Podcasts about turn your mate into your soulmate

Two years ago, Gay and Mike sat down and recorded an incredible podcast with their dear friend, Arielle Ford, about her debut novel “The Love Thief”. It was such a deeply insightful and moving episode – they decided to share it again. Why the 'revisit'?Well, because Arielle's novel, The Love Thief, has been scooped up and re-released by Hay House! This romantic, spiritual thriller—part love story, part transformational journey—now comes with a brand-new cover, a soul-stirring audiobook, and some seriously juicy preorder bonuses.In this episode, Arielle, Mike, and Gay dive into the real-life inspiration behind the story, the spiritual teachings woven through the plot (think Eat, Pray, Love meets Dirty John), and why heartbreak can be the gateway to healing.See, Arielle is one of the world's leading experts on love, relationships and the greatest manifester Mike has ever known. She's written numerous bestselling non-fiction books like “The Soulmate Secret” and “Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate,” but this is her first foray into fiction - and what an adventure it's been!And in this episode, Arielle takes Gay and Mike behind the scenes of how this book came to be.It all started with a crazy idea from her husband, Brian, involving aliens and operatic singing! But soon, the characters began “talking” to Arielle, almost driving her crazy. She found herself acting insecure for the first time in her career, constantly seeking reassurance from friends about her writing.Eventually, Arielle surrendered to the muse and let this wild story download through her. The result is a juicy tale of love, betrayal, spiritual awakening, and sweet revenge. Part Eat, Pray, Love, and part Dirty John, Arielle calls it "a romantic, spiritual thriller with a surprise happy ending."Mike won't give away all the details, but let's just say one of the characters was inspired by HIM! (It won't be hard to figure it out.)Mike and Gay were fascinated and inspired to hear about Arielle's creative process. Even though writing this novel was torture at times, she learned a ton about herself along the way.And you have to hear her vision for the audiobook (something she hopes to turn into a Grammy-winning production). Just like her manifesting powers, Arielle's imagination knows no bounds!Whether you're an aspiring writer, novel lover, spiritual seeker, or just a fan of Arielle's work, Mike highly recommends giving this interview a listen. Arielle's joy is contagious. He knows you'll be inspired.The Love Thief is for anyone who's loved, lost, raged, and risen. It's a story of revenge, redemption, and rediscovering your worth.You'll laugh, cry, and maybe even book a flight to Rishikesh.Key Takeaways(04:09) Arielle never wanted to write a novel and how it came about(09:31) The moment Arielle thought she was schizophrenia because characters started “talking” to her(13:19) The process of writing the book(23:09) Her dream for the audio book and winning a Grammy!(34:46) The spiritual practice of channeling characters and storytelling(45:05) Who is the perfect buyer of this book?Praise for The Love Thief“A spiritual love story that leaves you gasping with all the feels… A must-read.”— Sheri Salata, former Executive Producer of The Oprah Show“An emotional ride through betrayal, healing, and rediscovery. Well done,Arielle!”— Iyanla Vanzant“So satisfying you'll want a hypothetical cigarette.”— Natalie Ledwell, bestselling authorBONUS ALERT: With your purchase of The Love Thief, you'll get access to The Healing the Heart Yoga Series, featuring 10 world-renowned yoga teachers including Seane Corn—designed to help you release heartbreak and restore wholeness.Order your copy + claim your bonuses now: Get Arielle's New Book, “The Love Thief” and your bonus content here: http://www.thelovethief.comAdditional ResourcesJoin The Big Leap Experience! http://www.bigleappodcast.com/Apply

On today’s episode, I speak with Arielle Ford - a love and relationship expert and a leading personality in the personal growth and contemporary spirituality movement. For the past 25 years she has been living, teaching, and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. Her mission is to help people find love, keep love and most importantly, be love. Arielle is a gifted writer and the author of 11 books including the international bestseller, THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction. She is also the author of Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate devoted to exploring a simple, fun and effective way to attain groundbreaking shifts in perception so that you can embrace and find the beauty and perfection in yourself and your mate. She has been called "The Cupid of Consciousness" and "The Fairy Godmother of Love." She lives in La Jolla, CA with her husband/soulmate, Brian Hilliard and their feline friends. Join her newsletter at www.soulmatesecret.com We talk about the following and so much more: ✅ What are the major themes for finding love? ✅ And how do we keep love? ✅ Your work is focused on helping people to manifest their desires and live more fulfilling lives. Can you share some tips or strategies for people who are just starting out on this journey? ✅ Why is visualization so important? ✅ Why is understanding our energy and how qi moves through our space so important? ✅ What are some stories of people who have found love using your tips? ✅ The Love Thief is hernew book, and we dive into what its about This episode is sponsored by BloodMoonBox.com If you’d like to join the waitlist for my next coaching program, sign up here: https://www.yasmeenturayhi.com/gateways-to-awakening/ Please tag us and tell us what you loved! You can follow @Gateways_To_Awakening on Instagram or Facebook if you’d like to stay connected.

