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Master Cecil and Darcy from The Woodshed in Orlando, Florida, offered their expert guidance on entering the kink and BDSM community in this episode. Feeling like you want to leave vanilla for ice cream flavors and bring some kink into your life? - Learn about the critical importance of consent, how to navigate munches, and understanding BDSM dynamics. - Avoid common pitfalls for newcomers with expert advice aimed at both curious newbies and experienced kinksters. - Discover the value of creating safe spaces and receiving valuable education through The Woodshed's in-person and free online classes. - Future discussions and more insights promised, with pointers to The Woodshed's event calendar for ongoing education. 04:01 Navigating Vanilla and Kinky Worlds 09:22 How to Learn About Kink and Find Munches 19:29 Virtual Events and Kink Conventions 25:08 Munch Etiquette and Community Tips 39:43 Safety First: Negotiation and Consent in Kink 48:14 Checking References and Vetting Partners 52:07 Gender Equality in Kink Spaces 56:48 Identifying Safe and Unsafe Play Spaces 01:09:24 Final Advice for Newcomers Connect with The Woodshed https://www.thewoodshedorlando.com/ https://www.instagram.com/woodshedorlando/ https://www.facebook.com/TheWoodshedOrlando https://fetlife.com/groups/853 Resources mentioned in the episode https://findamunch.com/ https://rowman.com/ISBN/9781538168769/Please-Scream-Quietly-A-Story-of-Kink https://www.scienceofbdsm.com/home Connect with Paige Bond Instagram: @paigebondcoaching Facebook: @paigebondcoaching TikTok: @paigebondcoaching Website: https://paigebond.com Paige Bond hosts the Stubborn Love podcast, is a Licensed Marriage Therapist, and a Polyamory Relationship Coach. Her mission is to help people-pleasing millennials navigate non-monogamy so they can tame their jealousy and love with ease. Her own journey from feeling lonely, insecure, and jealous to feeling empowered and reassured is what fuels her passion to help other people-pleasers to conquer jealousy and embrace love. Free Jealousy Workbook: http://www.paigebond.com/calm-the-chaos-jealousy-workbook-download Free People Pleasing Workbook: https://www.paigebond.com/people-pleasing-workbook Disclaimer: This podcast and communication through our email are not meant to serve as professional advice or therapy. If you are in need of mental health support, you are encouraged to connect with a licensed mental health professional to receive the support needed. Mental Health Resources: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255SAMHSA's National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357)Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 for free, 24/7 crisis counseling. Intro music by Coma-Media on pixabay.com
Masters, slaves, & Cresting The Hill Over Apple Cider at The Shed A continuation in our conversation about the inclusion of kink within LGBT & Pride, we take a field trip and record from The Woodshed in Orlando. , we bring in slave Chase Tramel along with Master Cecil. Inclusion/progression in kink and LGBT over 40-60 years Consent, STI status, Unsolicited dick pics and statistics. Risk-aware kink & Furries Kink #BDSM #TheWoodshed #Dominant #Master #Submissive #Slave #LGBT TheHijack #TheEndFM #BDSM #Kink #LGBTQIA #Pride #Leather #Pulse #loveislove #NoH8 #ZouainEntertainment #TheEndFM #TheHIjack #Irreverent #MondayMusicMix #Podcast #currentevents #Podcasts #Politics #Religion #Conservative #Liberal #TalkRadio #Pulse #OrlandoStrong #massshootings
Pride, Prejudice, & Kinkclusion ft. Master Cecil The Hijack 299 -Quick follow up to Katfish Pat -Gender neutral pronouns to get someone's attention -When did Pride stop becoming rebellious? -Kink/ BDSM/Leather representation within Pride Full podcasts available at www.TheEnd.FM Go to The End & subscribe on Apple &Google podcasts, Spotify, & Iheart Radio. Follow @DJZouain on all social media TheHijack #TheEndFM #BDSM #Kink #LGBTQIA #Pride #Leather #Pulse #loveislove #NoH8 ZouainEntertainment #TheEndFM #TheHIjack #Irreverent #MondayMusicMix #Podcast #currentevents #Podcasts #Politics #Religion #Conservative #Liberal #TalkRadio
Zouain is joined my Master Cecil from The Woodshed and we discuss the similarities between Christianity and Kink Punishment in a relationship Pain and pleasure: 2 sides of the same coin Taken In Hand relationships What to expect at a dungeon How to stay safe in kink.
