The Keys and Anklets Podcast

In March of this year I attended Splash Mocha in Atlanta and when I arrived, my brother Mr. Mocha invited me to stay at his home before the event started. We sat up one night and had a discussion about what couples can do to identify and attract good Bulls. Please listen to hear what we had to say. I think you will find this discussion very enlightening.

Every once in a while, I encounter a couple who I find utterly fascinating, and C and L are one of those couples. Theirs is a story of long-term love and discovery. What started out as a high school romance has evolved into a long term committed marriage, raising of children and making their cuckold/FLR dynamic a fixture in their lives. I'm happy that they were willing to come on the show and let me be nosey. Enjoy.

I am happy to bring you another installment of my China Shop series. In this installment I am joined by Ron, a longtime friend from Boston. I ran into Ron at Splash Mocha in Atlanta and we decided to jump on and talk all about his journey into the lifestyle. A journey that I learned had a very interesting start. Ron is a cool guy who is big on manners and pleasing whichever lady he is with. There's nothing like shining light on the guys who I feel truly exemplify what being a Bull is all about.SLS - WhatHappensOnSLSSDC - WhatHappensOnSDeeCFet - WhatHappensOnFETKik - WhatHappensOnAFFTelegram - Ron_BostonMA

For anyone who is either thinking about getting involved with OnlyFans or currently doing so, this is a must listen. I connected with my good friend Lupe (husband of the sexy and incredible Micha from Ep. 48) at Splash Mocha in Atlanta and he came on and dropped so much knowledge about what it takes to have a successful OnlyFans.Lupe and Micha on Twitter - @LupeMicha

It is common knowledge that women involved in the lifestyle often have their own insecurities to overcome. What is talked about less often are the insecurities that the male partners often face once a couple enters this lifestyle. This is a very thought provoking episode that I encourage couples to listen to together if possible. My hope is that this will spark some healthy dialog between husbands and wives.

I had such a good time talking to Taylor and Chris who are a Stag/Vixen couple. Theirs is a story of high school sweethearts who got started in this lifestyle in a most unusual way. I wanted to have them on because their dynamic illustrates something that I've been saying for sometime, it's best not to try to identify hotwife vs cuckold couples based on the acts they enjoy. As you listen you will have a better idea of what I am talking about.

In the short time I have known Mr. Mocha, he has become a dear and trusted friend. He and I talk often and we will have some seriously deep conversations on the lifestyle. We often said to each other, “you know, we really should record these conversations”. We decided to take it a step further and make it a live event which we host on Twitter spaces. This is how Bull Shit was born. Just 2 Bulls in the lifestyle talking about the shit that Bulls talk about. In our first attempt we discuss who is responsible in a Couple/Bull dynamic for unwanted behavior. We were joined by several guests during this recording and I think that you will enjoy the points that were made. Keep in mind, this is not about us telling anyone how they should walk this path, we are merely giving you food for thought and hopefully our discussions will spark conversations between those that you share this lifestyle with.

I couldn't think of a better way to commemorate my 100th episode than by having a conversation with my longtime friend and fellow Bull, Boneslinger2003. He and I go way back, and I've always enjoyed the conversations we've had about the lifestyle. I was long overdue in bringing him into the China Shop and now he is here. Listen and learn as he details his journey into the lifestyle and shares his hard-earned wisdom with guys who are looking to separate themselves from the herd by reaching that next level of being a Bull. This is a conversation that you will most certainly enjoy.

Let's be honest, we've all dealt with some form of insecurity in our lives and it's not something that many of us are willing to talk about. In this episode I am joined by a wonderful couple who were willing to take that walk and share their deepest feelings on how their insecurities impacted their journey and how they each learned to love themselves. The beauty of their journey is hearing the confidence that they now both possess which you will clearly hear the moment you hear their energy. This is an episode that I encourage everyone to listen to, even if you are not an insecure person yourself, perhaps it will give you some much needed insight. This is one that shows the power to heal that can sometimes come with this lifestyle.