Today on Asked and Answered by Soul, Jennifer Urezzio and Arielle Ford, celebrated love and relationship expert, speaker, and gifted best-selling author, have a dynamic and interesting conversation about emotional tanking and taking personal responsibility for our energy and feelings. It's important to be conscious and aware of what emotions are ours and what may belong to others, and to ask clarifying questions so we gain a deeper understanding of ourselves and others. Join us here as Jennifer and Arielle discuss energetic toolkits, soul mates, committed relationship tips, your brain on drugs, and the top factors to consider as you choose a life partner, the most important being a shared vision for the future. The truth about love is that it's a behavior, a choice, a decision, an action, a way of being. Arielle also talks about her newest book "The Love Thief" and shares one of her favorite quotes from A Course in Miracles: "the only thing that can be lacking in any situation is that which you are not giving".  About Arielle Arielle Ford is a celebrated love and relationship expert, author, and speaker whose mission is to help people Find Love, Keep Love, and most importantly, Be Love. Author/Speaker and Relationship Expert She is a gifted writer and the award-winning author of eleven nonfiction books, including the international bestseller, THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest the Love of Your Life with The Law of Attraction. She has also written many groundbreaking books including Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate and Wabi Sabi Love: The Ancient Art of Finding Perfect Love in Imperfect Relationships. Arielle has been called “The Cupid of Consciousness” and “The Fairy Godmother of Love.” Her debut novel, The Love Thief, is a roller-coaster ride of love, betrayal, and unexpected transformation with a juicy revenge subplot and a surprise ending. One reviewer said: The Love Thief is an emotional journey where you'll finish so completely satisfied, you'll want a hypothetical cigarette.” You can learn more about her at: https://www.arielleford.com/. https://www.arielleford.com/feelingizations/. https://www.arielleford.com/the-love-thief/. The Asked and Answered by Soul podcast is dedicated to helping you understand that your Soul is the answer. If you want to learn more about your soul's answers and purpose, access your free guide at www.themythsofpurpose.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Gay and Mike just finished an incredible podcast with their dear friend, Arielle Ford, about her debut novel “The Love Thief” and they can't wait for you to hear it!Arielle is one of the world's leading experts on love, relationships and the greatest manifester Mike has ever known. She's written numerous bestselling non-fiction books like “The Soulmate Secret” and “Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate,” but this is her first foray into fiction - and what an adventure it's been!In this episode, Arielle takes Gay and Mike behind the scenes of how this book came to be.It all started with a crazy idea from her husband, Brian, involving aliens and operatic singing! But soon, the characters began “talking” to Arielle, almost driving her crazy. She found herself acting insecure for the first time in her career, constantly seeking reassurance from friends about her writing.Eventually, Arielle surrendered to the muse and let this wild story download through her. The result is a juicy tale of love, betrayal, spiritual awakening, and sweet revenge. Part Eat, Pray, Love, and part Dirty John, Arielle calls it "a romantic, spiritual thriller with a surprise happy ending."Mike won't give away all the details, but let's just say one of the characters was inspired by HIM! (It won't be hard to figure it out.)Mike and Gay were fascinated and inspired to hear about Arielle's creative process. Even though writing this novel was torture at times, she learned a ton about herself along the way.And you have to hear her vision for the audiobook (something she hopes to turn into a Grammy-winning production). Just like her manifesting powers, Arielle's imagination knows no bounds!Whether you're an aspiring writer, novel lover, spiritual seeker, or just a fan of Arielle's work, Mike highly recommends giving this interview a listen. Arielle's joy is contagious. He knows you'll be inspired.Key Takeaways (04:09) Arielle never wanted to write a novel and how it came about (09:31) The moment Arielle thought she was schizophrenia because characters started “talking” to her (13:19) The process of writing the book (23:09) Her dream for the audio book and winning a Grammy! (34:46) The spiritual practice of channeling characters and storytelling (45:05) Who is the perfect buyer of this book? Additional Resources Get Arielle's New Book, “The Love Thief” and your bonus content here: http://www.thelovethief.com Get on the Early Bird List for The Big Leap Experience! http://www.bigleappodcast.com/Apply

In this episode of "Love Talk Live," I interview author, speaker, and relationship expert, Arielle Ford. Arielle is a leading personality in the personal growth and contemporary spirituality movement. For the past 25 years, she has been living, teaching, and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. Her mission is to help people find love, keep love and most importantly, be love. Arielle is a gifted writer and the author of 11 books including the international bestseller, THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction. She is also the author of Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate devoted to exploring a simple, fun, and effective way to attain groundbreaking shifts in perception so that you can embrace and find the beauty and perfection in yourself and your mate. She has been called "The Cupid of Consciousness" and "The Fairy Godmother of Love." She lives in La Jolla, CA with her husband/soulmate, Brian Hilliard and their feline friends. Join her newsletter at www.soulmatesecret.com Topics discussed in this episode are as follows: -What is a soulmate? -Does everyone have a soulmate and how many can you have in a lifetime? -The Universal Law that can be used to find your soulmate. -The necessary attitude and key steps to manifesting a soulmate. -The unknown secret to relationship success everyone needs to know? - Why couples should wear "rose-colored glasses" when it comes to seeing each other. -The health benefits of marriage?

In this episode of "Love Talk Live," I interview author, speaker, and relationship expert, Arielle Ford. Arielle is a leading personality in the personal growth and contemporary spirituality movement. For the past 25 years, she has been living, teaching, and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. Her mission is to help people find love, keep love and most importantly, be love. Arielle is a gifted writer and the author of 11 books including the international bestseller, THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction. She is also the author of Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate devoted to exploring a simple, fun, and effective way to attain groundbreaking shifts in perception so that you can embrace and find the beauty and perfection in yourself and your mate. She has been called "The Cupid of Consciousness" and "The Fairy Godmother of Love." She lives in La Jolla, CA with her husband/soulmate, Brian Hilliard and their feline friends. Join her newsletter at www.soulmatesecret.com Topics discussed in this episode are as follows: -What is a soulmate? -Does everyone have a soulmate and how many can you have in a lifetime? -The Universal Law that can be used to find your soulmate. -The necessary attitude and key steps to manifesting a soulmate. -The unknown secret to relationship success everyone needs to know? - Why couples should wear "rose-colored glasses" when it comes to seeing each other. -The health benefits of marriage?

Writer Arielle Ford is a trusted soulmate expert and true manifester. She helps you solve relationship problems from a spiritual perspective that's also science-based. Learn about heart intelligence and how to feel into what you want and expand your energy field. It all starts with you being your most confident self and Arielle gives you tools so you don't ever sell yourself out.   If you are ready to find love, stay in love or reignite love, this episode is for you. Discover how you are literally tripping over potential soulmate life partners every single day, and why you may not see them because you don't believe it. Need help learning the critical aspects that will pull in a romantic soulmate? As an entertaining and wise speaker, and the author of 11 fabulous must-read books, including "The Soulmate Secret, Manifest the Love of Your Life with The Law of Attraction," and "Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate," Arielle is here for you.

Arielle Ford is an author and love and relationship expert. Her mission is to help people find love, keep love and most importantly, be love. Arielle has authored 12 books including the international bestseller, THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction. "She is also the author of Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate devoted to exploring a simple, fun and effective way to attain groundbreaking shifts in perception so that you can embrace and find the beauty and perfection in yourself and your mate. She has been called “The Cupid of Consciousness” and “The Fairy Godmother of Love.” She lives in La Jolla, CA with her husband/soulmate, Brian Hilliard and their feline friends."  Find more of Arielle Ford: https://www.soulmatesecret.com/https://www.facebook.com/SoulmateSecrethttps://www.instagram.com/arielleford44/About Sarah K. RamseyJoin Sarah's  FREE Facebook Group “Finding Love & Success After A Toxic Relationship” Before trying Sarah K Ramsey's programs her clients were super embarrassed because on the outside these women appeared to have it all.  However, these women had a secret...they still felt mentally chained down by their toxic partner or parent.Most women think talk therapy is the only way to heal!  Unfortunately, these women waste years trying to figure out how codependency works or rehashing their past in an office week after week trying to pick apart their childhoods.  But, Sarah's clients aren't “most people.”  They know overachievers aren't just looking to talk about their problem, they are looking for an action plan to SOLVE their problems!Check out this FREE Presentation where Sarah reveals how she does it! Check out what others have said about SarahContact Sarah

