The Divorce Club

Samantha Baines brings a lot of juicy news after a couple of months off writing her book. Her personal news is RATHER EXCITING plus the pod has won two awards! Bronze for Best Relationship Podcast at the British Podcast Awards 2022 and Winner of Moment of Touching Honesty at the International Women's Podcast Awards 2022 (sam's got the award in her bathroom).You can now buy podcast merchandise to support more series of the podcast here: https://samanthabaines.myshopify.com/Email us if you would like to tell your story on The Divorce Social: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comFollow us on instagram and twitter: @divorcepodAnd do leave us a review on your podcast platform! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Best-selling author and American Entrepreneur Karen Salmansohn joins Samantha Baines to talk relationship fall outs. A relationship expert, with many bestselling books and relationship courses under her belt, Karen is used to giving advice on heartbreak and how to find love. Karen talks about her toughest breakup personally and what inspired her to start helping other people. Samantha fangirls over Karen's instagram account and the two bond over the combination of humour and heartbreak.Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comSupport the podcast on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabainesBuy the merch: www.samanthabaines.shopify.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"cut the chords and just go and fly now" - Judy JooCelebrity Chef Judy Joo joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce, diamond earrings and Chanel bags. Judy talks about her divorce experience, throwing herself into work and fertility worries. She opens up about the process of freezing her eggs post divorce and sitting in fertility waiting rooms on her own. The two bond over the numb feeling and depression that comes with divorce and big changes as well as dating as a divorcee.Trigger warning:depressionsuicidefertilityFollow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comSupport the podcast on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabaines See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"people will talk to you about bitcoin, f*ck that sh*t, invest that energy into yourself" - Salma El-WardanyAuthor and presenter Salma El-Wardany joins Samantha Baines to talk about why she won't go to any more weddings and how toxic 'situationships' can be. Salma's new book 'These Impossible Things' is a novel about female friendship and Salma talks about the influence of the patriarchy and the importance we need to put on women's friendships and successes outside of marriage and children. The two discuss treating their book launches as a personal wedding and Sam shares her advice on planning a wedding. Silence is golden and Salma advises how to get yourself away from a partner who keeps contacting you and pulling you back in. You are allowed to block people according to Salma and she gives Sam some words of wisdom about boundaries when dating.These Impossible Things is available now from all good bookshops. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"I was never in a place for more than a year, once I was in a school for two days" - Allan BrockaHollywood filmmaker Allan Brocka joins Samantha Baines to talk about his mother's multiple divorces when he was a child and the effect breakups had on his life. Allan talks about moving back to Guam, being the only child in his class with divorced parents as well as being unable to lay down roots and make solid friendships. The two discuss looking at the world through a lens, learning how to make friends and childhood experiences effecting your later life. Queer stories are important to both Allan and Sam and they explore how film and television has had an impact on their experiences.Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comSupport the podcast on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabaines See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"I was a bit obsessed in an unhealthy way" - Gina MartinCampaigner Gina Martin joins Samantha Baines to talk break ups. Gina is one of Sam's real life best friends and the two discuss what it is like as the friend of a divorced person (namely Sam). Gina tells Sam her view of the divorce and the two talk about holding space for your friend to open up. The two talk about first love, obsession and defining yourself through the eyes of another person. Gina talks about dating a friend of the family and how early relationships can inform later experiences.Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comSupport the podcast on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabaines See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"I was in a car crash, so I was arrested for drink driving and wrote off my car" - Mark KozminskiCoach Mark Kozminski joins Samantha Baines for a very honest chat about his divorce and addictions. The two discuss goals, self sabotage, bringing up children and being vulnerable. Mark explains his moment of change being a horrific car crash, after which he was arrested for drink driving and then did a work out in his jail cell to change his mind set (as you do). He is very open about a culture of drinking after work and the signs that his gambling was getting out of control. As part of his recovery journey, Mark discusses the importance of moving everyday, talking and also talking in ink - writing down what you want from your life. Mark's company is called Blue Mind Approach www.bluemindapproach.comTrigger warning: gambling and alcohol addiction See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"I couldn't let my daughter