Relationships and Relationshits

What is an anxious attachment style? That is the question I'm answering today. We take a deep dive into the preoccupied anxious attachment style. I go over protest behaviors, activating strategies, some tips for dating as an anxious person, some history of how people become anxious.  If you don't know your attachment style there is a link below to help. https://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl Option 2: https://pds.idevaffiliate.com/151.html

Am I the asshole subreddit is the topic today. I go over a woman who doesn't want her husband to know the sex of their baby because he doesn't show up for any doctors appointments. The other story is a difficult bridesmaid who doesn't want to wear her bridesmaid dress.

What are attachment styles? We will go over attachment styles which is also known as attachment theory. We will discuss the four attachment styles, the secure attachment style, the preoccupied anxious attachment style, the dismissive avoidant attachment style, and the fearful avoidant attachment style, which is also known as the disorganized attachment style. Attachment styles will help you in your romantic relationships and your other relationships. If you don't your attachment style here is a link: https://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl  

We are going over two Am I the Asshole subreddits. We will discuss a few adult children having to deal with difficult situations with their parents. 

We are going over two subreddits about the attachment styles. Or attachment theory as some know it. We discuss every attachment style; the fearful avoidant attachment style, the preoccupied anxious attachment style, the secure attachment style, and the dismissive avoidant attachment style.  

We are going over the four attachment styles. We are going over the preoccupied anxious attachment style, the disimissive avoidant attachment style, the fearful avoidant attachment style, and the secure attachment style. Attached Book: https://amzn.to/3XYqMLX Avoidant Book: https://amzn.to/3Dlaovs Attachment Quiz 1: https://pds.idevaffiliate.com/151.html Attachment Quiz 2: https://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

We are talking about questions from Reddit. The first subreddit talks about someone discussing relationships and attachment styles. And the second one is Am I The Asshole subreddit.

We are talking about attachment styles and dating. I'm going to give you some dating tips I've learned from experience to help you identify someone's attachment style quicker. This way you can figure out if they are a secure attachment style, an anxious attachment style, a dismissive avoidant attachment style, or a fearful avoidant attachment style. And then you can figure out faster if you want to keept that relationship going.

Today we are talking about a guy who is improving his anxious attachment style when his girlfriend goes out with her friends. And we are asking if a woman who told another parent to fuck off, is she the asshole?   Attachment Quiz Option 1: https://pds.idevaffiliate.com/151.html Attachment Quiz Option 2: http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.p Better Help Online Therapy Discount: https://betterhelp.com/relationshipattachments This links are affiliates.

I am discussing attachment styles during holidays or significant events. The main focus will be on the avoidant attachment style. They tend to not like significant events and their attachment system may become triggered. I will also discuss the anxious attachment style. Attachment Quiz 1: https://pds.idevaffiliate.com/151.html Attachment Quiz 2: https://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl Attached Book: https://amzn.to/3XYqMLX Avoidant Book: https://amzn.to/3Dlaovs Betterhelp Online Therapy Discount: https://betterhelp.com/relationshipattachments

Am I The Asshole today covers naan bread drama and sloppy seconds. A boyfriend has special rules for his girlfriend with them sharing naan bread. And two sisters having drama due to having dated the same guy. Who will be the asshole?  

This episode covers two Reddit questions from the anxious attachment style subreddit.  Attachment Style Quiz Option 1: https://pds.idevaffiliate.com/151.html Attachment Style Quiz Option 2:  https://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl Better Help Online Therapy Discount: https://betterhelp.com/relationshipattachments Attached Book: https://amzn.to/3XYqMLX Avoidant Book: https://amzn.to/3Dlaovs

In this episode we discuss the anxious avoidant trap. This is a challenging relationship where you have an anxious attachmen style in a relationship with an avoidant attachment style. This relationship tends to be long and dysfunctional. The anxious attachment style person wants closeness and intimacy. The avoidant wants space and is uncomfortable with intimacy. The anxious attachment style has learned to calm down their attachment system by being cloeser to their partner. The avoidant attachment style has learned getting space from their partner keeps their attachment system from being triggered. And this is why they struggle in a relationship together. If you don't know your attachment style makeup, here are two options to help you. Plus plenty of other resources.  Attachment Quiz Option 1: https://pds.idevaffiliate.com/151.html Attachment Quiz Option 2: https://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl Attached Book: https://amzn.to/3XYqMLX Avoidant Book: https://amzn.to/3Dlaovs Better Help Online Therapy Discount: https://betterhelp.com/relationshipattachments     These are affiliate links.

