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The Warning Signs Of a Narcissist that you might've missed in the beginning of the relationship or when you were getting to know them. Check out my courses "Understanding the 7 Stages of a Narcissistic Relationship" and "Finding Your W.H.Y!" at https://mentalhealness.netWant to be on the podcast? https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-FormContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ
What should you do when a narcissists tries to make you feel guilty? How do you survive the moments when narcissistic people are trying their hardest to make you feel bad about what you have done by trying to leave them or holding them accountable.Check out my courses "Understanding the 7 Stages of a Narcissistic Relationship" and "Finding Your W.H.Y!" at https://mentalhealness.netWant to be on the podcast? https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-FormContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ
Narcissists LOVE money! Even if it isn't there's! So Why do Narcissists Want To Control ALL the MONEY? Mainly because it lets them feel in charge of the situation and they feel entitled to every bit that you have. Check out my courses "Understanding the 7 Stages of a Narcissistic Relationship" and "Finding Your W.H.Y!" at https://mentalhealness.netWant to be on the podcast? https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-FormContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ
If a narcissist were to apologize, what would it sound like? how would it go? Would it be sincere or fake like most of the other things that they do are? Check out my courses "Understanding the 7 Stages of a Narcissistic Relationship" and "Finding Your W.H.Y!" at https://mentalhealness.netWant to be on the podcast? https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-FormContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ
A narcissist and self sabotage can go hand in hand. So, Why Do Narcissists Blow Up Their Own Lives So Much? When things are seeming to go so well, why do narcissistic people tend to do things that mess everything up. Check out my courses "Understanding the 7 Stages of a Narcissistic Relationship" and "Finding Your W.H.Y!" at https://mentalhealness.netWant to be on the podcast? https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-FormContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ
Is it possible for a narcissist to change for good or is it all only temporary? Check out my courses "Understanding the 7 Stages of a Narcissistic Relationship" and "Finding Your W.H.Y!" at https://mentalhealness.netWant to be on the podcast? https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-FormContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ
Why would a narcissist come back after discarding you? Why would they end the relationship but not fully leave you alone and move on with their lives? Check out my courses "Understanding the 7 Stages of a Narcissistic Relationship" and "Finding Your W.H.Y!" at https://mentalhealness.netWant to be on the podcast? https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-FormContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ
How do you set a narcissist off and make them expose themselves to other people? Check out my courses "Understanding the 7 Stages of a Narcissistic Relationship" and "Finding Your W.H.Y!" at https://mentalhealness.netWant to be on the podcast? https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-FormContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ
Do narcissistic people ever run out of supply or validation? Is this possible? Check out my courses "Understanding the 7 Stages of a Narcissistic Relationship" and "Finding Your W.H.Y!" at https://mentalhealness.netWant to be on the podcast? https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-FormContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ
Why don't narcissistic people ever let anything go? Why do that continuously bring up the past and things that happened so long ago but then get upset when you do the same thing? Check out my courses "Understanding the 7 Stages of a Narcissistic Relationship" and "Finding Your W.H.Y!" at https://mentalhealness.netWant to be on the podcast? https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-FormContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ
When you think of the most narcissistic people on the planet, who comes to mind? For me, it's politicians. Especially some of the ones that we have in the united states. Check out my courses "Understanding the 7 Stages of a Narcissistic Relationship" and "Finding Your W.H.Y!" at https://mentalhealness.netWant to be on the podcast? https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-FormContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ
Why does it always seem like horrible, evil, narcissistic people are attracted to organized religions? Check out my courses "Understanding the 7 Stages of a Narcissistic Relationship" and "Finding Your W.H.Y!" at https://mentalhealness.netWant to be on the podcast? https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-FormContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ
Are you battling an addiction to a toxic relationship? Lee Hammock offers relationship advice from a unique perspective. Learn about the trauma bond and how to break free.Check out my courses "Understanding the 7 Stages of a Narcissistic Relationship" and "Finding Your W.H.Y!" at https://mentalhealness.netWant to be on the podcast? https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-FormContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ
Do narcissists actually believe their own lies, or do they know they're lying to you? In this episode, I explain the truth about narcissistic lying - whether they believe the stories they tell, and why it might not even matter.Check out my courses "Understanding the 7 Stages of a Narcissistic Relationship" and "Finding Your W.H.Y!" at https://mentalhealness.netWant to be on the podcast? https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-FormContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ
More resources at https://mentalhealness.netHow Long Does It Take To Leave a Narcissist? How many times do people normally go back to a narcissist or back to a toxic relationship?
More resources at https://mentalhealness.netWhy do narcissists lose their minds when you show them a video or screenshot of their own behavior? In this episode, I explain why holding up a mirror to a narcissist's actions triggers them so intensely - and why their reaction tells you everything about their shame.
Why does it seem like you see narcissists everywhere after you have gotten out of a relationship with one? This could be the Baader-Meinhof phenomenon or the frequency illusion. Once you deal with one narcissist it opens your eyes to toxicity and it's hard to unsee it.
