Dating, Jaded, and Inebriated

Welcome to the SEASON 3 FINALE!!!! Find out the raw, unfiltered, honest reason why this podcast really started and why it may be coming to an end or at least changing to better fit the stage Alexa and Dani are in their lives. Alexa's updates are ya know…kinda crazy. But also relatable…especially if you watch romcoms like us. Look she's ballsy and takes action so she won't regret things left unsaid later…it's admirable really (hopefully). She's now dating the city and you can listen to find out why. (It's totally healthy…)We dig into relationships on screen between Ross & Rachel (Friends), Noah & Allie (The Notebook), Big & Carrie (SATC)…how they've influenced us in negative ways bc they're toxic relationship portrayals!! *sigh* we really wish they weren't. Also *spoiler alert* we got TSwift tickets!!!!! AHHHHHHHHH!Booze Review:Wine (Yeah we got drunky this time, you're welcome): Rosa Obscura 2019 red blend 14.7% alcoholAlexa:9.5/15 Dani: 9.5/15 (a little too sweet for us, but it has da juice)Want another season? Do you like listening to us trying to survive and be humans? Let us know! DM us on instagram @datingjadedandinebriated It'll be a little different, but possibly better. More free and risky with life? Who knows. We also might start a sandwich review show lol. XOXO,A&D

Do you often find yourself in drama? Well maybe it's in part because of your 4F type survival mechanism - they help us react to "life-threatening" situations. A little Tea is spilled. We recall Becky's splits at a random strangers house. xoxo,A&D

Hiya, Thanks for joining us for this episode! Miro, yes that's right, the infamous Miro joins Emma and myself in this episode to discuss how men vs women have changed over the years and their current states, pitfalls, fralities, and strengths in today's society. We touch on how to become a better/high quality man to keep up with the ever improving woman who's now maybe light years ahead of most available men. Drink review: a nice Parisian black tea yummmmmmmXOXO,A&D&E

HELLOOOO ATTN DANI IS BACK!Thanks for tuning in...little do you know we could totally roll with the mobsters of NY. In this episode we talk about our crimes...but you should know that everything we say in this ep is a lie. We're liars. It's just true. Enjoy as you vicariously live through our delinquency.Booze review: Dani's October Fest homemade brew!                                   A: 1/15 D: 7/15XOXO,A&D

Happy Valentine's Day to the hopeless romantics out there...In this episode we talk about breakups (it's in the air) with Emma. Also Alexa has newsworthy updates.Follow us on insta, rate, subscribe, and share!XOXO,A&D&E

Hey! Welcome to Part II of the divorce episode. We focus more on historic figures and their sloppiness, it's a quick one and we're pretty drunk so.....enjoy!#FUEinstein #MilevaIsAQueen XOXO,A&D&E

Elloooo Thank you for tuning into this fairly raw episode of DJ&I. Emma our add on new co-host talks all things divorce related with Alexa both having first hand perspectives from childhood. We got too drunk and talked for 2 hours so this is a part 1 (with hyper sensitive parts possibly removed?), tune in next week for part 2 focused on messy divorces of history and their outcomes. Wine review : Alexa 12/15 Emma 13/15 (Listen to find out the french name). Did the job.Like, Subscribe, Share, Follow us on instaaaaaaXOXO,A&D&E

In this episode of Alexa once again being stuck in Binghamton...you get to meet 2/3 of her sisters Taylor and Sarah while they get toasty on Raspberry infused champagne. Alexa asks questions she for some reason only feels comfortable asking her sisters over a public forum ***please ignore the bad sound quality, mics were frozen in the car lol, oh winter***Share, Rate, Subscribe, follow on Insta...Stay tuned for merch...XOXO,A&D

In this episode we take a dive into Fuckbois of history with our pal Emma an ENFP Pagan Witch we love. She's a history buff and could go on and on about these dead men; is a part 2 in the near future? Maybe!What is it about a person with a shitty tattoo and a sexy physique who pretends not to like you in public that can be so alluring? Unfortunately, your love of fuckboys probably stems back to some deep psychological shit that all started when you first started watching non-animated tv or something connected to the lack of attention your dad gave you lol. Fuckboys were, and still are, all over TV, setting the lowest possible standards for romantic relationships. You fell in love with these dudes, who not only were shitty boyfriends, but also set unrealistic expectations for what a boyfriend should look like.  Booze review: 2 wines, listen to find out which ones: we loved themFollow us on insta, rate, subscribe, and share!XOXO,A&D