A subreddit asks if anyone has had success becoming more of a secure attachment style. I read the question and some comments of some who have had some success become more of a secure attachment style. One of the key things for single people is to choose a partner who doesn't trigger your attachment style.  The comments are coming from those with a preoccupied anxious attachment style. If you don't know your strongest attachment style I have two attachment style quizzes to help you out. The first one is less detailed but also has material to assist in your attachment style journey. The second link is more detailed and I recommend doing it several times during different times in your life to see you progress or lack of progress. Or see how someone is affecting your attachment style. The four attachment styles are the secure attachment style, the preoccupied anxious attachment style, the dismissive avoidant attachment style, and the fearful avoidant attachment style, which is also known as the disorganized attachment style. You will have all of the attachment styles but at different levels. You will most likely be stronger in one attachment style.  You can also learn attachment styles from me on TikTok and YouTube Shorts at @relationshipattachments. Here is the link for the book on Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) for those interested in researching that: https://amzn.to/3YmuqiG Attachment Quiz 1: https://pds.idevaffiliate.com/151.html Attachment Quiz 2: http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl Better Help Link with 10% discount: https://betterhelp.com/relationshipattachments Online-Therapy: https://onlinetherapy.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=2&aff_id=2492 Attached Book: https://amzn.to/3XYqMLX Avoidant Book: https://amzn.to/3Dlaovs

I am discussing the Strange Situation Text used to group peole into four attachment styles. The strange situation test is a widely used experimental procedure in developmental psychology to assess attachment patterns between infants or young children and their primary caregivers. The children were aged 12 to 24 months. The main objective of the strange situation test is to observe and understand how children react to brief separations from and reunions with their caregivers in a controlled and unfamiliar environment. The text provides valuable insights into the child's attachment style, which is critical aspect of early socio-emotional development.  If you don't know if your strongest attachment style is the secure attachment style, the preoccupied anxious attachment style, the dismissive avoidant attachment style, or the fearful avoidant attachment style, also known as the disorganized attachment style, I have two links to help you figure that out. Attachment Quiz 1: https://pds.idevaffiliate.com/151.html Attachment Quiz 2: http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl Better Help Online Therapy 10% Discount: https://betterhelp.com/relationshipattachments Online-Therapy Discount: https://onlinetherapy.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=2&aff_id=2492 Attached book: https://amzn.to/3XYqMLX Avoidant book: https://amzn.to/3Dlaovs

A question from a anxoius attachment style subreddit. It says.  I've just started seeing someone new. We're just a couple of dates in, but on the surface it's going great. We get on crazily well, I'm really attracted to her and things have already gotten physical. This isn't my first rodeo though and unsurprisingly considering my broken picker, I'm seeing some serious red flags. I'm already picking up on mixed signals and there's signs she has patterns of emotional unavailability. After many mistakes in the past, this time I'm trying to ensure I don't get at all attached until she can provide solid and conclusive evidence that she's inot me and is attracted to me, she wants a relationship, she's emotionally available, if she's not, then she's in therapy and is working on it.  Realistically this might take months, and I'm ok with that. The big challenge here though is texting.  Whereas texting can be fun, it's not particularly useful for really learning about a person such as answering the questions above. I think you can only really gain an insight into those things by spending time together in person. I guess you could discuss them via test but it certainly wouldn't be my preference.  At the same time, texting is the anxious attachment style's kryptonite. As much as I tell myself I won't get attached, you can bet I'm still over-analyzing everything from how slow she's responding, whether she's writing as much as me, which emojis she's using etc. All the breathing exercises in the world won't help me here, it cannot be avoidant, it is my nature. So I thought if I have so little gain, and so much to lose, what if we just didn't do it? It's a whole 10 days until we see each other, and I thought It'd be so much easier if I said I'd just catch her then and to have a lovely 10 days in the meantime. The only issue is this seems like something that just isn't done in modern dating.  Have any of your tried this? How did you approach the conversation? If you don't know if your strongest attachment style is the preoccupied anxious attachment style, the secure attachment style, the dismissive attachment style, or the fearful avoidant attachment style, which is also known as the disorganized attachment style, I have two links to help you figure that out.  The first link is quicker and has some tools to help you. The second one is longer and shows your results on a graph. Attachment Quiz 1: https://pds.idevaffiliate.com/151.html Attachment Quiz 2: http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl Better Help Online Therapy 10% Discount: https://betterhelp.com/relationshipattachments Online-Therapy Discount: https://onlinetherapy.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=2&aff_id=2492 Reddit Question Link: https://www.reddit.com/r/AnxiousAttachment/comments/156zh54/texting_in_between_dates_can_i_justnot/ Attached Book: https://amzn.to/3XYqMLX Avoidant Book: https://amzn.to/3Dlaovs