What happens when a narcissist starts to hate everything about you? In this episode, I explain the stage in a narcissistic relationship where they suddenly resent everything - your looks, personality, success, and even the things they used to love about you.
Your gut isn't dramatic—it's data. In this powerful conversation, we unpack the physiology of trauma bonds, why covert tactics feel “small but constant,” and the exact steps to trust your instincts, set boundaries, and break free (quietly, safely, strategically). You'll learn: ✅ How love-bombing + intermittent reinforcement create chemical addiction ✅ Why targets look “emotional” while narcissists look calm (courtroom optics) ✅ The SLAY Method to negotiate and win: Strategy • Leverage • Anticipate • You ✅ Practical scripts to hold boundaries without inviting rage ✅ Recovery tools: documentation, no-contact, somatics, therapy, and community
In this insightful episode of the Dead America Podcast host Ed Watters speaks with Barbara Bowman author of What Not To Do at Funerals about practical funeral etiquette and compassionate ways to support grieving families. Barbara breaks down the most common faux pas at funerals and explains how simple thoughtful actions can make a profound difference during grief. Listeners will learn concrete etiquette tips for attending memorials offering condolences and honoring the needs of those in mourning. Barbara shares stories that illustrate why presence matters more than perfect words and why listening and small acts of service build trust with grieving families. The conversation also covers how to navigate awkward moments at viewings and services how to offer meaningful support after the funeral and when to give space versus step in. This episode is a guide for friends family caregivers and professionals who want to show up well and reduce additional emotional burden for those grieving. Barbara previews her upcoming book on escaping narcissistic relationships and provides practical advice for regaining control preventing further emotional harm and rebuilding personal boundaries. Listeners receive guidance on spotting manipulative behavior understanding its impact on grief and taking safe steps toward recovery. This episode blends grief support funeral etiquette and relationship safety into a compassionate toolkit for anyone facing loss or supporting someone through it. Tune in to gain actionable etiquette strategies support ideas and resources to help grieving families with dignity and care. Subscribe to Dead America Podcast for more conversations on healing grief recovery and emotional resilience. 00:00 Understanding Narcissism: An Introduction 00:54 Meet Barbara Bowman: Author of 'What Not To Do at Funerals' 01:12 Barbara's Personal Experiences with Grief 02:48 The Importance of Funeral Etiquette 03:32 Key Takeaways from 'What Not To Do at Funerals' 05:17 Navigating Grief and Offering Support 20:28 The Role of Grief Counseling and Support Groups 36:03 Barbara's Upcoming Book on Escaping Narcissism 45:26 Final Thoughts and How to Connect with Barbara Links: https://www.bowheart.com
In this podcast, we break down the common insults and phrases used by narcissists in relationships, explaining the hidden meanings behind their words. These toxic comments are not random — they are intentional tools of manipulation, control, and emotional abuse. By understanding what these insults really mean, you can begin to see through the tactics and protect your sense of self.#narcissist #belittling #narcissistinsultingyouWe'll cover: • The most common insults narcissists use • Why narcissists resort to belittling and shaming • How to recognize projection and gaslighting in their words • What these phrases reveal about the narcissist, not youThis video is for anyone healing from narcissistic abuse, seeking clarity, or trying to better understand the dynamics of a toxic relationship.If you find this helpful, subscribe for more insights on narcissistic abuse recovery, covert manipulation, and strategies to rebuild your confidence and peace of mind.https://youtu.be/ZDTTHT5X9eE
Ever find yourself constantly second-guessing your reality, apologising for things you didn't do, or walking on eggshells to avoid someone's anger? These are not just “relationship problems” — they may be signs you're caught in the cycle of narcissistic abuse.(For 1:1 online counselling/support in healing from and understanding your own toxic relationship please visit my website at www.brighteroutlookcounselling.com.au)In this episode of Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, I break down the red flags that often go unnoticed until it's too late. From subtle gaslighting to love bombing, manipulation, silent treatments, and emotional withdrawal, I'll walk you through the patterns that reveal whether your partner, friend, or even family member might be a narcissist.Narcissists thrive on confusion — but once you start seeing clearly, you reclaim your power.Order my best-selling book, Fake Love, here https://mybook.to/F3gmIf you feel like you're losing yourself in love, it's not love — it's control.Support the showNeed Support, Extra Resources? Resources and Online Counseling (worldwide) information Here Order my book Fake Love – Understanding and Healing from Narcissistic Abuse here You can leave a Rating and a Review here You Can Share this Podcast here Join me on FB here Join the private FB group here Join me on Instagram here Join me on YouTube here Want to support the channel? Please Buy me a coffee ❤️ Thank you for listening! Please remember the information in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy is general and strictly the opinions of the host. Nova xx