Here we are in the autumn of 2020 and kinky event promoters and wondering what’s next. How do you plane an event in a time of uncertainty? Master Cecil and Darcy talk about the steps to move forward into the brave new year. Their annual big event is FIRE - Florida Intense Rope Experience, one of the larger rope events in the US. Planning is underway for the 2021 event. We discuss how to get from ‘point unknown’ to point ‘I hope so’. Dealing with booking hotels with contingency plans and dealing with the potential attendance with an unsure populous. We try to get back to a new normal with our friends and community. We delve into the possibilities of online events in the time when we can’t gather in a physical place. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/346---master-cecil-and.html
A few weeks ago we took a road trip to Orlando Florida. The destination there is the Woodshed, a fabulous public dungeon with a great community that supports it. Today we bring Master Cecil’s story of how it came to be. No one ever said building a public play space would be easy. The mission of the Woodshed is education and the space is ideally set up for education and great play. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/285---so-you-want-to-build.html
Every year at this time we gather members of the KinkyCast crew and sit around the dining table to discuss the happenings in our world. This year’s topic is Mainstreaming. We once had an exclusive little club called Kink. It didn’t matter if you were LGBTQ+, swinger, poly, straight, BDSM practitioner, or any of the other flavors for kink that make the crazy quilt that we are. We stayed underground, because it was safe. The fewer outsiders that knew about what we did, the better. Time goes by and now it seems everyone you meet is kinky in some way. They read a book, saw in on TV, or were surprised by it in a movie. Curiosity blooms. Follow the links below for a lot more info. Mainstreaming is the main theme, but we go off in the corners and talk about kinky education, where to get it and the make-up of a kinkster. Our panel of seven discuss what’s going on and how to stay safe in style. We also bring in our old friend Master Cecil for perspective. Join, Woody, Leigh, Autumn Orange, Terik, the Beast, Professor Vanilla and MissTress for a look into “Mainstreaming”. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/256---kinkycast-crew-new.html
Rec: November 4, 2018Pub: November 11, 2018 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or https://kudrinskrypt.com/contactOn this episode: My recent dungeon vacation and a listener question from Jr. Producer, Buffalodom84 about hygiene, then you and I are going to have a chat about self-care with a bonus topic of attitude and a quote that could change your life.The Woodshed, Orlando, FL, U.S.A., and Master Cecil.http://thewoodshedorlando.com/Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungHygiene:Jr. Producer Buffalodom84 wrote: “I just listened to your newest episode and had an idea for a new episode. Could you do an episode on hygiene?”What is hygiene?:Conditions and Practices that are to promote health including cleanliness, skin care, and the prevention of infections.Cleanliness Personal cleanlinessCleanliness of environmentCleanliness of FoodCleanliness of Food PreparationNicotine slows healing because it causes blood vessels to constrict, which decreases the amount of blood, oxygen, and nutrients to get to tissues which increases the chance of the breakdown of skin.Blood Clots-Signs and symptoms:RednessSwellingHeatPain sensation in the area of the clot.Usually happens in one extremityDo not do exercises- Go directly to Emergency Room!STI’s and Infections U.T.I.'s:Urinary Tract Infections: Pathogens in the urethra, vagina, or perineal area enter the urinary tract.Bacteria move up the ureters to the kidneys.Causative organisms: Escherichia coli, Staphylococcus, Saprophyticus, Proteus, Klebsiella, Seratia, and PseudomonasSymptomsPainful urinationUrine has a foul odorCloudy urineFrequent urinationDon’t feel goodFlank PainFeverTreatment:1: Urinary specimen2: Antibiotic3: Finish antibioticHow poor hygiene can affect a person's life:1: Some people may find out that they are missing out on friends, job opportunities and partners because of something that no one had ever pointed out to them – their lack of better personal hygiene.2: Maybe in the past as a child, their personal habits were pointed out, but in a negative way. No one really took an interest in that person to tell them that they must groom themselves properly or at least try to.3: Some bad habits of people who have no concept of personal hygiene are apparent body odor, greasy skin, oily hair, bad breath, and clothing that is dirty or old. The sad part is most of these things can be remedied much quicker than a bad cold and yet, individuals walk around like this day after day and endure the misery bad hygiene often brings. The misery includes people who do not want to be near these people for the above reasons and the lost personal opportunities.Some ways people can start to improve is to take a realistic look at themselves in a full-length mirror. Even if it hurts to think about it, they should consider the advice of others, especially the people who are around every day.4: Individuals who are suffering from this should try to pinpoint what exactly can be improved, and ask themselves, “What would I really like to improve about myself that is available to me right now?”Show Support:1a: Executive Producers Jeremiah, Sihlus, Jess, and ArcaneDgr & violetaurelia. 