In this subreddit we have a couple who are a fearful avoidant and a dismissive avoidant originally but have been moving towards becoming a secure attachment style. But during a situation the dismissive avoidants responds how an avoidant would. The other person responds correctly due to her attachment style work.  The question asked was. What healing looks like for two insecurely attached partners actively working  towards security. As a fearful avoidant who leans anxious attachment style, I'm two years into my healing journey and counting. I married my avoidant attachment style partner in April who's been on this shared journey. We're both leaning more secure attachment style. I've shared quite a bit about my own personal journey and our relationship journey on reddit.  I just wanted to share and remind you guys that true change is a process, for many, it'll be life long. I'm discovering things everyday about myself through the lens of my past. It's like writing a new story but it's so worth it. My partner and I have come a long way since some therapy and practicing healthier relating when triggered.  Like yesterday, I expressed something that caught by avoidant attachment style partner off guard which was about me feeling stuck at my job and just in life. I saw him withdrawing into himself and becoming uncomfortable. He'd taken it personally and that my feelings were based on what he lacks as a partner. I almost became completely triggered but I calmed myself, we went through our night, I told him I love him before bed. I know from what he's shared in therapy and with me before that he, like many avoidants, perceives criticism and rejection if their partners are unhappy.  Just like more anxious attachment style leaning folks perceive rejection and fear abandonmnet in these scenarios. I decided to talk about in this morning and he explained exactly what I thought was going on in his head. Truthfully, I was frustrated that this is still a thing since I just want to be able to share with my partner how I feel in a non-criticizing vulnerable way without them taking it personally. So we closed the conversation for a couple of hours. But I remind myself that I married this man knowing his tough childhood physical and emotional abandonment. If you don't know if your strongest attachment style is the preoccupied anxious attachment style, the secure attachment style, the dismissive avoidant attachment style, or the fearful avoidant attachment style, also known as the disorganized attachment style, I have two links to help you figure that out.  Reddit Question: https://www.reddit.com/r/AnxiousAttachment/comments/156ze9q/what_healing_looks_like_for_two_insecurely/ Attachment Quiz 1 https://pds.idevaffiliate.com/151.html Attachment Quiz 2 http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl Better Help Therapy with 10% discount: https://betterhelp.com/relationshipattachments Online-Therapy discount: https://onlinetherapy.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=2&aff_id=2492 Attached Book: https://amzn.to/3XYqMLX Avoidant Book: https://amzn.to/3Dlaovs

Today I'm going over the history of attachment styles. If you are like me you'd like to know about the history of the things you learn. I go over the beginnings of attachment theory and talk about the pioneers, John Bowlby, Mary Ainsworth, and Mary Main.  If you don't if your strongest attachment style is the secure attachment style, the preoccupied anxious attachment style, the dismissive avoidant attachment style, or the fearful avoidant, also known as the disorganized attachment style, I have two links for you to find that out. The first link is faster to complete and has some tools to help you with your attachment style. The second link is more detailed and can be taken multiple times to see how you are in different times of your life.  I also provided some book recommendations and online therapy discounts. Attachment Quiz 1 and resources: https://pds.idevaffiliate.com/151.html Attachment Quiz 2: http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl Attached Book: https://amzn.to/3XYqMLX Avoidant Book: https://amzn.to/3Dlaovs Better Help Online Therapy 10% Discount: https://betterhelp.com/relationshipattachments Online-Therapy.com https://onlinetherapy.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=2&aff_id=2492