One of the most painful realities of living with a covert narcissist is the absence of reconciliation. Conflicts don't get repaired. Apologies are either nonexistent or so hollow they echo in your chest. You're left holding the pieces of a conflict, waiting for your partner to help put them back together—only to realize they've already walked away, acting like nothing happened. In this episode, Renee Swanson explores the gaping hole where reconciliation should exist in relationships with covert narcissists. Through real-life examples—like the silent treatment over a dishwasher, the missed soccer game, and the joke that “was just a joke”—Renee contrasts how repair unfolds in healthy relationships versus how it is systematically blocked in toxic ones. This episode shines a light on the crazy-making cycle survivors are trapped in: punished for speaking up, punished for staying silent, blamed for everything either way. Yet it also offers clarity and hope: the recognition that the absence of repair is not your fault, and healing is still possible. If you've been left alone in the wreckage, waiting for closure that never comes, this episode will help you name the gaping hole for what it is—and begin to build your own bridge to healing. DISCLAIMER:THE INFORMATION PROVIDED BY RENEE SWANSON, COVERT NARCISSISM PODCAST, AND CNG LIFE COACHING IS FOR EDUCATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND IS NOT TO BE USED FOR DIAGNOSIS PURPOSES AND NOT INTENDED TO BE A SUBSTITUTE FOR CLINICAL CARE. PLEASE CONSULT A HEALTH CARE PROVIDER FOR GUIDANCE SPECIFIC TO YOUR CASE. THIS MATERIAL DISCUSSES NARCISSISM IN GENERAL. RENEE SHARES STORIES FROM HER PERSONAL EXPERIENCES AS WELL AS FROM THOSE SHE HAS TALKED WITH FOR SEVERAL YEARS. HER MATERIAL DOES NOT CLAIM THAT ANY SPECIFIC PERSON HAS NARCISSISM AND SHOULD NOT BE USED TO REFER TO ANY SPECIFIC PERSON AS HAVING NARCISSISM. PERMISSION IS NOT GRANTED TO LINK TO OR REPOST THIS MATERIAL TO SUPPORT AN ALLEGATION OR SUPPORT A CLAIM THAT ANY SPECIFIC PERSON IS A NARCISSIST. THAT WOULD BE AN UNAUTHORIZED MISUSE OF THE MATERIAL AND INFORMATION PROVIDED.
Heartbreak to Wholeness: Untangling the Mindf*ck of Narcissistic Relationships
Have you gone back to someone who's hurt you even when you swore it was the last time?If you've ever felt like you're stuck in a loop of breaking no-contact, unblocking him at 3 a.m., or restarting a relationship you know is toxic, it's time to understand what's really going on in your brain and body.In this episode, you'll discover:Why no-contact keeps failing (it's not just willpower)The brain chemistry behind why he feels like a drugHow to finally stop hating yourself, and start breaking freeListen now to finally understand the addiction cycle you're caught in—and how to step off of the roller coaster.QUICK LINKS FROM EPISODE:Submit an interest form to work with me: https://tinyurl.com/interest-form-htwshownotesRESOURCES FOR YOUR HEALING:
Today's Sunday Live broadcast was a heartfelt exploration of the real-life mental health challenges that so many of us face. We covered a whole bunch of topics, including, OCD, anxiety, heaviness, depression and narcissism. Melissa and I started out with talking about the intersection of cleanliness, order, and the influence of obsessive-compulsiveness. Where do you […]
Previously, we explored the concept of love bombing, where one partner overwhelms the other with excessive affection and attention early in a relationship to mask manipulative intentions. This behavior often sets the stage for a narcissistic relationship, a toxic dynamic in which one partner uses charm, control, and emotional manipulation to maintain power.In this episode, Mack Ciccone joins us to share his journey of leaving a narcissistic relationship and offers insights on reclaiming autonomy and redefining personal boundaries.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 29. Love BombingAdditional Resources:Love Bombing Defused: Spot Red Flags, Reclaim Boundaries, and Heal from Toxic RomanceRead Take a Bow. Narcissistic Discard. (Part 1)Read Live to TellSupport the showGet Your Merch
The funhouse of an abusive, manipulative, or Narcissistic relationship can leave you very disoriented when you finally find your way out. The amount of trauma there is to process can feel stifling and the endless questions may bombard you. What was the extent of their lies? Was any of it true? Did they ever really love me? Why do I still have feelings for this person who hurt me so badly? Sometimes you just need some help to get out of the woods. This is where my guest this week, Bre Wolta, comes in. Bre is a Relationship Clarity Coach who is passionate about helping women heal from the mindf*ck of narcissistic relationships so that they can rebuild their confidence and securely attach in future healthy relationships. On this guest episode, Bre shares about her own toxic relationship healing journey, and her ability to hold safe space allows her to walk alongside clients as they build trust and rekindle the most important relationship of all: the one they have with themselves. Bre explains why she is so passionate about helping women heal from the narcissistic mindf*ck & the 3 elements she believes we need to fully heal the narcissistic wound and allow us to securely attach in all of our relationships with friends, lovers, and family. We both explore our personal past dealing with deceitful partners and how we are all capable of reclaiming our light and belief in true, safe, healthy love.Bre Wolta, EFT and The Clearing Work™ Certified Practitioner, is a Relationship Clarity Coach who helps Women heal and move into their highest experience in healthy relationships. Podcast: Heartbreak to Wholeness: Untangle the Mindf*ck of Narcissistic RelationshipsIG: @lucid.living.with.breWebsite: www.brewolta.com
