KaNdid Talks Podcast

We know, we know. It has been a lil while since you have heard from us. We was a lil under the weather

Submission is a tricky little thing. Why is that women are the only beings in relationships that have to submit to their partner? We have to bend our will to your might and allow you to take us on a journey and you may have no clue where we are going! On this episode Katie & Nij discuss submission, what they have seen and how they view submission. Make sure you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too!Wanna leave us some feedback? Click here to take our surveyLove you KaNdies

This episode is brought to you by the lovely Nijeria! It is her BIRTHDAYYYYYYYY. NIJDAY! BUT on to the meat of this episode...Have you ever gone on a date? Sure you have. OK but have you ever gone on a date and the person asked you to split the bill when it came? Bishhhhh we dont do that over here! We dont do dutch dates. If you cant pay, we cant go. Join in on the conversation as we discuss our thoughts and experiences on dutch dates. Make sure you wish NIJ a Happy Birthday on IG or Twitter @Kandidtalks on bothMake sure you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too!Wanna leave us some feedback? Click here to take our surveyLove you KaNdies

Have you ever heard the phrase “Strong Black Woman” as a term of endearment? Well we're hear to tell you that it's not! The connotation behind it is belittling and humiliating! No one wants to go through struggle to be labeled “strong”. Also there is the notion that as a black woman we are inherently strong because we have to be! No one asks are we able to be strong. Checking all the boxes and being strong ate two concepts that we have yet to really figure out. Listen to as we discuss the topic and the way it's perceived and our take! Make sure you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too!Wanna leave us some feedback? Click here to take our surveyLove you KaNdies

President Joe Boutdamntime made Juneteenth a Federal holiday. How do y'all feel about EVERYONE getting off for this day that is significant to the eradication of the practice of enslavement of African people? Well, weeee dont like itttttttttt! Catch up with us as we talk about Juneteenth, how we felt about this "historical" moment and other fun stuff. Make you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too!Wanna leave us some feedback? Click here to take our surveyLove you KaNdies

Yoooo, you ever just felt like the way a man was looking at you was making you uncomfortable? Or like he was causing you to randomly girate yo bootayy? Sis that is Male gaze working! Well today Katie and Nij discuss Male Gaze and how it effects them and people they have seen. Share some of your stories with us on Instagram and twitter!Make you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too!Love you KaNdies

Turns out I am 100% that... well you know how that Lizzo song goes! But seriously Katie and Nij took the Ancestry DNA test to determine their lineage and any close relatives. And my oh my will the results surprise you. Take a listen to hear them breakdown their experience and the result they got. Would you go through with this test as well? Have you already done it?Make you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too!Love you KaNdies

Can you believe it has been a year since we started this journey with you? We cannot! In today's episode we recap alll of our conversations. Hopefully for new KaNdie listeners, you will get a quick recap and want to go back and binge alllllll of our episodes from both seasons. This is not the end but the beginning. Thank you everyone for all your support and guidance! We love and appreciate you.  It's our anniversary and the anniversary of George Floyd's murder. We always push Blackness and scream Black Lives Matter.Make you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too!Love you KaNdies

It's the platonic relationship for meeeee. WE gotta make sure we are setting boundaries for the people that we are in community with. Relationships with people are important and how we navigate those relationships is important. If a person of the opposite gender tries to get at you or cross the friend zone line, how do you handle that?Make you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too!Love you KaNdies

Have you ever met a person an instantly connected? How was that experience? We hope it was great for you! Well today we are talking about soul ties, relationships, and child we was cryyyingg. Ugh. Great relationships bring so much emotion out of you that it brought these thugs to tears! Make sure your spirit is aligned, you can heal so much trauma with that alone. If no one told you today, you are loved and appreciated. Make you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too!Alfuquan Hardy Free Breakfast Program Hoodie Giveaway starting April 1, 2021 https://linktr.ee/KaNdidTalksPodcastEntry instructions:Follow us on Instagram and twitterPost you listening to an episode and tag 5 friendsLeave a review on the platform you stream us on and DM it to us. (For Spotify dm us the review) We choosing the winner on April 30 on IG Live!Love you KaNdies

Ok y'all. We are a day late. Omg with all the shootings and murders of Black people and now again Black children we needed to give ourself some grace. So we apologize y'all. In this episode we catch up with a homie from DSU that we use to whoop in spades all the time. Andres Waters is now a social worker and helps Black and Brown youth deal with their trauma and help their parents navigate therapy. Andres is a true professional and so invested in his craft. So take a moment and allow us to pour into you on how we cope with stress. Follow him on social media Dres_and_dreadsMake you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too!Alfuquan Hardy Free Breakfast Program Hoodie Giveaway starting April 1, 2021 https://linktr.ee/KaNdidTalksPodcastEntry instructions:Follow us on Instagram and twitterPost you listening to an episode and tag 5 friendsLeave a review on the platform you stream us on and DM it to us. (For Spotify dm us the review) We choosing the winner on April 30 on IG Live!Love you KaNdies

From Skinemax to xnxx.com. We have come a long way in our porn journey.  On today’s Storytime Katie and Nij talk about their favorite genres of porn and why they like them.