A cuckold relationship usually comprises 3 different dynamics, 2 of which are discussed a lot, the wife and her husband and the wife and her Bull. The 3rd one, the dynamic between the cuckold and his wife's Bull, is seldom discussed. Well in this episode Michael C. sits down and talks with 4 cuckold husbands and goes into detail about what this dynamic means to them and why it is so important. This is a truly thought-provoking episode and one that will hopefully get people to pay more attention to this often-overlooked relationship.

This is an episode that I've been wanting to do for quite some time. I'm happy to finally be able to bring you my conversation with a black couple who are enjoying the stag/vixen lifestyle. Listen as they detail their unique journey into the lifestyle and how it has enriched their marriage.

The dynamic between husbands and their wife's Bull is a very interesting one. I wanted to give my listeners a behind the curtain look at what this dynamic is all about and how Bulls view husbands. My hope is that this episode sparks more conversations between husbands, wives and Bulls.

In this installment of the China Shop, Michael C welcomes his friend and fellow Bull, Ashley Del Toro. Ashley is a successful Bull from the Windy City and he shares his journey which began when he first discovered his father's collection of Penthouse Forums many years ago. Ashley is a Bull with a grounded and captivating approach to the lifestyle. He is the quintessential Bull and one who is very much sought after. Once you listen to this episode you will see exactly why.

What happens when a man has been a Bull in the lifestyle for many years and begins dating a woman who is curious about the lifestyle? What happens when that woman identifies with being a Bull herself? In this installment of The China Shop Michael C introduces you to Caleb and his lady Mya. This is a fascinating conversation which, in addition to telling the story of Caleb's journey to becoming a Bull, also addresses a very interesting question….Can a woman be a Bull?

There is a situation that occurs with some couples in the lifestyle in which the male partner will behave in an inconsistent manner. When he is horny, he acts as if he is all for the lifestyle, when he is not, he would rather not deal with it and will sometimes even become angry or frustrated. This behavior can leave some women feeling like a “Kink Dispenser” (thank you Mistress J for that term). In this episode Scarlet and Michael talk about Kink Dispensinsing and the damage that it can cause. Do you treat your partner like a kink dispenser? Does your partner make you feel like one? This is an episode that you need to listen to in order to find out.

In this episode Michael C welcomes Hotwife Jade to the podcast. She details her journey from dating and marrying her high school sweetheart to becoming a full fledged hotwife. Hers is a story of self discovery and highlights the benefits of this lifestyle beyond sexual gratification.

Many of you have heard me talk about the importance of community within the wife sharing lifestyle but I realized that some of you don't know exactly how to go about connecting with other like minded couples. So I decided to be proactive and help people get together. This episode is a deep dive into what my Community Building Project is all about, why I'm doing it and how you can be involved. If you are not yet involved I hope you will sign up so that you can meet more people in our very special tribe.How to sign up - https://www.keysandanklets.com/communityIf you have signed up and not received an email yet, please check your inbox/spam folder. If it is not there please contact me. The email address is keysandankletslive@gmail.com

Michael C. Invites G and R, the cuckold couple behind the OurRedViolin twitter account, to share their incredible love story. The saga of G and R developing a relationship seems almost stranger than fiction. Beginning as lovers under the most intriguing circumstances, they came together after nearly two decades to form an incredibly strong, trusting bond. G and R share how they developed an open and honest relationship style that lead them to explore the cuckolding dynamic. This interview, recorded on their honeymoon, is a beautiful tribute to a couple who have attained their highest purpose together.

S and J are a Hotwife couple brimming with happiness about their Hotwife relationship dynamic. Michael C. Invites S and J to share the unlikely origins of their relationship. Starting off as genuine friends, J offered consistent support and encouragement to S through difficult times. J and S blossomed from friends, to lovers, to married partners all while remaining open and honest with one another about their sexual fantasies. S and J share that hotwifing has increased their sexual passion for one another and express how lucky they both feel to be adventuring through the lifestyle with one another.

On this installment Michael C. welcomes Susanna to the podcast. Her journey is a bit different in that she is not married yet has found nothing but acceptance and encouragement as she explores the hotwife/BBC lifestyle. Listen as she details how much the lifestyle has changed her views and her own personal confidence. This is an episode that really drives home the importance of community.