Heartbreak to Wholeness: Untangling the Mindf*ck of Narcissistic Relationships
Have you been obsessively racking your brain wondering how someone who claimed to love you could also lie, manipulate, and hurt you?In this episode, I speak directly to the part of you that's still trying to make it make sense.In this episode you will:Understand the surprising reason why you feel so stuck—and what to focus on to truly start healingDiscover what is draining your energy and mirroring the same dynamic that kept you trapped in the relationshipLearn the radical mindset shift that finally gives you peace, power, and the ability to close the door (for good)You'll learn the truth about what it takes to finally find freedom, reconnect with your emotional safety, and rebuild your self-worth from the inside out.QUICK LINKS FROM EPISODE:Interest form: https://tinyurl.com/interest-form-htwshownotesRESOURCES FOR YOUR HEALING:
Welcome back, beautiful beans! In today's head noise episode, we hear an amazing story from a listener, a leap-of-faith move (even after rekindling an old flame), navigating a narcissistic parent and handling unsolicited comments. If you would like to send in a question email please email: info@dyfmpod.com or if you would like to send in a Voice Message go to dyfmpod.com Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this episode of Recovery for the Narcissist, Dr. Eric Perry explores the subtle but powerful impact of frustration leaks in narcissistic relationships. This episode explores how unspoken emotional distress—expressed through sighs, muttering, or tension-filled body language—can quietly alter the emotional safety of a relationship without a single word being said.Dr. Perry unpacks the psychological mechanics of frustration leaks, highlighting how this behavior often reflects a deeper struggle with emotional regulation and vulnerability. He explains why individuals with narcissistic tendencies may externalize distress in indirect ways—and how those around them are left to absorb the emotional weight of what goes unspoken.Listeners will learn about: What frustration leaks look like in real-life dynamics Why narcissistic individuals often externalize emotional distress unconsciously The difference between self-regulation and emotional outsourcing How subtle expressions of frustration can create emotional pressure and distance Practical tools to contain emotion, name impact, and rebuild emotional safetyDr. Perry offers clear and compassionate insight for both those who have experienced the tension of frustration leaks and those who may be unintentionally creating it. Whether you have noticed a growing emotional distance in your relationship or felt the weight of someone else's mood without understanding why, this episode provides language, clarity, and a path toward change.Tune in to discover how frustration—when acknowledged rather than leaked—can become a moment of honest connection rather than quiet rupture. Healing begins not with denial or perfection, but with presence, ownership, and the choice to create emotional safety, one moment at a time.Connect with Dr. Perry: https://drericperry.comOwn Your Stuff Online Coaching Group: https://drericperry.com/ownyourstuffEmpathy Awakening Workshop: https://drericperry.com/empathyawakeningDisclaimer: The content contained in this podcast is for general information only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, assessment, diagnosis, or treatment. Listeners should not rely on the information provided for their own health needs. All specific questions should be presented to your own healthcare provider. Listening to this podcast in no way creates a professional/working relationship between the listener and the host. If at any time you have an emergency while listening, please contact your local emergency center immediately.
Heartbreak to Wholeness: Untangling the Mindf*ck of Narcissistic Relationships
Are you post-relationship realizing that you don't even recognize yourself anymore?When you've spent so long making someone else comfortable, shrinking your needs, and questioning your own preferences, it can feel like you're drifting alone in open water—disconnected from who you are.In this episode, we're exploring what really happens when your sense of self slowly gets swallowed up inside a narcissistic relationship.In this episode you will:Finally understand how you lost yourself in your narcissistic relationshipLearn the hidden impact that finding yourself has on who you choose nextKnow the next step to take today to begin to rebuild your identity & sense of selfIf you're standing in the wreckage of what once was, unsure of how to rebuild—you're not alone.QUICK LINKS MENTIONED IN EPISODE:Find Yourself Again - self-guided course: https://tinyurl.com/fya-htwshownotes (Use PODCAST10 at checkout for 10% off)RESOURCES FOR YOUR HEALING:
In this powerful episode, “Was It Love or Control? Healing From Narcissistic Relationships,” we sit down with award-winning mental health advocate and wellness creator Kelly U to unpack the emotional toll of narcissistic abuse — from toxic relationships to deeply rooted family trauma. Kelly shares her personal journey of healing after a narcissistic ex-boyfriend and how growing up with a narcissistic father shaped her mental health and sense of self. We explore how therapy initially caused a painful rupture in her family — with them even asking her to leave — and the unexpected path to reconciliation that followed. Kelly opens up about therapy, sobriety, and how she's rewritten her relationship patterns to build a healthier, more grounded life. If you're navigating narcissistic relationships, struggling with family trauma, or wondering if what you're experiencing is love or control, this episode is for you.Follow Kelly on Instagram here:https://www.instagram.com/kellyu/?hl=en
