Call for Convent Reform

For about three years I was a member of an ICKSP parish. Although I loved the Traditional Latin Mass, I started to see toxic behavior from the pastor and parishioners. One woman's testimony of being in the women's branch of ICKSP, the Sister Adorer's, would solidify what I was experiencing. Read Emily's Testimony Buy Me A CoffeeMy report on SSPX and other TLM CommunitiesCheck out my Wordpress!

In this podcast I mention three other communities I had interactions with while discerning. These communities include the Children of Mary, Dominican Sisters of Mary, Mother of the Eucharist, and the Carmelite Sisters of the Most Sacred Heart of Los Angeles. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

This week is National Vocation Awareness Week. How should the modern church teach and embrace vocations? What is the danger when lay people are taught that religious and priests are "like God?" Referred Links: 7 Saints Who Lived a Wonderful Single Life (Patron Saints for Single People) - Cool Catholics Do You Have a Vocation? | Catholic Answers Magazine The Better Part: The Religious or Priestly Vocation - Catholicism.org https://www.bishop-accountability.org/accounts/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

Are ghosts real? Maybe. Are nuns real? Well, I guess they are. What about ghost nuns? If purgatory is real...then probably. https://www.higgypop.com/news/ghostly-nuns/ https://www.spookyisles.com/ireland-religious-ghosts/ https://notebookofghosts.com/2018/04/25/ghost-nuns-who-will-have-you-praying/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

Let me know your thoughts on this story and if you had a similar experience in religious life. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

Ryan Anthony is an outspoken former member of the Alliance of the Two Hearts; a worldwide institute founded by Fr. 'Bing' Arellano. Ryan dealt with eleven years of spiritual, psychological, and physical abuse in the male branch of the order, The Oblate Apostles of the Two Hearts. Ryan is the creator of the Truth That Heals podcast, and he can be found on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and YouTube. Want to support my work? https://www.buymeacoffee.com/convent.reform --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

In December of 2023 I started creating a database of religious orders in the U.S. This was a major project that I am still refining. Here is what I learned from working on this project. You can check out the database here: https://wordpress.com/page/conventreform.wordpress.com/913 Support me by buying me a coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/convent.reform --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

www.iveinfo.org has been a website that has fascinated me for several years. It is the only website I know of started by a group of former religious of one community to expose the abuse in that community. ***Please be aware that there are topics of sexual abuse in this episode. Listener discretion advised. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

Catherine Coldstream came out in April with a book about her 12-year experience of living in a Carmelite order in England. In this episode I break down my own thoughts about her experiences. Buy Me a Coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/convent.reform --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

This is a hodge podge of an episode. In it I discuss my plans for more interviews with survivors, the AVREF in Europe, and having a Q&A episode. Buy me a coffee: https://buymeacoffee.com/convent.reform --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

My blog and podcast have focused a lot on the negatives of my time in the convent; and rightly so. However, there are a few things I have gained from the experience. Visit my blog: conventreform.wordpress.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

Nunsploitation films are a genre of film made popular in the 60's and 70's. One recent film of this genre shows how hideous these films can be. Join me as I ponder how much of these films, if any, are based on real life. We will also look at another film out in theatres about a real life nun, Mother Francis Cabrini. What is the difference between such a film as this and the films that exploit the evil that happens in some convents? https://www.vulture.com/2021/12/the-best-nunsploitation-films-ranked.html https://www.imdb.com/title/tt14351082/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

The BITE Method is a cult mind control model created by former Moon cult member Dr. Steven Hassan. In this episode we will look into the BITE Method, it's meaning, and whether religious orders check off any of the necessary boxes for being a cult. https://www.alittlebithuman.com/the-bite-model-of-cult-mind-control-explained/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

My continued experience dealing with religious order abuse and trauma. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

What my Christmases were like in the convent.....spoiler alert, they weren't very merry. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

My experience of healing while being on retreat. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

My first thoughts on this book I have been waiting over three years to get my hands on! Here is the link to the book on Sophia Press: https://sophiainstitute.com/product/abuses-in-the-religious-life-and-the-path-to-healing/ Here is the article I had translated into English: https://www.religiondigital.org/mundo/Dom-Dysmas-Gran-Cartuja-Isere-Iglesia-abusos-religion_0_2208379159.html --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

In this episode Christina shares her story of abuse in religious life in two former communities. We also discuss what signs to look for when discerning communities and what changes should be implemented in religious life. Would you like to share your story? Please contact me at conventreform@protonmail.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

Drugs, sex, and suing a bishop are the latest happenings at a Carmelite Monastery in Arlington, TX. Here are links to the websites mentioned and quoted in the podcast: https://www.wfaa.com/article/news/local/inside-sources-arlington-texas-monastery-perspective-dispute-between-nuns-fort-worth-bishop/287-ee450fba-d85b-47c7-b42c-eec738b522e8 https://www.churchmilitant.com/news/article/court-police-dismiss-cases-against-texas-bishop https://www.churchmilitant.com/news/article/carmelite-nun-admits-on-tape-affair-with-trad-priest http://www.carmelnuns.com/index.html --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

In this episode I share a letter I kept from my days in the convent with responses from my former superior. Religious order abuse can be hard to nail down; but this letter is one way I can show the mistreatment that goes on in convents. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

Disclaimer: please note sexual abuse is mentioned in this episode. Now 20 years old, the groundbreaking book "Goodbye, Good Men" gives accounts of various men who were abused in seminary. Let's look at how these cases relate and differ to those of religious order abuse. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

Christ shows us that even in great darkness we can hope. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