It's often said that women in hotwifing and cuckolding dynamics attain a level of confidence never experienced before in their lives. Michael C. Invites T and L to share how cuckolding and D/s dynamics have elevated L's confidence and helped her realize what her husband has always seen: her beauty and sexual power. T and L share how completely open communication and willingness to share fantasies developed into a desire to explore non-monogamy and kink. Listeners will be inspired by T and L's passion for one another and the benefits cuckolding has brought to their relationship.

“A cuckold male, by its classic definition of a man who is monogamous and a woman who isn't, that seemed perfect for me.” The perspective of a woman who sought out and initiated a cuckolding dynamic in her relationship is not often heard. Michael C.'s guest Miss C did exactly that and has been enjoying a cuckolding dynamic with her husband ever since. Miss C shares how her experience as a cuckoldress has provided a new definition of freedom and has bonded her closely with her husband. Miss C also shares her husband's perspective on his cuckolding desires and how this relationship style had contributed to his self-actualization.

This episode encompasses a very dear topic to host Michael C.: the importance of community. Michael shares how beneficial creating friendships with like-minded couples can be for mutual support and camaraderie. Michael shares that friendships among members of the hotwifing and cuckolding community are incredibly deep, fun, and transparent. Whether they take place in person or online, lifestyle friendships have the potential to heighten every aspect of the lifestyle.

A great deal of information surrounding creating and fostering a healthy cuckolding dynamic centers around the thoughts and behaviors of husbands. Michael C. invites Cuckoldress Scarlet to discuss the flip side of the coin: how does a cuckoldress take responsibility for feeding her cuckold's spirit? Michael and Scarlet discuss the many methods of keeping cuckold husbands engaged and attentive. Scarlet shares how she alternates the tools in her cuckoldress tool box and candidly divulges that just because you can do something within a cuckolding dynamic, it doesn't always mean you should.

The presence of interracial eroticism has prompted a great deal of discussion within the hotwifing and cuckolding lifestyle. The conversation surrounding common lifestyle terminology such as big black cock (BBC) and queen of spades (QOS) has lead some to wonder about the appropriateness of their use within the lifestyle and how they originated. Michael C invites three experienced black men in the lifestyle with over 80 years of combined experience to engage in an honest and revealing conversation about their views on raceplay, terminology, and fetishization. Michael, Pagan, Demetri, and Mr. Mocha speak frankly about their lifestyle experiences and share how the interracial elements of the lifestyle enhance their experience. If you've ever wondered how the men who fulfill so many sensual fantasies truly feel about the elements of race in the lifestyle, these episodes are for you.

The presence of interracial eroticism has prompted a great deal of discussion within the hotwifing and cuckolding lifestyle. The conversation surrounding common lifestyle terminology such as big black cock (BBC) and queen of spades (QOS) has lead some to wonder about the appropriateness of their use within the lifestyle and how they originated. Michael C invites three experienced black men in the lifestyle with over 80 years of combined experience to engage in an honest and revealing conversation about their views on raceplay, terminology, and fetishization. Michael, Pagan, Demetri, and Mr. Mocha speak frankly about their lifestyle experiences and share how the interracial elements of the lifestyle enhance their experience. If you've ever wondered how the men who fulfill so many sensual fantasies truly feel about the elements of race in the lifestyle, these episodes are for you.Twitter - https://twitter.com/KeysandAnkletsIG - https://www.instagram.com/keysandankletspodcast/Support the show - https://www.patreon.com/keysandankletspodcastMerch - https://thekaboutique.com/Submit a question for the show - https://www.keysandanklets.com/submit-a-question

Michael C. Invites his good friends Mr. and Mrs. Mocha to the Keys and Anklets podcast to share their journey into the wifesharing lifestyle. Mr. and Mrs. Mocha have a unique dynamic as an interracial Stag/Vixen couple. Mr. Mocha shares his introduction into the lifestyle as a black bull and how his early experiences transformed into a passion for this style of relationship. Mrs. Mocha describes how Mr. Mocha's support and consistency inspired her to pursue her fantasies and blossom as a sexually empowered women. Mr. and Mrs. Mocha share how rigorous honesty and communication have brought so many positive memories and fun moments into their lives over the course of their many years in the lifestyle.

