POPULARITY
Arielle Ford has spent the past 30 years living and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. She is the author of the international bestseller, THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction. Her book, Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate offers a groundbreaking shift in perception showing couples how to have a deeper and more fulfilling relationship. Her latest book is Inkspirations: Love by Design: Coloring the Divine Path to Manifest Your Soulmate the world’s first transformational coloring book. Arielle has been called “The Cupid of Consciousness” and “The Fairy Godmother of Love.” She lives in La Jolla, CA with her husband and soulmate, Brian Hilliard and their feline friends. Her website www.soulmatesecret.com. Today’s guest, Arielle Ford, answers the questions that have been troubling couples since the beginning of time: How do you find your soulmate? How do you effectively deal with your differences? Known as the “Cupid of Consciousness” and “The Fairy Godmother of Love”, Arielle shares her relational wisdom with listeners today and gives us insight into her own journey in finding and sustaining love. She’s author of the bestselling book The Soulmate Secret: Manifest the Love of your life with the law of Attraction which provides a step-by-step guide for finding love. Tune-in as Arielle shares various insights which will help you turn your mate into a soulmate. Arielle has spent the last 30 years living and promoting consciousness Check out Arielle’s website to avail of some free goodies Finding true love At the age of 43, Arielle realized that she had spent all her energy towards building her business and ignored her personal life Arielle applied processes and rituals that had helped her with her love life Within six months, Arielle met her future husband, Bryan—they have been married for 19 years now Discovering her lack of partner skills She quickly figured out that bossing around her alpha-masculine husband was not a good idea Growing up in a middle-class, dysfunctional family did not help hone her relationship skills either Committed herself to being a student of love Our relationship skills or lack of them can be attributed to all the role models in our life Having proper communication skills is critical for turning your mate into your soul mate Bryan often complained that Arielle was “not listening” to him Bryan is the youngest child and has a need to be heard Arielle is the eldest child and she is a terrible listener Arielle quickly realized that she had to learn to listen to Bryan Arielle still has a hard time turning her body to Bryan, looking him in the eye and listening in a proper manner Come up with creative solutions to iron out your differences “You can either be right or you can be in a relationship” Avoid correcting your partner “It is absolutely normal to have differences in a relationship” “Every couple has a minimum of 9 irreconcilable differences” Creative solutions, not compromises, will help you deal with differences In a compromise, one partner tends to let go, whereas a creative solution is a win-win situation Arielle favorite line from the A Course in Miracles: “The only thing that can be lacking in a given situation is that which you were not given” Thinking positively will surely help you find the love of your life “The only thing that keeps us from getting all the love that we desire is our own limiting beliefs” Attempt to consciously get rid of negative thoughts Positive thoughts are much more powerful than negative ones. A few positive thoughts have the power to cancel out hundreds of negative ones “Be the guardian to the doorway of your mind” Having firm beliefs about your love life will affect your actions in a positive way We draw to us the people, places and experiences that match our state of being Your actions are nothing but a reflection of your beliefs Having a firm belief that you are connected with your soulmate will prevent you from being casual about your sex life as well Arielle’s secret sauce to manifestation is “Feelingization” Only visualization does not help you attain your dreams Arielle’s facilitates this concept via meditations which she calls “head to the heart” Experience feelings of love and gratitude in the present moment Access free content on “Feelingization” on Arielle’s website Aim for mature, adult love by being more accepting of your partner’s idiosyncrasies The feeling of love where you are in a chemically induced state lasts, on average, 6 to 18 months Real, mature, adult love is a behavior or a practice When you are in a mature relationship, you choose to act lovingly even though you are upset with you soulmate “You are in the right relationship when you start off as a ‘dream come true’ and it evolves into your most horrible nightmare” Finding perfections in our partner’s imperfections is the concept of “wobby, sobby” love Make the perception shift and deal with your partner’s imperfections People want to be loved for who they are Arielle shares a “wobby, sobby” AH-HA moment In one of her “wobby, sobby” workshops, Arielle came across Stephanie who was having issues with her husband, Garth Stephanie was a stickler for cleanliness whereas Garth was a total slob Stephanie hated cleaning up after Garth Arielle asked Stephanie whether she still loved her pet dog in spite of the fact that she had to clean up the dog’s shit Stephanie realized that Garth could not help being a slob, just like her dog could not help having to shit Stephanie