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Join us each week as we discuss all things ADULT. Real talk about life over 40. We will discuss friendships, relationships, divorce, dating, hair, as wells as current events and much more. We will start with trending topics in our Car Chatter segment and end with some Ratchet Recap of our favorite…

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    Episode 56 What are some reasons couples stop having sex?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 48:02


    Even the happiest of couples can have a period of time where the dont have sex temporarily or maybe even permanently. What are some things that stop couples from getting their groove on?Join us as we discuss this topic and more. Car chatter - RIP Ja'Net DuBoisRatchet recap - RHOA Whatwelikeinc@gmail.com We would love to hear your comments.

    Episode 55 Gayle King Interview backlash

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 41:47


    Join us as we discuss the backlash Gayle King received after her interview with Lisa Leslie. Snoop Dog gave his opinion about Gayle and the interview and it wasn't pretty. Was he too harsh? Did she deserve the backlash she received?

    Episode 54 Don't waste her time

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 48:45


    Timing is important. How long do you wait before having the "are we exclusive" conversation? Should you even mention it or just assume your in relationship?Join us as we discuss this and more.Car chatter: Your President and the potential Iran WarRatchet Recap: Married to Medicine Reunion ending with some positivity. We would love to hear your feedback at whatwelikeinc@gmail.com

    FLASHBACK FRIDAY Episode 27 Platonic Friendships

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 29:12


    Why do some women have more male friends than female friends?Are men better friends? Can men and women have platonic friendships?Tune in as we discuss friendships between men and women.Ratchet Recap - RHOP...Candiace's wedding and her relationship with her mom.We would love to hear your comments.Whatwelikeinc@gmail.com

    Episode 53 Need you or Feed into you

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 42:02


    Make a list of the people who need you and the people who feed into you. Are they the same people? Is your list balanced?Join us as we discuss this topic and more.Car chatter - Queen & SlimJR Smith's wife and their separationRatchet recap - RHOA & Married to MedicineNeNe Leakes on the show lessContessa and her husband doing therapyWe would love to hear your comments.Whatwelikeinc@gmail.com

    Episode 52 Dating Etiquette

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 32:13


    Join us as we discuss the topic of Dating Etiquette. Should you order a $100 steak if that's not what you would usually order. Should the man pay on the first date?Car chatter: Lizzo showing a little too much at a Basketball game.Ratchet recap: RHOA not much going on this weekWe would love to hear your commentsWhatwelikeinc@gmail.com

    Episode 51 Qualities that make a man Husband Material

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 42:50


    What are three qualities that make a man Husband Material? Would you ask someone you're dating about their health issues?Join us as we discuss these topics and more.Car chatter - Kamala Harris withdraws from the Democratic nomination Ratchet recap - Married to Medicine We would love to hear you comments atWhatwelikeinc@gmail.com

    Episode 50 I'm Thankful for...

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 47:48


    Join us as we discuss what we are Thankful for this holiday season.Car chatter: Jocelyn Savage speaks out or nah?Ratchet recap: Married to Medicine- The new Jackie speaks out RHOA - Kenya Moore and her husbandTell us what you're thankful for.Whatwelikeinc@gmail.com

    Episode 49 How long is too long to be in the talking stage?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 40:13


    What is the talking stage? What's too long to be in the talking stage? Three months? Six months?

    Episode 48 Do you share if you're seeing other people?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 43:03


    Do you disclose if you're seeing other people to someone new? If so, how soon? It's important to go into a new relationship well informed.Join us as we discuss this topic and more. Car chatter - John Legend Sexiest Man Alive Lamar Odom and his fiancee'Ratchet recap - RHOA new seasonPorscha and DennisWe would love to hear your comments or questions whatwelikeinc@gmail.com

    Episode 20 Marriage THROWBACK THURSDAY

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 47:00


    Marriage is a beautiful union between two people. But how important is marriage to you at this stage in your life? Are you looking for commitment that leads to marriage or are you good with "shacking"? Join us as we discuss marriage expectations over 40, shacking, long term relationships and more.   Car Chatter - Jussie Smollett is cleared of all charges. Not only is he cleared of all the charges but the records are sealed. How did that happen??? Also, Dr. Dre's post about his daughter's acceptance to USC gets some backlash on social media. Ratchet Recap - Real Housewives of Atlanta  Eva's bridesmaid spreads nasty rumors about her finances and living arrangements. Marlo happily shares the rumors with the ladies. Should NeNe be mad with Tanya for telling Eva about their discussion before she got there?