What is a soulmate? What is the unknown secret to relationship success everyone needs to know? Arielle Ford is the leading personal growth and spiritually based love and relationship expert, who has been living, teaching, and promoting consciousness through all forms of media for over 25 years. Her mission is to help people find love, keep love and most importantly, be love. Arielle is a gifted writer and the author of 11 books including the international bestseller, THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction. She is also the author of Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate devoted to exploring a simple, fun, and effective way to attain groundbreaking shifts in perception so that you can embrace and find the beauty and perfection in yourself and your mate. She has been called "The Cupid of Consciousness" and "The Fairy Godmother of Love." whatever stage of life you are in or whatever relationship status you have, Arielle can help you experience the love that is your birthright.Learn more about how to keep the spark alive and thriving in your relationship in this episode.Get her free online dating guide at www.arielleford.com/kiss See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Arielle Ford  was the publicist for a young Deepak Chopra, Louise Haye, Don Miguel Ruiz, Marianne Williamson, Neale Donald Walsch, Dean Ornish, her sister Debbie Ford, Gary Zukav,  Wayne Dwyer and many others. As she shares, they all became famous together as she found herself in the forefront of a brand new niche of spirituality and self help in the early 90's. Arielle simply followed her own passion and interests. A successful author herself, Arielle shares some delightful stories of the synchronicities and turning points along her dynamic career and personal life. Corrine shares that Arielle's book Hot Chocolate for the Mystical Soul was a huge influence in her early spiritual journey. Arielle shares the secret to living in the uncertain covid times. She lives her life in two hour segments and is all about finding and being in contentment in life. Spirituality for Arielle is about how much love, compassion and service you put out into the world.Arielle's current passion is www.JustLikeMyChild.orgTransforming the World, One Girl at a TimeJust Like My Child Foundation's mission is to empower vulnerable adolescent girls by enabling them to create healthy, self-sustaining families who prosper without further aid. Here is a great zoom call with Arielle about this inspiring program. https://youtu.be/GFg-4wITCiUArielle Ford is a gifted writer and the author of eleven books including her latest Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate and the international bestseller, THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction. She has been called “The Cupid of Consciousness” and “The Fairy Godmother of Love.”She lives in La Jolla, CA with her husband/soulmate, Brian Hilliard and their feline friends. www.soulmatesecret.com

Falling in love is the easy part. The chemical reaction in your body when you find someone to share your life with is fun, exciting, and adventurous. It's staying in love that's hard. Today, I'm joined by relationship expert, Arielle Ford, about how keep your relationships alive, thriving, and full of love. Arielle has been in the relationship game for a long time and has researched and written so many books on the subject, including The Soulmate Secret and Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate. Her work has helped women across the world find love and connect with their husbands on a deeper, more understanding and emotional level. I actually met Arielle through JJ Virgin who met the love of her life following Arielle's advice. Being in a loving marriage herself, Arielle expresses that while she was in love with her husband, when they first got married she wished she knew more about how to make relationships work. There's a lot more to it than just a feeling of love. She describes some of the 9 irreconcilable differences that most relationships face and how you can come up with creative solutions - not compromises - to get around them. Statistically, one of the biggest causes of divorce is differences in opinion about how to spend money. Arielle shares a very personal story of the creative solution her and her husband came up with when they first got married and had different financial backgrounds. Open and honest communication is paramount in a relationship and so many issues can be reconciled just by talking about them. We talk about the concept of women being pleasure puppies, which, essentially, means that women need to make self-care a priority in their everyday life. In the same vein, women need to be aware that we are responsible for our own happiness, not our husband's, though of course, when you're working together as a well-oiled machine, mutual happiness will come much easier. Arielle gives some helpful tips on how to use positive reinforcement with your husband to help get rid of any bad habits - that's right, no more screaming matches!! It all comes down to making your husband feel like your hero. Do you withhold sex from your husband out of punishment or just not being in the mood? How do you prioritize your husbands wants and needs and show him that you love him? What do you do to reignite a spark that's maybe starting to go out in your relationship? Let me know in the comments. In This Episode: What the 9 irreconcilable differences in most relationships are How coming up with creative solutions to your differences is the key to a lasting relationship What to do when you disagree about money in a marriage What to do when you're starting to feel out of love with your partner Why you should have sex with your partner even when you're not in the mood Why women need to become pleasure puppies How to make your husband feel like a hero What The Platinum Rule is How to have clarity on what kind of partner you want to manifest into your life Why you need to have S-E-X before a first date How to fast track or reignite a relationship spark Why it's sometimes okay to go to bed angry Quotes: “So the truth is real, adult, mature, love is a behavior. It's a practice, it's a decision, it's a choice, it's an action, it's a way of being. And yes, you can be with your true soulmate, and have days or moments when you hate them. And that is also normal. It doesn't mean that you don't love them.” (11:33) “[Understand] your husband isn't there to make you happy. But you can train them how to make you happy… It's called positive reinforcement. And for those of you who are thinking, “well, this is how you train dogs or dolphins.” Yes, yes, it's the same technique. But it works.” (16:08) “And the reason for [your 2nd and 3rd divorce] isn't that you keep choosing the same person over and over again. The reason is you have not grown and changed. Because if you had grown and changed, you would be attracting a better partner.” (28:29) Links Join Arielle's Masterclass to Attract Your Soulmate Find Arielle Ford Online Check out Areielle's Books Follow Areille on Facebook | Instagram | Twitter Check out the full episode page Find Dr. Anna Online Follow Dr. Anna on Facebook | Instagram | Twitter