The Keys and Anklets podcast welcomes its first cuckold couple from the UK to have a conversation with Michael C about their unique dynamic. Anna and David have a unique origin story: they met when David sought out her services as a Professional Dominatrix and Medical Mistress. Anna is a vibrant woman with a commanding presence who shares her journey from vanilla life to working as a professional dominatrix to honing her skills within a very specific kink. Her most recent evolution has been discovering a love of cuckolding her husband with other men and involving him through teasing and chastity. Anna and David are a joy to listen to and will leave listeners fascinated by the developments in their loving cuckolding journey.

Michael C. welcomes a very intriguing guest to the Keys and Anklets podcast: a woman who identifies with the elusive and fascinating Cucquean role. Taylor shares her development as a submissive within a D/s dynamic and how her submissive energy exposed her to the intensity of cuckolding relationships. Michael and Taylor discuss the various kinks that inform Taylor's desire to be a Cucquean including degradation play and race play. Taylor brings a fascinating perspective and displays a great deal of confidence in her ideal relationship dynamic.

Host Michael C. presents a fireside chat about the unfortunate tendency of husbands seeking a hotwifing or cuckolding dynamic with their wives to push the issue excessively on their wives. Michael explains to unexpected consequences of pushy behavior and encourages husbands to find alternate outlets for their energy. Michael explains the benefits of allowing wives to progress into the lifestyle at their own pace while recognizing that the hotwifing and/or cuckolding lifestyle may not be a good fit for every woman. This episode encourages husbands to consistently strive to be excellent communicators and listeners for their wives.

Michael C. welcomes a very intriguing guest to the Keys and Anklets podcast: a woman who identifies with the elusive and fascinating Cucquean role. Taylor shares her development as a submissive within a D/s dynamic and how her submissive energy exposed her to the intensity of cuckolding relationships. Michael and Taylor discuss the various kinks that inform Taylor's desire to be a Cucquean including degradation play and race play. Taylor brings a fascinating perspective and displays a great deal of confidence in her ideal relationship dynamic.

Splash mocha is the premiere event for couples, black gentlemen, and single women seeking to dive deeply into the interracial lifestyle. Michael C attended the event in Atlanta this May and connected with Mr. and Mrs. Mocha from the OFACEZ podcast. This episode provides valuable insight into the Splash Mocha event and answers questions for those curious about attending. Share a laugh with Michael & Mr. and Mrs. Mocha as they recap the highlights of their sexy experiences at his one-of-a-kind event.

Hotwives have a specific brand of confidence that radiates when they discuss the details of their sexy experiences. Michael C. welcomes Real Hotwife to the Keys and Anklet's podcast to share her journey as a current Hotwife of seven years. Real Hotwife shares how the amazing sex she enjoys with her husband facilitated their mutual desire for her to spread her wings sexually. Real Hotwife is genuine and frank about how much she enjoys sex with her bulls and how the lifestyle continues to fuel the fire of desire in her marriage.

Cuckolding couples often overcome a great deal of turmoil in the pursuit of living their truth and developing a healthy dynamic. Michael C.'s guests B and G exemplify that beauty can come from ashes and the most extraordinary love can blossom from the most unlikely situation. B and G share the development of their cuckolding dynamic with warmth and candor. They are rigorously honest about the reality of a cuckold marriage and share how their lives have been enriched by the acceptance, intimacy, and healthy love intrinsic to this relational style. If there were ever an episode that would be considered vital to all individuals in the cuckolding lifestyle or pursuing the cuckolding lifestyle, it is this one.

Michael C.'s latest guests A and J are prime examples of how trust and honesty develop into a mutually beneficial lifestyle in a Hotwife dynamic. A and J share that they met and developed in their relationship within the church. J shares that he became aware of hotwifing at the earliest stages of their development. J describes the process of contemplating his desire for his wife to become a Hotwife for a great deal of time before sharing them with his wife. A describes the beautiful process of building confidence and connecting with her sexual being as a Hotwife. The couple shares an inspiring message about how they integrate the force that brought them together, spirituality, into their sexual expression as a Hotwire couple.