see me in the way I would have been in the marriage, I had to be alone" - Michelle Dempsey-MultackBest-selling author and certified divorce and co-parenting specialist Michelle Dempsey-Multack joins Samantha Baines to talk about her own divorce. Michelle is honest about the impact her divorce had on her and the difficulties of co-parenting. She also opens up about her parents divorce and having to hide that from the other children at school and what she calls 'daddy envy'. The two bond over normalising divorce, the idea of empowering others and redecorating getting out of hand. It's Michelle's velvet blue couch versus Samantha's pink kitchen wall in this engaging, fun chat.Michelle's podcast is: Moms Moving OnHer book has the same title See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"I remember a couple of friends who couldn't be there for me and I got it" - Harriet HadfieldJournalist and "wannabe politician" (her words) Harriet Hadfield joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce, living abroad and her love for the Isle of Wight. Harriet opens up about breaking up with someone in a different country with a one year old and the traumatic journey back home to the UK. The two discuss the importance of friends, how triggering your experience can be for others and getting annoyed with people around you. Harriet describes going through a lorry of her belongings from her marriage and how her new community has helped her so much. Sam and Harriet talk new love, hope and Harriet details her fertility and IVF journey (which has had a happy ending).Trigger warning:IVF/fertilityHarriet's podcast is Island Stories: https://bio.site/islandstoriesollow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comSupport the podcast on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabaines See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

“there was no sex… it was like living with a sister” - Roy Biancala Divorce and love coach Roy Biancala joins Samantha Baines to talk about his own divorce and what that taught him about himself and relationships. The two talk patterns within relationships and how you 'attract' the sort of person you want. Roy opens up about rebounding straight after his divorce and his 'year long life crisis' as well as giving Sam some dating advice. They explore how Roy eventually become a divorce and relationships coach and met his current wife.Roy's books are available on Amazon.Roy's podcast is called Attracting Lasting Love.Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comSupport the podcast on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabaines See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Actress, podcaster and campaigner Mika Simmons joins Samantha Baines for the new series! Mika discusses a number of high profile relationships including her relationship with James Blunt and the fact the two are still good friends. Mika shares her views on marriage, growing up in a 'hippie' household and how her parents divorce affect her. The two bond over the death of parents, learning from relationships, doing healing work on yourself. Mika's own podcast is called The Happy Vagina and opens up the conversation about female sexual health.Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comSupport the podcast on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabaines See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Host Samantha Baines rounds up the series and remembers the pearls of wisdom her fantastic and varied guests have shared with us. From hearing Amy Christopher's experiences of 'marrying' and breaking up on TV's 'Married at First Sight' to comedian Desiree Burch recounting the time she cried all over her pizza when her relationship ended, we've heard from people at every stage of the divorce/ break-up spectrum. Journalist Stacey Duigud spoke to us whilst still navigating her way through a divorce and discussed with Samantha the newly announced plans for the UK to switch to 'no-fault divorce' and fellow divorce podcaster Kate Daly shared her experiences of breaking free from an abusive marriage and how she helps others who are in similar situations. Thank you so much for joining us for this series, we will be back for series 8, and in the meantime, why not go back and enjoy our amazing back catalog of episodes! See you soon! Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comSupport the podcast on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabaines See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"There's nothing quite as alone as laying in bed next to someone and feeling profoundly alone " Desiree BurchIn the final episode of this series, Samantha Baines talks to comedian, actor & presenter of Netlix's reality dating show 'Too Hot To Handle', Desiree Burch about finding the courage to go through the heartache of a break-up. Desiree tells us about a significant break-up in her past and how she found the strength to carry on with her show at The Edinburgh Fringe, making people laugh night after night, in the immediate aftermath of a painful, yet necessary break-up. Samantha and Desiree also talk about the loneliness of being with someone after the relationship has run its course, how relief and hope emerge through the pain and tears of heartbreak and why it's impossible not to cry on an airplane. Desiree also tells us why Pizza Express might be the perfect break-up venue and what she thinks about the beautiful people on reality dating series 'Too Hot To Handle', which she presents on Netflix. Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comSupport Samantha on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabaines See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"When you're in an abusive relationship, you lose that sense of being able to make a decision" Kate Daly TRIGGER WARNING: Kate talks about her abusive marriage.Samantha Baines talks to divorce expert, entrepreneur, and fellow podcaster Kate Daly about surviving her abusive marriage & setting up her business & podcast as a result of divorce. Samantha talks to Kate Daly, host of The Divorce Podcast about the moment she knew she had to leave her abusive marriage and embark on a confusing, expensive, and seemingly never-ending divorce process. After finding the process such a challenge Kate decided that she wanted to help and advise other people who are navigating their way through the baffling legalities by not only setting up The Divorce Podcast but also co-founding Amicable, which aims to help those going through divorce with advice to cut the financial burden and ways to get emotional support. Samantha and Kate talk about how much they have learned as a result of launching their podcasts and how there's definitely room for more than one show about divorce.We also hear how worry windows can help anyone going through a traumatic time and Kate recounts the date from hell, which is difficult not to have a chuckle at. Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comSupport Samantha on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabaines See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

“I gave myself permission to be a wreck” - Stacey Duguid Samantha Baines talks to journalist and Telegraph Columnist Stacey Duguid about being in the midst of her divorce. Stacey speaks honestly and openly about how she is finding the process, the help she's getting to manage her way through the legal jargon, and how to avoid some of the mounting costs. Stacey discusses her recent diagnosis of ADHD, which has changed the way she views her past marriage and future dating plans. We also hear about the support Stacey received on social media when she opened up about her break-up and mental health.This episode was recorded during a landmark week for divorce law, as the UK welcomed 'No-Fault Divorce' - meaning that no one has to take the blame on divorce proceedings. The two discuss whether this is a universally positive change and the impact it may have on proceedings. Samantha and Stacey also touch on what this means from their own experiences. Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comSupport Samantha on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabaines See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"Would you rather be right, or would you rather be free?!" - Jessica Pidsley This week Samantha Baines is joined by someone who has helped her in her own divorce recovery, courage coach Jessica Pidsley, who was able to draw on the extraordinary circumstances of her parent's marriage break-up to learn some valuable lessons for life and relationships. Jessica's ability to help and guide people through the difficult and transient phases of their lives is clear to see and Samantha wanted to share some of Jessica's amazing insight for the benefit of anyone out there who may need it. As well as using the lessons of her parent's divorce in her marriage, Jessica has also been able to counsel members of her own family in the unresolved issues of that process many years later. We also learn the importance of creating and maintaining rituals and how they can help us in our relationships and individually. Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comSupport Samantha on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabaines See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"To me 100% it felt like a real marriage"- Amy ChristophersSports journalist, model, and former 'Married at First Sight' contestant Amy Christophers talks to Samantha Baines about not only getting 'married' in the public eye but how she coped with the break-up of that relationship being reported in the media.Amy tells us what it was like to be on the show and how she had to carry on with the press and publicity, despite already splitting with her husband from the show. Amy also realises now, that they went into the marriage with very different expectations and feels this may have changed the way she approaches relationships in the future, plus she talks about how it felt when she found out that she had been blocked from her ex's social media.Amy also shares a spooky tale from her childhood which will make even the skeptics amongst us stop and think!Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comSupport Samantha on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabaines See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"Only you know what you need and you have to block out the stigma and the judgment to get help" - Aja BarberWriter and stylist Aja Barber talks to Samantha Baines about the post-break-up tragedy which changed her outlook on life forever. Aja opens up to Samantha about the guilt she feels for being un-happy about a break-up in the last few weeks of a loved one's life. Aja promises that she will never allow herself to take life for granted again, giving her the strength to talk about the subjects she feels are important, regardless if it makes others uncomfortable. Aja discusses race, heartache, moving country and sustainability.Aja also gives us (and Samantha) some vital tips on how to not turn to shopping in times of stress and they talk about her book Consumed.Trigger warning:not eatingFollow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comSupport Samantha on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabaines See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