Heartbreak to Wholeness: Untangling the Mindf*ck of Narcissistic Relationships
Have you ever asked yourself, “Why can't I let go of someone who's clearly hurting me?”If you've been caught in the emotional highs and lows of a toxic or narcissistic relationship and felt too confused, ashamed, or overwhelmed to explain what was really happening, this episode is for you.In this episode you will:Understand what a trauma bond feels like and how its different than loveBe able to name the three red-flag
In this episode of Recovery for the Narcissist, Dr. Eric Perry explores the quiet yet deeply damaging experience of emotional invalidation in narcissistic relationships. This episode examines how subtle forms of dismissal, deflection, and emotional withdrawal can slowly erode a partner's sense of self—leaving them feeling confused, unseen, and emotionally alone.Dr. Perry unpacks the psychological mechanics of emotional invalidation, highlighting how it often masquerades as logic, reason, or even care. He explains why individuals with narcissistic tendencies struggle to tolerate emotional vulnerability—and how their attempts to manage discomfort often result in silencing the people closest to them.Listeners will learn about: What emotional invalidation looks like in real-life dynamics Why narcissistic individuals often use invalidation—consciously or unconsciously The difference between healthy disagreement and emotional dismissal How chronic invalidation distorts emotional reality and damages trust Practical ways to identify invalidation and begin rebuilding emotional safetyDr. Perry offers clear and compassionate insight for both those who have experienced emotional invalidation and those who may be unintentionally causing it. Whether you've found yourself walking on eggshells or noticing a growing emotional distance in your relationship, this episode provides language, clarity, and hope.Tune in to discover how emotional validation—simple acts of presence, witnessing, and non-defensive listening—can transform a relationship from emotionally unsafe to emotionally connected. Healing begins not with control or correction, but with the courage to truly hear and be heard.Connect with Dr. Perry: https://drericperry.comOwn Your Stuff Online Coaching Group: https://drericperry.com/ownyourstuffEmpathy Awakening Workshop: https://drericperry.com/empathyawakeningDisclaimer: The content contained in this podcast is for general information only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, assessment, diagnosis, or treatment. Listeners should not rely on the information provided for their own health needs. All specific questions should be presented to your own healthcare provider. Listening to this podcast in no way creates a professional/working relationship between the listener and the host. If at any time you have an emergency while listening, please contact your local emergency center immediately.
Send us a textWhat happens when forgiveness becomes the most radical act of self-healing? Angela Meyer returns with Season 4 of The Undetected Narcissist podcast, offering a revolutionary approach to recovering from narcissistic abuse through compassion rather than continued anger.After nearly concluding the series, Angela was profoundly moved by listeners who found her unique perspective transformative when other resources kept them trapped in resentment. One gentleman's story particularly resonated—after following another narcissism expert for years, he was disturbed when they rejected the concept of "forgiving the unforgivable." Through prayer, he discovered Angela's work, calling it "the answer to my prayers." This validation confirmed the critical need for her compassion-focused approach to continue.This season delivers 25 comprehensive topics designed to support your healing journey, including exploring codependency, breaking trauma bonds, developing sovereign boundaries, healing from generational trauma, and finding forgiveness for the unforgivable. Each episode integrates practical tools: metaphor stories that clarify complex concepts, journaling prompts for self-discovery, quick meditations, grounding techniques for anxiety, affirmations to rebuild self-compassion, and strategies to reclaim your personal power.As a mental health professional, trauma-informed human consciousness guide, and empowerment strategist who has personally walked this healing path, Angela speaks from authentic experience when she says true recovery cannot happen while remaining stuck in hatred and fear. Whether you're just beginning to recognize narcissistic patterns or working to rebuild after a toxic relationship, her guidance offers a path toward genuine peace rather than perpetual victimhood.Subscribe now to embark on this transformative journey toward self-empowerment, self-realization, and becoming whole again. Have specific topics you'd like addressed? Email Angela directly—your feedback will help shape future episodes while potentially helping others facing similar struggles.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
Have you ever wondered what happens when a narcissist targets a Christian? You've likely been hurt, manipulated, and maybe even discarded, and now you're left wondering, "Are they just going to get away with it?That's why in this episode, I'm going to walk you through the 3 phases that every narcissist goes through when they have the audacity to attack one of God's children....What God is going to do to intervene AND what you can do to ensure that His justice is served in a timely manner.I assure you, they will not be able to handle what comes next....❤️ Watch this episode next to find out What God Will Do After a Narcissistic Relationship.