A great deal of discussion surrounding feelings in the hotwifing and cuckolding lifestyle takes on a cautionary tone-and rightfully so. However, there are a great deal of positive emotions that occur for couples and bulls that should be celebrated for connective and supportive bonds they help build. Michael and Scarlet share their personal experience with positive emotions in the lifestyle and provide insights into the importance of feelings being experienced within a time and space in the lifestyle.

Back by popular demand, the Keys and Anklets Podcast proudly presents the second installment of the Bull Roundtable. The roundtable allows listeners to field questions to three experienced and highly engaged bulls in the Hotwife and Cuckold lifestyles: Demetri, Pagan, and host Michael C. The gentlemen bulls share their nuanced and passionate outlook on interracial cuckolding, dominance and submission, advice to couples seeking bulls, and a myriad of other enlightening topics. Listeners are drawn into a world that is seldom witnessed beyond lifestyle events: the genuine camaraderie and mutual respect bulls share among each other. This episode wills sate your wonder about the men that skillfully transition fantasy to reality for the couples in the Hotwife and Cuckolding lifestyles.

Back by popular demand, the Keys and Anklets Podcast proudly presents the second installment of the Bull Roundtable. The roundtable allows listeners to field questions to three experienced and highly engaged bulls in the Hotwife and Cuckold lifestyles: Demetri, Pagan, and host Michael C. The gentlemen bulls share their nuanced and passionate outlook on interracial cuckolding, dominance and submission, advice to couples seeking bulls, and a myriad of other enlightening topics. Listeners are drawn into a world that is seldom witnessed beyond lifestyle events: the genuine camaraderie and mutual respect bulls share among each other. This episode will sate your wonder about the men that skillfully transition fantasy to reality for the couples in the Hotwife and Cuckolding lifestyles.

Listeners of the He Said She Said series are likely very aware of Michael C. And Cuckoldress Scarlet’s overwhelmingly positive views on women who identify as sluts within the Hotwifing and Cuckolding lifestyles. In this installment Michael and Scarlet deconstruct the practice of slut-shaming in the lifestyle and in broader society. Inspired by the article “Men Love Sluts: How the Fear of Bigger Penises Flues Slut Shaming”, Michael and Scarlet share personal anecdotes from the male and female perspective about how damaging slut shaming is for everyone seeking a healthy and empowered sex life. This episode gives a panoramic view of the effects of slut-shaming and challenges listeners to renew their experience with the word slut.

Michael C. invites his listeners to consider the common practice of husbands hastily projecting a wife-sharing fantasy onto their wives, especially in the early stages of introducing the dynamic. Michael outlines the common pitfalls that occur when husbands eagerly desire to skip ahead in the process while not fully enjoying the current stage of their wife's sexual development. This fireside chat encourages couples at every stage in this lifestyle to cherish each other and savor all the sexy moments in this beautiful process of intimacy and growth.

Couples engaging in the cuckolding or hotwifing lifestyle are in a consistent and constant state of growth. Michael C. Invites a cuckold couple from the early episodes of the Keys and Anklets Podcast, Anne and James (Episode 15 and 16), to share how their experience has changed and developed in recent years. Anne shares changes that blossomed from her experience as a sexually empowered woman in a loving cuckold marriage. She has come to embrace her inner slut and, with the full support of her husband James, she has grown to enjoy the variety and freedom that flows from their cuckolding dynamic. Anne and James also share the benefits they have gained from meeting like minded cuckold couples and developing friendships. Catching up with Anne and James is an encouraging and positive listening experience.

The process of discovering and living our your truth is courageous and always worth while. Michael C. Is joined by DevotedStagUK to discuss his journey into the hotwifing lifestyle with his wife. DevotedStag shares the origins of his desire for his wife to pursue sensual pleasure with other men and how it took hold early in their marriage. As is often the case in pursing the lifestyle, the reality didn’t always live up to the fantasy for DevotedStag and his wife . All of that changed when DevotedStag and his wife began listening to the Keys and Anklets podcast and began connecting with the intellectual and emotional depths of hotwifing. DevotedStag truly lives up to his name as a passionate and compassionate stag. Listeners will surely be moved by his level of devotion to his treasured wife’s happiness.