The mood is set uh huh, see you already know what's next. So you know what is happening. On this episode we pulled in an expert. Well a SEXpert to get real KaNdid about BDSM in the Black Community and how can we make it more widely accepted and understood. Reba Thomas is a Certified Sex Coach with a wide array of talents. We defined BDSM, how to spice up your sex life in increments, and our first time being called a freak! Ugh make sure y'all dive into this conversation. It gets juicy. Follow Reba on all social media @RebaTheDivaCheck out her new podcast On the Business of SexAnd if you need her services go to her website www.sexpertconsultants.com/eventsMake you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too!

Although we aren’t married we all have deal breakers according to National marriage surveys  there are some reasons why marriages absolve. I.e finances; irreconcilable differences etc We’re here to answer some of those and give our take.Will some of our answers be like yours or are we too far fetched with our responses. Make you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too!Alfuquan Hardy Free Breakfast Program Hoodie Giveaway starting April 1, 2021 https://linktr.ee/KaNdidTalksPodcastEntry instructions:Follow us on Instagram and twitterPost you listening to an episode and tag 5 friendsLeave a review on the platform you stream us on and DM it to us. (For Spotify dm us the review) 

Hey KaNdies,  *Flashback* Remember when Chrissy proposed to Jim Jones, is you proposing sis?

Welcome to Clubhouse. An audio interface to allow us to talk to any and everyone (good/bad/indifferent) on a variety of topics . In this story time we are breaking down Clubhouse and the funniest moments we have experienced over the last few months.Make you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too!We choosing!Love you KaNdies

Katie & Nij address Capping aka faking aka lying! Why y'all be lyinggggg? It aint een that deep for you to be lying like dat!! We walk through capping on social media and folks sex game! Ugh lord help the cappers! Iight KaNdies let's get into it!  Make you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too!We choosing!Love you KaNdies

Issa story time! You  know we get down! This episode is about the best of dates and the worst of dates! WE have all had a shitty date and an amazing tryst that had us like damn, "if only it was like this all the time!" Laugh with us as we reminisce on two great dates and throw virtual daggers at the men from some of our worst dates. Make you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too!We choosing!Love you KaNdies

Dating is suchhhh a task! But we all gotta do it to find our forever partner and get our happy ending. But damn does have to be sooo much work? In this episode Katie and Nij tackle the ins and outs of what dating has been like over the last year and especially with the pandemic.

KaNdies, Y'all ready for another kandid story time? Well we got one about these nut asses doing nut ass ish to make them lose us in the first place! Tune in to hear these stories about the dummies that lost us.

Hey KaNdies, Have you ever broken up with a person and then they try and come back and check in? Like nahhh bruh gonnnn head with that! Well this episode is about going back to exes and some triggers Katie and Nij have experienced with some of their exes and people that they have talked to. If you have some crazy ex stories make sure you share them with us. Do not forget to subscribe, leave us a review, and share with your folks! Stay tuned. Thanks KaNdies

Hey KaNdies!

Yooooooo we are in season two! We are starting this season off in this new year with some new new! New sound, new intro, new dynamics, but the same us!But in this episode, we are talking about friends and how important they are to you and us. Have you had a friend that only lasted for a season or came into your life for a reason? Share your stories with us!Thank you to ShakoyaHD for our new intro check her out! She is dope! She is available on all platforms! 

Its Christmas time in Hollis Queens...Yall know the rest! Well well well, we are at the season finale! Thats right dis the last episode of the year and the season!!! But we talmbout Christmas, Kwanzaa, Vision boards and much more. 2020 has been crazy with hills and deep ass valleys but its almost over! Listen to this episode and let us know what's your Christmas, Kwanzaa plans, and New Year's Eve plans.Again much love KaNdies. Happy Holidays!As a gift, leaves us a review and share us with a friend.