realized that Garth being a slob is not a reason to love him any less Their relationship improved, Garth quit his job and started a home-business so that he could be with Stephanie 24 x 7 Dealing with your soulmate’s emotional shut-downs Men need to go into a “cave” when they feel they are feeling emotionally low Going into a “cave” helps raise their testosterone levels Women should never attempt to follow a man to his “cave” Women tend to shut down emotionally as they can’t express their anger Being a “pleasure puppy” can help a man or woman deal with an emotional shut down Women can build oxytocin, and men testosterone by being a “pleasure puppy” Women can get a foot rub, head massage or go out with their girlfriends. Chopping wood, exercising, watching or playing sports is the best way to build testosterone for a man Arielle advises getting professional counseling if you are in a hard spot Deeper Dating is a great book for all gay couples wishing to sort out their issues Add God in your relationship and discover true magic The missing link in most relationships is the lack of the divine “You can’t sit on a chair with two legs. But you can sit on a tripod that has three” “In typical arithmetic, one plus one equals two. But in soulmate love, one plus one equals eleven, and your love blesses the world” InkSpiration is a unique coloring book which helps manifest love for your beloved. Coloring is an oxytocin booster and by doing this activity, you can make a visual representation of the desires that you have for love Listening is the thing that challenges Arielle the most Apply for Giovanna’s six month coaching program by filling out your application Check out She Rises website 3 Key Points: Aim to find creative solutions, and not compromises to iron out your differences. Arielle is a proponent for “wobby, sobby” love which involves finding perfections in imperfections. Find the divine in your relationship and discover true magic. Resources Mentioned: The Soulmate Secret: Manifest the Love of your life with the law of Attraction – Arielle’s bestselling book InkSpiration – Arielle’s unique coloring book which will help you manifest love for your beloved Deeper Dating – A great resource for gay couples Turn Your Mate into a Soulmate – Another book by Arielle A Course in Miracles – A book on spiritual transformation by Dr. Helen Schucman She Rises Tribe – Facebook Group
Layla Saad went from high achiever as a child to Law School as a young adult to wild mystic woman entrepreneur. She shares her journey and tools for personal growth and owning your worth and feminine mystique. Summary: In this episode, Giovanna Capozza interviews Layla Saad, a life coach, a spiritual and business mentor, a certified health coach, a speaker and the woman behind the Wild Mystic Woman. Layla’s mom once told her that things will be more difficult for her because of her race, religion and gender. Listen as Giovanna and Layla talk about the journey to sovereignty, how archetypes can help us become a better person, and the spiritual awakening Layla has gone through that led her to the Wild Mystic Woman. Show Notes: Introduction to the podcast Introducing Layla to the show Layla and Giovanna connected on Instagram and Giovanna instantly knew that Layla was her soul sister Sovereignty is a meaningful word to Layla because of the things that she had been through Layla shares the journey that led her on the path to sovereignty: Layla lives in Qatar, but she grew up in UK Layla is the oldest daughter and is a high achiever Layla’s mom had always told her that things would be more difficult for her because she’s black, a Muslim and a woman “My sense of worthiness came from my sense of achievement” Layla studied law in University, but she realized early on that it wasn’t for her Layla was trying to define who she was “I don’t have any idea of what I wanted to be” Layla had depression, anxiety and panic attacks As Giovanna would put it, Layla was discombobulated Layla’s darkest period lasted for 3 years Layla’s best friend introduced her to the world of self-development which got Layla out of that period Tony Robbin’s CDs opened up Layla’s eyes Layla decided not to pursue law after finishing her degree Layla believed that she would use her experience during her lowest point to help people Layla ended up in the field of corporate tax Layla went back to Qatar after finishing her degree, when she was 21 The entire time Layla was in corporate tax, she knew it wasn’t her path Layla decided she wanted to go back the UK when she met her husband Layla found out about life coaching Layla studied life coaching after getting married Layla quit the corporate world when she had her first child and started life coaching As passionate as Layla was, she didn’t know how to run a business Layla lost her confidence and gave up just when she was starting out Layla had a cycle of going back to coaching, giving up coaching, working as a part-timer, and going back to coaching again Just before Layla’s 30th, she was miserable and it was killing her to work with other people Layla went to her office early, sat at her desk and suddenly, her soul was afloat and was looking down at her, laughing Her laugh told her that what she was doing there wasn’t her life, her path and job Layla remembered when she was in her 20s, listening to Tony Robbins Layla wasn’t happy and if she continued with her miserable life, that would be her life forever Layla decided that she would continue coaching, throw herself into the business world, and NOT