    Episode 47 Over 45 and Single

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 40:17


    Did you think you would be single at this age? Are you comfortable being single?Join us and our guest Roosevelt as we discuss this question and more.

    Episode 46 Less and More

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 46:29


    How would you finish this sentence? I'm working on being less_____and more _____.Join us as we discuss our answers and more.Car Chatter - Van gets suspended from TMZRatchet Recap- Basketball Wives Reunion part 2Please email your questions or comments to whatwelikeinc@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook, Twitterand Instagram

    Episode 45 Friends and Sex

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 56:28


    You and this person are friends, you hang out and have sex. Are you in a relationship?Can women handle a "friends with benefits" relationship?Join us as we discuss this topic and more. Car chatter: Matt Lauer sexual assault accusations Amanda Seales was kicked out of a partyRatchet recap- Basketball Wives - Reunion episode 1O.G. is beefing with almost everyone.Share your comments and/or questions at whatwelikeinc@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram

    Episode 44 Dating to Marry

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 57:59


    If you are not dating to marry you are dating for heartbreak. True or False?Join us as we discuss this topic and more.Car chatter - Young lady accuses alleged bullies of cutting her hair but it turns out those accusations were false. Amber Guyger found guilty of murder. She receives 10 year sentence. Ratchet recap - BBW Evelyn, Chad & OGM2M - Toya & Jocelyn have wordsFollow us on IG, Facebook & TwitterSend you questions and comments to whatwelikeinc@gmail.com

    THROWBACK THURSDAY Relationships and dating must haves 20's vs 50's

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 40:55


    Dating and relationship must haves NOW vs THEN.Join us as we discuss the qualities we looked for in a boo in our 20's compared to now over 45, how our 'list' has changed and in what areas. Are you still attracted to the same type or has your appetite changed?Car Chatter - Referee Alan Maloney who told teen to cut dreads or forfeit wrestling match has threatened $100K lawsuit for defamation of character.Meek Mill says he doesn't owe family and friends anything after his success. Do you agree?Ratchet Recap - Love & Hip Hop New York...MariahLynn loves Rich Dollaz. Sarfaree's relationship with Erica on blast.Email us at whatwelikeinc@gmail.com.Like and follow on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter.

    Episode 43 Being Submissive

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 35:37


    Should a woman be submissive in a relationship? If you are submissive does that mean you're weak?Join us as we discuss this topic and more.Car chatter - A six year old was arrested for having a temper tantrum at schoolRatchet recap - All things Reality TVFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterWe would love to hear your commentsWhatWeLikeInc@gmail.com

    Episode 42 Age Appropriate Clothing

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 58:39


    What is age appropriate clothing? Can you wear short shorts at 45? Are torn jeans appropriate?Join us as we discuss this topic and more.Car chatter - Malik YobaRatchet recap - Basketball Wives & RHOP Karen Huger's La Dame PerfumeFollow us on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram

    Episode 41 Is he controlling or just opinionated?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 49:15


    Episode 41 Is his behavior controlling or is he just opinionated?Would you allow your significant other to tell you what to wear, where to go or who to be friends with?Join us as we discuss this topic and more. Car chatter - Pink TaxRatchet Recap - Love and Marriage Huntsville RHOPFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter Whatwelikeinc@gmail.com

