Riding with THE RADFORDS

Clearing Space, Creating Peace (S3E1): Is your home—or your heart—too full to function? In this episode, Jesse and Almeta dig into what it really means to clear space and create peace in your relationship. From cluttered basements to emotional baggage, The Radfords share how Almeta's “Power of 25” vision board sparked a deeper conversation about letting go of what no longer serves you. If you've been meaning to declutter your home or your heart but life keeps getting in the way, this one's for you. Tune in for a real, relatable, and restorative talk on making room for what matters most.

In this revealing and heartfelt episode of Riding With The RADFORDS, we sit down with a couple we've cherished for over 30 years, a friendship that began in our college days. Now celebrating 25 years of marriage, they open up about their journey together—the challenges they've faced, the victories they've celebrated, and the wisdom they've gained along the way.

In this heartfelt episode of Riding With THE RADFORDS, we sit down with our longtime friends Darrin and Shawnte for an intimate conversation. Having met on the boys' AAU basketball circuit, our families share a unique bond with so many parallels—both of us with one son, one daughter, and daughters with the same first names. And to top it off, we even share the same wedding date! Darrin and Shawnte open up about how they met and the intentional steps they've taken to keep their love and relationship vibrant and thriving through the years. Tune in for an inspiring and relatable discussion about building a lasting legacy of love.

In this episode, Pastor J. and Lady Al explore the intriguing question of whether flirting should be considered cheating or not. Together, they'll dive into the distinctions between emotional and physical infidelity, the significance of intent and secrecy, and the varying perceptions of flirting among men and women. With insights from psychological studies and expert perspectives, The RADFORDS will guide you through understanding this complex issue and how it affects relationships. Join us for an engaging and thought-provoking discussion that promises to spark meaningful conversations.

Have you ever wondered how the quest for love can sometimes turn quickly into a spectacle? In a world where reality t.v. and viral shows turn deep emotions into a game, how do we hold on to the true essence of vulnerability and connection that God intended for us to have? Buckle up as Jesse and Almeta get to the heart of the matter when it comes to being vulnerable during dating.

Have you ever assumed the worst about your partner, only to regret it later? Join the conversation as we explore common relationship pitfalls and effective strategies to overcome them. Tune in to learn the Radfords' insightful "real-time relationship hacks" that can transform the way you approach and nurture your relationship.

In a fast-paced world, it's important to remember the biblical foundation of Covenant Marriage. Striving to honor and prioritize our marriages above our often demanding jobs can definitely be a challenge; not to mention when someone in the office misreads our kindness as an invitation for something else. Guarding our hearts and our marriages in the workplace is what we're discussing in this episode.

Welcome to the Riding With THE RADFORDS Podcast! In today's episode, we challenge the tradition of New Year's resolutions with a fresh perspective: "Don't Resolve; EVOLVE." In this episode, we'll uncover the differences between resolutions and evolution, embrace a mindset of ongoing growth and transformation, and help you strengthen your relationship by evolving together. If you're interested in discovering a different approach to personal and relational growth and learning practical strategies to navigate challenges and foster a resilient marriage; then join us on this transformative episode of "Riding With THE RADFORD" Subscribe, share, and connect with us for more relationship insights. Remember: Don't Resolve; EVOLVE for a stronger, more fulfilling marriage.

Explore the intricate dynamics of a high-profile power couple in this podcast episode. The Radfords extract some spiritual lessons embedded within a Hollywood couple's marital journey, where open communication, forgiveness, and extending grace are emphasized. Gain nuggets of wisdom to nurture healthier relationships and empower covenant connections as you RIDE WITH THE RADFORDS.

THE RADFORDS jump into the deep end of the pool on this one. These is so much chatter about love going stale and stagnant. While this may be "a thing," it doesn't have to be your thing. And even if it maybe, there are strategies and practices that can help reignite the flickering flame that may be your relationship. Ride with THE RADFORDS as they address this rather contentious topic.

In this episode The RADFORDS have to think back over 30 years since they were dating and then try to compare and contrast "then" to "now"! While the results of dating may be the same, "to no longer be single." The rules have definitely changed. Jesse and Al give us keys to God-Centered dating and some actionable items along the way.