In this question from the avoidant attachment subreddit a fearful avoidant, also known as a disorganized attachment style person, is wondering how much time is too much time when starting to date someone new. The person believes they are dating an anxious attachment style person. And that person already wants to spend hours with the fearful avoidant person, which of course can scare off an avoidant attachment style person real quick.  If you don't know if your strongest attachment style is the secure attachment style, the preoccupied anxious attachment style, the dismissive avoidant attachment style, or the fearful avoidant attachment style I have 2 links for you to check out. The first link is very quick and offers up some classes on attachment style from The Personal Development School runned by the well known attachment style therapist Thais Gibson. The second link is more detaled and you can take several times over different parts of your life to see how you've changed. I also have links for two attachment style books I recommend. And also some online therapy options including Better Help.  Attachment Quiz 1: https://pds.idevaffiliate.com/151.html Attachment Quiz 2: http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl Attached Book: https://amzn.to/3XYqMLX Avoidant Book: https://amzn.to/3Dlaovs Better Help Online Therapy with a 10% discount: https://betterhelp.com/relationshipattachments Online-Therapy.com Discount: https://onlinetherapy.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=2&aff_id=2492   These are all affiliate links.

I am reading from a anxious attachment style subreddit in which a woman is breaking no contact because she needs her shoes back from her ex. Anytime you break no contact you risk more issues.  If you don't know if your strongest attachment style is the secure attachment style, the preoccupied anxious attachment style, the dismissive avoidant attachment style, or the fearful avoidant, also known as the disorganized attachment style I have two links to help you out. The first link is a quick way to get your attachment style and also has some materials on improving your attachment style. The second link is more detailed and can be taken several times to check your current attachment style levels. Attachment Quiz 1: https://pds.idevaffiliate.com/151.html Attachment Quiz 2: http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl Attached Book: https://amzn.to/3XYqMLX Avoidant Book: https://amzn.to/3Dlaovs Online Cognitive Behavioral Therapy: https://onlinetherapy.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=2&aff_id=2492 Better Help Therapy 10% off: https://betterhelp.com/relationshipattachments

I am discussing the common avoidant attachment style traits. This can help you in the dating world and also if you are already in a relationship with an avoidant. Or it can help the avoidant attachment style person identify the things they may do that can harm a relationship. These traits are coming from the authors of the book Attached and some of my own findings.  If you don't know if your strongest attachment style is the preoccupied anxious attachment style, the secure attachment style, the dismissive avoidant attachment style, or the fearful avoidant attachment style, which is also known as the disorganized attachment style I have two links to help you with figuring that out. The first link is a quick way to get your attachment style and lots of material to help you with your attachment style. The second link is a more detailed attachment quiz you can do multiple times depending on your current situation.  Attachment Quiz 1: https://pds.idevaffiliate.com/151.html Attachment Quiz 2: http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl Attached Book: https://amzn.to/3XYqMLX Avoidant Book: https://amzn.to/3Dlaovs

We are discussing an avoidant subreddit today. The avoidant attachment style person is frustrated by the lack of community. I go into why that is. If you don't know if your strongest attachment style is the secure attachment style, the dismissive avoidant attachment style, the preoccupied anxious attachment style, or the fearful avoidant attachment styles, also known as the disorganized attachment style I have 2 links to help you find that out. The first one is quick and has some classes to help you with your attachment style. The second one takes a little longer but gives you a graph of your attachment styles. I've also provided a link for my favorite attachment book called Attached and also a great book on avoidants. Attachment Quiz #1 https://pds.idevaffiliate.com/151.html Attachment Quiz #2 http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl Attached Book: https://amzn.to/3XYqMLX Avoidant Book: https://amzn.to/3Dlaovs  

I am discussing a question from an anxious attachment style subreddit. The anxious attachment style person is having issues with their avoidant attachment style leaning boyfriend wanting to have a long relationship break without communication. She says he is mostly a secure attachment style but his actions don't point that way. If a break in needed in a relationship one person shouldn't dictate all of the boundaries. If you don't know if your strongest attachment style is the preoccupied anxious attachment style, the dismissive avoidant attachment style, the secure attachment style, or the fearful avoidant attachment style, also known as the disorganized attachment style I have  two links to help you with figuring that out. The first link is a quick way to get your attachment style and lots of material to help you with your attachment style. The second link is a more detailed attachment quiz you can do multiple times depending on your current situation. Attachment Quiz 1: https://pds.idevaffiliate.com/151.html Attachment Quiz 2: http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl Attached Book: https://amzn.to/3XYqMLX Avoidant Book: https://amzn.to/3Dlaovs  

I got a text from an ex. And I'm sharing some of my story and throwing in some attachment styles knowledge in between.