Happy New Year!!! This week we give some juicy and unbelievable updates...broken toes, Dani running the stage and taking over a drumkit...Alexa in love??? We debrief 2022 lessons learned and kick our asses into 2023 with our intentions and goals. 2023 is gonna be our best year yet...fingers crossed**Booze review: Champagne Pommery Brut Royal Magnum    Alexa & Dani both highly recommendFollow us on insta (for the drumming video), like, subscribe, download, share! Thanks for tuning in (:XOXO Cheers to 2023,A&D

Our special guest and friend Becky joins us today to help discuss miscommunications in relationships. We also present our 2022 dating wrapped....can you guess how many first dates Alexa and Dani went on before watching the episode? Oy we were surprised.Miscommunication in relationships is more common than you might think, and commonly addressed in relationship coaching for couples. When there isn't an open and honest conversation around what you're feeling, expecting, or needing from your partner, miscommunication is bound to happen. Listen to find out how to prevent this! Booze Review: Becky's weed lolFollow on Insta to see a graphic of our dating wrapped, subscribe, like, share!XOXO,A&D

WELCOME TO SEASON 3!!!This season has so much in store...fun guests, LUD topics, and a committed Dani & Alexa? hmmmm IDK listen to find out.In this episode we're talking all things loveeee, are you in it? Have you had it? How do you know? We call on one of Alexa's idols, the one the only Oprah! Hahahah well an article written by Oprah...but still.Santa baby tell us is Damn Dani Damned? This NH gal is stoked to start ***ayyyy***We also talk Xmas gifts for SOs and a little monthly life update...oh also Alexa's therapist quit on her so there's that lolBooze Review:  Après So Was Red Raspberry Rhubarb Hard Seltzer- 5% ABV       Alexa: 14/15  (I may not be in love w/ someone but i'm def in love w/this lol)       Dani: 13/15Follow us on Insta, Rate, Subscribe, Download, and Share...we mostly market by word of mouth so it helps a lot!!

In this season 2 FINALE episode, we're talking about FIRSTS!!! We become open books as we discuss all the things we've learned and things we didn't expect to happen to us after first kisses, dates, living on our own,...and losing our virginity...not together (ewe) Booze Review: BUSHTELLY-CABERNET SAUVIGNON 2020SOUTH EASTERN AUSTRALIAExcellent for sipping on its own or pairing with a meal, this wine is well-balanced with supple tannins and a smooth finish. Fruit-forward, with just a hint of spice & earth.  $24/750 mLAlexa:12/15Dani:9/15 (she doesn't know wine)

Our 20s are a crazy transitional time full of chaos, confusion, and rude awakenings...but...it's also filled with excitement, wonder, hope, happiness, and opportunity! Find out what we appreciate our 20s and why we're happy to be just where we are. Thanks for joining us for this special Thanksgiving edition of Dating, Jaded, and Inebriated! We hope you have a fantastical Thanksgiving with friends and family...and remember if you have a non-ideal family, you're not alone and you have a pillow to scream into later!(P.S. this was unintentionally a very raw episode, haha don't judge Alexa... be kind!)XOXO,A&D

Dani's hit & run, Roles stranded on a desert Island, the many hoops and tribulations a relationship must go though to stand the test of time...and our experiences along the way.... As always, we probably say too much, whoops.If you're in a new relationship like dani or a few years in and thinking about taking the plunge…or if you're like me and considering a relationship/happily single for now, go through our checklist to evaluate your potential lobster.Booze Review: Après Chile Nelson Hard Seltzer 5% ALC/VOL                                 Alexa: 11/15  Dani: 9/10Follow us on Insta, rate us, subscribe and download!XOXO,A&D

Helen Kellar a Hoax??? George Washington Smelly? Alexa did shrooms! Dani beat an innocent child up?! Dani's becoming a farmer to earn her keep at Alexa's animal sanctuary?!!!! Dani Stands too close to mic!?                                WILDlol but really... If you've ever had trouble breaking the ice with someone or getting to the meat of who someone is, try asking them these questions. Listen to this episode together with your special (or not so special) someone and answer together while listening to some of our stupid answers. BOOZE REVIEW: some good Buch, Kombucha that is... GT's  Synergy Living Foods Raw Kombucha, Mystic Mango     /// Alexa:15/15 Dani: 13/15  /// Psilocybin micro-dose recommendation: 5mgDownload, Rate, Subscribe, Follow on Insta!XOXO,A&D

