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Mombasa's Podcaster/Self-Love & Motivational Coach/ Aella Speaks a podcast about Empowering, Inspiring & Helping women Level up Got a question or a comment? Email to : aellaspeaks@gmail.com Support the podcast - MPESA number 0795859681

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    • Apr 21, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 10m AVG DURATION
    • 102 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from Aella Speaks

    Aella's words of wisdom

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2025 14:34


    To celebrate the final 100th episode of Aella's speaks. I share some words of wisdom

    "Women should just choose better"

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2025 12:12


    A line said by men who need to DO better

    Signs of a Misogynist

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2025 22:51


    What are the signs he could be a misogynist?

    Worst things to say to a survivor of sexual assault

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2025 16:00


    By now most of us have the common sense not to ask a survivor of sexual assault "What were you wearing?" or "Were you drunk? But are you saying the wrong things & not realising it? On Episode 97, we dive deep into some wreckless statements people make that is damaging to a survivor of sexual assault. Please think before you speak.

    Tap into your intuition

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2025 12:20


    Intuition is the voice of God. Are you listening?

    How to make a player fall in love

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2025 19:09


    As per a beloved listener's request

    Grief : When your whole world goes dark

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2025 14:18


    Episode 94 talks about grief & how to handle it

    The Mindset of a Hater: A message to all content creators

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2025 12:11


    Do not let them get to you

    When he leaves you for someone else

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2025 15:36


    It hurts. It hurts like hell.

    How being the Black Sheep makes you the G.O.A.T

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2025 14:15


    Is it so bad being called the Black sheep?

    For the fellas: Do not marry her if...

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2025 13:04


    As requested by a friend, this is an episode for the men on the kind of partner they shouldn't go for when it comes to marriage

    I come first

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2024 18:27


    Why should you come first? Well...the other choice is not so great It's time to choose you

    Embody Black Cat Energy

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2024 19:58


    Why embodying the black cat energy is some thing every woman should do 1) What is Black Cat Energy? 2) What isn't Black Cat Energy? 3) Why it makes sense to embody Black Cat Energy 4) How to embody Black Cat Energy?

    Do not marry him if...

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2024 15:19


    Watch out for these traits of men you do not want to marry

    Healthy Love - Does it exist?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 10, 2024 26:09


    Do you believe healthy love exists for you?

    Discover your passion

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2024 14:45


    5 questions to ask yourself to discover your passion

    Is his interest in you Lukewarm or Flaming Hot?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2024 13:12


    Is the man your with really interested in being with you or do you have it the wrong way?

    Girl, she wants your man!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2024 9:18


    Signs your "friend" wants your man

    Stay away from the "Woe is me" people

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 22, 2024 8:28


    People with a victim mentality are dangerous

    Stop believing these lies at your big age!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2024 10:24


    BS women over 30s are still believing

    Ladies, stop doing these things on social media

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2024 6:55


    Get in touch with me on my coaching on Instagram: @aellathecoach or email on: aellathecoach@gmail.com

    Male centered friends are Dangerous!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2024 9:07


    Ever had a friend that was too "boy crazy"? You can understand when you're teens but as adults, it's no longer cute but scary at times.

    Setting you up with the wrong person on purpose

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2024 9:11


    Do you trust your family or friends to set you up with someone for marriage?

    Shera's advice - The good, the bad & the ugly

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2024 10:02


    My thoughts on the famous Sprinkle Sprinkle Lady's advice

    Subtle ways he makes you chase

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2024 8:48


    Are you unknowingly chasing him?

    Make them EARN your trust

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2024 9:22


    Do you trust people too easily?

    End Femicide: How men can play a part

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2024 12:48


    Almost broke down a few times in this episode. It hurts. I talk about Real men & Cursed creatures who pose as men I also talk about how men who care can help end femicide

    Women who pander to men: The worst type of Pickmeisha

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2024 8:15


    Y'all will know who I'm talking about

    6 things we're changing to make 2024 our Year!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 1, 2024 9:52


    Follow me on Instagram: @aellathecoach Email on: aellaspeaks@gmail.com Contact me for my Life Coaching & Counselling packages!

    Subtle ways he makes you chase

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2023 9:52


    Are you chasing after that man without realising it?

    For the fellas: What men can learn from women

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2023 5:47


    What can men learn from women?

    What women can learn from men

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2023 6:29


    I think both men & women can learn something from each other

    Deal breakers every woman should have

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2023 11:40


    What is a deal breaker in a relationship to you? Have you ever considered these points?

    How to stand out from other women

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2023 14:26


    Contact me for the Embody Feminine Energy course details by following & messaging on Instagram: @aellathecoach

    Why Women don't benefit from Dating apps

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2023 10:08


    My thoughts on why I'm against dating apps

    Love bombing in Friendships

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 8, 2023 9:38


    Have you ever been love bombed by a friend? Do you know the signs?

    7 Promises every woman must keep to herself

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2023 16:33


    Do you keep your own promises to yourself?

    "But she's not even pretty!"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 13, 2023 10:27


    Ever wondered why the girls you see as "unattractive" are so lucky to get that great guy? Why she naturally attracts all good things to her? For all your Life Coaching & Counselling needs, check out my instagram: @aellathecoach Email on: aellathecoach@gmail.com

    Treat them mean, Keep them keen

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2023 8:53


    Do men really love toxic women who treat them like s***?

    The Love List

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2023 7:28


    In this episode, I teach you how to create a Love List to manifest your perfect partner

    Is your man gay? Is he on the down low?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2023 10:38


    Signs you may not have noticed about your man who might still be in the closet

    How to not be a "Loose Booty"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2023 11:37


    In this episode, I talk about the dangers of the hook up culture on a spiritual aspect & what women can do to avoid the "Loose booty" title.

    Shanquella Robinson: When Envy Kills

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2022 13:25


    The story of Shanquella Robinson & lessons we must learn about Envy

    Dear Aella: He's married but still wants me

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2022 10:00


    I know there are a lot of women who are going through the married man drama period in their lives so this episode is for them. If you find yourself in an entanglement with a married man. Please listen to this episode. Write to me if you want your email/letter read out. I'll keep it anonymous. Your privacy is important. Contact me on: aellaspeaks@gmail.com or Instagram: @aellathecoach @aellaspeaks

    When older, bitter women attack: How to handle them the Feminine way

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2022 12:23


    I talk about the mindset of older, bitter women & give advice on how to handle them

    He's not just Insecure. He's Toxic.

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2022 10:12


    The subtle traits of a toxic man that you could miss

    All the Single Mothers, listen up...

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2022 8:43


    Just some advice for all the single mothers out there

    You are NOT ready for a Masculine Man

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2022 9:32


    You may think you are but I list out some beliefs & behaviour you may have that prove otherwise.

    Balance your Feminine and Masculine Energies

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2022 9:08


    Are you operating more on your feminine or masculine energy? Find out the difference between the two & learn how to balance the energies.

    Where Femininity channels go wrong

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2022 9:02


    Femininity channels can be great to learn some things from when it comes to your Level up journey. However, I've come to realise some channels talk about things a woman should or should not do that I personally don't agree with. To learn more on embracing your femininity, love & healing, please follow my friend's amazing page on Instagram : @kenyan_feminine_goddess

    Girl Code : Time to redefine it!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2022 8:30


    What is Girl Code? It is a set of unspoken rules that women follow to maintain strong friendships. In this episode, I look in depth of some of these rules & redefine what they should mean.

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