Yea dats him! He a F*ck boy! Avoid his behind like the plague. This bonus episode is. story time about two terrible relationships that Katie and Nij have been in. These men be on some bs sis. So if you are ready to cackle and cringe a little over two men that we are telling stories about take some time and listen. Share your stories about these F*ck boys with us on twitter @KaNdidTalks. We love yall

Trust we’ve all been there before where you ended up in a relationship or what we like to call a relationshit. It’s not our best moments in life but they make for great stories to tell. Have you been in a relationshit where you didn’t know where you stood? No title no claim no nothing. It happens but we are here to share a tale or two and describe our types of relationships.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kandidtalks/message

We don't see nothing wrong with a lil bump and grind! Wayment iight well maybe that wasn't the right lyrics to use but hey, we talking bout the horizontal hula, the parallel pretzel, boots knocking, body rocking, adult fun. Sex is a topic that seems so taboo for most, but we are diving in head first. On this episode we discuss sex, nonnegotiables from a partner, and much much more. This episode is sponsored The AdultPlayhouse and R'Surgence Hair Oil. Visit us at www.theadultplayhouse.store and follow us on Social media at Instagram.com/KaNdidtalksLove you all,Katie & Nij

Episode 7 is going to speak to our KaNdie Dzaddies! We wanted to take the time to discuss one of the plagues facing the Black Community . The lack of protection of Black Women. Black women are the most under protected beings on this planet and we shell out the most love and affection. On this episode we will discuss what Black men can do to protect Black women and what that protection should look. Shoutout to our very very special guest Blake The Brain. Follow him @BlaketheBrain on IGJoin us on Social Media and share your stories with us. Subscribe to our YouTube. We love your stories and support. #ProtectBlackWomen #KaNdidTalks --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kandidtalks/message

Episode 6 is a funny one! Take a step back into 2008 and relive our freshman year. First gen college students with a pocket full of lint tryna figure out how to balance meeting new people, relationships, horrible roommates, and freedom. Share your stories with us on social. We would love to hear them.And guess what y'all! We on YouTube! Listen to us and den watch us!!! How can you get enough???? Same name! Kandid Talks Podcast!Make sure don't forget to tell your friends, family and frenemies about us!#DSU #HBCU--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kandidtalks/message

Ay yo LIGHTskin!!! You madddd pretty for a DARKskinned girl! This episode tackles the narrative of COLORISM in the Black Community. We will touch on how it affects us in our day to day lives and what the history modern day colorism.Share your stories with us on social. We would love to hear them. And guess what y'all! We on YouTube! Listen to us and den watch us!!! How can you get enough of us???? Same name! Kandid Talks Podcast!Make sure don't forget to tell your friends, family and frenemies about us! #EndColorism #KaNdidTalksWe love you KaNdies! ❤

Are you just out here swiping on Tinder without a reason? You serial swiper, you! Get on in here for this episode about dating with a purpose. We are talking about dating form the male and female perspective! Thank you to our first male guest! Follow him on social @coachmalikspLove you KaNdies!!-Use #KaNdidTalksPodcast & #TalkKaNdidtous and tag us in your pics to let us know what you think.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kandidtalks/message

Hey KaNdies: Welcome to Episode 3! This episode tackles two major movements that Black Americans face today. #BlackLivesMatter and #LGBTQIA or the Black Queer Movement. We know you will be hungry for more after listening to this conversation. We plan to come back and tackle these topics further down the line, because they deserve their own time and space. We want to say thank you to our special guest Marie Pinkney, 13th District DE Senate 2020 Candidate. Love you KaNdies!!-Blackness is more than a HASHTAG!!-Don't forget to: Share, Subscribe, & Follow Us on Social MediaUse #KaNdidTalksPodcast & #TalkKaNdidtous and tag us in your pics to let us know what you think.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kandidtalks/message

Episode 2: Have you ever been hanging out and had no idea they wanted the cheeks???? Well come on in, sit back and listen to a story we finna tell y'all about our experiences of people tryna pull the okie doke. Episode two finna get a lil more real y'all. Check out the episode and let Katie and Nij know what you think! Do not forget to follow us on all social media @KaNdidTalks--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kandidtalks/message

Episode 1: Our very first episode!!!!!!!!!!!! *runs around in circles* Commencenot is about the class of 2020 unfortunately not being able to participate in the milestone of walking across that stage and some flashbacks of Katie and Nij's college experience. We have a special guest, Alesha Brown (Girl Talk Yo Shit Podcast), from Tennessee State University class of 2020 to tell us about her experience as we unpack what life looks like after college and she ramps up into the REAL world. Check out the episode and let Katie and Nij know what you think! Do not forget to follow us on all social media @KaNdidTalks--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kandidtalks/message