" episode: https://bleav.com/shows/the-covert-narcissism-podcast/episodes/you-wanna-see-my-bruises-look-at-my-kids/ The information provided by Renee Swanson, Covert Narcissism Podcast, and CNG Life Coaching is for educational purposes only and is not intended for diagnosis or as a substitute for clinical care. Please consult a healthcare provider for guidance specific to your case. This episode discusses narcissism in general and does not claim that any specific person has narcissism. Permission is not granted to link to or repost this material to support an allegation or claim that any specific person is a narcissist. That would be an unauthorized misuse of the information provided. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

EPISODE SUMMARY  In this powerful and insightful episode, Vanessa Reiser sits down with Dr. Ramani Durvasula, one of the world's leading experts on narcissistic abuse and coercive control. They explore how public understanding of narcissistic abuse has evolved, particularly among younger generations who now have expanded language around gaslighting, love bombing, and coercive control. Dr. Ramani and Vanessa discuss the dangers of over-labeling, the limitations of "just leave" advice in complex situations, and how culture continues to reflect these toxic dynamics. Using the Epstein files as a lens, they examine grooming, enablers, epistemic power, and how unchecked power shapes harmful systems. Dr. Ramani shares practical harm-reduction strategies, the importance of healing in community, and the value of "climbing into the gray" without excusing harm. KEY TOPICS DISCUSSED  Youth and the New Vocabulary Around Narcissistic Abuse Therapy Shifts and Rebuilding Agency Culture Rewriting Old Narratives (Amy Fisher / Joey Buttafuoco Case) Epstein Files: Grooming, Enablers, and Institutional Betrayal Kids Facing Modern Horror and Pattern Recognition Power Sadism and Lack of Accountability Covert Narcissists Explained Avoiding Narcissists: Practical Tips Spotting Limits and Safe Disengagement Staying Anchored in Yourself Amid Chaos What Continues to Move Dr. Ramani Therapists "Getting It" – Progress and Gaps Wild Gaslighting Examples and Environmental Manipulation Epistemic Power Explained When the Narcissist Leaves and Smear Campaigns Supply Networks and Control Tactics Collective Healing Through Community Leaning Into the Gray Without Excusing Harm RESOURCES Dr. Ramani Durvasula's Books: Should I Stay or Should I Go? It's Not You Don't You Know Who I Am? You Are WHY You Eat Dr. Ramani's Podcast: Navigating Narcissism Connect with Dr. Ramani: Instagram: @doctorramani Website: doctor-ramani.com AND Dr. Ramani's therapist only program can be found here:   https://drramaninetwork.mn.co/therapistsonly Connect with Vanessa Reiser: Instagram: @vanessareiserlcsw Patreon: For exclusive bonus content and deeper discussions CONTENT WARNINGS This episode contains discussions of: Narcissistic abuse and coercive control Gaslighting and reality distortion Institutional betrayal and systemic power abuse Epstein-related allegations Emotional manipulation and trauma QUOTES TO REMEMBER "The truth doesn't need your permission to exist." — Dr. Ramani Durvasula "Even when the system fails you, your body still knows the truth." — Dr. Ramani Durvasula "Climbing into the gray doesn't mean excusing harm — it means refusing to live in black-and-white thinking that keeps us stuck." — Vanessa Reiser Disclaimer: This podcast is for mature audiences and is not a substitute for therapy, legal, or medical advice. Guest opinions are their own and don't necessarily reflect those of the host or affiliated platforms. Produced by Vanessa Reiser and music by Alex Productions "Once Upon a Time". #NarcissisticAbuseWithVanessaReiser #VanessaReiser #TellATherapist #CoerciveControl #DrRamani #NarcissisticAbuse