Falling in love is the easy part. The chemical reaction in your body when you find someone to share your life with is fun, exciting, and adventurous. It’s staying in love that’s hard. Today, I’m joined by relationship expert, Arielle Ford, about how keep your relationships alive, thriving, and full of love. Arielle has been in the relationship game for a long time and has researched and written so many books on the subject, including The Soulmate Secret and Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate. Her work has helped women across the world find love and connect with their husbands on a deeper, more understanding and emotional level. I actually met Arielle through JJ Virgin who met the love of her life following Arielle’s advice. Being in a loving marriage herself, Arielle expresses that while she was in love with her husband, when they first got married she wished she knew more about how to make relationships work. There’s a lot more to it than just a feeling of love. She describes some of the 9 irreconcilable differences that most relationships face and how you can come up with creative solutions - not compromises - to get around them. Statistically, one of the biggest causes of divorce is differences in opinion about how to spend money. Arielle shares a very personal story of the creative solution her and her husband came up with when they first got married and had different financial backgrounds. Open and honest communication is paramount in a relationship and so many issues can be reconciled just by talking about them. We talk about the concept of women being pleasure puppies, which, essentially, means that women need to make self-care a priority in their everyday life. In the same vein, women need to be aware that we are responsible for our own happiness, not our husband's, though of course, when you’re working together as a well-oiled machine, mutual happiness will come much easier. Arielle gives some helpful tips on how to use positive reinforcement with your husband to help get rid of any bad habits - that’s right, no more screaming matches!! It all comes down to making your husband feel like your hero. Do you withhold sex from your husband out of punishment or just not being in the mood? How do you prioritize your husbands wants and needs and show him that you love him? What do you do to reignite a spark that’s maybe starting to go out in your relationship? Let me know in the comments. In This Episode: What the 9 irreconcilable differences in most relationships are How coming up with creative solutions to your differences is the key to a lasting relationship What to do when you disagree about money in a marriage What to do when you’re starting to feel out of love with your partner Why you should have sex with your partner even when you’re not in the mood Why women need to become pleasure puppies How to make your husband feel like a hero What The Platinum Rule is How to have clarity on what kind of partner you want to manifest into your life Why you need to have S-E-X before a first date How to fast track or reignite a relationship spark Why it’s sometimes okay to go to bed angry   Quotes: “So the truth is real, adult, mature, love is a behavior. It's a practice, it's a decision, it's a choice, it's an action, it's a way of being. And yes, you can be with your true soulmate, and have days or moments when you hate them. And that is also normal. It doesn't mean that you don't love them.” (11:33) “[Understand] your husband isn't there to make you happy. But you can train them how to make you happy… It's called positive reinforcement. And for those of you who are thinking, “well, this is how you train dogs or dolphins.” Yes, yes, it's the same technique. But it works.” (16:08) “And the reason for [your 2nd and 3rd divorce] isn't that you keep choosing the same person over and over again. The reason is you have not grown and changed. Because if you had grown and changed, you would be attracting a better partner.” (28:29) Links Join Arielle's Masterclass to Attract Your Soulmate Find Arielle Ford Online Check out Areielle's Books Follow Areille on Facebook | Instagram | Twitter   Check out the full episode page Find Dr. Anna Online Follow Dr. Anna on Facebook | Instagram | Twitter

Ladies this show is for you, especially if you’re walking a spiritual path but struggle attracting a loving relationship. Arielle Ford, known as the “Cupid of Consciousness” and “The Fairy Godmother of Love,’ joins us to share why spiritual women have the hardest time finding love and how to shift it. You will be surprised at what you discover!Arielle is a love and relationship expert and a leading personality in the personal growth and contemporary spirituality movement. For the past 25 years she has been living, teaching, and promoting consciousnes through all forms of media. She is a speaker and the producer and host of Evolving Wisdom’s Art of Love series. Her mission is to help people find love, keep love and most importantly, be love.Arielle is a gifted writer and the author of 11 books including the international bestseller, THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction. She is also the author of Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate devoted to exploring a simple, fun and effective way to attain groundbreaking shifts in perception so that you can embrace and find the beauty and perfection in yourself and your mate.She has been called “The Cupid of Consciousness”and “The Fairy Godmother of Love.” She lives in La Jolla, CA, with her husband/soulmate, Brian Hilliard and their feline friends.

Today’s guest is Arielle Ford. Arielle is a love and relationship expert and a leading personality in the personal growth and contemporary spirituality movement. For the past 25 years she has been living, teaching, and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. She is a speaker and the producer and host of Evolving Wisdom’s Art of Love series. Arielle is a gifted writer and the author of 11 books including the international bestseller, THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest the Love of Your Life with The Law of Attraction. She is also the author Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate and Wabi Sabi Love: The Ancient Art of Finding Perfect Love in Imperfect Relationships. She has been called “The Cupid of Consciousness” and “The Fairy Godmother of Love.” She lives in La Jolla, CA with her husband/soulmate, Brian Hilliard and their feline friends, and you can learn more about her at www.soulmatesecret.com. Join her for the Soul Mate Secret Weekend at https://www.eomega.org/workshops/manifest-love-with-the-soulmate-secret-1 This episode is being brought to you by the Authority Academy and the Podcast Launch Weekend. Take advantage of this special podcast training offer for a limited time at a fraction of the normal value. CLICK HERE for more details and to register today! Be sure to subscribe to Consciously Speaking so that you don’t miss a single episode, and while you’re at it, won’t you take a moment to write a short review and rate our show? It would be greatly appreciated! To learn more about our previous guests, listen to past episodes, and get to know your host, go to www.MichaelNeeley.com and follow us on Facebook and Twitter.

In this episode, Devi chats with Arielle Ford about Finding Love & Keeping Love. Arielle is a love and relationship expert and a leading personality in the personal growth and contemporary spirituality movement. For the past 25 years she has been living, teaching, and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. She is a speaker and the producer and host of Evolving Wisdom’s Art of Love series. Her mission is to help people find love, keep love and most importantly, be love. Devi and Arielle discuss: the amazing story of how Debbie Ford's new book came to be Arielle's definition of a soulmate identifying your soulmate partner how to properly create your "Soulmate Wishlist" the story of how Arielle found her soulmate “living as if” the important characteristics of a soulmate relationship what to do when we change over the years inside of a soulmate relationship creative solutions vs. compromises a surprising statistic about how many irreconcilable differences exist in every couple’s relationship the different kinds of chemistry "Fast food sex" vs. "Gourmet sex" how to ask for what you need in a relationship what to do when your husband leaves the toilet seat up the purpose of taking the sacred vows of marriage whether soulmates are predestined or just chance encounters "Soul Tribes" & "Recognition School" raising your "Love Frequency" the best way to maintain good communication over time “Purefiction” Wabi Sabi taking personal responsibility in your relationship what to do if the chemistry is gone in your relationship how to get someone to commit to you in a relationship the surprising statistics of divorce and more… Connect with Arielle on her website @ www.soulmatesecret.com  (Click on the tab at the top that reads: “Free Stuff”)  If you are single get access to her FREE webinar for you @ SoulmatePassion44.com More about Arielle: Arielle is a gifted writer and the author of 11 books including the international bestseller, THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction. She has just created the world’s first transformational coloring book based upon The Soulmate Secret, entitled, Inkspirations Love by Design: Coloring the Divine Path to Manifest Your Soulmate. This book blends Arielle’s step-by-step method for manifesting love with the romantic, original artwork of artist Manja Burton.  It’s a fun, creative and powerful process! She is also the author Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate devoted to exploring a simple, fun and effective way to attain groundbreaking shifts in perception so that you can embrace and find the beauty and perfection in yourself and your mate.  She calls this “going from annoyed to enjoyed!” She has been called “The Cupid of Consciousness” and “The Fairy Godmother of Love.” She lives in La Jolla, CA with her husband/soulmate, Brian Hilliard, and their feline friends. More about Arielle’s sister, Debbie Ford: Debbie Ford was an internationally recognized expert in the field of personal transformation and a pioneering force in incorporating the study and integration of the human shadow into modern psychological and spiritual practices. A transformational coach, speaker, and teacher for more than 20 years, she was the creator of The Shadow Process Workshop, the executive producer of The Shadow Effect movie, and founder of The Ford Institute, a premier transformational training company. Debbie was the New York Times bestselling author of nine books including The Dark Side of the Light Chasers, Spiritual Divorce, and The Best Year of Your Life. Your Holiness is her tenth book and was discovered after her passing through a mind-blowing session with world-renowned medium James Van Praagh. Debbie died of cancer on February 17, 2013, but her legendary work lives on. www.DebbieFord.com    Resources Mentioned: Your Holiness Discover the Light Within by Debbie Ford: DebbieFord.com  (bonuses with the books) James Van Praagh:  http://www.vanpraagh.com/ &  https://www.jvpschoolofmysticalarts.com/ Dr. John Gottman: https://www.gottman.com/ Alison Armstrong: http://www.understandmen.com/ John Gray: http://johngrayworld.com/ Harvel Hendricks (The Marriage Whisperer): https://harvilleandhelen.com/ Gay Hendricks: https://www.heartsintrueharmony.com/     

