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Louise Wilkinson’s After Dark - Everything that’s “too hot” for talking about during the day. Unlock your pleasure, get insights into your relationships and push past your limiting beliefs. Oh and we talk a lot about sex toys. 

Newcastle Live


    • Mar 5, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 33m AVG DURATION
    • 111 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from After Dark

    AFTER DARK: Relationship and Sex Therapist, Gabrielle Lawrie

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2024 10:07


    After Dark is back for 2024 with Relationship and Sex Therapist, Gabrielle Lawrie. FIND OUT MORE: https://newcastlelive.com.au/after-dark/

    The Nice Guy archetype

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2023 8:31


    On this month's show, Louise chats with Intimacy Coach, Luke Skewes about the Nice Guy archetype ABOUT AFTER DARK Louise Wilkinson's After Dark is Newcastle's hottest podcast! Join Lou every month for tips on unlocking your pleasure and getting more out of your romantic relationships including expert advice from industry professionals and insights from everyday people.

    Dead Bedrooms in the Hunter!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 2, 2023 17:42


    Welcome to a brand new season of Newcastle's hottest show - After Dark. Tonight, Louise tackles an issue plaguing relationships around the Hunter. You can now WATCH episodes of After Dark on Newcastle Live!

    Sucking the fun out of oral

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2023 22:40


    Cindra joins us to chat about what is sucking the fun out of oral sex and how we might address it.

    The relationship vault

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2023 24:52


    We're joined by Luke to examine the ride-or-die relationship. What is the relationship vault and what role does it play in the health and longevity of your relationship?

    All tea, no BS!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2023 32:40


    Tonight, we're joined by Timberlina to answer your burning questions. Jasmine will be in to talk about checking in with ourselves.

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    The benefits of outercourse

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2023 25:10


    Nikki from Flirt Adult Store is here to talk to us about taking this slow. Cindra has a bee in her bonnet over a recently released product

    What's a kink auction?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2023 32:32


    Gab Lawrie joins us to talk about non-violent communication. The Queen of the newcastle kink scene, Gracie will fill us in on the kink auction!

    The five rules to conscious conflict

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2023 34:51


    The importance of communication to heat up your sex life and your love life - Luke Skewes shows us what that actually looks life.

    Emotional Affairs

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2023 39:51


    Super excited to have Timberlina back on the show for a girlie catch up & Cindra Banks tackles the sensitive topic of emotional affairs.

    Sensation Play

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2023 34:50


    Luke is hot off the back of an appearance at Love X and will fill us in on sensation play. Nikki will be dropping in to talk about penis pumps and how they can increase your size, girth and pleasure.

    But wait, there's more; Hidden gems of the vulva!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2023 35:32


    Jasmine talks about the inability to orgasm and what we might be able to do. Cindra draws us a map of the vulva to reveal some spots that you may not have known about!

    Temperature play and how to do it safely

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2023 39:45


    This week we talk to Nikki from Flirt Adult Store about "temperature play", what you need and how to do it safely. We'll also talk to Luke about why people are still having bad sex.  ________ After Dark is brought to you by Flirt Adult Store. Visit them in person at Hamilton and Woy Woy or shop online at flirtadultstore.com.au. Use the code INBED30 for a 30% discount. ________

    Protest behaviours in relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2023 39:15


    Tonight, Gab Lawry will talk us through protest behaviours in our relationships. Cindra joins us to talk about the flaws of Instagram.

    Connect with your sensuality

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2023 39:15


    Luke & Louise wade into the murky waters of sex with an ex.... is it ever a good idea? And Jasmin gives us 5 ways to connect with our own sensuality that doesn't involve self-pleasure.

    Bernie's Bar and a very sexy calendar for July

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2023 27:38


    Whether your preferred calendar is Apple, Google or Sasco- you're gonna need it tonight as Nicki from Flirt Adult Store drops in to give us a whole heap of sexy days to celebrate in July! Gracie - the owner of Bernie's bar drops in to give us the rundown on Bernie's inaugural “Pride” month and what we can expect from this inclusive venue in July.

    Respect is sexy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2023 31:57


    It's Story Time as Luke shares (with full permission) his sexy tryst with a trans person & how he navigated it.... & Morgan answers your burning questions on Diary of a Call Girl.

    Three things to know before your first O

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2023 38:37


    Ladies!..... Do you feel like you're leading your partner around by the d%*k?! Do you pay their bills? Remind them to pick up towels? Are they an extra child in the household at this point? @cindrabanks & Louise discuss how staying in that "boss bitch" energy is NOT hot in a relationship & how BOTH partners can step up to rectify it.... & Jasmin form @conscioussexuality reveals the three top things she wished she knew before her first O.