    Episode 40 Standards

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 43:38


    Are you standards too high? Are they realistic? Do you feel you are judging if you turn someone down because they don't meet your standards?Car chatter - Popeyes chicken sandwich, Jay Z and moreRatchet Recap - Basketball Wives and RHOPJoin us as we discuss this topic and more.Follow us on Facebook, IG and Twitter

    Episode 39 Taking his last name

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 41:37


    Is it important to your significant other that you take his last name?Would you consider hyphenating?Join us as we discuss this topic and more.Car chatter - Murder/Suicide in Atlanta Ratchet Recap - Reality TVFollow us on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram

    Episode 38 Sexually Attracted

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 46:05


    If you aren't sexually attracted to your significant other can they get the best of you?Join us as we discuss this and more.Car chatter - Jay Z and the NFLRatchet Recap - Basketball Wives and RHOPFollow us on IG, Facebook and Twitter

    Episode 37 Happiness

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 43:24


    Are you happy? Can someone else make you happy?Join us as we discuss this topic and more.Car chatter - ICE raidsRatchet recap- Basketball Wives and RHOPFollow us on Facebook, IG and Twitter

    Episode 36 Must haves and Dealbreakers

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 42:37


    What are your absolute must haves in a relationship? Is cheating a dealbreaker? Join us as we discuss this topic and more. Car chatter - Mass shootingRatchet recap- RHOP Follow us on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram

    Episode 35 Can you be pro black and marry a white person?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 47:21


    Can you be pro black and marry white?What does it mean to be pro black?Join us as we discuss this topic and more.Car chatter - Nicole Murphy and Antoine FuquaRatchet recap- Ashley Darby has her babyFollow us on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram

    Episode 34 What do you have a difficult time saying?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 41:53


    What do you have a difficult time saying?1. I apologize 2. I'm sorry 3. I need your help 4. I love you5. I appreciate youJoin us as we discuss this topic and more. Car chatter - Azriel ClaryRatchet recap - RHOPFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter

    Episode 33 Can a black person be racist?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 50:31


    Is it possible for a black person to be racist?Join us as we discuss this topic and moreRatchet recap - Basketball wives shenanigans

    Episode 32 Girlfriend/Boyfriend doing Wifely or Husband duties

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 43:59


    Should you do Wifely/Husband duties if you're not married?Join us as we discuss this topic and more.Ratchet recap - How women conduct themselves on reality TV shows

    Episode 31 Would You Break Up With Someone Over Their Debt?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 41:49


    Would you break up with someone over their debt?Join us as we discuss this topic and more.Car chatter - Cuba Gooding Jr.'s arrest and LaVar Ball's interview with Molly QerimRatchet recap - Porcia and Dennis - Is their relationship over?

    Episode 30 'Auntie' -Sign of Respect or Offensive?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 34:17


    The newfound popularity of 'Auntie' can be credited to beloved Maxine Waters in 2017. Oprah, Gayle, and Ava DuVernay are not here for it!Is the term a sign of respect or offensive?Car Chatter - Teairra Mari arrest.Ratchet Recap - RHOP Candiace/Ashley saga continues, Karen's grief.

    Episode 29 Will a Woman lose respect for a Man that will move into her home?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 40:56


    Does a woman lose respect for her man if he moves into her home instead of her moving in with him?Car Chatter Apolla Nida violates halfway house rules and ends up back in prison.Is it ok to swipe if someone gives you their phone to look at a photo?Ratchet RecapRHOP -Gizelle and Sherman's relationship, Candiace not believing Ashley's trying to get pregnant, Candiace's relationship with her mom.

    Episode 28 If your friend betrays you is the friendship over?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 44:11


    What if your friend betrays you, is the friendship over? Can you forgive and move on? Will the friendship be the same? Join us as we discuss our experiences with this topic.   Car chatter - Virginia Beach shootingRatchet Recap - Porsche and Dennis - Did he cheat? Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter

    Episode 27 Platonic Male-Female Friendships

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 29:12


    Why do some women have more male friends than female friends?Are men better friends? Can men and women have platonic friendships?Tune in as we discuss friendships between men and women.Ratchet Recap - RHOP...Candiace's wedding and her relationship with her mom.