Please welcome Arielle Ford to the Power and Purpose Podcast! I have known Arielle for years, she is the author of the Soulmate Secret, Wabi Sabi Love, Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate, and more. In this episode we talk about: -Letting go of beliefs that no longer serve you. -The way to measure how ‘spiritual' someone is. -Turning pain into a gift. -Why the world needs love now, more than ever. A leader in personal growth and contemporary spirituality, Arielle Ford has been living, teaching, and promoting consciousness through all forms of media for 25 years. Her latest book, “Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate”, offers practical tools, techniques and actionable steps for readers to move from “annoyed” to “enjoyed.” Learn more at www.ArielleFord.com. Early bird tickets for Claim Your Power Live are ending soon! Claim Your Power Live 2018 is a one of a kind live event experience to hack your nervous system, dissolve hidden trauma that's keeping you stuck & finally thrive in your purpose. Click here to register: www.ClaimYourPowerLive.com

WHAT IS YOUR CURRENT RELATIONSHIP CLIMATE? In the lastest episodes, I interviewed two experts in the field of relationship. Arielle Ford talked with us about How To Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate. One of the questions, I asked her was how to use the law of attraction in your relationship. In her response, she focused more on how to attract a partner. I truly believe that when one partner raises their vibration it attracts a completely different interaction. What does raising the vibration mean? In law of attraction terms, it is essentially what you focus your attention on, you attract. If you focus on the experience love, you will attract more love. If you focus on the experience of happiness, you will attract more joy. If you focus on gratitude, you will attract more abundance. (Please listen to the podcast episode or read the transcript to hear explanations, stories and examples.) In relationship, where do you pay the majority of your attention? What are your habitual thought patterns about your partner or your relationship? RELATIONSHIP WEATHER IS DIFFERENT THAN RELATIONSHIP CLIMATE Raising your vibration does not mean you bypass or avoid your concerns. It is important to take clear and conscientious notes of things you feel challenged with or troubled by. Then, you can address the issues with your partner in a constructive way. This gives your partner an opportunity to understand how you feel AND it gives them a chance to help you get your needs met. If you do not address your issues, it is likely that resentment will build and it will affect the way you experience your partner and your relationship. Issues begin to cloud the overall weather of your relationship, and over time this can drastically affect the climate of your relationship. What if you were to see your concerns as issues that you and your partner are in process of resolving and still working on getting to creative solutions? With this framework, there are some key assumptions happening. There is a positive solution. You and your partner care about each other. While it is challenging at times, you want to work together. You and your partner are doing the best that you can. You both have assets to bring to the relationship. While you have differences, it is not about who is right. It is about how to you learn from each other and work together to get your needs met, in a way that feels good for both of you. When we get triggered, we tend to perceive things from a protective stance. We are trying to mitigate any chances of injury. Our attempts, while understandable, are often protective strategies to feel safe. These strategies put our partner in the position of being the adversary. WHEN RELATIONSHIP WEATHER BECOMES THE RELATIONSHIP CLIMATE If we see our partner as an adversary for any length of time, it can be very difficult to contextualize feelings of protection, control, and fear to just the issue at hand. With frequency and intensity, the adversary tone starts to globalize to the overall quality of the relationship. In general, we start to see our partner in a negative light. We focus on their negative attributes. We doubt and question their ability to meet our needs, and we wonder if and how the relationship will work. In the field of psychology, there is a tremendous amount of research that explores how our thinking and beliefs impacts our experience. Example: Husband makes a lot of effort to give to and please his wife. However, he is very quiet about it. Often, she doesn’t know how he is contributing to their life together. His fear is that he is not seen, appreciated, valued, and loved. He hopes that she will recognize his efforts and appreciate him. Yet, she, without knowing what he is doing, misses the opportunities. This hurts and validates his fear that she doesn’t really care or value him. He distances and pulls away and she has an even harder time understanding him and acknowledging him. This can be a tragic and vicious cycle. WHAT IF WE PRIORITIZED THE RELATIONSHIP CLIMATE? In last week’s episode, I interviewed Dr. Fred Luskin on the topic of Forgive for Love. He emphasized that we often protest against others and life, when we do not get what we want. While this initial reaction is natural and understandable, we often get trapped in this state. We tend to resist the honest, emotional work, which is to acknowledge life and love are risky and we are truly vulnerable. The real work is in facing these realities with gentleness, compassion, acceptance, and preemptive forgiveness. Instead we fight with each other, protesting and engaging in all sorts of strategies to attempt to get what we want. In 2004, during my deep, personal dive of exploring relationship dynamics. I was reading many different books. I cannot remember which one sparked this awareness. But I remember thinking, “Oh, wow. How different it would be if in relationship, we saw each other as kin on this path of life. What if we acknowledged that we are all working through pain, hurt, and injury? What if we recognized that we are all fighting with our inner demons at times? What if we could have this understanding in relationship? Would we be able to have a little more patience with each other? Would we have a little more grace in the matters?” In a committed intimate relationship, we have the opportunity to hold a very sacred space for each other. With love and intimacy, we let our guard down. We open up our hearts. At the same time, we get in touch with our insecurities, fear and vulnerability. What if we accepted that we are going to have fear, pain, and protection emerge? What if we gave each other space to work it out? What if we held a place of love and belief for one another? A safe, sacred container allows for profound personal work to occur, and there is more permission to explore without the threat of losing love and relationship. HOW TO IMPROVE THE RELATIONSHIP CLIMATE How do we nurture this proverbial container? How do we remember that we are human, wounded, and fallible? How do we remember to be compassionate, kind, and patient? People’s religious and/or spiritual practices typically help tremendously in this arena. People pray for strength and guidance. People meditate to get perspective and detach from being overly identified with their pain. People reconnect with their essence of love, joy and peace, so that they can reorient their focus. Religious or spiritual communities can give a sense of support, unity, and inspiration to tolerate some of the emotional discomfort and disconnect. What if you do not have a religious or spiritual practice? Develop a practice. If you do not know what to do, start experimenting. Positive psychology focuses on topics such as happiness, gratitude, love, kindness, compassion, peace, etc. Do a few internet searches which will give you many ideas to start with. Next week, I will be talking about the power of kindness in relationship. This episode will also give you some specific ideas on how to cultivate more kindness and generosity in your relationship. Let me know if I can be of any support. Also, check out the Connected Couple program to develop happy, lasting love: For a limited time only, you can use this coupon code for a 20% discount: fall2017   MENTIONED: ERP 122: How to Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate with Arielle Ford (podcast) ERP 123: Forgive For Love With Dr. Fred Luskin (podcast) ERP 095: How Your Beliefs Can Destroy Your Relationship (podcast) ERP 096: How Your Beliefs Can Destroy Your Relationship – Part Two (podcast) Photo by Jeff Sheldon on Unsplash TRANSCRIPT: Click on this link to access the transcript for this episode: ERP 124: How To Improve The Climate Of Your Relationship [Transcript] If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please reach out to me. Here is my contact information. I would really appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here. Thank you!  If you are interested in developing new skills to overcome relationship challenges, please consider taking the Empowered Relationship Course or doing relationship coaching work with me.

