Aella Speaks

To celebrate the final 100th episode of Aella's speaks. I share some words of wisdom

A line said by men who need to DO better

What are the signs he could be a misogynist?

By now most of us have the common sense not to ask a survivor of sexual assault "What were you wearing?" or "Were you drunk? But are you saying the wrong things & not realising it? On Episode 97, we dive deep into some wreckless statements people make that is damaging to a survivor of sexual assault. Please think before you speak.

Intuition is the voice of God. Are you listening?

As per a beloved listener's request

Episode 94 talks about grief & how to handle it

Do not let them get to you

It hurts. It hurts like hell.

Is it so bad being called the Black sheep?

As requested by a friend, this is an episode for the men on the kind of partner they shouldn't go for when it comes to marriage

Why should you come first? Well...the other choice is not so great It's time to choose you

Why embodying the black cat energy is some thing every woman should do 1) What is Black Cat Energy? 2) What isn't Black Cat Energy? 3) Why it makes sense to embody Black Cat Energy 4) How to embody Black Cat Energy?

Watch out for these traits of men you do not want to marry

Do you believe healthy love exists for you?

5 questions to ask yourself to discover your passion

Is the man your with really interested in being with you or do you have it the wrong way?

Signs your "friend" wants your man

People with a victim mentality are dangerous

BS women over 30s are still believing

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Ever had a friend that was too "boy crazy"? You can understand when you're teens but as adults, it's no longer cute but scary at times.

Do you trust your family or friends to set you up with someone for marriage?

My thoughts on the famous Sprinkle Sprinkle Lady's advice

Are you unknowingly chasing him?

Do you trust people too easily?

Almost broke down a few times in this episode. It hurts. I talk about Real men & Cursed creatures who pose as men I also talk about how men who care can help end femicide

Y'all will know who I'm talking about

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Are you chasing after that man without realising it?

What can men learn from women?

I think both men & women can learn something from each other

What is a deal breaker in a relationship to you? Have you ever considered these points?

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My thoughts on why I'm against dating apps

Have you ever been love bombed by a friend? Do you know the signs?

Do you keep your own promises to yourself?

Ever wondered why the girls you see as "unattractive" are so lucky to get that great guy? Why she naturally attracts all good things to her? For all your Life Coaching & Counselling needs, check out my instagram: @aellathecoach Email on: aellathecoach@gmail.com

Do men really love toxic women who treat them like s***?

In this episode, I teach you how to create a Love List to manifest your perfect partner

Signs you may not have noticed about your man who might still be in the closet

In this episode, I talk about the dangers of the hook up culture on a spiritual aspect & what women can do to avoid the "Loose booty" title.

The story of Shanquella Robinson & lessons we must learn about Envy

I know there are a lot of women who are going through the married man drama period in their lives so this episode is for them. If you find yourself in an entanglement with a married man. Please listen to this episode. Write to me if you want your email/letter read out. I'll keep it anonymous. Your privacy is important. Contact me on: aellaspeaks@gmail.com or Instagram: @aellathecoach @aellaspeaks

I talk about the mindset of older, bitter women & give advice on how to handle them

The subtle traits of a toxic man that you could miss

Just some advice for all the single mothers out there

You may think you are but I list out some beliefs & behaviour you may have that prove otherwise.

Are you operating more on your feminine or masculine energy? Find out the difference between the two & learn how to balance the energies.

Femininity channels can be great to learn some things from when it comes to your Level up journey. However, I've come to realise some channels talk about things a woman should or should not do that I personally don't agree with. To learn more on embracing your femininity, love & healing, please follow my friend's amazing page on Instagram : @kenyan_feminine_goddess

What is Girl Code? It is a set of unspoken rules that women follow to maintain strong friendships. In this episode, I look in depth of some of these rules & redefine what they should mean.