    Open Relating

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2023 35:08


    Luke gives Louise an education in open relating & how we can ALL learn from the boundaries, communication & honesty that it requires to make a connection work.

    Dildos for dinosaurs

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2023 39:02


    Nicki from Flirt Adult Store is going to give us a fascinating history lesson on sex toys, dating back to pre-historic times!

    Do Better

    Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2023 35:00


    Tonight Luke has an important PSA to men: DO BETTER! If you're ghosting (taking days to reply or just disappearing), stonewalling (avoiding conversations that involve any sort of feeling) or breadcrumbing (putting in minimum effort to keep a person hooked)..... THE GIG IS UP! (& if this is happening to you.... NO... you're not crazy!)

    Kinkcastle

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2023 33:34


    Newcastle has officially been crowned the Kink Capital of Australia! Tonight on After Dark Louise chats to the queen of the Newcastle kink scene, and Nicki from Flirt Newcastle will be in to give us some tips for couples thinking about adding a third person.

    Religion and sexuality

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2023 33:36


    Jasmin wades into the hot topic of how religion can mess with your sexuality. Cindra asks us to consider if wet towels are the source of your c*ck block- either by leaving them on the floor or nagging about them!

    The Big 'O'

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2023 34:13


    Nicki from Flirt is brimming with excitement (& toy tips) for Masturbation May. Luke discusses another type of O, & Morgan reveals establishments have become a safe space for the trans community in the face of public backlash.

    Are screens cockblocking you?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2023 33:44


    How TV & devices are cockblocking you and how to work with your partner to solve this. Gab joins us to talk about two willing participants who aren't talking the same love language in the bedroom.

    Gaslighting - how to know if it's happening to you

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2023 32:33


    The nation is obsessed with MAFS and one of the buzz words kicking around is "gaslighting". So what is gaslighting? How do we know it's happening? And is the gaslighter's motivations always sinister? Luke Skewes & Louise investigate... Jasmin Carman is back to discuss painful sex. A staggering number of vagina owners experience painful sex in their lifetimes and Jasmin is here to reassure us there is a LOT we can do.

    What is bro code?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2023 31:30


    The Ugly Truth boys Mux & Bart field questions we have always wanted to know but are too afraid to ask . . . what is bro code? What do garden variety males really think about selfies and what actually happens to those sexy pics that we send to our squeeze?

    Slow, intimate & connected

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2023 32:29


    Gab joins us to talk about a concept that speaks to busy parents with no energy. Jasmine asks us to check in with our bodies and let them speak tell us what we need. Nikki from Flirt Adult Store is back to talk about knocking on the backdoor.

    Solo play life hacks!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2023 33:02


    Tonight, Jasmin asks us to level up our communication skills for asking for what we want. Cindra reveals what couples argue about the most & Nicki from Flirt Adult Store has an important health message for us all!

    Is my partner cheating?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2023 32:11


    Luke & Louise answer a listener's question.... is her partner cheating?! Jasmin encourages all the boss ladies to drop the masculine energy & connect with femininity. Nicky discusses a taboo practice that has men and women alike discovering new levels of sexual pleasure.... and the toys that can lend a helping hand.

    International steak and BJ day

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2023 26:49


    While the ladies got spoiled on the 14th of LAST month.... its the boys turn today. March 14th is Steak & BJ Day & Nicki from Flirt Adult Store will be giving us all the tips...... on how to cook a perfect steak. Luke answers a listeners burning question & Morgan takes us on a world tour in Diary Of A Call Girl.

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    Swipe right on using dating apps

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2023 37:56


    Jasmin drops in to challenge our definition of a sexual experience.... Cindra gives Louise a good talking to about jumping back on the dating apps & Mux is MIA on the Ugly Truth!!.... Will Louise survive Matthew dispensing his pearls of wisdom without Mux reigning him in?

    Which head are you thinking with?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 2, 2023 22:05


    Luke Skewes will be diving into what happens when we get into our head rather than dropping into our bodies, where all of the pleasure is, during sexual experiences. We discuss all things body image with Gab Lawrie.

    Living apart, together

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2023 29:46


    We get it.... you love them but you also love your alone time. She's messy, you're neat & you're fighting over ridiculous stuff. You are 100% committed to your relationship but also value autonomy. Carrie & Mr Big did it.... & now countless couples are jumping on the LAT trend. One love- two residences (usually a main & a satellite apartment or similar) & an agreement to spend a portion of the week apart & languishing in the "me time". The couples that have gone against the societal grain love it- & in a lot of cases believe their relationship or marriage is all the better for it. If your budget (& in some cases your ego & fear of judgement) allows for it..... Is Living Apart Together right for you? Our Sex & Relationships therapist Gabrielle Lawrie dives into the pros & cons of the relationship trend thats challenging the norms.