    Episode 26 Is it ok to say NO to your significant other?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 35:02


    Is it ok to say NO especially if your significant other is doing all the right things in your relationship? Are you too petty to please your mate because your too mad or too tired? Join us as we discuss how we handle this situation.  Car chatter: Are people really out here not washing their legs?Ratchet Recap: LHHATL and other reality shows  Follow us on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram

    Episode 25 Ghosting

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 46:59


    Ghosting is breaking off a relationship by ceasing all communication and contact with the former partner without any apparent warning or justification, as well as ignoring the former partner’s attempts to reach out or communicate. The term originated in 2011.Join us as we discuss this topic and share our experience with ghosting.Car Chatter - RIP John Singleton, Eva Marcille (RHOA) is pregnant with Baby #3.Ratchet Recap - Married to Medicine Los Angeles.Send questions and comments to whatwelikeinc@gmail.com.

    Episode 24 Black Women and Our Hair

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 47:20


    To straighten or not to straighten, that is the question. Should you straighten your hair for that new job? Can you wear braids and still be professional? Join us as we discuss these questions and more.  Car chatter - Dress code for parents when dropping their children off at James Madison High School in Houston, TX.Ratchet recap - Cynthia Bailey and Leon are a package deal. Tamar may be a new RHOA Follow us on IG, Facebook and Twitter 

    Episode 23 Protect, Provide and Be the Man

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 56:20


    The 3 P's of manhood are known as Protect, Provide and Procreate...in this episode we will concentrate on Protect and Provide by asking the question 'Do independent women still expect the man to protect and provide for her?'. We will also touch on being the man in the relationship.  Car Chatter - Kodak Black arrested on gun charges, John Singleton suffers a stroke, and Kim Kardashian studying to become a lawyer. Ratchet Recap - Love Hip Hop Atlanta Let us know what you think about this episode at whatwelikeinc@gmail.com. Like and follow on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.    

    Episode 22 Make that Move

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 52:01


    Are you considering moving from the home you share with significant other? Or maybe moving to another town or state to get a new start?  If so, what is holding you back?  Join us as we discuss this topic and more.  Car Chatter - Tiger Woods win the Master and Kodak Black get and T.I. beefing Ratchet Recap - NeNe is being a mean girl   Follow us on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram

    Episode 21 Grown Women Friendships

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 49:49


    The assumption that we cannot be friends is bias and ignores the fact that many Black women can have wholesome and vibrant friendships with other Black women. Join us as we discuss grown women friendships and the need to value, support and uplift one another. Car Chatter - The murder of Nipsey Hussle and Monica files for divorce. Ratchet Recap - The finale of RHOA...Nene's beef with Cynthia is revealed.   Comments or questions email us at whatwelikeinc@gmail.com. Like and follow on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter.

    Episode 20 How important is marriage to you?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 47:56


    Marriage is a beautiful union between two people.  But how important is marriage to you at this stage in your life?  Are you looking for commitment that leads to marriage or are you good with "shacking"? Join us as we discuss marriage expectations over 40, shacking, long term relationships and more.     Car Chatter - Jussie Smollett is cleared of all charges.  Not only is he cleared of all the charges but the records are sealed.  How did that happen??? Also, Dr. Dre's post about his daughter's acceptance to USC gets some backlash on social media.   Ratchet Recap - Real Housewives of Atlanta    Eva's bridesmaid spreads nasty rumors about her finances and living arrangements. Marlo happily shares the rumors with the ladies.  Should NeNe be mad with Tanya for telling Eva about their discussion before she got there?

