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In this episode we explore dating apps, the approach for men, systematic mistakes men make when trying to start a conversation and how you can improve your chances of actually having results you expect. I gave you 5 things to practice on once you match with a potential crush and you want to get her attention and transition into meeting her in person. If you have any questions, comments, or suggestions for future episodes, please don't hesitate to reach out to me. You can find me on @th3luvdud3 on IG, and of course, please subscribe to YOU+ME BLVD if you haven't yet, to stay up to date on the latest episodes. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/support

This episode take a feedback from a listener as an opportunity to discuss the reasons it's best to show your personality than to be a performer. Performers are often pretenders and in relationships pretenders are soon found out and dumped. Don't be that person…for any suggestions, comments, etc, please reach out to me directly on IG @th3luvdud3 or you can also email us at silverslp@icloud.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/support

This episode is a zoom-in on popular expression “equally yoked” and a closer look at how relationship are developed and nurtured. Relationships aren't canned food you microwave, they're the meal you cook from ingredients you acquire through observation, awareness, clarity and open mindedness. Often we get lost in concept we were told about. Ultiwe must give ourselves the chance to see things for what they are, rather than what we were told they are. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/support

What's compatibility for you, how does that translate in your relationships? As you ask yourself those questions, we identify the main types of relationships compatibility wise and what we see from outside versus what they see inside and how it translate for each person. How must you approach those and what to avoid. Listen in, like, share, support and Feel free to book your free coaching session for 30 days here

Imposter syndrome, what it is, what it makes you do and think, how it influences your relationships and your connections to others and on your life in general. How to combat it in your social life and improvise the way you approach connecting with others. Dating coaching services is live, book your dating strategy call today here

Today we have a conversation artist, entrepreneur, day trader, multicultural single dad August D. who has graciously agreed to share with us his perspective on the use of dating apps. This man has a very extensive experience and I dare say expertise on using dating apps. So he gets to explain that experience and his own values based of the experience of online dating. Like and share if you find value in this episode at all. Leave a review as well to help us grow and bring more and better topics and speakers going forward. The new IG page of this show is https://www.instagram.com/youplusmeblvd/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

Today we talk about the concept of ideal partner, and how to get yours. We all want the best in our lives and the best means very a different thing for each of us. But also the best is often right in front of us but we don't always pay attention because we have a different perception of it. What you want is not always what you need and we are diving into identifying it to identify ourselves better. Tune in and hope you enjoy. As always the IG page for this podcast show is at https://www.instagram.com/youplusmeblvd/ feel free to reach out to criticize or suggest or offer constructive remarks or just to share your own journey, perhaps you could be the next guest on the show. Looking forward to exchange with all of you at some point. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

This episode has me sharing more on my own internal struggles, the trauma over the years from childhood to now. And how I deal with it currently. Feel free to reach out on our new Instagram page, @you+meblvd , share with me your struggle if you want, and your process to work it out. Let's talk fam. I love you all. https://www.instagram.com/youplusmeblvd/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

Coming at you with some learning of the past few months and perhaps couple of years. It takes some healthy self image to love on thyself and to develop the right attitude to love on someone else be it a friend or a lover. Here we lay down 5 things I picked up along my growth journey to better self-image. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

A conversation on mindset and approach to break ups and what to nourish, build from and build on when those things occur. Today's guest is Writer, Entrepreneur, investor Eurenice who i have the privilege to exchange with. Hope you enjoy!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

We're diving into Simone's life today listening to her story, learning more about releasing control or keeping control. Manifesting the right people or vibrating to the wrong ones and attracting them. Hope you enjoy. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

Authenticity in relationships is a commodity that can be scarce these days. Relationships with the wrong foundations will not last so today we discuss authenticity to build true real and long lasting foundations for a long lasting relationship --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

In this episode I'm giving my take on some people's bad habit of breaching a potential partners privacy before they even build any sort of bond with them. Enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

Relationships challenge our thinking, so we tend to question both ourself and our partner. Which in a sense gives us anxiety. What are the signs you're having anxiety in your relationship, what's causing them and how can you improve. Listen and enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

What's the law receptivity, how does it apply to relationships, how do we find in ourselves first what we are so quick to look for in people?! We discuss those questions today in this episode. Enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

This episodes discusses how we get attached to others and why we do it. What is an attachment style and what is yours?! Listen to this episode and find out! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

How do you like to be apologized to?! just like the 5 love languages, there are the 5 apology languages. they constitute language of the ways you like people to apologize to you. Something I myself learnt about recently and decided to share in this episode. hope you enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