    Galentine's Day

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2023 35:48


    Tonight on After Dark it's GALANTINES DAY! Cindra Banks talks about what we can do if things aren't firing in the bedroom, Jasmin from Conscious Sexuality finishes off our 5 pillars of femininity series with a bang (literally) & Nicki from Flirt Adult Store has you covered for last minute gift ideas that just keep giving."The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love & be loved in return"Nat King Cole Happy Valentine's from After Dark

    Life as a male escort

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2023 33:29


    Male escort Leon Heart joins us to answer the questions about his career that no one else is game to ask.

    The hottest sex trends for 2023

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2023 35:36


    Luke Skewes joins us to talk about erectile dysfunction and why it's not the end of the world. Morgan will be in for Diary of a Call-Girl and tonight she will be talking about the OH&S assessment that needs to happen in her workplace. Nikki from Flirt Adult Store gets us raring to go with the hottest sex trends for 2023.

    Ladies Night!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2023 40:30


    Have you heard about play parties? Holly is going to fill us in on what's happening underground in Newcastle. Tonight Cindra Banks joins us to chat about natural lubrication. Jasmine will tell us about her fourth pillar of femininity.

    Dick Pic Etiquette

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2023 39:08


    Luke from Conscious Couples runs us through dick pic etiquette for those sending or on the receiving end. Morgan will be back for diary of a callgirl, tonight we're talking about Tradie Tuesday! Nikki from Flirt Adult Store will be along to set our sexual New Years Resolution for success.

    Yoni mapping

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2023 31:44


    Soft... divine... lush... Cindra Banks from Conscious Couples joins us with the tools to ensure that we are on the path to absolute sexual satisfaction.

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    Don't forget the mistletoe!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2022 25:03


    Luke and Cindra from Conscious Couples Coaching help to make sure that your intimacy needs aren't forgotten as we move into the silly season. One of our regular sexperts Holly joins us to talk about an event happening at The Lass this Saturday. Did somebody say discounted toys? Nikki from Flirt Adult Store has you covered with some hot additions for underneath the Christmas tree

    How to be a better lover

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2022 30:03


    Tonight we're continuing our diary of a call girl series, and this time we will be talking about community service within that space. Nikki from Flirt Adult Store will join us to reinvigorate our Netflix and Chill sessions. Luke and Cindra from Conscious Couples Coaching will be wading through the orgasm gap.

    The art of shibari

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2022 25:48


    How the Japanese art of rope tying can level up your sexual experience.

    Spice up your festive season

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2022 28:58


    Nikki from Flirt Adult Store joins us to talk about Christmas gift giving with a spicy difference and a hot sale. Luke and Cindra from Conscious Couples Coaching are in to chat about open relating and jealousy.

    The World of Burlesque

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2022 25:44


    Decadence, sequins and dance - tonight, the focus is on the world of burlesque. We are joined by burlesque dancer, Voodoo Doll for a whole load of sexy stories and titillating truths.

    The ins and outs of Sexpo

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 2, 2022 36:58


    Luke and Cindra from Conscious Couples Coaching are hot off the back of their sold-out Sexpo experience! Jasmine from Conscious Sexuality will be taking us through the five pillars of feminine wholeness. Our favourite mischief causing mates, Mux and Bart join us for a bit of sex trivia that you didn't know you needed.

    A sensory extravaganza

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2022 28:24


    Our resident call girl Morgan joins us to share the ins and outs of sex work. Nikki from Flirt Adult store pops in to tell us all about sexpo! Timberlina is back to provide her unique brand of drag therapy.

    Sex ed. for adults

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2022 18:18


    Today we're flying solo with Luke from Conscious Couples Coaching to talk about a brand new course. Gabrielle Lawry will be along to talk about mismatched libidos.

    Diary of a call girl

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2022 27:58


    Tonight we will be meeting Morgan, who will be presenting her experiences as a call girl in an establishment. Nikki from Flirt Adult Store will be telling us about an event that is back this year bigger and better than ever.

    The pillars of self-pleasure

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2022 29:53


    Unpack your 'sexual blueprint'. Jasmine joins us to work through the pillars of self-pleasure.

    Sex Trivia

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 15, 2022 31:33


    Tonight, we're getting extra cheeky as Mux and Bart join us for The Ugly Truth.

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