1b: Sr. Producers Matt and xEmeraldxWolfx. 1c: Producers Kainsin, Heather, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay and RoxieBear. 1d: Jr. Producers K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Painwaits, and Master Ferguson & LxSoumis. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.2: BDSM contracts for the donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.3: http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. Self-care:“Self-care 101” By Maria Baratta Ph.D., L.C.S.W.https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/skinny-revisited/201805/self-care-101What is self-care? Self-care, in essence, is the mindful taking time to pay attention to you, not in a narcissistic way, but in a way that ensures that you are being cared for by you. Ten ways to exercise self-care and take better care of you:1: Self-care means knowing who you are and your limits. Self-care means recognizing when you are doing more than you are used to handling and trying to figure out what can be done to slow down.2: Self-care means getting the sleep you need and knowing how to rest. Are you getting enough sleep for you? Do you know how much sleep you require every day and are you sleeping at least that much? Making a serious effort to make that happen as well as knowing how to rest your body and your mind are essential. 3: Self-care means making sure that you're well fed. Do you eat well—does what you eat provide the energy you need to function? Do you take time to eat meals at work and do you take time to have snacks when your body requires intermittent food during the workday? Self-care means integrating favorite healthy foods into your everyday eating routines and planning ahead to make sure you have adequate nutritious foods throughout your day.4: Self-care means finding a way to decompress throughout your day, not just when you leave work. What is it you do to rest your mind during and after a workday? What helps you tune out the noise? Most people tell me they don’t have the luxury of taking breaks during their workday but trying to integrate mini-breaks throughout the day helps refresh your mind and body. For example, try stretching or taking a brief walk even if it's only a few feet away, getting yourself a drink of water, talking to a friend, getting in touch with a loved one even if it's just a text, or purposely looking at photos that have special meaning. The brain needs those pauses. 5: Self-care means giving some thought to changing a difficult work situation. We know best what we need and what we can deal with. Is there anything that can be done to make your work somewhat less stressful? Think about whether changes can be made to your work environment. Are you okay with where you sit and do your work? Are you working unsustainable hours and is there some end in sight? It might be a matter of approaching a supervisor with things that you think may make your work more pleasant such as changing where you sit or changing whether you take an earlier lunch or later start time. Sometimes supervisors are not even aware of the reality of what the worker experiences in a workday. A frank conversation delineating the things that are most stressful might precipitate the process of improving your working conditions. People see the world through their own lenses and supervisors have their own problems and a sometimes a simple conversation can provide the insight they needed to rethink how things are done.6: Self-care means taking time to get to know you better. Self-care means learning to recognize your own temperament and trying to prepare for your personal limits. For example, do you have the trait of "high sensitivity? (Aron 1996) and if so, learning to recognize when you are experiencing sensory overload. "Highly Sensitives," "hsp's, " are particularly bothered and affected by over-stimulation and things like being hungry or tired or wearing uncomfortable shoes precipitate marked discomfort. Identifying your temperament and your triggers and planning accordingly might help lessen inevitable stress. That might be as simple as grabbing some almonds before a meeting that usually cuts into your lunch hour so you're not ridiculously hungry or rethinking fabulous but uncomfortable shoes. 7: Self-care means identifying what you enjoy doing and what's fun for you and make a serious effort to integrate it into your day or, at the very least, your week. Make it a habit to plan something to look forward to every day and that doesn't have to be complicated. It can be as simple as planning to read a good book at night or planning to have dinner with someone whose company you enjoy. 8: Self-care means knowing how to debrief from a day's work. That might mean walking home from work to clear your head, driving in silence or listening to music to help transition from work to home. 9: Self-care means feeding your spiritual self. That might take the form of meditating, praying, communing with nature by a walk in a park.10: And finally, self-care means taking time to love yourself and appreciating that there's only one you and you're the expert on that.What is self-care regarding BDSM?1: Knowing what you need for your own aftercare.2: Knowing how to recognize drop.3: Communicating needs.4: Admitting your personal limits.5: Recognizing when you can and can’t negotiate.“ATTITUDE” by Charles Swindoll"The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think, say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company... a church... a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we embrace for that day. We cannot change our past... we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play the one string we have, and that is our attitude... I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you... we are in charge of our Attitudes”Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com