Have you ever looked in the mirror and not recognized the person staring back at you? If you've been in a relationship with a covert narcissist, chances are you know exactly what that feels like. In this CNG Community Chat, I sit down with three women who each experienced the slow, painful erosion of identity that comes with covert narcissistic abuse. We talk about the moment they realized they had been making themselves smaller, the specific turning points that opened their eyes, and what the journey back to themselves has actually looked like. From walking on eggshells and reactive abuse, to physical symptoms like panic attacks, chronic pain, and autoimmune flares — these women share the full picture of what narcissistic abuse really does to a person. More importantly, they share what life looks like on the other side. Whether you are still in the relationship, just finding your way out, or deep in your recovery journey, this conversation will remind you that you are not crazy, you are not too sensitive, and you were never the problem. Topics covered in this episode: How covert narcissistic relationships slowly erase your identity The physical toll of narcissistic abuse on your nervous system and body Recognizing reactive abuse and the moment of clarity that changes everything People pleasing, boundaries, and the pushback you get when you finally set them What taking up space looks like in real life after narcissistic abuse Advice for anyone who is afraid to stop shrinking themselves The content on this podcast reflects the personal experiences and opinions of the host and guests and is intended for informational and educational purposes only. Nothing shared here constitutes professional mental health, medical, or legal advice, and should not be treated as such. The experiences shared are individual and may not reflect every situation involving narcissistic abuse or toxic relationships. If you believe you are in an abusive relationship or are struggling with your mental health, I strongly encourage you to seek support from a licensed mental health professional who is trained in trauma and abuse. If you are in immediate danger, please contact your local emergency services. Results and experiences discussed on this podcast are not guaranteed and will vary from person to person. Some names and identifying details may have been changed to protect the privacy of individuals. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

You're out, and now you're replaying every red flag you missed on a loop, wondering how you didn't see it sooner, and quietly terrified you'll walk straight into it again.If your instincts feel broken and your confidence has quietly shrunk (even at work), this episode was made for you.In this episode you will:Understand why looping in self-judgement & fear is keeping you stuckLearn what is really causing you to feel broken — and why it goes way beyond datingKnow exactly what you need to be able to trust yourself in dating & relationships againHit play now to find out why "fixing yourself before dating again" is not the way forward — and what actually works instead.QUICK LINKS FROM EPISODE:Schedule your Intro Session: https://freeintrosession-pa.youcanbook.me/RESOURCES FOR YOUR HEALING:

Here are the fully SEO-optimized versions: TITLE: Top 10 Signs You're With a Covert Narcissist | Narcissistic Abuse & Relationship Patterns PODCAST DESCRIPTION: Are you in a relationship that's hard to explain but impossible to ignore? You may be experiencing narcissistic abuse — and not even know it yet. In this episode of the Covert Narcissism Podcast, Renee Swanson breaks down the Top 10 Signs You're With a Covert Narcissist. Unlike overt narcissism, covert narcissistic abuse is subtle, confusing, and incredibly difficult to identify — which is exactly what makes it so damaging. If you've been walking on eggshells, questioning your own reality, or feeling alone in your relationship, this episode was made for you. We cover: Backhanded compliments and subtle put-downs Gaslighting in relationships and how it makes you doubt yourself The silent treatment as emotional abuse DARVO — the manipulation tactic used to flip the script Trauma bonding and why it's so hard to leave Selective empathy and the public vs. private performance Narcissistic abuse recovery and how to start finding yourself again Whether you're just beginning to recognize the signs of narcissism or you're deep in narcissistic abuse recovery, this episode will help you make sense of what you've been experiencing — and remind you that you are not alone. Ready to take the next step? Visit covertnarcissism.com to learn about coaching and begin your healing journey today. Subscribe to the Covert Narcissism Podcast for new episodes on narcissistic abuse, covert narcissism, emotional abuse recovery, and relationship healing every week. The information provided by Renee Swanson, the Covert Narcissism Podcast, and CNG Life Coaching is for educational purposes only. It is not intended to be used for diagnosis and is not a substitute for professional clinical care. Please consult a qualified healthcare provider for guidance specific to your situation. The content discussed in this podcast reflects general patterns of narcissism and is based on Renee Swanson's personal experiences as well as stories shared with her over many years. Nothing in this content claims that any specific person has narcissism, and it should not be used to refer to or identify any specific individual as a narcissist. Linking to or reposting this material to support such a claim is an unauthorized misuse of this content. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this powerful episode, I sit down with Dianne Harris, author of "Love Bomb: He sold her a dream and delivered a nightmare," to discuss her harrowing journey through a marriage to a narcissist that ultimately led to her standing in handcuffs before noon on what started as an ordinary June morning. Drawing from real-time journal entries she kept as an attempt to maintain her sanity, Dianne shares how she documented years of manipulation, gaslighting, and emotional abuse.What began as a magical eight-hour first date evolved into a decade-long nightmare where she lived in constant fight-or-flight mode, never knowing which version of her husband she'd encounter.But this conversation isn't just about survival, it's about reclaiming the very term that nearly destroyed her. Dianne has redefined "love bomb" from a weapon of manipulation into a radical act of self-love so fierce that no one can ever weaponize love against her again. This is essential listening for anyone who's ever questioned their own perception