Send us a textWhen Debbie accepted messages from a man who found her through a tagged Instagram post, she couldn't have predicted the 18-month nightmare that would follow. Her story reveals how narcissistic abuse escalates from subtle control tactics to full-blown emotional and physical violence.The warning signs appeared immediately – aggressive physical behavior on their first meeting, possessive comments, and attempts to control her movements – but, like many victims, Debbie dismissed them hoping things would improve. Instead, her partner isolated her from friends, controlled her clothing, monitored her whereabouts, and subjected her to relentless accusations of infidelity while he was the one being unfaithful. The physical abuse escalated too.What makes this episode particularly powerful is Debbie's candid reflection on her healing journey. After finding the courage to publicly share her story, seven other women came forward with similar experiences with the same man. Her crucial advice to listeners: don't ignore the first red flags, because abusive behavior only escalates with time.Have you noticed controlling behaviors in your relationships? What red flags have you overlooked hoping things would improve? Listen to this vital conversation and share it with someone who might need to hear that they're not alone in their experiences.Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launHave you ever wanted to start your own podcast? Start for FREE Buzzsprout using this link. Support the showFor more mental health resources, blogs, and other podcast episodes, please visit:IG: mentalhealth.ishWebsite: www.mentalhealth-ish.comHost: zuppysuePlease like, subscribe, & write a 5 star! Don't forget to share this episode :)
Heartbreak to Wholeness: Untangling the Mindf*ck of Narcissistic Relationships
If you've ever found yourself stuck in a cycle of highs and lows with someone who keeps hurting you, you're not weak or crazy—you're human.This episode will help you understand why your heart keeps reaching for the person who broke it—and how to start untangling from that pull without shame.In this episode, you'll discover:The real reason narcissistic relationships feel like an addiction, especially when trauma is involvedWhy it's actually okay that you went back to your exHow to let go and start healing so you can love from a place of peace, not panicPress play now to finally understand the addictive pull of toxic relationships—and walk away with the relief of knowing there's a way out, even if you're not ready to leave just yet.MENTIONED:IG: Women AwakenWhitney's website: https://womenwaken.comWhitney's Podcast: Women WakenGet the free 3 WAYS TO RECOGNIZE LOVE BOMBING GUIDE to spot love bombing and walk away from the red flags early: https://tinyurl.com/lovebombguide-htwshownotesRESOURCES FOR YOUR HEALING:
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Enroll in the Relationship Breakthrough Starter Course: leanneoaten.com/claritybundle Enroll in Strong Enough to Leave Exit Planning Course: leanneoaten.com/strongenough Book an Exit Mapping Session: https://calendly.com/leanneoaten/30min Get my video 5 Mistakes to Avoid before Ending Your Relationship video https://awakeningwomensupport.kit.com/41a58fb379 ____________________________________________________ Connect with Leanne on Social Media: Instagram: www.instagram.com/awakeningwomenofficial/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/awakeningwomenofficial/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/theevolvedfeminine Leanne Oaten is a former Registered Professional Counsellor with a background in Counselling Psychology and has over 13 years of experience counselling and coaching women. Over the past 6+ years, she has focused her expertise on educating and helping women identify narcissistic abuse break free from destructive relationships, and transform their lives on the other side of divorce. Her mission is helping successful career-driven, entrepreneurial women and moms who want to reach new levels in their income, success, and health but their destructive, high-conflict relationship is holding them back. She works with powerhouse women who are ready to transform their lives on the other side of narcissistic abuse and turn their pain into power to create a new sense of purpose and fulfillment in their new chapter. You can find out more about her and her offerings at leanneoaten.com Disclaimer: Just a reminder: I'm not a lawyer, what I'm sharing is for support and empowerment, not legal advice. Always speak to a legal professional for guidance on your specific situation.
Heartbreak to Wholeness: Untangling the Mindf*ck of Narcissistic Relationships
Have you ever looked back and wondered why you stayed so long, giving your ex SO many second chances, despite knowing the relationship was somehow toxic?Breaking free from a narcissistic relationship isn't just about willpower—this episode will help you make sense of your past choices so you can move forward with self-compassion.In this episode you will:Gain a clear understanding of why you kept giving your ex second chancesFind insight into why narcissistic relationships feel like an addiction you just can't quitGet a simple exercise you can do today to move beyond self-blame and gain back your self-esteemHit play now to start reclaiming your emotional freedom.MENTIONED:Interest form to work with me: https://tinyurl.com/interest-form-htwshownotesRESOURCES FOR YOUR HEALING:❤️ For more resources on healing from the mindf*ck of confusing relationships so you can securely attach + experience healthy love: https://www.brewolta.com
Have you ever felt drawn to someone who later revealed a manipulative or destructive side? This episode is dedicated to understanding and avoiding narcissistic individuals in your life. Join us as we speak with Dr. Sarah Schewitz, a Licensed Psychologist and Founder of Couples Learn, who specializes in helping people build healthy relationships. We'll explore the subtle qualities that attract narcissistic individuals and, more importantly, learn how to identify red flags early on. Dr. Sarah will equip you with actionable strategies to recognize these traits and protect yourself from emotional harm. This episode cuts through the noise of pop psychology, offering research-backed insights to help you discern fact from fiction. You'll gain valuable tools to establish healthy boundaries and prioritize your well-being. Dr. Sarah Schewitz is particularly skilled at helping high-achieving founders, CEOs, and creatives maintain fulfilling relationships alongside their demanding careers. Her expertise has been featured in Forbes, CNN, The Washington Post, and more, making this an essential listen for anyone seeking to protect themselves from narcissistic relationships. Topics covered: narcissism, narcissistic abuse, avoiding narcissists, relationship red flags, relationship boundaries, Dr. Sarah Schewitz, Couples Learn, healthy relationships, relationship advice, emotional manipulation, high-achievers, CEOs, founders, creatives, relationship patterns, relationship success, relationship therapy, emotional intelligence, communication skills Painting: © Echo and Narcissus, John William Waterhouse, 1903. Connect with Dr. Sarah Schewitz at https://coupleslearn.com to learn more Video link: https://youtu.be/rL4QHwxe44Q Did you enjoy this episode and would like to share some love?