Todays Reddit subreddit we discuss an anxious attachment person struggling wiht their anxious ways dictating their life.  If you don't know your strongest attachment style is the secure attachment style, the preoccupied anxious attachment style, the dismissive avoidant attachment style, or the fearful avoidant attachment style, also known as the disorganized attachment style I have a quiz below to help you figure that out.  http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl Attached Book: https://amzn.to/3rm1yL1 Avoidant Book: https://amzn.to/44tc8hZ

We are discussing eleven common things a preoccupied anxious attachment may do. If you don't know your attachment style I have a link below. This way you can see if your strongest attachment style is the secure attachment style, the preoccupied anxious attachment style, the dismissive avoidant attachment style, or the fearful avoidant attachment style, also known as the disorganized attachment style. Attachment quiz: http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl "Attached" book: https://amzn.to/3ObEaZT "Avoidant" book: https://amzn.to/43fYBsQ Online Cognitive Behavioral Therapy: https://onlinetherapy.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=2&aff_id=2492

The podcast episode goes over an avoidant attachment style subreddit question about how to fix the avoidants struggle in relationships. This dismissive avoidant does not miss his partner when she is gone and he isn't good about hiding it. If you don't know if the secure attachment style, the preoccupied anxious attachment style, the dismissive avoidant attachment style, or the fearful avoidant, also known as the disorganized attachment style is your strongest attachment style. I have an attachment quiz to help you out.   Attachment Quiz: http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl Attached Book: https://amzn.to/3DdopLn Avoidant Book: https://amzn.to/3JOs8CQ Online Therapy: https://onlinetherapy.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=2&aff_id=2492

Today's subreddit comes from an anxious attachment style subreddit. The person discusses protest behaviors. I go over the common protest behaviors that the anxious attachment person may do in a relationship. I go over attachment styles in the podcast. I talk about the secure attachment style, the dismissive avoidant attachment style, the preoccupied anxious attachment style, and the fearful avoidant attachment style, also known as the disorganized attachment style.   "Attached" book:  https://amzn.to/3D1FwQx Avoidant book: https://amzn.to/3NMfmWI Online-therapy.com Cognitive Behavioral Therapy link: https://onlinetherapy.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=2&aff_id=2492

We are talking about limerence and the anxious attachment style. Limerence and the anxious attachment style have a lot of similarities.  If you don't know whether you are a secure attachment style, an anxious attachment style, a dismissive avoidant attachment style, or a fearful avoidant attachment style, which is also known as the disorganized attachment style, here is a link to help you out. http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

In this subreddit episode we go over dating tips that were given by a former fearful avoidant attachment style, also known as a disorganized attachment style. This person is currently a secure attachment style but was a fearful attachment style before therapy and some work. This person goes over how to spot a dismissive avoidant and a fearful avoidant while dating. Attachment styles knowledge is a good way to improve your chances of figuring out people's attachment styles quicker making it better in dating and relationships. If you don't know your attachment style here a link to figure that out.  http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl  

A subreddit about a relationship in which sex is becoming distant and the anxious attachment style person is getting triggered. This anxious attachment style person is asking for help on how not to feel like something is wrong in the relationship. If you don't know whether you are an anxious attachment style, a dismissive avoidant attachment style, a secure attachment style, or a fearful avoidant attachment style, also known as a disorganzied attachment style I have a link to help you out. http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

How do you make the anxious avoidant relationship work? We talk about tips on how to make a relationship work with a preocupied anxious attachment person and an avoidant attachment style.

We are discussing a subreddit in which an avoidant attached person keeps being called intimidating by men she is dating. The avoidant is asking for help. 

This episode goes over a Reddit subreddit in which an anxious attachment style person is happy in a relationship but is still anxious. And they worked on their anxiouis attachment style while single for 5 years. 