What happens when loving someone slowly drains your energy, your confidence, your finances, and even your health? In this powerful episode, Dr. Judy dives deep into the emotional chaos of narcissistic relationships and the painful reality of knowing when it's finally time to let go. From “people pleasing” and trauma bonds to co-parenting battles and emotional vampirism, Dr. Judy breaks down the psychological blueprint behind narcissistic abuse and explains why so many intelligent, successful people get trapped in toxic dynamics.Listeners call in with real-life struggles involving co-parenting with narcissists, emotional exhaustion, financial depletion, and the challenge of breaking free from lifelong patterns rooted in childhood wounds. Dr. Judy shares practical strategies for leaving safely, healing emotionally, rebuilding self-worth, and creating healthier relationships moving forward.If you've ever felt like you're giving everything and getting nothing back, this episode may be the wake-up call you need.#Narcissist #NarcissisticAbuse #DrJudy #HealingJourney #MentalHealth #TraumaHealing #PeoplePleaser #ToxicRelationships #EmotionalHealing #CoParenting #SelfWorth #Psychology #PTSDRecovery #RelationshipAdvice #InnerHealing #EmotionalAbuse #TruthBeTold #PodcastLife #HealingFromAbuse #WhatTheFreud

Why is it so hard to move on after covert narcissistic abuse? Why can betrayal trauma continue affecting you years—or even decades—later? In this powerful conversation, Renee Swanson sits down with betrayal trauma expert Dr. Debi Silber to explore the deep emotional, physical, and psychological impact of betrayal in covert narcissistic relationships. Dr. Debi explains why betrayal is a unique form of trauma, how Post Betrayal Syndrome affects survivors, and why healing from covert narcissistic abuse requires more than simply “moving on.” Together, Renee and Dr. Debi discuss the loss of trust, the breakdown of self, nervous system dysregulation, chronic symptoms, emotional triggers, and the patterns that keep survivors stuck for years. They also dive into the five stages of betrayal recovery and what true transformation looks like after emotional abuse. If you've struggled with self-doubt, rumination, hypervigilance, inability to trust, emotional exhaustion, or feeling like you lost yourself in a covert narcissistic relationship, this episode will help you understand why—and what healing can actually look like. In this episode: Betrayal trauma and covert narcissistic abuse Why you can't “just move on” Post Betrayal Syndrome symptoms The connection between betrayal trauma and the nervous system Rebuilding trust after emotional abuse The five stages of betrayal recovery Healing after covert narcissistic relationships Why survivors stay stuck Transformation after betrayal Learn more about Dr. Debi Silber and The PBT Institute at https://thepbtinstitute.com/ Visit www.covertnarcissism.com for additional resources. DISCLAIMER: THE INFORMATION PROVIDED BY RENEE SWANSON, COVERT NARCISSISM PODCAST, AND CNG LIFE COACHING IS FOR EDUCATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND IS NOT TO BE USED FOR DIAGNOSIS PURPOSES AND NOT INTENDED TO BE A SUBSTITUTE FOR CLINICAL CARE. PLEASE CONSULT A HEALTH CARE PROVIDER FOR GUIDANCE SPECIFIC TO YOUR CASE. THIS MATERIAL DISCUSSES NARCISSISM IN GENERAL. RENEE SHARES STORIES FROM HER PERSONAL EXPERIENCES AS WELL AS FROM THOSE SHE HAS TALKED WITH FOR SEVERAL YEARS. HER MATERIAL DOES NOT CLAIM THAT ANY SPECIFIC PERSON HAS NARCISSISM AND SHOULD NOT BE USED TO REFER TO ANY SPECIFIC PERSON AS HAVING NARCISSISM. PERMISSION IS NOT GRANTED TO LINK TO OR REPOST THIS MATERIAL TO SUPPORT AN ALLEGATION OR SUPPORT A CLAIM THAT ANY SPECIFIC PERSON IS A NARCISSIST. THAT WOULD BE AN UNAUTHORIZED MISUSE OF THE MATERIAL AND INFORMATION PROVIDED. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Follow Christian Van Linda Here: YouTube: @Hype-r-vigilance Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hype.r.vigilance Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61586586299466 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@smokingandthinking6 Follow Falcon Here: YouTube: @yyzfalcon TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@yyzfalcon The two men explore how social media amplifies psychological warfare, flooding the nervous system with daily outrage designed to distract from the deeper forces reshaping American power, from the surveillance state to the Heritage Foundation to Palantir. The conversation moves into the roots of racism as an unconscious cultural conditioning rather than simple bigotry, drawing on the work of Lee Atwater and the psychological destabilization many white Americans experienced seeing Barack Obama in power. Both men open up about their own narcissistic parents, the invisible trauma of what doesn't happen in childhood, and how shame functions as the engine driving so much dysfunction, from MAGA politics to family estrangement. Hype.R.Vigilence shares his personal story of undiagnosed autism, addiction, a house fire at sixteen, a secret brother, and a restraining order against his own father, tracing how unprocessed feelings spiral into crisis when there is no safe space to feel them. The two dig into IFS and parts work, the pathologizing of human experience under capitalism, and why mental injuries, not mental illness, is the more honest and useful frame. They challenge the destination-based fantasy of healing, arguing that healing and living are the same process. The discussion closes on community, men's work, somatic healing, holding space, the power of being witnessed, and what it means to find genuine pride as a child of a narcissist. SUPPORT & CONNECT WITH HAWK- Support on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/mdg650hawk - Hawk's Merch Store: https://hawkmerchstore.com - Connect on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mdg650hawk7thacct - Connect on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hawkeyewhackamole - Connect on BlueSky: https://bsky.app/profile/mdg650hawk.bsky.social - Connect on Substack: https://mdg650hawk.substack.com - Connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hawkpodcasts - Connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mdg650hawk - Connect on Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/mdg650hawk ALL HAWK PODCASTS INFO- Additional Content Available Here: https://www.hawkpodcasts.comhttps://www.youtube.com/@hawkpodcasts- Listen to Hawk Podcasts On Your Favorite Platform:Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3RWeJfyApple Podcasts: https://apple.co/422GDuLYouTube: https://youtube.com/@hawkpodcastsiHeartRadio: https://ihr.fm/47vVBdPPandora: https://bit.ly/48COaTB