give up Layla started her business doing soulful, business coaching Last year, Layla had an incredible spiritual awakening that birthed The Wild Mystic Woman Layla shares what The Wild Mystic Woman is “It’s so different from the rest of my life” Layla has always been guided by her intuition 2 things happened regarding Layla’s spiritual awakening First, in April of 2016, Layla wrote a blog post that went viral which was unexpected Layla’s blog post was Why those ‘6 figure’ business coaches are failing you The post was shared a thousand times in just one week Strangers have been adding and getting in contact with Layla While Layla’s business was prepared for it, she wasn’t emotionally prepared Layla was uncomfortable and being in the spotlight—it brought her fear The second event was when Layla was on a business retreat During the meditation, Layla felt that her consciousness broke into a higher ground The very next day, things started to fall apart in Layla’s personal life Layla and her husband decided to move into her parent’s house instead of a beautiful apartment, leading them to give away some of their furniture Giovanna loves how Layla shares her vulnerability openly regardless of being an introvert Layla shares about her relationship with her parents Layla’s life was going in a direction that was out of her control “I could sense that it was not me directing. It was the divine directing it and arranging things in a certain way” Layla just surrendered and followed where life was taking her There comes a point when we just know that there’s no other way Giovanna shares how she started getting involved in the personal development industry We are not taught how to look at things Layla’s mentor offered her a reiki session and she accepted it Reiki is a form of energy healing Reiki channels divine energy to help re-balance the energetic system After the session, Layla’s mentor told her everything that she sees: Layla’s mentor saw an image of Layla’s mother and herself Layla has kept her pain in for years and Layla feels she’s betraying her mother whenever she succeeds It was all on a subconscious level Giovanna shares that there’s always a part of a child that wants to save his/her own parents Part of Layla’s spiritual journey last year was exploring her feelings towards her mother It made Layla realize how all these things are interconnected The success of your business depends on you You ARE the business “The more I’m able to do my spiritual work, the more I’m able to grow in my business” Layla shares her journey because we are all on that journey It’s about the being and not your flaws Giovanna shares the story of when she offered a coaching service to someone There were so much uncovered and Giovanna was able to see how she holds herself back In the end, the girl decided she wanted business coaching Giovanna referred her to someone else If you are not okay inside yourself, it trickles down The difference between Layla’s previous business and her current business Before, Layla wanted to do things that everyone was doing Now, Layla wanted to do a few things and do them well Work smarter, but harder “I prioritize my alignment over everything” Giovanna discusses the Divine Feminine Layla shares what the Divine Feminine is We can define it depending on one’s spiritual beliefs and where one is coming from Divine Feminine, for Layla, is the flow that is guiding her “It is the voice that is asking you to come back into wholeness with yourself and the feminine side of yourself” There’s fierceness in divine energy which is different from masculinity The Hindu goddess Kali who is the goddess of destruction, chaos and transformation Kali told Layla that she needs to tear down everything in Layla’s life that isn’t working Layla shares the goddess Inana’s story We cry with ourselves and we need to grieve Giovanna defines archetypes Archetypes helped Layla realize that she wasn’t crazy When you’re in a confusing time in your life, it seems like you’re stuck in it Archetypes gave Layla a road map to track where she’s at Being on a descent can be a cycle The name “She Rises” is from the story of the mythical phoenix We despair in times that we don’t have a guidance Giovanna’s mentor told her “when you’re the red of the rainbow, you can’t see other colors” Find Layla at Wild Mystic Woman and check the website to see what resonates you Layla has a one-on-one sovereign session used for business or spirituality If you’re looking at how to align yourself with your business, have a chat with Layla Layla is launching a monthly membership community called The Sovereign Sisterhood Sisterhood has helped Layla get through her journey Layla also has a podcast Find Layla on Instagram, too Layla is also writing a book about the heroine’s journey 3 Key Points: Aim to live in alignment with yourself and what you believe at all costs and in all areas of life. Being on a descent can be a cycle, but you have the power to break that cycle and RISE up. We despair in times that we don’t have guidance—reach out and don’t hold back. Resources Mentioned: Wild Mystic Woman – Layla’s Website @wildmysticwoman – Layla’s Instagram handle
The Top Entrepreneurs in Money, Marketing, Business and Life
