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In this explosive episode of On The Contrary, we dive deep into the blurred lines between independence, intimacy, and insecurity.We're asking the real questions: • Is starting an OnlyFans without your partner's approval a form of cheating? • Can a man really handle dating a woman who makes more money from OF than he does? • Is society ready to respect creators the same way we respect CEOs and doctors?From finance to feelings, this convo gets RAW. Expect bold takes, heated debates, and some serious truth bombs.Would YOU be okay with your partner on OnlyFans?
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The conversation gets even hotter in Part 2—because let's be real… once feelings get involved, booty calls get complicated. This episode, we're diving into the real-life situations, the messy moments, and when “just sex” turns into something way more.

Does hip-hop reflect the struggles of the Black community—or does it reinforce them? In this unapologetic episode of On The Contrary, the conversation gets deep, emotional, and real as we unpack the impact of hip-hop on Black relationships, families, and identity.We dive into the hard questions:Is hip-hop destroying the Black household or just exposing it?How does music influence how Black men treat Black women—and vice versa?Are absent fathers the real root issue, or is it something deeper?Can love survive in a culture shaped by lyrics glorifying money, power, and pain?This isn't just about music. This is about accountability, healing, and breaking cycles. If you're ready for a raw, unfiltered look at culture, community, and truth—press play.

Are booty calls really no strings attached, or is someone always catching feelings? This episode, we're breaking down the game—from sneaky links to whether a late-night “come thru” can turn into something real.

Is polygamy real love or just a way to avoid commitment? We're debating whether having multiple partners is about freedom, emotional maturity, or control. Does it actually work, or is it just chaos?

Is it ever okay to sleep with someone who's married? Is cheating always black and white, or are there gray areas? In this explosive episode of On The Contrary, we dive into the moral, emotional, and societal consequences of infidelity.

Why is it that when men cheat, they want a second chance—but when women cheat, it's unforgivable? In this explosive conversation, we break down the double standards of infidelity, how men and women cheat differently, and the role social media plays in temptation. Emotional cheating vs. physical cheating—does one hurt more? Let's talk about it!

In this episode, we have Eliza Reign in the studio, and things get heated when she and Organik discuss a man's role in dating. We also find out if dating someone who lives far has its benefits and we help a listener who is dating a younger woman.

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In this episode we put together all the best advice, laughs and best moments of 2024.

On this episode we learn about the pitfalls of workplace relationships and the hosts give a listener some advice after making a mistake at work that could cost her the bag.

In this episode we find out who is still thinking about their ex, learning how to communicate with your partner and we give advice to a woman who is dating a younger man.

On this episode we have Diamond the Body sitting in the studio with the crew to discuss giving your partner a hall pass, being open minded about toys and googling someone before you ignore them.

In this episode, we discover what we would change if we could travel back in time and how you upgrade your partner's style. We also help a listener who is dealing with a jealous husband.

Have you ever dated someone who embarrassed you or cheated to get out of a relationship? In this episode, we find out if those strategies work. We also discuss what to do after a breakup and what to avoid in new relationships.

In this episode, we find out if soul mates are real, if gifts should be returned after a breakup and what to do if you start missing an old flame. We also help a listener who is back in the market after a being in a long relationship. 01:02 Are soul mates real? 03:02 Do you miss old flames? 04:34 Does Mr. Organik have a kindred spirit? 10:12 What lessons have you learned from a past relationship that brought into a new one? 16:48 Can you find love after a breakup?

In this episode, we find out if life was easier before making money and we ask the age-old question does money buy happiness? We also help a listener who just came into some money and we find out if you can build an empire while also maintaining a relationship.

In this episode, we find out who likes to prank their significant other and if there is ever a time when your goals are more important than your relationship. The hosts also help a listener with a marriage ultimatum.

In this episode, the hosts travel back in time and we find out what they would tell their younger selves. We also help a listener who has a BFF with sticky fingers.

In this episode we find out if one of the hosts has ever stolen from a partner and what's the craziest lie they have ever told someone. We also get to the bottom of long-distance relationships and if they ever work.

In this episode, we find out what's the craziest thing someone has done for love, why checking your partner's phone is risky and we help a listener deal with a cheating fiasco.  00:50 Have you ever created a fake account to find out if your significant lover is cheating? 03:20 What's in Organik's phone? 06:00 What are your last 10 photos? 08:45 What's the craziest thing you've done in the name of love? 11:20 Why is Xena sleeping in the studio? 16:06 Luis shares a wild story about how far you will go for love. 21:03 He cheated on me 6 months ago! 28:00 Is monogamy overrated?  37:55 Quit the road rage.