Ever think something is terribly wrong or you're going crazy because you can't get up after being knocked down by a suspected pathological narcissist?Let me tell you some things to understand exactly what is going on.

In this conversation, Ross Rosenberg speaks with Dr. Tina Paone, a licensed counselor and play therapist, about the psychological impact of divorce on children. They explore how kids process separation without the language to express it, why behavior often reflects hidden distress, and how play therapy helps children navigate confusion, fear, and loss. The discussion also touches on attachment disruptions, trauma responses, and key developmental challenges during family breakdown.They also examine complex dynamics like parentification, parental alienation, and narcissistic abuse. Dr. Paone explains how children can be pushed into adult roles or pressured to side with one parent, and offers guidance for targeted parents. She also shares insights from her book Unbroken: Healing from Narcissistic Abuse and Reclaiming Me, making this a valuable discussion for parents and clinicians alike.Tina Paone: bio: Dr. Tina Paone is a licensed professional counselor, counselor educator, and registered play therapist supervisor specializing in child and family therapy. With over 20 years of experience, she serves on the faculty at Monmouth University and works extensively with children navigating divorce, trauma, and complex family dynamics, including parental alienation and narcissistic abuse.She is also the author of Unbroken: Healing from Narcissistic Abuse and Reclaiming Me, where she integrates her clinical expertise with personal insight to support healing and recovery. Dr. Paone leads a team of clinicians at her practice, focusing on trauma-informed care for children and families affected by high-conflict relationships.Support the showABOUT ROSS ROSENBERG Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness, and celebrated author. He is also a global thought leader and clinical expert in codependency, trauma, pathological narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and addictions.Ross's pioneering contributions to codependency have provided sweeping theoretical and practical updates and developed a treatment program that permanently resolves the issue. Ross has been featured on national TV and radio and is a regular radio and podcast guest. In addition, he has traveled the world, giving his one-of-a-kind keynote presentations and educational workshops. His global impact is best illustrated by his YouTube channel, with 30 million views and 297,000 subscribers, and the sale of 190,000 Human Magnet Syndrome books published in 12 languages. In 2013, Ross created The Self-Love Recovery Institute, a hub for his personal development, workshops, professional training, retreats, other programs, and services.Learn more at www.SelfLoveRecovery.com. Facebook.com/TheCodependencyCure) Instagram (@rossrosenberg_slri) Twitter (@RossRosenberg1) and now…TikTok! (@RossRosenberg1)