There is a strong mythos of enigma surrounding bulls in the lifestyle. Men who inhabit the bull’s role with hotwife and/or cuckold couples have a wealth of fascinating observations and reflections on the lifestyle. For the first time, host Michael C. Brings listeners beyond “the china shop” for a panel discussion with two seasoned and impassioned bulls: Dimitri and Pagan. Michael, Pagan, and Dimitri share an engaging conversation about many of the topics that are most often pondered about the role of a bull including the difference between sexual relationships with wives and single women, navigating parties, and experiencing miscommunication. This episode pulls back the curtain and gives listeners a rare look at the perspectives, camaraderie, and friendship between three experienced bulls.

Michael C presents an important message about the role of photographing and filming play in the hotwifing and cuckolding lifestyle. The practice of savoring sexy moments by capturing them on film has always been a crucial aspect of the wife-sharing lifestyle. Michael analyzes the role of communication in developing expectations about sharing photos. Additionally, Michael shares how the eagerness of husbands to capture every moment of play on film can counterintuitively remove them from savoring the sexy moment they are occupying. This thought-provoking episode invites couples and bulls to more deeply consider the way we capture and share sexy, memorable encounters.

Michael C. and Cuckoldress Scarlet have a thought-provoking conversation about the role of respectful engagement at lifestyle events. This episode highlights common pitfalls that can occur at lifestyle events and highlights the importance of consistent respectful engagement across all lifestyle interactions-especially when initiating play. Scarlet and Michael give a rare overview of the impact of respect from a male and female perspective. This insightful episode is sure to spark important conversations about how to better convey respect and address situations where boundaries aren’t respected.

The fascination surrounding the hotwifing and cuckolding lifestyles is growing and penetrating into the “vanilla” world. This episode of the Keys and Anklet's podcast offers a fresh and unique perspective about hotwifing and cuckolding from an outsider curiously looking in. Listeners will be delighted to welcome Leyna Nguyen, host of the Consenting Adults Podcast, to the Keys and Anklets podcast. Leyna shares her introduction to the world of non-monogamy and how she came to understand that these relationships are more healthy and prevalent than most realize. This sparked a passionate interest for Leyna that led her to discover the host of various dynamics within non-monogamous relationships. Leyna generously shares some details from her personal sexual history and the way her open-minded outlook and her conversations with people in the lifestyle has affected her experience. Leyna is bright, engaging, and a welcome voice within the non-monogamy community.Leyna's Twitter - @LeynaNguyenTVHer Podcast - @ConsentAdults

In this Special Episode Michael C. speaks on the issue of people within the lifestyle being judgmental of others walking a different path. This is a thought provoking episode that will hopefully create some meaningful dialog on the subject.

Keys and Anklets presents Hotwife E.’s highly anticipated AMA (ask-me-anything) episode! Michael C. Is joined by Cuckoldress Scarlet to ask Hotwife E the listener’s questions. Hotwife E. gives lifestyle advice, shares sexy stories, and discusses her future lifestyle plans. Listeners will love Hotwife E even more when they hear her charming, engaging interview.

Michael C. and Cuckoldress Scarlet share their thoughts on bulls sharing the women who they are engaged with in the lifestyle with other bulls. Scarlet starts off the episode by detailing the story of the first time she was shared by one of her bulls. Michael discusses the value of realizing the desires of wives who seek to be shared and the advantages of being a bull who enjoys sharing. This thought provoking episode will stoke the fantasies of couples and sexually empowered women who enjoy the thought of being shared.

The hotwifing and cuckolding lifestyles are as intellectually engaging as they are sexy and arousing. Michael C. Presents a new segment that allows listeners an opportunity to drop in on conversations between an experienced bull and an experienced cuckoldress, Cuckoldress Scarlet. In this episode, Cuckoldress Scarlet and Michael have an engaging conversation about the intersection of online dominance, cuckolding, and the importance of authenticity. If you’ve ever wondered about the sexy and fascinating dialogues that occur between a cuckoldress and bull, this series will provide you an exciting inside look.