    Episode 19 Relationship & Dating Must Haves

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 40:55


    Dating and relationship must haves NOW vs THEN. Join us as we discuss the qualities we looked for in a boo in our 20's compared to now over 45, how our 'list' has changed and in what areas. Are you still attracted to the same type or has your appetite changed? Car Chatter - Referee Alan Maloney who told teen to cut dreads or forfeit wrestling match has threatened $100K lawsuit for defamation of character. Meek Mill says he doesn't owe family and friends anything after his success. Do you agree? Ratchet Recap - Love & Hip Hop New York...MariahLynn loves Rich Dollaz. Sarfaree's relationship with Erica on blast. Email us at whatwelikeinc@gmail.com. Like and follow on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter.

    Episode 18 Are you fliexible?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 65:12


    How flexible are you with family, friends, travel and even sex? Join us as we discuss this topic and more.   Car Chatter: Would you tell your significant other if his/her friend tried to hit on you?  Ratchet Recap: RHOA   Follow us on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram     

    Episode 17 Azriel Clary and Jocelyn Savage

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 58:32


    Join us as we discuss the clip of the interview Gayle King did with Azriel Clary and Jocelyn Savage.  Are these young ladies being emotionally abused?  Is emotional abuse a crime?  Car Chatter: School Admission Scandal  Ratchet Recap: RHOA NeNe Leakes' Bye Wig Party   Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter  or email us at whatwelikeinc@gmail.com            

    Episode 16 Should You Choose Financial Security Over Love?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 60:30


    Financial security speaks louder than love, says US study. More than half affluent Americans look at money matters rather than matters of the heart when choosing a mate. Join us as we give our opinions on this topic.  Car Chatter - RIP to Precious and Luke Perry, Leaving Neverland, and Wendy Williams return to The Wendy Williams Show. Ratchet Recap - Love and Marriage Huntsville  We would love to hear your comments...email us at whatwelikeinc@gmail.com. Like and follow on Facebook and Instagram.

    Episode 15 Roosevelt's Dating Challenge

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 57:57


    On this week's episode we reveal the results of Roosevelt's (our guest) dating challenge. He accepted our challenge (Episode 10) and is back to give us the details.   Let us know what you think.  Comment on Facebook, Instagram or Twitter

    Episode 14 All Things Sex Related

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 61:45


    Join us as we discuss all things sex related.     Sex can be a much more passionate experience when you share it with a meaningful partner. Sex may feel like a mere means of pleasure and fun but there is a lot of good that it can do for your relationship. To some people sex may seem overrated, but here are five reasons why sex is beneficial for your relationship. . Keeps you connected.  Keeps stress at bay.  Keeps romance alive.  Keeps hormones balanced.  Keeps you both healthy   Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter     

    Episode 13 Tony Gaskins' view on relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 47:11


    Join us as we discuss Tony Gaskins' interview on the Breakfast Club where he discusses men, relationships, communication and sex.   Car Chatter Segment - Should we continue to boycott the NFL? Ratchet Recap - Love and Marriage Huntsville  Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter    

    Episode 12 B. Smith, Dan Gasby and his live in girlfriend - Living with Alzheimer's

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 46:43


     On this week's episode  we discuss B.Smith's husband who is being slammed for his public relationship with his girlfriend.  Is his new relationship disrespectful to B. Smith? Should he divorce her? Please remember to follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter Email us at whatwelikeinc@gmail.com  

    Episode 11 Nikki Giovanni and James Baldwin discuss the complexities of Black Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 45:13


    In this weeks episode we discuss the clip of Nikki Giovanni and James Baldwin discussing the complexities of Black Love.  Should your spouse/significant other give you the same energy when they come home they gave to their boss and co-workers?  Is home a safe place to be yourself?  We would love to hear your opinions.  

    Episode 10 Roosevelt's experience with dating over 40 (Roosevelt is our guest)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 38:51


    Join us as we discuss Roosevelt's experience dating over 40. Does he find the love of his life or is he fed up with the who dating thing?  Also, tune in to hear about the challenge we give Roosevelt.  

    Episode 9 Open Marriage - Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 56:46


    Researchers estimate that about eight million couples are non-monogamous. Should you and your partner join them? Join us as we discuss open relationships on this weeks episode. 

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