  Have you ever felt like something was wrong in your relationship but couldn't find the words to describe it? In this episode of the Covert Narcissism Podcast Community Chat, I sit down with David, who spent 17 years married to a covert narcissist before finally being able to name what he was experiencing. David shares how it started with recognizing passive aggressive behavior, how that led him down the rabbit hole of covert narcissism, and what happened when he finally said it out loud to someone he trusted. We talk about why covert narcissistic abuse is so hard to explain to others, what it feels like when you aren't fully believed, and how saying it out loud is often the moment the healing begins. David also opens up about life after divorce, co-parenting with a covert narcissist, and the very real challenge of protecting your children from narcissistic manipulation while staying in a healed and grounded place yourself. If you are struggling to name what you are experiencing in your relationship, feel like no one around you truly understands, or are navigating co-parenting after narcissistic abuse, this episode is for you. Topics covered in this episode: Recognizing covert narcissistic abuse in marriage Passive aggressive behavior as an early warning sign Why covert narcissistic abuse is hard to explain to family and friends What happens when you first say it out loud Healing after divorce from a narcissist Co-parenting with a covert narcissist Protecting children from narcissistic manipulation Trusting your gut when something feels wrong To join future CNG Community Chats, visit https://www.covertnarcissism.com/community-chats THE INFORMATION PROVIDED BY RENEE SWANSON, COVERT NARCISSISM PODCAST, AND CNG LIFE COACHING IS FOR EDUCATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND IS NOT TO BE USED FOR DIAGNOSIS PURPOSES AND NOT INTENDED TO BE A SUBSTITUTE FOR CLINICAL CARE. PLEASE CONSULT A HEALTH CARE PROVIDER FOR GUIDANCE SPECIFIC TO YOUR CASE. THIS MATERIAL DISCUSSES NARCISSISM IN GENERAL. RENEE SHARES STORIES FROM HER PERSONAL EXPERIENCES AS WELL AS FROM THOSE SHE HAS TALKED WITH FOR SEVERAL YEARS. HER MATERIAL DOES NOT CLAIM THAT ANY SPECIFIC PERSON HAS NARCISSISM AND SHOULD NOT BE USED TO REFER TO ANY SPECIFIC PERSON AS HAVING NARCISSISM. PERMISSION IS NOT GRANTED TO LINK TO OR REPOST THIS MATERIAL TO SUPPORT AN ALLEGATION OR SUPPORT A CLAIM THAT ANY SPECIFIC PERSON IS A NARCISSIST. THAT WOULD BE AN UNAUTHORIZED MISUSE OF THE MATERIAL AND INFORMATION PROVIDED. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

What does it take to truly heal from a narcissistic relationship?In this episode, Ross Rosenberg sits down with psychotherapist and author Chelsey Brooke Cole to discuss the complexities of narcissistic abuse and the journey toward recovery.Chelsey Brooke Cole is a licensed psychotherapist, Certified Partner Trauma Therapist, and best-selling author of If Only I'd Known! She specializes in narcissistic abuse and complex trauma, and is the host of Restoring Resilience podcast and creator of Rewired for Resilience. Her work has been featured in USA Today, HuffPost, and Psychology Today, and she supports thousands of survivors daily through her speaking, writing, and healing programs.Together, Ross and Chelsey share their professional insights into why these relationships are so difficult to leave and what steps are necessary to find lasting peace and self-love.Whether you are just beginning to look for answers or are deep in your healing process, this conversation offers a supportive look at the road to recovery.Support the showABOUT ROSS ROSENBERG Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness, and celebrated author. He is also a global thought leader and clinical expert in codependency, trauma, pathological narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and addictions.Ross's pioneering contributions to codependency have provided sweeping theoretical and practical updates and developed a treatment program that permanently resolves the issue. Ross has been featured on national TV and radio and is a regular radio and podcast guest. In addition, he has traveled the world, giving his one-of-a-kind keynote presentations and educational workshops. His global impact is best illustrated by his YouTube channel, with 30 million views and 297,000 subscribers, and the sale of 190,000 Human Magnet Syndrome books published in 12 languages. In 2013, Ross created The Self-Love Recovery Institute, a hub for his personal development, workshops, professional training, retreats, other programs, and services.Learn more at www.SelfLoveRecovery.com. Facebook.com/TheCodependencyCure) Instagram (@rossrosenberg_slri) Twitter (@RossRosenberg1) and now…TikTok! (@RossRosenberg1)