I discuss the secure attachment style core wounds and needs. The last several weeks I covered this topic for the fearful avoidant, the dismissive avoidant, and preoccupied anxious attachment style. 

We discuss subreddits about an anxious attachmen style person needing her boyfriend for help with soothing. And someone asks if avoidant attachment people want kids less than the othe attachment styles. 

We are talking about the fearful avoidant. This attachment style is also known as the disorganized attachment style. We will discuss the needs, characteristics, emotional patterns and a few other things for the disorganized attachment/fearful avoidant. 

We are talking about an anxious attachment style person struggling with the ex getting married. She discovered this on Reddit. And we are talking about a dismissive avoidant attachment style who has a deactivating strategy that keeps making him feel trapped in the relationship. In this podcast we talk about the secure attachment style, the preoccupied anxious attachment style, the dismissive avoidant attachment style, and the fearful avoidant attachment style, also known as the disorganized attachment style.    

We are going over anxious attachment style needs, boundaries, core wounds, emotional patterns, and a few other things. The anxious attachment style usually grew up with inconsistency. You will see how that inconsistency leads to the core wounds here. 

An anxious attachment style person writes a letter to fellow anxious attachment style people. And a fearful avoidant/disorganized attachment struggles with the thought of moving in with their secure attachment style partner.  

Attachment styles in relationships explained for the dismissive avoidant attachment style is the topic today. We discuss the needs, boundaries, coping mechanisms, characteristics of the dismissive avoidant when it comes to relationships. 

We answer two Reddit subreddits on attachmen styles. When should you mention your anxious attachment style to the person you are dating is the first question. The second question we answer is in relation to anxious attachment struggles in a situationship.

We are explaining the 4 attachment styles. The 4 attachment styles are the secure attachment style, the preoccupied anxious attachment style, the dismissive avoidant attachment style, and the fearful avoidant attachment style, which is also known as the disorganized attachment style. We will explain each of the 4 attachment styles when it comes to relationships. 4 attachment styles explained is a topic that will give you a beginning foundation of all things related to attachment styles.

I am giving relationship advice from two Reddit subreddits. I will be discussing boundaries, or lack of and an anxious avoidant trap in the early stages.  These subreddits will cover all four attachment styles, the secure attachment style, the preoccupied anxious attachment style, the dismissive avoidant attachment style, and the fearful avoidant attachment style, which is also known as the disorganized attachment style.

We are talking about the dismissive avoidant attachment style and the fearful avoidant attachment style, also known as the disorganized attachment. We are discussing how these two types of attachment styles are with boundaries in a relationship.

In these two Reddit subreddits we are discussing the questions and answering them. The first is someone who went from avoidant attachment style people to a secure attachment style man. The secure attachment style person tends to be good at communication, they don't play games, the won't hide their true feelings for you, and they are generally good at helping to lower your anxious attachment style and/or avoidant attachment style.  In the next subreddit a man is tired of his dismissive avoidant ways when it comes to relationships. He had continued the average avoidant pattern of eventually trying to end the relationships due to his subconscious mind trying to protect them. His subconscious deactivating strategies prevented him from continuing the relationships. So now he is attempting therapy to break the pattern.  

We are talking about the anxious attachment style and boundaries. Each attachment style has a way they deal with creating boundaries. Today we are going to focus on the anxious attachmen style boundaries. Unfortunately the anxious attachmen style is not good with setting boundaries. I will explain the lack of anxious attachment style boundaries in the episode. 

We are talking Reddit subreddits about a fearful avoidant attachment's dating struggles and an anxious attachment style person looking at the ex-situationships social media. Fearful avoidants, also known as disorganized attachment struggle with dating. And in this situation the fearful avoidant would prefer to slow things down for all dating. And they want to know how to communicate that. Then we have an anxious person looking at the ex's social media and got replaced quickly. And they used the title girlfriend for the new person, something she never got.  

Fearful avoidants are the topic in this episode. I go over the basics of the fearful avoidant which is also known as the disorganized attachment style and also the anxious avoidant attachment style.

We are talking about anxious attachment style situationships and anxious attachment style relationships. Both of these people I'm talking about today are to codependent on the other person. Anxious attachment style people tend to rely too much on their partners and haven't learned to be independent.

We are talking about a love letter I received from an ex who happened to be a dismissive avoidant attachment style.