Navigating the digital landscape can be tricky - sometimes we say too much online and let way too many people into our business. We must be mindful of what we share - keeping our private matters offline is key.

There is a fine line between Critique and Criticism. Finding the balance between the two can be difficult. This extension of Episode 16 digs deeper into the Signs, Symptoms, and Solutions of Criticism that cuts too deep. Ride with Radfords as they explore this elusive topic.

It's been said that “Everyone's a critic,” but is that always a good thing? While we know that none of us are perfect, it doesn't stop us from pointing out the flaws and imperfections in others. That may seem fine for strangers, but what does it mean when we do it as spouses? In this episode, the Radfords reveal strategies for couples to crush the cycle of criticism and pave the way for positive and productive feedback.

Ever wondered how others saw your Marriage Covenant? Sometimes the most honest answers come directly from our children. Listen as The Radford kids share candid feedback regarding what they have seen and how it has impacted and may influence current and future choices.

With breakups, affairs, entanglements and public fallouts occurring almost daily, marriages seem to be suffering. In this episode the Radfords ask the question ... IS BEING FAITHFUL STILL A THING?

While prayer and wise counsel should always be the primary sources sought out when it comes to recognizing and discerning if someone is or is not your Covenant Partner. Pastor J. and Lady Al discuss some of the more practical and tangible evidence couples can look for when one needs to know if they've found THE ONE!

If you could go back in time and give 3 pieces of advice to yourself after one year of marriage, what would it be? Pastor J and Almeta get in their "way-back" machine and hypothetically do just that. Buckle up and Ride With THE RADFORDS.

For better or for worse? For richer or poorer? when the ups and downs of life happen, can your spouse still count on you to be their biggest cheerleader? In this episode, the Radfords discuss the benefits and the pitfalls of fandom as it relates to the marriage covenant. Come along for the ride!

Toxic behaviors and mindsets can threaten the overall health and stability of Covenant relationships. Identifying some common traits early can save you from a ton of heartache. Pull up a seat as Pastor J and First Lady Al as they identify what relational toxicity could look like and ways to recover or get help.

When we're single and finding a life-partner becomes a priority, sometimes it can be difficult to keep from focusing on the wrong things. Listen closely as The Radfords and two of their oldest and closest friends, Avery and Denise Henry, drop helpful and practical nuggets concerning staying focused on what's truly important when it comes to courtship and the love that leads to Covenant.

Legally, marriage is often classified as a "contract" but spiritually it's so much more than that! Marriage is a Covenant Agreement that binds those entering in to it to something older than the institution of marriage itself. Love that seeks another's highest good is the greatest distinguishing factor between marriage just being a legally binding contract or being a spiritually binding covenant agreement.

In this episode Pastor J. and Lady Al discuss two specific kinds of intimacy and how they play a vital role in the covenant relationship. One of these intimacies can stand alone from the other but, when properly aligned, the "hidden" intimacy greatly enhances the more visible one.

Don't get it twisted, there are times when aggression is warranted & necessary, but aggression shouldn't be our default setting for everything; especially in relationships. Pastor J & Lady Al get into recognizing and understanding the differences between aggression and assertiveness in covenant relationships.

Contrary to popular opinion, healthy couples do exist. They are not immune from conflict, they just do things differently. In this episode, the Radfords discuss three distinct characteristics of healthy couples and how these traits determine their overall relational health.

Life is filled with challenges and how we handle them can make or break us. In this episode, Pastor J.'s parents join the conversation as the couples discuss potential pitfalls when faced with transitions and change and identify the posture needed to overcome them.

In this episode, the Radfords explain how real love is not what we see in most movies or tv and it rarely is "easy breezy". Real love and real relationships require real work. Listen as the couple shares the importance of setting realistic expectations that insulate one another from disappointment and let down.

In this episode, Pastor J. and Al share how their 30-year journey began. Recalling your courtship and the things that brought you together can refresh Covenant Love. So pull out some old pictures, or play a favorite song from when you first met and be intentional about rehearsing your love story.

Just because we're in love doesn't automatically make us in sync! In this Inaugural episode Pastor J. and Al point out some of the "potholes" that throw off our covenant alignment, causing premature wear and tear. Learn the tools and strategies they've used that can recover and recalibrate your relationship.