Narcissism isn't always obvious. In this episode, Joe speaks with Deanna about the subtle, invisible forms of abuse that can cost you your sense of self—and how to take it back. Deanna explores the difference between healthy relationships and narcissistic ones, unpacks gaslighting with real examples, and explains why your nervous system stays trapped in fight-or-flight even after the relationship ends. She breaks down how emotional abuse compounds over time, affecting everything from your immune system to your ability to trust yourself. If you've ever felt confused, blamed, or like you're losing your mind in a relationship—this conversation is for you. Topics Covered: What narcissism really is (and why it's more than just being selfish) The telltale signs: inability to compromise, gaslighting, zero accountability Why you don't trust yourself anymore—and how childhood trauma connects The physical toll of living in constant stress and anxiety Healing looks different for everyone (and it takes time) One immediate tool: finding stillness to activate your parasympathetic nervous system Key Takeaways: Boundaries aren't selfish—they're essential to healthy relationships Hurt people hurt people, but that doesn't justify the damage Your nervous system learned a pattern; it can learn a new one Energy healing and holistic approaches work when you're intentional about recovery Healing is reconnecting with yourself—your intuition, your heart, your spirit Guest: Deanna Website: www.healinghandsbydeanna.com Services: Reiki & Energy Healing | Intuitive Coaching | Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Locations: In-person (Charlotte, NC) | Virtual sessions available nationwide YouTube Channel: Healing Hands by Deanna (mind, body, spirit tips and self-care tools) Support Group: Meetup community for narcissistic abuse recovery survivors

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If you've ever looked back on a relationship and thought, “Why didn't I see it sooner?”—you're not alone. And more importantly, you're not wrong. In this episode, we explore a powerful truth about covert narcissistic abuse: your body often recognizes what your mind cannot yet explain. While you may now understand the patterns, manipulation, and emotional abuse, your nervous system may still feel unsettled—and there's a reason for that. We'll break down the connection between the subconscious, the body, and the nervous system, and why healing cannot happen through thinking alone. You'll learn why your body stayed heightened, how self-blame keeps you stuck, and how to begin rebuilding trust with yourself in a way that actually works. This episode also introduces a simple, practical tool—Notice, Name, Need, Next—to help you reconnect with your body and start responding to what it's been trying to tell you all along. If you're tired of overthinking, second-guessing yourself, or feeling like something is still “off” even though you understand everything, this episode will help you take the next step in your healing journey. Visit www.covertnarcissism.com for additional resources. THE INFORMATION PROVIDED BY RENEE SWANSON, COVERT NARCISSISM PODCAST, AND CNG LIFE COACHING IS FOR EDUCATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND IS NOT TO BE USED FOR DIAGNOSIS PURPOSES AND NOT INTENDED TO BE A SUBSTITUTE FOR CLINICAL CARE. PLEASE CONSULT A HEALTH CARE PROVIDER FOR GUIDANCE SPECIFIC TO YOUR CASE. THIS MATERIAL DISCUSSES NARCISSISM IN GENERAL. RENEE SHARES STORIES FROM HER PERSONAL EXPERIENCES AS WELL AS FROM THOSE SHE HAS TALKED WITH FOR SEVERAL YEARS. HER MATERIAL DOES NOT CLAIM THAT ANY SPECIFIC PERSON HAS NARCISSISM AND SHOULD NOT BE USED TO REFER TO ANY SPECIFIC PERSON AS HAVING NARCISSISM. PERMISSION IS NOT GRANTED TO LINK TO OR REPOST THIS MATERIAL TO SUPPORT AN ALLEGATION OR SUPPORT A CLAIM THAT ANY SPECIFIC PERSON IS A NARCISSIST. THAT WOULD BE AN UNAUTHORIZED MISUSE OF THE MATERIAL AND INFORMATION PROVIDED. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