Rec: November 4, 2018Pub: November 11, 2018 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or https://kudrinskrypt.com/contactOn this episode: My recent dungeon vacation and a listener question from Jr. Producer, Buffalodom84 about hygiene, then you and I are going to have a chat about self-care with a bonus topic of attitude and a quote that could change your life.The Woodshed, Orlando, FL, U.S.A., and Master Cecil.http://thewoodshedorlando.com/Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungHygiene:Jr. Producer Buffalodom84 wrote: “I just listened to your newest episode and had an idea for a new episode. Could you do an episode on hygiene?”What is hygiene?:Conditions and Practices that are to promote health including cleanliness, skin care, and the prevention of infections.Cleanliness Personal cleanlinessCleanliness of environmentCleanliness of FoodCleanliness of Food PreparationNicotine slows healing because it causes blood vessels to constrict, which decreases the amount of blood, oxygen, and nutrients to get to tissues which increases the chance of the breakdown of skin.Blood Clots-Signs and symptoms:RednessSwellingHeatPain sensation in the area of the clot.Usually happens in one extremityDo not do exercises- Go directly to Emergency Room!STI’s and Infections U.T.I.'s:Urinary Tract Infections: Pathogens in the urethra, vagina, or perineal area enter the urinary tract.Bacteria move up the ureters to the kidneys.Causative organisms: Escherichia coli, Staphylococcus, Saprophyticus, Proteus, Klebsiella, Seratia, and PseudomonasSymptomsPainful urinationUrine has a foul odorCloudy urineFrequent urinationDon’t feel goodFlank PainFeverTreatment:1: Urinary specimen2: Antibiotic3: Finish antibioticHow poor hygiene can affect a person's life:1: Some people may find out that they are missing out on friends, job opportunities and partners because of something that no one had ever pointed out to them – their lack of better personal hygiene.2: Maybe in the past as a child, their personal habits were pointed out, but in a negative way. No one really took an interest in that person to tell them that they must groom themselves properly or at least try to.3: Some bad habits of people who have no concept of personal hygiene are apparent body odor, greasy skin, oily hair, bad breath, and clothing that is dirty or old. The sad part is most of these things can be remedied much quicker than a bad cold and yet, individuals walk around like this day after day and endure the misery bad hygiene often brings. The misery includes people who do not want to be near these people for the above reasons and the lost personal opportunities.Some ways people can start to improve is to take a realistic look at themselves in a full-length mirror. Even if it hurts to think about it, they should consider the advice of others, especially the people who are around every day.4: Individuals who are suffering from this should try to pinpoint what exactly can be improved, and ask themselves, “What would I really like to improve about myself that is available to me right now?”Show Support:1a: Executive Producers Jeremiah, Sihlus, Jess, and ArcaneDgr & violetaurelia. 1b: Sr. Producers Matt and xEmeraldxWolfx. 1c: Producers Kainsin, Heather, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay and RoxieBear. 1d: Jr. Producers K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Painwaits, and Master Ferguson & LxSoumis. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.2: BDSM contracts for the donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.3: http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. Self-care:“Self-care 101” By Maria Baratta Ph.D., L.C.S.W.https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/skinny-revisited/201805/self-care-101What is self-care? Self-care, in essence, is the mindful taking time to pay attention to you, not in a narcissistic way, but in a way that ensures that you are being cared for by you. Ten ways to exercise self-care and take better care of you:1: Self-care means knowing who you are and your limits. Self-care means recognizing when you are doing more than you are used to handling and trying to figure out what can be done to slow down.2: Self-care means getting the sleep you need and knowing how to rest. Are you getting enough sleep for you? Do you know how much sleep you require every day and are you sleeping at least that much? Making a serious effort to make that happen as well as knowing how to rest your body and your mind are essential. 