GUEST ARIELLE FORD: Arielle Ford is a love and relationship expert and a leading personality in the personal growth and contemporary spirituality movement. For the past 25 years she has been living, teaching, and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. She is a speaker and the producer and host of Evolving Wisdom’s Art of Love series. Arielle is a gifted writer and the author of 11 books, including Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate devoted to exploring a simple, fun and effective way to attain groundbreaking shifts in perception so that you can embrace and find the beauty and perfection in yourself and your mate. She calls this “going from annoyed to enjoyed!” She has been called “The Cupid of Consciousness” and “The Fairy Godmother of Love.” She lives in La Jolla, CA with her husband/soulmate, Brian Hilliard and their feline friends. (Please listen to the podcast episode or read the transcript to hear explanations, stories and examples.) ARIELLE FORD DEFINES A SOULMATE AS: Someone you can be completely be yourself with. Someone you share unconditional love with. When you look into your partner’s eyes, you have the experience of being home. IMPORTANT POINTS FROM ARIELLE FORD: WHAT IS LOVE AND THE PURPOSE OF A MARRIAGE? The fastest and best way to get a soulmate is to put your attention everyday on gratitude for all the love you already have in your life. Then, your heart become magnetic to romantic love. At least 90% of people are already with their soulmate. What you need to do is clear out all the gunk, the frustration, and all the disappointment, so that you can feel the love again. Most people don’t really know what love is because we think love is a feeling. “The really important thing about love is that it is a behavior. It is a practice. It is a decision. It is a choice.” Arielle Ford The purpose of marriage is to heal all of our childhood wounds. Arielle quotes Harville Hendrix in saying, “Our brain has an unconscious partner picker.” We pick somebody that comes with the playbook, with the owner’s manual on how to push all of our buttons, so that we can be healed. “The true path of the soulmate marriage is the deepest, most amazing, spiritual work to heal ourselves and each other. And it is not always fun.” Arielle Ford DEALING WITH CHALLENGES The bad news is 50% of first marriages, 64% of second marriages, and 73% of third marriages end in divorce. The only thing that is consistent in all three marriages is you. While it looks like the problem is over there, chances are that is not true. Arielle quotes John Gottman in saying, “Every couple has a minimum of 9 irreconcilable differences.” It is our job in the relationship to find creative solutions to deal with our differences. She shared a personal story about her relationship with her husband and how she negotiated a challenge with him. She said, “Nothing effectively changed until I was willing to get honest and vulnerable with him.” One key she talked about in addressing a sensitive topic is understanding that “this is your best friend, your partner, your biggest cheerleader, your lover for life, your safe place to land, and approach these conversations from a place of love, kindness, and respect.” If you are really angry, that is not the time to have a conversation. Go get yourself to neutral first. Learn how to have constructive conversations and listen effectively (see below for resources). “The hardest part of life isn’t life, it is the other human beings in life.” Arielle Ford We all want to be loved and accepted for exactly who we are. Science is now showing that for every minute you have an angry judgmental thought you suppress your immune system for up to 8 hours. “The number one way to guarantee a long, happy life is to have a happy marriage.” Arielle Ford ARIELLE FORD SHARED TWO TIPS: 1. Awareness: Stop when you recognize a negative thought. Think to yourself, “Cancel. Cancel.” Replace the negative thought with a better thought. 2. Create a new connection:  Get yourself to neutral. With pen and paper, write down some memories about your partner and your relationship. What was it like when you first met? How did you feel when you met your partner? What are some of the best experiences you have had together? What have you most admired and respected about your partner? What are the happiest memories you shared together as a couple? Read the list and then write your partner the most beautiful love letter. Then, put it in an “I love you just because card” and put it in a place where they will find it when you are not around. DOUBTING THE RELATIONSHIP? If you are having serious doubts about your relationship, take 6 months to try new ways of relating before leaving your partner. Take baby steps. Read and learn relationship skills (see below), and see if you can reignite your love and connection. There is a 90% chance that you are with your soulmate and they still can be, but there are weeks, months or years of gunk in the way. You don’t need to wait until your partner is willing to engage in growth work. If you start changing, it is likely your partner will start changing too. If you are experiencing abuse or addiction issues in your relationship, please seek professional counseling. Attempt to address only one issue at a time. Communicate from a place of being a friend, being kind, and open to hearing. Check out the resources below as well as the Connected Couple program to develop happy, lasting love: For a limited time only, you can use this coupon code for a 20% discount: fall2017   MENTIONED: Register for your first chapter of “Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate” by Arielle Ford (opt-in) SoulmateSecret.com (Arielle’s “Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate” website) SolumatePassion.com (Arielle’s “The Soulmate Secret” website) The Soulmate Secret (Arielle’s FaceBook page) A Step-by-Step Guide To Turn Any Argument Into Effective Communication (article) What Does The Development Of Intimacy Look Like In Relationship? (article) ERP 036: How To Offer The Gift Of Listening (podcast) ERP 109: How Being Gentle With Your Partner Can Make A Big Difference (podcast) Harville & Helen Hendrix (website) The Gottman Institute (website) The Hendricks Institute (website) Mary Morrissey (website) TRANSCRIPT: Click on this link to access the transcript for this episode: ERP 122: How To Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate, with Arielle Ford [Transcript] If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the “Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins” button here. Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship. Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here. Thank you!  If you are interested in developing new skills to overcome relationship challenges, please consider taking the Empowered Relationship Course or doing relationship coaching work with me.