There is often a moment in covert narcissistic relationships when something finally shifts. The confusion begins to clear, the patterns start to make sense, and you realize that what you've been experiencing has a name. But that moment rarely comes all at once. In this Community Chat, Renee is joined by Jenny, who shares her experience of what it looked like when things finally clicked for her after more than four decades in her marriage. What started as small realizations over time eventually led to a moment of undeniable clarity—one that changed everything. Together, they explore the gradual awakening that so many survivors of covert narcissistic abuse go through, the internal back-and-forth between clarity and doubt, and the emotional impact of finally seeing things for what they are. If you've ever questioned your reality, wondered why it took so long to see it, or found yourself moving between “I know” and “maybe I'm wrong,” this conversation will resonate deeply. This episode is a reminder that clarity is not a single moment—it's a process. And you are not alone in it. Visit www.covertnarcissism.com for additional resources and to sign up for future CNG Community Chat opportunities. THE INFORMATION PROVIDED BY RENEE SWANSON, COVERT NARCISSISM PODCAST, AND CNG LIFE COACHING IS FOR EDUCATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND IS NOT TO BE USED FOR DIAGNOSIS PURPOSES AND NOT INTENDED TO BE A SUBSTITUTE FOR CLINICAL CARE. PLEASE CONSULT A HEALTH CARE PROVIDER FOR GUIDANCE SPECIFIC TO YOUR CASE. THIS MATERIAL DISCUSSES NARCISSISM IN GENERAL. RENEE SHARES STORIES FROM HER PERSONAL EXPERIENCES AS WELL AS FROM THOSE SHE HAS TALKED WITH FOR SEVERAL YEARS. HER MATERIAL DOES NOT CLAIM THAT ANY SPECIFIC PERSON HAS NARCISSISM AND SHOULD NOT BE USED TO REFER TO ANY SPECIFIC PERSON AS HAVING NARCISSISM. PERMISSION IS NOT GRANTED TO LINK TO OR REPOST THIS MATERIAL TO SUPPORT AN ALLEGATION OR SUPPORT A CLAIM THAT ANY SPECIFIC PERSON IS A NARCISSIST. THAT WOULD BE AN UNAUTHORIZED MISUSE OF THE MATERIAL AND INFORMATION PROVIDED. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Dr Kirk Honda watches Chris from Love Is Blind S10 and reacts. April 13, 2026This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month.Support us by... Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattleContact us/more info... Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contactAbout Dr. Kirk: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/about-dr-kirk-hondaWebsite: https://www.psychologyinseattle.comGet stuff... Merch: https://psychologyinseattle-shop.fourthwall.com/KIRKgram (like Cameo): https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/kirkgramThe Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being. Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com