3: Self-care means making sure that you're well fed. Do you eat well—does what you eat provide the energy you need to function? Do you take time to eat meals at work and do you take time to have snacks when your body requires intermittent food during the workday? Self-care means integrating favorite healthy foods into your everyday eating routines and planning ahead to make sure you have adequate nutritious foods throughout your day.4: Self-care means finding a way to decompress throughout your day, not just when you leave work. What is it you do to rest your mind during and after a workday? What helps you tune out the noise? Most people tell me they don’t have the luxury of taking breaks during their workday but trying to integrate mini-breaks throughout the day helps refresh your mind and body. For example, try stretching or taking a brief walk even if it's only a few feet away, getting yourself a drink of water, talking to a friend, getting in touch with a loved one even if it's just a text, or purposely looking at photos that have special meaning. The brain needs those pauses. 5: Self-care means giving some thought to changing a difficult work situation. We know best what we need and what we can deal with. Is there anything that can be done to make your work somewhat less stressful? Think about whether changes can be made to your work environment. Are you okay with where you sit and do your work? Are you working unsustainable hours and is there some end in sight? It might be a matter of approaching a supervisor with things that you think may make your work more pleasant such as changing where you sit or changing whether you take an earlier lunch or later start time. Sometimes supervisors are not even aware of the reality of what the worker experiences in a workday. A frank conversation delineating the things that are most stressful might precipitate the process of improving your working conditions. People see the world through their own lenses and supervisors have their own problems and a sometimes a simple conversation can provide the insight they needed to rethink how things are done.6: Self-care means taking time to get to know you better. Self-care means learning to recognize your own temperament and trying to prepare for your personal limits. For example, do you have the trait of "high sensitivity? (Aron 1996) and if so, learning to recognize when you are experiencing sensory overload. "Highly Sensitives," "hsp's, " are particularly bothered and affected by over-stimulation and things like being hungry or tired or wearing uncomfortable shoes precipitate marked discomfort. Identifying your temperament and your triggers and planning accordingly might help lessen inevitable stress. That might be as simple as grabbing some almonds before a meeting that usually cuts into your lunch hour so you're not ridiculously hungry or rethinking fabulous but uncomfortable shoes. 7: Self-care means identifying what you enjoy doing and what's fun for you and make a serious effort to integrate it into your day or, at the very least, your week. Make it a habit to plan something to look forward to every day and that doesn't have to be complicated. It can be as simple as planning to read a good book at night or planning to have dinner with someone whose company you enjoy. 8: Self-care means knowing how to debrief from a day's work. That might mean walking home from work to clear your head, driving in silence or listening to music to help transition from work to home. 9: Self-care means feeding your spiritual self. That might take the form of meditating, praying, communing with nature by a walk in a park.10: And finally, self-care means taking time to love yourself and appreciating that there's only one you and you're the expert on that.What is self-care regarding BDSM?1: Knowing what you need for your own aftercare.2: Knowing how to recognize drop.3: Communicating needs.4: Admitting your personal limits.5: Recognizing when you can and can’t negotiate.“ATTITUDE” by Charles Swindoll"The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think, say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company... a church... a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we embrace for that day. We cannot change our past... we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play the one string we have, and that is our attitude... I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you... we are in charge of our Attitudes”Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com
Zouain is joined by Master Cecil of The Woodshed, a local kink dungeon. We cover the similarities between the world of kink and Christianity. We talk about dungeon etiquette, we briefly touch on Taken in Hand relationships, and much more. Don’t forget to subscribe on iTunes and Google play music!
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, Dan & dawn talk to Master Cecil, operator of the Woodshed dungeon!. You can also watch this interview as well via our YouTube channel Plus, our question of the day talks about some of the key factors for a new dom looking to make advancments in their domly skills. Plus, 90 seconds of news from the NCSF Plus! 3 people reading, YouTube love, vanilla friends, and Rizzo the Wonderdog! Tags? Oh yea we got tags. #podcast #dungeon #woodshed Don't miss an episode! Click here to subscribe via iTunes or here for any other method Part of the Erotic Awakening Podcast Network Click the banner above for other great shows spanning the realm of BDSM, Sacred Sexuality, Tantra, and simply fun kink!