Manuel Opitz: He is currently the founder of Mecuris. Before founding the company as the CEO, he worked as a medical IP broker in innovation management and as a technology scout in China. He graduated in Industrial Engineering and he has taken a keen interest in optimizing healthcare process chains by digitalization and 3D printing. Famous Five: Favorite Book? – Thinking Fast and Slow What CEO do you follow? – N/A Favorite online tool? — Podio and Acuity Scheduling Do you get 8 hours of sleep?— Yes If you could let your 20-year old self, know one thing, what would it be? – “Don’t try to do everything yourself” Time Stamped Show Notes: 01:37 – Nathan introduces Manuel to the show 02:14 – Mecuris is in B2B and medical technology 02:30 – Mecuris provides patient specific prosthetics using 3D printing 02:58 – Manuel discusses the picture on their website 03:19 – Mecuris can be reimbursed by the insurance companies 03:38 – Mecuris gets paid as the service provider for medical supply stores 03:51 – Mecuris uses SLS—which is more costly but lasts 04:25 – The smaller the prosthetics, the cheaper it is 04:50 – Manuel shares the pricing 05:25 – The price for Sophie’s prosthetics 06:15 – Insurance companies have their own prices 06:55 – Average number of prosthetics that have been 3D printed in 2016 07:28 – Mecuris only had prototypes in 2016 07:45 – Mecuris had 2 seed investors in November 08:39 – Mecuris raised under a million 08:55 – Mecuris had a pre-seed round 09:37 – The 6 founders put in 5-digit numbers per person and received a pre-seed government round 10:12 – Manuel shares how the 6 founders talked about the equity 11:26 – The founders who are operational are the software lead and product designer 11:52 – There are a total of 11 people in the office 12:07 – Mecuris was launched in May, 2016 12:52 – Manuel wants to enter the international market after Series A 13:09 – Talks with big companies are in the works 13:40 – Mecuris can do prosthetics in just 10 minutes 14:04 – Manuel discusses Sophie’s prosthetics and what would be her option would be if there was no Mecuris 15:15 – Mecuris can do simulation work with their prosthetics 17:30 – The Famous Five 3 Key Points: Aim high—if you believe that you can enter the international market then do it. Sharing equity requires a good system, defining how you can benefit from one another. Collaborate with the experts in your field. Resources Mentioned: Acuity Scheduling – Nathan uses Acuity to schedule his podcast interviews and appointments Drip – Nathan uses Drip’s email automation platform and visual campaign builder to build his sales funnel Toptal – Nathan found his development team using Toptal for his new business Send Later. He was able to keep 100% equity and didn’t have to hire a co-founder due to the quality of Toptal Host Gator – The site Nathan uses to buy his domain names and hosting for the cheapest price possible. Audible – Nathan uses Audible when he’s driving from Austin to San Antonio (1.5-hour drive) to listen to audio books. The Top Inbox – The site Nathan uses to schedule emails to be sent later, set reminders in inbox, track opens, and follow-up with email sequences Jamf – Jamf helped Nathan keep his Macbook Air 11” secure even when he left it in the airplane’s back seat pocket Show Notes provided by Mallard Creatives
The Top Entrepreneurs in Money, Marketing, Business and Life
Gil Allouche, the co-founder of Metadata. Gil’s an expert in digital marketing and AI who worked as a marketing consultant for big-name companies before quitting to co-found a startup. Listen as Gil and Nathan talk digital marketing, growth hacking, and how to work with your co-founders. Famous 5 Favorite Book? – Enders Game What CEO do you follow? — Brian Halligan What is your favorite online tool? — Hubspot Do you get 8 hours of sleep?— No If you could let your 20 year old self know one thing, what would it be? —That everything is achievable, and that I should set my goals much higher Time Stamped Show Notes: 01:10 – Nathan’s introduction 01:35 – Welcoming Gil to the show 02:10 – Before Metadata, Gil was a marketing consultant for B2B companies 03:00 – Gil’s focus in college was on AI and robotics 03:10 – He followed this with an MBA and focused on digital marketing 03:35 – In February 2016, Metadata had MRR of $35k 04:10 – Currently raising around $2 million in equity in a seed round 04:50 – Would be happy with a $5 million pre-money valuation 05:30 – Metadata amplifies the impact of content marketing 06:30 – Takes initial audience and reverse engineers a profile 07:15 – Targets lookalike audiences on multiple platforms 08:10 – Starts at $10k for a 3-month pilot 08:50 – Takes over landing page, enrichment and targeting 09:15 – A startup: still figuring out a pricing model 10:00 – 3 founders; 8 team members 10:35 – How do you talk to co-founders about splitting equity? 11:10 – Just over 12 customers 11:42 – Churn rate: to date, only one customer has left 12:15 – Launched in May 2015 12:40 – Willing to spend $2-3k to acquire a customer 14:00 – Connect with Gil by email 15:20 – Famous Five 3 Key Points: Aim high. Everything is achievable with the right method. Half of content marketing is marketing. The best content in the world won’t help you if no one reads it. If your startup has co-founders, have a serious conversation about splitting equity. It’s too important to not get right. Resources Mentioned: Freshbooks - The site Nathan uses to manage his invoices and accounts. Host Gator – The site Nathan uses to buy his domain names and hosting for cheapest price possible. Leadpages – The drag and drop tool Nathan uses to quickly create his webinar landing pages which convert at 35%+ Audible – Nathan uses Audible when he's driving from Austin to San Antonio (1.5 hour drive) to listen to audio books. Show Notes provided by Mallard Creatives