This episode is a look at why we feel hurt after a break up, separation or we lose a loved one and how we can avoid it or at least alleviate the pain somewhat. Hope you enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

In this episode, I illustrates a number of reasons one should not be dating or be committing to a partner because of the many requirements of commitment and how taxing a relationship is. Sometimes we forget that in a relationship we are dealing with a whole other persons whose feelings matter as much as ours do. Hope you enjoy. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

In this episode I’m giving my 2 cents on whether one should and/or can be beat friend with one or all of their exes while dating someone else, more so on the dynamics on that particular scenario and what that entails as far as your new relationship is concerned. For now? Feel free to send any questions? Concern, clarification request, topic suggestion, feedback or even just come say hi to me. Listen, share, subscribe, support, comment if you can depending on the platform you’re listening to us on. Stay safe and thank you. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

This episode examines the pros and cons of cross culture dating as well as the trending aspect of looking outside the box. Feel free to check out this shows website https://waitogether.com and contact us for any inquiry or follow me on my personal Instagram at td_maelh and reach out, let’s chat. Thanks and hope you enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

This episode examines what a relationship with a narcissistic person looks like and what you can do to walk away from it and heal. Feel free to check out my website https://waitogether.com and stay up to date with every show and Merch we are working on. And if you want to a 1 on 1 conversation with me instead of schedule session follow me on my personal Instagram at td_maelh and reach out, let’s chat. Hope you enjoy. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

Understanding the general concept of submissiveness and dominance, being a sub or being an Alpha. What are the repercussions of being either, creating a dynamic where both parties understand their identity and their roles in the relationship. Also this episode discusses the understanding of modern woman versus conservative woman of being submissive to your man. Hope you enjoy. Follow me on IG at td_maelh or on ClubHouse at mightywarrior21 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

This episode revisit the relationship between insecurities and self image and the many roots of insecurities from childhood to adulthood. It also covers the influences a belief self developed or induced could have on ones identity which can create insecurities. Hope you enjoy. Follow me on IG at td_maelh --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

This episode looks at the differences and style of dating between dating apps and real life dating. It also explores the possibilities of dating both ways in these times of pandemic restrictions. Hope you enjoy. Follow us on IG at td_maelh and feel free to send us your feedback, concern or any topic suggestions. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

This episode dives into 5 of the most general red flags to assess whether someone is good in your life or not. Feel free to reach out to us on IG : td_maelh. Hope you enjoy this oisifs. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

Relationships are a stage on which you dance to the tune of the future you seek. Ok this episode we explore more misconceptions regarding the mindset behind looking for a partner and having insecurities. Hope you enjoy. Feel free to reach out to us with all your feedback, concerns, and support on IG at td_maelh --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

More on the misconceptions. In this episode we explore the depths of letting a new person in without holding them accountable for our past hurts or to our perspectives of lives. A commitment is made off understanding and compromising and so a real relationship needs not to be judgmental. Fee free to reach out to us on Instagram at td_maelh with all your concerns, feedback of all sorts are welcome and possibly any supports you have for us. Thank you. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

More on the misconception note. I’m sharing on the concept of courtship courtesy and Monogamy to point out the entitlement display of some people and the allocation of those entitlement rights based off the false premises of gender. Hope you gain value or at least entertainment from this. For any concern, contestation, feedback of all sorts, reach out to me on IG : td_maelh --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

This episode is about 5 things that are often misunderstood in building relationships, 5 misconceptions that can break your relationship or hinder you while you’re trying to build one. Things ranging from insecurities to emotional understandings. Hope you enjoy. For all your questions, concern, feedback, topic suggestions, send us a message directly if you’re using the Anchor app or reach out to us on IG: td_maelh --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

My personal perspective on approaching Reseved/conservative/Shy women vs Open minded/emancipated/extroverted women. The cheek kiss comes as an alternative to avoid conflict during developing bonds and intimate relationships as well as securing friendship post breakups. For all your questions, concerns and topic suggestion please feel free to add me and reach out on IG : td_maelh or message me directly on Anchor if you’re listening to us on The anchor app or website. Thanks, Enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

Why high standards, how to raise them high, how to enforce them and how to maintain your standards. Follow us on IG at td_maelh and Facebook are Mael HOUNDY’S to ask us questions or send us feedback, support us. Visit our Linktree page on https://linktr.ee/relationshiptalk --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