Rejection is a bitter pill to swallow. It's a hard thing to accept that not everyone will  like you in life. We all get rejected by partners, jobs, auditions, and sports teams. Listen this week to get some tips on how to face rejection, let someone down easy, and become more resilient in the process.Booze review: LoverBoy Orange Chai hard tea  4.2% ABV.     Alexa: 5/15    Dani: 6/15Download, subscribe, share, and follow us on Insta!xoxo,A&D

Muahhahahahahah Happy Halloween!!!! Since this is Alexa's favorite holiday, we wanted to tell some spooky (ridiculous) stories and highlight costumes of Halloweens past. Stay safe, don't take candy from unmarked vans, and try not to pee in public while intoxicated!XOXO,A&DNew art credit:::: @curatedcovers on Insta

Ever considered taking it a step further with a friend? Maybe you're lonely, bored, or just want to try something new for fun...we've all been there...some more than others. Learn from our experiences so that you have the best possible FWB situation you can. And remember COMMUNICATE!!!Drink: Rum Mulled Cider - Alexa: 13/15 , Dani: --lame--/15Download, Share, Rate, and follow us on Insta! (Dark triad personality quiz: https://openpsychometrics.org/tests/SD3/ )XOXO,A&D(**Note** This is replacing the original episode for this week (Young Motherhood) which was briefly taken down but will be reposted in about a month!)

Regardless of whether you're onboard with the idea that there's just one single person out there, among the almost 8 billion people on Earth, that you're destined to spend the rest of your life with, the fact remains that some people are just better suited to each other.  But how do we know this person who clicks with us is “the one”? Are you meant to be together long-term or are they more of a lusty convenience? In this episode we discuss just that!(Warning: a 2 year old hijacked this episode at times and caused many stop and starts so if it sounds choppy that's why lol)Guest: Maggie: Secure, ENTP, Married/in relationship for 6 yearsBooze Review: Minkey Boodle - Sour ale aged on raspberries - 7% Alc/VolAlexa: 13/15, Guest: 13/15, Dani: AbsenteeeeeXOXO,A

Get ready for this heated bumpy ride of an episode where we discuss monogamy versus polyamory with a surprise guest you might remember us mentioning in previous episodes...Booze Review:(Wine) Judith Beck - BlaufränkischRatings: Alexa 14/15, Guest 15/15, Lame Dani --/--As always, thank you for listening! Please Rate, Share, Subscribe, and Follow us on Insta!XOXO,A&D

Thanks for joining us this week while we discuss the double standards that exist between men and women and how they've effected our lives personally.  Are there any double standards we missed? Remember they can go both ways!Alexa's wine rating: 13/15Dani's lame and doing sober October: --/--Wine details:  Judith Beck - Ink 2020:    12% ALC/VOL. Blend of 90% Zweigelt and 10% Saint Laurent and is fermented in stainless steel before being aged in wooden casks for 12 months The fruit-forward and spicy Zweigelt, with flavors of sour cherry, raspberry, cinnamon, violets and pepper, has soft tannins and is the most widely planted red grape in Austria. It can taste similar to a spicy Beaujolais, a racy Pinot Noir or an inky California ZinfandelPlease Rate, Share, and Subscribe! Follow us on Instagram!Find out your attachment style and personality type with these free quizes!https://www.16personalities.com/https://www.attachmentproject.com/attachment-style-quiz/XOXO,A&D

In this episode we talk about the crazy things we do for love and some chemistry behind why our brains turn to mush when we do fall. We consult our fun friend Becky anddddddd talk about how Alexa got stung in the ass by a hornet. What's the craziest thing you've done for love?? Tell us on Insta! Please Like, Share, and Subscribe!!BOOZE Review: Sam Adams Wicked Hazy 6.8% ALC/VOL   Alexa: 10/15 Dani: 13/15Thank you for listening!! ( : XOXO,A&D

Welcome to the wild rollercoaster that it season 2 of DJ&I!!! In this episode we talk about self-sabotage, not just in relationships but in life. Are you your own worst enemy? Listen and find out what we define as self-sabotaging behaviors and some steps you can take to remedy them and possibly start having healthier relationships.  Also, lol we had to change our intro music to something generic this episode but next week you'll hear an original song (: andddd we should have our video up and running then as well! .... Thank you for listening, if you like what you hear please Rate, Share, Subscribe, and Follow us on Insta!Cider Reviewed: Downeast Original Blend -  5.1% ABV. Alexa: 13/15 Dani: 15/15XOXO,A&D