If you've ever asked yourself, “Why didn't I see it sooner?” after being in a covert narcissistic relationship, you are not alone. The truth is, you didn't miss the signs—your body was recognizing them long before your mind could make sense of what was happening. In this episode, we break down the confusing experience of cognitive dissonance in covert narcissistic abuse—why your body felt anxious, tense, or unsafe while your mind continued to justify, minimize, or explain away the behavior. You'll learn how your nervous system detects emotional threat outside of your conscious awareness, and why this disconnect between what you feel and what you believe can keep you stuck far longer than you expected. We also explore how conditioning, people-pleasing patterns, and the desire to maintain connection can lead you to override your intuition—and why that is not a failure, but a survival response. If you've struggled with shame, self-doubt, or confusion after leaving a covert narcissist, this episode will help you understand what was really happening beneath the surface—and how to begin rebuilding trust with yourself moving forward. If you're ready to take the next step beyond understanding and start applying this work in your own life, I invite you to explore coaching program and resources at https://www.covertnarcissism.com. THE INFORMATION PROVIDED BY RENEE SWANSON, COVERT NARCISSISM PODCAST, AND CNG LIFE COACHING IS FOR EDUCATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND IS NOT TO BE USED FOR DIAGNOSIS PURPOSES AND NOT INTENDED TO BE A SUBSTITUTE FOR CLINICAL CARE. PLEASE CONSULT A HEALTH CARE PROVIDER FOR GUIDANCE SPECIFIC TO YOUR CASE. THIS MATERIAL DISCUSSES NARCISSISM IN GENERAL. RENEE SHARES STORIES FROM HER PERSONAL EXPERIENCES AS WELL AS FROM THOSE SHE HAS TALKED WITH FOR SEVERAL YEARS. HER MATERIAL DOES NOT CLAIM THAT ANY SPECIFIC PERSON HAS NARCISSISM AND SHOULD NOT BE USED TO REFER TO ANY SPECIFIC PERSON AS HAVING NARCISSISM. PERMISSION IS NOT GRANTED TO LINK TO OR REPOST THIS MATERIAL TO SUPPORT AN ALLEGATION OR SUPPORT A CLAIM THAT ANY SPECIFIC PERSON IS A NARCISSIST. THAT WOULD BE AN UNAUTHORIZED MISUSE OF THE MATERIAL AND INFORMATION PROVIDED. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Dr Kirk Honda watches Chris from Love Is Blind S10 and reacts. (Intro)April 10, 2026This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month.Support us by... Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattleContact us/more info... Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contactAbout Dr. Kirk: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/about-dr-kirk-hondaWebsite: https://www.psychologyinseattle.comGet stuff... Merch: https://psychologyinseattle-shop.fourthwall.com/KIRKgram (like Cameo): https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/kirkgramThe Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being. Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com

Dr Kirk Honda watches Chris from Love Is Blind S10 and reacts. (Intro)This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month.Support us by... Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattleContact us/more info... Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contactAbout Dr. Kirk: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/about-dr-kirk-hondaWebsite: https://www.psychologyinseattle.comGet stuff... Merch: https://psychologyinseattle-shop.fourthwall.com/KIRKgram (like Cameo): https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/kirkgramThe Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being. Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com

What if leaving the relationship doesn't mean you're free? In this episode, we continue The Vampire Effect series and explore what happens after prolonged exposure to covert narcissistic abuse—when you feel numb, disconnected, and like something inside of you has changed. Many survivors describe feeling “dead inside,” questioning who they are, and wondering if they've lost themselves completely. Using the powerful metaphor of Dracula, we break down the concept of becoming “undead”—not fully yourself, but not gone either—and why this emotional numbness is not a sign that something is wrong with you, but a sign that your mind and body have been trying to protect you. We also dive into the unsettling reality of how the narcissist's voice can continue to live inside your thoughts, shaping your perceptions long after the relationship shifts or even ends. If you've ever questioned your reactions, felt disconnected from yourself, or wondered why you can't just “move on,” this episode will help you understand what's really happening beneath the surface—and why healing is not about fixing yourself, but about reclaiming what was never truly lost. Visit www.covertnarcissism.com for additional resources. THE INFORMATION PROVIDED BY RENEE SWANSON, COVERT NARCISSISM PODCAST, AND CNG LIFE COACHING IS FOR EDUCATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND IS NOT TO BE USED FOR DIAGNOSIS PURPOSES AND NOT INTENDED TO BE A SUBSTITUTE FOR CLINICAL CARE. PLEASE CONSULT A HEALTH CARE PROVIDER FOR GUIDANCE SPECIFIC TO YOUR CASE. THIS MATERIAL DISCUSSES NARCISSISM IN GENERAL. RENEE SHARES STORIES FROM HER PERSONAL EXPERIENCES AS WELL AS FROM THOSE SHE HAS TALKED WITH FOR SEVERAL YEARS. HER MATERIAL DOES NOT CLAIM THAT ANY SPECIFIC PERSON HAS NARCISSISM AND SHOULD NOT BE USED TO REFER TO ANY SPECIFIC PERSON AS HAVING NARCISSISM. PERMISSION IS NOT GRANTED TO LINK TO OR REPOST THIS MATERIAL TO SUPPORT AN ALLEGATION OR SUPPORT A CLAIM THAT ANY SPECIFIC PERSON IS A NARCISSIST. THAT WOULD BE AN UNAUTHORIZED MISUSE OF THE MATERIAL AND INFORMATION PROVIDED. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.