Explicitly Speaking

Hey lovelies,  Thanks for being patient. It's been a hot sec :)  In this episode we dive in to what Connor's journey has looked like, and what's next for Explicitly Speaking.  This is not the end, just the end of a pretty great beginning.  xx Janice 

Soooo.... Did you come??  How many of us have said yes to this question... even if it's a hard lie??? We've all been there - but how do we make sure that if the answer to this question is no we can be empowered to say NO.  It's definitely a journey but how do we get there as quickly as possible?? 

Apologies for the drag in content. We've been figuring a few things out and have some very exciting stuff to share soon.  BUT getting on to this week... Have you ever altered who you are or what you need so that you could be in a relationship? I know I have. Why is this a thing??

Janice is back - and Bali was incredible.  We chat about what happened (or didn't) on her holiday versus what her expectations were, and what came out of it.  Enjoy x

What does 'normal' look like? It's going to be different for everyone and we just share what's normal for us.  :) Enjoy  

We're back - apologies for the week off. It was a big one. This week we have a little chat about what Janice is expecting when it comes to what she wants to get out of her trip. It's a much needed holiday and hopefully she'll get EXACTLY what she wants from it. 

Welcome to Wednesday! What do you need when it comes to sex? Do you have a list of things that you absolutely can't live without? Well we do. I don't know why we haven't done this before but this week we have a good old chat about the things we can't live without when it comes to our sex lives.

Happy Hump Day - AKA the new Podcast Day!  This week we have pretty frank conversation around sexual education. How were you educated about sex? Did your parents ever talk to you about the birds and the bees? Was it your teacher? Or even a group of your friends laughing in the back seat on the way to a cricket game??  Tune in to hear about what our journeys looked like with sex ed!  xx

So we're switching it up - Hump day is the new Podcast Day - We thought it was fitting with the theme ;)  Literal ghosts that have come back to haunt me. We all get ghosted, that's just life these days. But these 3 guys have come back from the dead.  It's never too late to apologise for something that you may have done that wasn't so nice. We chat about what happened and how it made me feel :)  x

Sometimes communicating is hard. We've all been there, and even though we talk about this stuff every week, and look in to what we "should" do, sometimes we take the easier route too.  We're all human and this week we dive in to what to do when you actually don't want to talk about it.  Enjoy. 

Sorry Everyone - we were a little late posting this week!  But here it is. Episode 38 where we dive in to the downs of online dating. Has anyone ever showed up to a date and the person standing in front of you wasn't quite what you were expecting?  Let's talk about that. How do we navigate around someone who might show up one way behind a screen and another way in person. 

Just wanted to flag - We are not medical professionals. We simply share what our experience has been with contraception. You need to find what works for you, no matter what that may look like. If you have no idea where to even start, book in with a medical professional and find out your options :)  Enjoy! 

How good are Dick Pics? You all know I love them but we get in to why.  Enjoy x 

This week we chat about a couple conversations that we've had. We look in to shame and what it means to us, how we can potentially overcome things that we might be ashamed of, and how we feel about breaking a few stigmas. 

Yup - you didn't read it wrong. I actually almost cried.  This week we chat about why not masturbating also pays off (something that I never thought I'd say)  Stay tuned :) x

And just after this long weekend with all the beers being consumed we thought it was the perfect time to chat about something that always seems like the best idea at the time. haha Drunk Sex Tune in to hear about what we think and what we've had :)  x

Have you ever liked someone a bit more than they like you? Or have you ever got the vibe that someone is vibing you a bit more than your vibing them?? Would you still have the sex?? Is it worth the orgasm?? This week we get in to how to combat this, and what NOT to do.  Enjoy xx

How good are orgasms!?  This week we had some fun chatting about the different types of orgasms we've had.  Remember - having multiple orgasms is a practise. It won't happen over night (well, it will if you're lucky). So, practise, practise, practise!!! x

Happy New Year! Hope everyone had a break full of love, laughter, and of course - all the sex that you desired.  We're back from our little break and thought we'd take the time to reflect on the year we've had. We look in to what we've learned and how we've changed.  Would love to hear resolutions from you guys :)  xx Enjoy!

Happy Holidays everyone!  Thought this was the perfect time to enter the wonderful world of sex toys. We have them. We Love them. We want more!  Let us know what you asked for ;) We won't tell xxx

Have you ever made a life decision based on where you were at in your relationship? We've all been there - how to we make these decisions, and how do we ever know if it actually is going to be the best thing for us??  This week we take a look in to making those big decisions based on our partners. What would life be for us if we chose to do something differently??