“ I wasn't instantly happy, but I knew happiness was possible" - Rose StokesAs well as talking about her parent's divorce, Rose also recounts how she coped in the aftermath of a toxic relationship and got to a place where she is ready to say 'I do', whilst keeping realistic expectations of what a marriage really is and not buy into the damaging fairytale narrative. Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comSupport Samantha on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabaines See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

“Don't get married to someone you wouldn't want to get divorced from” - Steve Hoftstetter.Steve shares his experiences of the brave new world of dating apps, your niece finding out you are divorced via Wikipedia, and just why you should NEVER touch the buffet in a strip club.Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comSupport Samantha on Patreon - patreon.com/samanthabaines See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Our very own Samantha Baines is joined by excellent previous guests actress Kerry Howard, comedian Helen Thorn and Artistic Director of the National Youth Theatre Paul Roseby OBE to talk New Years. For Samantha this one night is harder than Christmas as a singleton and the four chat body image after break up, creating odd numbers on trips away and who to snog at midnight.We are here for any of you going through a difficult time or feeling lonely this New Year. Remember you are not alone! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Samantha Baines is joined by not one but THREE brilliant previous The Divorce Social guests to chat break up and Christmas! Scummy Mummies' Helen Thorn, comedy actress Kerry Howard and Interior Design Masters' Micaela Sharp bring the joy to this seasonal special. All share stories about presents from the ex, lonely moments and Christmas merriment as well as top tips for your first Christmas without a partner. There are crackers, cheesy Christmas jokes and solidarity to feast on.We know Christmas can be a difficult time for anyone going through a breakup/in a difficult situation/or dreaming of leaving and we at The Divorce Social are here for you. Join us next week for our New Years special too!Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comJoin the chat: www.patreon.com/samanthabaines See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Host Samantha Baines rounds up the series with her favourite bits of each episode, the gifts she misses at Christmas, the affect of anniversaries on her and the weird dates she's been on - its been a strange year of dating!Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comTranscripts can be found at www.thedivorcesocial.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

‘Sometimes there are things in your life you just have to accept and live with, that you can't solve, that you can't put right - a lot of my life is about let's solve that problem... but this is something, the most important thing in my life and I actually couldn't control…' -Jacqui SmithFormer Home Secretary and political commentator Jacqui Smith joins Samantha Baines to talk about divorce and the expenses scandal even gets a mention. Jacqui talks about the importance of counselling and accepting the end of her 32 year marriage. They both discuss different sorts of grief and how to handle their emotions. Jacqui speaks about online dating and the awkwardness of being recognised by her date! They both talk about adapting to life without men in their homes and the sudden need and satisfaction of buying their own toolkits!Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comTranscripts can be found at www.thedivorcesocial.comSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

TW: Baby death/Miscarriage"I called and said I'm going to come back and he said, no you're not, this isn't your house anymore- I'm divorcing you"- Natasha AujlaWriter Natasha Aujla joins Samantha Baines to talk about dealing with the death of her newborn son and then being asked for a divorce eight days later. Natasha discusses her journey with forgiveness and how logical thinking aided her recovery. They both discuss going to weddings after a divorce and the emotional rollercoaster they went through. Natasha talks about the importance of her Sikh religion and how she felt growing up in a South Asian community and the cultural expectations that come with it.Natashas blog and Instagram: blusabar.com / @BlusabarFollow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comTranscripts can be found at www.thedivorcesocial.comSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"I knew he was in a really really bad place and I think that's how I forgave a lot of his behaviour" - Georgia HirstVikings actor and activist Georgia Hirst joins Samantha Baines to talk about delaying the healing process. The two discuss about the difference between doing the dumping vs being the one dumped. Georgia talks about her experience of being with an older man and the lack of communication between them. Both discuss wanting to protect your partner from scrutiny by loved ones and that urge to look through their partners phone. And Georgia speaks about the importance of spending time with yourself along with tips on how to do just that!Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comTranscripts can be found at www.thedivorcesocial.comSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"I came home and there was a ripped up photo of us and his ring next to my sink"- Nikki DeBartoloIn a Divorce Social first, we have a divorced couple on the show together! Nikki DeBartolo and Ben Heldfond both join Samantha to talk about their divorce from one another and their book all about it. Now the best of friends, they talk to Samantha about their journey whilst bringing up their son. The three discuss feelings of insecurity, meeting in public places and the power of therapy. Ben and Nikki also discuss the drastic differences in their childhood and how that affected the different outlooks they had on relationships. To purchase their book, Our Happy Divorce: https://ourhappydivorce.com/Instagram: @OurhappydivorceFollow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comTranscripts can be found at www.thedivorcesocial.comSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"The break up that triggered all that was when I got dumped by email"- Rosie WilbyComedian and Author of The Breakup Monologues, Rosie Wilby joins Samantha Baines to talk about the major breakdown of her relationship. Rosie talks about the impact her break up had on her pet cat and how she felt being in a relationship with someone not openly gay. The two discuss the lack of women who like women, representation on Tinder and taking into consideration being a pet parent when you separate from a partner.Rosie's new book, The Breakup Monologues is based on her acclaimed podcast of the same name: https://linktr.ee/breakupmonologuesTwitter @rosiewilby and @breakupmonologues on Instagram. Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comTranscripts can be found at www.thedivorcesocial.comSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"I don't think I could have stopped what happened anyway..." -Gilly Da SilvaGilly Da Silva joins Samantha Baines to talk about being gaslighted and why she set up Mending Hearts Retreat: a unique experience for individuals experiencing the hurt and pain of a relationship breakdown or loss of a deceased loved one. The two chat revamping themselves from the outside in after divorce and the freedom of their shopaholic phases. Gilly talks about the men she encountered during her ruthless divorce f*** frenzy and how she used it to escape and feel liberated. They also discuss the financial freedom needed to be independent after divorce and the role that plays. Mending Hearts Retreat: @mendingheartsretreat https://www.mendingheartsretreat.com/Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comTranscripts can be found at www.thedivorcesocial.comSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"What was challenging for me was separating the different threads of grief..."- Steven PetrowAuthor and Columnist at The Washington Post, Steven Petrow joins Samantha Baines to discuss dealing with losing his parents while splitting from his ex husband. The two open up about dealing with emotions when your ex moves on first, how they manage their anxiety and the true meaning of the phrase 'generous Daddy'. Steven discusses being honest with people about depressive episodes, noting gratitude at the start and end of his day and the two speak about being in a better place.To purchase Stevens new book, Stupid Things I Wont Do When I Get Old: shorturl.at/jsKL2Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comTranscripts can be found at www.thedivorcesocial.comSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"It was the most horrific experience, I think of my life..."- Sue AtkinsParenting Consultant, author and Broadcaster Sue Atkins joins Samantha Baines to discuss her coping strategies to life's biggest changes, her "F*** you ring" and advises on what to do when breaking the news of divorce to children. Sue discusses what not to do when having to go places where your ex is going to be and the two discuss their horrible experiences of online dating. Find Sue and her work: https://sueatkinsparentingcoach.com/ Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comTranscripts can be found at www.thedivorcesocial.com Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"I went out and had tons of sex. I had so much sex with so many different kinds of people..."- Laura Friedman WilliamsAuthor of Available and self declared PTA mum, Laura Friedman Williams joins Samantha Baines to discuss details of her divorce skate party, asking men lots of questions and talking all things hair (and not the stuff on our heads)! Laura discusses the sordid details of her book, the feelings of sickness when she found out about her exes "soulmate" and how she modelled forgiveness to her kids. The two discuss fellatio (yep that's right), their sexual awakening and men's strange requests. Laura also speaks on how getting divorced was one of the best things that happened to her!Purchase Laura's book, 'Available: A Memoir Of Sex And Dating After A Marriage Ends'- https://smarturl.it/AvailableHB_Multi Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comTranscripts can be found at www.thedivorcesocial.comSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"It wasn't so much for me the act of cheating on me, it was how he had treated me in that time frame"- Micaela SharpStar of Interior Design Masters and upholsterer, Micaela Sharp joins Samantha Baines to discuss leaving her home of 6 years and reclaiming her space. Micaela talks about dealing with anger, placating her dog and having another woman fill her in on the details of her exes infidelity. The two discuss losing their parent/s and how that resonated for them while going through a divorce. Micaela also gives suggestions on curating the best space for yourself after your partner moves out.Follow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesEmail: thedivorcesocial@gmail.comTranscripts can be found at www.thedivorcesocial.comSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Host Samantha Baines rounds up the series with her favourite bits of each episode, her love for cooling sheets and shares some of your wonderful messages. Samantha also gives a sneak peek into what series 6 has in store- exciting!To support Samantha and join The Divorce Social community: www.patreon.com/samanthabainesTwitter and Instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesFor features and sponsorships, email thedivorcesocial@gmail.comTranscripts available on thedivorcesocial.comSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Comedian Jessica Fostekew joins Samantha Baines to talk breaking up with her child's father and her queerness. Jess talks about leaving someone well, being firm that it's the end and accidentally falling in love. The two share their queerness journeys and Sam talks bisexuality and thinking about her marriage ending by a rooftop pool in LA, as you do. The importance of a colour coded google spreadsheet comes up as well as breaking your new engagement to your ex and owning your part in their pain. Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"if doing all of that is the price I had to pay to be a Dad, I'd do it all again" - Dom NewtonPresenter Dom Newton joins Samantha Baines to chat divorce and fatherhood. The two chat changing surnames for the family and Dom talks getting married at twenty two to a woman eight years older than him. Comparing himself to Milhouse's dad from The Simpsons and the effect that media references have on us. Dom opens up about being depressed, crying in front of his friend and boss for the first time. A lovely honest chat.Trigger warning:depression Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"I said to my Mum so many times as a kid, just leave him" - Sam BaileyX-factor 2013 winner singer Sam Bailey joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce. Don't worry she's still happily married right now but Sam opens up about her broken engagement aged 17 and her parents divorce. The two discuss losing family members after a break up and how that can affect children. Sam Bailey talks about how hard lockdown is on a marriage and is very honest about her childhood. Sam Bailey explains the huge impact that the alcoholism and domestic violence she witnessed as a child has had on her.Trigger warning:alcoholismdomestic violence Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"I started exploring my own fear of being alone" - Francesca SpecterAuthor and podcaster Francesca Specter joins Samantha Baines to talk how her break up led to an exploration of being alone. The two talk staying in things too long, spending time apart in a relationship and learning to enjoy time by yourself. Francesca talks living alone for the first time in her life, going on awful dates to avoid evenings in and the importance of the connection to yourself. Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"what I'm talking about is ending up in a sexless marriage" - Irene FehrSex and intimacy coach Irene Fehr joins Samantha Baines to talk about her divorce and sexless marriage. Irene talks about her initial belief that she was asexual, taking on the responsibility and shame of the lack of sex in a relationship. Irene discusses painful sex due to loss of lubrication and her sexual journey. The two discuss the lack of conversation around sex in long term relationships and issues around sex and Irene opens up about her inability to orgasm in her marriage.Trigger warning:sex Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"I felt that if I couldn't get it out emotionally it would affect me physically" - Denise CullingtonPsychoanalyst and writer Denise Cullington joins Samantha Baines to discuss her divorce over twenty years ago. Denise talks about dealing with emotions as a trained psychoanalyst, why it's important to have good men in your life and how divorce caused her to swap painting forPsychotherapy. Sam finds out what psychotherapy actually is and Denise explains how our past can underpin our present.Trigger warning:cancer Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"run as fast as you can to the middle of nowhere" - Jen McGuire (and Pink)Writer Jen McGuire joins Samantha Baines to discuss how the artist Pink encouraged her to leave her husband as well as her movie moment at an actual crossroads. Having your first child at 21, divorced at 30 and dealing with your kids leaving the nest all feature. The two discuss break up anthems, the importance of asking for help and that sometimes getting Chinese food and watching Bring It On is the best medicine.Jen's book is called Nest.Support the podcast and become part of the club on Patreon.https://www.patreon.com/thedivorceclubpodFollow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesFind transcripts at www.thedivorceclub.co.uk Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Sitcom writer Diane Burrows joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce after twenty four years of marriage. Working with your ex, finding your ex an apartment and sticking post it notes on your furniture all feature. Diane introduces Sam to the 'look back' and why it's so important to let go of it and how flash mobs changed her life! Sam is very excited by the idea of a break up assistant to help the process along and Diane teaches her about the menopause.Trigger warning:cheatingmental healthperimenopausesuicide Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"I feel like I've been three different people" - LizLiz Hume-Dawson joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce that feels like a lifetime ago. The two discuss friends/relatives telling them they can drop out of the wedding and knowing things aren't working five years before the separation. Liz discusses the way we keep things to ourselves, dealing with the in-laws, way things build up and the legacy of a mushroom pate. Break up led Liz to train as an actress, remarry and feel free. Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"I was basically taking a lethal dose of alcohol and drugs to get to sleep" - Laura Cathcart-RobbinsLaura Cathcart-Robbins joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce and addiction. Laura openly talks about "improvising her education", entering into her marriage lying and using alcohol and drugs to 'cope'. The two discuss the five stages of grief, the importance of asking for help and Laura lets us know how much it costs to check into recovery in the US and the difficulties of getting divorced and sober at the same time.Laura talks about the journey of first hiding and then sharing her story plus still having Thanksgiving with her ex husband every year.Trigger warnings:addictionviolenceabuseLaura's podcast is The Only One Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Host Samantha Baines rounds up the series with some puppy news, some of your messages and a recap of each episode. The puppy introduces herself and Samantha talks about her new divorce chat room and venting sessions! Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"it was a bonfire of the whole of my life" - Jennifer CrichtonJournalist and Founder of The Flock Jennifer Crichton joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce. Jennifer talks tough emotional trauma and the experience she had with her new-born son's illness in intensive care for the first few months of his life. Living in a foreign country, illness and then losing all your possessions before you even get divorced, Jennifer explains that her most difficult times were actually before her separation. The two discuss career as part of your identity, dating new people and having a good looking friend.Trigger warnings:newborn/baby illnessSupport the podcast and become part of the club on Patreon.https://www.patreon.com/thedivorceclubpodFollow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesFind transcripts at www.thedivorceclub.co.uk Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"I started to go blind" - Poppy DelbridgeTapping teacher Poppy Delbridge joins Samantha Baines to talk getting married at 18, divorce, being a single Mum and starting to go blind. The two talk about catalysts, grief and have a great chat about seeing a different penis for the first time. Samantha shares her crying during sex fears, setting up that first time post break up and the two discuss clothes as part of your identity. An upbeat chat and a tapping exercise to follow too.Trigger warning:death/griefblindnesssexSupport the podcast and become part of the club on Patreon.https://www.patreon.com/thedivorceclubpodFollow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesFind transcripts at www.thedivorceclub.co.uk Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"I viewed my divorce like a project" - Fidel BeauhillThe Modern Man Fidel Beauhill joins Sam to discuss his divorce and coaching other men. Fidel talks about 'obsess appointments', jealousy and testosterone. Sam challenges Fidel on the subject of consent and the two have a great discussion about sex and men's views around consent. Fidel discusses self-sabotage and the trend with men of jumping straight into a new relationships and lonliness. The two discuss sexual explosions, online dating and doing the work.Trigger warning:consentrapecancerpets dyingBook:Divorce a Modern Man's GuideSupport the podcast and become part of the club on Patreon.https://www.patreon.com/thedivorceclubpodFollow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesFind transcripts at www.thedivorceclub.co.uk Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"Your divorce is not about your ex, it's about you" - Tosh BrittanThe Divorce Goddess Tosh Brittan joins Samantha Baines to chat divorce, her daughter trying on her wedding dress, the 'family ring' and the importance of not throwing everything away. Tosh talks separating at the beginning of a month long road trip, going bankrupt, going through the attic memories and using your divorce as a kindness experiment. Some lovely exercises and words of wisdom from Tosh's mindfulness coaching work too.Trigger warning:bankruptcy Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"I left my husband when I was three months pregnant" - Sajeela KershiComedian Sajeela Kershi joins Samantha Baines and the two bond over lots of parallels in their lives, from comedy to dead dads and even hearing loss. Sajeela discusses being held at gunpoint whilst pregnant and negotiating toilet breaks with terrorists, the need for a marriage handbook and having an arranged marriage. Sajeela explains why she only packed three pairs of knickers when she left her marriage, going on holiday with your ex, professional mourners and having a breakdown at the school gates.trigger warnings:post-natal depressionterrorismhostage situationdeathptsdbreakdown Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

"We call them the crying months" - Jo MiddletonJo Middleton joins Samantha Baines to talk about her painful relationship history. A single mother of two, Jo discusses motherhood and dating, living in her Mum's dressing room and why you should always find an American if you are having a panic attack. The two bond over anxiety, share their relationship catalysts and Jo opens up about "the crying months". An reveal all, jam packed episode.Trigger warnings:anxietydepressionSupport the podcast and become part of the club on Patreon.https://www.patreon.com/thedivorceclubpodFollow us on twitter and instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabainesFind transcripts at www.thedivorceclub.co.uk Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thedivorceclub. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.