In this episode we find out if any hosts have ever kept a financial secret from a partner, we ask if a man support you and we breakdown why people should open their horizons when dating.  01:05 Have you ever kept a financial secret from your partner? 05:32 Have you ever lent money to a partner and not been paid back? 17:30 Should a man you're with financially support you? 25:40 Should a man court you? 27:35 Who should pay if you go out to eat? 32:02 Telling your partner your financial flaws? 35:46 Opening your horizons when dating. 39:18 Looking at who your partner is following on social media.

In part two we have the crew and Smart giving their thoughts on marriage, power structures and giving sound advice to a listener who is having an issue with her boyfriend. Follow Smart https://www.instagram.com/thesmartguy_?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

On this episode, we have motivational speaker, artist, and future light heavyweight champ Smart discussing his keys to success and why leadership and accountability are important in the black community. Follow Smart https://www.instagram.com/thesmartguy_?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

In this episode, we discover what happens when the honeymoon phase is over and if any hosts have ever ghosted someone. We also answer a listener's questions, give some tips on how cheaters get caught and we find out why safety is always important. 00:39 Have You Ever Clicked With Someone In The Bedroom But Hated Their Personality?  07:56 How Do You Handle Red Flags Once The Honeymoon Period Is Over? 23:17 Is Subscribing To Your Ex's OF Page Cheating? 37:42 Get This Off My Chest!

In this episode, the hosts discuss which city has the best gentlemen's club and why people are addicted to certain private home videos. The crew also gets to the bottom of why people cheat and we have something to get off our chest this episode.

In this episode, the hosts break out their finest sleepwear as they discuss what they would do in Vegas if they could hang out with any celebrity and had to spend a million dollars in 48 hours. We also find out how far into the relationship granny panties make their first appearance and the hosts show off their acting skills. 

In this episode, we discover what song gets the team started for the day and why holding money to your ear might be considered clown behavior. The crew also gives a listener some great advice and we get something off our chest!

In this episode, we discover which countries have the most beautiful people, who are better at keeping secrets and the hosts have something to get off their chests. We also find out what secret talents the crew has that nobody knows about.

In this episode, we find out how the hosts have grown since their past relationships, why some people stay in abusive relationships and the crew introduces a new segment that will have you rolling on the floor laughing.

In this episode, we give flowers to those who helped us along the way and we find out how our past affects our current relationships. We also give a scorned listener advice on what to do about a co-worker who snatched her crush away.

In this episode we find out what percentage of your ex's want you back and the hosts reveal the biggest arguments they've had with their partners. The crew also gives advice on how to deal with a pathological liar.

How important is forgiveness in a relationship? What things have you learned from past partners and relationships? We get to the bottom of these topics and find out who is actually thee prize in a relationship.

Can you be friends with an ex? Can your new boo be friends with their exes? We explore this topic, give the people some great book recommendations and get in everyone's business with a confession segment that you won't want to miss.

On this episode we explore age gaps and being kept. Rah's all men cheat campaign continues and the jokes roll in as always, join us for the latest episode of On The Contrary

The hosts get personal with this week's opening question and an ambiguous question of the week leads to a spicy conversation with the hosts. You don't want to miss this episode of On The Contrary.

From subs to tough love we learn a bit more about our hosts and what makes them tick. Join us for another episode of On the Contrary.

If you want to see how we go from celebrity crushes to the black experience and end up becoming Asian students in under an hour join us for another wild ride on this episode of On The Contrary.

The hosts discuss the double standard when it comes to beauty standards and the pros and cons of going under the knife. Join us for this hilarious episode! 

We have switched things up, new studio, who this? And we have our first guest ever! Join us as we get to know author and dating coach @Passport_Cutty

Join us for another wild episode where we discuss everything from Porn Names to Astrology. The jokes are never ending and we sprinkled in some real advice for a listener with an issue.   

In a never-ending journey to be better partners, the hosts explore the idea of forgiveness and what love and support look like in a relationship.

The Cast gets serious…well as serious as they can be with tips to get through the tough times. An email from a listener brings opposing views in this hilarious new episode. Join us so you can get some game and get these jokes.

In this episode we explore how learning from your past relationships and mistakes can help you in the future. Laugh with us as we struggle to accept our faults and become the best version of ourselves.

Not sure where to find a quality partner? Need tips on how to identify a good one? Look no further, our hosts give you a lil bit of game to help you hunt down and bag a quality partner?

Our hosts explore body swapping, being a good partner and give advice to a husband going through it. Join us!

We learn more about our hosts as they bring levity to serious convos about having children, inheritances and more…

We take a trip down memory lane and reminisce about an experience that was either Wild, Funny or Embarrassing. Join us for story time!

Are you knocking it out of the park every time? What's the perfect soundtrack in the bedroom? These questions and plenty more get explored on this episode of On the Contrary

We had a clear direction when we started this episode, we took a couple detours, talked some ish, learned some ish and as always leaving you wanting more…