Arielle Ford has spent the past 30 years living and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. She is the author of the international bestseller, THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction. Her book, Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate offers a groundbreaking shift in perception showing couples how to have a deeper and more fulfilling relationship. Her latest book is Inkspirations: Love by Design: Coloring the Divine Path to Manifest Your Soulmate the world’s first transformational coloring book. Arielle has been called “The Cupid of Consciousness” and “The Fairy Godmother of Love.” She lives in La Jolla, CA with her husband and soulmate, Brian Hilliard and their feline friends. Her website www.soulmatesecret.com. Today’s guest, Arielle Ford, answers the questions that have been troubling couples since the beginning of time: How do you find your soulmate? How do you effectively deal with your differences? Known as the “Cupid of Consciousness” and “The Fairy Godmother of Love”, Arielle shares her relational wisdom with listeners today and gives us insight into her own journey in finding and sustaining love. She’s author of the bestselling book The Soulmate Secret: Manifest the Love of your life with the law of Attraction which provides a step-by-step guide for finding love. Tune-in as Arielle shares various insights which will help you turn your mate into a soulmate. Arielle has spent the last 30 years living and promoting consciousness Check out Arielle’s website to avail of some free goodies Finding true love At the age of 43, Arielle realized that she had spent all her energy towards building her business and ignored her personal life Arielle applied processes and rituals that had helped her with her love life Within six months, Arielle met her future husband, Bryan—they have been married for 19 years now Discovering her lack of partner skills She quickly figured out that bossing around her alpha-masculine husband was not a good idea Growing up in a middle-class, dysfunctional family did not help hone her relationship skills either Committed herself to being a student of love Our relationship skills or lack of them can be attributed to all the role models in our life Having proper communication skills is critical for turning your mate into your soul mate Bryan often complained that Arielle was “not listening” to him Bryan is the youngest child and has a need to be heard Arielle is the eldest child and she is a terrible listener Arielle quickly realized that she had to learn to listen to Bryan Arielle still has a hard time turning her body to Bryan, looking him in the eye and listening in a proper manner Come up with creative solutions to iron out your differences “You can either be right or you can be in a relationship” Avoid correcting your partner “It is absolutely normal to have differences in a relationship” “Every couple has a minimum of 9 irreconcilable differences” Creative solutions, not compromises, will help you deal with differences In a compromise, one partner tends to let go, whereas a creative solution is a win-win situation Arielle favorite line from the A Course in Miracles: “The only thing that can be lacking in a given situation is that which you were not given” Thinking positively will surely help you find the love of your life “The only thing that keeps us from getting all the love that we desire is our own limiting beliefs” Attempt to consciously get rid of negative thoughts Positive thoughts are much more powerful than negative ones. A few positive thoughts have the power to cancel out hundreds of negative ones “Be the guardian to the doorway of your mind” Having firm beliefs about your love life will affect your actions in a positive way We draw to us the people, places and experiences that match our state of being Your actions are nothing but a reflection of your beliefs Having a firm belief that you are connected with your soulmate will prevent you from being casual about your sex life as well Arielle’s secret sauce to manifestation is “Feelingization” Only visualization does not help you attain your dreams Arielle’s facilitates this concept via meditations which she calls “head to the heart” Experience feelings of love and gratitude in the present moment Access free content on “Feelingization” on Arielle’s website Aim for mature, adult love by being more accepting of your partner’s idiosyncrasies The feeling of love where you are in a chemically induced state lasts, on average, 6 to 18 months Real, mature, adult love is a behavior or a practice When you are in a mature relationship, you choose to act lovingly even though you are upset with you soulmate “You are in the right relationship when you start off as a ‘dream come true’ and it evolves into your most horrible nightmare” Finding perfections in our partner’s imperfections is the concept of “wobby, sobby” love Make the perception shift and deal with your partner’s imperfections People want to be loved for who they are Arielle shares a “wobby, sobby” AH-HA moment In one of her “wobby, sobby” workshops, Arielle came across Stephanie who was having issues with her husband, Garth Stephanie was a stickler for cleanliness whereas Garth was a total slob Stephanie hated cleaning up after Garth Arielle asked Stephanie whether she still loved her pet dog in spite of the fact that she had to clean up the dog’s shit Stephanie realized that Garth could not help being a slob, just like her dog could not help having to shit Stephanie realized that Garth being a slob is not a reason to love him any less Their relationship improved, Garth quit his job and started a home-business so that he could be with Stephanie 24 x 7 Dealing with your soulmate’s emotional shut-downs Men need to go into a “cave” when they feel they are feeling emotionally low Going into a “cave” helps raise their testosterone levels Women should never attempt to follow a man to his “cave” Women tend to shut down emotionally as they can’t express their anger Being a “pleasure puppy” can help a man or woman deal with an emotional shut down Women can build oxytocin, and men testosterone by being a “pleasure puppy” Women can get a foot rub, head massage or go out with their girlfriends. Chopping wood, exercising, watching or playing sports is the best way to build testosterone for a man Arielle advises getting professional counseling if you are in a hard spot Deeper Dating is a great book for all gay couples wishing to sort out their issues Add God in your relationship and discover true magic The missing link in most relationships is the lack of the divine “You can’t sit on a chair with two legs. But you can sit on a tripod that has three” “In typical arithmetic, one plus one equals two. But in soulmate love, one plus one equals eleven, and your love blesses the world” InkSpiration is a unique coloring book which helps manifest love for your beloved. Coloring is an oxytocin booster and by doing this activity, you can make a visual representation of the desires that you have for love Listening is the thing that challenges Arielle the most Apply for Giovanna’s six month coaching program by filling out your application Check out She Rises website 3 Key Points: Aim to find creative solutions, and not compromises to iron out your differences. Arielle is a proponent for “wobby, sobby” love which involves finding perfections in imperfections. Find the divine in your relationship and discover true magic. Resources Mentioned: The Soulmate Secret: Manifest the Love of your life with the law of Attraction – Arielle’s bestselling book InkSpiration – Arielle’s unique coloring book which will help you manifest love for your beloved Deeper Dating – A great resource for gay couples Turn Your Mate into a Soulmate –  Another book by Arielle A Course in Miracles – A book on spiritual transformation by Dr. Helen Schucman She Rises Tribe – Facebook Group    