What questions should you be asking yourself before starting a new relationship? What are you expecting from this relationship? How do you want to be treated? How do you plan on treating your partner? All those things come down to being prepared, aware and open minded to learn from whomever you’re engaging in this new commitment. This episode explores the depth of preparedness and opportunity for New relationship and what you should have ready before entering it. Follow me on Instagram at td_maelh and go support this podcast and our blog here https://linktr.ee/td_maelh --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app · Charity Promotion: Democracy Works: This advertisement is part of a charitable initiative in partnership with Democracy Works. howto.vote · Charity Promotion: BallotReady: The goal of this initiative is to increase voter education and encourage your listeners to get the vote out during the 2020 General Election this November. https://www.ballotready.org/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

One of the hardest things to deal with in our relationships is betrayal or disloyalty, unfaithfulness and infidelity. In this episode, we break down the concept of infidelity. Explore several reasons someone might cheat on you and lay down some guidelines for how to deal with it. Follow me on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/td_maelh/ and send me your questions, feedbacks, concerns, corrections or topic suggestions. Also if you liked this episode share it with a friend and donate something to help us make more amazing episode like this one. Enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

It is not easy to live together as a couple of to be committed to each other, agreeing on the various responsibilities each of you can must or should uphold. What should I be doing in the household and what should my partner be responsible for. Also what can I compromise on, how do I make her happier, loved and cared for, or how do I make him feel whole, loved, in charge and trusted. That takes some conversations, a lot of communication and the establishment of a dynamic you both are comfortable with and get agree to. Then it requires a certain mindset. This episode examines something a to be aware of as you have those conversations with your partner. Enjoy, share and support for more amazing episodes. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

I woke up couple of days ago I’m a very bad mood, I struggle through half of the day to overcome it. On this episode you’ll hear how overcame it and the mindset I developed from it. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

The story of a dark moment of my life when I had to confront some of the most disruptive feelings. A relationship of the highest commitment that turned into an emotional warfare. How I survived it and what I took away from that experience. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

How to identify the people in your life that aren’t good for you long term. Sometimes we are so attached to people that we are blind to what they are doing to us. We don’t want them to leave us but they are not helping us. In fact they drag us down and stop our growth. Listen to this episode where I share 5 things that help me identify those people. Enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

How do you handle insecurities in your couple. Listen to my thoughts and experiences I had from past relationships. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

How many times have you lived by what the world said is best for you and have you ever thought what do I think makes me happy? This episode is a few thoughts on how our securities have so much to do with us trying to live by the world’s perception of life. Enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

In these times of crisis and despair, how does one stays afloat the fear and negativity running around?! I give you 5 tips to be a Covid winner. Those of you looking for immunity packages, strong vitamin C sources and what not, here is a link to my partner stores with great pricing. Enjoy! https://tiny.cc/xms9oz --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

Sometimes it’s easy to fall in te trap of blaming others. Very often in a relationship, we blame others for things we relate to ourselves. I give you 5 things a woman wants to see definitely in a men when he approaches her. Enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

The reality or saying varies from cultural background to personal beliefs. We’re having our first guest here discussing the similarities and difference between dating in Africa and in the USA. Enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

Sometimes we get into friendships or intimate relationships and hit walls and obstacles and wonder why it’s not working. Why do we struggle sometimes in our different relationships?! Why is it so hard to interact with some of our friends and loved ones. One of the reasons is the relationship you have with yourself influences how you interact with others. So let’s learn more about the relationship we have with ourselves and how to improve it. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

Too many people get caught up in emotional roller coaster because they gave too much and didn’t get enough back. How do we get the control of our emotions back, how do we get control of situations where we feel compelled to get emotionally involved in situations that don’t necessarily require our emotions. Listen up! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

As we talk about friendship more in depth we want to acknowledge some of the values and identity principles we want to take into the friendship with other people. So here are some dos and don’ts to observe with your true friends. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

Friendship is one of the most basic relationships type, I’m sharing my take on how to start one, how to nurture one, common understanding of friendship, some dos and donts and a little bit more personal thought process. Hope you enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

A relationship is a connection between two or more people, it’s that link of relatability or indulgence you build with someone. Very often we misunderstand what it means to be in a relationship with someone, we misunderstand the very reason we are talking or interacting with the other person because we were focused on the wrong things. When you comprehend how to interact with someone and how to construct and craft a connection based on true values and intentions, the sky is the limit, you’ve become a relationship builder through and through. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mael-houndys/support

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