The school I worked at while in the convent was almost as bad as the convent itself. Then they tried to ruin my professional life AFTER the convent. I have shared parts of this story in the past; but now I am ready to tell the full story. You can see the original letters mentioned in this podcast by visiting this blog post: https://conventreform.wordpress.com/2020/10/28/passive-aggressive/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

Church Militant Evening News on Rupnik (2/17/23): https://www.churchmilitant.com/video/episode/even-2023-02-17 Church Militant Article on Rupnik (1/9/23): https://www.churchmilitant.com/news/article/third-sister-unveils-jesuit-abusers-perversity Link to the Oregon Catholic Press Music Series with Rupnik's art on cover: https://www.ocp.org/en-us/todays-missal-music-issue-2023 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

Mary Tardiff was in a contemplative community and experienced abuse in religious life under the guise of "holy obedience." In this episode we talk about what limits should be placed on obedience; and what can happen when people are taught to have blind obedience. https://www.simchafisher.com/2023/02/15/holy-obedience-what-are-the-limits/ Affidavit of James Janssen victim: jnw-ex-36-R.pdf (bishop-accountability.org) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

Here is the Church Militant article: Ex-Board Member of Priests for Life Demands Investigation Into Pavone (churchmilitant.com) Here is the link to the Pillar Catholic article: Pavone was accused of 'sexual misconduct' before laicization (pillarcatholic.com) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

On February 9th, 2019 I was kicked out of the convent. Here is my story of living with the aftermath of that event. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

Memories of dealing with severe migraines while in the order...and the lack of help I received. Please note there is a section at the end of this podcast meant for ***women only*** The disclaimer is in the audio near the end of the podcast. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

Vocational talks in the church often equate to A+B=C, that is you have a vocation (A), plus you are open to that vocation (B), then you are fulfilled with that vocation (C). Those of you who have followed me, or have experienced religious order abuse yourself, will know that the A+B=C sales pitch is too often a lie. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/conventreform/support

I am creating a database of all religious orders in the U.S. in the hope it will be a way to bring more accountability to those religious orders guilty of religious order abuse. If you have experienced religious order abuse and would be willing to share your testimony, then please contact me at conventreform@protonmail.com. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/conventreform/support

What is the difference between the scandal we see at times in the institutional church and the beautiful bride of Christ? Come join me on a discussion that takes us on a trip to the Pontifical College Josephinum. http://www.heyerarchitect.com/selected-works/st-turibius-chapel Contact me: conventreform@protonmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/conventreform/support

In this podcast I delve into the background of my conversion to the Catholic faith and my continual search for truth. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/conventreform/support

Continuing the commentary and analysis of the dossier written by Augustine I. regarding the abuse he endured at the "Mystic Monk" monastery. Please consider answering the poll question which is open until August 31st, 2022. Link to the Spotlight Episode: https://www.churchmilitant.com/pdf/Dossier_of_New_Mount_Carmel_Monastery.pdf Link to the Dossier: https://www.churchmilitant.com/pdf/Dossier_of_New_Mount_Carmel_Monastery.pdf --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/conventreform/support

In this episode we are looking at the documented case of Augustine Inferrera and his dossier against the "Carmelite Monks" of Wyoming. Link to the Spotlight Episode: https://www.churchmilitant.com/pdf/Dossier_of_New_Mount_Carmel_Monastery.pdf Link to the Dossier: https://www.churchmilitant.com/pdf/Dossier_of_New_Mount_Carmel_Monastery.pdf --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/conventreform/support

This is a continuation of Rethinking Vow of Obedience (Part 1). View the Crux article here: https://conventreform.wordpress.com/2022/03/17/crux-article-rethinking-vow-of-obedience/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/conventreform/support

Join me in a discussion about rethinking obedience based off an article posted in Crux Magazine. Crux Article: Rethinking Vow of Obedience – Call For Convent Reform (wordpress.com) --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/conventreform/support

Delve in with me as I discuss why it is important to talk about abuse in religious life instead of pretending there isn't a problem. Here is where you can find Ryan Tony: The Truth that Heals | Podcast on Spotify --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/conventreform/support

Many who leave the convent are unable to make simple decisions. Join me in a discussion on free will and how no adult should be denied it. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/conventreform/support

In this episode we talk about how superiors in religious orders often become the very people they despise. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/conventreform/support

A continuation of a discussion on the state of the Catholic Church. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/conventreform/support

What is going on in the Catholic Church and how does it connect with convents? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/conventreform/support

Going back to school and teaching school = life is hectic! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/conventreform/support

The Turning: The Sisters Who Left is a podcast that looks into the Missionary of Charity and the abuses that happened there. Here is my take on what I have listened to so far. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/conventreform/support

Continuing our discussion on how religious communities can control almost every aspect of a Sister's life. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/conventreform/support

Come join me on a discussion on where some of the worst psychological and emotional abuse derives from in religious life: micro-management. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/conventreform/support

Canceling the truth about abuse in religious life is not going to make the problem go away. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/conventreform/support

Many ideas regarding the habit are too black and white and often miss the mark. Sisters in habit are not necessarily "good" while Sisters out of habit are not particularly "bad." --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/conventreform/support

Listen as we discuss ways to report abuse to authorities. We will also look into why reporting can be helpful to us and others. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/conventreform/support

Why did Call for Convent Reform begin? Listen in as we discuss the backstory and need for this mission. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/conventreform/support

Listen in as we wrap up our discussion on what life in the convent is like. We will also explore the ways in which Scripture encourages Christian communities to operate. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/conventreform/support

Learn about the general aspects of Catholic religious life as well as some personal stories from my own experience. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/conventreform/support