Even with the editing...we may have said too much in this episode (cue nervous sweats) and definitely touched on some taboo topics. Join us this week while we discuss celibacy and dating with one of our celibate friends (AKA Bobbett)! This may be the most raunchy episode yet so be ready to skip a little...especially if you're Alexa's teenage niece lol. Seltzer reviewed: Arctic Chill Weekender Mix Hard Seltzer 5% ALC/VOLThank you for listening! Please Rate, Subscribe, Share, and Follow us on Instagram!XOXO,A&D

Hello! In this episode we discuss the requirements we think should be met before moving your situationship to relationship committed status. Moving slow AF is okay! We'll tell ya why...Advisory::::Alexa was super depressy this week so take that into account lolPlease Like, Share, Subscribe, and follow us on Instagram! Stickers are coming soon with our beautiful mugs ;DSeltzer reviewed:Kona Seltzer Variety Pack - 12pk-12oz cans 5.0% ABV - flavors: tropical punch, starfruit lime, strawberry guava, passionfruit orange guavaLiquor store: Teele Sq Liquors, Somerville MAThank you for listening!!!! xoxoA&D

Join us this week while we discuss how to end a situationship or relationship the RIGHT way! Situationships are confusing af let's navigate them together! We have Alex, one of Alexa's situationshipers, with us as our "sound producer" and guest. Stay tuned for the surprise Alexa has for everyone ;DPlease Rate, Share, and Subscribe! Follow us on Instagram!Find out your attachment style and personality type with these free quizes!https://www.16personalities.com/https://www.attachmentproject.com/attachment-style-quiz/XOXO,A&D

Listen to us talk about red flags and what gives us "the ick" when it comes to dating. We reviewed edibles this episode so please don't be completely repulsed by how high Alexa gets and how dumb she sounds lolAlsooooo for the next episode we're working with a producer so it should sound much better :D clearly we're not sound guys.Rate, share, subscribe, and follow us on Insta!(P.S. Alex - thanks for being a sweetheart and letting me talk about you on here haha)XOXO,A&D

We accidentally didn't have one of the mics on for the first recording of this so this is rerecorded a few nights later when we were both in weird moods (+maybe intoxicated) and decided to skip some stories and just cut to the chase this time (I'll tell the Johnny story next time). Haha next week will be more fun...we promise! If you want to know some basics people (and especially the men we date) should know by their early 20s...YES YOU HAVE TO WASH YOUR SHEETS > ONCE/YEAR!...Then sit back and relax to the sound of our annoying voices commin' at ya while you prep for work. Download, subscribe, share, and follow us on instagram @datingjadedandinebriatedSeltzer: Truly Margarita Style Mix Pack (4 flavors) 5.3% AlcAs always, thank you for listening!(:xoxoA&D

We're so happy you're tuning in! In this episode we discuss first dates and what we expect and look for from a perspective SO right off the bat. Listen to some of our great date stories and failed date horror stories...as well as a few fan write ins! As always...we get a little inebriated and speak in a raw manner so please don't take anything we say too seriously ;)We also welcome our first guest, our neighbor Connor, to get the male perspective! Our mic situation isn't the greatest so we might sound meh but hey we'll only get better from here, right? If you like what you hear please Rate, Subscribe, and Share anddddd follow us on Instagram [ Dating, Jaded, and Inebriated @badatloveeeee ]xoxoA&DInterested in taking the FREE attachment style quiz?Wanna find out your Myers-Briggs personality type?If you think you'd bring an interesting perspective to the show please message us and we'll talk about having you on as a guest! Or, if you have any topics you'd like to hear us discuss feel free to reach out!(P.S. Nicole, the shoutout you begged for is at the end lol)

After a few drunken tangents...we briefly discuss the different attachment styles effect our dating habits, how to differentiate personality types on an app without asking, and decide which dog breeds suit the different types of Boston men (in a fun, positive way!) We review Carlson Orchard's Honey Crisp hard cider (4.5% Alc), and learn how to pronounce a reallyyyyyyy difficult english/german word lolNext week's episode will be a lot more fun, but we had to discuss attachment theory a little as every guest we'll have on will state their attachment style and personality type for Alexa's amusement. Alexa will be making two shorter yet more technical videos on how attachment theory and personality science came to be (ie...Carl Jung, The Big 5, Myers-Briggs)Thank you for listening

This raw yet comedic episode is a little intro of our dating history and lives in Boston. We left so much unsaid so you better bet we'll be back next week with a sexy topic.  We also review Bud Light Seltzer Cocktail Hour Tropical Punch flavor...and introduce you to Dani's go-to drink...it may sound like it at times but I promise neither of us are alcoholics :D!We're so excited you're here to join us for the ride!(P.S. I promise I'll get better with editing and inserting fun music as our intro and outro lol)