In this part two conversation, Renee Swanson and Jerry Wise delve into the complexities of covert narcissism, exploring the impact of guilt in relationships with narcissistic individuals. They discuss the importance of self-focus and reframing one's internal environment to foster healing and personal growth. The dialogue emphasizes that it is never too late to reclaim oneself and that closure comes from within, not from external validation. Takeaways Guilt often stems from family dynamics, especially with narcissistic parents. It's crucial to distinguish between true guilt and family guilt. Reclaiming oneself is possible at any age. The closure we seek comes from within, not from others. Self-focus is essential for healing from narcissistic relationships. Understanding the systems dynamics can help in recognizing unhealthy patterns. It's important to accept where you are in your healing journey. You don't need the approval of dysfunctional family members to change. Reframing our thoughts can create a healthier internal environment. Humor can be a coping mechanism for dealing with narcissistic abuse.
In this powerful episode, Dr. Debi sits down with Dr. Anthony Mazzella, a psychoanalyst and psychotherapist, to break down the complexities of toxic narcissistic relationships. From love bombing and devaluation to trauma bonding and the psychology behind both the narcissist and their partner, this conversation is filled with eye-opening insights. If you've ever wondered why you feel stuck in a toxic relationship, or how to break free from unhealthy patterns, this episode is a must-listen. Key Topics Covered What is a narcissist? Understanding the key traits of narcissism and how they manifest in relationships. The cycle of narcissistic relationships: From idealization to devaluation, how the pattern keeps people trapped. Is love bombing intentional? The surprising truth about why narcissists appear so invested in the beginning. The ‘Shared Fantasy' concept: Why both partners play a role in the toxic dynamic. The making of a narcissist: How early childhood experiences shape narcissistic tendencies. Why some people are drawn to narcissists: Exploring the unmet emotional needs that make individuals vulnerable to these relationships. Grandiose vs. Vulnerable Narcissists: Understanding the two primary types and how they manipulate relationships differently. Breaking the cycle: Steps to take if you're in a relationship with a narcissist and want to heal. Can narcissists change? The truth about transformation and what it takes to create lasting change. Key Takeaways Not all narcissists intentionally manipulate—many are unaware of their own behaviors. The attraction to narcissists is often rooted in unresolved emotional wounds. Narcissists seek "supply" (validation) in different ways, depending on their type. More effort won't change a narcissist's behavior—understanding the root cause is key. Setting boundaries and shifting the dynamic can create positive change, but only if the narcissist is willing. Awareness is the first step toward healing—both for narcissists and their partners. Resources & Next Steps Learn More About Dr. Anthony Mazzella: Visit DrMazzella.com for his podcast, videos, and additional resources. Resources & Connect with Dr. Debi The PBT Institute: Break free from the pain of betrayal and find safety, love, and trust again. For the betrayed – Reclaim: Heal from your betrayal and take your life back. For the betrayer – Rebuild: Heal yourself and help heal the heart you broke. Take the Post Betrayal Syndrome Quiz – Post-Betrayal Syndrome Quiz Want to become a Certified PBT Coach/Practitioner? Check out our FREE masterclass here. Subscribe & Leave a Review: If you loved this episode, please subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts/Spotify! You can do that by: 1. Going to our Podcast Page- https://pbtinstitute.com/podcast/ 2. Scrolling down to “Listen on Apple Podcasts” and click the Link. It will take you to the Apple page- https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/from-betrayal-to-breakthrough/id1441968059?ls=2&mt=2 3. Clicking on “Listen on Apple Podcast. You'll then be redirected to iTunes where you will see, “Ratings and Reviews. 4. Clicking “Ratings and Reviews” and under “Customer Reviews” you'll see a link that says “Write a Review”. From there, you'll be able to rate and review. Thanks for listening and see you next time! Final Thoughts If you're struggling in a narcissistic relationship, know that awareness is the first step toward change. Whether you choose to leave or work through the challenges, understanding your own emotional patterns and boundaries is essential. Healing is possible, and you don't have to navigate it alone.