How many types of sex is there?? Let's try to define the different kinds of sex... From 1 nighters to sex in relationships - we chat about what these look like for us, and how different they are.  Enjoy this one :) 

Sex Friends... Do they work? Are they a thing?? They always seem like a good idea at the time... But why - more likely than not - do they always eventually breakdown? This episode we try to figure this out. What's worked for us, what hasn't, and why!  

Episode 25! Welcome :)  This week we change up the tone a bit and try to work out why relationships are how they are today. Props to Steve Bartlett for his Video "THE SINGLE BIGGEST KILLER OF RELATIONSHIPS IN 2018" that prompted this conversation - check him out @Steven  And thanks again to Nik from @forherbox for sending me the Satisfyer. It lived up to it's name ;) 

And we're back! We so enjoyed the last 3 weeks with Tommy (if you haven't tuned in to those would recommend!) but we're so excited to be back. This week we update you guys around where we're at - sexually of course - and what we're thinking, and how some of us have practised what we preach :)

Well we hope you've enjoyed our first ever guest! We sure did :) This week there's no holds back. We touch on a few topics here - Spontaneous Anal being one of them.  We loved having Tommy on and be prepared to hear a lot more from him. 

Welcome back :) Tommy Misa is back and we're diving in to first times, and what his experience was when trying to navigate through that whole sex thaaang. So many laughs!

You asked - we delivered. Mr. Tommy Misa everyone - Artist; Actor; Model; Muse and Bartender extaordinaire - among all the other wonderful things. Tune in to part one of 3 - we get to know Tommy as the fabulous being that he is. We take a look in to how his life has evolved and how his pilot directly reflects what he's been through.

But is there?? Ya...there's plenty ;)  This past weekend Janice went to her 2nd sex party. And spoiler: it was a COMPLETELY different experience to the last one. We look in to what life was like leading up, and what exactly happened there. Enjoy :) 

But what has Connor's journey been thus far?? This week we look into where Connor started vs. where he is now, and what he's learned along the way. Does age really matter? And, what is the real difference in experience?? Stay tuned :) 

Orgasms are a journey, and the road to them looks completely different for everyone.  Listen in to hear what the journey was like for Janice and how long it's taken to keep orgasms consistently great... 10 years in the making :) 

This week we get down and dirty and chat all things Porn. How'd we start. What's been our experience with it. What's our relationship with it now. Listen in. Have a laugh or two.

Ghosting. We've all done it. Why is this a thing?? This week we get in to what it is, why we do it, and how it feels. Let's try to stop this and treat others like real humans - even if it might be the harder decision!

Hey... Lets have Anal! This week we dive in to everything Anal - the good, the great, and what comes with the territory.

This week Janice was a bit quick to judge her date. Initially thinking it was strictly friendly, he ended up surprising her in the end - Never judge a book by it's cover - they might be really good at going down ;)

This week Janice shares a story about a time things maybe didn't go quite right. Why do we bring Ego in to sexual situations? When you're with a new partner try being ok with being the beginner.

Ok so here it is. If you haven't listened to Ep. 9 we suggest you do!! Find out exactly what happened the night of the sex party. Don't worry, no details were spared.

Episode 9 - Part 1 of 2. Janice recalls and conversation she had in the lead up before she decides about potentially going to her first Orgy. We look into how she feels, what's coming up, and what the night could look like. Take a listen and see what she decided to do :)

Let's talk about Snapchat. Janice shares why she loves this app and why it can be something used with your sexual partner. **Literally all the nudes were sent during the recording of this episode :)

This week we dive in to the ins and outs of online dating. We get a good idea of what works and what does for both Janice and Connor, and go in to a couple pretty funny disaster stories. Enjoy, and don't be afraid to put yourself out there!

This week we've changed up the tone a bit. In episode 6 we take a look at a few conversations that we've heard and had in the last couple weeks. What do the words that you say actually mean? Your words have power, take a second to think about who and what you are talking about! Enjoy :)

This week we look in to an experience that Janice had that opened up the conversation around STI's and sexual health. We chat about what makes these conversations so difficult to have. And that experience we are talking about... might have left Janice in some what of a 'sticky' situation.

In this episode we hear all about Janice and Connor's journey with masturbation! They share a couple hilarious stories and tell us why masturbating is so very important :)

Holy... Hang on to your undies for this one. Here, Janice shares about her first experience having sex with more than one person.... oh ya, at the same time.

Episode 2 and we're all about the oral. Here we learn a couple of Janice's go to moves! So listen in for a few tips around communicating your needs in between the sheets.

Episode 1! Welcome to Explicitly Speaking. This week we dive in to sex in public. Janice tells us a story where she ends up doing something on a roof top carpark that isn't exactly parking her car.

Welcome to Explicitly Speaking - the Podcast, where we have a tell all conversation dissecting our sex lives.