Listen Here: Bestselling author, Arielle Ford joins us today to discuss her new book, Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate, which offers groundbreaking ways to transform your relationship into a deeper, more loving, and more fulfilling lifetime love. Whether you’ve been married for two months or twenty-five years,  Arielle shares ways to re-envision and re-ignite your relationship […] The post Podcast: The Secrets to Lasting Love appeared first on JenningsWire.

According to Arielle Ford, one in three relationships that end in marriage start online today. And she ought to know; her work in the field of relationships over the last 30 years has earned her the title, “The Fairy Godmother of Love.” She’s on the show today to talk to us about soulmates, our search for love, and the law of attraction that can help us to find our next perfect partner. Already found your soulmate? Don’t worry, Arielle has some great advice for you, too, that will help you rekindle the excitement in your relationship no matter how long you’ve been together! About Arielle Ford Arielle Ford has spent the past 30 years living and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. She is the author several books including THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction, Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate and her latest Inkspirations Love by Design: Coloring the Divine Path to Manifest Your Soulmate a unique, transformational coloring book. She’s been called “The Cupid of Consciousness” and “The Fairy Godmother of Love” and you might have read her article “Finding Big Love is possible at any age” in our February edition of Michelle’s Magazine! Links & Notes Soulmate Secret — Sign up for Arielle’s Newsletter! Soulmate Secret 7 Week Online Course Find Arielle’s Books on Amazon Follow Arielle Ford on Facebook Follow SoulmateSecret on Facebook

Arielle Ford is a love and relationship expert and a leading personality in the personal growth and contemporary spirituality movement. For the past 25 years she has been living, teaching, and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. She is a speaker, a blogger for the Huffington Post and the producer and host of Evolving Wisdom’s Art of Love series. Arielle is a gifted writer and the author of ten books including the international bestseller, THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction. And her latest book is Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate. She has been called “The Cupid of Consciousness” and “The Fairy Godmother of Love.” She lives in La Jolla, CA with her husband/soulmate, Brian Hilliard and their feline friends. Guiding Principle, Quote or Mantra It’s a both/and world. It is both the way you say it is AND the way I say it is.  How many irreconcilable differences to you think married couples have? Arielle shares with us what research has found about this. When You Tripped Up As a first time bride at 44 years of age, Arielle realized she had no partnership skills. What she was really good at was being the boss and telling people what to do.  She had no idea that a masculine operating man was not interested in being told what to do. This is a great story. What she learned is that marriage really is a place to heal all your childhood wounds. The “DUH” moment that changed your partnerships forever Arielle believed that the proper way to squeeze a tube of toothpaste is from the bottom up. Her husband is very different. Several times a day she would have negative, judgmental thoughts about her husband because of this. So she had a conversation with the tube of toothpaste and it changed everything. Listen to this… Proudest moment in partnership When shortly after her husband, Brian, had attended one of her talks, he applied what she taught at the event.  Current Partnership that Has You Excited Her annual free Art of Love Series where she interviews the world’s top love experts.  This year is focused on Single Successful Women Looking for a Conscious Man What is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received? Be kind. Be kind, compassionate and considerate.  Your partner did not wake up thinking how could I make my partner miserable today? What could I do to ruin their day? [spp-tweet tweet="Shift your perception from annoyed to enjoyed."] Best Partnership Book (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/080241270X/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=080241270X&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=ZETYKY3ETEALJDGU) The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/080241270X/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=080241270X&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=LCDR65XBWOXYV7TZ) (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00VQRCQ8K/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B00VQRCQ8K&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=RRAORGFF5WUJPXP2) Turn Your Mate into Your Soulmate: A Practical Guide to Happily Ever After (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00VQRCQ8K/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B00VQRCQ8K&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=H2CML7HILRO4LRPQ) (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0062003763/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0062003763&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=V6XBYVFVP4V4QP66) Wabi Sabi Love: The Ancient Art of Finding Perfect Love in Imperfect Relationships...

After joyous beginnings, many couples find their dreams of perfect love replaced by frustration, criticism, defensiveness and emotional distance. In this episode, Arielle Ford, best-selling author of “The Soulmate Secret,” shares with us the wisdom of her new book, “Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate.” According to Arielle, “It's one thing to fall in love and get married. It is quite another thing to have a marriage you love.” Getting to that space is the true purpose of “Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate.” In the back and forth with host, Suzanne Phillips, Arielle will discuss the tools techniques and actionable steps for listeners to move from “annoyed” to “enjoyed” i.e. to make a loving marriage possible again. She will draw upon hundreds of interviews and advice from marriage experts including Harville Hendrix and Marianne Williamson. This show will inform you and invite new thinking and feeling about your relationship.

Featured Guest: Arielle Ford – author/speaker/relationship expert – Arielle Ford has spent the past 25 years living and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. She is the author of the international bestseller, THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction. Her next book, Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate, just released, offers women groundbreaking shifts in perceptions on how to transform their relationship to a deeper, more loving, and more fulfilling lifetime love. Arielle has been called “The Cupid of Consciousness” and “The Fairy Godmother of Love.” She lives in La Jolla, CA with her husband/soulmate, Brian Hilliard and their feline friends.  www.soulmatesecret.com

Arielle Ford is a leading personality in the personal growth and contemporary spirituality movement. She has spent the past 25 years living and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. She is the author of the international bestseller, THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction. Her next book, Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate, debuts on December 29th and offers women groundbreaking shifts in perceptions on how to transform their relationship into a deeper, more loving, and more fulfilling lifetime love. Arielle has been called “The Cupid of Consciousness” and “The Fairy Godmother of Love.” She lives in La Jolla, CA with her husband/soulmate, Brian Hilliard and their feline friends. Her website www.soulmatesecret.com and www.arielleford.com. Get the Off the Grid Into the Heart CD by Sister Jenna. Like America Meditating, Download our FREE Pause for Peace app.