If you've ever felt stuck in patterns of overgiving, self-abandonment, or attracting emotionally unavailable people—this is for you. In this live session, watch her heal deep-rooted narcissistic relationship patterns and reconnect with her worth in just 27 minutes. If you liked this video check out this one from the same live event next! https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLmD49HKQ8KUHl6pSmyvA0EmlCD4Uiz0U9
What is a narcissist? This is one of the most common questions I get as a psychologist, and recently, an 80-year-old woman asked me this very question. My answer might surprise you. In this podcast episode, I break down the true definition of narcissism—not just what social media tells you but what it really means to be a narcissist. If you've ever wondered:
Have you ever found yourself behaving in ways you never thought possible—slamming doors, raising your voice, or saying hurtful things—after months or years of emotional manipulation? In today's powerful episode of "Waking Up to Narcissism," we explore the crucial distinction between true abuse and what's often mislabeled as "reactive abuse." Through compelling real-life scenarios and expert analysis, you'll discover why these reactions don't make you "just as bad" and how pathologically kind people often find themselves paired with emotionally immature partners in breakup-resistant relationships. What if the shame you feel about your reactions is actually keeping you trapped in harmful dynamics? Join us as we unpack how to recognize the difference between healthy kindness and self-erasure, identify patterns of emotional immaturity, and reclaim your narrative from those who benefit from your self-doubt. This episode offers not just understanding, but a transformative path forward for anyone who's ever looked in the mirror and wondered, "Have I become the very thing I feared?" 00:00 Introduction and Current Events 00:14 Emotional Immaturity in Everyday Life 03:07 Defining Emotional Maturity 04:46 The Persistence of Emotional Immaturity 07:28 Breaking the Cycle of Emotional Immaturity 09:38 A Real-Life Scenario: Sarah and Mike 13:58 Understanding Reactive Response 26:25 Pathological Kindness vs. Emotional Immaturity 35:42 Understanding Emotionally Immature Behaviors 36:22 The Human Magnet Syndrome 37:21 Codependency and Reactive Responses 38:51 Examples of Reactive Responses 46:10 The Cycle Leading to Reactive Responses 54:24 Differentiation and Balance 58:56 Reframing Reactive Responses 01:03:38 Conclusion and Final Thoughts If you are interested in joining Tony's private Facebook group for women in narcissistic or emotionally immature relationships of any type, please reach out to him at contact@tonyoverbay.com or through the form on the website, HTTP://www.tonyoverbay.com If you are a man interested in joining Tony's "Emotional Architects" group to learn how to better navigate your relationship with a narcissistic or emotionally immature partner or learn how to become more emotionally mature yourself, please reach out to Tony at contact@tonyoverbay.com or through the form on the website, HTTP:www.tonyoverbay.com
Have you ever stopped to ask yourself, are they really a narcissist? The complexities of narcissistic relationships can be overwhelming, leaving you questioning your own sanity. However, it's crucial to understand that the word "narcissist" is merely a label, not a definition of your worth. The spectrum of narcissism is vast, with varying behaviors and traits that can make it challenging to pinpoint. Remember, no true narcissist would ever question their own narcissistic tendencies. If you find yourself pondering this, it's a sign that you're not the problem. Instead, focus on your healing journey, as the path to recovery is not an easy one. Seek support, explore your emotions, and reclaim your voice. Your well-being is paramount, and with the right guidance, you can break free from the cycle of narcissistic abuse. 0:00 Introduction and Podcast Rebrand 1:14 Upcoming Episodes and Guest Interviews 2:48 Identifying Narcissists and the Narcissism Spectrum 4:44 Impact of Narcissistic Relationships on Victims 7:41 Physiological and Emotional Effects of Narcissistic Abuse 11:36 The Abuse Cycle and Trauma Bond 13:09 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Quiz link https://m.me/carolinestrawson?ref=podcast Podcast Resources: Join my FREE Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/thriveafternarcissisticabuse Access my low cost Narcissistic Trauma Recovery Programme https://go.carolinestrawson.com/heal-the-trauma-of-narcissistic-abuse Connect with me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carolinestrawson/ Find me on TikTok!: https://www.tiktok.com/@carolinestrawson My website: https://www.carolinestrawson.com/
In this episode, Rach delves into the complexities of narcissistic relationships, just in time for Valentine's Day. She reflects on her own experiences and expert interviews to shed light on covert passive-aggressive narcissism. Rach explains how such relationships can subtly erode confidence, manipulate emotions, and isolate individuals from their support systems. She underscores the importance of recognizing these signs and provides practical advice on rebuilding self-belief and moving forward.Get your copy of Rachel's New Book Here: Audible, Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Books-A-Millon, Bookshop.org, or wherever books are sold!00:00 Understanding Narcissistic Relationships01:09 Introduction to the Podcast01:47 Valentine's Day Special: Narcissism in Relationships03:27 Recognizing Narcissistic Behaviors08:04 The Impact of Gaslighting14:20 Emotional Manipulation and Control17:21 Undermining Independence21:21 Walking on Eggshells23:24 Taking Credit and Shifting Blame29:05 Isolation from Support Systems34:16 Rebuilding Confidence and Self-Belief44:06 Final Thoughts and ResourcesSign up for Rachel's weekly email: https://msrachelhollis.com/insider/Call the podcast hotline and leave a voicemail! Call (737) 400-4626Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/RachelHollisMotivation/videosFollow along on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/MsRachelHollis To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices.
Leaving a narcissistic relationship is one of the most important things we can do for ourselves. Yet it can be so incredibly hard to leave. We might convince ourselves we can't live without them, or think we're being too hard on them, or keep trying to stay in touch . . . In today's episode, I explain why this happens and provide you with a tool that can help you get peace and clarity to finally move on from a narcissist for good. --- ►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → https://matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat-25-eb/ ►►Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com